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@SassyKiwi
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Posted by HearttofTopaz
They are definitely difficult creatures until you get used to them. But why should we have to get used to them? Do they get used to us? To be continued...
Lol

Posted by HearttofTopazPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by HearttofTopaz
They are definitely difficult creatures until you get used to them. But why should we have to get used to them? Do they get used to us? To be continued...
Lol
EXACTLY. I attract them like crazy and can empathize with their nature regardless of their selfishness but they SUCK at getting themselves to see others' perspectives and remain stubborn about things being on their terms strictly and one can only give and give so much without receiving not the slightest understanding in return
My husband is an aqua moon and this is about the only thing we argue about. Lol “I’m emotional”..UMMM YAH, it’s necessary for survival.
By the time I hear what I wanted to hear from him, I’m already 10 miles down the road.
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Posted by NelsonSacramento
lol i love your avatar OP


Posted by SeleukosPosted by SassyKiwiIf you experience that you are doing something wrong.
Emotionally inept creaturesclick to expand


Posted by SeleukosPosted by SassyKiwiYou just need good arguments that aren't based on emotions.Posted by SeleukosPosted by SassyKiwiIf you experience that you are doing something wrong.
Emotionally inept creatures
Oh I know they can be softies when they want but God in general they're so difficult, it takes a very strong and patient person to truly put up with them, esp their stubbornness and know-it-all attitude which can remain extremely fixed until something life altering
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Posted by RooSagicornMaybe you're not doing a good job at explaining yourself.
I think earth moons are worse. They don’t want to be bothered with big emotions. I was married to a Taurus moon & to a Cap moon and am now with a Virgo moon 🙄
The Virgo moon actually listens the most of the 3, but seriously like they have no clue why I should be upset. I have done better with a cancer moon & a Pisces moon because they get emotions & can handle when the aqua moon emotions are finally released.. ( it’s not pretty btw) and well with the Pisces moon I learned to deal with his emotions even if thought he was being dramatic. Safest ever place to be for my emotions. So miss aqua moon let her emotions fly in that space. He’d just say I love your passion 😂😂😂 well maybe a little sag fire too 😉.

Posted by SassyKiwi
Cold, emotionless pieces of trash who nobody likes
Even my aqua and cap placements are warmer and mushy than your selfish, ice souls
It doesn't matter how cute and innocent you guys look, it ALL A LIE
Discuss the terrible aqua mooners from your life ty


