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Posted by Explicitthe one ugly girl followed her home and attacked her? this is just so surreal. and really, the model type woman should have called the police and put her in jail for harassment and attacking her.
Funny how you bring this up. I think gay men unconsciously attract really attractive women as BFF's because those women aren't liked by other girls.
The vast majority of female friends I've had, who were amazing people, were really hated on because of their beauty by other girls. So they had no one to hang out with except the gay community.
I can remember even walking home from school with a good friend of mine in Grade 8. She had long, thick blonde hair, big blue eyes and was more developed then the other girls at school. She literally looked like a barbie doll. And she would always get bullied by other girls for no reason other then jealousy. And one ugly girl literally followed us home one day and tried to attack her.
I still talk to her from time to time and she's doing great now. She's modeling in the UK and is very successful.
I have other stories with other female friends but I don't want to go into a two page thing about these things. I just know that many girls can be very cruel. And it's unfortunate. But I guess you could blame society because society puts so much pressure on women to look a certain way, so if they don't fit into that mold and another girl does, it makes them hate on that girl.
it's not a wonder why women who are fiery, like keira knightely get attention and even though the SUCK at acting....(My husband hates her acting and so does my other relatives) but they think she's best as bad girl roles like Domino:
edit she's dominant Taurus and scorpio.
haha. so funny. heehee. ^______^
edit she's dominant Taurus and scorpio.
haha. so funny. heehee. ^______^
Posted by Explicitthat's just really disgusting behavior. she should have called the police. and filed a report and put her ass in jail to teach her a lesson. that you don't do that to people. see how she likes to be treated like that.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Explicitthe one ugly girl followed her home and attacked her? this is just so surreal. and really, the model type woman should have called the police and put her in jail for harassment and attacking her.
Funny how you bring this up. I think gay men unconsciously attract really attractive women as BFF's because those women aren't liked by other girls.
The vast majority of female friends I've had, who were amazing people, were really hated on because of their beauty by other girls. So they had no one to hang out with except the gay community.
I can remember even walking home from school with a good friend of mine in Grade 8. She had long, thick blonde hair, big blue eyes and was more developed then the other girls at school. She literally looked like a barbie doll. And she would always get bullied by other girls for no reason other then jealousy. And one ugly girl literally followed us home one day and tried to attack her.
I still talk to her from time to time and she's doing great now. She's modeling in the UK and is very successful.
I have other stories with other female friends but I don't want to go into a two page thing about these things. I just know that many girls can be very cruel. And it's unfortunate. But I guess you could blame society because society puts so much pressure on women to look a certain way, so if they don't fit into that mold and another girl does, it makes them hate on that girl.
Well she tried to attack her by throwing rocks at her, yelling, and spewing a bunch of bullshit as we walked by. Then she took her phone and gave it to a bunch of older "thug" type of guys who wouldn't give it back for like an hour. Then the crazy girl vandalized her front door with a bunch of other girls.
And there was another instance where a girl punched her during lunch break, but she fought back. But the girl who started the fight was bigger then her so yeah... So I've seen the way pretty girls get treated by other girls. And this is only one girl in particular, I've had other female friends who were attractive and experienced very similar things for no reason.click to expand
your friend didn't call the police though, if her harassment was that intense. that would have been more than enough to file a report against her.
Posted by ParisianCappy?? whaat do you mean?
dont u feel safe wiz your capricorn
are you referring to having Capricorn energy?
Posted by ParisianCappyPosted by lisabethur8o i thought that u was married wiz a capPosted by ParisianCappy?? whaat do you mean?
dont u feel safe wiz your capricorn
are you referring to having Capricorn energy?click to expand
oh that's what you mean?
scorpio man, but similar I have heard around here, cap and scorpio men they say have some similarities.
but my husband is more fiery and not airy at all, lacks air.
but yes, he does make me feel happy and secure.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by SensitiveBluesYeah ugly chicks have nothing to lose. That's why you avoid them.
I oogle and tell everyone how beautiful i find stated woman even with guy im dating, because i love beautiful things. i don't know if men get it tho, like they probably think im slyly hating or something, but ill be like damn look at her breasts, her face is so perfect, jesus christ.
shrugs
it's the ugly chicks you have to worry about, they're conniving as fuk.
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what's that supposed to mean??
you avoid ugly chicks because they have nothing to gain?
why would you even bother with them in the first place if your goal is to gain something?
if you need to GAIN something, then that means you are lacking. correct me if i'm wrong here. just want to understand.
besides people GRAVITATE to certain indivduals because you "GET" eachother,
not because you have to gain something.
I don't have gay friends, I have gay relatives, so they are FAMILY so of course we hang out.
they are my cousins, not someone I went to the gay community to make friends with.
they are the ones who introduce ME to their gay friends. that's all. I still cling on and hang around my family members.
edit - I mean honestly, I have seen AVERAGE women hang out with gay men.
this has nothing to do with beauty.
not because you have to gain something.
