My Sagittarius girlfriend ignoring calls and messages.

We've dated for a while and its been fun. I left the town we met for 3 months, and she kept calling I should come back and all that. 2 months ago I returned to the same town, and we met again, had sex again. I asked her if she cheated while I was away, she admitted she did have sex once with her ex. I didn't throw tantrums, I only told her that as I'm back, I'm back for good, that she shouldn't see her ex again. She then left. We still talked for 3days after that day. When I wanted seeing her again, she says she's busy. I will suggest a next date, she'll say she'll call me when she's free. I will call her to ask her if there's any problem, she will say there is no problem. Its been over 2weeks since then, she hasn't still called. I texted her on Facebook, she saw the message, but won't read or reply, and she chats on Facebook pretty often. I call, she won't pick nor return my calls.

I'm lost. I don't know what to do, or if I should be calling/texting her continuously. She hasn't blocked me on Facebook.

Is this how Sagittarius girls break up? How do they break up if not this way? Do they open up that they want to leave, or they just ghost?

Sagittarius ladies please help me out here. I'm Aquarius.

Posted by XoGXOG
Leave the sag.

Just ask yourself why would you want a woman who cheated on you with her ex?

Once you have honestly answered that question for yourself you will have your answer.

Good luck OP.

P.S. I am certain she has gone back to her ex.

I tried leaving her/moving on, but it seems I can't get her out of my mind. I so love her. I don't even know if she has moved on, because I feel Sag girls are open, and she'll tell me she's no longer interested, which she hasn't done. The silence is my problem, and I can't know where I stand anymore with her.

My guess would be that she's not interested at the moment. Or maybe she's just confused and is still hung up on her ex.

Either way, i would back off for now.

It seems she got back to her ex. Either way, she lost interest in you, probably because you were in and out of town and she found/returned to someone more stable (for sex).

Good morning, I'm NOT a Saggy woman; BUT I'm a woman. Sorry, she doesn't want anything to do with you anymore. I THINK (even though she had sex w/her ex for one time; uh huh) she's back with him. When a woman ignores you it just means that she has moved on. She's having "fun" w/ex and you've uh, been replaced. Sorry (2nd time). 😢

🤗 Cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: I am the type of woman that I don't stay where I'm NOT wanted; wish you would do the same as she is doing; ignore her. But guess what?! When she's DUMPED by this ex-bf she will call and YOU will answer quick as a flash! Yeah, that's how it always goes.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by XoGXOG
Leave the sag.

Just ask yourself why would you want a woman who cheated on you with her ex?

Once you have honestly answered that question for yourself you will have your answer.

Good luck OP.

P.S. I am certain she has gone back to her ex.

I tried leaving her/moving on, but it seems I can't get her out of my mind. I so love her. I don't even know if she has moved on, because I feel Sag girls are open, and she'll tell me she's no longer interested, which she hasn't done. The silence is my problem, and I can't know where I stand anymore with her.

Air and fire go well, but she is a mutable and you are fixed so as a fixed sign it will take you longer to get over her.

But sags tend to get bored and hop around alot. If they lose interest it is hard to get that interest back. I have sag in my 5th house and 4 major placements in the 9th house. But my sun sign is fixed but I certainly can understand, know and am attracted to sag placements but not in the sun format.

But in your case it could be the factor of the "sparcity theory".

I suggest you spend time to recoup and hang with your mates. Aquas are the humanitarians of the zodia and do like their own space a lot of it. In fact emotional wise I feel they are way too cool so just concentrate on you will get over her.

She cheated. Sags are half horse. They are looking for their true master and stable to permanently rest. It takes a long long time to find this person. I am a chinese fire horse 😉

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Your a mutable. All the Pisces and sag. I'd bet anything that your mutable dominant.

Hit me with the pullen chart and prove me wrong.

Posted by TheSagLady_
It's either:

1. She's extremely pissed off up to the point she just doesnt want to talk to you because you're such a mood ruiner ?.... Good luck with talking her out of this, you got a long way to go ?

2. She lost interest. And she wants to break up

How to know?

Push her...If she then became very mean the number 2 is your answer.

If she's just cold and skeptical number 1 is your answer.

Pardon me, but by push her, you mean I should call/text her more? Because am a bit cautious how to do this, so I don't scare her off the more with pressure, if there was any hope of her coming back, if it even happens that way at all.

Any practical steps, if you don't mind? Thank you

Update: I called and she picked up this time. I asked her how she was, she replied calmly, said she was fine. Asked her why she's kept mute on me for the past weeks, she said she didn't have call credit to call me. I then asked her if she doesn't want us to see anymore, she says she didn't ever say anything of that sort. At that moment I didn't want to ask her if she was still interested in the relationship anymore just so I don't seem needy.



What do you guys think of this situation, please...

