Stardeath
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Posted by LaMadrinaHm? for?
Shouldn't you be celebrating?
Posted by StardeathDepends on the guy. Some love to be smothered, others hate it. Yours is the one who hates it. Like I said, you cramped his style .Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by StardeathPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Oh wait, most of his past relationships have been ldr??
Sounds like a predator to me or at least a creep with a photo/vid fetish or simply an overgrown manchild who can't handle behaving like a proper adult.
In any scenario, you're better off without him.
afaik, the last 4 including me were LDRs.
And that didn't set off alarm bells in your head? Yikes.
Oh you said he's 19. Same age as my boyfriend when we got together. I was 32 then. Can't really use him as an example, he's far more mature than your guy.
Your guy is more or less still a kid in pretty much every way. He probably thought you were coming on too strong, and you cramped his style . He obviously wants to keep things breezy and is not into commitment.
He's just too young. click to expand
He said I was too possessive, maybe because in his past relationships, nobody really put up so much time to him that much?
there was this one time that i woke up and he didn't messaged me. i messaged him and he isn't replying, which is odd. he said he was over at his bestfriend's and got distracted and forgot about the time.
i mean, can't you even text?
He said all of my drama is too much. ik. i was kinda dramatic the last week because of workloads and other things. that is why i asked out for his help that morning bec i am not really feeling emotionally good. and he said i am being dramatic.click to expand
Maybe I'm too old-fashioned in this way but if I truly love someone, I want him around all the time and he can smother me all he wants. Mine was a surprise because he revealed his own possessive tendencies, young Lion. But I don't mind one bit.
In your case, you care for him a great deal but he doesn't care for you as much as you do. He's just too immature to handle it properly. There's nothing you can do about it except accept it & put him behind you. Find someone who appreciates what you have to offer.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by StardeathPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by StardeathPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Oh wait, most of his past relationships have been ldr??
Sounds like a predator to me or at least a creep with a photo/vid fetish or simply an overgrown manchild who can't handle behaving like a proper adult.
In any scenario, you're better off without him.
afaik, the last 4 including me were LDRs.
And that didn't set off alarm bells in your head? Yikes.
Oh you said he's 19. Same age as my boyfriend when we got together. I was 32 then. Can't really use him as an example, he's far more mature than your guy.
Your guy is more or less still a kid in pretty much every way. He probably thought you were coming on too strong, and you cramped his style . He obviously wants to keep things breezy and is not into commitment.
He's just too young. click to expand
He said I was too possessive, maybe because in his past relationships, nobody really put up so much time to him that much?
there was this one time that i woke up and he didn't messaged me. i messaged him and he isn't replying, which is odd. he said he was over at his bestfriend's and got distracted and forgot about the time.
i mean, can't you even text?
He said all of my drama is too much. ik. i was kinda dramatic the last week because of workloads and other things. that is why i asked out for his help that morning bec i am not really feeling emotionally good. and he said i am being dramatic.
Depends on the guy. Some love to be smothered, others hate it. Yours is the one who hates it. Like I said, you cramped his style .
Maybe I'm too old-fashioned in this way but if I truly love someone, I want him around all the time and he can smother me all he wants. Mine was a surprise because he revealed his own possessive tendencies, young Lion. But I don't mind one bit.
In your case, you care for him a great deal but he doesn't care for you as much as you do. He's just too immature to handle it properly. There's nothing you can do about it except accept it & put him behind you. Find someone who appreciates what you have to offer. click to expandclick to expand
Maybe you are right. He actually becomes sad before whenever I go out because he said he will miss me. But atleast I still text him whenever I can even if I am out. He knows that, that I am still trying to have a conversation with him even if I am busy.
he can do that with me but gets pissed off when i do the same.
Posted by StardeathYou’re expecting too much from an 18 year old.Posted by DiannaPosted by StardeathPosted by DiannaPosted by StardeathPosted by Dianna
Oh Lord! There is so much to comment on. Everyone summed it up already.
LDR
Never met
Sleep call? That one gives me the heebie jeebies
Group call? Have you met the other people on the call?
Has he asked for money? Has he mentioned why he doesn't have real life relationships?
I can't imagine a fellow scorpio even going for this kind of setup.
Don't give him a second thought. Find a man without so many emotional problems.
we were never in a groupcall, but there were 2 groupchats we are both member in, hosted by this mutual friend who is he calling to like everyday now. click to expand
You're too good for his nonsense. click to expand
thanks. what made you say so? click to expand
You and he just broke up but he is in the group chat, that you are a part of, talking about phone sleeping with another girl. This shows his immaturity. There is a reason why his relationships are all over chat. At 18, he may be not be ready to have a real life connection. I guess it depends on how he was raised. Some 18 year olds are fighting wars or working 40 hours a week while others are still making mommy clean their rooms and cut their steak.
click to expand
When we were still together, he is actively looking for work.