I don't have gay friends, I have gay relatives, so they are FAMILY so of course we hang out.
they are my cousins, not someone I went to the gay community to make friends with.
they are the ones who introduce ME to their gay friends. that's all. I still cling on and hang around my family members.
edit - I mean honestly, I have seen AVERAGE women hang out with gay men.
this has nothing to do with beauty.
Posted by busyeyes88Posted by lisabethur8To be honest, I have never been in that situation.. Leo rising.... But I have been at the end of hurtful females all my life. I always embrace beauty in all its forms and love hanging out with beautiful people including women. Afterall. Taurus people love beauty and to be surrounded by beautiful things no matter the thing of Beauty is!!!
for women, mostly but men too can contribute.
do you feel threatened when there's another woman in the room that gets a lot of attention, or gets a lot of looks from men?
How much jealousy /envy do you have when you encounter this?
And what /why do you feel this way?
is it only because the men has chosen that woman are the men you want??
Does she make you insecure so badly that you want to hurt her?
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I so agree!!!
Posted by libraqueenjealousy and envy are NORMAL for people to feel...
I don't think anyone's like this unless they're crazy. The natural human reaction to noticing another's beauty should be admiration or lust. If jealousy is the emotion you end up feeling you have problems.
Of course there's nothing wrong with "having problems". But the faster you realize the earlier you can find ways to treat it.
it's how you ACT out, like tearing down other people and the scenario below about some girls harassing other women and following them around and tearing them down is ridiculous. that should be reported and filed for harassment.
no one should go through that.
Posted by starwarssometimes it's not even about being beautiful or attractive or gorgeous or any of that.Posted by Explicit
Funny how you bring this up. I think gay men unconsciously attract really attractive women as BFF's because those women aren't liked by other girls.
The vast majority of female friends I've had, who were amazing people, were really hated on because of their beauty by other girls. So they had no one to hang out with except the gay community.
I can remember even walking home from school with a good friend of mine in Grade 8. She had long, thick blonde hair, big blue eyes and was more developed then the other girls at school. She literally looked like a barbie doll. And she would always get bullied by other girls for no reason other then jealousy. And one ugly girl literally followed us home one day and tried to attack her.
I still talk to her from time to time and she's doing great now. She's modeling in the UK and is very successful.
I have other stories with other female friends but I don't want to go into a two page thing about these things. I just know that many girls can be very cruel. And it's unfortunate. But I guess you could blame society because society puts so much pressure on women to look a certain way, so if they don't fit into that mold and another girl does, it makes them hate on that girl.
my mom, besties and lots of girls that I know and I'm friends with have faced similar situations too, It's really sad how some women try to bring each other down. everyone got their attractive features just try to work it out and stop worrying about other women. it's like we're in a competition on who attract more guys -_-
it's more upsetting when these jealous mofos sneaky ways get to these pretty women and make them feel insecure about the way they look.click to expand
women tear women down because of what they LACK. so they ACT out.
Only if it was my dude staring her down
Posted by lisabethur8Right. I don't get jealous of them, sure they're pretty but I'm not chopped liver either. Theyre also beautiful on the inside amd out. So it's just a matter of preference in what these men want and are looking for (like in chances thread) so its not just my decision, I may not fit the mold bcuz they prefer blondes with blue eyes that is 5'2 and I'm not that. If that's what they're looking for, then go for it. Here let me introduce my gorgeous friend that fits that. Lol.
My girlfriend has Capricorn mars. I notice Capricorn doesn't get jealous either if it's their friend/bff.Posted by Greenteayes, I had a Cap sun gf, with aqua venus/mars,pisces moon, she's the same way. also my gf has cap mars.Posted by lisabethur8Oh yes I know that feeling, there's times I catch men looking, and some keep it going, and inch their way closer.Posted by Greenteaif men are looking at me, it's an " energy" feeling though...I can feel their eyes on me. if they are too much intensity and I get the feeling someone is looking...it's a CREEPY feeling.
Nope. I have lots of attractive friends. I don't usually notice guys checking me out, my friends have to tell me.
then I turn and see they really are. and some never look away.
i'm obliviouis only if i'm around other people talking. because I pick up the energies of othr people around me and the energy of any one else outside is not " picked" up.
all those other energies of other people are then therefore picked up who are closer to me.
unless you feel someone boring holes into your back very intently for a long while then you feel it very intesnsely.
I was just trying to answer your question, the no I don't get jealous bcuz I barely notice who's checking me out so I definitely won't notice who's checking out my friends or another attractive woman in the room.
