Fuck you aqua moons

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They are definitely difficult creatures until you get used to them. But why should we have to get used to them? Do they get used to us? To be continued...

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EXACTLY. I attract them like crazy and can empathize with their nature regardless of their selfishness but they SUCK at getting themselves to see others' perspectives and remain stubborn about things being on their terms strictly and one can only give and give so much without receiving not the slightest understanding in return
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They are definitely difficult creatures until you get used to them. But why should we have to get used to them? Do they get used to us? To be continued...

Lol

EXACTLY. I attract them like crazy and can empathize with their nature regardless of their selfishness but they SUCK at getting themselves to see others' perspectives and remain stubborn about things being on their terms strictly and one can only give and give so much without receiving not the slightest understanding in return

My husband is an aqua moon and this is about the only thing we argue about. Lol “I’m emotional”..UMMM YAH, it’s necessary for survival.

By the time I hear what I wanted to hear from him, I’m already 10 miles down the road.

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What are his placements? What are yours? How did you guys end up married? They definitely don't emotionally cater, they're like super awkward about it their entire lives, what weirdos

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Emotionally inept creatures
If you experience that you are doing something wrong.
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Oh I know they can be softies when they want but God in general they're so difficult, it takes a very strong and patient person to truly put up with them, esp their stubbornness and know-it-all attitude which can remain extremely fixed until something life altering
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Emotionally inept creatures
If you experience that you are doing something wrong.

Oh I know they can be softies when they want but God in general they're so difficult, it takes a very strong and patient person to truly put up with them, esp their stubbornness and know-it-all attitude which can remain extremely fixed until something life altering


You just need good arguments that aren't based on emotions.

If you are discussing emotions with them explain the how and why of your feelings and you should be good.
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What are you

An aqua sun or moon?

I used to be very cold and emotionless myself and have aqua placements so I know about that but then my hades moon and all my hard aspects to moon caught up plus my progressed moon is in fucking cancer and so now I'm a big ball of wussy fluff *sobs* I recently discovered whenever I PMS I get super emotional and irrational and start lashing out at him over the stupidest stuff that I otherwise wouldn't and that doesn't work well with an aqua mooner bc they're like WTF why are you so not normal whenever you're not near me. It doesn't make sense to them. It's not mee it's the hormones, but he has high expectations of me to be smarter than that LOL.. and idk how tf you break that down to an aqua mooner because they just can't emphathize they're just poopies
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I think earth moons are worse. They don’t want to be bothered with big emotions. I was married to a Taurus moon & to a Cap moon and am now with a Virgo moon 🙄

The Virgo moon actually listens the most of the 3, but seriously like they have no clue why I should be upset. I have done better with a cancer moon & a Pisces moon because they get emotions & can handle when the aqua moon emotions are finally released.. ( it’s not pretty btw) and well with the Pisces moon I learned to deal with his emotions even if thought he was being dramatic. Safest ever place to be for my emotions. So miss aqua moon let her emotions fly in that space. He’d just say I love your passion 😂😂😂 well maybe a little sag fire too 😉.
Maybe you're not doing a good job at explaining yourself.

Virgo moon here coupled with an alleged "ice golem" Cap moon. We understand each other perfectly. When there's a misunderstanding, we clear it right up when we sit down to talk about it.
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Cold, emotionless pieces of trash who nobody likes

Even my aqua and cap placements are warmer and mushy than your selfish, ice souls

It doesn't matter how cute and innocent you guys look, it ALL A LIE

Discuss the terrible aqua mooners from your life ty


Look, I sympathize, I had bad experiences with Aries people, but I dont generalize and call an entire signs

aggressive and inconsiderate or open a thread, saying fuck you aries moons you people are impulsive and

loud. I still think there are aries people that I will like.