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Posted by XoGXOG
Leave the sag.

Just ask yourself why would you want a woman who cheated on you with her ex?

Once you have honestly answered that question for yourself you will have your answer.

Good luck OP.

P.S. I am certain she has gone back to her ex.

I tried leaving her/moving on, but it seems I can't get her out of my mind. I so love her. I don't even know if she has moved on, because I feel Sag girls are open, and she'll tell me she's no longer interested, which she hasn't done. The silence is my problem, and I can't know where I stand anymore with her.

Air and fire go well, but she is a mutable and you are fixed so as a fixed sign it will take you longer to get over her.

But sags tend to get bored and hop around alot. If they lose interest it is hard to get that interest back. I have sag in my 5th house and 4 major placements in the 9th house. But my sun sign is fixed but I certainly can understand, know and am attracted to sag placements but not in the sun format.

But in your case it could be the factor of the "sparcity theory".

I suggest you spend time to recoup and hang with your mates. Aquas are the humanitarians of the zodia and do like their own space a lot of it. In fact emotional wise I feel they are way too cool so just concentrate on you will get over her.

She cheated. Sags are half horse. They are looking for their true master and stable to permanently rest. It takes a long long time to find this person. I am a chinese fire horse 😉

Your a mutable. All the Pisces and sag. I'd bet anything that your mutable dominant.

Hit me with the pullen chart and prove me wrong.

The sun plays an important part. Mine is fixed. Come on people. Give a girl a break hahaha

Positions of Planets

Sun7°43'Taurus

Moon11°55'Leo

Mercury12°32'Aries

Venus22°40'Pisces

Mars7°54'Taurus

Jupiter28°40'Gemini

Saturn25°31'Pisces

Uranus15°46'ЯVirgo

Neptune21°11'ЯScorpio

Pluto16°01'ЯVirgo

Chiron24°39'Pisces

Ceres8°35'Taurus

Pallas29°19'Pisces

Juno28°57'Aries

Vesta13°18'Cancer

Node25°26'ЯTaurus

Lilith28°40'Pisces

Fortune20°00'Scorpio

AS15°48'Leo

MC29°03'Aries

Planets in Houses*

Sun House 9

Moon House 12

Mercury House 8

Venus House 8

Mars House 9

Jupiter House 11

Saturn House 8

Uranus House 2

Neptune House 4

Pluto House 2

Chiron House 8

Ceres House 9

Pallas House 8

Juno House 9

Vesta House 11

Node House 10

Lilith House 8

Fortune House 4

* In keeping with the common practice, we consider that a planet posited within 1 degree of the next house belongs to that house. We allow an orb of 2 degrees for the ASC and the MC.

Positions of Houses

House 115°48'Leo

House 215°48'Virgo

House 315°48'Libra

House 415°48'Scorpio

House 515°48'Sagittarius

House 615°48'Capricorn

House 715°48'Aquarius

House 815°48'Pisces

House 915°48'Aries

House 1015°48'Taurus

House 1115°48'Gemini

House 1215°48'Cancer

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Your sun is in a sag house, meaning your Taurus placement is weak af.

Post the pullen chart...

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Posted by XoGXOG
Leave the sag.

Just ask yourself why would you want a woman who cheated on you with her ex?

Once you have honestly answered that question for yourself you will have your answer.

Good luck OP.

P.S. I am certain she has gone back to her ex.

I tried leaving her/moving on, but it seems I can't get her out of my mind. I so love her. I don't even know if she has moved on, because I feel Sag girls are open, and she'll tell me she's no longer interested, which she hasn't done. The silence is my problem, and I can't know where I stand anymore with her.

Air and fire go well, but she is a mutable and you are fixed so as a fixed sign it will take you longer to get over her.

But sags tend to get bored and hop around alot. If they lose interest it is hard to get that interest back. I have sag in my 5th house and 4 major placements in the 9th house. But my sun sign is fixed but I certainly can understand, know and am attracted to sag placements but not in the sun format.

But in your case it could be the factor of the "sparcity theory".

I suggest you spend time to recoup and hang with your mates. Aquas are the humanitarians of the zodia and do like their own space a lot of it. In fact emotional wise I feel they are way too cool so just concentrate on you will get over her.

She cheated. Sags are half horse. They are looking for their true master and stable to permanently rest. It takes a long long time to find this person. I am a chinese fire horse 😉

Your a mutable. All the Pisces and sag. I'd bet anything that your mutable dominant.

Hit me with the pullen chart and prove me wrong.

I am not on trial. I have a fixed sun.

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This isn't cat lady astrology. Your sun is 1/12th of what you are.

With all your sag and Pisces and (if I remember correctly) Gemini placements and houses your a mutable...in spite of your fixed sun.

dude wtf just leave.

