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Dont touch my hair
Posted by Cancervirgo15degreeslike what if I just got done eating cheetos and I wanted stick my fingers in your scalp ...does sound fun? or sane? no~! its N U T S .Posted by Cancan26Lamayo. Only bitches i ever saw that flip when someone touches their hair are black cause they got them weaves and wigs and shit.
"Don't touch my hair, its the feeling that I wear"- solange
Yesterday I made a thread about different hair style s ... If you have natural hair then you know its a labor of love 🙂 lots of moisturizing, flat twisting, braiding and patience and when you finally undo your twist out and see your lovely kinks and curls falling perfectly its worth it
and then ..some weirdo at work, at a restaurant or schools and starts petting you like a farm animal! its so freaking rude ...and annoying ...Im not an animal ...don't just stroke my hair ...
I had some lady at work do this to me once ..while sitting at my desk...she made a big deal about how it was so big ..and how it really stands up all on it own ...all while she light touch the top of it like she was touching something nasty
so I stood up and started stroking her hair ... 😆 she looked so freakin startled ...and then I said "its so limp" wow ...I mean it really just hangs there doesn't ...interesting
Im all about education ...but everyone should keep their hands to themselves as a general rule ...if you wanna know something just ask ?!?!? vent over
My bff was going on a date with a white guy for the first time ever, and i told her she best be careful cause he prolly dont kno her hair is fake. And i said "so what are you gonna do if you start making out with white boy and he goes to run his fingers through your hair and your wig comes off" she almost peed her pants hahahaclick to expand
..if I just to wear my fro out ...thats my business ...if I want to wear a weave ...or a wig or braids ...all my business ..no one should be concerned enough with how I chose to wear my hair that they need to "check" to see if its mine
thats crazy to me ... I would never just stroll up to a white person and be like pssssss hey ...is that yours ..or like you know extensions ...
pssssss hey are those like really your breasts or like implants ...
Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesno one should ask you if anything is real ...its rude ..even if you wanna wear falsies or they are just your eyelashes its no ones businessPosted by Cancan26I shall NEVER date a man who eats cheetos. I decided.Posted by Cancervirgo15degreeslike what if I just got done eating cheetos and I wanted stick my fingers in your scalp ...does sound fun? or sane? no~! its N U T S .Posted by Cancan26Lamayo. Only bitches i ever saw that flip when someone touches their hair are black cause they got them weaves and wigs and shit.
"Don't touch my hair, its the feeling that I wear"- solange
Yesterday I made a thread about different hair style s ... If you have natural hair then you know its a labor of love 🙂 lots of moisturizing, flat twisting, braiding and patience and when you finally undo your twist out and see your lovely kinks and curls falling perfectly its worth it
and then ..some weirdo at work, at a restaurant or schools and starts petting you like a farm animal! its so freaking rude ...and annoying ...Im not an animal ...don't just stroke my hair ...
I had some lady at work do this to me once ..while sitting at my desk...she made a big deal about how it was so big ..and how it really stands up all on it own ...all while she light touch the top of it like she was touching something nasty
so I stood up and started stroking her hair ... 😆 she looked so freakin startled ...and then I said "its so limp" wow ...I mean it really just hangs there doesn't ...interesting
Im all about education ...but everyone should keep their hands to themselves as a general rule ...if you wanna know something just ask ?!?!? vent over
My bff was going on a date with a white guy for the first time ever, and i told her she best be careful cause he prolly dont kno her hair is fake. And i said "so what are you gonna do if you start making out with white boy and he goes to run his fingers through your hair and your wig comes off" she almost peed her pants hahaha
..if I just to wear my fro out ...thats my business ...if I want to wear a weave ...or a wig or braids ...all my business ..no one should be concerned enough with how I chose to wear my hair that they need to "check" to see if its mine
thats crazy to me ... I would never just stroll up to a white person and be like pssssss hey ...is that yours ..or like you know extensions ...
pssssss hey are those like really your breasts or like implants ...
And for the record every one does axe me if my eyelashes are real, and its **especially** annoying when black girls do it cause they should already know the fucking code. UGH.
So now whenever a black girl axes me if my eyelashes are real i axe them if their weave is real. Hahahahaclick to expand
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Why not just... Keep your hands off and mouth shut about other people's hair? Or eyelashes? Or just appearance in general?
How hard is it to just keep your shit to yourself?
Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesPosted by Cancan26I shall NEVER date a man who eats cheetos. I decided.Posted by Cancervirgo15degreeslike what if I just got done eating cheetos and I wanted stick my fingers in your scalp ...does sound fun? or sane? no~! its N U T S .Posted by Cancan26Lamayo. Only bitches i ever saw that flip when someone touches their hair are black cause they got them weaves and wigs and shit.
"Don't touch my hair, its the feeling that I wear"- solange
Yesterday I made a thread about different hair style s ... If you have natural hair then you know its a labor of love 🙂 lots of moisturizing, flat twisting, braiding and patience and when you finally undo your twist out and see your lovely kinks and curls falling perfectly its worth it
and then ..some weirdo at work, at a restaurant or schools and starts petting you like a farm animal! its so freaking rude ...and annoying ...Im not an animal ...don't just stroke my hair ...
I had some lady at work do this to me once ..while sitting at my desk...she made a big deal about how it was so big ..and how it really stands up all on it own ...all while she light touch the top of it like she was touching something nasty
so I stood up and started stroking her hair ... 😆 she looked so freakin startled ...and then I said "its so limp" wow ...I mean it really just hangs there doesn't ...interesting
Im all about education ...but everyone should keep their hands to themselves as a general rule ...if you wanna know something just ask ?!?!? vent over
My bff was going on a date with a white guy for the first time ever, and i told her she best be careful cause he prolly dont kno her hair is fake. And i said "so what are you gonna do if you start making out with white boy and he goes to run his fingers through your hair and your wig comes off" she almost peed her pants hahaha
..if I just to wear my fro out ...thats my business ...if I want to wear a weave ...or a wig or braids ...all my business ..no one should be concerned enough with how I chose to wear my hair that they need to "check" to see if its mine
thats crazy to me ... I would never just stroll up to a white person and be like pssssss hey ...is that yours ..or like you know extensions ...
pssssss hey are those like really your breasts or like implants ...
And for the record every one does axe me if my eyelashes are real, and its **especially** annoying when black girls do it cause they should already know the fucking code. UGH.
So now whenever a black girl axes me if my eyelashes are real i axe them if their weave is real. Hahahahaclick to expand
Wtf is going on here
Posted by RedemptionSongthis all of thisPosted by Cancervirgo15degreesPosted by Cancan26Lamayo. Only bitches i ever saw that flip when someone touches their hair are black cause they got them weaves and wigs and shit.
"Don't touch my hair, its the feeling that I wear"- solange
Yesterday I made a thread about different hair style s ... If you have natural hair then you know its a labor of love 🙂 lots of moisturizing, flat twisting, braiding and patience and when you finally undo your twist out and see your lovely kinks and curls falling perfectly its worth it
and then ..some weirdo at work, at a restaurant or schools and starts petting you like a farm animal! its so freaking rude ...and annoying ...Im not an animal ...don't just stroke my hair ...
I had some lady at work do this to me once ..while sitting at my desk...she made a big deal about how it was so big ..and how it really stands up all on it own ...all while she light touch the top of it like she was touching something nasty
so I stood up and started stroking her hair ... 😆 she looked so freakin startled ...and then I said "its so limp" wow ...I mean it really just hangs there doesn't ...interesting
Im all about education ...but everyone should keep their hands to themselves as a general rule ...if you wanna know something just ask ?!?!? vent over
My bff was going on a date with a white guy for the first time ever, and i told her she best be careful cause he prolly dont kno her hair is fake. And i said "so what are you gonna do if you start making out with white boy and he goes to run his fingers through your hair and your wig comes off" she almost peed her pants hahaha
Because black women are the only ones who wear wigs or extensions...right.
More like some people have poor boundaries.
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Posted by RedemptionSongright I don't mind compliments or questions but hands need to stay to the owner...we learned that in kindergarten
Happens to me too at Cancan26. I have long locs/dreads. People are like ooh your hair is nice. Hold up...i dont know you. Hair nah...don't touch me. I don't want my hair messed up. It took me too long.
I love Solange!
I love her music.
I can either wear my hair in a huge afro or straight if I choose to without perming my hair.
Call it the infamous "Dominican Blow-out" if I want it straight.
...And If I want to wear the huge afro...I wash my hair, use a deep leave in conditioner, moisturize the ends with Mizani oil, twist it, then curl it up in knots. Leave it overnight. Some people prefer to just untwist it and leave the waves, I just comb it out , until it looks like a complete afro.
I love her music.
I can either wear my hair in a huge afro or straight if I choose to without perming my hair.