Posted by TheTinManlol dont believe that for one minutePosted by edgelordI'm cold and detached. But only to those I hate. Not my loved ones.
i made a thread not too long ago about aqua placements being emo. that's all they are to me. if they're cold and detached they're not that invested in you and probably don't give a flying fuck. funny to me when people are like ZOMG AQUA DETACHED!!!1 COLD!!!!1 UNFEELING!!!!!1
all i can think is "maybe if they actually cared about you?"
everyone has their "idgaf" face for people they're not invested in. it's just with aqua placements people get more butthurt about it.
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Posted by RooSagicornRoooooooooooosagi!!!!!!!!Posted by SeleukosYep lol. Cardinal vs Mutable for one, and Aries are so stubborn, it’s like an all about them viewpoint. I get along with him much better now, and I do see how much he cares in what he does. He would always be there for me, but then again emotions are not involved anymore too. We’ve been divorced 5 years.Posted by RooSagicornThe Aries sun might make it different.Posted by SeleukosNot this one. Only time I saw him cry was when his grandpa died. He keeps that way down deep. We have 2 kids together (well 22 & 17 now) even the kids have trouble with him because he acts like he doesn’t care, but I know he does. Oh he’s an Aries. You know how @queenaries acts all tough & isn’t letting anyone in. This is him. She’s also a Aries sun, cap moon.Posted by RooSagicornCan't agree with the Cap moon thing.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowCap moon is an iceberg. I was with him for 20 years and he would absolutely not listen. Anytime I tried to bring anything up, he thought it was an attack on him. Which it wasn’t, but the moment he saw emotions he shut off. I ended up shutting down my emotions for a long time to survive. Taurus moon - ah we were young. But clashed big time and he was too stubborn to listen. Volatile. He said I had BIG emotions.Posted by RooSagicornMaybe you're not doing a good job at explaining yourself.
I think earth moons are worse. They don’t want to be bothered with big emotions. I was married to a Taurus moon & to a Cap moon and am now with a Virgo moon 🙄
The Virgo moon actually listens the most of the 3, but seriously like they have no clue why I should be upset. I have done better with a cancer moon & a Pisces moon because they get emotions & can handle when the aqua moon emotions are finally released.. ( it’s not pretty btw) and well with the Pisces moon I learned to deal with his emotions even if thought he was being dramatic. Safest ever place to be for my emotions. So miss aqua moon let her emotions fly in that space. He’d just say I love your passion 😂😂😂 well maybe a little sag fire too 😉.
Virgo moon here coupled with an alleged "ice golem" Cap moon. We understand each other perfectly. When there's a misunderstanding, we clear it right up when we sit down to talk about it.
The Virgo moon will listen upon explanation. Although sometimes his viewpoint is different. But much easier to work through. Of course I have learned how to respond instead of react, so the Virgo moon gets the benefit of that. It’s an actual conversation. Actually I did in the marriage with the Cap moon cuz I worked on myself, still wouldn’t have a conversation.
I've seen them cry over, in my eyes, very small things.
The one I'm was talking about was with a Gemini sun.
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Posted by TheTinMani think you dont love allll peoplePosted by looneymoonmaidenWhat's so unbelievable about it? I'm not a people lover. You think i love people?Posted by TheTinManlol dont believe that for one minutePosted by edgelordI'm cold and detached. But only to those I hate. Not my loved ones.
i made a thread not too long ago about aqua placements being emo. that's all they are to me. if they're cold and detached they're not that invested in you and probably don't give a flying fuck. funny to me when people are like ZOMG AQUA DETACHED!!!1 COLD!!!!1 UNFEELING!!!!!1
all i can think is "maybe if they actually cared about you?"
everyone has their "idgaf" face for people they're not invested in. it's just with aqua placements people get more butthurt about it.
carefull....thats sounds more logical
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Posted by Andalusiahahahhaahah THIS
Lmao. Aqua moon's are emo and loving. They can be a little loving in small increments. Or sometimes a medium amount loving in one large go.
Point is they have an empathy clock that resets every Chinese New Year. Once it runs out, your ass has to wait until next groundhogs day for it to start ticking again. Now, it can run out by Valentine's Day if you act a fool. Or you can milk it til Christmas if you play your cards right.
They can give a little bit a lot of times, or a lot only one or two times. But once it's gone, its gone. Until they recharge.

