Do Pisces always stay friends with their ex?

Met this guy a few weeks go, we've been on dates and he added me onto Facebook right away.

I saw him kissing a girl on the street the other day and had a talk with him on the phone afterwards. He said that is his ex girlfriend. He broke up with her because he can't see himself being married to her.

He admitted he still sees her regularly as platonic friends. She was really dressed up and they were obviously on a dinner date... Platonic friends don't kiss each other ther on the lips...

When I'm done with a person I swim away and cut all ties. I can't be friends with my ex's.

He's lying to you about who she is. Don't be upset about finding out your not the only chick he's seeing, your not in a monogamous relationship with him. DO be upset that he lied to you in order to have his cake AND eat it too.

My ex broke up with me and never stopped contacting me, he still do me favors, take me out to dinner and calling it a date. He still take me to his sports. I needed something last week and told him I couldn't find it online. He bought it somewhere and had it express posted to him. He brought it to me as a surprise. He also said he never stopped wanting to be with me, recently he suggest we can date other people yet he is making plans with me.

Have a read on my post if you want. All I can say is Pisces man don't know what they want, you need to know what you want and not get drown by his emotions. Since you are not exclusive I guess it's not a big deal at this stage.

Posted by OceanBoy88
I don't. I sever all ties. Remove numbers, block on social media, dump out all souvenirs, and excommunicate them. @LadyNeptune is pretty on point on what we do.

My ex has same moon as you do, I thought it was his Gemini moon makes him kept talking to me and taking me out?the opposite of your attitude when it comes to cutting ties? I'm curious about your other placement?

he has Pisces mercury, Aquariuss venus, Scorpio rising and mars

Posted by Poppyseeds
My ex broke up with me and never stopped contacting me.

He didn't break up with you, y'all are still dating. He just downgraded your relationship from boyfriend/girlfriend to just dating so that he can fuck other chicks.

If he was truly done with you I doubt you'd see him again.

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My ex broke up with me and never stopped contacting me.

He didn't break up with you, y'all are still dating. He just downgraded your relationship from boyfriend/girlfriend to just dating so that he can fuck other chicks.

If he was truly done with you I doubt you'd see him again.

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Could that me my situation? I'm just his rebound girl while he is dating his ex?

Posted by Illuminati
Met this guy a few weeks go, we've been on dates and he added me onto Facebook right away.

I saw him kissing a girl on the street the other day and had a talk with him on the phone afterwards. He said that is his ex girlfriend. He broke up with her because he can't see himself being married to her.

He admitted he still sees her regularly as platonic friends. She was really dressed up and they were obviously on a dinner date... Platonic friends don't kiss each other there on the lips...

My Pisces guy friend isn't friends with his ex gf at all. He was with her for like 15yrs, he cut all ties. She is on his Facebook page but he thinks it's weird when she messages him out of the blue b/c she has a serious boyfriend.

Posted by OceanBoy88
I don't. I sever all ties. Remove numbers, block on social media, dump out all souvenirs, and excommunicate them. @LadyNeptune is pretty on point on what we do.

Oh yes, my guy friend even threw away all their pictures and everything. I thought that was so strange, he did that with all of his exes. We talked about this one day and I just couldn't believe it. lol I have stuff from my exes.

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My ex broke up with me and never stopped contacting me.

He didn't break up with you, y'all are still dating. He just downgraded your relationship from boyfriend/girlfriend to just dating so that he can fuck other chicks.

If he was truly done with you I doubt you'd see him again.

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That is the confusing part, and got those 2 women abusing me and putting me down on the other post.

Anyway I know this is not the situation I want, I just can't fathom why would a guy do this? Apart from sex what benefit does it give him? He should know that the moment he tells me its ok for me to date other guys who can give me commitment he will lose me. Besides to "maintain" things with me he is spending time and resources on me. He could be spending it on other chicks that he is going to fuck?

I'm not disagreeing with your point, simply trying to understand what is going on in his fish head

Posted by OceanBoy88
It sounds like he just doesn't want a steady relationship and just want casual sex tbh. He just wants variety maybe? Besides the point that he's a Pisces, he could just be a thirsty dog not looking for a steady girl

Sounds that way, why doesn't he just go away? that's what I can't understand.

I remember at 4 months mark I sensed something was wrong and I wanted to call it off, he was crying and telling me he is so attached to me and such.. I didn't ended up leaving then he left me at 6 months.. and now here we are.. but he is not getting any sex from me. All he does is taking me out to dinner or to his sports.