Just wish them a good life, knowing that kharma will fuck them over.
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Ouch hahaha. I'm a aqua moon and I can admit I do not like overly emotional situations and will avoid them at all costs, for sure I struggle expressing emotion - definitely not my forté. It might be because I trust no one to see me emotional. I like to live by seeing things through with logic and facts. However I'm an absolute ball of emotion with my partner and it's really, really weird.. but I like it!
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i made a thread not too long ago about aqua placements being emo. that's all they are to me. if they're cold and detached they're not that invested in you and probably don't give a flying fuck. funny to me when people are like ZOMG AQUA DETACHED!!!1 COLD!!!!1 UNFEELING!!!!!1

all i can think is "maybe if they actually cared about you?"

everyone has their "idgaf" face for people they're not invested in. it's just with aqua placements people get more butthurt about it.
I'm cold and detached. But only to those I hate. Not my loved ones.

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lol dont believe that for one minute

carefull....thats sounds more logical
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I think earth moons are worse. They don’t want to be bothered with big emotions. I was married to a Taurus moon & to a Cap moon and am now with a Virgo moon 🙄

The Virgo moon actually listens the most of the 3, but seriously like they have no clue why I should be upset. I have done better with a cancer moon & a Pisces moon because they get emotions & can handle when the aqua moon emotions are finally released.. ( it’s not pretty btw) and well with the Pisces moon I learned to deal with his emotions even if thought he was being dramatic. Safest ever place to be for my emotions. So miss aqua moon let her emotions fly in that space. He’d just say I love your passion 😂😂😂 well maybe a little sag fire too 😉.
Maybe you're not doing a good job at explaining yourself.

Virgo moon here coupled with an alleged "ice golem" Cap moon. We understand each other perfectly. When there's a misunderstanding, we clear it right up when we sit down to talk about it.
Cap moon is an iceberg. I was with him for 20 years and he would absolutely not listen. Anytime I tried to bring anything up, he thought it was an attack on him. Which it wasn’t, but the moment he saw emotions he shut off. I ended up shutting down my emotions for a long time to survive. Taurus moon - ah we were young. But clashed big time and he was too stubborn to listen. Volatile. He said I had BIG emotions.

The Virgo moon will listen upon explanation. Although sometimes his viewpoint is different. But much easier to work through. Of course I have learned how to respond instead of react, so the Virgo moon gets the benefit of that. It’s an actual conversation. Actually I did in the marriage with the Cap moon cuz I worked on myself, still wouldn’t have a conversation.
Can't agree with the Cap moon thing.

I've seen them cry over, in my eyes, very small things.
Not this one. Only time I saw him cry was when his grandpa died. He keeps that way down deep. We have 2 kids together (well 22 & 17 now) even the kids have trouble with him because he acts like he doesn’t care, but I know he does. Oh he’s an Aries. You know how @queenaries acts all tough & isn’t letting anyone in. This is him. She’s also a Aries sun, cap moon.


The Aries sun might make it different.

The one I'm was talking about was with a Gemini sun.

That might have changed things a bit.
Yep lol. Cardinal vs Mutable for one, and Aries are so stubborn, it’s like an all about them viewpoint. I get along with him much better now, and I do see how much he cares in what he does. He would always be there for me, but then again emotions are not involved anymore too. We’ve been divorced 5 years.
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Roooooooooooosagi!!!!!!!!

guess who it is—

😄

remember cancer woman who couldnt understand saggi— hahahahaha

and with the friends that just sucked...........lol



you were right!!

and he didnt care!



but a bull barged into my life and took over hahahaha

soooooooooo much better 😄

how are you?
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i made a thread not too long ago about aqua placements being emo. that's all they are to me. if they're cold and detached they're not that invested in you and probably don't give a flying fuck. funny to me when people are like ZOMG AQUA DETACHED!!!1 COLD!!!!1 UNFEELING!!!!!1

all i can think is "maybe if they actually cared about you?"

everyone has their "idgaf" face for people they're not invested in. it's just with aqua placements people get more butthurt about it.
I'm cold and detached. But only to those I hate. Not my loved ones.


lol dont believe that for one minute

carefull....thats sounds more logical
What's so unbelievable about it? I'm not a people lover. You think i love people?

