Love

When would be safest to tell an Aquarius you love them? I'm not giving details because some of y'all are judgmental,close minded assholes! So it's an open assumption of time and whatever else you want to use to determine.

I can tell you it's not the safest, you must prepare for the worst. Good luck.

Posted by Capmercury87
I'm an aqua and I disapprove of any comments not made by aquas.

When the feeling is mutual.

Do it in a moment of sincerity and openness.

agreed!

In a moment when you talk about your guys relationship&feelings you would recognise if your feelings are mutual. If you do so you are free to say it 🙂 anytime

you dont need to say it, just be there for him.... action and not words, you know 🙂

but if you are determined to make a love confession, wait for him to do it first.... what may never come, bc they tend to show love other ways...

but, sometimes aquas are happy, if the other confess love for them, because its really hard for aquas to talk about emotions (even for me! and i am a cancer moon and pisces venus!)

I never tell it to anybody, unless they are the type to require it, so I do it, but it feels uncomfortable... even if I am happy.... I am here for you, spend time with you, how else can I prove it more? words are just words

the thing is, i dont really beleive if somebody confesses love for me, so I normally not even responding to it, just smile (thinking: its just words, its not serious, some people say love you to everybody, not a big deal)

some aquas may even panic, when the "love you" comes, because, what to do now? what will happen? is it an obligation? what is there to wait for, where is the mystery?

not everybody is the same, obviously

but love confessions (receiving and giving) is very complicated for most aquas

just be there for us, spend time with us, no talking but action 🙂

The other week I was tempted to tell my aqua I love him, but when I called his name to say it I quickly changed my mind. I still have not told him and I don't know when I will say it. He once told me "When women confess their love they change" That's not what stopped me, I wasn't sure If I'm really ready to tell him and I had a little fear of saying it because it will leave my heart open to get hurt and I'm not sure I want to take that chance right now.

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love?

I checked my safe word dictionary... can't find it anywhere.

lol I causally mentioned the word the other day in reference to "look at that love puddle we made." And my Aqua was like what he was so startled lol I quickly changed the subject. Because I like him a lot and although we are building on it I can't see myself saying that for a while.

So how do you normally react when someone says "I love you" ?

Posted by ladylibra21
lol I causally mentioned the word the other day in reference to "look at that love puddle we made." And my Aqua was like what he was so startled lol I quickly changed the subject. Because I like him a lot and although we are building on it I can't see myself saying that for a while.

So how do you normally react when someone says "I love you" ?

I never say it to anyone, not even my family??‍♀️. And I don't like people saying it to me especially if I think they're possibly lying but I feel different about the Aqua like I could say it not enough to run him away though

Posted by OrGasMe
If it's too soon, Aqua will be highly sus of your sincerity.

this. but also, as long as it's sincere and you have a strong urge to say it, why hide...i think the more important thing is to be accepting of aquarius reaction and don't push them to respond. personally i feel much more comfortable with the L word when a certain reaction is not expected of me, and when it is not a question so much as an honest declaration

I love it when people say they love me...

It's just when they say it and they

Look at me intensely in the eyes and I can see into their soul and I see desperation that I get on my high horse and kick them away, filthy peasants!

Telling anyone you love them is always good

......especially if you expect nothing back

🙂

I loved two Aqua men

Both were very romantic and loved me deeply

Posted by CrabNextDoor
When would be safest to tell an Aquarius you love them? I'm not giving details because some of y'all are judgmental,close minded assholes! So it's an open assumption of time and whatever else you want to use to determine.

Such a positive post lol



As for when... never. We freaks that can't be loved girl.

Posted by aquasnoz
love?

I checked my safe word dictionary... can't find it anywhere.

Pretty much!

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If you express your sincere loving emotion without expecting in return and they run Aqua and do not appreciate you for it then they are not the right March for you. Love isn't about game. Aqua or not, if you feel it just saying but make sure you say it's not tocmean anything more... and you expect nothing of him.... what's his placements? Love is a beautiful thing why are all these Aqua making it seem like it's some kind of hell of a word hahahaha

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
are you mentally and emotionally okay? why in the hell would you ever tell an Aqua anything but get out of my face

You really loathe Aquas, why?

