TeddyBearMD
@TeddyBearMD
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Relationships are POINTLESS. Men, DON'T GET MARRIED.
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I can agree with you on one point in your tirade which is that happiness isn't derived from marriage or companionship with one person for life.
I really wanted to get married when I was younger, before 25. In hindsight, I can proudly say I'm glad I didn't. I haven't seen a single happily married couple. The one couple I thought was happy, I found out later that the husband was cheating. At my last workplace or anywhere I worked, I saw men and women cheating on their spouses. People may call me bitter for this, but it is just an observance I have made over the years.
The guys nowadays aren't traditional either. They want to bang without the responsibility that comes with marriage. Plenty of blame to go around.
I really wanted to get married when I was younger, before 25. In hindsight, I can proudly say I'm glad I didn't. I haven't seen a single happily married couple. The one couple I thought was happy, I found out later that the husband was cheating. At my last workplace or anywhere I worked, I saw men and women cheating on their spouses. People may call me bitter for this, but it is just an observance I have made over the years.
The guys nowadays aren't traditional either. They want to bang without the responsibility that comes with marriage. Plenty of blame to go around.
So men who're single or who've stayed single are happy? at peace? Not contradicting what you said.Just saying being otherwise won't assure anything you're looking for!
Posted by TeenaIt's still pleasure and more enjoyable to marriage. Marriage is nagging, compromise, added responsibility...basically not easy and fun.
So men who're single or who've stayed single are happy? at peace? Not contradicting what you said.Just saying being otherwise won't assure anything you're looking for!
Posted by TeddyBearMDA relationship does not only = marriage.
It took me 29 years to finally realize how pointless a relationship is. Norms of society have brainwashed us into believing that our life is not complete until we get married and have a house with a white picket fence, a minivan, and bratty kids who will likely grow up to be average at best.
You fight is against marriage right now, not all companionship's.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaIt's still pleasure and more enjoyable to marriage. Marriage is nagging, compromise, added responsibility...basically not easy and fun.
So men who're single or who've stayed single are happy? at peace? Not contradicting what you said.Just saying being otherwise won't assure anything you're looking for!
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This is subjective as well.I know people who love everything which comes with marriage.I personally don't hate it.It depends on our own definition of "pleasure" or "enjoyable " .Some people really find it difficult to stay single.For them relationships are easier.So we can't speak for everyone else.
I know happy couples and plenty of unhappy ones that got divorced or split up.
The title of 'marriage' wasn't the thing that made it rotten. They were either willing to make an effort to go the distance, or they were not. Simple.
Personally, marriage isnt necessary for my happiness. Neither are children.
The title of 'marriage' wasn't the thing that made it rotten. They were either willing to make an effort to go the distance, or they were not. Simple.
Personally, marriage isnt necessary for my happiness. Neither are children.
Posted by TeenaAre these people married? Nobody is promoting singlehood. You can be unmarried and be in a relationship.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaIt's still pleasure and more enjoyable to marriage. Marriage is nagging, compromise, added responsibility...basically not easy and fun.
So men who're single or who've stayed single are happy? at peace? Not contradicting what you said.Just saying being otherwise won't assure anything you're looking for!
This is subjective as well.I know people who love everything which comes with marriage.I personally don't hate it.It depends on our own definition of "pleasure" or "enjoyable " .Some people really find it difficult to stay single.For them relationships are easier.So we can't speak for everyone else.
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Posted by CanbullriusPosted by TeenaI'm not happy but that's due to other factors not women.
So men who're single or who've stayed single are happy? at peace? Not contradicting what you said.Just saying being otherwise won't assure anything you're looking for!
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Exactly!! One being miserable may not even have to do anything with the man/woman they're dealing with.
Posted by aquarius09I've seen them both.Married n unmarriedPosted by TeenaAre these people married? Nobody is promoting singlehood. You can be unmarried and be in a relationship.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaIt's still pleasure and more enjoyable to marriage. Marriage is nagging, compromise, added responsibility...basically not easy and fun.
So men who're single or who've stayed single are happy? at peace? Not contradicting what you said.Just saying being otherwise won't assure anything you're looking for!
This is subjective as well.I know people who love everything which comes with marriage.I personally don't hate it.It depends on our own definition of "pleasure" or "enjoyable " .Some people really find it difficult to stay single.For them relationships are easier.So we can't speak for everyone else.