Posted by RooSagicornoh nooooooooooPosted by looneymoonmaidenlol! Yes I remember of course 🙂 ahh see always a reason!! Glad things are so much better. I’m a little frustrated with my Cap right now, but he has a lot going on. Just going with the flow, and taking care of me!! While he’s stress monger lol ( we just got back from vacation in Mexico.. it was fun but I don’t think he completely relaxed though )Posted by RooSagicornRoooooooooooosagi!!!!!!!!Posted by SeleukosYep lol. Cardinal vs Mutable for one, and Aries are so stubborn, it’s like an all about them viewpoint. I get along with him much better now, and I do see how much he cares in what he does. He would always be there for me, but then again emotions are not involved anymore too. We’ve been divorced 5 years.Posted by RooSagicornThe Aries sun might make it different.Posted by SeleukosNot this one. Only time I saw him cry was when his grandpa died. He keeps that way down deep. We have 2 kids together (well 22 & 17 now) even the kids have trouble with him because he acts like he doesn’t care, but I know he does. Oh he’s an Aries. You know how @queenaries acts all tough & isn’t letting anyone in. This is him. She’s also a Aries sun, cap moon.Posted by RooSagicornCan't agree with the Cap moon thing.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowCap moon is an iceberg. I was with him for 20 years and he would absolutely not listen. Anytime I tried to bring anything up, he thought it was an attack on him. Which it wasn’t, but the moment he saw emotions he shut off. I ended up shutting down my emotions for a long time to survive. Taurus moon - ah we were young. But clashed big time and he was too stubborn to listen. Volatile. He said I had BIG emotions.Posted by RooSagicornMaybe you're not doing a good job at explaining yourself.
I think earth moons are worse. They don’t want to be bothered with big emotions. I was married to a Taurus moon & to a Cap moon and am now with a Virgo moon 🙄
The Virgo moon actually listens the most of the 3, but seriously like they have no clue why I should be upset. I have done better with a cancer moon & a Pisces moon because they get emotions & can handle when the aqua moon emotions are finally released.. ( it’s not pretty btw) and well with the Pisces moon I learned to deal with his emotions even if thought he was being dramatic. Safest ever place to be for my emotions. So miss aqua moon let her emotions fly in that space. He’d just say I love your passion 😂😂😂 well maybe a little sag fire too 😉.
Virgo moon here coupled with an alleged "ice golem" Cap moon. We understand each other perfectly. When there's a misunderstanding, we clear it right up when we sit down to talk about it.
The Virgo moon will listen upon explanation. Although sometimes his viewpoint is different. But much easier to work through. Of course I have learned how to respond instead of react, so the Virgo moon gets the benefit of that. It’s an actual conversation. Actually I did in the marriage with the Cap moon cuz I worked on myself, still wouldn’t have a conversation.
I've seen them cry over, in my eyes, very small things.
The one I'm was talking about was with a Gemini sun.
That might have changed things a bit.
guess who it is—
😄
remember cancer woman who couldnt understand saggi— hahahahaha
and with the friends that just sucked...........lol
you were right!!
and he didnt care!
but a bull barged into my life and took over hahahaha
soooooooooo much better 😄
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Posted by LibraMudraSame! 😋Posted by AndalusiaLOL I heart u.
Lmao. Aqua moon's are emo and loving. They can be a little loving in small increments. Or sometimes a medium amount loving in one large go.
Point is they have an empathy clock that resets every Chinese New Year. Once it runs out, your ass has to wait until next groundhogs day for it to start ticking again. Now, it can run out by Valentine's Day if you act a fool. Or you can milk it til Christmas if you play your cards right.
They can give a little bit a lot of times, or a lot only one or two times. But once it's gone, its gone. Until they recharge.click to expand

Posted by RooSagicornKeep in mind the moon, while significant, is still one placement. The ego/sun is also important. And the Mercury/Mars which shows how they deal with negative aspects of life. My father was a Scorp sun/Cap moon and he absolutely sucked. Never admitted to doing wrong, always blamed everyone else for everything and he was just a toxic piece of shit. He died last October and I had no fucks to give.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowCap moon is an iceberg. I was with him for 20 years and he would absolutely not listen. Anytime I tried to bring anything up, he thought it was an attack on him. Which it wasn’t, but the moment he saw emotions he shut off. I ended up shutting down my emotions for a long time to survive. Taurus moon - ah we were young. But clashed big time and he was too stubborn to listen. Volatile. He said I had BIG emotions.Posted by RooSagicornMaybe you're not doing a good job at explaining yourself.
I think earth moons are worse. They don’t want to be bothered with big emotions. I was married to a Taurus moon & to a Cap moon and am now with a Virgo moon 🙄
The Virgo moon actually listens the most of the 3, but seriously like they have no clue why I should be upset. I have done better with a cancer moon & a Pisces moon because they get emotions & can handle when the aqua moon emotions are finally released.. ( it’s not pretty btw) and well with the Pisces moon I learned to deal with his emotions even if thought he was being dramatic. Safest ever place to be for my emotions. So miss aqua moon let her emotions fly in that space. He’d just say I love your passion 😂😂😂 well maybe a little sag fire too 😉.
Virgo moon here coupled with an alleged "ice golem" Cap moon. We understand each other perfectly. When there's a misunderstanding, we clear it right up when we sit down to talk about it.
The Virgo moon will listen upon explanation. Although sometimes his viewpoint is different. But much easier to work through. Of course I have learned how to respond instead of react, so the Virgo moon gets the benefit of that. It’s an actual conversation. Actually I did in the marriage with the Cap moon cuz I worked on myself, still wouldn’t have a conversation.click to expand