Pisces doesn't sound like very good boyfriend material at all

Posted by OceanBoy88
It sounds like he just doesn't want a steady relationship and just want casual sex tbh. He just wants variety maybe? Besides the point that he's a Pisces, he could just be a thirsty dog not looking for a steady girl

Talking about variety I suspected he is this way from his chart and his attitude towards food. I can eat the same thing over and over again as long as it's good for my health. He often say I can't eat the same thing for 2 days.

No offence when looking at your chart I thought your attitude and his would be swap. Aries Venus love challenge and conquest. Perhaps I got it all wrong with chart reading.

Posted by OceanBoy88
It sounds like he just doesn't want a steady relationship and just want casual sex tbh. He just wants variety maybe? Besides the point that he's a Pisces, he could just be a thirsty dog not looking for a steady girl

Talking about variety I suspected he is this way from his chart and his attitude towards food. I can eat the same thing over and over again as long as it's good for my health. He often say I can't eat the same thing for 2 days.

No offence when looking at your chart I thought your attitude and his would be swap. Aries Venus love challenge and conquest. Perhaps I got it all wrong with chart reading.

What's good for goose is good for the gander. I'm a free agent at this point

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It sounds like he just doesn't want a steady relationship and just want casual sex tbh. He just wants variety maybe? Besides the point that he's a Pisces, he could just be a thirsty dog not looking for a steady girl

Talking about variety I suspected he is this way from his chart and his attitude towards food. I can eat the same thing over and over again as long as it's good for my health. He often say I can't eat the same thing for 2 days.

No offence when looking at your chart I thought your attitude and his would be swap. Aries Venus love challenge and conquest. Perhaps I got it all wrong with chart reading.

I'm not really sure why he wouldn't call it off. As for Aries Venus loving conquest, I can agree that's my take on building a relationship. I tend to get fixed on a girl and I try to win her heart. Took me 3 years to win the last girl I was in a relationship with. No offense taken by the way. Personally i find much more satisfaction and stimulation in steady relationships. Does he have a Venus in Aries too? Speaking of Aries, 2 of my friends are Aries Sun. Those two guys are the most unfaithful bastards I've ever met. One is married and poking around and the other has 3 kids from two ladies and still poking around. I told the one with kids he should at least get a vasectomy.

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He has Aquarius Venus. I know some women might slam me here for saying he is a commitment phobe, it is his phobia that makes him cannot commit to me yet can't commit to his decision about without me. He purchase a self help book for that, after 1 chapter he has now at least leanr he is emotionally unstable, and that he is not ready for relationship. Not sure if he will keep reading.

I've been with Aries Sun guys they were all players. One tried so hard to win me over by taking me to his entire family to prove that he is serious with his intention. As soon as he got hat he want he dumped me. That guy surely was into conquest.

Reminds me of the Leo's Pisces buddy. He is afraid of being abandoned and has commitment issues so all he wants is a fwb situation. But, he goes out with girls who are under the impression that it's like any other normal relationship. Then he freaks out when one of them drops the 'L' word.
Some people don't know what they want and can't commit.

As for the other topic, I also get rid of all my ex's things. Anything they bought for me, anything they left over my place. I've only kept some fb pictures from events like prom.

Posted by OceanBoy88
You should probably give him space. I mean real space, become unavailable and let him make a solid adult decision. He can't miss you if he can see you whenever he wants. You should take the first step. Let him contemplate. Don't pick up the phone. Hell don't even let him know what happened just that you need time to think. After some good time if he becomes mature and you know for a fact that he can commit then u should weigh it out and decide what next. What you consider "good time" is up to you. Im very slow and have the most fun learning, sharing, and just communicating with a woman that really really pokes my interest. Right now, he's extremely unstable and volatile for you. Don't build into it now or you'll just have your heart torn apart. Pisces are very loyal and caring. After they have evolved and made a pure connection with you.

Thanks that's what I planned on doing, however my plan was slightly different to yours, I plan on doing this after vday as I feel bad to do this right before the holiday. Also I was thinking of calling him out on this and tell him I can't do this anymore as him telling me to date others indicates he no longer feel the same way as the day he purchase the book, also im happy to be supportive while he work on it, but I'm not comfrotable if he starts seeing others. So I will can't do this anymore..

also I don't have the heart to just disappear on him. As a Pisces man with Gemini moon what do you think of my plan?