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Posted by Princely
Update: I called and she picked up this time. I asked her how she was, she replied calmly, said she was fine. Asked her why she's kept mute on me for the past weeks, she said she didn't have call credit to call me. I then asked her if she doesn't want us to see anymore, she says she didn't ever say anything of that sort. At that moment I didn't want to ask her if she was still interested in the relationship anymore just so I don't seem needy.



What do you guys think of this situation, please...

OP, i need to ask..is it a relationship (commitment ) or are the two of you just hookin up?

Because that would explain her behaviour!

If it's just hooking up, she probably is annoyed that you are making demands.

She might just want a sexual rls with you and not more.(at the moment)

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Its an actual relationship. I courted her, asked her to be my girlfriend, she agreed.

Posted by TheSagLady_
It's either:

1. She's extremely pissed off up to the point she just doesnt want to talk to you because you're such a mood ruiner ?.... Good luck with talking her out of this, you got a long way to go ?

2. She lost interest. And she wants to break up

How to know?

Push her...If she then became very mean the number 2 is your answer.

If she's just cold and skeptical number 1 is your answer.

Yup

Lol, nothing so confusing as a butthurt Sagi ??

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Posted by Princely

Posted by XoGXOG
Leave the sag.

Just ask yourself why would you want a woman who cheated on you with her ex?

Once you have honestly answered that question for yourself you will have your answer.

Good luck OP.

P.S. I am certain she has gone back to her ex.

I tried leaving her/moving on, but it seems I can't get her out of my mind. I so love her. I don't even know if she has moved on, because I feel Sag girls are open, and she'll tell me she's no longer interested, which she hasn't done. The silence is my problem, and I can't know where I stand anymore with her.

Air and fire go well, but she is a mutable and you are fixed so as a fixed sign it will take you longer to get over her.

But sags tend to get bored and hop around alot. If they lose interest it is hard to get that interest back. I have sag in my 5th house and 4 major placements in the 9th house. But my sun sign is fixed but I certainly can understand, know and am attracted to sag placements but not in the sun format.

But in your case it could be the factor of the "sparcity theory".

I suggest you spend time to recoup and hang with your mates. Aquas are the humanitarians of the zodia and do like their own space a lot of it. In fact emotional wise I feel they are way too cool so just concentrate on you will get over her.

She cheated. Sags are half horse. They are looking for their true master and stable to permanently rest. It takes a long long time to find this person. I am a chinese fire horse 😉

Your a mutable. All the Pisces and sag. I'd bet anything that your mutable dominant.

Hit me with the pullen chart and prove me wrong.

I am not on trial. I have a fixed sun.

This isn't cat lady astrology. Your sun is 1/12th of what you are.

With all your sag and Pisces and (if I remember correctly) Gemini placements and houses your a mutable...in spite of your fixed sun.

I think there is 8 mutable and 7 fixed. So it is balanced between fixed and mutable. Even stevens 🙂

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Each one isn't equal.

The house has something to do with it. Each sign has its ruling planet and house. For example Taurus rules venus, 2nd house...so if you have your venus in taurus in 2nd its a powerful placement on your chart.

I'm still learning about it. Seriously do your Pullen chart. I was shocked when I did mine but it all makes so much sense. @Chuckcem linked an easy for-dummies guide.

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Posted by XoGXOG
Leave the sag.

Just ask yourself why would you want a woman who cheated on you with her ex?

Once you have honestly answered that question for yourself you will have your answer.

Good luck OP.

P.S. I am certain she has gone back to her ex.

I tried leaving her/moving on, but it seems I can't get her out of my mind. I so love her. I don't even know if she has moved on, because I feel Sag girls are open, and she'll tell me she's no longer interested, which she hasn't done. The silence is my problem, and I can't know where I stand anymore with her.

Air and fire go well, but she is a mutable and you are fixed so as a fixed sign it will take you longer to get over her.

But sags tend to get bored and hop around alot. If they lose interest it is hard to get that interest back. I have sag in my 5th house and 4 major placements in the 9th house. But my sun sign is fixed but I certainly can understand, know and am attracted to sag placements but not in the sun format.

But in your case it could be the factor of the "sparcity theory".

I suggest you spend time to recoup and hang with your mates. Aquas are the humanitarians of the zodia and do like their own space a lot of it. In fact emotional wise I feel they are way too cool so just concentrate on you will get over her.

She cheated. Sags are half horse. They are looking for their true master and stable to permanently rest. It takes a long long time to find this person. I am a chinese fire horse 😉

Your a mutable. All the Pisces and sag. I'd bet anything that your mutable dominant.

Hit me with the pullen chart and prove me wrong.

I am not on trial. I have a fixed sun.

This isn't cat lady astrology. Your sun is 1/12th of what you are.

With all your sag and Pisces and (if I remember correctly) Gemini placements and houses your a mutable...in spite of your fixed sun.