And I remembered I told him that I even let us call even if it is my work hours and I am in duty ( I am a homebased worker), and he said that I make it a big deal and sound like calling while working is a burden.
When I just wanna show him my adjustments on my end. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by StardeathYou said he has ADHD. Do you much about it?Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by StardeathPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Oh wait, most of his past relationships have been ldr??
Sounds like a predator to me or at least a creep with a photo/vid fetish or simply an overgrown manchild who can't handle behaving like a proper adult.
In any scenario, you're better off without him.
afaik, the last 4 including me were LDRs.
And that didn't set off alarm bells in your head? Yikes.
Oh you said he's 19. Same age as my boyfriend when we got together. I was 32 then. Can't really use him as an example, he's far more mature than your guy.
Your guy is more or less still a kid in pretty much every way. He probably thought you were coming on too strong, and you cramped his style . He obviously wants to keep things breezy and is not into commitment.
He's just too young. click to expand
He said I was too possessive, maybe because in his past relationships, nobody really put up so much time to him that much?
there was this one time that i woke up and he didn't messaged me. i messaged him and he isn't replying, which is odd. he said he was over at his bestfriend's and got distracted and forgot about the time.
i mean, can't you even text?
He said all of my drama is too much. ik. i was kinda dramatic the last week because of workloads and other things. that is why i asked out for his help that morning bec i am not really feeling emotionally good. and he said i am being dramatic. click to expandclick to expand
You're asking for a full on commitment.
From what you say of him, sounds like he's still struggling with himself and getting his shit together. Because of that, I don't think he has the time or attention span for a full on commitment.
Posted by Ram416He is the one who confessed to me, and asked me out to be in the relationship. Doesn't that mean he is the one who was asking for commitment in the first place?Posted by StardeathPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by StardeathPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Oh wait, most of his past relationships have been ldr??
Sounds like a predator to me or at least a creep with a photo/vid fetish or simply an overgrown manchild who can't handle behaving like a proper adult.
In any scenario, you're better off without him.
afaik, the last 4 including me were LDRs.
And that didn't set off alarm bells in your head? Yikes.
Oh you said he's 19. Same age as my boyfriend when we got together. I was 32 then. Can't really use him as an example, he's far more mature than your guy.
Your guy is more or less still a kid in pretty much every way. He probably thought you were coming on too strong, and you cramped his style . He obviously wants to keep things breezy and is not into commitment.
He's just too young. click to expand
He said I was too possessive, maybe because in his past relationships, nobody really put up so much time to him that much?
there was this one time that i woke up and he didn't messaged me. i messaged him and he isn't replying, which is odd. he said he was over at his bestfriend's and got distracted and forgot about the time.
i mean, can't you even text?
He said all of my drama is too much. ik. i was kinda dramatic the last week because of workloads and other things. that is why i asked out for his help that morning bec i am not really feeling emotionally good. and he said i am being dramatic. click to expand
You said he has ADHD. Do you much about it?
You're asking for a full on commitment.
From what you say of him, sounds like he's still struggling with himself and getting his butter together. Because of that, I don't think he has the time or attention span for a full on commitment. click to expandclick to expand
I admit idk much about ADHD, that is why I was asking for a break then to understand him better, which he like accepted in a wrong way, and to him, it is like I am leaving him.
Posted by Ram416I even mentioned the age gap during the start of dating phase. He said it doesn't matter.Posted by StardeathPosted by DiannaPosted by StardeathPosted by DiannaPosted by StardeathPosted by Dianna
Oh Lord! There is so much to comment on. Everyone summed it up already.
LDR
Never met
Sleep call? That one gives me the heebie jeebies
Group call? Have you met the other people on the call?
Has he asked for money? Has he mentioned why he doesn't have real life relationships?
I can't imagine a fellow scorpio even going for this kind of setup.
Don't give him a second thought. Find a man without so many emotional problems.
we were never in a groupcall, but there were 2 groupchats we are both member in, hosted by this mutual friend who is he calling to like everyday now. click to expand
You're too good for his nonsense. click to expand
thanks. what made you say so? click to expand
You and he just broke up but he is in the group chat, that you are a part of, talking about phone sleeping with another girl. This shows his immaturity. There is a reason why his relationships are all over chat. At 18, he may be not be ready to have a real life connection. I guess it depends on how he was raised. Some 18 year olds are fighting wars or working 40 hours a week while others are still making mommy clean their rooms and cut their steak.
click to expand
When we were still together, he is actively looking for work.
And I remembered I told him that I even let us call even if it is my work hours and I am in duty ( I am a homebased worker), and he said that I make it a big deal and sound like calling while working is a burden.
When I just wanna show him my adjustments on my end. click to expand
You’re expecting too much from an 18 year old. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by StardeathHe's 18. Has he ever had past relationships with older women?Posted by Ram416Posted by StardeathPosted by DiannaPosted by StardeathPosted by DiannaPosted by StardeathPosted by Dianna
Oh Lord! There is so much to comment on. Everyone summed it up already.