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Posted by TeenaUnmarried people usually see the rainbow and candies associated with marriage. If you are coming from the Bollywood culture, you will know where that image on marriage comes from. As for married people who enjoy being married, what is their reasoning?Posted by aquarius09I've seen them both.Married n unmarriedPosted by TeenaAre these people married? Nobody is promoting singlehood. You can be unmarried and be in a relationship.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaIt's still pleasure and more enjoyable to marriage. Marriage is nagging, compromise, added responsibility...basically not easy and fun.
So men who're single or who've stayed single are happy? at peace? Not contradicting what you said.Just saying being otherwise won't assure anything you're looking for!
This is subjective as well.I know people who love everything which comes with marriage.I personally don't hate it.It depends on our own definition of "pleasure" or "enjoyable " .Some people really find it difficult to stay single.For them relationships are easier.So we can't speak for everyone else.
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Posted by yupvirgooCorrection sir, they don't "flock" to me. But yet they do approach me sometimes. And even more on the internet because that's easier I suppose.
Did you get rejected since that last thread you made about not approaching women?
I thought women FLOCKED all over you.
Of course, that comes with it's caveats. Like, the same type of woman that will approach you first is the same type of woman that will try to dominate you. Approach them and put them on a pedestal, they either curve you get their ego boosted exponentially and try to dominate. Let them approach you, they eventually feel like they can dominate you. Lose Lose situation. Another reason to avoid relationships and just fuck them.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaUnmarried people usually see the rainbow and candies associated with marriage. If you are coming from the Bollywood culture, you will know where that image on marriage comes from. As for married people who enjoy being married, what is their reasoning?Posted by aquarius09I've seen them both.Married n unmarriedPosted by TeenaAre these people married? Nobody is promoting singlehood. You can be unmarried and be in a relationship.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaIt's still pleasure and more enjoyable to marriage. Marriage is nagging, compromise, added responsibility...basically not easy and fun.
So men who're single or who've stayed single are happy? at peace? Not contradicting what you said.Just saying being otherwise won't assure anything you're looking for!
This is subjective as well.I know people who love everything which comes with marriage.I personally don't hate it.It depends on our own definition of "pleasure" or "enjoyable " .Some people really find it difficult to stay single.For them relationships are easier.So we can't speak for everyone else.
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If you think they're being delusional by seeing rainbows , you're being delusional be seeing deserts . The same reason why you hate being in a relationship.As I already told,they find pleasure in everything that comes with being in a relationship.They could care less about the things which you hate about relationships.
lol I can tell you that majority of people I know wish they never married.
Posted by TeenaWe are discussing marriage here, not relationships. Being in a relationship was never up for debate.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaUnmarried people usually see the rainbow and candies associated with marriage. If you are coming from the Bollywood culture, you will know where that image on marriage comes from. As for married people who enjoy being married, what is their reasoning?Posted by aquarius09I've seen them both.Married n unmarriedPosted by TeenaAre these people married? Nobody is promoting singlehood. You can be unmarried and be in a relationship.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaIt's still pleasure and more enjoyable to marriage. Marriage is nagging, compromise, added responsibility...basically not easy and fun.
So men who're single or who've stayed single are happy? at peace? Not contradicting what you said.Just saying being otherwise won't assure anything you're looking for!
This is subjective as well.I know people who love everything which comes with marriage.I personally don't hate it.It depends on our own definition of "pleasure" or "enjoyable " .Some people really find it difficult to stay single.For them relationships are easier.So we can't speak for everyone else.
If you think they're being delusional by seeing rainbows , you're being delusional be seeing deserts . The same reason why you hate being in a relationship.As I already told,they find pleasure in everything that comes with being in a relationship.They could care less about the things which you hate about relationships.
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Posted by tizianiDouble LolPosted by TeddyBearMD
Take a look at all the men who have been married for 10+ years... see the lifeless look in their eyes?
The only reason 90% of men get married is to avoid being nagged about it and the death stares from people who are miserably married and see that a man is not.
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Priceless...
Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaWe are discussing marriage here, not relationships. Being in a relationship was never up for debate.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaUnmarried people usually see the rainbow and candies associated with marriage. If you are coming from the Bollywood culture, you will know where that image on marriage comes from. As for married people who enjoy being married, what is their reasoning?Posted by aquarius09I've seen them both.Married n unmarriedPosted by TeenaAre these people married? Nobody is promoting singlehood. You can be unmarried and be in a relationship.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaIt's still pleasure and more enjoyable to marriage. Marriage is nagging, compromise, added responsibility...basically not easy and fun.
So men who're single or who've stayed single are happy? at peace? Not contradicting what you said.Just saying being otherwise won't assure anything you're looking for!
