lomysin
@lomysin
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Stop Making Excuses for Capricorn Men. Practice some self-love not patience.
Posted by ParisianCappyBut i'm impatient. So tell me now.
i want to say what i really thought but i'm not rich as your cap, so let this thread here, i'll respond in 3 years.
Posted by Capri-sunI guess I thought he was like me. I have a reputation of being a player. But when I meet someone I connect with, im devoted.
Why are you listening to what another woman is saying? I wouldn't even trust her. Regardless of whether he is still in contact with her or not, of course she will say yes to get under your skin.
If people warned you of him being a player, why didn't you listen?
Posted by Capri-sundamn. theres just never gonna be trust between a cap and scorp.Posted by lomysinPosted by Capri-sunI guess I thought he was like me. I have a reputation of being a player. But when I meet someone I connect with, im devoted.
Why are you listening to what another woman is saying? I wouldn't even trust her. Regardless of whether he is still in contact with her or not, of course she will say yes to get under your skin.
If people warned you of him being a player, why didn't you listen?
Until you're not. No offense, just saying.
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It's hard to stay away from them and not get sucked back in. Try to block him and delete his number.
Posted by DividedWeCapricornPosted by lomysinThey say that depending on the type of person you are, you attract the kind of people you are. If you're a good soul, you'll attract good people, and if you're a bad soul, you'll attract bad people.Posted by Capri-sunI guess I thought he was like me. I have a reputation of being a player. But when I meet someone I connect with, im devoted.
Why are you listening to what another woman is saying? I wouldn't even trust her. Regardless of whether he is still in contact with her or not, of course she will say yes to get under your skin.
If people warned you of him being a player, why didn't you listen?
See where I'm going? The problem isn't from us Caps, it's from you. Learn to be loyal before you even date a Cap.
And look, before you tell everyone to stop making excuses for us and practice some self love, why don't I tell you right now to stop being a player and stop cheating? Are you that desperate for the attention from males to a point where you date people you are infatuated with and then dump them in a matter of weeks or months? God damn you're disgusting.click to expand
Learn to be loyal...hmmm. I think that when someone tells youve they have cheated in the past, you shouldnt just label them as a serial cheater. My Leo ex of four years was a notorious cheater. But together we brought out the best in one another. Giving each other the comfort and intensity we both so deeply craved. Being with another lover, never even crossed through our minds.
People often cheat when they aren't receiving something they need. I need emotional intensity and attention to be loyal.
i guess i shouldn't say i've cheated on a capricorn. In the preliminary stages of a relationship (before making it official) when they have asked me whether im sleeping with other people, i've often lied. I've done this because all the other guys in my rotation have just been bangs, nothing emotional. I didn't want to tell a cap this because I know how incredibly possessive and distrustful they are.
Caps cant expect loyalty when they make no time for you and are emotionally cold.
Posted by DividedWeCapricornThis what Caps want/need to believe. They want to throw on others what they themselves dish out.
Hint: Toxic people attract other toxic people
Posted by CAPLOCKSAID
@Gob_Shite
@Parisiancappy
@DividedWeCapricorn
@Capri-sun
Hey Gob_Shite wait for me man. Everybody RUN !!!
She has her stinger out. Dont get poisoned.
I'm a scorpio with a sense of humour. So no stinger out lol
She has her stinger out. Dont get poisoned.
Posted by lomysinYou can't expect loyalty from a treacherous whore.Posted by DividedWeCapricornPosted by lomysinThey say that depending on the type of person you are, you attract the kind of people you are. If you're a good soul, you'll attract good people, and if you're a bad soul, you'll attract bad people.Posted by Capri-sunI guess I thought he was like me. I have a reputation of being a player. But when I meet someone I connect with, im devoted.
Why are you listening to what another woman is saying? I wouldn't even trust her. Regardless of whether he is still in contact with her or not, of course she will say yes to get under your skin.
If people warned you of him being a player, why didn't you listen?
See where I'm going? The problem isn't from us Caps, it's from you. Learn to be loyal before you even date a Cap.
