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I want to know am I in the wrong for dating the Aries while being in a friendship with the Gemini as this is what the gemini told me we was she told me for months we aren't together when I was trying to confirm a relationship with her and we are only friends and kept me around still sleeping with me and letting me see her kids like I was a father figure.

I know it was wrong of me to date the Aries while speaking to the Gem that's why I ended things with the Aries and other reasons as well but from the gems point of view she's saying i was playing her but in what way was I playing her she told me we was friends she was free to date just as much as I was plus I never slept with the Aries until me and the Gem stopped talking all together!! She won't fess up and take responsibility for her actions as well !!



Was I wrong towards the Gem I know was wrong to the aries?

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Posted by PhoenixRising

Didn't they do seven seasons of this on Friends?

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Was I in the wrong though ??

I just want a straight answer and I will continue with my day and leave you guys alone with this.

I don't see how I was the Gem was also, out dating after we stopped talking ok she may not or may of been talking to someone else when she was telling me we are just friends and sleeping with me and letting me around her kids but I can't see how this is all my fault!!
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Yes it was wrong to date someone when you are in love/obsessed with another.

Unfair....

So your saying i am wrong?

Because I was told by the Gem we are just friends she knew the games she was playing on me and then sleeping with me filling my head with bullshit so I joined on the dating app as a distraction sounds bad but that's all it was.

She didn't want a relationship with me at all.
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Yes it was wrong to date someone when you are in love/obsessed with another.

Unfair....

So your saying i am wrong?

Because I was told by the Gem we are just friends she knew the games she was playing on me and then sleeping with me filling my head with bullshit so I joined on the dating app as a distraction sounds bad but that's all it was.

She didn't want a relationship with me at all.
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To become romantically involved with someone when you’re obsessed with someone else is wrong.

Your feelings were/are with another.
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Yes it was wrong to date someone when you are in love/obsessed with another.

Unfair....

So your saying i am wrong?

Because I was told by the Gem we are just friends she knew the games she was playing on me and then sleeping with me filling my head with bullshit so I joined on the dating app as a distraction sounds bad but that's all it was.

She didn't want a relationship with me at all.

To become romantically involved with someone when you’re obsessed with someone else is wrong.

Your feelings were/are with another.
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Yes that I agree too if your looking at it from the Aries P.O.V however I'm trying to look at it from the gems side and she was the one saying we was just friends and nothing more.
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Posted by sweethearts

You’re a doormat and nothing will change that!

Such a doormat that she's now so upset about this and last night on the phone smiling at me saying she's going on a date tomorrow and chatting to another man as well to rub it in my face lol

She said we was friends kept on reminding me of this every day telling me she never wanted more now all of a sudden this comes out and she's hurt and I'm the one in the wrong and shes saying we was more than just friends Bullshit !!
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Yes it was wrong to date someone when you are in love/obsessed with another.

Unfair....

So your saying i am wrong?

Because I was told by the Gem we are just friends she knew the games she was playing on me and then sleeping with me filling my head with bullshit so I joined on the dating app as a distraction sounds bad but that's all it was.

She didn't want a relationship with me at all.

To become romantically involved with someone when you’re obsessed with someone else is wrong.

Your feelings were/are with another.

Yes that I agree too if your looking at it from the Aries P.O.V however I'm trying to look at it from the gems side and she was the one saying we was just friends and nothing more.
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Why do you ask for peoples’ perspectives and then not listen?
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Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine

Yes it was wrong to date someone when you are in love/obsessed with another.

Unfair....

So your saying i am wrong?

Because I was told by the Gem we are just friends she knew the games she was playing on me and then sleeping with me filling my head with bullshit so I joined on the dating app as a distraction sounds bad but that's all it was.

She didn't want a relationship with me at all.

To become romantically involved with someone when you’re obsessed with someone else is wrong.

Your feelings were/are with another.

Yes that I agree too if your looking at it from the Aries P.O.V however I'm trying to look at it from the gems side and she was the one saying we was just friends and nothing more.

Why do you ask for peoples’ perspectives and then not listen?
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You’re a doormat and nothing will change that!