This is subjective as well.I know people who love everything which comes with marriage.I personally don't hate it.It depends on our own definition of "pleasure" or "enjoyable " .Some people really find it difficult to stay single.For them relationships are easier.So we can't speak for everyone else.
If you think they're being delusional by seeing rainbows , you're being delusional be seeing deserts . The same reason why you hate being in a relationship.As I already told,they find pleasure in everything that comes with being in a relationship.They could care less about the things which you hate about relationships.
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I'm talking about "marriage relationships" duh! I'm hoping you know marriage is categorized under relationship??Yeah I'm talking about that if you want me to be specific.
I wonder statistically how many men actually want to commit and get wed, compared to women
I met one lol....my dad....but he did have a God awful homelife
I met one lol....my dad....but he did have a God awful homelife
Posted by CanbullriusYou're doing nothing but showing that you have no life and latch on to everything people say on here so that you can later try to use it against them.Posted by TeddyBearMDPosted by CanbullriusFirst of all, that's a whole lot more than "one sentence". But I understand that you're a slow beta male, so I'll let it go.Posted by TeddyBearMD
It took me 29 years to finally realize how pointless a relationship is. Norms of society have brainwashed us into believing that our life is not complete until we get married and have a house with a white picket fence, a minivan, and bratty kids who will likely grow up to be average at best.
People are just afraid to be alone. But at the end of the day, we only have one real purpose here on earth... to reproduce. No guy is really supposed to be with one woman the rest of his life. It's been proven time and time again that this is the case. We are no different than any other animal in that respect. We are all just looking for the most "qualified" animals to procreate with. And for the most part, the qualifications are all the same. Good Looking, wealthy, Phat Ass, Big Dick, Big Tits, etc... etc...
The fact that some men feel that they should be stuck with one person for the rest of their lives is mind boggling. When you take away Religion, and "what people say you should do"... deep down people know it's the truth. And no, getting married doesn't make you "happier". Everyone I have ever known to get married is miserable eventually. And when the inevitable divorce happens, who always ends up getting fucked over... the MAN.
Don't believe it? take a look around you. Take a look at all the men who have been married for 10+ years... see the lifeless look in their eyes? Their soul has been sucked right out of them. There is absolutely nothing in a marriage for a man. The only reason 90% of men get married is to avoid being nagged about it and the death stares from people who are miserably married and see that a man is not.
There are some people who will see this and realize the truth in it. And the rest will fill this thread with insults and other bullshit, tell me how wrong I am, tell me that i have mental isues, suck my dick, etc... etc.. etc..
This one sentence has just proven that you yourself are mistrustful and are seeking like a predator.
The people out there in a bad relationship don't come to a forum bragging how great they are whilst putting down the fairer sex, they may ask for advice.
You are incredibly transparent with your own behavior.
Secondly, shouldn't you be making more depressing "woe is me" ass threads and looking for sympathy because your life is pathetic and you're a coward?
And who are you to say what people in a bad relationship would and wouldn't do. I guess in your 26 years of life, you have all of the answers right? STFU you cuckhold simp beta male.
When you have no clue what an Alpha male is, giving out projecting insults is not a good idea.
Calling you out is great because it shows how weak you are.
EDIT nice hiding, caught you before you had chance.
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Posted by TeenaYou can have a relationship without marriage so be specific, thanks.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaWe are discussing marriage here, not relationships. Being in a relationship was never up for debate.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaUnmarried people usually see the rainbow and candies associated with marriage. If you are coming from the Bollywood culture, you will know where that image on marriage comes from. As for married people who enjoy being married, what is their reasoning?Posted by aquarius09I've seen them both.Married n unmarriedPosted by TeenaAre these people married? Nobody is promoting singlehood. You can be unmarried and be in a relationship.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaIt's still pleasure and more enjoyable to marriage. Marriage is nagging, compromise, added responsibility...basically not easy and fun.
So men who're single or who've stayed single are happy? at peace? Not contradicting what you said.Just saying being otherwise won't assure anything you're looking for!
This is subjective as well.I know people who love everything which comes with marriage.I personally don't hate it.It depends on our own definition of "pleasure" or "enjoyable " .Some people really find it difficult to stay single.For them relationships are easier.So we can't speak for everyone else.
If you think they're being delusional by seeing rainbows , you're being delusional be seeing deserts . The same reason why you hate being in a relationship.As I already told,they find pleasure in everything that comes with being in a relationship.They could care less about the things which you hate about relationships.