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i think you dont love allll people

and that you are just not open to people you dont have a connection with

but is that cold and detached?? :p nahhhhh dont think so

lol
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Lmao. Aqua moon's are emo and loving. They can be a little loving in small increments. Or sometimes a medium amount loving in one large go.

Point is they have an empathy clock that resets every Chinese New Year. Once it runs out, your ass has to wait until next groundhogs day for it to start ticking again. Now, it can run out by Valentine's Day if you act a fool. Or you can milk it til Christmas if you play your cards right.

They can give a little bit a lot of times, or a lot only one or two times. But once it's gone, its gone. Until they recharge.
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Lmao. Aqua moon's are emo and loving. They can be a little loving in small increments. Or sometimes a medium amount loving in one large go.

Point is they have an empathy clock that resets every Chinese New Year. Once it runs out, your ass has to wait until next groundhogs day for it to start ticking again. Now, it can run out by Valentine's Day if you act a fool. Or you can milk it til Christmas if you play your cards right.

They can give a little bit a lot of times, or a lot only one or two times. But once it's gone, its gone. Until they recharge.
hahahhaahah THIS



but you have to wanna learn to understand this

i found out....if bull sun/aqua moon needs to recharge he will "dissapear"

im better of just giving him space

and then he comes back around again
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I think earth moons are worse. They don’t want to be bothered with big emotions. I was married to a Taurus moon & to a Cap moon and am now with a Virgo moon 🙄

The Virgo moon actually listens the most of the 3, but seriously like they have no clue why I should be upset. I have done better with a cancer moon & a Pisces moon because they get emotions & can handle when the aqua moon emotions are finally released.. ( it’s not pretty btw) and well with the Pisces moon I learned to deal with his emotions even if thought he was being dramatic. Safest ever place to be for my emotions. So miss aqua moon let her emotions fly in that space. He’d just say I love your passion 😂😂😂 well maybe a little sag fire too 😉.
Maybe you're not doing a good job at explaining yourself.

Virgo moon here coupled with an alleged "ice golem" Cap moon. We understand each other perfectly. When there's a misunderstanding, we clear it right up when we sit down to talk about it.
Cap moon is an iceberg. I was with him for 20 years and he would absolutely not listen. Anytime I tried to bring anything up, he thought it was an attack on him. Which it wasn’t, but the moment he saw emotions he shut off. I ended up shutting down my emotions for a long time to survive. Taurus moon - ah we were young. But clashed big time and he was too stubborn to listen. Volatile. He said I had BIG emotions.

The Virgo moon will listen upon explanation. Although sometimes his viewpoint is different. But much easier to work through. Of course I have learned how to respond instead of react, so the Virgo moon gets the benefit of that. It’s an actual conversation. Actually I did in the marriage with the Cap moon cuz I worked on myself, still wouldn’t have a conversation.
Can't agree with the Cap moon thing.

I've seen them cry over, in my eyes, very small things.
Not this one. Only time I saw him cry was when his grandpa died. He keeps that way down deep. We have 2 kids together (well 22 & 17 now) even the kids have trouble with him because he acts like he doesn’t care, but I know he does. Oh he’s an Aries. You know how @queenaries acts all tough & isn’t letting anyone in. This is him. She’s also a Aries sun, cap moon.


The Aries sun might make it different.

The one I'm was talking about was with a Gemini sun.

