men what is your nightmare for a woman?

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a woman who ....here in the video,

"women shoulder significantly more greater debt than men"

is a woman who is going to bankrupt you by shopping lots.



"women are getting into debt by keeping physical attractive"







also, make a list of what is a nightmare for you in a woman and SCARES the hell out of you...



1) a woman who spends alot and goes into debt

2) a woman who never cooks and cleans?

3) never wants sex

4) bitches at you?

5)



well tell us!!!
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Posted by Impulsv
MEN don’t Care about financial status of a womaN

Know one who married a bankrupted unemployed
oh i saw the news on Tori Spelling,

then saw that she had a 5th baby, and her net worth is 0 due to the taxes taking it away.

so i thought...a woman who had millions all gone,

and her husband who had to quit his career too..

i guess men dont really care deep down.



btw, did that person who married the bankrupt unemployed ...did he at least have money? cause two bankrupt unemployed doesn't sound good.
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Posted by Impulsv
MEN don’t Care about financial status of a womaN

Know one who married a bankrupted unemployed
oh i saw the news on Tori Spelling,

then saw that she had a 5th baby, and her net worth is 0 due to the taxes taking it away.

so i thought...a woman who had millions all gone,

and her husband who had to quit his career too..

i guess men dont really care deep down.



btw, did that person who married the bankrupt unemployed ...did he at least have money? cause two bankrupt unemployed doesn't sound good.
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And considering she looks like a man...all above is just a...small potatoes!
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MEN don’t Care about financial status of a womaN

Know one who married a bankrupted unemployed
oh i saw the news on Tori Spelling,

then saw that she had a 5th baby, and her net worth is 0 due to the taxes taking it away.

so i thought...a woman who had millions all gone,

and her husband who had to quit his career too..

i guess men dont really care deep down.



btw, did that person who married the bankrupt unemployed ...did he at least have money? cause two bankrupt unemployed doesn't sound good.
And considering she looks like a man...all above is just a...small potatoes!
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small potatoes?

and here i thought debt is a deal breaker for alot of men. she still owes alot so if she makes more from any shows taxes are gonna take it

https://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/2017/06/tori-spelling-headed-to-jail-over-mounting-debt-issues/

she does? lol

she's never been attractive in the average hollywood starlet way, but she's never gotten surgery for it to change her looks.(when she inherited the money and had money back then) so she sounds happy with her face.

her husband is pretty handsome too. not my type but looks like one of my man's colleagues.

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well i'm glad they stick together, i love the for better for worse!!! in marriage/relationsihp.
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Posted by tiziani
Can only thing of shit I've run into over the years, rather than hypotheticals. None of it scary scary to the level of demonising women or men, some of it can be worked through as long as you look at your own behaviours also as a dude.



1. Behaving like her partner's feelings are an after-thought

example:

Her: "I felt that what you did was messed up"

Him: "It was messed up. I hear you."

-

Him: "I feel what you did was messed up."

Her: "maybe you see it that way because (endless rationalizing for the next half hour when it's quicker just to acknowledge it and move on)"

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2. "Long-sufferers" who can't accept a win when it's there on the table to be had



Great example of this was brought up by a behavioural psychologist student in their sessions:

Farah: "now that we've agreed he gets to do xy whenever he helps with z, he does z perfectly. But I wanted him to WANT to do it by himself. It feels wrong?"

It will be a struggle to meet Farah half way on anything. Nightmare.

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3. Vaguely experienced this when I was much younger, women who lose all sense of their identity (or never pushed themselves to any sense of personal identity to begin with) seems like worst case scenario.

Example:

Susan: "Once I became a mother, nothing else mattered."

😐 Good luck having any fun with Susan.

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p.s. the stuff in the vid I cannot relate to. It sounds pretty American.
sooo no.3 is like babies is all she cares about and not the husband anymore?

no.2 does sound scary.

no. 1 just sounds like never on the same page..

but it does sound like that person who is with that person is gonna have to help fix them and tell them straight.

it's a work in progress alll the time...