I'll notice a goodlooking guy but I won't get jealous if he's checking out someone else, I haven't invested anything in him so why should I be, that's my logic. 🙂
it has to be Capricorn energy with some other energy that doesn't mind at all.click to expand
I'd like someone who is looking for someone like me. 🙂
I wamt some who I won't have to worry about, even with a beautiful woman standing next to me, just like he wouldn't have to worry.
I like to think I'm the type of woman who gives people chances, so even if a woman is beautiful I try to look past that and see if she's a good person all around, and someone I can vibe well with. If she's not a good person to me and she happens to be beautiful, I won't like her and will keep her at a distance, just like I would anyone else.
Posted by DMVlmao
Only if it was my dude staring her down
what kind of guy would do that??
you should turn to him,
" You want to just go over there and fuck her? cause I think she knows you want to fuck her."
and give him a condom.
god, so RUDE. *smh*
oh and LEAVE. hopefully you aren't in a relationship with him either. Ew.
Posted by Greentea...I'm not chopped liver either...
Lol.
Stupid question... Are you 'Strayan by any chance 😏
I just love that expression, I never hear it anywhere else
Posted by wagtailPosted by Greentea...I'm not chopped liver either...Nope, not an Aussie, all amercan over here...love the Aussie accent though. I've been saying that phrase for years, I think I heard it in a movie and it stuck with me.
Lol.
Stupid question... Are you 'Strayan by any chance 😏
I just love that expression, I never hear it anywhere else
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*sigh* @ PV and busyeyes88.
I kind of forgot why I posted this. but I have encountered in my life that beautiful women do flock together. ( I mean the standards of beauty in society)
and less than average flock together.
look at the modeling world, you see a lot of supermodels hang out together. lol
but there is a level of "cattiness" about them I don't like,
I kind of forgot why I posted this. but I have encountered in my life that beautiful women do flock together. ( I mean the standards of beauty in society)
and less than average flock together.
look at the modeling world, you see a lot of supermodels hang out together. lol
but there is a level of "cattiness" about them I don't like,
Posted by PV&JellayI like everyone in the workplace when I worked full time in the past, I didn't discriminate. plus you can even learn a lot from older folks too, and from other people about their lives, cultures, backgrounds. I find everyone fascinating. because people are unique.Posted by lisabethur8I work in a female dominant field. I experience the cattiness, and for yhe most part, some women are just haters. I don't know why. Me, I just work within my strengths, that's what I've always been taught.
*sigh* @ PV and busyeyes88.
I kind of forgot why I posted this. but I have encountered in my life that beautiful women do flock together. ( I mean the standards of beauty in society)
and less than average flock together.
look at the modeling world, you see a lot of supermodels hang out together. lol
but there is a level of "cattiness" about them I don't like,click to expand
I love that about people, that's what i like about them when they share their loves, joys and sadness.
no one is exempt.
edit - that's just groups and I think this is 11th house going on. looking at groups and people, as a whole.
Posted by busyeyes88Posted by lisabethur8It makes like a lot easier....
*sigh* @ PV and busyeyes88.
I kind of forgot why I posted this. but I have encountered in my life that beautiful women do flock together. ( I mean the standards of beauty in society)
and less than average flock together.
look at the modeling world, you see a lot of supermodels hang out together. lol
but there is a level of "cattiness" about them I don't like,click to expand
yes I love having a SIMPLE life.
less stress.
If they are hot, good for them. I'd observe and hopefully, pick up a style /fashion tip or two. 😄
Honestly, how good someone looks doesn't make any difference in my life. I'm comfortable with the way I appear, and I know there will always be someone better looking than me, just as there will always be someone better looking than whoever is currently most beautiful in the room.
Plus, I live in California, where a hot girl hops out of a bus every 10 seconds, lol. Imagine how exhausting it'd be if I were to be jealous of every single one of them.
As far as the guy I like looking at other attractive women, I'd be more bothered by his lack of discretion, if anything. It's okay to look (who doesn't?), but if the guy's tongue is hanging out and his eyeballs are practically rolling down the street after her, well, who wants to be with a guy like that anyway.
Honestly, how good someone looks doesn't make any difference in my life. I'm comfortable with the way I appear, and I know there will always be someone better looking than me, just as there will always be someone better looking than whoever is currently most beautiful in the room.
Plus, I live in California, where a hot girl hops out of a bus every 10 seconds, lol. Imagine how exhausting it'd be if I were to be jealous of every single one of them.
As far as the guy I like looking at other attractive women, I'd be more bothered by his lack of discretion, if anything. It's okay to look (who doesn't?), but if the guy's tongue is hanging out and his eyeballs are practically rolling down the street after her, well, who wants to be with a guy like that anyway.
Posted by whatthecrabthanks for that. whatthecrab, you look like that Gemini/scorpio moon/libra mars Mia Sera, who is married to the Scorpio sun/Gemini moon Puppeteer btw.