And look, before you tell everyone to stop making excuses for us and practice some self love, why don't I tell you right now to stop being a player and stop cheating? Are you that desperate for the attention from males to a point where you date people you are infatuated with and then dump them in a matter of weeks or months? God damn you're disgusting.
Learn to be loyal...hmmm. I think that when someone tells youve they have cheated in the past, you shouldnt just label them as a serial cheater. My Leo ex of four years was a notorious cheater. But together we brought out the best in one another. Giving each other the comfort and intensity we both so deeply craved. Being with another lover, never even crossed through our minds.
People often cheat when they aren't receiving something they need. I need emotional intensity and attention to be loyal.
i guess i shouldn't say i've cheated on a capricorn. In the preliminary stages of a relationship (before making it official) when they have asked me whether im sleeping with other people, i've often lied. I've done this because all the other guys in my rotation have just been bangs, nothing emotional. I didn't want to tell a cap this because I know how incredibly possessive and distrustful they are.
Caps cant expect loyalty when they make no time for you and are emotionally cold.click to expand
For me, I realized and accepted that I honestly just need a partner who doesn't function that way and that he couldn't meet my needs on that level.I agree. I'm wondering what signs would be able to handle a capricorns emotional detatchment. Maybe a virgo? But they need lots of assurance...
Probably a gemini.
Honest question - what is the difference between self love and ego?
At what juncture do you stop and walk away? And, when you reach that point, is it because the little voice inside of you is saying:
"This is toxic! Cease and desist!"
Or because it's saying
"Their timeline isn't in accordance with my wishes!"
At what juncture do you stop and walk away? And, when you reach that point, is it because the little voice inside of you is saying:
"This is toxic! Cease and desist!"
Or because it's saying
"Their timeline isn't in accordance with my wishes!"
perfect fit.
Uh excuse me but Geminis are usually two faced bitches.
This is what 98% of the women here need to realize. A playboy/fuckboy comes in all signs. They all have the same behaviors, just may go about them in a sign specific way.
But to use astrology as an excuse for bad behavior is a sad bitch move, and we have far too many here who are like this and even enable others to think in such a way.
If he starts flaking, he's lost interest.
If he goes all out in the beginning, chances are he's going to disappear as quickly.
This goes for both genders, tbh.
I've gotten to the point if some asshat makes flaky plans so they can bail last minute or decide to actually do something last minute, bye bitch. I don't have time for that. Flake on me once is the only chance they get. If they continue to flake beyond that, done. If they want to keep shaky plans so they can decide last minute, sorry, I'm busy. Bye Felicia.
Many of the women on this site need to start setting personal boundaries and making standards- not being these desperate, pathetic bitches they come across as when they come here clinging to life to some loser. Where the fuck is your self respect? :/
But to use astrology as an excuse for bad behavior is a sad bitch move, and we have far too many here who are like this and even enable others to think in such a way.
If he starts flaking, he's lost interest.
If he goes all out in the beginning, chances are he's going to disappear as quickly.
This goes for both genders, tbh.
I've gotten to the point if some asshat makes flaky plans so they can bail last minute or decide to actually do something last minute, bye bitch. I don't have time for that. Flake on me once is the only chance they get. If they continue to flake beyond that, done. If they want to keep shaky plans so they can decide last minute, sorry, I'm busy. Bye Felicia.
Many of the women on this site need to start setting personal boundaries and making standards- not being these desperate, pathetic bitches they come across as when they come here clinging to life to some loser. Where the fuck is your self respect? :/
Posted by lomysinThat would send me away. Eww.
I need emotional intensity and attention to be loyal.
Posted by CAPLOCKSAIDCut the stinger off. Let her keep the pincers.Posted by DividedWeCapricornNah we don't want to hurt them 🙂Posted by CAPLOCKSAIDAnd we'll slap her Scorpion ass silly with our fish tails or headbutt them if she dares to sting us 🙂
@Gob_Shite
@Parisiancappy
@DividedWeCapricorn
@Capri-sun
Hey Gob_Shite wait for me man. Everybody RUN !!!
She has her stinger out. Dont get poisoned.
They actually only sting as a line of defense. But inside they're soft and mushy and sweet. They just want someone loyal to love and protect them
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Posted by -elle-This. all of it. Felt the same from the Cap side 🙂
I am pondering because I am conflicted here.