LDR
Never met
Sleep call? That one gives me the heebie jeebies
Group call? Have you met the other people on the call?
Has he asked for money? Has he mentioned why he doesn't have real life relationships?
I can't imagine a fellow scorpio even going for this kind of setup.
Don't give him a second thought. Find a man without so many emotional problems.
we were never in a groupcall, but there were 2 groupchats we are both member in, hosted by this mutual friend who is he calling to like everyday now. click to expand
You're too good for his nonsense. click to expand
thanks. what made you say so? click to expand
You and he just broke up but he is in the group chat, that you are a part of, talking about phone sleeping with another girl. This shows his immaturity. There is a reason why his relationships are all over chat. At 18, he may be not be ready to have a real life connection. I guess it depends on how he was raised. Some 18 year olds are fighting wars or working 40 hours a week while others are still making mommy clean their rooms and cut their steak.
click to expand
When we were still together, he is actively looking for work.
And I remembered I told him that I even let us call even if it is my work hours and I am in duty ( I am a homebased worker), and he said that I make it a big deal and sound like calling while working is a burden.
When I just wanna show him my adjustments on my end. click to expand
You’re expecting too much from an 18 year old. click to expand
I even mentioned the age gap during the start of dating phase. He said it doesn't matter. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Ram416I think not as old as me, with the 5-yr age gap.Posted by StardeathPosted by Ram416Posted by StardeathPosted by DiannaPosted by StardeathPosted by DiannaPosted by StardeathPosted by Dianna
Oh Lord! There is so much to comment on. Everyone summed it up already.
LDR
Never met
Sleep call? That one gives me the heebie jeebies
Group call? Have you met the other people on the call?
Has he asked for money? Has he mentioned why he doesn't have real life relationships?
I can't imagine a fellow scorpio even going for this kind of setup.
Don't give him a second thought. Find a man without so many emotional problems.
we were never in a groupcall, but there were 2 groupchats we are both member in, hosted by this mutual friend who is he calling to like everyday now. click to expand
You're too good for his nonsense. click to expand
thanks. what made you say so? click to expand
You and he just broke up but he is in the group chat, that you are a part of, talking about phone sleeping with another girl. This shows his immaturity. There is a reason why his relationships are all over chat. At 18, he may be not be ready to have a real life connection. I guess it depends on how he was raised. Some 18 year olds are fighting wars or working 40 hours a week while others are still making mommy clean their rooms and cut their steak.
click to expand
When we were still together, he is actively looking for work.
And I remembered I told him that I even let us call even if it is my work hours and I am in duty ( I am a homebased worker), and he said that I make it a big deal and sound like calling while working is a burden.
When I just wanna show him my adjustments on my end. click to expand
You’re expecting too much from an 18 year old. click to expand
I even mentioned the age gap during the start of dating phase. He said it doesn't matter. click to expand
He's 18. Has he ever had past relationships with older women? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by StardeathYes but as an 18 year old who has simple pleasures like gaming and/or hanging out with his best friend, his idea of a commitment would be VERY different from yours.Posted by Ram416Posted by StardeathPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by StardeathPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Oh wait, most of his past relationships have been ldr??
Sounds like a predator to me or at least a creep with a photo/vid fetish or simply an overgrown manchild who can't handle behaving like a proper adult.
In any scenario, you're better off without him.
afaik, the last 4 including me were LDRs.
And that didn't set off alarm bells in your head? Yikes.
Oh you said he's 19. Same age as my boyfriend when we got together. I was 32 then. Can't really use him as an example, he's far more mature than your guy.
Your guy is more or less still a kid in pretty much every way. He probably thought you were coming on too strong, and you cramped his style . He obviously wants to keep things breezy and is not into commitment.
He's just too young. click to expand
He said I was too possessive, maybe because in his past relationships, nobody really put up so much time to him that much?
there was this one time that i woke up and he didn't messaged me. i messaged him and he isn't replying, which is odd. he said he was over at his bestfriend's and got distracted and forgot about the time.
i mean, can't you even text?
He said all of my drama is too much. ik. i was kinda dramatic the last week because of workloads and other things. that is why i asked out for his help that morning bec i am not really feeling emotionally good. and he said i am being dramatic. click to expand
You said he has ADHD. Do you much about it?
You're asking for a full on commitment.
From what you say of him, sounds like he's still struggling with himself and getting his butter together. Because of that, I don't think he has the time or attention span for a full on commitment. click to expand
He is the one who confessed to me, and asked me out to be in the relationship. Doesn't that mean he is the one who was asking for commitment in the first place?
I admit idk much about ADHD, that is why I was asking for a break then to understand him better, which he like accepted in a wrong way, and to him, it is like I am leaving him. click to expandclick to expand
Sorry to say but you are both on very different levels of maturity (as some other users have already explained to you) so your expectations from a relationship will be much higher and very much different from his.
