Are all Aquarius Liars, self absorbed jealous and double standard ??

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I have had many run ins with Aquarius, at first we always hit it off. The good part is They are very lively and funny people. Aquarius ex and 2 Aquarius bestfriends Never a boring moment with them BUT on the flip side after knowing them for a while they can be VERY hard to deal with. I have found them to be LIARS .( mean lie about anything and everything ). Jealous and possessive about everything, had a Aquarius ex I could not even go to the grocery store with out asking him!!! Or it would be a issue ? always went through my phone, but I could not touch his. After 8 months I broke it off and after he would not leave me alone!!!! So we were friends for years after because despite him being a horrible boyfriend I really enjoyed him as just a friend but he disappears and reappears (normal Aquarius) always wants sex and at times he can get very upset if I'm seeing another guy or reject him but will try and fake like he doesn't care. But Will talk to MANY different women (DOUBLE STANDARD) He always had issues with his friends they always fall out because he will do shady things . As of lately I have been seeing the same pattern in my 2 Aquarius best friends, they lie and cheat on their boyfriends but will have a heart attack if the partner even looks another woman's way!! (Which is so double standard) they know it and just don't care! Always stalks there exs social medias and will stir up drama ! (Can not leave exes in the past) Will flip things on other people knowing they are DEAD WRONG ! And hate being rejected with a passion. Feels like they are God's gift to man! Then will compete with every one all the time (weird) one of my friends even told me to my face she hate to lose so much it burns her soul ?....

I was just wondering if this is normal for them or not ? I really like the sign over all and enjoy the good aspects of them. But this is getting out of hand, help is this normal Aquarius behavior??!

-Thanks
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Posted by Negail92
I have had many run ins with Aquarius, at first we always hit it off. The good part is They are very lively and funny people. Aquarius ex and 2 Aquarius bestfriends Never a boring moment with them BUT on the flip side after knowing them for a while they can be VERY hard to deal with. I have found them to be LIARS .( mean lie about anything and everything ). Jealous and possessive about everything, had a Aquarius ex I could not even go to the grocery store with out asking him!!! Or it would be a issue ? always went through my phone, but I could not touch his. After 8 months I broke it off and after he would not leave me alone!!!! So we were friends for years after because despite him being a horrible boyfriend I really enjoyed him as just a friend but he disappears and reappears (normal Aquarius) always wants sex and at times he can get very upset if I'm seeing another guy or reject him but will try and fake like he doesn't care. But Will talk to MANY different women (DOUBLE STANDARD) He always had issues with his friends they always fall out because he will do shady things . As of lately I have been seeing the same pattern in my 2 Aquarius best friends, they lie and cheat on their boyfriends but will have a heart attack if the partner even looks another woman's way!! (Which is so double standard) they know it and just don't care! Always stalks there exs social medias and will stir up drama ! (Can not leave exes in the past) Will flip things on other people knowing they are DEAD WRONG ! And hate being rejected with a passion. Feels like they are God's gift to man! Then will compete with every one all the time (weird) one of my friends even told me to my face she hate to lose so much it burns her soul ?....

I was just wondering if this is normal for them or not ? I really like the sign over all and enjoy the good aspects of them. But this is getting out of hand, help is this normal Aquarius behavior??!

-Thanks

Hahaha I think it is....!!! My good girlfriend is Aqua and she's that.not sure if she lies but def sleeping around even though her heart is with one man.. my ex Aqua I broke it off recently shown the same traits. Double standards.i think they r very insecure beings when it comes to romantic sense n love sex and adventure bur can be controlling and very protective once they start to really care for someone. So maybe the double standard is them needing to b in control .. also controlignus to not have anyone else somehow while they r doing it . They want the best in both worlds. They can b selfish like that and a hyprocite. If I was to date another Aqua he needs to be a millionaire . Even that I don't know if I will go near them. Lol.. what's ur sign? he keeps coming back to u coz he likes it that he can't manipulate u so it keeps him challenged. They know they have a lot of bad traits n sometimes they need someone that will call them out on their bs lol. They r amazing as friends though n beusfifuk n lovely like that. They have insecurities n don't know how to properly manage that... they r not bad people. In fact they r very beautiful people just a little double standard in that sense.
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I don't know what Aquas you've been hanging around, but what ifs. All the Aquas I know are the bomb.com, but hey I won't waste time or energy writing a wall of words trying to change your mind. Your experiences shaped your ideas of us.... but oh well. I just wonder.... with all these recent Aqua hater enthusiasts... why is DXP blowing up with questions about Aquas? It's at an all time high right now.... almost comparable to Scorps.