Call it the infamous "Dominican Blow-out" if I want it straight.
...And If I want to wear the huge afro...I wash my hair, use a deep leave in conditioner, moisturize the ends with Mizani oil, twist it, then curl it up in knots. Leave it overnight. Some people prefer to just untwist it and leave the waves, I just comb it out , until it looks like a complete afro.
Posted by LittleStarI don't see any problem if you see someone acting crazy call em out
If as a white person you see this shit happening would you prefer someone calling it out or just letting the person handle it themselves? I almost got into it with this woman petting some braids of my coworker.
but I pretty good at speaking up for myself
thank you for understanding where Im coming from 😄 😄 😄
Posted by IxionGay men in general can be too touchy feelly. Just cause your dick doesn't get hard around vagina doesn't mean its cool for you to grab my breasts. Respect the personal space.Posted by RedemptionSongMy ma and both of my sisters have their hair locked...and even now from time to time when they have it style d some folks will risk death by trying to touch em. Not my mother so much but my sisters...especially the one that works in the interior design field........white gay men just "looooove" their hair. That Hair Nah game was built for em.Posted by Cancan26Ah man before I locked, when I used to wear the fro. For some reason people saw my hair as an invitation. I've been in the grocery in line and felt a hand a hand in the back of my head. What tge hell. Response "oh its so nice". Sigh thank goodness I'm not a violent person.Posted by RedemptionSongright I don't mind compliments or questions but hands need to stay to the owner...we learned that in kindergarten
Happens to me too at Cancan26. I have long locs/dreads. People are like ooh your hair is nice. Hold up...i dont know you. Hair nah...don't touch me. I don't want my hair messed up. It took me too long.
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Posted by Leowwwwwawww lol thanks that so sweet I just get frustrated 😢
Me & @cancan26
Only 2 people allowed to touch my hair:
1. my hairdresser
2. my s/o
My general rule is "Don't touch me, don't hug me, just stay in your own personal space and keep your hands to yourself."
But some people like to insist smdh....
1. my hairdresser
2. my s/o
My general rule is "Don't touch me, don't hug me, just stay in your own personal space and keep your hands to yourself."
But some people like to insist smdh....
Posted by SpaceBird😆 😆 thankee kindly lol
ok i won't! 😛 🙂
Posted by Ram416
Only 2 people allowed to touch my hair:
1. my hairdresser
2. my s/o
My general rule is "Don't touch me, don't hug me, just stay in your own personal space and keep your hands to yourself."
But some people like to insist smdh....
tell em ram!!!!
Jesus..I hate when people fucking touch my locs.
Posted by LittleStarWhy do some people think it's OK to touch someone's hair without permission—?
If as a white person you see this shit happening would you prefer someone calling it out or just letting the person handle it themselves? I almost got into it with this woman petting some braids of my coworker.
Posted by ellesbelles
I will not touch anyone's hair.
But I WILL hug you.
Posted by TaureanAndsit does 🙂 its not hard but it take effort to get it the way you want ...but as a looksmax guy yourself ...I know you would not appreciate some random stranger tousling your perfect hair
I didn’t know that took work
Posted by ellesbelleslol Im a hugger too 😆 at least with people I like 😄 so speaking of which
I will not touch anyone's hair.
But I WILL hug you.
Posted by Ram416We are going to group hug you to death 😂Posted by ellesbelles
I will not touch anyone's hair.
But I WILL hug you.click to expand
I keep my hair wrapped up by wearing durags, silk skullies, sockets and hats.
I keep it twisted or corn rowed.. But when I do let it down, people know better than to stroke through my shit cuz I rarely have it out anyway.
All kinds of people do that, just gotta carry an air of "boundaries".
I keep it twisted or corn rowed.. But when I do let it down, people know better than to stroke through my shit cuz I rarely have it out anyway.
All kinds of people do that, just gotta carry an air of "boundaries".
Posted by xoxflutelol its perfectly fine to be curious ...and if someone asked to touch I might be inclined but just doing it randomly is a no way jose!
To be honest, I had such temptations before, but I've never physically touched anyone's hair ... as far as I can remember.
I have only had ONE person ask out of the many times that my hair was touched
...he was a very sweet kindergartener ..he asked to touch it ..and I smiled and said he could and he touched and said "this is very nice hair" 😆 then he bent his little head down and said "ok now you" so I awkwardly petted his little blond head and he was so satisfied afterward he said we both have very nice hair, dont we?