And yes, you should really read up on ADHD. There are some things that are normal to a regular person but will be very difficult for someone with ADHD to do.
Posted by Ram416I understand. Thank you.Posted by StardeathPosted by Ram416Posted by StardeathPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by StardeathPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Oh wait, most of his past relationships have been ldr??
Sounds like a predator to me or at least a creep with a photo/vid fetish or simply an overgrown manchild who can't handle behaving like a proper adult.
In any scenario, you're better off without him.
afaik, the last 4 including me were LDRs.
And that didn't set off alarm bells in your head? Yikes.
Oh you said he's 19. Same age as my boyfriend when we got together. I was 32 then. Can't really use him as an example, he's far more mature than your guy.
Your guy is more or less still a kid in pretty much every way. He probably thought you were coming on too strong, and you cramped his style . He obviously wants to keep things breezy and is not into commitment.
He's just too young. click to expand
He said I was too possessive, maybe because in his past relationships, nobody really put up so much time to him that much?
there was this one time that i woke up and he didn't messaged me. i messaged him and he isn't replying, which is odd. he said he was over at his bestfriend's and got distracted and forgot about the time.
i mean, can't you even text?
He said all of my drama is too much. ik. i was kinda dramatic the last week because of workloads and other things. that is why i asked out for his help that morning bec i am not really feeling emotionally good. and he said i am being dramatic. click to expand
You said he has ADHD. Do you much about it?
You're asking for a full on commitment.
From what you say of him, sounds like he's still struggling with himself and getting his butter together. Because of that, I don't think he has the time or attention span for a full on commitment. click to expand
He is the one who confessed to me, and asked me out to be in the relationship. Doesn't that mean he is the one who was asking for commitment in the first place?
I admit idk much about ADHD, that is why I was asking for a break then to understand him better, which he like accepted in a wrong way, and to him, it is like I am leaving him. click to expand
Yes but as an 18 year old who has simple pleasures like gaming and/or hanging out with his best friend, his idea of a commitment would be VERY different from yours.
Sorry to say but you are both on very different levels of maturity (as some other users have already explained to you) so your expectations from a relationship will be much higher and very much different from his.
And yes, you should really read up on ADHD. There are some things that are normal to a regular person but will be very difficult for someone with ADHD to do. click to expandclick to expand
It's not real ... you never met him
Posted by exsqueezemeOh my gosh. HahaPosted by StardeathPosted by Ram416Posted by StardeathPosted by Ram416Posted by StardeathPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by StardeathPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Oh wait, most of his past relationships have been ldr??
Sounds like a predator to me or at least a creep with a photo/vid fetish or simply an overgrown manchild who can't handle behaving like a proper adult.
In any scenario, you're better off without him.
afaik, the last 4 including me were LDRs.
And that didn't set off alarm bells in your head? Yikes.
Oh you said he's 19. Same age as my boyfriend when we got together. I was 32 then. Can't really use him as an example, he's far more mature than your guy.
Your guy is more or less still a kid in pretty much every way. He probably thought you were coming on too strong, and you cramped his style . He obviously wants to keep things breezy and is not into commitment.
He's just too young. click to expand
He said I was too possessive, maybe because in his past relationships, nobody really put up so much time to him that much?
there was this one time that i woke up and he didn't messaged me. i messaged him and he isn't replying, which is odd. he said he was over at his bestfriend's and got distracted and forgot about the time.
i mean, can't you even text?
He said all of my drama is too much. ik. i was kinda dramatic the last week because of workloads and other things. that is why i asked out for his help that morning bec i am not really feeling emotionally good. and he said i am being dramatic. click to expand
You said he has ADHD. Do you much about it?
You're asking for a full on commitment.
From what you say of him, sounds like he's still struggling with himself and getting his butter together. Because of that, I don't think he has the time or attention span for a full on commitment. click to expand
He is the one who confessed to me, and asked me out to be in the relationship. Doesn't that mean he is the one who was asking for commitment in the first place?
I admit idk much about ADHD, that is why I was asking for a break then to understand him better, which he like accepted in a wrong way, and to him, it is like I am leaving him. click to expand
Yes but as an 18 year old who has simple pleasures like gaming and/or hanging out with his best friend, his idea of a commitment would be VERY different from yours.
Sorry to say but you are both on very different levels of maturity (as some other users have already explained to you) so your expectations from a relationship will be much higher and very much different from his.
And yes, you should really read up on ADHD. There are some things that are normal to a regular person but will be very difficult for someone with ADHD to do. click to expand
I understand. Thank you. click to expand
He’s a new born baby. Throw him in the bin and run away screaming like a cookiemonster click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Stardeath
And now I feel like, jealous? Because he is calling with one of our mutual friend, on a daily basis, and they sleep together in a call. I guess. Just like we used to do.
