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I know three scorpio suns in real life with leo moon and leo mars, and they are very very happy people.
they don't let shit get them down.
however,
look at the Taurus...
Taurus Sun
Cap Moon
Gem Mercury
Gem Venus
Aqua Mars.
that's almost Melania Trump's placements and Melania is EASTERN EUROPE too...and grew up poor.
and was in sexy porn stuff.
she will eventually RISE to the top.
when Melania was younger, she was CUTESY.
Posted by Lunabee
Can you post their charts? I'm curious now.Don't know the birth hour so just the first half:
Taurus Sun
Cap Moon
Gem Mercury
Gem Venus
Aqua Mars
Taurus Jupiter
Cap Saturn
Cap Uranus
Cap Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Scorpio Sun
Leo Moon
Sag Merc
Cap Venus
Scorpio Mars
Cancer Jupiter
Cap Saturn
Cap Uranus
Cap Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
ooohh cap moon is the redhead?
and leo moon is the blondine?
other way around
hm makes more sense when you talk about how the redhead gets MORE attention. that leo moon.
cancer Jupiter and scorpio mars trine.
the Taurus has her venus and mars not in good harmony with her Uranus and Jupiter, unlike the redhead.
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and not to mention, the Taurus is more Saturn contacts....not just Capricorn moon, but Saturn Capricorn, and some hard aspects.
No, it's the blonde that gets more attention. The Leo Moon is actually very shy, keeps to herself a lot.
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oh I thought you wrote that she gets more love/attention from family and the blonde tries to sabotage that.
Posted by Lunabee
Can you post their charts? I'm curious now.Don't know the birth hour so just the first half:
Taurus Sun
Cap Moon
Gem Mercury
Gem Venus
Aqua Mars
Taurus Jupiter
Cap Saturn
Cap Uranus
Cap Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Scorpio Sun
Leo Moon
Sag Merc
Cap Venus
Scorpio Mars
Cancer Jupiter
Cap Saturn
Cap Uranus
Cap Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
ooohh cap moon is the redhead?
and leo moon is the blondine?
other way around
hm makes more sense when you talk about how the redhead gets MORE attention. that leo moon.
cancer Jupiter and scorpio mars trine.
the Taurus has her venus and mars not in good harmony with her Uranus and Jupiter, unlike the redhead.
edit
and not to mention, the Taurus is more Saturn contacts....not just Capricorn moon, but Saturn Capricorn, and some hard aspects.
No, it's the blonde that gets more attention. The Leo Moon is actually very shy, keeps to herself a lot.
oh I thought you wrote that she gets more love/attention from family and the blonde tries to sabotage that.
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No, to the blonde's mother she pretty much has just one daughter, the blonde. So any attention the redhead gets is quickly dismissed.
Posted by Lunabee
Can you post their charts? I'm curious now.Don't know the birth hour so just the first half:
Taurus Sun
Cap Moon
Gem Mercury
Gem Venus
Aqua Mars
Taurus Jupiter
Cap Saturn
Cap Uranus
Cap Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Scorpio Sun
Leo Moon
Sag Merc
Cap Venus
Scorpio Mars
Cancer Jupiter
Cap Saturn
Cap Uranus
Cap Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
ooohh cap moon is the redhead?
and leo moon is the blondine?
other way around
hm makes more sense when you talk about how the redhead gets MORE attention. that leo moon.
cancer Jupiter and scorpio mars trine.
the Taurus has her venus and mars not in good harmony with her Uranus and Jupiter, unlike the redhead.
edit
and not to mention, the Taurus is more Saturn contacts....not just Capricorn moon, but Saturn Capricorn, and some hard aspects.
No, it's the blonde that gets more attention. The Leo Moon is actually very shy, keeps to herself a lot.
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I'm not surprised by this. The 2 Scorp sun/Leo moon females I know are both very shy and reserved. One of them even has the same Sag Merc. The other ended up marrying a Virgo sun/Leo moon (i misread his chart which earlier showed him as Aqua moon).