That might have changed things a bit.
Yep lol. Cardinal vs Mutable for one, and Aries are so stubborn, it’s like an all about them viewpoint. I get along with him much better now, and I do see how much he cares in what he does. He would always be there for me, but then again emotions are not involved anymore too. We’ve been divorced 5 years.
Roooooooooooosagi!!!!!!!!

guess who it is—

😄

remember cancer woman who couldnt understand saggi— hahahahaha

and with the friends that just sucked...........lol



you were right!!

and he didnt care!



but a bull barged into my life and took over hahahaha

soooooooooo much better 😄

how are you?
lol! Yes I remember of course 🙂 ahh see always a reason!! Glad things are so much better. I’m a little frustrated with my Cap right now, but he has a lot going on. Just going with the flow, and taking care of me!! While he’s stress monger lol ( we just got back from vacation in Mexico.. it was fun but I don’t think he completely relaxed though )
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oh noooooooooo

hahaha well ....i understand how you feel!

ive been talking to taurus for a month now

feels like ive known him forever

he lives abroad

the sweetest..........lovable....considered sexy man ever

but also alot of stress.

and then he needs to recharge which means, retreats. from a distance thats hard but i understand him. he comes around if i respect his need for space

ohhhhhhh a vacay to mexico and still didnt relax -_- noooooo thats not good!

then it must be something bad
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Lmao. Aqua moon's are emo and loving. They can be a little loving in small increments. Or sometimes a medium amount loving in one large go.

Point is they have an empathy clock that resets every Chinese New Year. Once it runs out, your ass has to wait until next groundhogs day for it to start ticking again. Now, it can run out by Valentine's Day if you act a fool. Or you can milk it til Christmas if you play your cards right.

They can give a little bit a lot of times, or a lot only one or two times. But once it's gone, its gone. Until they recharge.
LOL I heart u.
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Same! 😋
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I think earth moons are worse. They don’t want to be bothered with big emotions. I was married to a Taurus moon & to a Cap moon and am now with a Virgo moon 🙄

The Virgo moon actually listens the most of the 3, but seriously like they have no clue why I should be upset. I have done better with a cancer moon & a Pisces moon because they get emotions & can handle when the aqua moon emotions are finally released.. ( it’s not pretty btw) and well with the Pisces moon I learned to deal with his emotions even if thought he was being dramatic. Safest ever place to be for my emotions. So miss aqua moon let her emotions fly in that space. He’d just say I love your passion 😂😂😂 well maybe a little sag fire too 😉.
Maybe you're not doing a good job at explaining yourself.

Virgo moon here coupled with an alleged "ice golem" Cap moon. We understand each other perfectly. When there's a misunderstanding, we clear it right up when we sit down to talk about it.
Cap moon is an iceberg. I was with him for 20 years and he would absolutely not listen. Anytime I tried to bring anything up, he thought it was an attack on him. Which it wasn’t, but the moment he saw emotions he shut off. I ended up shutting down my emotions for a long time to survive. Taurus moon - ah we were young. But clashed big time and he was too stubborn to listen. Volatile. He said I had BIG emotions.

The Virgo moon will listen upon explanation. Although sometimes his viewpoint is different. But much easier to work through. Of course I have learned how to respond instead of react, so the Virgo moon gets the benefit of that. It’s an actual conversation. Actually I did in the marriage with the Cap moon cuz I worked on myself, still wouldn’t have a conversation.
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Keep in mind the moon, while significant, is still one placement. The ego/sun is also important. And the Mercury/Mars which shows how they deal with negative aspects of life. My father was a Scorp sun/Cap moon and he absolutely sucked. Never admitted to doing wrong, always blamed everyone else for everything and he was just a toxic piece of shit. He died last October and I had no fucks to give.

On the other hand, my boy is a Leo sun cusper, with Leo Mercury/Venus and Scorp Mars. The fire combined with water makes him more receptive to emotional stimuli. Because fire and water are the elements which bring life into a chart, so he's more energetic and intense in that way. He feels a great deal and he has his Cap moon to take things down a notch or two so he can handle it.

