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Virgo "dunno what you got till its gone" syndrome
Eh just leave it alone. (Also I really want to watch American Gods. It's a show adapted by a book by Neil Gaiman).
if virgo left, no such syndrome exist because the reasons must have been too big to fix
How is what he said connected to not knowing what you have until it's gone?
No usually I know the difference between dimes and nickels.
Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidI do that madam, which I am doing wonderfully. I do apologise my dear I had no idea some relations were off limits around here— I observe and question everyone in my life, near far, present past. Now if you dont mind 🙂
Why are you obsessing over his return if you claim to be above him?
Don't you have an Aries bf to tend to?
Posted by EarthgoddessYes I left. I just wonder about the whole turning his attention once its too late. I'd find that heartbreaking to do myself. I do my best for a relationship when im in it in order for them NOT to want to leave. I guess it could just be a human nature/growing up thing. I don't play like that.
Did you leave him?
To be honest if he left its probably strictly an invite to be friendly
If i dated someone and i left- i usually value that person on a certain level. But havent ONCE found myself regretting my decision. Sooo
Posted by EarthgoddessI am done completely over and gone. I was willing to be friends but I just wondering if these little comments are snidey or genuine (ive never had an ex concerned or care about what my present bf would enjoy watching)Posted by LibraLovesHimPosted by EarthgoddessYes I left. I just wonder about the whole turning his attention once its too late. I'd find that heartbreaking to do myself. I do my best for a relationship when im in it in order for them NOT to want to leave. I guess it could just be a human nature/growing up thing. I don't play like that.
Did you leave him?
To be honest if he left its probably strictly an invite to be friendly
If i dated someone and i left- i usually value that person on a certain level. But havent ONCE found myself regretting my decision. Sooo
Now that could be different. Since you left him he could be seeing if ur still an option or just missing ur company. Im in a relationship with a libra and man!!! He can really pour on the love vibes lol
If ur done make no contact we move on quickly when ignored. But not really in heart
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Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidI analyze because I am genuinely interested in love/relationships etc. I cared about him and him me for about 8 years. Whats your gripe woman? Move along please. I appreciate your input but when you are off, just accept it and let me get on. Now as previously mentioned, you are way off. And also on the point of me posting more about him than my bf. Please feel free to go through my msg history also in order to verify this.Posted by LibraLovesHimYou post more often about this Virgo than your actual bf.Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidI do that madam, which I am doing wonderfully. I do apologise my dear I had no idea some relations were off limits around here— I observe and question everyone in my life, near far, present past. Now if you dont mind 🙂
Why are you obsessing over his return if you claim to be above him?
Don't you have an Aries bf to tend to?
Why bother analyzing if you've already "moved on"?
You make it seem like this Virgo is chasing you and hasn't realised what he lost. Truth is, Virgo's wouldn't continue to hit someone up unless they get encouragement to continue.
It's obvious you're not over him and you pretending otherwise, or to be above him is just laughable to anyone looking from the outside in.click to expand
Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidShe said this Virgo guy stone walled her and abandoned her emotionally (you Virgo's really excel at that, by the way.) Let's give her the benefit of the doubt. She moved on. Done. Over. Period.Posted by LibraLovesHimYou post more often about this Virgo than your actual bf.Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidI do that madam, which I am doing wonderfully. I do apologise my dear I had no idea some relations were off limits around here— I observe and question everyone in my life, near far, present past. Now if you dont mind 🙂
Why are you obsessing over his return if you claim to be above him?
Don't you have an Aries bf to tend to?
Why bother analyzing if you've already "moved on"?
You make it seem like this Virgo is chasing you and hasn't realised what he lost. Truth is, Virgo's wouldn't continue to hit someone up unless they get encouragement to continue.
It's obvious you're not over him and you pretending otherwise, or to be above him is just laughable to anyone looking from the outside in.click to expand
I can see her point in wondering why this Virgo, after however long it was that he "stonewalled" and "abandoned" her, would send her some random text? Why not pay attention to her when they were together?
Gee, ya think?!
Maybe he was being snide. Maybe he was being an asshole (typical virgo male). Maybe he's lonely. Deservedly so. Who knows. My advice to her would be what others have already said, ignore the dick.
Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidIts people like you that make dxp an interesting place to be though. lol. The point is-there is NO line of communication. Swallow, digest, understand. Are you 12?Posted by 81gemsI'm not a Virgo tho. Literally says it in my name lolPosted by SomeSortOfMermaidShe said this Virgo guy stone walled her and abandoned her emotionally (you Virgo's really excel at that, by the way.) Let's give her the benefit of the doubt. She moved on. Done. Over. Period.Posted by LibraLovesHimYou post more often about this Virgo than your actual bf.Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidI do that madam, which I am doing wonderfully. I do apologise my dear I had no idea some relations were off limits around here— I observe and question everyone in my life, near far, present past. Now if you dont mind 🙂
Why are you obsessing over his return if you claim to be above him?