I am not an advocate of cheating...emotional or otherwise. So, I find it difficult to empathize with OP.
But I feel you have to practice twice as much self love when with a cap because they often feed off your energy. They take an incredible amount of time to trust and be vulnerable.
When they do trust and are vulnerable....they are literally a different person.
Scorps see that person before it presents themselves....so we open up faster to that person.....trust and vulnerability....it's like knowing your faults and subliminally calling a truce.....without words.
But then cap gets a bit skittish and scorp feels exposed and abandoned. Then you get ego wars because both get stuck in self preservation mode.
It really is a timing issue between the two.
When it's good....it can be pure magic. WHEN it's not....they can both be full of shit...and one just has to have had enough and walk away.
Posted by lomysinCome on that hardly defines "the type of relationship a Scorp woman dies for" lol. Maybe a Libra or another Cap..
That week we spent every night together, it was inoxicating, all consuming, the type of relationship a Scorp woman dies for. He balled hard, taking me to all the hottest spots in the city, I was treated like a princess.
Posted by Gob_ShiteDaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyuuuuuummmmmmm lol.
Let's take a look at the evidence so far...Posted by lomysin
What drew me to him was his charm, paternalistic nature and quick wittedness. Despite all this everything inside of me was saying, "this is not a man to be trusted." And yes, this could be because I am a Scorpio- Queen of no trust, no love.
I heard from all my friends prior to going out with him he was a playboy, my dad even played golf with him and said the exact same thing. Our first date was at a five star restaruant, our bill came to about $ 300. He took care of me, bought the best wine and scotch. It was almost too smooth? I got the impression he does this on a regular, he was super calculated and that threw me off a bit. Aren't Caps suppose to be the most loyal sign? The most stable. From our first date i gathered he was an incredibly indulgent/excessive man. Drinking problem, sex addiction- this is a man of extremes.
Red flags abound but it's still the Cap's fault. But, hey, the connection was "too intense" and his wealth made him a potential meal ticket. But let's disregard the fact that she had freewill and, therefore, a choice.
The OP claims that the Cap is toxic. However, from various threads...Posted by lomysin
He had determined I am the type of woman with a hundred men chasing after me, a Scorpion that couldn't help hurting men. He was correct to some extent. I always have a rotation of men on the go but when I meet someone who captivates me, I become consumed.Posted by lomysin
I hate to say this.
But its true.
- Scorp woman who has a history of emotionally destroying men.Posted by lomysin
Lost it [virginity] in a threesome. I wanted to bang this older guy I was working with, his ex-fiance was a stripper. I was worried that if we hooked up he wouldn't be satisfied with my lack of sexual experience.
So i decided to take two friends up on an offer and spend a night banging them and learning how to give and receive pleasure.Posted by lomysin
I'm a Scorp female, here are my favorite pairings...
3. Capricorn: I chase caps but after a while, their inability to give me the intensity a fire sign provides, leads me to cheat.
Pot, kettle, black...
But woah! Let's back-up a little bit...
Let's compare this...Posted by lomysin
I'm a Scorp female, here are my favorite pairings...
3. Capricorn: I chase caps but after a while, their inability to give me the intensity a fire sign provides, leads me to cheat.
... with this...Posted by lomysin
I have always been well aquainted with Capricorn men, my father was one, my boss is one and my roommates ex boyfriend as well. But never have I ever dated one until now.
Isn't that a MAJOR contradiction? Hmmm...
P-Angel couldn't have said it any better.Posted by P-Angel
Scorpios love to suffer themselves, while projecting their guilt outwards with intentions of trying to make other people be responsible by implying that it is someone other than themselves who has chosen to subject themselves to their own misery.
In summary, pure, unadulterated projection...
Over and out.
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The Gob 1- OP 0
Posted by lomysin
lol is this dude a Leo?
The only men i've been able to emotionally destroy have been Leos.
Leo's aren't enough to satisfy this chick.