I explain things to him in both a practical and emotional manner. I give him examples of other situations to help him understand better what I'm explaining. Like when he first told me he thinks he's falling in love with me, I laughed because I thought he was kidding. But he was offended and got pissed big time. He stormed right at the door but I stopped him from leaving in the nick of time. He was fuming but he allowed me to explain where that came from. I kept it clear & concise, I didn't digress or anything, just kept it specific and raw and explained fully how it made me feel and why.

In the end I made him cry. So much for iceberg Cap moons. I cried too. We do understand, we just have to make that mental & emotional connection to grasp the full scope.
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Cold, emotionless pieces of trash who nobody likes

Even my aqua and cap placements are warmer and mushy than your selfish, ice souls

It doesn't matter how cute and innocent you guys look, it ALL A LIE

Discuss the terrible aqua mooners from your life ty


Look, I sympathize, I had bad experiences with Aries people, but I dont generalize and call an entire signs

aggressive and inconsiderate or open a thread, saying fuck you aries moons you people are impulsive and

loud. I still think there are aries people that I will like.

Just wish them a good life, knowing that kharma will fuck them over.
Parklour you went postal abit on Aries

Pot kettle much
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No I disagree with you, pot kettle much my ass.

I have no Idea, what postal abit means. I never attacked Aries, I stated in precise Terms which behavior patterns I dont like.´, thats called criticizing and or venting. That doesnt equal, hating,insulting, attacking. But I dont expect anybody to make that distinction here, so keep on thinking pot kettle much. I never insulted them, I never called them trash or told them to fuck themselves. I have never been that rude to them.

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My bff is a Sag / Aqua moon and says some really outrageous shit and gives very little fucks who it offends or how it “seems”....she gets unfriended a lot 😂

I just learned to not take her that seriously. I literally do not allow myself to be taken aback by anything she says. And I certainly don’t seek her out for emotional support. She gives great no b.s. advice, but if I’m just looking to be coddled I call my Leo friends, not her.
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I think earth moons are worse. They don’t want to be bothered with big emotions. I was married to a Taurus moon & to a Cap moon and am now with a Virgo moon 🙄

The Virgo moon actually listens the most of the 3, but seriously like they have no clue why I should be upset. I have done better with a cancer moon & a Pisces moon because they get emotions & can handle when the aqua moon emotions are finally released.. ( it’s not pretty btw) and well with the Pisces moon I learned to deal with his emotions even if thought he was being dramatic. Safest ever place to be for my emotions. So miss aqua moon let her emotions fly in that space. He’d just say I love your passion 😂😂😂 well maybe a little sag fire too 😉.
Maybe you're not doing a good job at explaining yourself.

Virgo moon here coupled with an alleged "ice golem" Cap moon. We understand each other perfectly. When there's a misunderstanding, we clear it right up when we sit down to talk about it.
Cap moon is an iceberg. I was with him for 20 years and he would absolutely not listen. Anytime I tried to bring anything up, he thought it was an attack on him. Which it wasn’t, but the moment he saw emotions he shut off. I ended up shutting down my emotions for a long time to survive. Taurus moon - ah we were young. But clashed big time and he was too stubborn to listen. Volatile. He said I had BIG emotions.

The Virgo moon will listen upon explanation. Although sometimes his viewpoint is different. But much easier to work through. Of course I have learned how to respond instead of react, so the Virgo moon gets the benefit of that. It’s an actual conversation. Actually I did in the marriage with the Cap moon cuz I worked on myself, still wouldn’t have a conversation.
Keep in mind the moon, while significant, is still one placement. The ego/sun is also important. And the Mercury/Mars which shows how they deal with negative aspects of life. My father was a Scorp sun/Cap moon and he absolutely sucked. Never admitted to doing wrong, always blamed everyone else for everything and he was just a toxic piece of shit. He died last October and I had no fucks to give.

On the other hand, my boy is a Leo sun cusper, with Leo Mercury/Venus and Scorp Mars. The fire combined with water makes him more receptive to emotional stimuli. Because fire and water are the elements which bring life into a chart, so he's more energetic and intense in that way. He feels a great deal and he has his Cap moon to take things down a notch or two so he can handle it.