Don't you have an Aries bf to tend to?
Why bother analyzing if you've already "moved on"?
You make it seem like this Virgo is chasing you and hasn't realised what he lost. Truth is, Virgo's wouldn't continue to hit someone up unless they get encouragement to continue.
It's obvious you're not over him and you pretending otherwise, or to be above him is just laughable to anyone looking from the outside in.
I can see her point in wondering why this Virgo, after however long it was that he "stonewalled" and "abandoned" her, would send her some random text? Why not pay attention to her when they were together?
Gee, ya think?!
Maybe he was being snide. Maybe he was being an asshole (typical virgo male). Maybe he's lonely. Deservedly so. Who knows. My advice to her would be what others have already said, ignore the dick.
I'm simply pointing out my observations here.
Truth is, if you're truly over someone that you claim did you wrong, you wouldn't keep a line of communication open. Unless you either lack self esteem/like the attention or are not over the person.
This guy can contact her out of several reasons, yet here OP is assuming he wants her back. Maybe he just wants to stay friends. Either way, OP is still emotionally stirred by this and in the least that's not fair to her bf.
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Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidIts people like you that make dxp an interesting place to be though. lol. The point is-there is NO line of communication. Swallow, digest, understand. Are you 12?Posted by 81gemsI'm not a Virgo tho. Literally says it in my name lolPosted by SomeSortOfMermaidShe said this Virgo guy stone walled her and abandoned her emotionally (you Virgo's really excel at that, by the way.) Let's give her the benefit of the doubt. She moved on. Done. Over. Period.Posted by LibraLovesHimYou post more often about this Virgo than your actual bf.Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidI do that madam, which I am doing wonderfully. I do apologise my dear I had no idea some relations were off limits around here— I observe and question everyone in my life, near far, present past. Now if you dont mind 🙂
Why are you obsessing over his return if you claim to be above him?
Don't you have an Aries bf to tend to?
Why bother analyzing if you've already "moved on"?
You make it seem like this Virgo is chasing you and hasn't realised what he lost. Truth is, Virgo's wouldn't continue to hit someone up unless they get encouragement to continue.
It's obvious you're not over him and you pretending otherwise, or to be above him is just laughable to anyone looking from the outside in.
I can see her point in wondering why this Virgo, after however long it was that he "stonewalled" and "abandoned" her, would send her some random text? Why not pay attention to her when they were together?
Gee, ya think?!
Maybe he was being snide. Maybe he was being an asshole (typical virgo male). Maybe he's lonely. Deservedly so. Who knows. My advice to her would be what others have already said, ignore the dick.
I'm simply pointing out my observations here.
Truth is, if you're truly over someone that you claim did you wrong, you wouldn't keep a line of communication open. Unless you either lack self esteem/like the attention or are not over the person.
This guy can contact her out of several reasons, yet here OP is assuming he wants her back. Maybe he just wants to stay friends. Either way, OP is still emotionally stirred by this and in the least that's not fair to her bf.
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Posted by 81gemsHe is ignored. When he talks like this esp. I come here as an outlet-an release, understanding, why? I cried, I pled, I ignored (fake) I LEFT (he wants) Its almost a sickness to me...hence the questioning...!!!Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidShe said this Virgo guy stone walled her and abandoned her emotionally (you Virgo's really excel at that, by the way.) Let's give her the benefit of the doubt. She moved on. Done. Over. Period.Posted by LibraLovesHimYou post more often about this Virgo than your actual bf.Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidI do that madam, which I am doing wonderfully. I do apologise my dear I had no idea some relations were off limits around here— I observe and question everyone in my life, near far, present past. Now if you dont mind 🙂
Why are you obsessing over his return if you claim to be above him?
Don't you have an Aries bf to tend to?
Why bother analyzing if you've already "moved on"?
You make it seem like this Virgo is chasing you and hasn't realised what he lost. Truth is, Virgo's wouldn't continue to hit someone up unless they get encouragement to continue.
It's obvious you're not over him and you pretending otherwise, or to be above him is just laughable to anyone looking from the outside in.
I can see her point in wondering why this Virgo, after however long it was that he "stonewalled" and "abandoned" her, would send her some random text? Why not pay attention to her when they were together?
Gee, ya think?!
Maybe he was being snide. Maybe he was being an asshole (typical virgo male). Maybe he's lonely. Deservedly so. Who knows. My advice to her would be what others have already said, ignore the dick.click to expand
Posted by starwarsYou Virgos love to say this as if there is nothing ever underneath your surface. I beg to differ.