Posted by xoxflutelol yea just the one guy ..and he was 5 champ! and it was a pleasant memory ..its less about my actual hair which is annoying having to fix it but more about respect I guess ...Posted by Cancan26LOL, sounds like he has a great sense of humour...and very fair, despite the awkwardness lol. 😛Posted by xoxflutelol its perfectly fine to be curious ...and if someone asked to touch I might be inclined but just doing it randomly is a no way jose!
To be honest, I had such temptations before, but I've never physically touched anyone's hair ... as far as I can remember.
I have only had ONE person ask out of the many times that my hair was touched
...he was a very sweet kindergartener ..he asked to touch it ..and I smiled and said he could and he touched and said "this is very nice hair" 😆 then he bent his little head down and said "ok now you" so I awkwardly petted his little blond head and he was so satisfied afterward he said we both have very nice hair, dont we?
But yikes, only one person asked? 😡click to expand
Posted by EmhendoOr a gun
I keep my hair wrapped up by wearing durags, silk skullies, sockets and hats.
I keep it twisted or corn rowed.. But when I do let it down, people know better than to stroke through my shit cuz I rarely have it out anyway.
All kinds of people do that, just gotta carry an air of "boundaries".
Posted by Cancan26Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesno one should ask you if anything is real ...its rude ..even if you wanna wear falsies or they are just your eyelashes its no ones businessPosted by Cancan26I shall NEVER date a man who eats cheetos. I decided.Posted by Cancervirgo15degreeslike what if I just got done eating cheetos and I wanted stick my fingers in your scalp ...does sound fun? or sane? no~! its N U T S .Posted by Cancan26Lamayo. Only bitches i ever saw that flip when someone touches their hair are black cause they got them weaves and wigs and shit.
"Don't touch my hair, its the feeling that I wear"- solange
Yesterday I made a thread about different hair style s ... If you have natural hair then you know its a labor of love 🙂 lots of moisturizing, flat twisting, braiding and patience and when you finally undo your twist out and see your lovely kinks and curls falling perfectly its worth it
and then ..some weirdo at work, at a restaurant or schools and starts petting you like a farm animal! its so freaking rude ...and annoying ...Im not an animal ...don't just stroke my hair ...
I had some lady at work do this to me once ..while sitting at my desk...she made a big deal about how it was so big ..and how it really stands up all on it own ...all while she light touch the top of it like she was touching something nasty
so I stood up and started stroking her hair ... 😆 she looked so freakin startled ...and then I said "its so limp" wow ...I mean it really just hangs there doesn't ...interesting
Im all about education ...but everyone should keep their hands to themselves as a general rule ...if you wanna know something just ask ?!?!? vent over
My bff was going on a date with a white guy for the first time ever, and i told her she best be careful cause he prolly dont kno her hair is fake. And i said "so what are you gonna do if you start making out with white boy and he goes to run his fingers through your hair and your wig comes off" she almost peed her pants hahaha
..if I just to wear my fro out ...thats my business ...if I want to wear a weave ...or a wig or braids ...all my business ..no one should be concerned enough with how I chose to wear my hair that they need to "check" to see if its mine
thats crazy to me ... I would never just stroll up to a white person and be like pssssss hey ...is that yours ..or like you know extensions ...
pssssss hey are those like really your breasts or like implants ...
And for the record every one does axe me if my eyelashes are real, and its **especially** annoying when black girls do it cause they should already know the fucking code. UGH.
So now whenever a black girl axes me if my eyelashes are real i axe them if their weave is real. Hahahahaclick to expand
I wish I knew how to post my pic (because I still don’t) but I’d post my big bushy natural blonde curly hair... that everyone thinks it’s ok to touch! It irritates the mess out of me! Like.... please stop! Are your hands clean friend? I think I may get a sew in soon though to protect it though. By the way... I love that song!
I cannot tell a lie.
I love touching other ppl hair.
Especially fros
But I ask first.
I love touching other ppl hair.
Especially fros
But I ask first.
Posted by DMVI have had many people touch my hair but only one person ask ...and I said it was ok ...that is actually pretty pleasant memory
I cannot tell a lie.
I love touching other ppl hair.
Especially fros
But I ask first.
...maybe its the fact that folks dont ask that is ticking me off ...or maybe just the random surprise of someone's fingers in my scalp that puts me on edge I think
So even if their intent was good they have already annoyed me I think
Posted by Cancan26Evading personal space without getting permission is annoying afPosted by DMVI have had many people touch my hair but only one person ask ...and I said it was ok ...that is actually pretty pleasant memory
I cannot tell a lie.