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I've read your other post, you really don't have good to say about many signs. Do you think you walk on water? This is a serious question.
Lmao your funny, no I don't honestly I think everyone has bad and good like I said I love the sign in general ,I just notice things and wonder is this zodiac related or just a crappy person. But as far as seeing bad in all signs no I've only posted in places I've had actual experiences with people I made a post about a gemini was Farley positive ?.
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I have had many run ins with Aquarius, at first we always hit it off. The good part is They are very lively and funny people. Aquarius ex and 2 Aquarius bestfriends Never a boring moment with them BUT on the flip side after knowing them for a while they can be VERY hard to deal with. I have found them to be LIARS .( mean lie about anything and everything ). Jealous and possessive about everything, had a Aquarius ex I could not even go to the grocery store with out asking him!!! Or it would be a issue ? always went through my phone, but I could not touch his. After 8 months I broke it off and after he would not leave me alone!!!! So we were friends for years after because despite him being a horrible boyfriend I really enjoyed him as just a friend but he disappears and reappears (normal Aquarius) always wants sex and at times he can get very upset if I'm seeing another guy or reject him but will try and fake like he doesn't care. But Will talk to MANY different women (DOUBLE STANDARD) He always had issues with his friends they always fall out because he will do shady things . As of lately I have been seeing the same pattern in my 2 Aquarius best friends, they lie and cheat on their boyfriends but will have a heart attack if the partner even looks another woman's way!! (Which is so double standard) they know it and just don't care! Always stalks there exs social medias and will stir up drama ! (Can not leave exes in the past) Will flip things on other people knowing they are DEAD WRONG ! And hate being rejected with a passion. Feels like they are God's gift to man! Then will compete with every one all the time (weird) one of my friends even told me to my face she hate to lose so much it burns her soul ?....

I was just wondering if this is normal for them or not ? I really like the sign over all and enjoy the good aspects of them. But this is getting out of hand, help is this normal Aquarius behavior??!

-Thanks

Hahaha I think it is....!!! My good girlfriend is Aqua and she's that.not sure if she lies but def sleeping around even though her heart is with one man.. my ex Aqua I broke it off recently shown the same traits. Double standards.i think they r very insecure beings when it comes to romantic sense n love sex and adventure bur can be controlling and very protective once they start to really care for someone. So maybe the double standard is them needing to b in control .. also controlignus to not have anyone else somehow while they r doing it . They want the best in both worlds. They can b selfish like that and a hyprocite. If I was to date another Aqua he needs to be a millionaire . Even that I don't know if I will go near them. Lol.. what's ur sign? he keeps coming back to u coz he likes it that he can't manipulate u so it keeps him challenged. They know they have a lot of bad traits n sometimes they need someone that will call them out on their bs lol. They r amazing as friends though n beusfifuk n lovely like that. They have insecurities n don't know how to properly manage that... they r not bad people. In fact they r very beautiful people just a little double standard in that sense.

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I'm a Capricorn yea I agree with you the most

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Grabs popcorn. So why do Leos go after these losers. Could it be extreme masochism. Or insecurity

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We like the challenge. Pinning down an Aqua is like trying to pin jello to a wall. It's an addicting puzzle for us.

Cats in real life like to play with their "prey" (or toys) more when they're in a difficult spot to reach. Domestic cats will actually place a toy behind an obstacle vs having it out in the open, if given a choice.

So with the slippery Aqua, they engage our hunter primal urge. They are maddening to us, and we have to get to the bottom of why. The Aqua will either love that or hate it, and that's when we find out if we're compatible or not.

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Grabs popcorn. So why do Leos go after these losers. Could it be extreme masochism. Or insecurity

@Chuckcem
Hmmm? Sounds like OP has found some immature Aquas to say the least. Granted every sign has its bad apples, Aquarius is no exception. I've known awful Aquas and amazing Aquas. One of my good Aqua friends of over a decade has none of the traits OP listed.

Also Leos don't make good masochists. We don't enjoy pain.
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Grabs popcorn. So why do Leos go after these losers. Could it be extreme masochism. Or insecurity

@Chuckcem


We like the challenge. Pinning down an Aqua is like trying to pin jello to a wall. It's an addicting puzzle for us.

Cats in real life like to play with their "prey" (or toys) more when they're in a difficult spot to reach. Domestic cats will actually place a toy behind an obstacle vs having it out in the open, if given a choice.

So with the slippery Aqua, they engage our hunter primal urge. They are maddening to us, and we have to get to the bottom of why. The Aqua will either love that or hate it, and that's when we find out if we're compatible or not.


So basically you'll give up comfort joy and warmth and stability just to chase a toy

Good luck

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There is comfort and joy, and warmth too. Just not always at the time or the way it's expected.

I'm talking above about the initial stages, when you're still in discovery mode. What happens after is really dependent on the 2 people involved and what they want/need.

