GemCurioThe1
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Posted by MadTwins80
Do virgos never just see something as a casual hookup or fwb type thing? If they're taking forever to suss you out

Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by MadTwins80
Do virgos never just see something as a casual hookup or fwb type thing? If they're taking forever to suss you out
Yeah they do, but once you're in that lane, that's where you'll stay. If they're taking forever, that is probably because of where you stand on the priority list. FWB is somewhere next to getting an oil change or updating the toothpaste selection. Just saying..click to expand

Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by MadTwins80
Do virgos never just see something as a casual hookup or fwb type thing? If they're taking forever to suss you out
Yeah they do, but once you're in that lane, that's where you'll stay. If they're taking forever, that is probably because of where you stand on the priority list. FWB is somewhere next to getting an oil change or updating the toothpaste selection. Just saying..click to expand
Posted by Caplove
If a Virgo hates you will they always hate you? lol
Posted by MadTwins80
Do virgos care about affection in a casual thing or are they sexual without needing/wanting affection ?
Posted by MadTwins80Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by Caplove
If a Virgo hates you will they always hate you? lol
Virgos don't hate. We remove. Like a piece of abstract art that just doesn't look right in the den.
Have experienced this first hand lol
What about a virgo I have known for a long time who subtly brushes off any affection beyond what we're used to but does seem sexually interested? Like you said she has a formula for dealing with me, that explains it to me. How do you get her to adjust that formula? By engaging her emotions/ making her feel that we have evolved emotionally? I don't feel I can make sexual advances as I've known her too long on a casual basisclick to expand
Posted by MadTwins80Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by MadTwins80Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by Caplove
If a Virgo hates you will they always hate you? lol
Virgos don't hate. We remove. Like a piece of abstract art that just doesn't look right in the den.
Have experienced this first hand lol
What about a virgo I have known for a long time who subtly brushes off any affection beyond what we're used to but does seem sexually interested? Like you said she has a formula for dealing with me, that explains it to me. How do you get her to adjust that formula? By engaging her emotions/ making her feel that we have evolved emotionally? I don't feel I can make sexual advances as I've known her too long on a casual basis
The truth is once in that box, the only way out is to level up. You allowed yourself to be cataloged. You would have to reinvent yourself to change her perspective of you. You're basically Friend With/Without Benefits Zoned. We value our friends because we don't keep many people around us. So it will be viewed by your Virgal as not worth the risk. Are you willing to show her that you're worth that risk— That's the question you need to ask yourself.
I'm a friend of a friend - that's the problem . Prob she sees it as too much risk towards her friend then even to have a casual fling with me but do they tease? I mean it's total mixed messages. I'd prob need to convince her that her friend would never know? It's not actually a problem imo but she might feel disloyalclick to expand
Posted by MadTwins80Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by MadTwins80Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by MadTwins80Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by Caplove
If a Virgo hates you will they always hate you? lol
Virgos don't hate. We remove. Like a piece of abstract art that just doesn't look right in the den.
Have experienced this first hand lol
What about a virgo I have known for a long time who subtly brushes off any affection beyond what we're used to but does seem sexually interested? Like you said she has a formula for dealing with me, that explains it to me. How do you get her to adjust that formula? By engaging her emotions/ making her feel that we have evolved emotionally? I don't feel I can make sexual advances as I've known her too long on a casual basis
The truth is once in that box, the only way out is to level up. You allowed yourself to be cataloged. You would have to reinvent yourself to change her perspective of you. You're basically Friend With/Without Benefits Zoned. We value our friends because we don't keep many people around us. So it will be viewed by your Virgal as not worth the risk. Are you willing to show her that you're worth that risk— That's the question you need to ask yourself.
I'm a friend of a friend - that's the problem . Prob she sees it as too much risk towards her friend then even to have a casual fling with me but do they tease? I mean it's total mixed messages. I'd prob need to convince her that her friend would never know? It's not actually a problem imo but she might feel disloyal
It's like I said, she's most likely not going to do it. That type of situation where she's risking a friendship just wouldn't stand well with her. Truth be told, she's probably already been down that road before or saw the outcome of that type of situation in someone else's life and just doesn't want any part of it. And it's not that she doesn't want to, it's the thought of potentially having her discussed sexually within a close group. You're barking up the wrong tree. We Virgos like to do our dirt in different area codes. We don't risk our reputations for smash and grab. If anything, what I would do if I were you would be outright hands off verbal seduction. So that she eventually can't help herself but to want to talk to me more alone. Then maybe nature could take it's course, but it takes a truly elevated mind to seduce a Virgo woman. They're smarter than us men..
"Outright hands off verbal seduction"? . Sometimes she plays around , doing little things for me and calling me "sir" .That's where I feel like she wants it, she wants to be subservient but I don't quite know how to get from this little game to something physical. Idk if she's smarter than me , I don;t think so but she is determinedly assured of what she does or doesn't want I think and she's not the needy typeclick to expand