And he keeps on telling in a groupchat were we are both members how she (mutual friend) is being cute in the call, that he admires her (posting on public posts of her), and the " I love you so much".
Is it possible there is something going on with them? considering we just broke up for less than 2 weeks, and according to him, when we were still together, this mutual friend of ours is his "little sister".
I am a scorpio, btw.
He is playing games with u. He want u to trip, and its working.
Posted by SeeyouMaybe you are right. Now he posts something about this friend of ours altho they both claimed before , when we were still together that they are like brothers and sisters.Posted by Stardeath
And now I feel like, jealous? Because he is calling with one of our mutual friend, on a daily basis, and they sleep together in a call. I guess. Just like we used to do.
And he keeps on telling in a groupchat were we are both members how she (mutual friend) is being cute in the call, that he admires her (posting on public posts of her), and the " I love you so much".
Is it possible there is something going on with them? considering we just broke up for less than 2 weeks, and according to him, when we were still together, this mutual friend of ours is his "little sister".
I am a scorpio, btw.
He is playing games with u. He want u to trip, and its working. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by StardeathPosted by SeeyouPosted by Stardeath
And now I feel like, jealous? Because he is calling with one of our mutual friend, on a daily basis, and they sleep together in a call. I guess. Just like we used to do.
And he keeps on telling in a groupchat were we are both members how she (mutual friend) is being cute in the call, that he admires her (posting on public posts of her), and the " I love you so much".
Is it possible there is something going on with them? considering we just broke up for less than 2 weeks, and according to him, when we were still together, this mutual friend of ours is his "little sister".
I am a scorpio, btw.
He is playing games with u. He want u to trip, and its working. click to expand
Maybe you are right. Now he posts something about this friend of ours altho they both claimed before , when we were still together that they are like brothers and sisters. click to expandclick to expand
After everything he put u through, this is the thanks u get, u deserve better. But I know its hard because u care for him. Its hard to leave this situation alone. But he and the one that was also ure friend. They are not good people for you. Be strong, and think about what is best for u. Make the right choise. If its ment to be , its ment to be. If its not you will see in the future that this was for the better. Don"t put yourself trough more pain. And don"t play the games they want u to play. Your a better person, leave them alone. Leave all the contact. Even block them if u have to. Karma will hit them back. And if u ignore them and you don't react and dissapear. He will try to contact u again. because its not what he expect u to do. Try to act like if you don't care anymore. Than he will come back running. But the best thing is to stay away from this bad influences. You are better than them.
Posted by StardeathOmfg go out, meet with people.Posted by LadyNeptune
Have you met in person? Ever
Nope. But we had a plan that he will visit me this November. or in the early quarter of the year next year. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by StardeathLike, who did you make it official to? People in the group chat?
We were like in non-official relationship for like 2 months, before we decided to make it official and exclusive.
Do y'all ever ask yourselves, Is this my life?
Posted by SeeyouI am actually scared to lose contact with the girl because I think she is unaware that she is hurting me. And I never had a direct contact with the ex since a week I guessPosted by StardeathPosted by SeeyouPosted by Stardeath
And now I feel like, jealous? Because he is calling with one of our mutual friend, on a daily basis, and they sleep together in a call. I guess. Just like we used to do.
And he keeps on telling in a groupchat were we are both members how she (mutual friend) is being cute in the call, that he admires her (posting on public posts of her), and the " I love you so much".
Is it possible there is something going on with them? considering we just broke up for less than 2 weeks, and according to him, when we were still together, this mutual friend of ours is his "little sister".
I am a scorpio, btw.
He is playing games with u. He want u to trip, and its working. click to expand
Maybe you are right. Now he posts something about this friend of ours altho they both claimed before , when we were still together that they are like brothers and sisters. click to expand
After everything he put u through, this is the thanks u get, u deserve better. But I know its hard because u care for him. Its hard to leave this situation alone. But he and the one that was also ure friend. They are not good people for you. Be strong, and think about what is best for u. Make the right choise. If its ment to be , its ment to be. If its not you will see in the future that this was for the better. Don"t put yourself trough more pain. And don"t play the games they want u to play. Your a better person, leave them alone. Leave all the contact. Even block them if u have to. Karma will hit them back. And if u ignore them and you don't react and dissapear. He will try to contact u again. because its not what he expect u to do. Try to act like if you don't care anymore. Than he will come back running. But the best thing is to stay away from this bad influences. You are better than them. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by enfant_terribleMe and himPosted by Stardeath
We were like in non-official relationship for like 2 months, before we decided to make it official and exclusive.
Like, who did you make it official to? People in the group chat?
Do y'all ever ask yourselves, Is this my life?
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Posted by StardeathI read this thread to here so far and I'm shaking my head...Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by StardeathPosted by LadyNeptune
Have you met in person? Ever
Nope. But we had a plan that he will visit me this November. or in the early quarter of the year next year. click to expand
Ok so never met, together ld for 1 month. Why are you so invested in someone who discarded you and doesn’t even respect you enough to not flirt in front of your face with someone else (ie your chat group or whatevs).
