Like who am I to judge a nice dude based on something he has no control over? But it really seems to be making me cautious.
Am I a bitch for being skeptical about dating a man that is 5'5?
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Posted by heliumfiascoDoes height correlate with narcissistic and perverse tendencies
Like who am I to judge a nice dude based on something he has no control over? But it really seems to be making me cautious.
Posted by aquarius_manIf your kaftan ain't pressed then don't you dare breathe the air with in my vicinity.Posted by heliumfiascoi posted about this somewhere in the libra forum - that libra women tend to judge people based on appearances/ looks; they seem to be superficial like that
Like who am I to judge a nice dude based on something he has no control over? But it really seems to be making me cautious.click to expand
Posted by WolfInRamsClothing4 foot 3
😢(( I know, this butter bothers me every time more than it should. How tall are you?
I guess "cautious" isn't the right word. More confused about whether I'm attracted or not. He's VERY handsome.
I'm aware this is superficial. I'm kind of irritated that it even bothers me.
I'm aware this is superficial. I'm kind of irritated that it even bothers me.
I'm 5'3
Posted by aquarius_manI feel as though what's implicit in this is that you believe me to be Palestinian or racially appropriating PalestiniansPosted by SmeWmantoujours gang et à la mode comme le foulard d'arafat
If your kaftan ain't pressed then don't you dare breathe the air with in my vicinity.
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Posted by aquarius_manI don't speak French. You're ruining dxp for me. Nd you're also incredibly narcissistic, pretentious and fairly slow yourself. Bye bye.Posted by SmeWmanoh no, its just you dont understand french and the reference. its a bar from a rap tune, a reply to your kaftan joke. but you are kinda slow, i would say. please don t bother me any more. merciiiiii
I feel as though what's implicit in this is that you believe me to be Palestinian or racially appropriating Palestinians
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Posted by aquarius_manFuck off because I haven't sent anything in days to you. In fact let me finally block you and put my picture up without the constant paranoia that some perverse obsessive lunatic is going to screenshot them.Posted by SmeWmanjog on and stop sending me annoying msg's about your lost love, thx
I don't speak French. You're ruining dxp for me. Nd you're also incredibly narcissistic, pretentious and fairly slow yourself. Bye bye.
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Posted by aquarius_manAbsolutely be my guest. Do it.Posted by SmeWmanPosted by aquarius_manFuck off because I haven't sent anything in days to you. In fact let me finally block you and put my picture up without the constant paranoia that some perverse obsessive lunatic is going to screenshot them.Posted by SmeWmanjog on and stop sending me annoying msg's about your lost love, thx
I don't speak French. You're ruining dxp for me. Nd you're also incredibly narcissistic, pretentious and fairly slow yourself. Bye bye.
i will post your msg's
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Posted by SmeWmanInfact do it now you pretentious turd with excessive delusions of grandeur so I can sit here and like them all before I block your negativityPosted by aquarius_manAbsolutely be my guest. Do it.Posted by SmeWmanPosted by aquarius_manFuck off because I haven't sent anything in days to you. In fact let me finally block you and put my picture up without the constant paranoia that some perverse obsessive lunatic is going to screenshot them.Posted by SmeWmanjog on and stop sending me annoying msg's about your lost love, thx
I don't speak French. You're ruining dxp for me. Nd you're also incredibly narcissistic, pretentious and fairly slow yourself. Bye bye.
i will post your msg's
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Posted by aquarius_manGood I'm waiting with my chanclas in my hands. Hurry up tick tock tick tockPosted by SmeWmani will, don t worry. im looking for them as we speakPosted by aquarius_manAbsolutely be my guest. Do it.Posted by SmeWmanPosted by aquarius_manFuck off because I haven't sent anything in days to you. In fact let me finally block you and put my picture up without the constant paranoia that some perverse obsessive lunatic is going to screenshot them.Posted by SmeWmanjog on and stop sending me annoying msg's about your lost love, thx
I don't speak French. You're ruining dxp for me. Nd you're also incredibly narcissistic, pretentious and fairly slow yourself. Bye bye.
i will post your msg's
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Posted by aquarius_manWhat a lying little fucking cunt. Post the actual screenshots you fake fucking obsessive lunatic. Infact let me post the screenshots myself you dumb fuckPosted by SmeWman
Good I'm waiting with my chanclas in my hands. Hurry up tick tock tick tock
So then?