I love touching other ppl hair.
Especially fros
But I ask first.
...maybe its the fact that folks dont ask that is ticking me off ...or maybe just the random surprise of someone's fingers in my scalp that puts me on edge I think
So even if their intent was good they have already annoyed me I thinkclick to expand
I hate hugging people, so I am glad I don't face your problem, cause I would probably murder someone. Lol
I've actually had friends do this when my hair is curled with a curling iron. I usually wear my hair in a ponytail.
It took me a fuccing hour and a half to straighten, then curl it and you want to try and stick your stinky fingers in my hair to pull on them!
It took me a fuccing hour and a half to straighten, then curl it and you want to try and stick your stinky fingers in my hair to pull on them!
Posted by nikkistar😆 😆 when people do it, does low-key make me wanna punch em a little bitPosted by Cancan26Evading personal space without getting permission is annoying afPosted by DMVI have had many people touch my hair but only one person ask ...and I said it was ok ...that is actually pretty pleasant memory
I cannot tell a lie.
I love touching other ppl hair.
Especially fros
But I ask first.
...maybe its the fact that folks dont ask that is ticking me off ...or maybe just the random surprise of someone's fingers in my scalp that puts me on edge I think
So even if their intent was good they have already annoyed me I think
I hate hugging people, so I am glad I don't face your problem, cause I would probably murder someone. Lolclick to expand
Posted by saggurl88this gif is perfect lol
I've actually had friends do this when my hair is curled with a curling iron. I usually wear my hair in a ponytail.
It took me a fuccing hour and a half to straighten, then curl it and you want to try and stick your stinky fingers in my hair to pull on them!
Posted by kreolshe was waaaay ahead of her time 🙂
Posted by Gob_Shite😆 😆 we dont have to take it that far lol 😄
Pssssst!
Posted by Leowwwwwthats so freaking funny! ~Posted by Cancan26I know 🌼Posted by Leowwwwwawww lol thanks that so sweet I just get frustrated 😢
Me & @cancan26
Ridiculous people. 😏
I once had a co-worker who would greet my colleagues in the morning by giving them a massage. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
I gave him the "wtf do you think you're doing" stare when I saw him trying to pull that on me... He never tried anything again.
#ScorpioRising to the rescue. 💁
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my scorpio bits must be broken lol 😆
Posted by Cancan26😆 *like*
so I stood up and started stroking her hair ... 😆 she looked so freakin startled ...and then I said "its so limp" wow ...I mean it really just hangs there doesn't ...interesting
Posted by Ixion
I find it to be that this is an exercise in othering black woman....objectifying them, and fetishizing em. Point. Blank "."
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Posted by GC03
CANCAN 💖💖💖💖💖💖
I wuvvvvv you!!!!
You are too funny and real hun bun!
gc03!!!
I missed you poo!! 😄 😄 Im glad your back 🙂
I love when men, particularly Spanish, do these crazy hair style s that take a whole can of aquanet.
It's sexy to me how men are creative with their hair.
It's sexy to me how men are creative with their hair.
Posted by Arielle83Thats bullshit .. 😢 he is lucky he only got yelled at !!! 👊Posted by sunnysetI got kicked out of the classroom when I was 12, because I yelled at a guy that kept pulling my hair tie out.
So all the girls at work wear their hair in a ponytail
This one guy like pulling on it, he does it to everyone and we find it annoying
I understand that when you spent alot of $ and time and effort on you hair, it feels like someone will mess it up espcially
I guess I was the problem, according to my male teacher.click to expand
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Yesterday I made a thread about different hair style s ... If you have natural hair then you know its a labor of love 🙂 lots of moisturizing, flat twisting, braiding and patience and when you finally undo your twist out and see your lovely kinks and curls falling perfectly its worth it
and then ..some weirdo at work, at a restaurant or schools and starts petting you like a farm animal! its so freaking rude ...and annoying ...Im not an animal ...don't just stroke my hair ...
I had some lady at work do this to me once ..while sitting at my desk...she made a big deal about how it was so big ..and how it really stands up all on it own ...all while she light touch the top of it like she was touching something nasty
so I stood up and started stroking her hair ... 😆 she looked so freakin startled ...and then I said "its so limp" wow ...I mean it really just hangs there doesn't ...interesting
Im all about education ...but everyone should keep their hands to themselves as a general rule ...if you wanna know something just ask ?!?!? vent over