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Someone who won't consider their feelings ...or be dishonest ..or just hurt them obv.
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true.true.obviously

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guiiisee, it's good to hear that being in debt is not a deal breaker. lol

cause some astrologers seem to think and relationship gurus think that lol

also @Tiziani, it must be a cultural thing, because you're from southern europe? and even the example i gave,

an actor/ tv producer from Canada obviously didnt divorce due to debt from wife,

and he left ex wife so he should have NOT left ex wife if he didnt want to incrue more debt.



https://www.bankrate.com/life style /celebrity-money/tori-spelling-net-worth/



CELEBRITY MONEY

Tori Spelling

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How Tori Spelling’s net worth was built

Born Victoria Davey Spelling, actress Tori Spelling found fame at age 17 as part of the cast of teen drama “Beverly Hills, 90210,” which was created by her father, legendary producer and director Aaron Spelling. By this time she was also an industry veteran, having appeared on many of her father’s TV shows, such as “Vega $ ,” “The Love Boat” and “T.J. Hooker.” Building on the success of “90210,” Spelling began appearing in numerous made-for-TV movies and a few feature films.

In 2005 Spelling produced and starred in a VH1 sitcom called “So Notorious,” based loosely on her life. When her father died in 2006, she and her husband, actor Dean McDermott, opened a bed-and-breakfast with some of her inheritance. The couple have had several reality TV shows focusing on their marriage and children.

There are conflicting reports of how much Spelling inherited from her father, whose estate was worth $ 600 million when he died in 2006. She and her mother, Candy, were estranged at the time. Spelling said in her 2013 book, “Spelling It Like It Is,” that she was having financial troubles due to a variety of circumstances. Celebrity Net Worth reports her net worth as of May 2017 was only $ 500,000.

Use our net worth calculator to figure out your own net worth.



The IRS recently drained $ 700,000 out of Spelling’s bank account to satisfy a tax lien. The couple have credit card debts and McDermott’s child support debts to his ex-wife hanging over them. Spelling has a line of jewelry that she designs and sells on HSN. In March 2017, she and her husband had their fifth child.

https://www.celebritynetworth.com/richest-celebrities/actors/dean-mcdermott-net-worth/

Tori replied "I don't have one million dollars. We had some income here and there, but no savings apart from our retirement accounts." To be fair, Tori's husband Dean clarified her statements the next day by telling US Magazine that "Right now things are going well. Tori and I are doing just fine financially". In March 2017, City National Bank filed a lawsuit against Tori and Dean after they failed to pay off $ 200,000 out of a $ 400,000 loan. City National also claims that Tori overdrew $ 17,000 from her checking account. Meanwhile, while that lawsuit was going on Dean was also being sued by his ex for $ 100,000 in owed child support. A few months earlier the couple was sued by American Express for $ 87,000 in credit card debt and $ 260,000 in unpaid taxes.





so how is she making their money? with 5 children and children from past marraiges?
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i would think single men out there would be afraid of women with debt or a finger trigger on shopping sprees


they want someone who will put em in debt due to shopping sprees? where do I sign up? I can make someone feel like the true bread winner
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lmao



that should be on a famous QUOTE!!



"men need a woman who will shop till they drop!!! make you feel like a real man!! bread winner!!"



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tori spelling type of women should never marry men who can't afford them lol



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why would any man even marry her if not for money?


she has a Net worth $ 600 million of million ..i doubt she cares why he married her

if i were that rich i would be like... be nice bae you on the payroll!
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um she has no net worth, last year 2017 her net worth was 500k which taxes took because she owes back taxes.

she's in debt is what it says.
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tori spelling type of women should never marry men who can't afford them lol



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why would any man even marry her if not for money?