I'm talking about "marriage relationships" duh! I'm hoping you know marriage is categorized under relationship??Yeah I'm talking about that if you want me to be specific.
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Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaYou can have a relationship without marriage so be specific, thanks.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaWe are discussing marriage here, not relationships. Being in a relationship was never up for debate.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaUnmarried people usually see the rainbow and candies associated with marriage. If you are coming from the Bollywood culture, you will know where that image on marriage comes from. As for married people who enjoy being married, what is their reasoning?Posted by aquarius09I've seen them both.Married n unmarriedPosted by TeenaAre these people married? Nobody is promoting singlehood. You can be unmarried and be in a relationship.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaIt's still pleasure and more enjoyable to marriage. Marriage is nagging, compromise, added responsibility...basically not easy and fun.
So men who're single or who've stayed single are happy? at peace? Not contradicting what you said.Just saying being otherwise won't assure anything you're looking for!
This is subjective as well.I know people who love everything which comes with marriage.I personally don't hate it.It depends on our own definition of "pleasure" or "enjoyable " .Some people really find it difficult to stay single.For them relationships are easier.So we can't speak for everyone else.
If you think they're being delusional by seeing rainbows , you're being delusional be seeing deserts . The same reason why you hate being in a relationship.As I already told,they find pleasure in everything that comes with being in a relationship.They could care less about the things which you hate about relationships.
I'm talking about "marriage relationships" duh! I'm hoping you know marriage is categorized under relationship??Yeah I'm talking about that if you want me to be specific.
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But we're discussing about marriage n you just said it yourself! So how did you assume otherwise?Your problem meh!Also OP himself used the word "relationships" in the title..so yeah!
Posted by yupvirgooWhat I mean, is that they will be both extremely demanding and controlling.Posted by TeddyBearMDPlease elaborate on the word "dominate."Posted by yupvirgooCorrection sir, they don't "flock" to me. But yet they do approach me sometimes. And even more on the internet because that's easier I suppose.
Did you get rejected since that last thread you made about not approaching women?
I thought women FLOCKED all over you.
Of course, that comes with it's caveats. Like, the same type of woman that will approach you first is the same type of woman that will try to dominate you. Approach them and put them on a pedestal, they either curve you get their ego boosted exponentially and try to dominate. Let them approach you, they eventually feel like they can dominate you. Lose Lose situation. Another reason to avoid relationships and just fuck them.
Men with a certain... "distaste" for women always say this to me when I ask them about it like that uppity Cap who used the word "control" and "confinement."
By this do you mean "nagging" and or being "demanding?"
Details please.
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Posted by TeenaPosted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaYou can have a relationship without marriage so be specific, thanks.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaWe are discussing marriage here, not relationships. Being in a relationship was never up for debate.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaUnmarried people usually see the rainbow and candies associated with marriage. If you are coming from the Bollywood culture, you will know where that image on marriage comes from. As for married people who enjoy being married, what is their reasoning?Posted by aquarius09I've seen them both.Married n unmarriedPosted by TeenaAre these people married? Nobody is promoting singlehood. You can be unmarried and be in a relationship.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaIt's still pleasure and more enjoyable to marriage. Marriage is nagging, compromise, added responsibility...basically not easy and fun.
So men who're single or who've stayed single are happy? at peace? Not contradicting what you said.Just saying being otherwise won't assure anything you're looking for!
This is subjective as well.I know people who love everything which comes with marriage.I personally don't hate it.It depends on our own definition of "pleasure" or "enjoyable " .Some people really find it difficult to stay single.For them relationships are easier.So we can't speak for everyone else.
If you think they're being delusional by seeing rainbows , you're being delusional be seeing deserts . The same reason why you hate being in a relationship.As I already told,they find pleasure in everything that comes with being in a relationship.They could care less about the things which you hate about relationships.
I'm talking about "marriage relationships" duh! I'm hoping you know marriage is categorized under relationship??Yeah I'm talking about that if you want me to be specific.
But we're discussing about marriage n you just said it yourself! So how did you assume otherwise?Your problem meh!Also OP himself used the word "relationships" in the title..so yeah!
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How did I assume? You started using the word relationship instead of marriage. As for the OP, read the context of the title, don't just read the title. He's talking about marriage in his OP. Who cares about the title. That's not the bulk of the discussion.
Posted by yupvirgooThat's just you reaching to make connections where non exists. Nowhere in the thread you mentioned did I state that I was in a relationship with any of the women that approach me. What I said was clear and concise. Everything else is just you guys coming up with these funny and amusing theories on who you think I am and why you think I make the threads I make.