from LibWman sent on 2017-11-09 23:15:50
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Posted by aquarius_manWhat is going on here?!Posted by SmeWman
Good I'm waiting with my chanclas in my hands. Hurry up tick tock tick tock
So then?
from LibWman sent on 2017-11-09 23:15:50
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Posted by aquarius_manYou're a gentlemen therefore you falsify a message to make me look like some sort of dirty whore. You're a fucking disease. A cancer that needs to be cut out once and for all. Don't fucking quote me again you psycho.Posted by SmeWmanits exactly what i was expecting you to do 😄
What a lying little fucking cunt. Post the actual screenshots you fake fucking obsessive lunatic. Infact let me post the screenshots myself you dumb fuck
coz i am a gentleman and wont stoop to that level but i knew that if i treated you right you will post the rest, cuz you are predictable like that. and slow, don't forget about that 🙂click to expand
Posted by RooSagicornDoes he have a complex now such as 'short man syndrome'
My bf is 5’4 and so am I. Shortest guy I’ve ever gone out with. Lol. Big personality, cutie, badass and sweetheart. I hesitated on the height for like a second. I usually go out with guys at least 5’10 or more. Ummm well I wasn’t passing this one up! Honestly, it was weird at first but I got used to it. No big deal.
Posted by heliumfiascowait, you are 5'3 and he is 5'5 - not sure I see the problem ?
I'm 5'3
wear flats - they are better for you anyway ?
Posted by ItsMeRoman#whatshesaidPosted by heliumfiascoI don't think it's odd to prefer someone taller. You're height is beta female height (metoo) so it's probably a genetic preference to want to choose someone taller, so you can have tall sons and not have midget children etc.
I'm 5'3
I don't know I'm making shit up but people all over have preference. It's up to you. Anyone trying to shade you over this is a fake ass. Everyone has preferences that are superficial and aesthetic.
Ima let you in on a secret thou. Short guys = know how to f u k 😐 ✋️ I swear to god I was surprised. It's not just me that thinks this yo. There's others here lol. That little man insecurity sure does go a long way in the bedroom.click to expand
Posted by ItsMeRomanI'm loving you more and morePosted by aquarius_manLol you're such a manipulative cow. You can't threaten people on here that you're going to release their pm's and screenshots to threaten them and then retract and say you never would because you're a gentleman.....forcing this person to defend themselves against accusations.Posted by SmeWmanits exactly what i was expecting you to do 😄
What a lying little fucking cunt. Post the actual screenshots you fake fucking obsessive lunatic. Infact let me post the screenshots myself you dumb fuck
coz i am a gentleman and wont stoop to that level but i knew that if i treated you right you will post the rest, cuz you are predictable like that. and slow, don't forget about that 🙂
There's no way you're not a woman. Only women do shit like that. So creepy.
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Posted by KoniuchaaMi amor
I usually attract men on the short side. I’m 5’3, so as long as they are taller than me, I don’t mind
The one tall guy (6’) was actually a complete tool
I don't think its superficial at all. These kind of mating preferences are there for a reason. Height actually seems to be a fairly important factor in life, correlating with income and confidence levels:
http://www.apa.org/monitor/julaug04/standing.aspx
Its odd but I have an issue with height when it comes to women as well. I am physically very attracted to short women, but I have a fear around having children with them, lol. I just don't want to have a short kid, especially a boy, being aware of the disadvantages there.
http://www.apa.org/monitor/julaug04/standing.aspx
Its odd but I have an issue with height when it comes to women as well. I am physically very attracted to short women, but I have a fear around having children with them, lol. I just don't want to have a short kid, especially a boy, being aware of the disadvantages there.
Libras are just really aware of irregularities, I remember pointing out a hot guy to my Libran friend and she was like “his hands and feet are way too small” and I was like wtf?!? How the hell does anyone notice something like that off the bat? But upon further inspection it was very true
Posted by LooksmaxCampalphas comes in all sizesPosted by tctaoYou like Manlet rage too?Posted by ItsMeRoman#whatshesaidPosted by heliumfiascoI don't think it's odd to prefer someone taller. You're height is beta female height (metoo) so it's probably a genetic preference to want to choose someone taller, so you can have tall sons and not have midget children etc.