I explain things to him in both a practical and emotional manner. I give him examples of other situations to help him understand better what I'm explaining. Like when he first told me he thinks he's falling in love with me, I laughed because I thought he was kidding. But he was offended and got pissed big time. He stormed right at the door but I stopped him from leaving in the nick of time. He was fuming but he allowed me to explain where that came from. I kept it clear & concise, I didn't digress or anything, just kept it specific and raw and explained fully how it made me feel and why.

In the end I made him cry. So much for iceberg Cap moons. I cried too. We do understand, we just have to make that mental & emotional connection to grasp the full scope.
Yeah see the allowed you to explain is the part that makes it work. If you are not allowed to, and any sign of emotions brings about a wall, it makes it tough. It would’ve helped to know about astrology then. I would’ve understood more. Maybe found another way. But it’s history. Now it’s more about communicating for the purpose of coparenting. With my current boyfriend, it really works better. I think that it’s important to talk about things calmly. Then he is able to listen. Thank goodness I’ve learned to do that better🙂
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Oh I didn't know he was a Cap moon until later. It never occured to me he's an earth moon in the first place because he's so friendly & warm with everyone.

It's like I say. To approach a relationship you have to understand that astrology is loose guidelines. Never make decisions based on their placements. A stupid astrology site gave me & Jed a compatibility rating of just 10% .

Ten fucking percent?? We set the house on fire! Astrology does not take into account a person's life experiences.
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The worst.
Explain 😜
No
Haha I knew it you can't cause it wasn't true 😜
I was in the mood to tease you earlier but you took too long to reply

I'm lazy now.

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I was sleep back then.

I'm an early bird!
Well, I'm asleep now, so... 😴😴

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They are definitely difficult creatures until you get used to them. But why should we have to get used to them? Do they get used to us? To be continued...

Lol

EXACTLY. I attract them like crazy and can empathize with their nature regardless of their selfishness but they SUCK at getting themselves to see others' perspectives and remain stubborn about things being on their terms strictly and one can only give and give so much without receiving not the slightest understanding in return

My husband is an aqua moon and this is about the only thing we argue about. Lol “I’m emotional”..UMMM YAH, it’s necessary for survival.

By the time I hear what I wanted to hear from him, I’m already 10 miles down the road.



What are his placements? What are yours? How did you guys end up married? They definitely don't emotionally cater, they're like super awkward about it their entire lives, what weirdos

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I love those weirdos tho.
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I'm not really a fan.

My father has one. His memory retention was annoying....unless it was when he forgot I was grounded. He was a Scorpio but completely void of any emotion the majority of the time. This was completely opposite of my pisces moon mother.....the contrast between them was confusing at times. It often made my mother look like she was nuts...lol.


Sounds like my parents lol
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I'm not really a fan.

My father has one. His memory retention was annoying....unless it was when he forgot I was grounded. He was a Scorpio but completely void of any emotion the majority of the time. This was completely opposite of my pisces moon mother.....the contrast between them was confusing at times. It often made my mother look like she was nuts...lol.


Sounds like my parents lol


my dad had my sister's name on my phone number in his phone. lol
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Lol

Mine couldn't remember how old I was or often forgot my birthday.
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In fact, I think that's how I helped him remember his own birthday. LOL
Is piss poor memory a scorp sun / aqua moon thing?

I asked the Scorp when my birthday was and his response was "Virgo". Lol.
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Nah. My dad was a Libra sun, so more of an Aqua moon thing. I know of at least 3 other Aqua moons who habitually forget birthdays.
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Stop moaning you crazy ho!
Me?

Why thank you
Not talking to you twinsy 😑

It's for the poster.


I fell into a temporary deep depression



Phew
You're crazy but not a ho 😂
I know. It’s my Sag.... fkn nuts.