Posted by lomysinSome virgos can handle some capricorn men. I'm a virgo sun with a cap moon so I tend to act very much like a capricorn and understand the whole hot/cold deal since I do it way too often myself. I know some virgos with other signs in their chart would not be able to handle a cap's aloofness. You're right though, gemini probably would be able to.For me, I realized and accepted that I honestly just need a partner who doesn't function that way and that he couldn't meet my needs on that level.I agree. I'm wondering what signs would be able to handle a capricorns emotional detatchment. Maybe a virgo? But they need lots of assurance...
Probably a gemini.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
This is what 98% of the women here need to realize. A playboy/fuckboy comes in all signs. They all have the same behaviors, just may go about them in a sign specific way.
But to use astrology as an excuse for bad behavior is a sad bitch move, and we have far too many here who are like this and even enable others to think in such a way.
If he starts flaking, he's lost interest.
If he goes all out in the beginning, chances are he's going to disappear as quickly.
This goes for both genders, tbh.
I've gotten to the point if some asshat makes flaky plans so they can bail last minute or decide to actually do something last minute, bye bitch. I don't have time for that. Flake on me once is the only chance they get. If they continue to flake beyond that, done. If they want to keep shaky plans so they can decide last minute, sorry, I'm busy. Bye Felicia.
Many of the women on this site need to start setting personal boundaries and making standards- not being these desperate, pathetic bitches they come across as when they come here clinging to life to some loser. Where the fuck is your self respect? :/
BLOOP...and there you have it ladies lol
Take notes...real talk
The point of my little story was to urge women to reassess their relationships. Don't make excuses for bad behavior with astrology.
If your Aries tells you he doesn't wanna be pinned down, end that shit.
If your Gemini is being flakey, playing games. Stop indulging him.
The worst was when I was telling my friend about how possessive my Cap is she said, "well hes a Cap thats his nature." No honey, lets not justify patriarchal behaviour with astrology.
If your Aries tells you he doesn't wanna be pinned down, end that shit.
If your Gemini is being flakey, playing games. Stop indulging him.
The worst was when I was telling my friend about how possessive my Cap is she said, "well hes a Cap thats his nature." No honey, lets not justify patriarchal behaviour with astrology.
Posted by lomysinYou should take your own advice. Hypocrite.
The point of my little story was to urge women to reassess their relationships. Don't make excuses for bad behavior with astrology.
If your Aries tells you he doesn't wanna be pinned down, end that shit.
If your Gemini is being flakey, playing games. Stop indulging him.
The worst was when I was telling my friend about how possessive my Cap is she said, "well hes a Cap thats his nature." No honey, lets not justify patriarchal behaviour with astrology.
Posted by lomysin
He would let me walk all over him, manipulate him...horrible. I'm the type of person where if you give me an inch, I take a mile. Maybe thats a scorp thing?click to expand
Posted by -elle-I agree with you.
I personally like the patriarchal vibe. Not too many men live up to my standards....as I consider myself matriarchal.....so, I intentionally look for it.
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I think it's a Capricorn/Cancer axis thing. I find cancer men also the same way.
Posted by -elle-Lucky you!
The man I am with today....he does things now that I can't even imagine him doing 5-7 years ago.
Sometimes it's a shock to my system.
Ffs, he couldn't be bothered to answer a text before...now he is sending me *hugglez*. Lol
And I'm NOT saying that facetiously!
Yep she is yanking our chains.
Posted by DividedWeCapricornI agree with that to a certain point. I believe on the ordinary that we do in fact converse and relate better to people who are like us.Posted by lomysinThey say that depending on the type of person you are, you attract the kind of people you are. If you're a good soul, you'll attract good people, and if you're a bad soul, you'll attract bad people.Posted by Capri-sunI guess I thought he was like me. I have a reputation of being a player. But when I meet someone I connect with, im devoted.
Why are you listening to what another woman is saying? I wouldn't even trust her. Regardless of whether he is still in contact with her or not, of course she will say yes to get under your skin.
If people warned you of him being a player, why didn't you listen?
See where I'm going? The problem isn't from us Caps, it's from you. Learn to be loyal before you even date a Cap.