I think there is 8 mutable and 7 fixed. So it is balanced between fixed and mutable. Even stevens 🙂

Each one isn't equal.

The house has something to do with it. Each sign has its ruling planet and house. For example Taurus rules venus, 2nd house...so if you have your venus in taurus in 2nd its a powerful placement on your chart.

I'm still learning about it. Seriously do your Pullen chart. I was shocked when I did mine but it all makes so much sense. @Chuckcem linked an easy for-dummies guide.

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Just gonna put this right here: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology-how-to/finding-dominant-planets-elements-signs-in-natal-chart-8334853/?checkpg=1

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Posted by Princely

Posted by TheSagLady_
It's either:

1. She's extremely pissed off up to the point she just doesnt want to talk to you because you're such a mood ruiner ?.... Good luck with talking her out of this, you got a long way to go ?

2. She lost interest. And she wants to break up

How to know?

Push her...If she then became very mean the number 2 is your answer.

If she's just cold and skeptical number 1 is your answer.

Pardon me, but by push her, you mean I should call/text her more? Because am a bit cautious how to do this, so I don't scare her off the more with pressure, if there was any hope of her coming back, if it even happens that way at all.

Any practical steps, if you don't mind? Thank you

You're very polite you know.. are you British?



I read your update.

Try to look back and remember, is there something that you did that pissed her off very much?

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Thank you. I'm not British. I'm Nigerian.

And I didn't do anything to piss her off. She's just gone off quiet, leaving me with no clue as to if she's done with the relationship, of something is bothering her.

Posted by Princely
We've dated for a while and its been fun. I left the town we met for 3 months, and she kept calling I should come back and all that. 2 months ago I returned to the same town, and we met again, had sex again. I asked her if she cheated while I was away, she admitted she did have sex once with her ex. I didn't throw tantrums, I only told her that as I'm back, I'm back for good, that she shouldn't see her ex again. She then left. We still talked for 3days after that day. When I wanted seeing her again, she says she's busy. I will suggest a next date, she'll say she'll call me when she's free. I will call her to ask her if there's any problem, she will say there is no problem. Its been over 2weeks since then, she hasn't still called. I texted her on Facebook, she saw the message, but won't read or reply, and she chats on Facebook pretty often. I call, she won't pick nor return my calls.

I'm lost. I don't know what to do, or if I should be calling/texting her continuously. She hasn't blocked me on Facebook.

Is this how Sagittarius girls break up? How do they break up if not this way? Do they open up that they want to leave, or they just ghost?

Sagittarius ladies please help me out here. I'm Aquarius.

Question, were the two fo you exclusive or were you just casually dating? If the two of you were seriously dating that's one thing, but if you were casually dating and hooking up, then she didn't really "cheat" on you. She may have just felt guilty about possibly hurting you, but may have not wanted anything serious.

Also did you expect to be gone for three months or was the duration of time unclear? If she did in fact cheat, your first mistake was taking her back. Three months is not a long time. College students in relationships take three month long summer breaks all of the time (if not longer). If the woman you're dating can't remain faithful for that amount of time, she's not worth pursuing.

By taking her back and pursuing her, you basically sent the message that she could walk all over you. If women (especially Sagittarius women) feel like you won't stand up to them, you'll seem internally weak. NO woman wants a man who is incapable of standing up for himself because that means he won't be strong enough to stand up for her either. You should have let her go in this case.

Sagittarians also respect people of principle as they tend to uphold their own firmly. They are also so accustomed to being pursued that they respect those who can resist their charms more. It's this reason that I'll say it's best if a Sag is actively pursuing you instead of the other way around. Once a Sag loses respect for you, they lose all interest.

Devil's Advocate: On the other hand, if you weren't in a serious relationship with this Sag woman, she may have not been looking to be tied down. Sagittarians are pretty honest and will even admit to infidelities. That being said, if you two weren't seriously dating, she probably had no problem telling you that she hooked up with her ex. She may have even thought it strange that you used the word "cheated" in the first place. In which case she may have thought you were too clingy and ghosted.

Sagittarians tend to avoid emotional confrontations and will generally let things drop. Though some will have a conversation with you if they were emotionally involved. So there isn't really anything left for you to do here. She's ignoring you and hoping you get the hint to stop contacting her. The more you contact her, the less respect she'll have for you. She either wasn't looking for anything serious OR she stopped respecting you as a person. It's possible she may even be getting back with her ex and is blowing you off.

Sometime people need a second to think.

honestly sounds like something iv done many times.

we are non committal, we are very independent free thinkers and we don't like being controlled.

we can also be casusal. sex is casual to me. I don't look at is as too romantic. its just fun.

I think you turned her off by trying to control her and now she needs some space.

and If I was use id get back to casual mode, do your thing, respectfully, and maybe she will come back around.