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Grabs popcorn. So why do Leos go after these losers. Could it be extreme masochism. Or insecurity

@Chuckcem
Hmmm? Sounds like OP has found some immature Aquas to say the least. Granted every sign has its bad apples, Aquarius is no exception. I've known awful Aquas and amazing Aquas. One of my good Aqua friends of over a decade has none of the traits OP listed.

Also Leos don't make good masochists. We don't enjoy pain.
Shrugs.

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Hugs not shrugs.

I'm pretty sure Leos and Cancers get along just as well as Leos and Aquas. 1st decan Leos are very close to Cancer after all.
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Grabs popcorn. So why do Leos go after these losers. Could it be extreme masochism. Or insecurity

@Chuckcem


We like the challenge. Pinning down an Aqua is like trying to pin jello to a wall. It's an addicting puzzle for us.

Cats in real life like to play with their "prey" (or toys) more when they're in a difficult spot to reach. Domestic cats will actually place a toy behind an obstacle vs having it out in the open, if given a choice.

So with the slippery Aqua, they engage our hunter primal urge. They are maddening to us, and we have to get to the bottom of why. The Aqua will either love that or hate it, and that's when we find out if we're compatible or not.


So basically you'll give up comfort joy and warmth and stability just to chase a toy

Good luck. You guys are as dumb as ppl say you are.

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U just jelly.

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Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Grabs popcorn. So why do Leos go after these losers. Could it be extreme masochism. Or insecurity

@Chuckcem


We like the challenge. Pinning down an Aqua is like trying to pin jello to a wall. It's an addicting puzzle for us.

Cats in real life like to play with their "prey" (or toys) more when they're in a difficult spot to reach. Domestic cats will actually place a toy behind an obstacle vs having it out in the open, if given a choice.

So with the slippery Aqua, they engage our hunter primal urge. They are maddening to us, and we have to get to the bottom of why. The Aqua will either love that or hate it, and that's when we find out if we're compatible or not.


So basically you'll give up comfort joy and warmth and stability just to chase a toy

Good luck. You guys are as dumb as ppl say you are.


U just jelly.


ya so it's my prerogative.



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😛

Still like ya doh.

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Grabs popcorn. So why do Leos go after these losers. Could it be extreme masochism. Or insecurity

@Chuckcem


We like the challenge. Pinning down an Aqua is like trying to pin jello to a wall. It's an addicting puzzle for us.

Cats in real life like to play with their "prey" (or toys) more when they're in a difficult spot to reach. Domestic cats will actually place a toy behind an obstacle vs having it out in the open, if given a choice.

So with the slippery Aqua, they engage our hunter primal urge. They are maddening to us, and we have to get to the bottom of why. The Aqua will either love that or hate it, and that's when we find out if we're compatible or not.


So basically you'll give up comfort joy and warmth and stability just to chase a toy

Good luck. You guys are as dumb as ppl say you are.


U just jelly.


ya so it's my prerogative.




😛

Still like ya doh.

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IMAo.....
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Grabs popcorn. So why do Leos go after these losers. Could it be extreme masochism. Or insecurity

@Chuckcem
Hmmm? Sounds like OP has found some immature Aquas to say the least. Granted every sign has its bad apples, Aquarius is no exception. I've known awful Aquas and amazing Aquas. One of my good Aqua friends of over a decade has none of the traits OP listed.

Also Leos don't make good masochists. We don't enjoy pain.
Shrugs.


Hugs not shrugs.

I'm pretty sure Leos and Cancers get along just as well as Leos and Aquas. 1st decan Leos are very close to Cancer after all.
Shrugs. I'm over it
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Hmmm...where's my butter?
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I think Aquarius people can be quite sweet actually, with the right person. It does take them a long time to commit, but it's possible and once they do, they hold on tight. They are protective and with the right partner, they are caring, loving.

They do love sex, and I think if the sex stops, that's a big red flag, or you should be worried because they are probably looking elsewhere. I think that unlike other signs, they don't have the patience or maybe the maturity when young to really work on relationships. They move on faster, but that doesn't mean they aren't hurting inside when they end something.

They do not like being rejected, that's true. I once broke up with an Aquarius because I said I needed space and time to think and he said, "You could never break it off with me." He said it jokingly, but Ha! So arrogant. I knew that's what he really thought, as others have said, that he was like an Adonis. 😉

Still, I find them to be cool, smart, and unique. They are very independent-minded, they have opinions that are well thought-out and don't change them. They are concerned about others and I think they have a very egalitarian worldview. I admire that. But one to one relationships can be a struggle for them.
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Grabs popcorn. So why do Leos go after these losers. Could it be extreme masochism. Or insecurity

@Chuckcem
Hmmm? Sounds like OP has found some immature Aquas to say the least. Granted every sign has its bad apples, Aquarius is no exception. I've known awful Aquas and amazing Aquas. One of my good Aqua friends of over a decade has none of the traits OP listed.