Posted by besarlalluvia
virgos really are sidereal leos. the way you think the world revolves around you. everyone must understand the virgo 🙄
Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by GemCurioThe1Posted by MadTwins80
Do virgos never just see something as a casual hookup or fwb type thing? If they're taking forever to suss you out
Yeah they do, but once you're in that lane, that's where you'll stay. If they're taking forever, that is probably because of where you stand on the priority list. FWB is somewhere next to getting an oil change or updating the toothpaste selection. Just saying..
I'm having trouble disagreeing with you with everything so far. The box metaphor works, I'm personally not that cut and dry myself though and I don't rely on my Virgo bits for everything.
I think we open up after we define you. We defiantly relax and it's noticeable. We let you in as far as that position allows. Changing your behavior and attitude towards us will cause a reevaluation.
With this reply I disagree. FWB, means "friends" with benefits. If we are not taking baby steps to something more serious here,
then it would mean we want you as a friend, sex is great, and don't see it evolving to more then that.
"FWB is somewhere next to getting an oil change or updating the toothpaste selection. Just saying.."
This discription...that is a booty call not FWBclick to expand

Posted by MadTwins80
Do virgos never just see something as a casual hookup or fwb type thing? If they're taking forever to suss you out

Posted by Caplove
If a Virgo hates you will they always hate you? lol

Posted by MadTwins80Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by MadTwins80Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by MadTwins80Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by Caplove
If a Virgo hates you will they always hate you? lol
Virgos don't hate. We remove. Like a piece of abstract art that just doesn't look right in the den.
Have experienced this first hand lol
What about a virgo I have known for a long time who subtly brushes off any affection beyond what we're used to but does seem sexually interested? Like you said she has a formula for dealing with me, that explains it to me. How do you get her to adjust that formula? By engaging her emotions/ making her feel that we have evolved emotionally? I don't feel I can make sexual advances as I've known her too long on a casual basis
The truth is once in that box, the only way out is to level up. You allowed yourself to be cataloged. You would have to reinvent yourself to change her perspective of you. You're basically Friend With/Without Benefits Zoned. We value our friends because we don't keep many people around us. So it will be viewed by your Virgal as not worth the risk. Are you willing to show her that you're worth that risk— That's the question you need to ask yourself.
I'm a friend of a friend - that's the problem . Prob she sees it as too much risk towards her friend then even to have a casual fling with me but do they tease? I mean it's total mixed messages. I'd prob need to convince her that her friend would never know? It's not actually a problem imo but she might feel disloyal
It's like I said, she's most likely not going to do it. That type of situation where she's risking a friendship just wouldn't stand well with her. Truth be told, she's probably already been down that road before or saw the outcome of that type of situation in someone else's life and just doesn't want any part of it. And it's not that she doesn't want to, it's the thought of potentially having her discussed sexually within a close group. You're barking up the wrong tree. We Virgos like to do our dirt in different area codes. We don't risk our reputations for smash and grab. If anything, what I would do if I were you would be outright hands off verbal seduction. So that she eventually can't help herself but to want to talk to me more alone. Then maybe nature could take it's course, but it takes a truly elevated mind to seduce a Virgo woman. They're smarter than us men..
"Outright hands off verbal seduction"? . Sometimes she plays around , doing little things for me and calling me "sir" .That's where I feel like she wants it, she wants to be subservient but I don't quite know how to get from this little game to something physical. Idk if she's smarter than me , I don;t think so but she is determinedly assured of what she does or doesn't want I think and she's not the needy typeclick to expand