PS. sorry OP for hijacking your post. I hope it's still relevant as your guy is a pisces who is also seeing his ex

Posted by OceanBoy88
@Poppyseeds wow I thought this was your post!! Lol! So hes a Gem moon too? Guess hes my other twin! But yes there are differences in yours compared to mines and I feel your plan is a great plan. It's probably most important you call him out on it too otherwise he'll keep doing it. If not for your sake then for at least the next unlucky girl. As for when? When really wouldn't matter in respect to v day. From what it sounds like, if u do it after vday he might be with u vs before vday he might be with someone else on vday . That's very considerate of you that your not gonna up and take a vacation from him. It's just how I handled stress. Time off with my form of meditation. Also, any man that insists you keep your options open and date others means 2 things. Either he doesn't want you but is being passive OR you are not number 1 on his list if he dates multiple women at once. I told a girl to keep all her options open because I wasnt interested.

I guess it has became mine now, as OP hasn't complain, she is either over it and stopped reading or she is learning from our convo. LOL

If he was telling the truth he is not seeing anyone at the moment. He is also into meditation like you do, He has Pisces mercury, Aquarius Venus, Scorpio rising and mars.

it's painful being the dumpee, what's more painful is being left and find out you are not worth an explanation. No way I could do that to anyone.

His reason was he doesn't want to hold me back, but I know if he ever finds out I'm on a date it would hurt him. cos I was just talking to his teammate, and he wasn't happy, he quickly find ways to send his mate somewhere else and he kiss me to mark the territory. Only he knows the real intention, As he admit he is emotionally unstable.

I see poppyseeds is making another thread about her, and her inability to decide her life for herself, so she puts all responsibility onto him.

Posted by Illuminati

Met this guy a few weeks go ....

I saw him kissing a girl .... and had a talk with him on the phone .....

Considering you two barely know each other, having only just met and only been on a couple dates ..... you sure are having unrealistic expectations on him.

You are out of line, he isn't obligated to you, and doesn't owe you any explanations.

You had no business drawing him into a discussion to talk about his actions.

You will fail with any Pisces you attempt to have a relationship with .... because the Fish simply won't put up with a person like you, who is intrusive and who doesn't know boundaries.

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Met this guy a few weeks go ....

I saw him kissing a girl .... and had a talk with him on the phone .....

Considering you two barely know each other, having only just met and only been on a couple dates ..... you sure are having unrealistic expectations on him.

You are out of line, he isn't obligated to you, and doesn't owe you any explanations.

You had no business drawing him into a discussion to talk about his actions.

You will fail with any Pisces you attempt to have a relationship with .... because the Fish simply won't put up with a person like you, who is intrusive and who doesn't know boundaries.

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You are one angry old woman. it was a fair question to ask. If he is already taken I don't want to be part of it.

Past waters does not move windmills.

Posted by Goldfish
Past waters does not move windmills.

The majority says no here.

I'm not that keen on him, simply asking out of fascination of astrology.

Just a little update he is meeting his ex again next Sunday - Valentine's Day. He might as well just get back with her -.-

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Just a little update he is meeting his ex again next Sunday - Valentine's Day. He might as well just get back with her

Oh, poor you ... you are so desperate to be noticed and wanted that you are stalking a boy you just met.

And it's obvious in this sentence, "he might as well just get back with her" .... that you are wreathing in jealousy. because after all, what difference does it make to you who is with, or hanging around?

You don't even know him ... and here you are expressing resentment toward him for no apparent reason.

He's dodged a bullet with you, I believe ...... because you cannot even manage to have happy thoughts for a friend you just met.

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Just a little update he is meeting his ex again next Sunday - Valentine's Day. He might as well just get back with her

Oh, poor you ... you are so desperate to be noticed and wanted that you are stalking a boy you just met.

And it's obvious in this sentence, "he might as well just get back with her" .... that you are wreathing in jealousy. because after all, what difference does it make to you who is with, or hanging around?

You don't even know him ... and here you are expressing resentment toward him for no apparent reason.

He's dodged a bullet with you, I believe ...... because you cannot even manage to have happy thoughts for a friend you just met.

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Keep making up scenario old hag

He is very responsive towards my comments on his posts and he uses lots of smileys when replying to my comments.

I noticed he ignored his ex's comment the other day.

What's the point in still seeing her? he is paying me way more attention on Facebook than to her

Posted by Illuminati
He is very responsive towards my comments on his posts and he uses lots of smileys when replying to my comments.

I noticed he ignored his ex's comment the other day.