Such a doormat that she's now so upset about this and last night on the phone smiling at me saying she's going on a date tomorrow and chatting to another man as well to rub it in my face lol

She said we was friends kept on reminding me of this every day telling me she never wanted more now all of a sudden this comes out and she's hurt and I'm the one in the wrong and shes saying we was more than just friends Bullshit !!

I’m sorry but this is HILARIOUS. I don’t even know her and I knew she would react like this. Continue to string you along with this little cat and mouse game šŸ˜‚
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I had a feeling she would as well but when asked outright about what she wanted she told me a meaningful relationship and then when I came back and said why you even call me back to play this same bullshit game again šŸ™„ she back tracked on her words and said I thought you was asking me as an individual she's full of crap !!
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Posted by sweethearts

You’re a doormat and nothing will change that!

Such a doormat that she's now so upset about this and last night on the phone smiling at me saying she's going on a date tomorrow and chatting to another man as well to rub it in my face lol

She said we was friends kept on reminding me of this every day telling me she never wanted more now all of a sudden this comes out and she's hurt and I'm the one in the wrong and shes saying we was more than just friends Bullshit !!

I’m sorry but this is HILARIOUS. I don’t even know her and I knew she would react like this. Continue to string you along with this little cat and mouse game šŸ˜‚

I had a feeling she would as well but when asked outright about what she wanted she told me a meaningful relationship and then when I came back and said why you even call me back to play this same bullshit game again šŸ™„ she back tracked on her words and said I thought you was asking me as an individual she's full of crap !!

🤣 If she is not in sales she really should be. She keeps selling you the same dream over and over and over and over. What does her whole chart look like? The ā€œI thought you were asking me as an individualā€ is master level manipulation.
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I'm not trolling I never have just a person that really loves this woman when all this bullshit it not at player Chart is

SUN GEM

MOON VIRGO

MERCURY GEM

MARS ARIES

VENUS GEM
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Posted by nanobotz

The Gemini woman clearly has a lot of unhealed trauma and will continue to be destructive to herself, but unfortunately even more so to those around her. She played you yet again when she told you she wanted a relationship and then took it back.

You brought in another woman when you had this messy little emotional and psychological game with the Gemini going on, where you both clearly do have some level of feelings for each other (I do think she does, but she’s too fucked up to know what to do with them), so yes you were wrong for that. Don’t bring in someone else to join this messy bullshit until you and the gem are resolved. Which will be never at this point because you enjoy playing a losing game


Okay your right I shouldn't have brought another woman into the mess like I said but the Gem has no leg to stand on here right ? Because she told me we was just friends nothing more so how am I in the wrong for speaking to someone else when all me and the Gem was where friends yes she has to take responsibility for keeping me on a string inviting me to her place and not being honest what she wants I don't see how this is my fault she chose to sleep with me like I did with her
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Posted by GammaArietis
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Posted by sweethearts

You’re a doormat and nothing will change that!

Such a doormat that she's now so upset about this and last night on the phone smiling at me saying she's going on a date tomorrow and chatting to another man as well to rub it in my face lol

She said we was friends kept on reminding me of this every day telling me she never wanted more now all of a sudden this comes out and she's hurt and I'm the one in the wrong and shes saying we was more than just friends Bullshit !!

I’m sorry but this is HILARIOUS. I don’t even know her and I knew she would react like this. Continue to string you along with this little cat and mouse game šŸ˜‚

I had a feeling she would as well but when asked outright about what she wanted she told me a meaningful relationship and then when I came back and said why you even call me back to play this same bullshit game again šŸ™„ she back tracked on her words and said I thought you was asking me as an individual she's full of crap !!

🤣 If she is not in sales she really should be. She keeps selling you the same dream over and over and over and over. What does her whole chart look like? The ā€œI thought you were asking me as an individualā€ is master level manipulation.

MOON VIRGO

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Indecisive? Lol
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Posted by GammaArietis
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by GammaArietis
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by sweethearts

You’re a doormat and nothing will change that!