Not a ho. I know hoes and they are usually Libra. I love them tho so what does that say about me? 🎃
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Be a pimp and start cashing on them 💰
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Cold, emotionless pieces of trash who nobody likes

Even my aqua and cap placements are warmer and mushy than your selfish, ice souls

It doesn't matter how cute and innocent you guys look, it ALL A LIE

Discuss the terrible aqua mooners from your life ty


Look, I sympathize, I had bad experiences with Aries people, but I dont generalize and call an entire signs

aggressive and inconsiderate or open a thread, saying fuck you aries moons you people are impulsive and

loud. I still think there are aries people that I will like.

Just wish them a good life, knowing that kharma will fuck them over.
Parklour you went postal abit on Aries

Pot kettle much


No I disagree with you, pot kettle much my ass.

I have no Idea, what postal abit means. I never attacked Aries, I stated in precise Terms which behavior patterns I dont like.´, thats called criticizing and or venting. That doesnt equal, hating,insulting, attacking. But I dont expect anybody to make that distinction here, so keep on thinking pot kettle much. I never insulted them, I never called them trash or told them to fuck themselves. I have never been that rude to them.





Dude you’re not cool calm Taurus you masquerade yourself to be.

This is a perfect example



Your principal ego defence is Attack



Calm your tits bruh you don’t have what it takes to argue with me.

Anyone who has no idea about pot kettle has lived under a fkn rock their whole life.

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Attack? I dont insult people? I dont tell anybody to fuck off or call them trash.

lol, yeah right, you ge tpersonal instead of refuting my arguments, you are right I dont have what it takes to argue with you, you are a way better trashtalker. I am a german I live in germany, pot kettle is the first

expression we learn in English class, you got me there. I am out.
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Emotionally inept creatures
If you experience that you are doing something wrong.

Oh I know they can be softies when they want but God in general they're so difficult, it takes a very strong and patient person to truly put up with them, esp their stubbornness and know-it-all attitude which can remain extremely fixed until something life altering


You just need good arguments that aren't based on emotions.

If you are discussing emotions with them explain the how and why of your feelings and you should be good.

What are you

An aqua sun or moon?

I used to be very cold and emotionless myself and have aqua placements so I know about that but then my hades moon and all my hard aspects to moon caught up plus my progressed moon is in fucking cancer and so now I'm a big ball of wussy fluff *sobs* I recently discovered whenever I PMS I get super emotional and irrational and start lashing out at him over the stupidest stuff that I otherwise wouldn't and that doesn't work well with an aqua mooner bc they're like WTF why are you so not normal whenever you're not near me. It doesn't make sense to them. It's not mee it's the hormones, but he has high expectations of me to be smarter than that LOL.. and idk how tf you break that down to an aqua mooner because they just can't emphathize they're just poopies
Aqua sun with a Sag moon that conjuncts a Cap Uranus.

So I have also a lot of Aqua moon traits while being a bit warmer, if needed and I'm willing.

Break it down into a logical chain.

Explain to him what triggered a emotional reaction in you and list possible reasons.

This should help you as well as him as it gives you a better understanding for yourself.

Most triggers seem arbitrary until you look deeper. Or just you didn't eat enough.

No one can feel what another person feels. The only way is to relate and for that we need information to which we can adjust.
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You are so right here.

I found this is the only way to do it in a relationship for me to feel understood.

Every time I get emotional I just explain the reason behind and examples of situations so my partner can understand it.

But I know some people that can not put words into the emotions they are feeling, so it’s not so easy for them to see it logically and to be able to explain it. Specially when they are feeling very emotional about something.
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Sometimes I wish I had an aqua moon lady in my life. Imagine the two of us being detached and not cling on to one another. Life would be good. I just had to be stuck with a clingy Pisces moon. Always wanting to know every damn thing from where I'm going to who that was you was talking to.
shut up
I wouldn't let my comment get to you like that if that clinginess doesn't pertain to you. I see on your tagline you're a Pisces moon. Not all Pisces moons are all that clingy.