I don't care. At all. I'm not competitive when it comes to looks or attention. Too much attention makes me feel uncomfortable and put on the spot, so I'm glad when another girl takes the spotlight away from me. I'm extremely social in real life, and love to make jokes or a witty remark to make light of awkward situations. I like to include people and don't dismiss them, sometimes even when I find them to be annoying. That being said, I do understand why people feel comfortable around me and want to get to know me better.. but my privacy means the world to me. It's probably the only thing I'm attached to. So sometimes I need to withdraw from the unwanted attention.
Too much of it makes me feel nauseous. It used to bother me so much, to the point where I didn't want to put myself out there in the world anymore. Now I intentionally put someone else, who loves it, in the spotlight so I don't have to deal with all of it.
It's not that I never get jealous.. I do. Eg when MY crush gets attention from others and entertains it. Im not jealous of the other girls, but of the attention they get from him. He needs to focus all of it on me and only me lol. In synapses tho. Because I LOVE undivided love and attention in one on one settings.
I don't even really notice who is getting more attention or not and if someone is getting tons good on 'em. Seems like a colossal waste of energy to be at angry at someone because they're just living their life. DO the same and live yours and you'll get some attention too.
It's not just about looks although that's the easiest way to point out the psychos. With an Aqua moon, being the center of attention is like torturing me slowly. I'm not conventionally pretty, but I'm not silly to think I'm a troll, I fall into the adorable category, I'm good with that.
I find myself staring at pretty women as well, because...they are pretty! But I don't care if they garner male attention. I'm awesome in my own right, been single when I wanted to be, been partnered when I wanted to be.
I've been truly hated because I am the "Guy's Gal". I talk football, political stances, history, nerdy shit like Star Wars, video games, craft beer...I have a wide variety of interests. And guys will talk to me, drives my Scorpio up the wall, and ladies are like:
Them: *snort* what kind of magical pussy do you have to get all these guys to talk to you?
Me: Men like pussy, they don't like cunt.
Them: You are a vulgar piece of trash!
Me: *laughing maniacally*
Insecure bitches hate you if you are conventionally pretty, hate you if you can converse on topics that men also enjoy, hate you if you stand out with personality, basically hate you for no damn reason, because they won't work on themselves.
I find myself staring at pretty women as well, because...they are pretty! But I don't care if they garner male attention. I'm awesome in my own right, been single when I wanted to be, been partnered when I wanted to be.
I've been truly hated because I am the "Guy's Gal". I talk football, political stances, history, nerdy shit like Star Wars, video games, craft beer...I have a wide variety of interests. And guys will talk to me, drives my Scorpio up the wall, and ladies are like:
Them: *snort* what kind of magical pussy do you have to get all these guys to talk to you?
Me: Men like pussy, they don't like cunt.
Them: You are a vulgar piece of trash!
Me: *laughing maniacally*
Insecure bitches hate you if you are conventionally pretty, hate you if you can converse on topics that men also enjoy, hate you if you stand out with personality, basically hate you for no damn reason, because they won't work on themselves.
Posted by Genniegod so true in a lot of ways. I actually like seeing couples happy in their relationships.
It's not just about looks although that's the easiest way to point out the psychos. With an Aqua moon, being the center of attention is like torturing me slowly. I'm not conventionally pretty, but I'm not silly to think I'm a troll, I fall into the adorable category, I'm good with that.
I find myself staring at pretty women as well, because...they are pretty! But I don't care if they garner male attention. I'm awesome in my own right, been single when I wanted to be, been partnered when I wanted to be.
I've been truly hated because I am the "Guy's Gal". I talk football, political stances, history, nerdy shit like Star Wars, video games, craft beer...I have a wide variety of interests. And guys will talk to me, drives my Scorpio up the wall, and ladies are like:
Them: *snort* what kind of magical pussy do you have to get all these guys to talk to you?
Me: Men like pussy, they don't like cunt.
Them: You are a vulgar piece of trash!
Me: *laughing maniacally*
Insecure bitches hate you if you are conventionally pretty, hate you if you can converse on topics that men also enjoy, hate you if you stand out with personality, basically hate you for no damn reason, because they won't work on themselves.
for me to see that, means LESS STRESS. they can focus on other things in life.
it must be cancer energy or something because Gennie, you have that cancer mars. *smh* coupled with aqua, and you're also chart ruler earthy so you have at least, earthy tendancies. so interesting!!
Posted by lisabethur8My Cancer mars gets me into so much trouble. I hate bullies and I can't resist tweaking their noses.
it must be cancer energy or something because Gennie, you have that cancer mars. *smh* coupled with aqua, and you're also chart ruler earthy so you have at least, earthy tendancies. so interesting!!
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what is it in you that you HATE about them? because you are not like them?
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