And look, before you tell everyone to stop making excuses for us and practice some self love, why don't I tell you right now to stop being a player and stop cheating? Are you that desperate for the attention from males to a point where you date people you are infatuated with and then dump them in a matter of weeks or months? God damn you're disgusting.click to expand
But, on so many occasions I've seen dark people be attracted to the light in others, whether they're intention is to destroy it or replicate it though, is their decision.
Posted by ParisianCappyIt's all the happiest feelings and rainbows and philosophy rolled into one lit pill 20/10 would recommendPosted by Sunsetvirgoyou are a sag rising, tell me ? what is like to try MDMA ?Posted by DividedWeCapricornI agree with that to a certain point. I believe on the ordinary that we do in fact converse and relate better to people who are like us.Posted by lomysinThey say that depending on the type of person you are, you attract the kind of people you are. If you're a good soul, you'll attract good people, and if you're a bad soul, you'll attract bad people.Posted by Capri-sunI guess I thought he was like me. I have a reputation of being a player. But when I meet someone I connect with, im devoted.
Why are you listening to what another woman is saying? I wouldn't even trust her. Regardless of whether he is still in contact with her or not, of course she will say yes to get under your skin.
If people warned you of him being a player, why didn't you listen?
See where I'm going? The problem isn't from us Caps, it's from you. Learn to be loyal before you even date a Cap.
And look, before you tell everyone to stop making excuses for us and practice some self love, why don't I tell you right now to stop being a player and stop cheating? Are you that desperate for the attention from males to a point where you date people you are infatuated with and then dump them in a matter of weeks or months? God damn you're disgusting.
But, on so many occasions I've seen dark people be attracted to the light in others, whether they're intention is to destroy it or replicate it though, is their decision.
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Posted by ParisianCappyWhat is like to try MDMA you ask? Basically having all the sag placements I have rolled into a pill. It's litPosted by Sunsetvirgoyou are a sag rising, tell me ? what is like to try MDMA ?Posted by DividedWeCapricornI agree with that to a certain point. I believe on the ordinary that we do in fact converse and relate better to people who are like us.Posted by lomysinThey say that depending on the type of person you are, you attract the kind of people you are. If you're a good soul, you'll attract good people, and if you're a bad soul, you'll attract bad people.Posted by Capri-sunI guess I thought he was like me. I have a reputation of being a player. But when I meet someone I connect with, im devoted.
Why are you listening to what another woman is saying? I wouldn't even trust her. Regardless of whether he is still in contact with her or not, of course she will say yes to get under your skin.
If people warned you of him being a player, why didn't you listen?
See where I'm going? The problem isn't from us Caps, it's from you. Learn to be loyal before you even date a Cap.
And look, before you tell everyone to stop making excuses for us and practice some self love, why don't I tell you right now to stop being a player and stop cheating? Are you that desperate for the attention from males to a point where you date people you are infatuated with and then dump them in a matter of weeks or months? God damn you're disgusting.
But, on so many occasions I've seen dark people be attracted to the light in others, whether they're intention is to destroy it or replicate it though, is their decision.
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Posted by ParisianCappyVirgo sunPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by ParisianCappyWhat is like to try MDMA you ask? Basically having all the sag placements I have rolled into a pill. It's litPosted by Sunsetvirgoyou are a sag rising, tell me ? what is like to try MDMA ?Posted by DividedWeCapricornI agree with that to a certain point. I believe on the ordinary that we do in fact converse and relate better to people who are like us.Posted by lomysinPosted by Capri-sunI guess I thought he was like me. I have a reputation of being a player. But when I meet someone I connect with, im devoted.
Why are you listening to what another woman is saying? I wouldn't even trust her. Regardless of whether he is still in contact with her or not, of course she will say yes to get under your skin.
If people warned you of him being a player, why didn't you listen?
They say that depending on the type of person you are, you attract the kind of people you are. If you're a good soul, you'll attract good people, and if you're a bad soul, you'll attract bad people.
See where I'm going? The problem isn't from us Caps, it's from you. Learn to be loyal before you even date a Cap.
And look, before you tell everyone to stop making excuses for us and practice some self love, why don't I tell you right now to stop being a player and stop cheating? Are you that desperate for the attention from males to a point where you date people you are infatuated with and then dump them in a matter of weeks or months? God damn you're disgusting.