Posted by MadTwins80Posted by PlanetMercuryGirlPosted by MadTwins80Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by MadTwins80Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by MadTwins80Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by Caplove
If a Virgo hates you will they always hate you? lol
Virgos don't hate. We remove. Like a piece of abstract art that just doesn't look right in the den.
Have experienced this first hand lol
What about a virgo I have known for a long time who subtly brushes off any affection beyond what we're used to but does seem sexually interested? Like you said she has a formula for dealing with me, that explains it to me. How do you get her to adjust that formula? By engaging her emotions/ making her feel that we have evolved emotionally? I don't feel I can make sexual advances as I've known her too long on a casual basis
The truth is once in that box, the only way out is to level up. You allowed yourself to be cataloged. You would have to reinvent yourself to change her perspective of you. You're basically Friend With/Without Benefits Zoned. We value our friends because we don't keep many people around us. So it will be viewed by your Virgal as not worth the risk. Are you willing to show her that you're worth that risk— That's the question you need to ask yourself.
I'm a friend of a friend - that's the problem . Prob she sees it as too much risk towards her friend then even to have a casual fling with me but do they tease? I mean it's total mixed messages. I'd prob need to convince her that her friend would never know? It's not actually a problem imo but she might feel disloyal
It's like I said, she's most likely not going to do it. That type of situation where she's risking a friendship just wouldn't stand well with her. Truth be told, she's probably already been down that road before or saw the outcome of that type of situation in someone else's life and just doesn't want any part of it. And it's not that she doesn't want to, it's the thought of potentially having her discussed sexually within a close group. You're barking up the wrong tree. We Virgos like to do our dirt in different area codes. We don't risk our reputations for smash and grab. If anything, what I would do if I were you would be outright hands off verbal seduction. So that she eventually can't help herself but to want to talk to me more alone. Then maybe nature could take it's course, but it takes a truly elevated mind to seduce a Virgo woman. They're smarter than us men..
"Outright hands off verbal seduction"? . Sometimes she plays around , doing little things for me and calling me "sir" .That's where I feel like she wants it, she wants to be subservient but I don't quite know how to get from this little game to something physical. Idk if she's smarter than me , I don;t think so but she is determinedly assured of what she does or doesn't want I think and she's not the needy type
Virgos like to flirt. Even when they're not interested in someone sexually. Its innocent and playful but I can see how it can get misconstrued. We can also be really friendly and that also can give the wrong signal. I will agree that words are seduction. If you don't have wit or intelligence than we will know that there might not ever be an attraction. But we'll continue to enjoy making you blush. IJS
Geminis like to flirt too 🙄 I don't think we have the same boundaries as you . I tend to go with things and see what happens Virgos only go so far, like you said in your other comment there's a cutoff point if you don't see anything serious ever developingclick to expand
Posted by gendutPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by GemCurioThe1Posted by MadTwins80
Do virgos never just see something as a casual hookup or fwb type thing? If they're taking forever to suss you out
Yeah they do, but once you're in that lane, that's where you'll stay. If they're taking forever, that is probably because of where you stand on the priority list. FWB is somewhere next to getting an oil change or updating the toothpaste selection. Just saying..
I'm having trouble disagreeing with you with everything so far. The box metaphor works, I'm personally not that cut and dry myself though and I don't rely on my Virgo bits for everything.
I think we open up after we define you. We defiantly relax and it's noticeable. We let you in as far as that position allows. Changing your behavior and attitude towards us will cause a reevaluation.
With this reply I disagree. FWB, means "friends" with benefits. If we are not taking baby steps to something more serious here,
then it would mean we want you as a friend, sex is great, and don't see it evolving to more then that.
"FWB is somewhere next to getting an oil change or updating the toothpaste selection. Just saying.."
This discription...that is a booty call not FWB
Help me please.🥺
We start with onlinedating and just hookup, I catch feelings and show him that I want more. He keep rejecting me but then considering. finally last week he said it's not work, and he doesn't want give me any hope. At first his being very cold, angry and we arguing a lot. So last weekend I come to him uninvited and arguing. Finally I said I accept his decision, because I know he just want to continue his single life and hooking up here and there,thats why he breaking it off with me to not hurting me more (this is my conclusion).
He gave me a doll that he's been saying that's for me for a month and pouring his parfume, so I will not missed him that much.
After that our communication being good again, he writes me again this last couple days.
Is there any hope that he will considering me again? I don't know if we will meet up again.
I know my feelings, is not something I can just brush it off even in couple months.click to expand

Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by Caplove
If a Virgo hates you will they always hate you? lol
Virgos don't hate. We remove. Like a piece of abstract art that just doesn't look right in the den.click to expand