I'm 5'3
I don't know I'm making shit up but people all over have preference. It's up to you. Anyone trying to shade you over this is a fake ass. Everyone has preferences that are superficial and aesthetic.
Ima let you in on a secret thou. Short guys = know how to f u k 😐 ✋️ I swear to god I was surprised. It's not just me that thinks this yo. There's others here lol. That little man insecurity sure does go a long way in the bedroom.click to expand
Posted by heliumfiascoSo! He is actually taller than you!!!
I'm 5'3
What's the issue? It's not like he is breathing into your naval!
I find taller men asexual...my height men are the best!!! Even bit shorter - no problem.
However if it is bothering you - let him go and don't hurt his feelings.
And no, I don't think it makes anyone a bitch! We like what we like.
Will anyone call me a bitch because I am not fan of tall men—
Go ahead! So I am a bitch...right? Who cares? 😂
Posted by nanoThat is so frigging true!!! LMAO!!Posted by ItsMeRomanThe 2 shortest guys I’ve seen had the biggest dicks 😂😂😂😂Posted by nanoLol ikr?! It's like the lord said "bruh ima mess up on yo body vertically but ima slide in some horizontal blessings if ya feel meh?!"
From my experience, shorter guys have bigger dicks too. Js
Coincidentally, I dated a man who was 6’5 and he literally had a 4 inch dick erect.
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Posted by LooksmaxCampI was the rollercoasterPosted by tctaoI bet they bang hard and thrust harder for every time they were not allowed to ride rollercoastersPosted by LooksmaxCampalphas comes in all sizesPosted by tctaoYou like Manlet rage too?Posted by ItsMeRoman#whatshesaidPosted by heliumfiascoI don't think it's odd to prefer someone taller. You're height is beta female height (metoo) so it's probably a genetic preference to want to choose someone taller, so you can have tall sons and not have midget children etc.
I'm 5'3
I don't know I'm making shit up but people all over have preference. It's up to you. Anyone trying to shade you over this is a fake ass. Everyone has preferences that are superficial and aesthetic.
Ima let you in on a secret thou. Short guys = know how to f u k 😐 ✋️ I swear to god I was surprised. It's not just me that thinks this yo. There's others here lol. That little man insecurity sure does go a long way in the bedroom.click to expand
Posted by CrimsonGirlI'm just being an asshole is all.
What are you skeptical about? Do you think he might actually be a Christmas elf?
We've only hung-out once and I've been like "Hmm can I date a man that is tiny like that?". But honestly he was so much fun, he's a Leo. Very sweet and personable.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeehahahaha. I always love you.Posted by heliumfiascoAtleast he doesn't have to kneel. His mouth will be right on your crotch looooooool
I guess "cautious" isn't the right word. More confused about whether I'm attracted or not. He's VERY handsome.
I'm aware this is superficial. I'm kind of irritated that it even bothers me.click to expand
Posted by aquarius_manPosted by heliumfiascoi posted about this somewhere in the libra forum - that libra women tend to judge people based on appearances/ looks; they seem to be superficial like that
Like who am I to judge a nice dude based on something he has no control over? But it really seems to be making me cautious.click to expand
Stfu. Your the first one here to have an opinion on a woman's looks. Your as superficial as they come.
Posted by tctaoNo wear the tallest heels you own. If he doesn't flinch with you towering over him he may just be a keeper. Confidence is sexy af.Posted by heliumfiascowait, you are 5'3 and he is 5'5 - not sure I see the problem ?
I'm 5'3
wear flats - they are better for you anyway ?click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneHe is very confident. Leo man.Posted by tctaoNo wear the tallest heels you own. If he doesn't flinch with you towering over him he may just be a keeper. Confidence is sexy af.Posted by heliumfiascowait, you are 5'3 and he is 5'5 - not sure I see the problem ?
I'm 5'3
wear flats - they are better for you anyway ?click to expand
Posted by heliumfiascoSo hang out a few more times and then decide. If the chemistry is 🔥 then it's gonna be a non issue. If the chemistry/connection isn't there then don't settle. Whether he's 5'5" or 6'5".Posted by CrimsonGirlI'm just being an asshole is all.
What are you skeptical about? Do you think he might actually be a Christmas elf?
