@aquarius09
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Relationships are POINTLESS. Men, DON'T GET MARRIED. (Page 2)
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Posted by VenusAquarius
I'm disturbed today. All these frustrated, emo, lonely male erratic posts...My daughter told me that her friend's father strangled her mother to death - three days ago. They were getting a divorce. He started by telling the daughter all tyoes of personal things about her mother... the child is 14. He planned to kill her. He kept trying to get the child to sleep over at a friends. My door is open to children. She did. He strangled her to death. This child has no other relatives. Her mother is dead. I'm so angry.
The posts by males as of late... attacking women... are scary.
Oh my gosh. That's so awful. That poor child.
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I would say I'm surprised things like that happen today, but I'm sadly I'm not. 😢 May she rest in peace.
Posted by VenusAquarius
I'm disturbed today. All these frustrated, emo, lonely male erratic posts...My daughter told me that her friend's father strangled her mother to death - three days ago. They were getting a divorce. He started by telling the daughter all tyoes of personal things about her mother... the child is 14. He planned to kill her. He kept trying to get the child to sleep over at a friends. My door is open to children. She did. He strangled her to death. This child has no other relatives. Her mother is dead. I'm so angry.
The posts by males as of late... attacking women... are scary.
Oh my gosh. That's so awful. That poor child.
I pushed post before I finished....
I would say I'm surprised things like that happen today, but I'm sadly I'm not. 😢 May she rest in peace.
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I'm not surprised but, the shock never ends. My aunt ran a domestic violence shelter for women. She leaned on me to debrief from horrendous days. A 6'4 male kicks his wife 5' tall wife in the private and breaks her pelvic bones.
I had a neighbor who was a victim as well. He used being paid under the table to neglect his family into poverty and to control her.... financial and physical abuse. She had to take horrendous beat downs to get some change. She couldn't work due to the fact she had a female special needs child.
I just wish people cared more for women and children... in general.
Posted by VenusAquarius
I'm disturbed today. All these frustrated, emo, lonely male erratic posts...My daughter told me that her friend's father strangled her mother to death - three days ago. They were getting a divorce. He started by telling the daughter all tyoes of personal things about her mother... the child is 14. He planned to kill her. He kept trying to get the child to sleep over at a friends. My door is open to children. She did. He strangled her to death. This child has no other relatives. Her mother is dead. I'm so angry.
The posts by males as of late... attacking women... are scary.
Oh my gosh. That's so awful. That poor child.
I pushed post before I finished....
I would say I'm surprised things like that happen today, but I'm sadly I'm not. 😢 May she rest in peace.
I'm not surprised but, the shock never ends. My aunt ran a domestic violence shelter for women. She leaned on me to debrief from horrendous days. A 6'4 male kicks his wife 5' tall wife in the private and breaks her pelvic bones.
I had a neighbor who was a victim as well. He used being paid under the table to neglect his family into poverty and to control her.... financial and physical abuse. She had to take horrendous beat downs to get some change. She couldn't work due to the fact she had a female special needs child.
I just wish people cared more for women and children... in general.
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Gosh that's awful. Sadly, I shouldn't even be here today either. Domestic violence is part of my past, and it's not something I will ever forget. Which is why I say, sadly I'm not shocked. 😢
I feel awful for people in a situation like that who can't get away.
And like you, I wish we didn't have people in this world like that who ruin love for others.
Posted by VenusAquarius
I'm disturbed today. All these frustrated, emo, lonely male erratic posts...My daughter told me that her friend's father strangled her mother to death - three days ago. They were getting a divorce. He started by telling the daughter all tyoes of personal things about her mother... the child is 14. He planned to kill her. He kept trying to get the child to sleep over at a friends. My door is open to children. She did. He strangled her to death. This child has no other relatives. Her mother is dead. I'm so angry.
The posts by males as of late... attacking women... are scary.
Oh my gosh. That's so awful. That poor child.
I pushed post before I finished....
I would say I'm surprised things like that happen today, but I'm sadly I'm not. 😢 May she rest in peace.
I'm not surprised but, the shock never ends. My aunt ran a domestic violence shelter for women. She leaned on me to debrief from horrendous days. A 6'4 male kicks his wife 5' tall wife in the private and breaks her pelvic bones.
I had a neighbor who was a victim as well. He used being paid under the table to neglect his family into poverty and to control her.... financial and physical abuse. She had to take horrendous beat downs to get some change. She couldn't work due to the fact she had a female special needs child.
I just wish people cared more for women and children... in general.
Gosh that's awful. Sadly, I shouldn't even be here today either. Domestic violence is part of my past, and it's not something I will ever forget. Which is why I say, sadly I'm not shocked. 😢
I feel awful for people in a situation like that who can't get away.
And like you, I wish we didn't have people in this world like that who ruin love for others.
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I'm so happy you got out it jane.
Posted by Teena
So men who're single or who've stayed single are happy? at peace? Not contradicting what you said.Just saying being otherwise won't assure anything you're looking for!It's still pleasure and more enjoyable to marriage. Marriage is nagging, compromise, added responsibility...basically not easy and fun.
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And guess what it also happens to start while your friends too for me cause I work the foundation on friends first. So I will already know if i should pursue marriage and kids. It depends on maturity and responsible adults to talk about kids, marriage and even a white picket fence. But that may take a minute to even get there. Ya know.
Some already have kids and divorced.
Some are just getting into a divorce process. And I also watched my parents separate first cause it's expensive, and wait it out for 5 years just to get divorced finalized. And my mom was the one that sorta got slammed by my dad.
Posted by aquarius09
I can agree with you on one point in your tirade which is that happiness isn't derived from marriage or companionship with one person for life.I really wanted to get married when I was younger, before 25. In hindsight, I can proudly say I'm glad I didn't. I haven't seen a single happily married couple. The one couple I thought was happy, I found out later that the husband was cheating. At my last workplace or anywhere I worked, I saw men and women cheating on their spouses. People may call me bitter for this, but it is just an observance I have made over the years.
The guys nowadays aren't traditional either. They want to bang without the responsibility that comes with marriage. Plenty of blame to go around.
I also wanted to try it as well when i was 19-25 being in a relationship without a ring but living together and stuff looks like marriage anyways and it came with stuff that I couldn't change. So I left after communication and actions failed.
After that I was nope not going through that. So here flash forwards years later. No kids and never married, single at large. I'm okay for now.
Some just can't wait to get married, white pelicket fence, and love eh.
If you are right, all the industries' existence are pointless. Because they are for being sexy to your mate and run your household. (cars, makeup, clothes etc.) hahaha...
Find the core of your life.
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