I'd even agree that marriage is not very practical.
But the purpose and timing of the thread... just right after that other one about women just naturally approaching you and all. You gotta work on cloaking that Crabby whining. If you didn't get rejected and actually got laid and scored then you'd be bragging about golden poon right now. But no such luck and so butthurt ensues. Such transparency. *chuckles
Like I said before man, this is entertainment to me at this point. Can't even take most of you seriously. Because it's obvious after reading through a lot of other threads on here that a lot of you are actually miserable yourselves.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaPosted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaYou can have a relationship without marriage so be specific, thanks.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaWe are discussing marriage here, not relationships. Being in a relationship was never up for debate.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaUnmarried people usually see the rainbow and candies associated with marriage. If you are coming from the Bollywood culture, you will know where that image on marriage comes from. As for married people who enjoy being married, what is their reasoning?Posted by aquarius09I've seen them both.Married n unmarriedPosted by TeenaAre these people married? Nobody is promoting singlehood. You can be unmarried and be in a relationship.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaIt's still pleasure and more enjoyable to marriage. Marriage is nagging, compromise, added responsibility...basically not easy and fun.
So men who're single or who've stayed single are happy? at peace? Not contradicting what you said.Just saying being otherwise won't assure anything you're looking for!
This is subjective as well.I know people who love everything which comes with marriage.I personally don't hate it.It depends on our own definition of "pleasure" or "enjoyable " .Some people really find it difficult to stay single.For them relationships are easier.So we can't speak for everyone else.
If you think they're being delusional by seeing rainbows , you're being delusional be seeing deserts . The same reason why you hate being in a relationship.As I already told,they find pleasure in everything that comes with being in a relationship.They could care less about the things which you hate about relationships.
I'm talking about "marriage relationships" duh! I'm hoping you know marriage is categorized under relationship??Yeah I'm talking about that if you want me to be specific.
But we're discussing about marriage n you just said it yourself! So how did you assume otherwise?Your problem meh!Also OP himself used the word "relationships" in the title..so yeah!
How did I assume? You started using the word relationship instead of marriage. As for the OP, read the context of the title, don't just read the title. He's talking about marriage in his OP. Who cares about the title. That's not the bulk of the discussion.
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You assumed again because you think I replied without reading the content.Also i said the Op used the word "relationships" for marriage in his title.Didn't say he "meant" relationships.So did I!My heart goes out for your delusional head.
Posted by TeenaI'm going by what you're writing. Sorry, my bad if you can't express yourself properly. Ciao.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaPosted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaYou can have a relationship without marriage so be specific, thanks.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaWe are discussing marriage here, not relationships. Being in a relationship was never up for debate.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaUnmarried people usually see the rainbow and candies associated with marriage. If you are coming from the Bollywood culture, you will know where that image on marriage comes from. As for married people who enjoy being married, what is their reasoning?Posted by aquarius09I've seen them both.Married n unmarriedPosted by TeenaAre these people married? Nobody is promoting singlehood. You can be unmarried and be in a relationship.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaIt's still pleasure and more enjoyable to marriage. Marriage is nagging, compromise, added responsibility...basically not easy and fun.
So men who're single or who've stayed single are happy? at peace? Not contradicting what you said.Just saying being otherwise won't assure anything you're looking for!
This is subjective as well.I know people who love everything which comes with marriage.I personally don't hate it.It depends on our own definition of "pleasure" or "enjoyable " .Some people really find it difficult to stay single.For them relationships are easier.So we can't speak for everyone else.
If you think they're being delusional by seeing rainbows , you're being delusional be seeing deserts . The same reason why you hate being in a relationship.As I already told,they find pleasure in everything that comes with being in a relationship.They could care less about the things which you hate about relationships.
I'm talking about "marriage relationships" duh! I'm hoping you know marriage is categorized under relationship??Yeah I'm talking about that if you want me to be specific.
But we're discussing about marriage n you just said it yourself! So how did you assume otherwise?Your problem meh!Also OP himself used the word "relationships" in the title..so yeah!
How did I assume? You started using the word relationship instead of marriage. As for the OP, read the context of the title, don't just read the title. He's talking about marriage in his OP. Who cares about the title. That's not the bulk of the discussion.
You assumed again because you think I replied without reading the content.Also i said the Op used the word "relationships" for marriage in his title.Didn't say he "meant" relationships.So did I!My heart goes out for your delusional head.
