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P-Angel
Is P-Angel Still Alive or Has She Passed Away
There is no confirmed public information about P-Angel's current status. Her last activity was over two months ago, which has led to speculation about her health or passing. For accurate updates, consider reaching out through known channels or official sources related to her.
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I was wondering too
Woke up about two weeks ago in a teary state -had dreamed P-Angel passed and was regretting not having the chance to really say goodbye 😕
... not sure what to think, several peeps no longer on here have asked after her and unfortunately had no news to pass on :/
i hope she's ok. There's alot going on too. Even before the tragedies, there were the hurricanes. it's tragedy one after another.
people do care, they want to know i'm sure of it. there's just so much going on. not only our personal lives but worldwide too.
she gave you all, all the informations that you needed to know.
She was none of your friend or family so act like you must
Posted by lisabethur8
i hope she's ok. There's alot going on too. Even before the tragedies, there were the hurricanes. it's tragedy one after another.people do care, they want to know i'm sure of it. there's just so much going on. not only our personal lives but worldwide too.
You mean you hope she's ok, like she's dying in cancer but she's actually a vampire so she's gonna be ok at the same time?
Posted by Oak
Been thinking about her.
Me too
It's a horrible way to pass.....my dad and sister passed away within 6 weeks of each other with cancer...so sad to see
I so feel for the family she will leave behind, especially her son
😢
Posted by lisabethur8
i hope she's ok. There's alot going on too. Even before the tragedies, there were the hurricanes. it's tragedy one after another.people do care, they want to know i'm sure of it. there's just so much going on. not only our personal lives but worldwide too.
You mean you hope she's ok, like she's dying in cancer but she's actually a vampire so she's gonna be ok at the same time?
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we have had family members who passed away from cancer and friends of family too,
and it's the most horrible. it's a very slow death. unless chemo can help, there's not much to do but hope for a peaceful journey. with loved ones by your side, taking care of you.
Posted by GC02
I wish we knew how she is doing, but at the same time if she’s still around I don’t blame her if she wouldn’t want to spend some of her last moments on here.
better with people she loves and loves her alot.
Posted by GC02
I wish we knew how she is doing, but at the same time if she’s still around I don’t blame her if she wouldn’t want to spend some of her last moments on here.better with people she loves and loves her alot.
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Yeah....also when really ill even concentrating on movies and stuff for any length of time can be hard ...
In the end ..family and friends are the only stuff that matters.
Anyone know what state she lives in?
I thought Virginia..
It was close to James Madison... I also though her mentioning that she worked there..
My memory is obviously horrible...
Along with my grammar..
Posted by lisabethur8
i hope she's ok. There's alot going on too. Even before the tragedies, there were the hurricanes. it's tragedy one after another.people do care, they want to know i'm sure of it. there's just so much going on. not only our personal lives but worldwide too.
You always say the most awkwardly irrelevant shit
Omg that was 23 days ago? I'm shitfaced . Sorry
I say let the dead be dead. A stone doesn't want your sadness or remorse. A stone just wants to be remembered for the legacy it represents.
Come back P-angel, wherever you are.
Posted by Soul
I say let the dead be dead. A stone doesn't want your sadness or remorse. A stone just wants to be remembered for the legacy it represents.This kinda reminds me of a poem. Have you ever heard of this?
I want this to be written on my stone when i'm gone...
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.
by Mary Elizabeth Frye
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I have not, but I love this. Thanks for sharing!
Posted by enfant_terrible
Omg that was 23 days ago? I'm shitfaced . SorryStill right though lol
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A couple of bottles of 10,5% truth serum will do that lol
No idea, I had to block her. She would ram her misunderstanding down my throat and try to convince me she had "seen right through me" It was rather frustrating when I was actually trying to get feedback in a much different manner for much different reasons (I like psychology) Maybe she is finally an angel. I hope!
Posted by LibraLovesHim
No idea, I had to block her. She would ram her misunderstanding down my throat and try to convince me she had "seen right through me" It was rather frustrating when I was actually trying to get feedback in a much different manner for much different reasons (I like psychology) Maybe she is finally an angel. I hope!
She'll probably come back as an Aries lol
any update?
Posted by jeane
any update?
Headshots will get it done.
PS: and before anyone jumps down my throat for being ZOMG INSENSITIVE PRICK, let me remind you that someone does not automatically become a better person in death than they were in life. Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity, and her true colors shone crystal clear. She was a toxic bitch, nothing more nothing less.
Having said that, Lord, don't think too badly of her.