I wouldn't read much into it, its literally what it is lol
Now, I wouldn't claim he didn't know what he had til you left sort of thing, as I don't know him or you for that matter, however, with my experience with Virgo men, I believe there is more to this than what was shown at face value.
He may just miss you, and since you're in a relationship, he may settle for just a friendship. Or he may try to woo you back into his heart. Idk, but I've experienced this manipulative facade from a Virgo. A bunch of bullshit turns out. After talking things through and agreeing to be friends, turned out to be a waste. Now he's back.... acting like he couldn't care less if we were friends or not.... and so I ask myself, why are you messaging me?
Anyway, to the OP, just ignore him honestly. He left you emotionally abandoned the whole relationship basically, what makes you think he'd be there as a friend? Just leave it in the past. If he displays change, you could be open to friendship, but don't give yourself too quickly or even completely. Be too understanding and forgiving, Virgo will take advantage and act like an immature dick face robot a.k.a his auto pilot.
Posted by LibraLovesHimSounds like a stupid, passive aggressive Virgo game.
I'm seeing this with them alot. The virgo I was with stone walled me and left me basically emotionally abandoned for years, I finally walked. He msg me yesterday-
"Ive been watching this new show, really good but disturbing "American Gods" your boyfriend might like it"
(My bf is American) I have no idea how he found this out...
We are talking a 46 year old guy here?!
Wtf does one even respond to this? I ignored it...
I notice that when I don't contact my Virguy friend (especially on Saturdays), he'll find a small talk reason to message me. I think it's so I will think about him if I'm out.
Like in your message, it's a way for him to make you think about him, but if you don't respond, he can think to himself it's ok because he mentions your boyfriend. It's lame and this type of behaviour is one of the reasons why Virguys turn me off.
Posted by SunMoonStarsYou are exactly right here i think they like to cover all areas. How they talk about others and totally misanalyze prob attributes to this need to be so careful about how they come across.Posted by LibraLovesHimSounds like a stupid, passive aggressive Virgo game.
I'm seeing this with them alot. The virgo I was with stone walled me and left me basically emotionally abandoned for years, I finally walked. He msg me yesterday-
"Ive been watching this new show, really good but disturbing "American Gods" your boyfriend might like it"
(My bf is American) I have no idea how he found this out...
We are talking a 46 year old guy here?!
Wtf does one even respond to this? I ignored it...
I notice that when I don't contact my Virguy friend (especially on Saturdays), he'll find a small talk reason to message me. I think it's so I will think about him if I'm out.
Like in your message, it's a way for him to make you think about him, but if you don't respond, he can think to himself it's ok because he mentions your boyfriend. It's lame and this type of behaviour is one of the reasons why Virguys turn me off.
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I don't know about Virgo men. But as a Virgo, regardless of who did the leaving, as long as it's final and I've already accepted it, I tend to move on fast. Though the love for that person may still linger for a long, loooong time. I'm not sure about the other Virgos, but I'm also capable of staying as a platonic friend to an ex if we separated on quite good terms.
Though, you're probably right that he regretted walling you off. Since we also tend to analyze what went wrong in almost everything.
Though, you're probably right that he regretted walling you off. Since we also tend to analyze what went wrong in almost everything.
Posted by starwarsor maybe you can't understand bc you're a robotic Virgo that tries to find logic in everything and can't process emotional intent and therefore you claim it's something simple and bc you're a Virgo you'll probably say I'm wrong when I actually have a point.... but who knows. (this is in no way an attack against you)Posted by CurlyAriesthats always the case for me thoughPosted by starwarsYou Virgos love to say this as if there is nothing ever underneath your surface.
I wouldn't read much into it, its literally what it is lol
I don't know why EVERYONE think otherwise though, like there's more to the virgo than what they've already shown them
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Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidRe-reading the post, it sounds like the Virgo is a dick. It wasn't just a "friendly message" or an attempt to "reach out" or "keep in touch." Sounded more like he was being an ass. Something else a lot of Virgo's excel at in my experience.Posted by 81gemsI'm not a Virgo tho. Literally says it in my name lolPosted by SomeSortOfMermaidShe said this Virgo guy stone walled her and abandoned her emotionally (you Virgo's really excel at that, by the way.) Let's give her the benefit of the doubt. She moved on. Done. Over. Period.Posted by LibraLovesHimYou post more often about this Virgo than your actual bf.Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidI do that madam, which I am doing wonderfully. I do apologise my dear I had no idea some relations were off limits around here— I observe and question everyone in my life, near far, present past. Now if you dont mind 🙂
Why are you obsessing over his return if you claim to be above him?