Posted by Lunabee
Can you post their charts? I'm curious now.Don't know the birth hour so just the first half:
Taurus Sun
Cap Moon
Gem Mercury
Gem Venus
Aqua Mars
Taurus Jupiter
Cap Saturn
Cap Uranus
Cap Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Scorpio Sun
Leo Moon
Sag Merc
Cap Venus
Scorpio Mars
Cancer Jupiter
Cap Saturn
Cap Uranus
Cap Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
ooohh cap moon is the redhead?
and leo moon is the blondine?
other way around
hm makes more sense when you talk about how the redhead gets MORE attention. that leo moon.
cancer Jupiter and scorpio mars trine.
the Taurus has her venus and mars not in good harmony with her Uranus and Jupiter, unlike the redhead.
edit
and not to mention, the Taurus is more Saturn contacts....not just Capricorn moon, but Saturn Capricorn, and some hard aspects.
No, it's the blonde that gets more attention. The Leo Moon is actually very shy, keeps to herself a lot.
oh I thought you wrote that she gets more love/attention from family and the blonde tries to sabotage that.
No, to the blonde's mother she pretty much has just one daughter, the blonde. So any attention the redhead gets is quickly dismissed.
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ohhh the blonde and the mother get along better.
Posted by Lunabee
Can you post their charts? I'm curious now.Don't know the birth hour so just the first half:
Taurus Sun
Cap Moon
Gem Mercury
Gem Venus
Aqua Mars
Taurus Jupiter
Cap Saturn
Cap Uranus
Cap Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Scorpio Sun
Leo Moon
Sag Merc
Cap Venus
Scorpio Mars
Cancer Jupiter
Cap Saturn
Cap Uranus
Cap Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
ooohh cap moon is the redhead?
and leo moon is the blondine?
other way around
hm makes more sense when you talk about how the redhead gets MORE attention. that leo moon.
cancer Jupiter and scorpio mars trine.
the Taurus has her venus and mars not in good harmony with her Uranus and Jupiter, unlike the redhead.
edit
and not to mention, the Taurus is more Saturn contacts....not just Capricorn moon, but Saturn Capricorn, and some hard aspects.
No, it's the blonde that gets more attention. The Leo Moon is actually very shy, keeps to herself a lot.
I'm not surprised by this. The 2 Scorp sun/Leo moon females I know are both very shy and reserved. One of them even has the same Sag Merc. The other ended up marrying a Virgo sun/Leo moon (i misread his chart which earlier showed him as Aqua moon).
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noo noo nooo I meant like they get attention because of WHO they are, it's their energy...
not because they go out of their way to get attention.
my husband and his cousins are this way. They don't go out of their way to get attention.
all they have to do is SIT there....
and even children want to clamour up to them and want to be around them.
My man even said to me, HONESTLY... he doesn't like children, or the thought of diapers or crap like that...he hates that.
but he said that its unexplainable...every child LOVES him. babies too!!!
he told me he never wanted children, so if we do have any it's just ONE.
it's like the SUN.....where all you have to do is SIT there....and everything comes to you.
my husband and his cousins just don't like attention and don't like people that much.
they don't like it.
and my man even says, "I have no fucking clue!!! why children always love him. I'm not doing anything."
and children are not really his thing, he doesn't want to have any.
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remember that quote back in the Scorpio forum with Dazed confused and Seraph— (this was very recently so I can find it and I quoted it and liked it!!)
SO SPOT ON!!!
HATES Children and the thought of diapers and crap.
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this quote!!! so spot on...but the thought NEVER changes...lol
Posted by seraph
Posted by DazedScorp
Not really...
I still want a life partner. I just don't see why the state needs to be involved with my relationship. Or... why I need the blessing of God when I don't believe in God.
And as far as kids go... I just don't like babies. They scare me.
If a child popped out of that hole with crayons and a coloring book, ready to go... I'd be down for that. But that crying, vomiting, diaper butterting thing they call a baby... I can't do that mess.
I'm very close to deciding to have the snip snip done, and I'm only 25 years old.
I'd be very willing to adopt later down the road.
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Posted by Damnata
Question in the topic title.Don't come in here with comments like "They both are lolol" or "Neither is hot imo".