We've only hung-out once and I've been like "Hmm can I date a man that is tiny like that?". But honestly he was so much fun, he's a Leo. Very sweet and personable.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeNapoleon complexPosted by heliumfiascoIs he a doctor. Short men are very successful
Like who am I to judge a nice dude based on something he has no control over? But it really seems to be making me cautious.click to expand
JFC people - we're not talking "little people" here (to be politically correct)
- she said he was 5'5 and she was 5'3 - and how does that make him shorter than her ?
ya'll can't even do simple math FFS
drama drama drama lol
- she said he was 5'5 and she was 5'3 - and how does that make him shorter than her ?
ya'll can't even do simple math FFS
drama drama drama lol
Posted by heliumfiascohell no you shouldn't but it's not about judging rather than preferences and attraction.
Like who am I to judge a nice dude based on something he has no control over? But it really seems to be making me cautious.
lol i don't know how you would judge someone on their appearance like I resent you for being 5'5 and not doing anything about it?
Posted by heliumfiasco
I'm 5'3
you're pocket sized
he's pocket sized
it's a great match.
as along as he doesn't secretly have a napoleon complex
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee😂😂😂😂😂Posted by heliumfiascoAtleast he doesn't have to kneel. His mouth will be right on your crotch looooooool
I guess "cautious" isn't the right word. More confused about whether I'm attracted or not. He's VERY handsome.
I'm aware this is superficial. I'm kind of irritated that it even bothers me.click to expand
Posted by 2MoonIt just makes me chuckle that the same dudes who are superficial-shaming the op are the same ones who thirst after insta thots and talk about women as sexual commodities. We see you!!Posted by LadyNeptune+1Posted by aquarius_manPosted by heliumfiascoi posted about this somewhere in the libra forum - that libra women tend to judge people based on appearances/ looks; they seem to be superficial like that
Like who am I to judge a nice dude based on something he has no control over? But it really seems to be making me cautious.
Stfu. Your the first one here to have an opinion on a woman's looks. Your as superficial as they come.
This Aquarius man is a retard.
Typical immature, retarded, douchebag, self centered, attention wh0ring aqua boyclick to expand
Um. I judge women by physical appearance but in collection with everything else. . I'm 5'9 and a half lol....would I date a hot woman taller than me ala Tom Cruise...no. I'd definitely have sex, but not date... because There is a correlation between protecting your mate and the apperance you present together as a couple. I have a nice frame but I'm a little on the short side. I don't need my girl resting her elbows on the top of my head.
Posted by heliumfiascoNo it's only smart to question wether or no you should date him if you clearly know from the get go that you are not into "short" guys. You don't judge I guess you just KNOW that he's too short for your liking. So if you know that your eyes will wander after time you can avoid all of that ish and get a guy who is tall enough for your personal liking.
Like who am I to judge a nice dude based on something he has no control over? But it really seems to be making me cautious.
I dated 2 "short/avarage" guys 5.4ft and 5.5ft - and my eyes were wandering after time since their size never really appealed to me. Doesn't have to do with their other qualitites (which were also just avarage but whatever)
My ex leo affaire was 6.1 ft just like my cap hubby and now THATS what gets me going! I love how tall my cap is uuuhhhh papi 😎
Posted by NevermoreOohh c'mon 😂😂😂😂Posted by AquaNextDoorWait.. so that means that even tall guys goes wandering since their gfs are tiny?? So they're uphigh to see better?? Same as female with their tiny bfs?!?Posted by heliumfiascoNo it's only smart to question wether or no you should date him if you clearly know from the get go that you are not into "short" guys. You don't judge I guess you just KNOW that he's too short for your liking. So if you know that your eyes will wander after time you can avoid all of that ish and get a guy who is tall enough for your personal liking.
Like who am I to judge a nice dude based on something he has no control over? But it really seems to be making me cautious.
I dated 2 "short/avarage" guys 5.4ft and 5.5ft - and my eyes were wandering after time since their size never really appealed to me. Doesn't have to do with their other qualitites (which were also just avarage but whatever)
My ex leo affaire was 6.1 ft just like my cap hubby and now THATS what gets me going! I love how tall my cap is uuuhhhh papi 😎
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Posted by heliumfiascoHeight is one of the things women can judge men that society does not frown upon.