Oooooooooooooooooooo.......
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Posted by jeane
any update?
Headshots will get it done.
PS: and before anyone jumps down my throat for being ZOMG INSENSITIVE PRICK, let me remind you that someone does not automatically become a better person in death than they were in life. Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity, and her true colors shone crystal clear. She was a toxic bitch, nothing more nothing less.
Having said that, Lord, don't think too badly of her.
Oooooooooooooooooooo.......
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Is this something you know or just something you hope for?
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by jeane
any update?
Headshots will get it done.
PS: and before anyone jumps down my throat for being ZOMG INSENSITIVE PRICK, let me remind you that someone does not automatically become a better person in death than they were in life. Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity, and her true colors shone crystal clear. She was a toxic bitch, nothing more nothing less.
Having said that, Lord, don't think too badly of her.
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Is this something you know or just something you hope for?
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Neither. I don't wish death on people. But I won't treat a bitch like Mother Theresa just because she's dead or dying.
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Posted by jeane
any update?
Headshots will get it done.
PS: and before anyone jumps down my throat for being ZOMG INSENSITIVE PRICK, let me remind you that someone does not automatically become a better person in death than they were in life. Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity, and her true colors shone crystal clear. She was a toxic bitch, nothing more nothing less.
Having said that, Lord, don't think too badly of her.
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Your insensitive clarification doesn’t change the fact you could have simply refrained from posting. Like muscles to frown, it takes more effort to be a dick than to not be.
I was just wondering too... Not sure why she was so angry with everyone.. Probably bc she was angry about dying. Rip p-angel. Cancer is the devil.
Posted by xBruceCampbellx
P has most likely passed. I remember her saying the doctors told her it would be a miracle for her to make it to the holidays. If she were still alive, she would have posted by now. I believe the last post she made was her coming to say goodbye.I'm sure she fought the good fight.
Very sad 😞
Cancer is a horrible disease...I wouldn't wish it on anyone
I hope she finds peace now
❤️
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by jeane
any update?
Headshots will get it done.
PS: and before anyone jumps down my throat for being ZOMG INSENSITIVE PRICK, let me remind you that someone does not automatically become a better person in death than they were in life. Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity, and her true colors shone crystal clear. She was a toxic bitch, nothing more nothing less.
Having said that, Lord, don't think too badly of her.
Oooooooooooooooooooo.......
Your insensitive clarification doesn’t change the fact you could have simply refrained from posting. Like muscles to frown, it takes more effort to be a dick than to not be.
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Yes
I am always shocked at the hate people harbour in themselves and then send it out to others, it always comes from a place of their own pain.........even so.......
Last night I read something in a lovely book where a woman faced aggression from other drivers....she said she didn't retaliate but decided to not join them in their rage
The last sentence to the story was "kill them with kindness"
It's a pity more people cannot do this
❤️
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Posted by jeane
any update?
Headshots will get it done.
PS: and before anyone jumps down my throat for being ZOMG INSENSITIVE PRICK, let me remind you that someone does not automatically become a better person in death than they were in life. Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity, and her true colors shone crystal clear. She was a toxic bitch, nothing more nothing less.
Having said that, Lord, don't think too badly of her.
Oooooooooooooooooooo.......
Your insensitive clarification doesn’t change the fact you could have simply refrained from posting. Like muscles to frown, it takes more effort to be a dick than to not be.
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It's a public forum & I'm its designated Devil's Advocate.
And actually the opposite is true. Being a dick is as easy as breathing 😄 , it takes more effort to not be a dick when I'm surrounded by stupidity. Ooops.
Posted by xBruceCampbellx
P has most likely passed. I remember her saying the doctors told her it would be a miracle for her to make it to the holidays. If she were still alive, she would have posted by now. I believe the last post she made was her coming to say goodbye.I'm sure she fought the good fight.
Very sad 😞
Cancer is a horrible disease...I wouldn't wish it on anyone
I hope she finds peace now
❤️
Yes it is. I watched my mother battle Cancer. She passed almost 12 years ago. She had a tough battle. It was hard to watch. I myself, found peace in her death, because I didn't have witness her going through that anymore.
I'm sure P is at peace now. She's in a much better place than all of us. Bless her family. Losing a loved one can bring about the toughest of times. Peace be with them.
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Bless you and your mum ❤️
Yes it's very tough....I lost dad and my only sister to cancer within 6wks of each other. As you know it feels like you will never get through those times, but the peace it brings is reassuring
Peace be with them for sure......so sad
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I miss her input. The boards are poorer with her absence. I'm sorry this happened to her.