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Posted by aquarius09?Posted by TeenaI'm going by what you're writing. Sorry, my bad if you can't express yourself properly. Ciao.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaPosted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaYou can have a relationship without marriage so be specific, thanks.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaWe are discussing marriage here, not relationships. Being in a relationship was never up for debate.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaUnmarried people usually see the rainbow and candies associated with marriage. If you are coming from the Bollywood culture, you will know where that image on marriage comes from. As for married people who enjoy being married, what is their reasoning?Posted by aquarius09I've seen them both.Married n unmarriedPosted by TeenaAre these people married? Nobody is promoting singlehood. You can be unmarried and be in a relationship.Posted by aquarius09Posted by TeenaIt's still pleasure and more enjoyable to marriage. Marriage is nagging, compromise, added responsibility...basically not easy and fun.
So men who're single or who've stayed single are happy? at peace? Not contradicting what you said.Just saying being otherwise won't assure anything you're looking for!
This is subjective as well.I know people who love everything which comes with marriage.I personally don't hate it.It depends on our own definition of "pleasure" or "enjoyable " .Some people really find it difficult to stay single.For them relationships are easier.So we can't speak for everyone else.
If you think they're being delusional by seeing rainbows , you're being delusional be seeing deserts . The same reason why you hate being in a relationship.As I already told,they find pleasure in everything that comes with being in a relationship.They could care less about the things which you hate about relationships.
I'm talking about "marriage relationships" duh! I'm hoping you know marriage is categorized under relationship??Yeah I'm talking about that if you want me to be specific.
But we're discussing about marriage n you just said it yourself! So how did you assume otherwise?Your problem meh!Also OP himself used the word "relationships" in the title..so yeah!
How did I assume? You started using the word relationship instead of marriage. As for the OP, read the context of the title, don't just read the title. He's talking about marriage in his OP. Who cares about the title. That's not the bulk of the discussion.
You assumed again because you think I replied without reading the content.Also i said the Op used the word "relationships" for marriage in his title.Didn't say he "meant" relationships.So did I!My heart goes out for your delusional head.
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LMFAO!!!! Not all women want to get married either! I love it how you act as though its just men that are misserable!
Posted by CanbullriusMaybe he was thinking about this - since he was in his mother's womb. 🙂
If you are aged 29 right now then it did not take you 29 years.
As another poster said, is it actually even practical to marry?
If someone said to you that you have to sign up for a job till death do you part, would you?
We change so much over the years, our desires, needs etc, promising to stay with one person for ever and ever amen seems a little delusional ?
God must be well pissed off with all the broken promises by now......there goes another one
If someone said to you that you have to sign up for a job till death do you part, would you?
We change so much over the years, our desires, needs etc, promising to stay with one person for ever and ever amen seems a little delusional ?
God must be well pissed off with all the broken promises by now......there goes another one
Posted by tizianiThat top part would be funny, except it reminds me of my Mom who is married to my CANCER father.. He truly sucked the life out of her. Ugh..Posted by TeddyBearMD
Take a look at all the men who have been married for 10+ years... see the lifeless look in their eyes?
The only reason 90% of men get married is to avoid being nagged about it and the death stares from people who are miserably married and see that a man is not.
LOL
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I want to get married one day ... I see both happy & unhappy marriages.. I don't see it as being with one person the rest of your life cuz I've had enough relationships & I'll continue to experience that till I am with the last person I'll be with for the rest of my life.. My friends have been together since high school, they're married with a kid & still really happy.. My friends parents have been married over 40yrs & still in love
boy oh boy! if only I knew where you lived I'd even hire someone to go with you just to shut your Mr.lonely rants up!
After being married and divorced (my choice, not his) I still believe in marriage. However, I would never judge people either way if they want to or don't want to. It should be both the partner's choice though. One shouldn't feel pressured into doing it. Which is what I see a lot and why I think it doesn't work out. (Other than that, getting married young is another reason I feel it doesn't work out.) OP makes sense when he says, some just do it to not feel judged. But I don't think all married couples are miserable.
Posted by tizianiYeah I added another comment about not all married couples being miserable. But when they are, I don't agree that it's always the man who is miserable..Posted by jane84I remember my parents arguing to some extremes at times, but generally I remember them both being full of zest.Posted by tizianiThat top part would be funny, except it reminds me of my Mom who is married to my CANCER father.. He truly sucked the life out of her. Ugh..Posted by TeddyBearMD
Take a look at all the men who have been married for 10+ years... see the lifeless look in their eyes?
The only reason 90% of men get married is to avoid being nagged about it and the death stares from people who are miserably married and see that a man is not.