U never tell them u just have to show them

Posted by saweetz1988
If you express your sincere loving emotion without expecting in return and they run Aqua and do not appreciate you for it then they are not the right March for you. Love isn't about game. Aqua or not, if you feel it just saying but make sure you say it's not tocmean anything more... and you expect nothing of him.... what's his placements? Love is a beautiful thing why are all these Aqua making it seem like it's some kind of hell of a word hahahaha

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Living up to stereotypes.

Posted by saweetz1988
If you express your sincere loving emotion without expecting in return and they run Aqua and do not appreciate you for it then they are not the right March for you. Love isn't about game. Aqua or not, if you feel it just saying but make sure you say it's not tocmean anything more... and you expect nothing of him.... what's his placements? Love is a beautiful thing why are all these Aqua making it seem like it's some kind of hell of a word hahahaha

Okay I'm a be real for a minute.

For an aqua to tell another they love them and to hear that from another means everything and beyond. We don't use words lightly in general, so to say it and have it turn out to not be real or some big game being run to get in the pants or whatever. It can destroy us.

So only say it if it's real, we don't play games wth that stuff. At least I don't.

Posted by saweetz1988
If you express your sincere loving emotion without expecting in return and they run Aqua and do not appreciate you for it then they are not the right March for you. Love isn't about game. Aqua or not, if you feel it just saying but make sure you say it's not tocmean anything more... and you expect nothing of him.... what's his placements? Love is a beautiful thing why are all these Aqua making it seem like it's some kind of hell of a word hahahaha

He's a Aqua sun ,cap mercy Venus Saturn Uranus and Neptune, Scorpio Pluto, sag moon and mars, cancer Jupiter Aqua ascending

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If you express your sincere loving emotion without expecting in return and they run Aqua and do not appreciate you for it then they are not the right March for you. Love isn't about game. Aqua or not, if you feel it just saying but make sure you say it's not tocmean anything more... and you expect nothing of him.... what's his placements? Love is a beautiful thing why are all these Aqua making it seem like it's some kind of hell of a word hahahaha

He's a Aqua sun ,cap mercy Venus Saturn Uranus and Neptune, Scorpio Pluto, sag moon and mars, cancer Jupiter Aqua ascending

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Aqua sun, sag moon and mars, cap merc here lol

I cut verbally when I don't intend too, I am very blunt and can be outspoken and showing my emotions is rough but to the right people they get in the walls no matter what. Crabs can do that with me you lil bastages, but I'm scorp rising and it's my 8th house, so I think that is why.

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If you express your sincere loving emotion without expecting in return and they run Aqua and do not appreciate you for it then they are not the right March for you. Love isn't about game. Aqua or not, if you feel it just saying but make sure you say it's not tocmean anything more... and you expect nothing of him.... what's his placements? Love is a beautiful thing why are all these Aqua making it seem like it's some kind of hell of a word hahahaha

He's a Aqua sun ,cap mercy Venus Saturn Uranus and Neptune, Scorpio Pluto, sag moon and mars, cancer Jupiter Aqua ascending

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Most likely he's a 12th house stelium with that aqua rising ??

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If you express your sincere loving emotion without expecting in return and they run Aqua and do not appreciate you for it then they are not the right March for you. Love isn't about game. Aqua or not, if you feel it just saying but make sure you say it's not tocmean anything more... and you expect nothing of him.... what's his placements? Love is a beautiful thing why are all these Aqua making it seem like it's some kind of hell of a word hahahaha

He's a Aqua sun ,cap mercy Venus Saturn Uranus and Neptune, Scorpio Pluto, sag moon and mars, cancer Jupiter Aqua ascending

Most likely he's a 12th house stelium with that aqua rising ??

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Is that bad—?