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Posted by jeane
any update?
Headshots will get it done.
PS: and before anyone jumps down my throat for being ZOMG INSENSITIVE PRICK, let me remind you that someone does not automatically become a better person in death than they were in life. Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity, and her true colors shone crystal clear. She was a toxic bitch, nothing more nothing less.
Having said that, Lord, don't think too badly of her.
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Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity
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Not really. Somebody may just have poor coping mechanism or communication skills.
I think she would rather have people not change their opinion. She liked to keep it 100%
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In times of adversity/hardship, your core instincts take over. It's where your true mettle shines. Fight or flight, that kind of thing. 15 months ago I had reached my breaking point and was this close to committing suicide. I could see no other way out for myself and death was the only thought that comforted me at the time. Thinking about death actually made me feel relief, it felt freeing because my torture would be over. For me it was the ultimate gut-check. But when I learned that my boy was in great distress, it's like a switch flipped and all my angst was gone, replaced by overwhelming worry for the love of my life. Sure, I was not the most pleasant guy to be around shortly beforehand but I toughed it out and his emotional wellbeing was more important than mine.
Now, coming into random threads of people asking for advice and verbally assaulting every single one of them has nothing to do with "keeping it 100% ". She had plenty of time to step back and look at what she was doing. But she just kept lashing out at people. I blocked her very quickly from the beginning because she was always so full of shit but that didn't stop her. I've been here since May '16 and she'd been at it for much longer than that. If she couldn't handle her fate, there were better ways of dealing with her angst than verbally assaulting random people left and right.
Or would it be more acceptable if she just grabbed a couple Uzis and unleashed hell at some train station or something? She didn't mean anything by it, she just had poor coping mechanism. Never forget, terminally ill people can and do go to prison. Dying is no excuse for anything.
Maybe I'm a tad grumpy myself today, after having dealt with several stupid people who can't do the job they were hired to do, on top of my boy being away for the day and being startled by a fugly black spider. But that doesn't make me less wrong about her. Then again this is DXP, where people defend homophobes and stupid idiots crying "rape" when they practically shoved that dingdong into themselves.
Sad ❤️
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
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Posted by jeane
any update?
Headshots will get it done.
PS: and before anyone jumps down my throat for being ZOMG INSENSITIVE PRICK, let me remind you that someone does not automatically become a better person in death than they were in life. Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity, and her true colors shone crystal clear. She was a toxic bitch, nothing more nothing less.
Having said that, Lord, don't think too badly of her.
Oooooooooooooooooooo.......
Your insensitive clarification doesn’t change the fact you could have simply refrained from posting. Like muscles to frown, it takes more effort to be a dick than to not be.
It's a public forum & I'm its designated Devil's Advocate.
And actually the opposite is true. Being a dick is as easy as breathing 😄 , it takes more effort to not be a dick when I'm surrounded by stupidity. Ooops.
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More like a reason to advocate pro-choice. Good day, sir.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
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Posted by jeane
any update?
Headshots will get it done.
PS: and before anyone jumps down my throat for being ZOMG INSENSITIVE PRICK, let me remind you that someone does not automatically become a better person in death than they were in life. Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity, and her true colors shone crystal clear. She was a toxic bitch, nothing more nothing less.
Having said that, Lord, don't think too badly of her.
Oooooooooooooooooooo.......
Your insensitive clarification doesn’t change the fact you could have simply refrained from posting. Like muscles to frown, it takes more effort to be a dick than to not be.
It's a public forum & I'm its designated Devil's Advocate.
And actually the opposite is true. Being a dick is as easy as breathing 😄 , it takes more effort to not be a dick when I'm surrounded by stupidity. Ooops.
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If you are insulting cheeky, I will eat you.
Posted by GC02
I wish we knew how she is doing, but at the same time if she’s still around I don’t blame her if she wouldn’t want to spend some of her last moments on here.better with people she loves and loves her alot.
Yeah....also when really ill even concentrating on movies and stuff for any length of time can be hard ...
In the end ..family and friends are the only stuff that matters.
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In the end only family matters.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by jeane
any update?
Headshots will get it done.
PS: and before anyone jumps down my throat for being ZOMG INSENSITIVE PRICK, let me remind you that someone does not automatically become a better person in death than they were in life. Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity, and her true colors shone crystal clear. She was a toxic bitch, nothing more nothing less.
Having said that, Lord, don't think too badly of her.
Oooooooooooooooooooo.......
Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity
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Not really. Somebody may just have poor coping mechanism or communication skills.
I think she would rather have people not change their opinion. She liked to keep it 100%
In times of adversity/hardship, your core instincts take over. It's where your true mettle shines. Fight or flight, that kind of thing. 15 months ago I had reached my breaking point and was this close to committing suicide. I could see no other way out for myself and death was the only thought that comforted me at the time. Thinking about death actually made me feel relief, it felt freeing because my torture would be over. For me it was the ultimate gut-check. But when I learned that my boy was in great distress, it's like a switch flipped and all my angst was gone, replaced by overwhelming worry for the love of my life. Sure, I was not the most pleasant guy to be around shortly beforehand but I toughed it out and his emotional wellbeing was more important than mine.
Now, coming into random threads of people asking for advice and verbally assaulting every single one of them has nothing to do with "keeping it 100% ". She had plenty of time to step back and look at what she was doing. But she just kept lashing out at people. I blocked her very quickly from the beginning because she was always so full of shit but that didn't stop her. I've been here since May '16 and she'd been at it for much longer than that. If she couldn't handle her fate, there were better ways of dealing with her angst than verbally assaulting random people left and right.
Or would it be more acceptable if she just grabbed a couple Uzis and unleashed hell at some train station or something? She didn't mean anything by it, she just had poor coping mechanism. Never forget, terminally ill people can and do go to prison. Dying is no excuse for anything.
Maybe I'm a tad grumpy myself today, after having dealt with several stupid people who can't do the job they were hired to do, on top of my boy being away for the day and being startled by a fugly black spider. But that doesn't make me less wrong about her. Then again this is DXP, where people defend homophobes and stupid idiots crying "rape" when they practically shoved that dingdong into themselves.
Your outlook and actions are similar to hers, no wonder you hate it.
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Well spotted
*Mirrors*
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
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Posted by jeane
any update?
Headshots will get it done.
PS: and before anyone jumps down my throat for being ZOMG INSENSITIVE PRICK, let me remind you that someone does not automatically become a better person in death than they were in life. Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity, and her true colors shone crystal clear. She was a toxic bitch, nothing more nothing less.
Having said that, Lord, don't think too badly of her.
Oooooooooooooooooooo.......
Your insensitive clarification doesn’t change the fact you could have simply refrained from posting. Like muscles to frown, it takes more effort to be a dick than to not be.
It's a public forum & I'm its designated Devil's Advocate.
And actually the opposite is true. Being a dick is as easy as breathing 😄 , it takes more effort to not be a dick when I'm surrounded by stupidity. Ooops.
If you are insulting cheeky, I will eat you.
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It’s not his fault. To me, he represents a shift in the boards. The reason I had to take a break.
As for P, that’s more personal. She came forward with her diagnosis right around the same time as my mum and I believe died the same time as well. It’s not difficult to have hard feelings and keep them separate. It takes a special kind of asshole to speak ill of the dead.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
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Posted by jeane
any update?
Headshots will get it done.
PS: and before anyone jumps down my throat for being ZOMG INSENSITIVE PRICK, let me remind you that someone does not automatically become a better person in death than they were in life. Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity, and her true colors shone crystal clear. She was a toxic bitch, nothing more nothing less.
Having said that, Lord, don't think too badly of her.
Oooooooooooooooooooo.......
Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity
^
Not really. Somebody may just have poor coping mechanism or communication skills.
I think she would rather have people not change their opinion. She liked to keep it 100%
In times of adversity/hardship, your core instincts take over. It's where your true mettle shines. Fight or flight, that kind of thing. 15 months ago I had reached my breaking point and was this close to committing suicide. I could see no other way out for myself and death was the only thought that comforted me at the time. Thinking about death actually made me feel relief, it felt freeing because my torture would be over. For me it was the ultimate gut-check. But when I learned that my boy was in great distress, it's like a switch flipped and all my angst was gone, replaced by overwhelming worry for the love of my life. Sure, I was not the most pleasant guy to be around shortly beforehand but I toughed it out and his emotional wellbeing was more important than mine.
Now, coming into random threads of people asking for advice and verbally assaulting every single one of them has nothing to do with "keeping it 100% ". She had plenty of time to step back and look at what she was doing. But she just kept lashing out at people. I blocked her very quickly from the beginning because she was always so full of shit but that didn't stop her. I've been here since May '16 and she'd been at it for much longer than that. If she couldn't handle her fate, there were better ways of dealing with her angst than verbally assaulting random people left and right.