Someone like this is just a blip on the radar. 30 days isn’t long enough for him to be all in and then leave you. Js
I have to believe your just trolling for the “my cancer man left me” thread. click to expand
We were like in non-official relationship for like 2 months, before we decided to make it official and exclusive. I was not trolling nor anything, I just want some insights or anything. I am sorry if you thought it the way like that.
We basically call everyday, and his family knows me, I know, it was all fast in span of 3 months. I met his mom and siblings thru video call and they are kind to me.
And he admitted that I did a lot of firsts for him that he never experienced with his previous LDR girls. Our mutual friends, who are likely know him longer also admits this, that I was the girl that is nice to him and the best gf he ever had so far. click to expandclick to expand
1. You have never met this man.
2. See point number one above.
That pretty much sums it all up.
You have never met. You spent three months exchanging hot air over the Internet. You think you're special because he tells you that you're his first to do or say something yet disregard the point he makes about his 'other LDR's'. How many fucking LDR's does one have in their lifetime! He was going to meet you, at some point, so far away in time, that suits him. He tells you that you're this and that when really he's just being an arsehole to you to keep you down, to control you. He's manipulating you by talking shit in some chat room, because that's probably what he does, so you feel like shit and to make you think you have 'lost' him when really you have lost fuck all except three months out of your possible 85 years or however long you'll live for.
You're a Scorpio. Get yourself together. Be strong. Kick this Cancerian dick in his Internet bollocks and move on.
Then find a decent bloke, a real one, who won't treat you like this within your first three months, or ever.
If this is what this guy is offering you now AND it's only been three months, just think how much more shit life would be after a year, or 30 years with him.
There's 8 billion people on this planet. Find a good one.
Posted by AgentP911Thank you. I understand your point. Thing is, he said, the first 2 months I am not like that- down and such. I remembered he asked me to not be scared and be more open to him during the start of the 3rd month. He said he wanna know all of me. So I showed-. I was always telling him the start that I am toxic, he kept on saying I am not, that I am just needy like him. And guess what he said when we broke up "you're toxic af."Posted by StardeathPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by StardeathPosted by LadyNeptune
Have you met in person? Ever
Nope. But we had a plan that he will visit me this November. or in the early quarter of the year next year. click to expand
Ok so never met, together ld for 1 month. Why are you so invested in someone who discarded you and doesn’t even respect you enough to not flirt in front of your face with someone else (ie your chat group or whatevs).
Someone like this is just a blip on the radar. 30 days isn’t long enough for him to be all in and then leave you. Js
I have to believe your just trolling for the “my cancer man left me” thread. click to expand
We were like in non-official relationship for like 2 months, before we decided to make it official and exclusive. I was not trolling nor anything, I just want some insights or anything. I am sorry if you thought it the way like that.
We basically call everyday, and his family knows me, I know, it was all fast in span of 3 months. I met his mom and siblings thru video call and they are kind to me.
And he admitted that I did a lot of firsts for him that he never experienced with his previous LDR girls. Our mutual friends, who are likely know him longer also admits this, that I was the girl that is nice to him and the best gf he ever had so far. click to expand
I read this thread to here so far and I'm shaking my head...
1. You have never met this man.
2. See point number one above.
That pretty much sums it all up.
You have never met. You spent three months exchanging hot air over the Internet. You think you're special because he tells you that you're his first to do or say something yet disregard the point he makes about his 'other LDR's'. How many treetrunking LDR's does one have in their lifetime! He was going to meet you, at some point, so far away in time, that suits him. He tells you that you're this and that when really he's just being an arsehole to you to keep you down, to control you. He's manipulating you by talking butter in some chat room, because that's probably what he does, so you feel like butter and to make you think you have 'lost' him when really you have lost treetrunk all except three months out of your possible 85 years or however long you'll live for.
You're a Scorpio. Get yourself together. Be strong. Kick this Cancerian dick in his Internet bollocks and move on.
Then find a decent bloke, a real one, who won't treat you like this within your first three months, or ever.
If this is what this guy is offering you now AND it's only been three months, just think how much more butter life would be after a year, or 30 years with him.
There's 8 billion people on this planet. Find a good one. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by NelsonSacramentoIdk. it is my first time to have a relationship with a Cancer tho.
Why cancer only famous at leaving when they can love following conflicts? 😧
Posted by NelsonSacramentoI am trying. I took a hiatus on the community where i met him and the mutual friend. And I stopped communicating to the two of them.Posted by StardeathMove on my friend, he ain't worth and you can always count on me if you need help. click to expandPosted by NelsonSacramento
Why cancer only famous at leaving when they can love following conflicts? 😧
Idk. it is my first time to have a relationship with a Cancer tho. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by StardeathWhy are you toxic?Posted by AgentP911Posted by StardeathPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by StardeathPosted by LadyNeptune
Have you met in person? Ever
Nope. But we had a plan that he will visit me this November. or in the early quarter of the year next year. click to expand
Ok so never met, together ld for 1 month. Why are you so invested in someone who discarded you and doesn’t even respect you enough to not flirt in front of your face with someone else (ie your chat group or whatevs).