Posted by WaterbearerwearerPosted by ParkourlerParklour you went postal abit on AriesPosted by SassyKiwi
Cold, emotionless pieces of trash who nobody likes
Even my aqua and cap placements are warmer and mushy than your selfish, ice souls
It doesn't matter how cute and innocent you guys look, it ALL A LIE
Discuss the terrible aqua mooners from your life ty
Look, I sympathize, I had bad experiences with Aries people, but I dont generalize and call an entire signs
aggressive and inconsiderate or open a thread, saying fuck you aries moons you people are impulsive and
loud. I still think there are aries people that I will like.
Just wish them a good life, knowing that kharma will fuck them over.
Pot kettle muchclick to expand



Posted by RooSagicornOh I didn't know he was a Cap moon until later. It never occured to me he's an earth moon in the first place because he's so friendly & warm with everyone.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowYeah see the allowed you to explain is the part that makes it work. If you are not allowed to, and any sign of emotions brings about a wall, it makes it tough. It would’ve helped to know about astrology then. I would’ve understood more. Maybe found another way. But it’s history. Now it’s more about communicating for the purpose of coparenting. With my current boyfriend, it really works better. I think that it’s important to talk about things calmly. Then he is able to listen. Thank goodness I’ve learned to do that better🙂Posted by RooSagicornKeep in mind the moon, while significant, is still one placement. The ego/sun is also important. And the Mercury/Mars which shows how they deal with negative aspects of life. My father was a Scorp sun/Cap moon and he absolutely sucked. Never admitted to doing wrong, always blamed everyone else for everything and he was just a toxic piece of shit. He died last October and I had no fucks to give.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowCap moon is an iceberg. I was with him for 20 years and he would absolutely not listen. Anytime I tried to bring anything up, he thought it was an attack on him. Which it wasn’t, but the moment he saw emotions he shut off. I ended up shutting down my emotions for a long time to survive. Taurus moon - ah we were young. But clashed big time and he was too stubborn to listen. Volatile. He said I had BIG emotions.Posted by RooSagicornMaybe you're not doing a good job at explaining yourself.
I think earth moons are worse. They don’t want to be bothered with big emotions. I was married to a Taurus moon & to a Cap moon and am now with a Virgo moon 🙄
The Virgo moon actually listens the most of the 3, but seriously like they have no clue why I should be upset. I have done better with a cancer moon & a Pisces moon because they get emotions & can handle when the aqua moon emotions are finally released.. ( it’s not pretty btw) and well with the Pisces moon I learned to deal with his emotions even if thought he was being dramatic. Safest ever place to be for my emotions. So miss aqua moon let her emotions fly in that space. He’d just say I love your passion 😂😂😂 well maybe a little sag fire too 😉.
Virgo moon here coupled with an alleged "ice golem" Cap moon. We understand each other perfectly. When there's a misunderstanding, we clear it right up when we sit down to talk about it.
The Virgo moon will listen upon explanation. Although sometimes his viewpoint is different. But much easier to work through. Of course I have learned how to respond instead of react, so the Virgo moon gets the benefit of that. It’s an actual conversation. Actually I did in the marriage with the Cap moon cuz I worked on myself, still wouldn’t have a conversation.
On the other hand, my boy is a Leo sun cusper, with Leo Mercury/Venus and Scorp Mars. The fire combined with water makes him more receptive to emotional stimuli. Because fire and water are the elements which bring life into a chart, so he's more energetic and intense in that way. He feels a great deal and he has his Cap moon to take things down a notch or two so he can handle it.
I explain things to him in both a practical and emotional manner. I give him examples of other situations to help him understand better what I'm explaining. Like when he first told me he thinks he's falling in love with me, I laughed because I thought he was kidding. But he was offended and got pissed big time. He stormed right at the door but I stopped him from leaving in the nick of time. He was fuming but he allowed me to explain where that came from. I kept it clear & concise, I didn't digress or anything, just kept it specific and raw and explained fully how it made me feel and why.
In the end I made him cry. So much for iceberg Cap moons. I cried too. We do understand, we just have to make that mental & emotional connection to grasp the full scope.click to expand

Posted by SmidgeExplain 😜
@AerialView
The worst.