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Posted by saweetz1988
If you express your sincere loving emotion without expecting in return and they run Aqua and do not appreciate you for it then they are not the right March for you. Love isn't about game. Aqua or not, if you feel it just saying but make sure you say it's not tocmean anything more... and you expect nothing of him.... what's his placements? Love is a beautiful thing why are all these Aqua making it seem like it's some kind of hell of a word hahahaha

He's a Aqua sun ,cap mercy Venus Saturn Uranus and Neptune, Scorpio Pluto, sag moon and mars, cancer Jupiter Aqua ascending

Most likely he's a 12th house stelium with that aqua rising ??

Is that bad—?

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Yes, bad for him lol.

What is his fifth house? If it's cancer it would make good house overlays with your sun and cancer placements.

5th is House of fun and affection.

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Posted by saweetz1988
If you express your sincere loving emotion without expecting in return and they run Aqua and do not appreciate you for it then they are not the right March for you. Love isn't about game. Aqua or not, if you feel it just saying but make sure you say it's not tocmean anything more... and you expect nothing of him.... what's his placements? Love is a beautiful thing why are all these Aqua making it seem like it's some kind of hell of a word hahahaha

He's a Aqua sun ,cap mercy Venus Saturn Uranus and Neptune, Scorpio Pluto, sag moon and mars, cancer Jupiter Aqua ascending

Most likely he's a 12th house stelium with that aqua rising ??

Is that bad—?

Yes, bad for him lol.

What is his fifth house? If it's cancer it would make good house overlays with your sun and cancer placements.

5th is House of fun and affection.

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No I don't think so, it's sag.. I'm unsure

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Posted by saweetz1988
If you express your sincere loving emotion without expecting in return and they run Aqua and do not appreciate you for it then they are not the right March for you. Love isn't about game. Aqua or not, if you feel it just saying but make sure you say it's not tocmean anything more... and you expect nothing of him.... what's his placements? Love is a beautiful thing why are all these Aqua making it seem like it's some kind of hell of a word hahahaha

Okay I'm a be real for a minute.

For an aqua to tell another they love them and to hear that from another means everything and beyond. We don't use words lightly in general, so to say it and have it turn out to not be real or some big game being run to get in the pants or whatever. It can destroy us.

So only say it if it's real, we don't play games wth that stuff. At least I don't.

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Exactly it has to be super real. Untill you know what you feel is real. That's when you express it.

Sag moon though. I don't know. I would wait if it's with Aqua sun sag moon. Wait till they express it with action n watch them.... again Aqua is all about action but if u truly wanna express urself, by all means. though make sure what u r feeling is real

Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
In my experience dealing with aqua men...you talk about feelings only when he is either drunk, or on some sort of manic high from something that happened in his life.

IMAO... I'm Aqua moon. I'm very similar hahahaha

I'd wait for them to say it first because after all, they do try to communicate whatever is on their mind. My Bfffff told me she loved me, oh... 5 years into our friendship? Maybe more? I'm not really sure. When they feel absolutely sure that they can trust and rely on you to not turn.Or judge them. Or they feel they can truly confide in you, quirks and all.

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Posted by saweetz1988
If you express your sincere loving emotion without expecting in return and they run Aqua and do not appreciate you for it then they are not the right March for you. Love isn't about game. Aqua or not, if you feel it just saying but make sure you say it's not tocmean anything more... and you expect nothing of him.... what's his placements? Love is a beautiful thing why are all these Aqua making it seem like it's some kind of hell of a word hahahaha

He's a Aqua sun ,cap mercy Venus Saturn Uranus and Neptune, Scorpio Pluto, sag moon and mars, cancer Jupiter Aqua ascending

Most likely he's a 12th house stelium with that aqua rising ??

Is that bad—?

Yes, bad for him lol.

What is his fifth house? If it's cancer it would make good house overlays with your sun and cancer placements.

5th is House of fun and affection.

No I don't think so, it's sag.. I'm unsure

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If he's an aqua rising, it's impossible for sag to be down there in 5th.

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Posted by saweetz1988
If you express your sincere loving emotion without expecting in return and they run Aqua and do not appreciate you for it then they are not the right March for you. Love isn't about game. Aqua or not, if you feel it just saying but make sure you say it's not tocmean anything more... and you expect nothing of him.... what's his placements? Love is a beautiful thing why are all these Aqua making it seem like it's some kind of hell of a word hahahaha

He's a Aqua sun ,cap mercy Venus Saturn Uranus and Neptune, Scorpio Pluto, sag moon and mars, cancer Jupiter Aqua ascending

Most likely he's a 12th house stelium with that aqua rising ??