Or would it be more acceptable if she just grabbed a couple Uzis and unleashed hell at some train station or something? She didn't mean anything by it, she just had poor coping mechanism. Never forget, terminally ill people can and do go to prison. Dying is no excuse for anything.
Maybe I'm a tad grumpy myself today, after having dealt with several stupid people who can't do the job they were hired to do, on top of my boy being away for the day and being startled by a fugly black spider. But that doesn't make me less wrong about her. Then again this is DXP, where people defend homophobes and stupid idiots crying "rape" when they practically shoved that dingdong into themselves.
Your outlook and actions are similar to hers, no wonder you hate it.
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Main difference is I am in control of it, it doesn't control me. It's knowing your strengths and making the most of them.
She was feral.
I didn’t like how she come off personally so Idk . I did notice she hasn’t been on here . Whatever happened to her I’m not gonna pretend it affects me but good luck in her fight and her life .
Blessed her if she passed
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Posted by jeane
any update?
Headshots will get it done.
PS: and before anyone jumps down my throat for being ZOMG INSENSITIVE PRICK, let me remind you that someone does not automatically become a better person in death than they were in life. Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity, and her true colors shone crystal clear. She was a toxic bitch, nothing more nothing less.
Having said that, Lord, don't think too badly of her.
Oooooooooooooooooooo.......
Your insensitive clarification doesn’t change the fact you could have simply refrained from posting. Like muscles to frown, it takes more effort to be a dick than to not be.
It's a public forum & I'm its designated Devil's Advocate.
And actually the opposite is true. Being a dick is as easy as breathing 😄 , it takes more effort to not be a dick when I'm surrounded by stupidity. Ooops.
If you are insulting cheeky, I will eat you.
It’s not his fault. To me, he represents a shift in the boards. The reason I had to take a break.
As for P, that’s more personal. She came forward with her diagnosis right around the same time as my mum and I believe died the same time as well. It’s not difficult to have hard feelings and keep them separate. It takes a special kind of asshole to speak ill of the dead.
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So sorry to hear about mum...when did she pass? Such a difficult time 😢
How is your daughter doing now.....Shorty(?)
Yes a special kind of base person to stoop so low .. I really sometimes wonder about the core of people...very damaged, I guess
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Posted by jeane
any update?
Headshots will get it done.
PS: and before anyone jumps down my throat for being ZOMG INSENSITIVE PRICK, let me remind you that someone does not automatically become a better person in death than they were in life. Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity, and her true colors shone crystal clear. She was a toxic bitch, nothing more nothing less.
Having said that, Lord, don't think too badly of her.
Oooooooooooooooooooo.......
Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity
^
Not really. Somebody may just have poor coping mechanism or communication skills.
I think she would rather have people not change their opinion. She liked to keep it 100%
In times of adversity/hardship, your core instincts take over. It's where your true mettle shines. Fight or flight, that kind of thing. 15 months ago I had reached my breaking point and was this close to committing suicide. I could see no other way out for myself and death was the only thought that comforted me at the time. Thinking about death actually made me feel relief, it felt freeing because my torture would be over. For me it was the ultimate gut-check. But when I learned that my boy was in great distress, it's like a switch flipped and all my angst was gone, replaced by overwhelming worry for the love of my life. Sure, I was not the most pleasant guy to be around shortly beforehand but I toughed it out and his emotional wellbeing was more important than mine.
Now, coming into random threads of people asking for advice and verbally assaulting every single one of them has nothing to do with "keeping it 100% ". She had plenty of time to step back and look at what she was doing. But she just kept lashing out at people. I blocked her very quickly from the beginning because she was always so full of shit but that didn't stop her. I've been here since May '16 and she'd been at it for much longer than that. If she couldn't handle her fate, there were better ways of dealing with her angst than verbally assaulting random people left and right.
Or would it be more acceptable if she just grabbed a couple Uzis and unleashed hell at some train station or something? She didn't mean anything by it, she just had poor coping mechanism. Never forget, terminally ill people can and do go to prison. Dying is no excuse for anything.
Maybe I'm a tad grumpy myself today, after having dealt with several stupid people who can't do the job they were hired to do, on top of my boy being away for the day and being startled by a fugly black spider. But that doesn't make me less wrong about her. Then again this is DXP, where people defend homophobes and stupid idiots crying "rape" when they practically shoved that dingdong into themselves.
Your outlook and actions are similar to hers, no wonder you hate it.