Posted by SmidgeHaha I knew it you can't cause it wasn't true 😜Posted by AerialViewNoPosted by SmidgeExplain 😜
@AerialView
The worst.click to expand


Posted by SmidgeI was sleep back then.Posted by AerialViewI was in the mood to tease you earlier but you took too long to replyPosted by SmidgeHaha I knew it you can't cause it wasn't true 😜Posted by AerialViewNoPosted by SmidgeExplain 😜
@AerialView
The worst.
I'm lazy now.
😂
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Posted by SmidgeNight🌛Posted by AerialViewWell, I'm asleep now, so... 😴😴Posted by SmidgeI was sleep back then.Posted by AerialViewI was in the mood to tease you earlier but you took too long to replyPosted by SmidgeHaha I knew it you can't cause it wasn't true 😜Posted by AerialViewNoPosted by SmidgeExplain 😜
@AerialView
The worst.
I'm lazy now.
😂
I'm an early bird!
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Posted by WaterbearerwearerNot talking to you twinsy 😑Posted by AerialViewMe?
Stop moaning you crazy ho!
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Posted by SassyKiwiI love those weirdos tho.Posted by HearttofTopazPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by HearttofTopaz
They are definitely difficult creatures until you get used to them. But why should we have to get used to them? Do they get used to us? To be continued...
Lol
EXACTLY. I attract them like crazy and can empathize with their nature regardless of their selfishness but they SUCK at getting themselves to see others' perspectives and remain stubborn about things being on their terms strictly and one can only give and give so much without receiving not the slightest understanding in return
My husband is an aqua moon and this is about the only thing we argue about. Lol “I’m emotional”..UMMM YAH, it’s necessary for survival.
By the time I hear what I wanted to hear from him, I’m already 10 miles down the road.
What are his placements? What are yours? How did you guys end up married? They definitely don't emotionally cater, they're like super awkward about it their entire lives, what weirdos
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Posted by WaterbearerwearerYou're crazy but not a ho 😂Posted by AerialViewPosted by WaterbearerwearerNot talking to you twinsy 😑Posted by AerialViewMe?
Stop moaning you crazy ho!
Why thank you
It's for the poster.
I fell into a temporary deep depression
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Posted by ellesbellesSounds like my parents lol
I'm not really a fan.
My father has one. His memory retention was annoying....unless it was when he forgot I was grounded. He was a Scorpio but completely void of any emotion the majority of the time. This was completely opposite of my pisces moon mother.....the contrast between them was confusing at times. It often made my mother look like she was nuts...lol.

Posted by ellesbellesLolPosted by Ram416my dad had my sister's name on my phone number in his phone. lolPosted by ellesbellesSounds like my parents lol
I'm not really a fan.
My father has one. His memory retention was annoying....unless it was when he forgot I was grounded. He was a Scorpio but completely void of any emotion the majority of the time. This was completely opposite of my pisces moon mother.....the contrast between them was confusing at times. It often made my mother look like she was nuts...lol.
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Posted by ellesbellesIs piss poor memory a scorp sun / aqua moon thing?
In fact, I think that's how I helped him remember his own birthday. LOL

Posted by AndalusiaNah. My dad was a Libra sun, so more of an Aqua moon thing. I know of at least 3 other Aqua moons who habitually forget birthdays.Posted by ellesbellesIs piss poor memory a scorp sun / aqua moon thing?
In fact, I think that's how I helped him remember his own birthday. LOL
I asked the Scorp when my birthday was and his response was "Virgo". Lol.click to expand