Posted by MadTwins80Posted by PlanetMercuryGirlPosted by MadTwins80Posted by PlanetMercuryGirlPosted by MadTwins80Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by MadTwins80Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by MadTwins80Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by Caplove
If a Virgo hates you will they always hate you? lol
Virgos don't hate. We remove. Like a piece of abstract art that just doesn't look right in the den.
Have experienced this first hand lol
What about a virgo I have known for a long time who subtly brushes off any affection beyond what we're used to but does seem sexually interested? Like you said she has a formula for dealing with me, that explains it to me. How do you get her to adjust that formula? By engaging her emotions/ making her feel that we have evolved emotionally? I don't feel I can make sexual advances as I've known her too long on a casual basis
The truth is once in that box, the only way out is to level up. You allowed yourself to be cataloged. You would have to reinvent yourself to change her perspective of you. You're basically Friend With/Without Benefits Zoned. We value our friends because we don't keep many people around us. So it will be viewed by your Virgal as not worth the risk. Are you willing to show her that you're worth that risk— That's the question you need to ask yourself.
I'm a friend of a friend - that's the problem . Prob she sees it as too much risk towards her friend then even to have a casual fling with me but do they tease? I mean it's total mixed messages. I'd prob need to convince her that her friend would never know? It's not actually a problem imo but she might feel disloyal
It's like I said, she's most likely not going to do it. That type of situation where she's risking a friendship just wouldn't stand well with her. Truth be told, she's probably already been down that road before or saw the outcome of that type of situation in someone else's life and just doesn't want any part of it. And it's not that she doesn't want to, it's the thought of potentially having her discussed sexually within a close group. You're barking up the wrong tree. We Virgos like to do our dirt in different area codes. We don't risk our reputations for smash and grab. If anything, what I would do if I were you would be outright hands off verbal seduction. So that she eventually can't help herself but to want to talk to me more alone. Then maybe nature could take it's course, but it takes a truly elevated mind to seduce a Virgo woman. They're smarter than us men..
"Outright hands off verbal seduction"? . Sometimes she plays around , doing little things for me and calling me "sir" .That's where I feel like she wants it, she wants to be subservient but I don't quite know how to get from this little game to something physical. Idk if she's smarter than me , I don;t think so but she is determinedly assured of what she does or doesn't want I think and she's not the needy type
Virgos like to flirt. Even when they're not interested in someone sexually. Its innocent and playful but I can see how it can get misconstrued. We can also be really friendly and that also can give the wrong signal. I will agree that words are seduction. If you don't have wit or intelligence than we will know that there might not ever be an attraction. But we'll continue to enjoy making you blush. IJS
Geminis like to flirt too 🙄 I don't think we have the same boundaries as you . I tend to go with things and see what happens Virgos only go so far, like you said in your other comment there's a cutoff point if you don't see anything serious ever developing
Yea I have a Gemini friend and she's like that. Also, one night stands for her are no problem.
What's her number? 😂click to expand


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If you don’t reach our emotions, you’re not there yet. Period… We Virgos feel in depth our emotions not really liking them or understanding them at times, and because of that we will take our time to figure out everyone we keep around us. There’s a formula for you if you have a Virgo in your life. If you ask your Virgo what’s the formula you have for dealing with me?? He/she will laugh or giggle and ask what you’re talking about trying to hide the shock that you know… But you have to break down that wall to reach us. Otherwise we’re still being formal with you, and will feel inside like you don’t really know us.
Next, if we appear perfect you have a way to go to know us. We think deep like Air Signs and honestly deal with people on their level. What does that mean?? It means we can have great conversations with the local drunk and the VP of the Business Banking Department because we’re always hiding the depth of our knowledge and love learning. Dr. Strange went through 10 million possibilities looking for the positive outcome only to find one. This is Virgo by nature and our risks are calculated. We meet and deal with people as they are, and if we can grow together great. If not we Virgos feel as if we gave you a fair shot. When we want to grow with you, we will reveal the woes of our world, our insecurities, our fears, and even our many failures. Greatness is built on trying and failing and that’s where we gain our confidence from. If you don’t know these things you’re still being measured by your Virgo.
Last, we Virgos have very strong intuitions and dealing with people we trust our initial intuitions. Our behaviors can be better or worse than any other Zodiac sign based on our intentions. But our intentions with you is more often based on how you present yourself and what you’re willing to accept. Once you’re placed in a box in our minds, it’s very difficult to get out of it without changing your behavior and approach to the situation. All Virgos will treat you slightly better than you are displaying how you deserve to be treated if we are not in a committed relationship with you. These are the facts…
Now, many people might disagree with me, but the collective of all Virgos equate to these behaviors at times. The mirror isn’t comfortable at times, but don’t be a lil bih about it… I’m outcha….