Is that bad—?

Yes, bad for him lol.

What is his fifth house? If it's cancer it would make good house overlays with your sun and cancer placements.

5th is House of fun and affection.

No I don't think so, it's sag.. I'm unsure

If he's an aqua rising, it's impossible for sag to be down there in 5th.

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Yes he is !!

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Posted by saweetz1988
If you express your sincere loving emotion without expecting in return and they run Aqua and do not appreciate you for it then they are not the right March for you. Love isn't about game. Aqua or not, if you feel it just saying but make sure you say it's not tocmean anything more... and you expect nothing of him.... what's his placements? Love is a beautiful thing why are all these Aqua making it seem like it's some kind of hell of a word hahahaha

He's a Aqua sun ,cap mercy Venus Saturn Uranus and Neptune, Scorpio Pluto, sag moon and mars, cancer Jupiter Aqua ascending

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Same placements as me except I have a cap moon.

Very cautious about saying so, need lots of affirmation first. Thats not handled easily.

But after all he's a cap venus, so when matured he values traditional love and just needs a little push. Make sure you say it with all seriousness and give him the feeling that he can rely on you!

But u really wanna say it first though?

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Posted by saweetz1988
If you express your sincere loving emotion without expecting in return and they run Aqua and do not appreciate you for it then they are not the right March for you. Love isn't about game. Aqua or not, if you feel it just saying but make sure you say it's not tocmean anything more... and you expect nothing of him.... what's his placements? Love is a beautiful thing why are all these Aqua making it seem like it's some kind of hell of a word hahahaha

He's a Aqua sun ,cap mercy Venus Saturn Uranus and Neptune, Scorpio Pluto, sag moon and mars, cancer Jupiter Aqua ascending

Same placements as me except I have a cap moon.

Very cautious about saying so, need lots of affirmation first. Thats not handled easily.

But after all he's a cap venus, so when matured he values traditional love and just needs a little push. Make sure you say it with all seriousness and give him the feeling that he can rely on you!

But u really wanna say it first though?

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I want to I do but just as scared as y'all say he is and will be scared away I'm the same and fear running away from him after I tell him! Very selfish but it's just my nature!

OP, you said: "I want to I do but just as scared as y'all say he is and will be scared away I'm the same and fear running away from him after I tell him! Very selfish but it's just my nature! "



I dont know why you want to say it, if this is the case.... you want to test him, or test yourself, or what? Are you bored? 🙂 telling him you love him and then running away from him after it - now that would be a consistent behaviour, wouldnt it ? 🙂

I just dont understand your motives to telling him, if this is a case

the general opinion on this is, as it seems from most posts, to wait until he says it to you

my personal opinion is (as I said before) dont tell him, just show your love

@Justagirl & @AquaNextDoor gave great advice.



I'm Cap everything else (including Moon so I don't have Sag Moon like him) Scorp Mars .... so my placements are similar to his.....



My advice:



Cap Venus & Mercury are VERY cautious about expressing our love. We can sometimes come off very serious, but we don't give our love and emotions to just anyone so if we do it's serious and probably for the long haul. Cap Venus & Aqua placements need you to show your love.... we are more based on actions. So, you can say you love him first, but please don't be hurt or upset if he doesn't respond. It may mean he has yet to see the actions that affirm that what you're saying is true or it could mean he's still determining if he loves you or not. Hr could also return your sentiments and you guys go to the next level which would be great. If you love him and you've shown it already... at the very least he will be happy because you're sincere. I can't see him running away with all his Cap placements. Us Aquas with heavy Cap placements take love seriously!

Posted by Wineaux15
@Justagirl & @AquaNextDoor gave great advice.



I'm Cap everything else (including Moon so I don't have Sag Moon like him) Scorp Mars .... so my placements are similar to his.....