Make a pick between the blonde and the redhead.
No "I don't know, whichever has the nicest personality/is smarter/bla bla bla" bullshit either.
I'm trying to put to rest a rivalry of 20+ years.
I have pics of both by themselves but I think comparisons work if both are in the same picture.
Blonde one in both pics.
Btw, is the red head is older than the blonde?
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Blonde older by one year.
Posted by Damnata
Question in the topic title.Don't come in here with comments like "They both are lolol" or "Neither is hot imo".
Make a pick between the blonde and the redhead.
No "I don't know, whichever has the nicest personality/is smarter/bla bla bla" bullshit either.
I'm trying to put to rest a rivalry of 20+ years.
I have pics of both by themselves but I think comparisons work if both are in the same picture.
Blonde one in both pics.
Btw, is the red head is older than the blonde?
Blonde older by one year.
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the guy in the first pic is really ruining stuff, need to photo shop him out, imo
also my virgo brother in law with the leo mars, he doesn't want anymore children.
what is it with LEO that doesn't really like children?? it's unexplainable.
😕
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they are good fathers though...just not their thing.
having children is an unselfish act.
Posted by Damnata
Question in the topic title.Don't come in here with comments like "They both are lolol" or "Neither is hot imo".
Make a pick between the blonde and the redhead.
No "I don't know, whichever has the nicest personality/is smarter/bla bla bla" bullshit either.
I'm trying to put to rest a rivalry of 20+ years.
I have pics of both by themselves but I think comparisons work if both are in the same picture.
Blonde one in both pics.
Btw, is the red head is older than the blonde?
Blonde older by one year.
the guy in the first pic is really ruining stuff, need to photo shop him out, imo
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lol
Posted by Lunabee
Can you post their charts? I'm curious now.Don't know the birth hour so just the first half:
Taurus Sun
Cap Moon
Gem Mercury
Gem Venus
Aqua Mars
Taurus Jupiter
Cap Saturn
Cap Uranus
Cap Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Scorpio Sun
Leo Moon
Sag Merc
Cap Venus
Scorpio Mars
Cancer Jupiter
Cap Saturn
Cap Uranus
Cap Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Now whos who lol. Scorp red head?
Yus.
Jfc, what's with me and keep getting attracted to taurus. Sigh...
Hahahhaha
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my husband is the same way, he likes Taurus in the chart. his best friend has Taurus moon and i'm Taurus dominant too!!
he has cousins who are scorpio, and he never really cared much for other scorpios. only as family and friendship. He wants his opposite. and familiarity (Capricorn, aquarius, pisces energies)
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i'm like Alyssa Sharpe...in where I OBSERVE what he likes, cause I get jealous!!!! too! and it's consistent....
and Alyssa Sharpe is married to a Scorpio sun/cancer moon, with Aries rising. I don't know his mars...he could be a Leo mars. cause she loves Leo energy she said.
Posted by Hide
Can I see a pic of their thigh area??Both have that thigh gap.
Not sure how obvious it's here but yeah. I can't even differentiate on body type.
Damn dude maybe I am drunk coz I am and I'd never thought I'd say this but are they too thin?? The blonde is cute and the redhead would look great as a milf. Lemme do 1 last look
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I think they are the perfect weight.
Blonde
They look exactly alike just different hair colors.
Posted by VivaciousScorpio
Who's hotter?"Her soul speaks to me through the body language in the pic"
...gtfo
We have two of the same placements. I bet you're a blunt, loveable a*hole.
I am changing my answer to: "I hate them both" unless the blonde likes me back
They're just lucky they arent cancer or i'd already have 15 alts and posts on the cancer forums
Posted by starwars
their mom
Your mom.
Posted by starwars
their momYour mom.
Your mom
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I don't think you'll like mine. She's like rockyroad x 2
Posted by starwars
their momYour mom.
Your mom
I don't think you'll like mine. She's like rockyroad x 2
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LOL you guys !!??
Posted by starwars
their momYour mom.