Also Leos don't make good masochists. We don't enjoy pain.
Shrugs.


Hugs not shrugs.

I'm pretty sure Leos and Cancers get along just as well as Leos and Aquas. 1st decan Leos are very close to Cancer after all.
Shrugs. I'm over it
Hmmm...where's my butter?
Burned

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No no, I just like butter with my salty crab. Ssssssh, don't make it weird.
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Grabs popcorn. So why do Leos go after these losers. Could it be extreme masochism. Or insecurity

@Chuckcem
Hmmm? Sounds like OP has found some immature Aquas to say the least. Granted every sign has its bad apples, Aquarius is no exception. I've known awful Aquas and amazing Aquas. One of my good Aqua friends of over a decade has none of the traits OP listed.

Also Leos don't make good masochists. We don't enjoy pain.
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virgo/pisces axis likes the masochist/pain and suffering I read.



Capricorn is the sufferer. Saturn is really cruel.
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Grabs popcorn. So why do Leos go after these losers. Could it be extreme masochism. Or insecurity

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what I want to understand is...

you seem to put Leo on a pedestal.

I don't.

that's the difference between you and me.



and you put down air signs all the time.

just like when you said you hated libras, awhile back, on the cancer board.

and you finally said you had a libra best friend in school.



leos should leave us the fuck alone if they don't like us. indifference I would welcome more.
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That's why, in future, the most I would be prepared to offer an Aquarius woman would be a FWB arrangement...


who would want that??

only a woman who thinks less of herself.



and you only think less of the woman.

we see right through men like you.

You're getting irrational and defensive again...

Just because I mentioned a FWB arrangement doesn't mean I'm an ardent fan of the whole FWB concept. I'm simply saying that many Aquarius women are both reckless and clueless in romantic relationships. As a result, FWB would be the most that many of them rightfully deserve.

If you want to sulk about the realities of dating Aquarius women, be my guest. But stop throwing around wild accusations because you took something personally.

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well it's men like you that THINK like you, that women that don't know better and want to find a commitment should be wary of...

cause they will be devastated that you think so less of them that you only want sex and no commitment.

lots of women secretly want to have a long term commitment but are too afraid deep down to be rejected and be brave. so they get scraps.



this is why women get into whatever they can get,

cause a lot of men don't give them loyalty and monogamy and commitment.

they will be desperate for anything for love.

but too damned ashamed to say it for fear of being rejected.

the irony because they are being already rejected.
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That's why, in future, the most I would be prepared to offer an Aquarius woman would be a FWB arrangement...


who would want that??

only a woman who thinks less of herself.



and you only think less of the woman.

we see right through men like you.

You're getting irrational and defensive again...

Just because I mentioned a FWB arrangement doesn't mean I'm an ardent fan of the whole FWB concept. I'm simply saying that many Aquarius women are both reckless and clueless in romantic relationships. As a result, FWB would be the most that many of them rightfully deserve.

If you want to sulk about the realities of dating Aquarius women, be my guest. But stop throwing around wild accusations because you took something personally.




well it's men like you that THINK like you, that women that don't know better and want to find a commitment should be wary of...

cause they will be devastated that you think so less of them that you only want sex and no commitment.

lots of women secretly want to have a long term commitment but are too afraid deep down to be rejected and be brave. so they get scraps.



this is why women get into whatever they can get,

cause a lot of men don't give them loyalty and monogamy and commitment.

they will be desperate for anything for love.

but too damned ashamed to say it for fear of being rejected.

the irony because they are being already rejected.

You know, all you're doing is supporting my original statement. But you carry on ranting like a mad woman...

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that they all lack courage to be in a commitment? 😕



that's a huge sweeping generalization.



you know there's alot of women like this.

they get cheated on alot and are too frightened to be in a relationship for fear of the man's approval.

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Grabs popcorn. So why do Leos go after these losers. Could it be extreme masochism. Or insecurity

@Chuckcem
what I want to understand is...

you seem to put Leo on a pedestal.

I don't.

that's the difference between you and me.



and you put down air signs all the time.

just like when you said you hated libras, awhile back, on the cancer board.

and you finally said you had a libra best friend in school.



leos should leave us the fuck alone if they don't like us. indifference I would welcome more.
Obviously they're not a pedestal of they're chasing aquas

And i seriously don't like air signs. Yes i had a best friend but she wasn't loyal to me in the end. So it doesn't matter.
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just the air sun?

air moon?

or just air domiannt?



and why do you feel that way?



your ex has libra venus if i remember and you are in love with a leo who has libra mars...



that air quality cardinal is going to express itself because it's their nature...