And why you givin up on aqua moons?

You guys make us out to be bad guys or something. Ain't nothing wrong with detaching yourself to get away for awhile. All aqua moons need is their space.

And I can't speak for the aqua moons as for being cold I personally feel that I have that right to be a cold solid mutha fukka because people make me wanna be cold towards them. Sorry to say that but that's the way I feel about that.

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hahahhahaa mehhhhhhhhh i am a pisces moon and i dont nagg EVER where someone would be not even commited.

i dont want to

i loveeee it if the person tells me on its own....not because i think i should know but it shows they want to share this with you

its a trust think and respectfull

😉 so honey thank god there are pisces moons who arent like that. lol

you bumped in the one who does hahahahahah
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Lmao. Aqua moon's are emo and loving. They can be a little loving in small increments. Or sometimes a medium amount loving in one large go.

Point is they have an empathy clock that resets every Chinese New Year. Once it runs out, your ass has to wait until next groundhogs day for it to start ticking again. Now, it can run out by Valentine's Day if you act a fool. Or you can milk it til Christmas if you play your cards right.

They can give a little bit a lot of times, or a lot only one or two times. But once it's gone, its gone. Until they recharge.
How do one go about milking it? 🤔
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By not giving birth, getting married, having any deaths in the family, etc.

Basically by keeping any emotionally charged events in your life to a minimum.
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Emotionally inept creatures
If you experience that you are doing something wrong.

Oh I know they can be softies when they want but God in general they're so difficult, it takes a very strong and patient person to truly put up with them, esp their stubbornness and know-it-all attitude which can remain extremely fixed until something life altering


You just need good arguments that aren't based on emotions.

If you are discussing emotions with them explain the how and why of your feelings and you should be good.

What are you

An aqua sun or moon?

I used to be very cold and emotionless myself and have aqua placements so I know about that but then my hades moon and all my hard aspects to moon caught up plus my progressed moon is in fucking cancer and so now I'm a big ball of wussy fluff *sobs* I recently discovered whenever I PMS I get super emotional and irrational and start lashing out at him over the stupidest stuff that I otherwise wouldn't and that doesn't work well with an aqua mooner bc they're like WTF why are you so not normal whenever you're not near me. It doesn't make sense to them. It's not mee it's the hormones, but he has high expectations of me to be smarter than that LOL.. and idk how tf you break that down to an aqua mooner because they just can't emphathize they're just poopies
Aqua sun with a Sag moon that conjuncts a Cap Uranus.

So I have also a lot of Aqua moon traits while being a bit warmer, if needed and I'm willing.

Break it down into a logical chain.

Explain to him what triggered a emotional reaction in you and list possible reasons.

This should help you as well as him as it gives you a better understanding for yourself.

Most triggers seem arbitrary until you look deeper. Or just you didn't eat enough.

No one can feel what another person feels. The only way is to relate and for that we need information to which we can adjust.
You are so right here.

I found this is the only way to do it in a relationship for me to feel understood.

Every time I get emotional I just explain the reason behind and examples of situations so my partner can understand it.

But I know some people that can not put words into the emotions they are feeling, so it’s not so easy for them to see it logically and to be able to explain it. Specially when they are feeling very emotional about something.



In that case they could use art as references.

Movie scene x reminds me of what I'm feeling/have felt.

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Yes, that works well and music too
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i made a thread not too long ago about aqua placements being emo. that's all they are to me. if they're cold and detached they're not that invested in you and probably don't give a flying fuck. funny to me when people are like ZOMG AQUA DETACHED!!!1 COLD!!!!1 UNFEELING!!!!!1

all i can think is "maybe if they actually cared about you?"

everyone has their "idgaf" face for people they're not invested in. it's just with aqua placements people get more butthurt about it.

How do you explain when the aqua suns in question of not showing emotions are your own parents, especially mom and sister? Are you saying they don't care for me?