Your mom
I don't think you'll like mine. She's like rockyroad x 2
I like rockyroad she's funny and smart
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If you like being drowned in feels all day, 365 days a year, by all means. We can swap places.
Posted by starwars
their momYour mom.
Your mom
I don't think you'll like mine. She's like rockyroad x 2
I like rockyroad she's funny and smart
If you like being drowned in feels all day, 365 days a year, by all means. We can swap places.
it won't be that hard since I have Pisces parents lmao
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Good, cos she's Cancer/Pisces dominant.
Posted by Lunabee
Can you post their charts? I'm curious now.Don't know the birth hour so just the first half:
Taurus Sun
Cap Moon
Gem Mercury
Gem Venus
Aqua Mars
Taurus Jupiter
Cap Saturn
Cap Uranus
Cap Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Scorpio Sun
Leo Moon
Sag Merc
Cap Venus
Scorpio Mars
Cancer Jupiter
Cap Saturn
Cap Uranus
Cap Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Now whos who lol. Scorp red head?
Yus.
Jfc, what's with me and keep getting attracted to taurus. Sigh...
Hahahhaha
my husband is the same way, he likes Taurus in the chart. his best friend has Taurus moon and i'm Taurus dominant too!!
he has cousins who are scorpio, and he never really cared much for other scorpios. only as family and friendship. He wants his opposite. and familiarity (Capricorn, aquarius, pisces energies)
edit
i'm like Alyssa Sharpe...in where I OBSERVE what he likes, cause I get jealous!!!! too! and it's consistent....
and Alyssa Sharpe is married to a Scorpio sun/cancer moon, with Aries rising. I don't know his mars...he could be a Leo mars. cause she loves Leo energy she said.
Alyssa is niceee.. She can get real to BOTH other people and herself. And have you seen her with fairly full make up, with her working on her eyebrows and stuff? She looks absolutely GORGEOUS!
I can understand if her hubby appreciates her much lol
Yeah I have a few scorp friends and my first love was a scorp too (only a short few months), one of my boss is too. With them is just no mystery but I feel "understanding" with them like no need words much hahahaha
But with taurus (actually other earth signs but taurus more so coz they're fixed like me) i find them intruiging coz a lot of qualities in them I don't have so it will be real nice if I can tag-team with one. I like how they come across keeping my head down when things are "too dangerous". Hehehe
And so far with you lisbeth, your vibe is very soothing and non-threatening warmth. So i like it.
I sometimes pay attention to the vibes of some users give off here 🙂
*don't mind my libra placements 😛
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I don't follow her on facebook, or youtube but I will google to see if there's any NEW youtube videos up.
she had a 2nd baby so I know her time is used up with that too.
do you follow her on facebook??
I don't see much of her husband there. He is very private compared to her. lol
@Damnata, are they twins?
Posted by starwars
their momYour mom.
Your mom
I don't think you'll like mine. She's like rockyroad x 2
I like rockyroad she's funny and smart
If you like being drowned in feels all day, 365 days a year, by all means. We can swap places.
it won't be that hard since I have Pisces parents lmao
Good, cos she's Cancer/Pisces dominant.
I can't deal with cancer energy
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lol
aren't you cancer mars or something.? 😆
I'm not usually into red-heads, but I don't mind this one.
You want to compare sisters... evil
20+ years backstory to this but I don't want to sway anyone with that part.
Redhead is jelly of all the immediate attention the blonde is getting and call hers a bimbo for it out of spite?
Exactly the other way around, where the blonde had her sister believe she was ugly her whole life...among other things she did.
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On a first glance... the blonde would attract more looks. She knows how to standout (laugh with the whole face), probbaly extroverted and narcissistic (is she the kind that posts a lot of selfies on FB - while aiming for a daily/weekly dose of ego-strokes?), so looking hot - is kinda her game/specialty. The red-head is cute too - but in a different way, more introverted (shy looking) - she doesn't seem that fond of drawing too much attention - and that may attract different kind of people (the ones that take their time - the bf/gf material type).