Someone like this is just a blip on the radar. 30 days isn’t long enough for him to be all in and then leave you. Js
I have to believe your just trolling for the “my cancer man left me” thread. click to expand
We were like in non-official relationship for like 2 months, before we decided to make it official and exclusive. I was not trolling nor anything, I just want some insights or anything. I am sorry if you thought it the way like that.
We basically call everyday, and his family knows me, I know, it was all fast in span of 3 months. I met his mom and siblings thru video call and they are kind to me.
And he admitted that I did a lot of firsts for him that he never experienced with his previous LDR girls. Our mutual friends, who are likely know him longer also admits this, that I was the girl that is nice to him and the best gf he ever had so far. click to expand
I read this thread to here so far and I'm shaking my head...
1. You have never met this man.
2. See point number one above.
That pretty much sums it all up.
You have never met. You spent three months exchanging hot air over the Internet. You think you're special because he tells you that you're his first to do or say something yet disregard the point he makes about his 'other LDR's'. How many treetrunking LDR's does one have in their lifetime! He was going to meet you, at some point, so far away in time, that suits him. He tells you that you're this and that when really he's just being an arsehole to you to keep you down, to control you. He's manipulating you by talking butter in some chat room, because that's probably what he does, so you feel like butter and to make you think you have 'lost' him when really you have lost treetrunk all except three months out of your possible 85 years or however long you'll live for.
You're a Scorpio. Get yourself together. Be strong. Kick this Cancerian dick in his Internet bollocks and move on.
Then find a decent bloke, a real one, who won't treat you like this within your first three months, or ever.
If this is what this guy is offering you now AND it's only been three months, just think how much more butter life would be after a year, or 30 years with him.
There's 8 billion people on this planet. Find a good one. click to expand
Thank you. I understand your point. Thing is, he said, the first 2 months I am not like that- down and such. I remembered he asked me to not be scared and be more open to him during the start of the 3rd month. He said he wanna know all of me. So I showed-. I was always telling him the start that I am toxic, he kept on saying I am not, that I am just needy like him. And guess what he said when we broke up "you're toxic af." click to expandclick to expand
If you tell yourself you're toxic and you tell others you're toxic then I'm not surprised that, in the end, they think you're toxic, even when you probably aren't.
Just as you feel you opened up and shared to get to know him the last few months, he also did too. He has spent the last few months showing you exactly who he is.
As I said, thankfully you can walk away from this situation.
Posted by AgentP911Because sometimes I jump into conclusions because I am afraid to be easily replaced and I want some communication between me and my partner. He said he is like that too, and he really gets grumpy then when I am in a call with a friend one time because my friend needed me. And when I went out to have a swim with my highschool friends, he got mad because I was ignoring him in the call.Posted by StardeathPosted by AgentP911Posted by StardeathPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by StardeathPosted by LadyNeptune
Have you met in person? Ever
Nope. But we had a plan that he will visit me this November. or in the early quarter of the year next year. click to expand
Ok so never met, together ld for 1 month. Why are you so invested in someone who discarded you and doesn’t even respect you enough to not flirt in front of your face with someone else (ie your chat group or whatevs).
Someone like this is just a blip on the radar. 30 days isn’t long enough for him to be all in and then leave you. Js
I have to believe your just trolling for the “my cancer man left me” thread. click to expand
We were like in non-official relationship for like 2 months, before we decided to make it official and exclusive. I was not trolling nor anything, I just want some insights or anything. I am sorry if you thought it the way like that.
We basically call everyday, and his family knows me, I know, it was all fast in span of 3 months. I met his mom and siblings thru video call and they are kind to me.
And he admitted that I did a lot of firsts for him that he never experienced with his previous LDR girls. Our mutual friends, who are likely know him longer also admits this, that I was the girl that is nice to him and the best gf he ever had so far. click to expand
I read this thread to here so far and I'm shaking my head...
1. You have never met this man.
2. See point number one above.
That pretty much sums it all up.
You have never met. You spent three months exchanging hot air over the Internet. You think you're special because he tells you that you're his first to do or say something yet disregard the point he makes about his 'other LDR's'. How many treetrunking LDR's does one have in their lifetime! He was going to meet you, at some point, so far away in time, that suits him. He tells you that you're this and that when really he's just being an arsehole to you to keep you down, to control you. He's manipulating you by talking butter in some chat room, because that's probably what he does, so you feel like butter and to make you think you have 'lost' him when really you have lost treetrunk all except three months out of your possible 85 years or however long you'll live for.
You're a Scorpio. Get yourself together. Be strong. Kick this Cancerian dick in his Internet bollocks and move on.