Such a doormat that she's now so upset about this and last night on the phone smiling at me saying she's going on a date tomorrow and chatting to another man as well to rub it in my face lol

She said we was friends kept on reminding me of this every day telling me she never wanted more now all of a sudden this comes out and she's hurt and I'm the one in the wrong and shes saying we was more than just friends Bullshit !!

I’m sorry but this is HILARIOUS. I don’t even know her and I knew she would react like this. Continue to string you along with this little cat and mouse game šŸ˜‚

I had a feeling she would as well but when asked outright about what she wanted she told me a meaningful relationship and then when I came back and said why you even call me back to play this same bullshit game again šŸ™„ she back tracked on her words and said I thought you was asking me as an individual she's full of crap !!

🤣 If she is not in sales she really should be. She keeps selling you the same dream over and over and over and over. What does her whole chart look like? The ā€œI thought you were asking me as an individualā€ is master level manipulation.

I'm not trolling I never have just a person that really loves this woman when all this bullshit it not at player Chart is

SUN GEM

MOON VIRGO

MERCURY GEM

MARS ARIES

VENUS GEM
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Cold 😬
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Posted by Centaur12
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Posted by Centaur12
Posted by GammaArietis
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by GammaArietis
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by sweethearts

You’re a doormat and nothing will change that!

Such a doormat that she's now so upset about this and last night on the phone smiling at me saying she's going on a date tomorrow and chatting to another man as well to rub it in my face lol

She said we was friends kept on reminding me of this every day telling me she never wanted more now all of a sudden this comes out and she's hurt and I'm the one in the wrong and shes saying we was more than just friends Bullshit !!

I’m sorry but this is HILARIOUS. I don’t even know her and I knew she would react like this. Continue to string you along with this little cat and mouse game šŸ˜‚

I had a feeling she would as well but when asked outright about what she wanted she told me a meaningful relationship and then when I came back and said why you even call me back to play this same bullshit game again šŸ™„ she back tracked on her words and said I thought you was asking me as an individual she's full of crap !!

🤣 If she is not in sales she really should be. She keeps selling you the same dream over and over and over and over. What does her whole chart look like? The ā€œI thought you were asking me as an individualā€ is master level manipulation.

MOON VIRGO

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Indecisive? Lol

Not at al lol. She knows what she’s doing. She’s punishing you for making her look stupid.
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Trying to make me crawl to her with my tail between my legs because she never thought I would of gone anywhere else it's hurt her ego.
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Yes it was wrong to date someone when you are in love/obsessed with another.

Unfair....

So your saying i am wrong?

Because I was told by the Gem we are just friends she knew the games she was playing on me and then sleeping with me filling my head with bullshit so I joined on the dating app as a distraction sounds bad but that's all it was.

She didn't want a relationship with me at all.
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you are WRONG on many, many levels. but instead of WRONG, i“d say either really dumb/immature. all parties involved seem to be missing a few links.

i think i read somewhere you all have kids ....i pity them for not having stable and capable adults around.

you hooked up with aries to provoke the gemini. that“s all it is. stupid games.
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I want to know am I in the wrong for dating the Aries while being in a friendship with the Gemini as this is what the gemini told me we was she told me for months we aren't together when I was trying to confirm a relationship with her and we are only friends and kept me around still sleeping with me and letting me see her kids like I was a father figure.

I know it was wrong of me to date the Aries while speaking to the Gem that's why I ended things with the Aries and other reasons as well but from the gems point of view she's saying i was playing her but in what way was I playing her she told me we was friends she was free to date just as much as I was plus I never slept with the Aries until me and the Gem stopped talking all together!! She won't fess up and take responsibility for her actions as well !!



Was I wrong towards the Gem I know was wrong to the aries?


No I don't think you wrong. Why not just turn them both into your harems and be done with it.
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Posted by DonnaLibra

I've had many female friends who were Geminis and the one thing they all hate is a weak man. Please straighten up and show this woman you will not roll over like a dog for her. If you show that you aren't weak for her she will respect you and treat you better. You should have told her to go to hell when you were involved with the Aries and blocked her.


I wish I did