Though, that just on first glance... After reading what you said above, if that's true - the blonde lost a big chunk of attraction points for having that type of personality...
we never asked here on this topic,
since Damnata has high integrity....
but did you ask these people if you could post their photos with permission for astrology purposes??
Posted by lisabethur8
we never asked here on this topic,since Damnata has high integrity....
but did you ask these people if you could post their photos with permission for astrology purposes??
Laws are different with Romanian internet.
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lol
sounds Chinese.
Posted by Lunabee
Can you post their charts? I'm curious now.Don't know the birth hour so just the first half:
Taurus Sun
Cap Moon
Gem Mercury
Gem Venus
Aqua Mars
Taurus Jupiter
Cap Saturn
Cap Uranus
Cap Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Scorpio Sun
Leo Moon
Sag Merc
Cap Venus
Scorpio Mars
Cancer Jupiter
Cap Saturn
Cap Uranus
Cap Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Now whos who lol. Scorp red head?
Yus.
Jfc, what's with me and keep getting attracted to taurus. Sigh...
Hahahhaha
my husband is the same way, he likes Taurus in the chart. his best friend has Taurus moon and i'm Taurus dominant too!!
he has cousins who are scorpio, and he never really cared much for other scorpios. only as family and friendship. He wants his opposite. and familiarity (Capricorn, aquarius, pisces energies)
edit
i'm like Alyssa Sharpe...in where I OBSERVE what he likes, cause I get jealous!!!! too! and it's consistent....
and Alyssa Sharpe is married to a Scorpio sun/cancer moon, with Aries rising. I don't know his mars...he could be a Leo mars. cause she loves Leo energy she said.
Alyssa is niceee.. She can get real to BOTH other people and herself. And have you seen her with fairly full make up, with her working on her eyebrows and stuff? She looks absolutely GORGEOUS!
I can understand if her hubby appreciates her much lol
Yeah I have a few scorp friends and my first love was a scorp too (only a short few months), one of my boss is too. With them is just no mystery but I feel "understanding" with them like no need words much hahahaha
But with taurus (actually other earth signs but taurus more so coz they're fixed like me) i find them intruiging coz a lot of qualities in them I don't have so it will be real nice if I can tag-team with one. I like how they come across keeping my head down when things are "too dangerous". Hehehe
And so far with you lisbeth, your vibe is very soothing and non-threatening warmth. So i like it.
I sometimes pay attention to the vibes of some users give off here 🙂
*don't mind my libra placements 😛
I don't follow her on facebook, or youtube but I will google to see if there's any NEW youtube videos up.
she had a 2nd baby so I know her time is used up with that too.
do you follow her on facebook??
I don't see much of her husband there. He is very private compared to her. lol
Oh i should! Hehehe it must be fun to connect with her on facebook. 2nd baby? Nice to know... Her ways were different from before and after, still good vibes nonetheless, like she has grown thick skin I assume from the comments from her channel lol
I have yet seen her husband but I've seen her scorp younger sis. Cool vibes
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lol yeah I saw that vid of her and her sister. heehee.
but her husband doesn't post on her facebook stuff that I've seen, and he isn't there joining in her Youtube videos either, that's what I mean. I mean it's not a DUO of a couple of astrologers talking, side by side you know. 😆
very private man married to a public astrologer that she is.
I saw the same with some astrologers who are married to Scorpio moons. not suns.
Posted by Lunabee
Can you post their charts? I'm curious now.Don't know the birth hour so just the first half:
Taurus Sun
Cap Moon
Gem Mercury
Gem Venus
Aqua Mars
Taurus Jupiter
Cap Saturn
Cap Uranus
Cap Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Scorpio Sun
Leo Moon
Sag Merc
Cap Venus
Scorpio Mars
Cancer Jupiter
Cap Saturn
Cap Uranus
Cap Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Now whos who lol. Scorp red head?
Yus.
Jfc, what's with me and keep getting attracted to taurus. Sigh...