Then find a decent bloke, a real one, who won't treat you like this within your first three months, or ever.
If this is what this guy is offering you now AND it's only been three months, just think how much more butter life would be after a year, or 30 years with him.
There's 8 billion people on this planet. Find a good one. click to expand
Thank you. I understand your point. Thing is, he said, the first 2 months I am not like that- down and such. I remembered he asked me to not be scared and be more open to him during the start of the 3rd month. He said he wanna know all of me. So I showed-. I was always telling him the start that I am toxic, he kept on saying I am not, that I am just needy like him. And guess what he said when we broke up "you're toxic af." click to expand
Why are you toxic?
If you tell yourself you're toxic and you tell others you're toxic then I'm not surprised that, in the end, they think you're toxic, even when you probably aren't.
Just as you feel you opened up and shared to get to know him the last few months, he also did too. He has spent the last few months showing you exactly who he is.
As I said, thankfully you can walk away from this situation. click to expandclick to expand
But yea, I just hate the feeling when I know someone has some beef on me. I feel very uncomfy.
Posted by StardeathIs this what the young population of today are troubled by?Posted by AgentP911Posted by StardeathPosted by AgentP911Posted by StardeathPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by StardeathPosted by LadyNeptune
Have you met in person? Ever
Nope. But we had a plan that he will visit me this November. or in the early quarter of the year next year. click to expand
Ok so never met, together ld for 1 month. Why are you so invested in someone who discarded you and doesn’t even respect you enough to not flirt in front of your face with someone else (ie your chat group or whatevs).
Someone like this is just a blip on the radar. 30 days isn’t long enough for him to be all in and then leave you. Js
I have to believe your just trolling for the “my cancer man left me” thread. click to expand
We were like in non-official relationship for like 2 months, before we decided to make it official and exclusive. I was not trolling nor anything, I just want some insights or anything. I am sorry if you thought it the way like that.
We basically call everyday, and his family knows me, I know, it was all fast in span of 3 months. I met his mom and siblings thru video call and they are kind to me.
And he admitted that I did a lot of firsts for him that he never experienced with his previous LDR girls. Our mutual friends, who are likely know him longer also admits this, that I was the girl that is nice to him and the best gf he ever had so far. click to expand
I read this thread to here so far and I'm shaking my head...
1. You have never met this man.
2. See point number one above.
That pretty much sums it all up.
You have never met. You spent three months exchanging hot air over the Internet. You think you're special because he tells you that you're his first to do or say something yet disregard the point he makes about his 'other LDR's'. How many treetrunking LDR's does one have in their lifetime! He was going to meet you, at some point, so far away in time, that suits him. He tells you that you're this and that when really he's just being an arsehole to you to keep you down, to control you. He's manipulating you by talking butter in some chat room, because that's probably what he does, so you feel like butter and to make you think you have 'lost' him when really you have lost treetrunk all except three months out of your possible 85 years or however long you'll live for.
You're a Scorpio. Get yourself together. Be strong. Kick this Cancerian dick in his Internet bollocks and move on.
Then find a decent bloke, a real one, who won't treat you like this within your first three months, or ever.
If this is what this guy is offering you now AND it's only been three months, just think how much more butter life would be after a year, or 30 years with him.
There's 8 billion people on this planet. Find a good one. click to expand
Thank you. I understand your point. Thing is, he said, the first 2 months I am not like that- down and such. I remembered he asked me to not be scared and be more open to him during the start of the 3rd month. He said he wanna know all of me. So I showed-. I was always telling him the start that I am toxic, he kept on saying I am not, that I am just needy like him. And guess what he said when we broke up "you're toxic af." click to expand
Why are you toxic?
If you tell yourself you're toxic and you tell others you're toxic then I'm not surprised that, in the end, they think you're toxic, even when you probably aren't.
Just as you feel you opened up and shared to get to know him the last few months, he also did too. He has spent the last few months showing you exactly who he is.
As I said, thankfully you can walk away from this situation. click to expand
Because sometimes I jump into conclusions because I am afraid to be easily replaced and I want some communication between me and my partner. He said he is like that too, and he really gets grumpy then when I am in a call with a friend one time because my friend needed me. And when I went out to have a swim with my highschool friends, he got mad because I was ignoring him in the call.
But yea, I just hate the feeling when I know someone has some beef on me. I feel very uncomfy. click to expandclick to expand
Not having their needs met the very instant they demand it.
Feeling their world will fall apart if their phone call goes unanswered a few times.
Oh dear.
Nevermind.
Just stop jumping to conclusions. If someone chooses to replace you because they feel you are no longer of value to them then that is their right to do so. The same works for you too. If you no longer want to be in a relationship with someone then you are free to break it off.
It is the other person's loss if they choose to so easily discard you. Why would you continue to want someone who doesn't want you in return? Seems daft to me.
You'll be fine.
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