Posted by WaterbearerwearerBe a pimp and start cashing on them 💰Posted by AerialViewI know. It’s my Sag.... fkn nuts.Posted by WaterbearerwearerYou're crazy but not a ho 😂Posted by AerialViewPosted by WaterbearerwearerNot talking to you twinsy 😑Posted by AerialViewMe?
Stop moaning you crazy ho!
Why thank you
It's for the poster.
I fell into a temporary deep depression
Phew
Not a ho. I know hoes and they are usually Libra. I love them tho so what does that say about me? 🎃click to expand

Posted by WaterbearerwearerAttack? I dont insult people? I dont tell anybody to fuck off or call them trash.Posted by ParkourlerPosted by WaterbearerwearerPosted by ParkourlerParklour you went postal abit on AriesPosted by SassyKiwi
Cold, emotionless pieces of trash who nobody likes
Even my aqua and cap placements are warmer and mushy than your selfish, ice souls
It doesn't matter how cute and innocent you guys look, it ALL A LIE
Discuss the terrible aqua mooners from your life ty
Look, I sympathize, I had bad experiences with Aries people, but I dont generalize and call an entire signs
aggressive and inconsiderate or open a thread, saying fuck you aries moons you people are impulsive and
loud. I still think there are aries people that I will like.
Just wish them a good life, knowing that kharma will fuck them over.
Pot kettle much
No I disagree with you, pot kettle much my ass.
I have no Idea, what postal abit means. I never attacked Aries, I stated in precise Terms which behavior patterns I dont like.´, thats called criticizing and or venting. That doesnt equal, hating,insulting, attacking. But I dont expect anybody to make that distinction here, so keep on thinking pot kettle much. I never insulted them, I never called them trash or told them to fuck themselves. I have never been that rude to them.
Dude you’re not cool calm Taurus you masquerade yourself to be.
This is a perfect example
Your principal ego defence is Attack
Calm your tits bruh you don’t have what it takes to argue with me.
Anyone who has no idea about pot kettle has lived under a fkn rock their whole life.
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Posted by SeleukosYou are so right here.Posted by SassyKiwiAqua sun with a Sag moon that conjuncts a Cap Uranus.Posted by SeleukosPosted by SassyKiwiYou just need good arguments that aren't based on emotions.Posted by SeleukosPosted by SassyKiwiIf you experience that you are doing something wrong.
Emotionally inept creatures
Oh I know they can be softies when they want but God in general they're so difficult, it takes a very strong and patient person to truly put up with them, esp their stubbornness and know-it-all attitude which can remain extremely fixed until something life altering
If you are discussing emotions with them explain the how and why of your feelings and you should be good.
What are you
An aqua sun or moon?
I used to be very cold and emotionless myself and have aqua placements so I know about that but then my hades moon and all my hard aspects to moon caught up plus my progressed moon is in fucking cancer and so now I'm a big ball of wussy fluff *sobs* I recently discovered whenever I PMS I get super emotional and irrational and start lashing out at him over the stupidest stuff that I otherwise wouldn't and that doesn't work well with an aqua mooner bc they're like WTF why are you so not normal whenever you're not near me. It doesn't make sense to them. It's not mee it's the hormones, but he has high expectations of me to be smarter than that LOL.. and idk how tf you break that down to an aqua mooner because they just can't emphathize they're just poopies
So I have also a lot of Aqua moon traits while being a bit warmer, if needed and I'm willing.
Break it down into a logical chain.
Explain to him what triggered a emotional reaction in you and list possible reasons.
This should help you as well as him as it gives you a better understanding for yourself.
Most triggers seem arbitrary until you look deeper. Or just you didn't eat enough.
No one can feel what another person feels. The only way is to relate and for that we need information to which we can adjust.click to expand