Like who am I to judge a nice dude based on something he has no control over? But it really seems to be making me cautious.
How tall are you girls? 😎 I'm 5.1 ft
Posted by Ellygant
OP if it makes you feel better I stopped dating a guy with a small package. I tried for a few weeks. No go. He was also kind of an ass as well so that made it easy. But the first time I thought it wouldn’t work out was when I realized I couldn’t be with a man the rest of my life who I couldn’t tell if we were having hetereosexual sex or not. Like I said, everyone has superficial boundaries.
Not sure how relevant it is or isn’t but this dude was also 6’2’’ and had huge feet so you know, lol.
Just had this experience last week, like what but you're 6'2" and have thick wrists. False advertising lol. Still on the fence about seeing him again...
I only ever go for men 4ft5 or shorter.
They must also be able to fit in to my chanclas.
They must also be able to fit in to my chanclas.
Posted by EllygantPosted by Jules-llLol. I wonder if it feels the same for dudes who end up having sex with a hot woman and not liking it.Posted by Ellygant
OP if it makes you feel better I stopped dating a guy with a small package. I tried for a few weeks. No go. He was also kind of an ass as well so that made it easy. But the first time I thought it wouldn’t work out was when I realized I couldn’t be with a man the rest of my life who I couldn’t tell if we were having hetereosexual sex or not. Like I said, everyone has superficial boundaries.
Not sure how relevant it is or isn’t but this dude was also 6’2’’ and had huge feet so you know, lol.
Just had this experience last week, like what but you're 6'2" and have thick wrists. False advertising lol. Still on the fence about seeing him again...
In terms of dating, I was back and forth too for a few weeks. Luckily that guy became very hot/cold being clingy one second then angry and rude the next. So I was like ‘bad sexual chemistry and emotionally difficult, boy bye.’
He later got back together with his baby mama which I thought was nice. So there’s someone for everyone, regardless lol.click to expand
Sure it works both ways, for instance men waking up next to a woman that wears a lot of makeup and being scared shitless lol.
He's doing the hot/cold thing now too, scorp sun style . In every other way so far we were clicking...whatever. I'm a grown ass woman, don't have time for games.
Maybe I should try a shorter man.
The "I don't want short kids" argument doesn't work anymore these days. Boys and girls grow a lot taller than their parents, especially in Europe. There is so much artificial shit in food that they will grow anyway. Parents can be both 5'5 yet their sons will be like 5`11ft at least.
I also don't believe in the I want to feel protected argument either. It's because tall men probably look better but more importantly I believe that women are more easily influenced by society, friends and family than men are. A guy can look like shit if he is tall and he will still score. I am influenced by my biology in the first place, which means, I can find a 5ft nothing slim woman as hot as a 6ft tall curvy woman, it doesn't really matter and I don't care what other people will think of me. A woman however will probably be concerned what her friends think about her new boyfriend who is only 2 inches taller while standing at 5'7.
I also don't believe in the I want to feel protected argument either. It's because tall men probably look better but more importantly I believe that women are more easily influenced by society, friends and family than men are. A guy can look like shit if he is tall and he will still score. I am influenced by my biology in the first place, which means, I can find a 5ft nothing slim woman as hot as a 6ft tall curvy woman, it doesn't really matter and I don't care what other people will think of me. A woman however will probably be concerned what her friends think about her new boyfriend who is only 2 inches taller while standing at 5'7.
Posted by heliumfiascoI personally shoot men under 5'7
Like who am I to judge a nice dude based on something he has no control over? But it really seems to be making me cautious.
Women dating a guys because of their height is like men dating women because of the size of their breasts/hips. While there are evolutionary/biological reasons for these preferences, nowadays these traits are practically superficial.
The number one thing I see listed by men on internet dating sites is their height. Sometimes exclusively. So this has to be a fairly common issue. Which does suck, because its completely out of anyone control.
I realize this is superficial on my part.
However, some men prefer skinny girls. I don't get offended because that is their "type". I guess it really is just preference.
I'm just bothered that I'm bothered...if that makes sense.
I realize this is superficial on my part.
However, some men prefer skinny girls. I don't get offended because that is their "type". I guess it really is just preference.
I'm just bothered that I'm bothered...if that makes sense.
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