What's the point in still seeing her? he is paying me way more attention on Facebook than to her

He's paying more attention to you on Facebook versus real life? How is that a good thing? Which is more important?
Anyone can say sweet words and not mean anything by it, you should use your judgement based off of actions and words? They don't add up.

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He is very responsive towards my comments on his posts and he uses lots of smileys when replying to my comments.

I noticed he ignored his ex's comment the other day.

What's the point in still seeing her? he is paying me way more attention on Facebook than to her

He's paying more attention to you on Facebook versus real life? How is that a good thing? Which is more important?
Anyone can say sweet words and not mean anything by it, you should use your judgement based off of actions and words? They don't add up.

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Can't agree more, why ignoring her on Facebook if he sees her in real life?

Posted by SeaGoddess
Haha omg the fuckery he lied to you. I don't kiss my exes when I make them friends. And the majority of the time I prefer you stay the hell away from me rather things ended badly or not.

His status on Facebook is single. I looked her up afterwards and found stuff she posted and pretty sure that's his ex

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Haha omg the fuckery he lied to you. I don't kiss my exes when I make them friends. And the majority of the time I prefer you stay the hell away from me rather things ended badly or not.

His status on Facebook is single. I looked her up afterwards and found stuff she posted and pretty sure that's his ex

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Haha omg the fuckery he lied to you. I don't kiss my exes when I make them friends. And the majority of the time I prefer you stay the hell away from me rather things ended badly or not.

His status on Facebook is single. I looked her up afterwards and found stuff she posted and pretty sure that's his ex

Ehh I don't do the whole fb status thing. Honestly its just not for me.
He's kissing his ex that would be good enough for me not to entertain his ass . I don't see me marrying her isn't the same as in not fucking her still

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That's why I don't understand most guys would hide their FWB in private, he takes her out on dinner dates. From what she was wearing I'm guessing it was a nice place.

I'm seeing others as well. I bet if they are still dating she would be hurt to see all of our back and forward comments on his wall

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Haha omg the fuckery he lied to you. I don't kiss my exes when I make them friends. And the majority of the time I prefer you stay the hell away from me rather things ended badly or not.

His status on Facebook is single. I looked her up afterwards and found stuff she posted and pretty sure that's his ex

Ehh I don't do the whole fb status thing. Honestly its just not for me.
He's kissing his ex that would be good enough for me not to entertain his ass . I don't see me marrying her isn't the same as in not fucking her still

That's why I don't understand most guys would hide their FWB in private, he takes her out on dinner dates. From what she was wearing I'm guessing it was a nice place.

I'm seeing others as well. I bet if they are still dating she would be hurt to see all of our back and forward comments on his wall

Also I don't think she falls under the category as friends with benefits. They definitely still have a thing he's just wondering if the grass is greener some where else.

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How dumb his "ex" is to allow him to do such thing!?? Or is it true that Pisces man are that manipulative?

Doesn't my comments and his spells red flags to her?

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Haha omg the fuckery he lied to you. I don't kiss my exes when I make them friends. And the majority of the time I prefer you stay the hell away from me rather things ended badly or not.

His status on Facebook is single. I looked her up afterwards and found stuff she posted and pretty sure that's his ex

Ehh I don't do the whole fb status thing. Honestly its just not for me.
He's kissing his ex that would be good enough for me not to entertain his ass . I don't see me marrying her isn't the same as in not fucking her still

That's why I don't understand most guys would hide their FWB in private, he takes her out on dinner dates. From what she was wearing I'm guessing it was a nice place.

I'm seeing others as well. I bet if they are still dating she would be hurt to see all of our back and forward comments on his wall

Also I don't think she falls under the category as friends with benefits. They definitely still have a thing he's just wondering if the grass is greener some where else.

How dumb his "ex" is to allow him to do such thing!?? Or is it true that Pisces man are that manipulative?

Doesn't my comments and his spells red flags to her?

She probably can't see them dear you can hide individual post on fb now.

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I gotcha. I only thinks she can as she commented on a different post and get ignored. I'm not interested in him but good to learn about Pisces you never know I might get serious with anothe Pisces in the future

@seagoddess what's the major difference between male and female Pisces? The male sounds pretty lame haha

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@seagoddess what's the major difference between male and female Pisces? The male sounds pretty lame haha

Haha! I think it's a man thing honestly men aren't mature as it is , and pisces tends to dream alot so I think that makes for a bad combo. Peter pan if you will
But I honestly don't have a lot of experience with the men if this sign I myself thing I'm completely different from a lot of pisces when it comes to it

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Haha Peter Pan syndrome!