LOL
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I'm happy that your parents were happy! 🙂
Marriage is not for everyone. Especially those who can't handle it. You gotta stick with it.
Posted by ariessungoddessI'll fly you down here and you can be all mine sweet sugah!
boy oh boy! if only I knew where you lived I'd even hire someone to go with you just to shut your Mr.lonely rants up!
I don't feel pressured to do any such thing. I don't relate to all of these complaints about expectation to marry. Just like the expectation that many women feel to look good all of the time - maybe women place that pressure on each other and themselves.
Posted by tizianiYAS!
If I'm being honest, I have a feeling marriage will be awesome for me.
Uhm I thought it was always extremely obvious that marriage/commitment and having kids is not for everyone. Maybe for only around 20% of the population tbh. I guess when you go to middle school and have pregnant classmates it just hits you earlier.
No, men do NOT have to be stuck with one person all their lives. It is not a requirement. But the secret behind marriage, the pure REAL reason for it, was to solidify the love between a couple.
I think what people have forgotten is that women are not the only gender that falls in love and is blinded by it. Men can fall in love too. And I would like to think, to believe that not all men are as shallow as you make them out to be. Men always believe women are out to get them, but I have faith in the few that actually choose marriage from love. Because they WANT to spend the rest of their lives with that person. I would like to believe that some love is just that strong.
I also believe that one doesn't HAVE to find happiness in another person. There is too much to do in the world to believe that. But I do believe happiness and love are somewhat linked. And if that THING that you choose to love and derive happiness from is another person, then so be it.
There's a quote by Chris Mccandless, the young man who decided to live off of basically nothing in the Alaskan wilderness and who some people relate with transcendentalism.
"You are wrong if you believe Joy emanates only of principally from human relationships. God had placed it all around us. It is in everything and anything we might experience. We just have to have the courage to turn against our habitual life style and engage in unconventional living."
I think what people have forgotten is that women are not the only gender that falls in love and is blinded by it. Men can fall in love too. And I would like to think, to believe that not all men are as shallow as you make them out to be. Men always believe women are out to get them, but I have faith in the few that actually choose marriage from love. Because they WANT to spend the rest of their lives with that person. I would like to believe that some love is just that strong.
I also believe that one doesn't HAVE to find happiness in another person. There is too much to do in the world to believe that. But I do believe happiness and love are somewhat linked. And if that THING that you choose to love and derive happiness from is another person, then so be it.
There's a quote by Chris Mccandless, the young man who decided to live off of basically nothing in the Alaskan wilderness and who some people relate with transcendentalism.
"You are wrong if you believe Joy emanates only of principally from human relationships. God had placed it all around us. It is in everything and anything we might experience. We just have to have the courage to turn against our habitual life style and engage in unconventional living."
Posted by CanbullriusUh... INTP actually. Which actually kinda makes sense considering my profession. You guys are all over the place with your "conclusions". One minute I'm a lonely virgin, the next minute I'm promiscuous. Can't even get your own bullshit straight, but you're calling me out on someting?Posted by yupvirgooSomething don't add up, this guy is a Cancer male, INTJ too apparently, yet he is pushing women away who are "clingy" and yet Cancers love this and the attention a woman gives them.Posted by TeddyBearMDOkay but it what ways?Posted by yupvirgooWhat I mean, is that they will be both extremely demanding and controlling.Posted by TeddyBearMDPlease elaborate on the word "dominate."Posted by yupvirgooCorrection sir, they don't "flock" to me. But yet they do approach me sometimes. And even more on the internet because that's easier I suppose.
Did you get rejected since that last thread you made about not approaching women?
I thought women FLOCKED all over you.
Of course, that comes with it's caveats. Like, the same type of woman that will approach you first is the same type of woman that will try to dominate you. Approach them and put them on a pedestal, they either curve you get their ego boosted exponentially and try to dominate. Let them approach you, they eventually feel like they can dominate you. Lose Lose situation. Another reason to avoid relationships and just fuck them.
Men with a certain... "distaste" for women always say this to me when I ask them about it like that uppity Cap who used the word "control" and "confinement."
By this do you mean "nagging" and or being "demanding?"
Details please.
How can someone that you've just recently been getting to know demand things from you?
What kind of things exactly?
Time? Certain number of texts and calls within a given day? Number of sexual activities to be performed on the regular?
I get the gut feeling and my intuition is calling out that he has his cock in other women and he got caught out.
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HA! 🙂
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Uhm I thought it was always extremely obvious that marriage/commitment and having kids is not for everyone. Maybe for only around 20% of the population tbh. I guess when you go to middle school and have pregnant classmates it just hits you earlier.