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he has aries and so does P. I remember she has aries venus, and Tiziani mentioning it in a post that she has mercury aries too, so thus her harshness.
and Heavy is aries dominant.
i get that way when i see people staying too long in a toxic relationship and get really grossed out.
cause i did it a long time ago. it is something we hate about ourselves deep down.
instead of just accepting it that it's our weaknesses and instead of hating ourselves for it thus hating others for the same things we are not in control of...
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by jeane
any update?
Headshots will get it done.
PS: and before anyone jumps down my throat for being ZOMG INSENSITIVE PRICK, let me remind you that someone does not automatically become a better person in death than they were in life. Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity, and her true colors shone crystal clear. She was a toxic bitch, nothing more nothing less.
Having said that, Lord, don't think too badly of her.
Oooooooooooooooooooo.......
Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity
^
Not really. Somebody may just have poor coping mechanism or communication skills.
I think she would rather have people not change their opinion. She liked to keep it 100%
In times of adversity/hardship, your core instincts take over. It's where your true mettle shines. Fight or flight, that kind of thing. 15 months ago I had reached my breaking point and was this close to committing suicide. I could see no other way out for myself and death was the only thought that comforted me at the time. Thinking about death actually made me feel relief, it felt freeing because my torture would be over. For me it was the ultimate gut-check. But when I learned that my boy was in great distress, it's like a switch flipped and all my angst was gone, replaced by overwhelming worry for the love of my life. Sure, I was not the most pleasant guy to be around shortly beforehand but I toughed it out and his emotional wellbeing was more important than mine.
Now, coming into random threads of people asking for advice and verbally assaulting every single one of them has nothing to do with "keeping it 100% ". She had plenty of time to step back and look at what she was doing. But she just kept lashing out at people. I blocked her very quickly from the beginning because she was always so full of shit but that didn't stop her. I've been here since May '16 and she'd been at it for much longer than that. If she couldn't handle her fate, there were better ways of dealing with her angst than verbally assaulting random people left and right.
Or would it be more acceptable if she just grabbed a couple Uzis and unleashed hell at some train station or something? She didn't mean anything by it, she just had poor coping mechanism. Never forget, terminally ill people can and do go to prison. Dying is no excuse for anything.
Maybe I'm a tad grumpy myself today, after having dealt with several stupid people who can't do the job they were hired to do, on top of my boy being away for the day and being startled by a fugly black spider. But that doesn't make me less wrong about her. Then again this is DXP, where people defend homophobes and stupid idiots crying "rape" when they practically shoved that dingdong into themselves.
Your outlook and actions are similar to hers, no wonder you hate it.
Main difference is I am in control of it, it doesn't control me. It's knowing your strengths and making the most of them.
She was feral.
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you can see how ineffective her ways were, and it probably came out of love, aries style (aries mercury)
so maybe compassion from this understanding.
edit --- we give so little compassion to ourselves when we fall and have weaknesses.
it's ourselves that we should love and care for, tenderly, because it's how we can love others with same understanding. it's not easy but awareness is always good.
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Posted by jeane
any update?
Headshots will get it done.
PS: and before anyone jumps down my throat for being ZOMG INSENSITIVE PRICK, let me remind you that someone does not automatically become a better person in death than they were in life. Your true character comes to the fore in times of hardship and adversity, and her true colors shone crystal clear. She was a toxic bitch, nothing more nothing less.
Having said that, Lord, don't think too badly of her.
Oooooooooooooooooooo.......
Your insensitive clarification doesn’t change the fact you could have simply refrained from posting. Like muscles to frown, it takes more effort to be a dick than to not be.
It's a public forum & I'm its designated Devil's Advocate.
And actually the opposite is true. Being a dick is as easy as breathing 😄 , it takes more effort to not be a dick when I'm surrounded by stupidity. Ooops.
If you are insulting cheeky, I will eat you.
It’s not his fault. To me, he represents a shift in the boards. The reason I had to take a break.
As for P, that’s more personal. She came forward with her diagnosis right around the same time as my mum and I believe died the same time as well. It’s not difficult to have hard feelings and keep them separate. It takes a special kind of asshole to speak ill of the dead.
So sorry to hear about mum...when did she pass? Such a difficult time 😢
How is your daughter doing now.....Shorty(?)
Yes a special kind of base person to stoop so low .. I really sometimes wonder about the core of people...very damaged, I guess
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Messaged you. 🙂
*shrug* I liked that she was an asshole. But ya know, so am I.
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I know she was terminally ill and announced it a few months back.
Has anybody had any contact with her outside dxp and knows whether she has passed? I noticed that her last reply to anyone was over 2 months ago.