Things just got even better. He text me saying I'm just not ready for relationship now if I was ready you are the one in committing to.

I replied is that meant for your ex? No reply

@seagoddess he is already on blocked list on my phone. Nothing will ever come through.

Looks like we got the answer of why his ex is allowing all these.. Dreams and hopes

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@seagoddess he is already on blocked list on my phone. Nothing will ever come through.

Looks like we got the answer of why his ex is allowing all these.. Dreams and hopes

Ugh I hate fake ass men. At least it was now and not later dear

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I was never serious with him, leave him for his "ex" to deal with. I wonder if I should tell her anything or let her find out herself

@seagoddess Good intention might not be appreiciated. Bet he is shitting bricks now hoping I won't forward the message to anyone lol

Posted by Illuminati
Met this guy a few weeks go, we've been on dates and he added me onto Facebook right away.

I saw him kissing a girl on the street the other day and had a talk with him on the phone afterwards. He said that is his ex girlfriend. He broke up with her because he can't see himself being married to her.

He admitted he still sees her regularly as platonic friends. She was really dressed up and they were obviously on a dinner date... Platonic friends don't kiss each other ther on the lips...

These do not look like good signs OP. What is your question?

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@seagoddess what's the major difference between male and female Pisces? The male sounds pretty lame haha

Haha! I think it's a man thing honestly men aren't mature as it is , and pisces tends to dream alot so I think that makes for a bad combo. Peter pan if you will
But I honestly don't have a lot of experience with the men if this sign I myself thing I'm completely different from a lot of pisces when it comes to it

Haha Peter Pan syndrome!

Things just got even better. He text me saying I'm just not ready for relationship now if I was ready you are the one in committing to.

I replied is that meant for your ex? No reply

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That's really messed up, lucky you never had all eggs in one basket.

Posted by MysteriousPresence
For me, it depends on how we split up. If it was a mutual break up, then possibly I would stay friends with her. If she did something like cheat on me, then she would be an enemy.

Can you define friends? Do you take her out regularly and still be affectionate like kissing and holding hands?

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For me, it depends on how we split up. If it was a mutual break up, then possibly I would stay friends with her. If she did something like cheat on me, then she would be an enemy.

Can you define friends? Do you take her out regularly and still be affectionate like kissing and holding hands?

No. Friends as in chatting via Facebook or WhatsApp, but nothing more. If I was single, then perhaps meeting up for coffee. I'm engaged now so I don't chat to any of my exes.

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Good for you, you are a good man for setting the right boundaries.

I only ask as I'm dating my ex again and in a confusing situation.

from my personal experience, yes they do. Once you make a mark in their heart, they want it to be forever,even if it means staying as friends.

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from my personal experience, yes they do. Once you make a mark in their heart, they want it to be forever,even if it means staying as friends.

What if they continue to date you and you are not in official relationship?

Do they test you? like telling you it's ok to date other men?

No they would never advice you to date other men, Pisces are very insecure, they would do all sorts of things to test if there is another man in your life.

Yes, they do test a whole lot. They only statrt testing if they start developing serious feelings towards you. But then again, they are insecurities drives them to do unthinkable things that may drive you far away from them.

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No they would never advice you to date other men, Pisces are very insecure, they would do all sorts of things to test if there is another man in your life.

Yes, they do test a whole lot. They only statrt testing if they start developing serious feelings towards you. But then again, they are insecurities drives them to do unthinkable things that may drive you far away from them.

Yes he is insecure, some of the examples are when his sports teammates talk to me he would never show jeaousy, but you will see him start marking territoty like kissing me on my lips or simply sub that person out from the bench to stop them from talkiong to me.

I'd love too.

The best party I could imagine is one in which all my exes (and their partners) are present. It would be like being comfronted with my past and realizing how much I have evolved. It would be like I've lost a variant of myself with each one of them, and now I feel complete. It would be intersting and exciting. It will never happen though, since my exes are in 4 different countries.

Since I genuinely liked those people, I will always like them, unless they've radically changed. I could never fall in love with someone I don't like A LOT. Even if the break up was difficult and unwanted, the reasons why I liked them in the first instance often remain intact.

Becoming friends with my most recent ex is on my to do list. To achieve it, I have put my name down for an allotment, at the same place he's got one. I reallly liked that place as well, and it may take up to two years for my name to come top of the list. By then, all I will remember about my ex will be the frienship we once shared.

@undine That guy was playing me and his ex. He still dates her and tells her he is just not ready for relationship, if he was ready she is the one he will commit to.