Don't you have an Aries bf to tend to?
Why bother analyzing if you've already "moved on"?
You make it seem like this Virgo is chasing you and hasn't realised what he lost. Truth is, Virgo's wouldn't continue to hit someone up unless they get encouragement to continue.
It's obvious you're not over him and you pretending otherwise, or to be above him is just laughable to anyone looking from the outside in.
I can see her point in wondering why this Virgo, after however long it was that he "stonewalled" and "abandoned" her, would send her some random text? Why not pay attention to her when they were together?
Gee, ya think?!
Maybe he was being snide. Maybe he was being an asshole (typical virgo male). Maybe he's lonely. Deservedly so. Who knows. My advice to her would be what others have already said, ignore the dick.
I'm simply pointing out my observations here.
Truth is, if you're truly over someone that you claim did you wrong, you wouldn't keep a line of communication open. Unless you either lack self esteem/like the attention or are not over the person.
This guy can contact her out of several reasons, yet here OP is assuming he wants her back. Maybe he just wants to stay friends. Either way, OP is still emotionally stirred by this and in the least that's not fair to her bf.
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Someone spontaneously texting you isn't YOU keeping the lines of communication open. She said she ignored his message, but perhaps is posting here because she wants to understand what would drive this kind of guy to continue to bug her. Maybe he's a sadist, or narcissist (Virgo?) Either way, conjecture on the part of everyone who said "you're not over him" and all that other crap.
Posted by EarthgoddessI'm simply describing how I see your (Virgos) character. An attack, in my opinion, would mean me calling someone out of their name and saying anything and everything I can to hurt them. That's not at all what I was doing lol I know my words can come off rather harsh but I just try to be honest and to convey what I'm trying to say correctly. A lot of Virgos act robotic with trying to run away from their emotions so much.... which ends up just hurting them in the end but whatever...Posted by CurlyAriesThis one of the reasons why i dnt really get aries girls. Calls u a robotic virgo. Then says ( not a attack against you) ??Posted by starwarsor maybe you can't understand bc you're a robotic Virgo that tries to find logic in everything and can't process emotional intent and therefore you claim it's something simple and bc you're a Virgo you'll probably say I'm wrong when I actually have a point.... but who knows. (this is in no way an attack against you)Posted by CurlyAriesthats always the case for me thoughPosted by starwarsYou Virgos love to say this as if there is nothing ever underneath your surface.
I wouldn't read much into it, its literally what it is lol
I don't know why EVERYONE think otherwise though, like there's more to the virgo than what they've already shown them
Aries men dnt usually do this but i find the ram girls do. My robotic virgo mind is intrigued beyond belief??
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I do find Virgos intriguing as well, though they (really the men, I like Virgo women) get on my nerves and it's always bc of communication. Other than that, Virgo men and I could be perfect together.
i had a lot of virgo men in my life and they will bounce back and fort into my life,like this virgo ex that already had a wife and a daughter flirted with me says he will leave his wife for me ofcourse i refuse,after he got a son and is separated with his now cheating wife which he deserve coz he cheated on me now he know what it feels like?he wants to date me,yeah right as if ill date again someone who cheated on me,fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me,he has scorp moon so i thought it will work for me since we basically have the same emotion and he is a virgo so i thought ok 'stability' but no im wrong im more decisive and much more stable than he is,he isnt the only virgo man that did this to me so i think i have my reasons
lol
You're so full of yourself.
I'm a Virgo, and I am very patient in relationships, but when I am done, I am done. This guy is not coming back.
In my experience, the ones I've dealt with, ALWAYS find a way back in. I don't think it'll be the last time you hear from him, especially if you ignored him lol...
He is probably going crazy in his mind over analyzing why you did not respond.
He is probably going crazy in his mind over analyzing why you did not respond.
"dunno what you got till its gone syndrome"
That doesn't sound so bad - if it's about some unknown diseases. 🙂
That doesn't sound so bad - if it's about some unknown diseases. 🙂
Posted by LibraLovesHimDon't know his type of personality , but I would take that as sarcasm .. if u ignored him , im sure he analyzed why u didn't respond but by now he's probably over it
I'm seeing this with them alot. The virgo I was with stone walled me and left me basically emotionally abandoned for years, I finally walked. He msg me yesterday-
"Ive been watching this new show, really good but disturbing "American Gods" your boyfriend might like it"
(My bf is American) I have no idea how he found this out...
We are talking a 46 year old guy here?!
Wtf does one even respond to this? I ignored it...
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(My bf is American) I have no idea how he found this out...
We are talking a 46 year old guy here?!
Wtf does one even respond to this? I ignored it...