Posted by tiziani
If I'm being honest, I have a feeling marriage will be awesome for me.
Are you marrying the Taurus lady, Tiz?
🙂
I'm disturbed today. All these frustrated, emo, lonely male erratic posts...
My daughter told me that her friend's father strangled her mother to death - three days ago. They were getting a divorce. He started by telling the daughter all tyoes of personal things about her mother... the child is 14. He planned to kill her. He kept trying to get the child to sleep over at a friends. My door is open to children. She did. He strangled her to death. This child has no other relatives. Her mother is dead. I'm so angry.
The posts by males as of late... attacking women... are scary.
My daughter told me that her friend's father strangled her mother to death - three days ago. They were getting a divorce. He started by telling the daughter all tyoes of personal things about her mother... the child is 14. He planned to kill her. He kept trying to get the child to sleep over at a friends. My door is open to children. She did. He strangled her to death. This child has no other relatives. Her mother is dead. I'm so angry.
The posts by males as of late... attacking women... are scary.
Posted by tizianiTrue! They did something right ?Posted by jane84For sure, I wasn't trying to defend married couples. I just appreciated you relating your parents' story, and it made me think of my own parents and whether they were happy. But hey we both made it and made a life of our own, so that's something to be happy about 🙂Posted by tizianiYeah I added another comment about not all married couples being miserable. But when they are, I don't agree that it's always the man who is miserable..Posted by jane84I remember my parents arguing to some extremes at times, but generally I remember them both being full of zest.Posted by tizianiThat top part would be funny, except it reminds me of my Mom who is married to my CANCER father.. He truly sucked the life out of her. Ugh..Posted by TeddyBearMD
Take a look at all the men who have been married for 10+ years... see the lifeless look in their eyes?
The only reason 90% of men get married is to avoid being nagged about it and the death stares from people who are miserably married and see that a man is not.
LOL
I'm happy that your parents were happy! 🙂
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Posted by SeraphlightSeraph. I'm so disturbed. It's so nasty and awful. I'm praying for the little girl. She didn't come to school today. She's probably been picked up by family services and going into fostercare.Posted by VenusAquariusOh my god. I am so sorry for that family. Jesus.
I'm disturbed today. All these frustrated, emo, lonely male erratic posts...
My daughter told me that her friend's father strangled her mother to death - three days ago. They were getting a divorce. He started by telling the daughter all tyoes of personal things about her mother... the child is 14. He planned to kill her. He kept trying to get the child to sleep over at a friends. My door is open to children. She did. He strangled her to death. This child has no other relatives. Her mother is dead. I'm so angry.
The posts by males as of late... attacking women... are scary.click to expand
Emotions are so selfish... just horrible. He strangled the mother of his child... his wife.
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by SeraphlightSeraph. I'm so disturbed. It's so nasty and awful. I'm praying for the little girl. She didn't come to school today. She's probably been picked up by family services and going into fostercare.Posted by VenusAquariusOh my god. I am so sorry for that family. Jesus.
I'm disturbed today. All these frustrated, emo, lonely male erratic posts...
My daughter told me that her friend's father strangled her mother to death - three days ago. They were getting a divorce. He started by telling the daughter all tyoes of personal things about her mother... the child is 14. He planned to kill her. He kept trying to get the child to sleep over at a friends. My door is open to children. She did. He strangled her to death. This child has no other relatives. Her mother is dead. I'm so angry.
The posts by males as of late... attacking women... are scary.
Emotions are so selfish... just horrible. He strangled the mother of his child... his wife.
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Oh God, I am so sorry for that young girl.....that is shocking to read....poor kid 😢
Lol @ the title... "Men - DON'T GET MARRIED!!"
Like it's some random fucking bear trap hidden under some leafs and shit in the middle of an otherwise peaceful playground.
Like it's some random fucking bear trap hidden under some leafs and shit in the middle of an otherwise peaceful playground.
Posted by VenusAquariusOh my gosh. That's so awful. That poor child.
I'm disturbed today. All these frustrated, emo, lonely male erratic posts...
My daughter told me that her friend's father strangled her mother to death - three days ago. They were getting a divorce. He started by telling the daughter all tyoes of personal things about her mother... the child is 14. He planned to kill her. He kept trying to get the child to sleep over at a friends. My door is open to children. She did. He strangled her to death. This child has no other relatives. Her mother is dead. I'm so angry.
The posts by males as of late... attacking women... are scary.
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