Hahahhaha
my husband is the same way, he likes Taurus in the chart. his best friend has Taurus moon and i'm Taurus dominant too!!
he has cousins who are scorpio, and he never really cared much for other scorpios. only as family and friendship. He wants his opposite. and familiarity (Capricorn, aquarius, pisces energies)
edit
i'm like Alyssa Sharpe...in where I OBSERVE what he likes, cause I get jealous!!!! too! and it's consistent....
and Alyssa Sharpe is married to a Scorpio sun/cancer moon, with Aries rising. I don't know his mars...he could be a Leo mars. cause she loves Leo energy she said.
Alyssa is niceee.. She can get real to BOTH other people and herself. And have you seen her with fairly full make up, with her working on her eyebrows and stuff? She looks absolutely GORGEOUS!
I can understand if her hubby appreciates her much lol
Yeah I have a few scorp friends and my first love was a scorp too (only a short few months), one of my boss is too. With them is just no mystery but I feel "understanding" with them like no need words much hahahaha
But with taurus (actually other earth signs but taurus more so coz they're fixed like me) i find them intruiging coz a lot of qualities in them I don't have so it will be real nice if I can tag-team with one. I like how they come across keeping my head down when things are "too dangerous". Hehehe
And so far with you lisbeth, your vibe is very soothing and non-threatening warmth. So i like it.
I sometimes pay attention to the vibes of some users give off here 🙂
*don't mind my libra placements 😛
I don't follow her on facebook, or youtube but I will google to see if there's any NEW youtube videos up.
she had a 2nd baby so I know her time is used up with that too.
do you follow her on facebook??
I don't see much of her husband there. He is very private compared to her. lol
Oh i should! Hehehe it must be fun to connect with her on facebook. 2nd baby? Nice to know... Her ways were different from before and after, still good vibes nonetheless, like she has grown thick skin I assume from the comments from her channel lol
I have yet seen her husband but I've seen her scorp younger sis. Cool vibes
lol yeah I saw that vid of her and her sister. heehee.
but her husband doesn't post on her facebook stuff that I've seen, and he isn't there joining in her Youtube videos either, that's what I mean. I mean it's not a DUO of a couple of astrologers talking, side by side you know. 😆
very private man married to a public astrologer that she is.
I saw the same with some astrologers who are married to Scorpio moons. not suns.
Oh the hubby is an astrologer too?
Hmm.. Maybe he likes to keep things "business" not mixed it up?
Lol
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I don't know if he's an astrologer. lol
red
The blonde. Even if she were brunette she would be cuter. She has bigger lips and cute jaw the Scorpio looks like a bird and to delicate of bone structure. Looks fragile
Posted by starwars
I can't deal with cancer energy
😭
I think the blonde looks prettier
But the red head looks nicer
This can't end well.
Scorp-Taurus axis?
I knew it.
😛
Yes the red head in 2nd.
Posted by Montgomery
This can't end well.Scorp-Taurus axis?
Ikr 😄
The redhead
The blonde one is one of those who usually look different in every pic bc they're taking a billion selfies to find that perfect one
The red one knows she gon look good fo'sho in all
Has the blonde one tried to murder the red one before?
Posted by RamOfPeace
I can't. Not attracted to either.lmao, your avi !!!!!
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It's like a finishing touch to my every post. The best type of condiment you could ever wish for. The missing piece. The final zest.
redhead dammie.
I'm biased, I find redheads irresistible.
None has the attributes of looking "hot", aka 1) semi-exposed tits; 2) tons of makeup; 3) vacant look in the eyes and 4) defensive-aggressive body language.
They are equally beautiful, in a natural way. I salute the dark eyes on a peachy skin and the high cheek bones, which many Romanians have, myself included. I'm surprised that the red haired one is only one year older: she stands behind the blonde, with a hand on her shoulder, in a subdued and protective way...she is the older sister and she knows it! The blonde also has a baby face.
A few days ago I would have picked the blonde, but since I have dyed my "blonde" hair in a red shade very much like in that picture, now I know the "red one" would have looked even better with a more natural hair colour 😄! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder....and in this case the beholder is a triple mutable....
So, the red at the moment.
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No, it's the blonde that gets more attention. The Leo Moon is actually very shy, keeps to herself a lot.