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she has no money...jeez.

unless you all are thinking when her mother Candy Spelling dies...

that's terrible.

Candy Spelling would probably live another ten years. and maybe if she's healthy, another 20 years but in a home. I know for a fact that many old folks in homes who are wealthy, (they usually are in a very nice home care) still KEEP their money until they die. So Tori will only get charity money from her mother.

in the meantime Tori spelling and her husband have to care for five children and to raise them and feed and then put them in college.
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so honestly dont wait on your grandparent or parent to die ...jeeeez.... go and make money.



http://www.eonline.com/news/593102/source-tori-spelling-and-dean-mcdermott-have-gone-through-18-million

http://www.lifeand style mag.com/posts/tori-spelling-and-dean-mcdermott-turn-to-her-estranged-mother-candy-to-help-pay-60-000-in-monthly-bills-53564



edit reading all this, do you honestly feel, people, that it's bad parenting what they did to Tori? 😢
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tori spelling type of women should never marry men who can't afford them lol



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why would any man even marry her if not for money?


taurus-scorpio connection
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it's a shame there's no rising on Dylan McDermott. we all know he's Scorpio stellium with virgo mars.

and poosible capricorn moon. but i get the feeling he isn't cappy moon. lol

but if he's an alcoholic, i can believe it. only because any addiction will make you not do anything and feel woe is me. I've seen alcoholics, it's terrible addiction.

but normally that cappy moon is a work horse.
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tori spelling type of women should never marry men who can't afford them lol



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why would any man even marry her if not for money?


taurus-scorpio connection


it's a shame there's no rising on Dylan McDermott. we all know he's Scorpio stellium with virgo mars.

and poosible capricorn moon. but i get the feeling he isn't cappy moon. lol

but if he's an alcoholic, i can believe it. only because any addiction will make you not do anything and feel woe is me. I've seen alcoholics, it's terrible addiction.

but normally that cappy moon is a work horse.


looks like a cap rising to me

with those small features
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wow interesting. but i thought it was also his virgo influence combination.

i do have a strong feeling he has addiction problems. i didnt search if he went into rehab..

but the thing about him cheating on tori when he used to work at that canadian tv show, as a presenter.

just alot of stuff that points instability.



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Kanye West married Kim Kardashian and he made a comment that he was so ready to commit because she had money and that represented stability.

He is a Venus in Taurus.

Money/debts does matter.
my gem cousin

with her venus in the 2nd house

told me she wanted a man with money
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It is a prerequisite of mine as well.

I make a nice chunk of change and I don't want my husband leeching off of me and me off of him.

I want us both to bring something to the table and build some wealth together.

Some ppl don't have the mindset to build wealth.
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tori spelling type of women should never marry men who can't afford them lol



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why would any man even marry her if not for money?


she has no money...jeez.

unless you all are thinking when her mother Candy Spelling dies...

that's terrible.

Candy Spelling would probably live another ten years. and maybe if she's healthy, another 20 years but in a home. I know for a fact that many old folks in homes who are wealthy, (they usually are in a very nice home care) still KEEP their money until they die. So Tori will only get charity money from her mother.

in the meantime Tori spelling and her husband have to care for five children and to raise them and feed and then put them in college.

oh i thought she was rich...

well her fam should share the wealth like ...give her a trust fund monthly payment ..thats just petty

still tho ... most people have to look after kids and put them thro college alone ...thats just normal
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i think so too that it's their responsiblity because well, they brought her up and it was their responsiblity to teach her how to take care of her money and be good with it and frugal.

obviously their money making was awesome (Aaron spelling is talented and smart) and he chose a good wife who can handle money (Candy spelling)

but something went wrong with the children in how they should have NOT spoiled them.

spoiling is nice yes but i did remember even someone on here commented to me that her father gave her a helicopter full of gifts dropped on their lawn on her 16th? i forget..

so basiclaly it is difficult but i get you that a trust fund or an allowance