My advice:



Cap Venus & Mercury are VERY cautious about expressing our love. We can sometimes come off very serious, but we don't give our love and emotions to just anyone so if we do it's serious and probably for the long haul. Cap Venus & Aqua placements need you to show your love.... we are more based on actions. So, you can say you love him first, but please don't be hurt or upset if he doesn't respond. It may mean he has yet to see the actions that affirm that what you're saying is true or it could mean he's still determining if he loves you or not. Hr could also return your sentiments and you guys go to the next level which would be great. If you love him and you've shown it already... at the very least he will be happy because you're sincere. I can't see him running away with all his Cap placements. Us Aquas with heavy Cap placements take love seriously!

What's the action require for someone to prove their love to you then? Loyalty and what else?

Posted by Wineaux15
@Justagirl & @AquaNextDoor gave great advice.



I'm Cap everything else (including Moon so I don't have Sag Moon like him) Scorp Mars .... so my placements are similar to his.....



My advice:



Cap Venus & Mercury are VERY cautious about expressing our love. We can sometimes come off very serious, but we don't give our love and emotions to just anyone so if we do it's serious and probably for the long haul. Cap Venus & Aqua placements need you to show your love.... we are more based on actions. So, you can say you love him first, but please don't be hurt or upset if he doesn't respond. It may mean he has yet to see the actions that affirm that what you're saying is true or it could mean he's still determining if he loves you or not. Hr could also return your sentiments and you guys go to the next level which would be great. If you love him and you've shown it already... at the very least he will be happy because you're sincere. I can't see him running away with all his Cap placements. Us Aquas with heavy Cap placements take love seriously!

Very well explained! Plus if he runs away and goes all crazy after u declare your love then he's an immature dickhead! Its ok not to feel the same love but then he should be mature enough to talk about it and give you insight on where you two stand

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Posted by Wineaux15
@Justagirl & @AquaNextDoor gave great advice.



I'm Cap everything else (including Moon so I don't have Sag Moon like him) Scorp Mars .... so my placements are similar to his.....



My advice:



Cap Venus & Mercury are VERY cautious about expressing our love. We can sometimes come off very serious, but we don't give our love and emotions to just anyone so if we do it's serious and probably for the long haul. Cap Venus & Aqua placements need you to show your love.... we are more based on actions. So, you can say you love him first, but please don't be hurt or upset if he doesn't respond. It may mean he has yet to see the actions that affirm that what you're saying is true or it could mean he's still determining if he loves you or not. Hr could also return your sentiments and you guys go to the next level which would be great. If you love him and you've shown it already... at the very least he will be happy because you're sincere. I can't see him running away with all his Cap placements. Us Aquas with heavy Cap placements take love seriously!

What's the action require for someone to prove their love to you then? Loyalty and what else?

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Consistency, being reliable, no lies (big or small), showing mature behavior and thinking

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Posted by Wineaux15
@Justagirl & @AquaNextDoor gave great advice.



I'm Cap everything else (including Moon so I don't have Sag Moon like him) Scorp Mars .... so my placements are similar to his.....



My advice:



Cap Venus & Mercury are VERY cautious about expressing our love. We can sometimes come off very serious, but we don't give our love and emotions to just anyone so if we do it's serious and probably for the long haul. Cap Venus & Aqua placements need you to show your love.... we are more based on actions. So, you can say you love him first, but please don't be hurt or upset if he doesn't respond. It may mean he has yet to see the actions that affirm that what you're saying is true or it could mean he's still determining if he loves you or not. Hr could also return your sentiments and you guys go to the next level which would be great. If you love him and you've shown it already... at the very least he will be happy because you're sincere. I can't see him running away with all his Cap placements. Us Aquas with heavy Cap placements take love seriously!

Very well explained! Plus if he runs away and goes all crazy after u declare your love then he's an immature dickhead! Its ok not to feel the same love but then he should be mature enough to talk about it and give you insight on where you two stand

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Totally agree. Go for it. I did it n the Aqua didn't run. He seems to come in closer if any. As long as you tell him there's no demand . Just sincere feelings needing to b expressed. N act cool about it lol