Posted by TheTinManPosted by sierra_I wouldn't let my comment get to you like that if that clinginess doesn't pertain to you. I see on your tagline you're a Pisces moon. Not all Pisces moons are all that clingy.Posted by TheTinManshut up
Sometimes I wish I had an aqua moon lady in my life. Imagine the two of us being detached and not cling on to one another. Life would be good. I just had to be stuck with a clingy Pisces moon. Always wanting to know every damn thing from where I'm going to who that was you was talking to.
And why you givin up on aqua moons?
You guys make us out to be bad guys or something. Ain't nothing wrong with detaching yourself to get away for awhile. All aqua moons need is their space.
And I can't speak for the aqua moons as for being cold I personally feel that I have that right to be a cold solid mutha fukka because people make me wanna be cold towards them. Sorry to say that but that's the way I feel about that.
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Posted by xoxfluteBy not giving birth, getting married, having any deaths in the family, etc.Posted by AndalusiaHow do one go about milking it? 🤔
Lmao. Aqua moon's are emo and loving. They can be a little loving in small increments. Or sometimes a medium amount loving in one large go.
Point is they have an empathy clock that resets every Chinese New Year. Once it runs out, your ass has to wait until next groundhogs day for it to start ticking again. Now, it can run out by Valentine's Day if you act a fool. Or you can milk it til Christmas if you play your cards right.
They can give a little bit a lot of times, or a lot only one or two times. But once it's gone, its gone. Until they recharge.click to expand


Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosYou are so right here.Posted by SassyKiwiAqua sun with a Sag moon that conjuncts a Cap Uranus.Posted by SeleukosPosted by SassyKiwiYou just need good arguments that aren't based on emotions.Posted by SeleukosPosted by SassyKiwiIf you experience that you are doing something wrong.
Emotionally inept creatures
Oh I know they can be softies when they want but God in general they're so difficult, it takes a very strong and patient person to truly put up with them, esp their stubbornness and know-it-all attitude which can remain extremely fixed until something life altering
If you are discussing emotions with them explain the how and why of your feelings and you should be good.
What are you
An aqua sun or moon?
I used to be very cold and emotionless myself and have aqua placements so I know about that but then my hades moon and all my hard aspects to moon caught up plus my progressed moon is in fucking cancer and so now I'm a big ball of wussy fluff *sobs* I recently discovered whenever I PMS I get super emotional and irrational and start lashing out at him over the stupidest stuff that I otherwise wouldn't and that doesn't work well with an aqua mooner bc they're like WTF why are you so not normal whenever you're not near me. It doesn't make sense to them. It's not mee it's the hormones, but he has high expectations of me to be smarter than that LOL.. and idk how tf you break that down to an aqua mooner because they just can't emphathize they're just poopies
So I have also a lot of Aqua moon traits while being a bit warmer, if needed and I'm willing.
Break it down into a logical chain.
Explain to him what triggered a emotional reaction in you and list possible reasons.
This should help you as well as him as it gives you a better understanding for yourself.
Most triggers seem arbitrary until you look deeper. Or just you didn't eat enough.
No one can feel what another person feels. The only way is to relate and for that we need information to which we can adjust.
I found this is the only way to do it in a relationship for me to feel understood.
Every time I get emotional I just explain the reason behind and examples of situations so my partner can understand it.
But I know some people that can not put words into the emotions they are feeling, so it’s not so easy for them to see it logically and to be able to explain it. Specially when they are feeling very emotional about something.
In that case they could use art as references.
Movie scene x reminds me of what I'm feeling/have felt.
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Posted by edgelord
i made a thread not too long ago about aqua placements being emo. that's all they are to me. if they're cold and detached they're not that invested in you and probably don't give a flying fuck. funny to me when people are like ZOMG AQUA DETACHED!!!1 COLD!!!!1 UNFEELING!!!!!1
all i can think is "maybe if they actually cared about you?"
everyone has their "idgaf" face for people they're not invested in. it's just with aqua placements people get more butthurt about it.
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Even my aqua and cap placements are warmer and mushy than your selfish, ice souls
It doesn't matter how cute and innocent you guys look, it ALL A LIE
Discuss the terrible aqua mooners from your life ty