But, on so many occasions I've seen dark people be attracted to the light in others, whether they're intention is to destroy it or replicate it though, is their decision.
shw me yo chart
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Sag moon/rising/Mars
Leo Venus
Libra Mercury
I am very proud of you for this post ...and really it applies to ALL the signs not just capricorn ...water sign women whey they love they love hard ....and sometimes we forget to put ourselves and our needs first ...we just kind of sit around hoping things will go back to the way that they were ...when really if we aren't getting what we need we should leave ...this is a lesson that can take a WHOLE lifetime to learn for some of us...
I ended things with my Capricorn man, it felt incredibly liberating. Lets hope I don't get sucked into his toxicity once more.
***Notes: my dad is on the cusp of Cap. Though a Sag, he exhbits more Cap traits. He's an amazing father. Wonderful husband. I'm not saying that all Cap men are toxic...but...they do have a tendency to be. So don't let them rule you.
OP: We all make mistakes (of jumping into bed so fast). The Cappy I am dating (two months tomorrow, 8 Nov 16), has NOT bedded me. He's cautious, VERY cautious. Perhaps, he too, is TIRED of the wham, bam, thank you Ma'am, and has vowed to break that pattern; with me. He's the one that is the PATIENT one and I've got a gem. HE makes plans to meet ME. He already asked me over for Thanksgiving w/his family as they celebrate a day or two before since their families cannot actually meet on the day. I, invited him to come over to my house to meet my family as traditionally we eat Thanksgiving at 12:00 noon and then watch the Dallas Cowboys game. My Cappy is a Dallas fan and this past Saturday I gave him my #88 (Bryant) jersey and he texted me last night while watching the game w/the Browns, "This jersey smells like a chick, lol". I asked him to wash it! 😆 Told Cappy the jersey had a "lipstick" stain on it too, and it made me feel good he didn't wash it before game day yesterday. Sorry, again, we all learn from jumping into bed w/a man regardless if he's Cappy or not. Live and learn. 🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
***Notes: my dad is on the cusp of Cap. Though a Sag, he exhbits more Cap traits. He's an amazing father. Wonderful husband. I'm not saying that all Cap men are toxic...but...they do have a tendency to be. So don't let them rule you.
OP: We all make mistakes (of jumping into bed so fast). The Cappy I am dating (two months tomorrow, 8 Nov 16), has NOT bedded me. He's cautious, VERY cautious. Perhaps, he too, is TIRED of the wham, bam, thank you Ma'am, and has vowed to break that pattern; with me. He's the one that is the PATIENT one and I've got a gem. HE makes plans to meet ME. He already asked me over for Thanksgiving w/his family as they celebrate a day or two before since their families cannot actually meet on the day. I, invited him to come over to my house to meet my family as traditionally we eat Thanksgiving at 12:00 noon and then watch the Dallas Cowboys game. My Cappy is a Dallas fan and this past Saturday I gave him my #88 (Bryant) jersey and he texted me last night while watching the game w/the Browns, "This jersey smells like a chick, lol". I asked him to wash it! 😆 Told Cappy the jersey had a "lipstick" stain on it too, and it made me feel good he didn't wash it before game day yesterday. Sorry, again, we all learn from jumping into bed w/a man regardless if he's Cappy or not. Live and learn. 🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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I'm an Aries and I've been dating a Capricorn male for almost 3 months and we were going very well until recently. We were both really busy with homework and finals so we couldn't meet/talk for a few weeks, only sent short texts once in awhile. About 3 we
I am a bit apprehensive about posting this, but this site seems pretty judgement free... I met a Capricorn man about 2 weeks ago when I stopped into his place of employment. I had no real reason to be there and he wasn't really on the clock. He did end up
I'm watching Marriage Boot camp, and the Taurus on there assumes his Cap fiance is with him for his money.
https://youtu.be/_GEXXfoCEZY
They take a lie detector and she passes when the question is asked if she would be with him if he was poor. 26:00
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MNnwIv02NZg
Just curious, most men would treasure ladies that are hard to get....does it apply to Cap men too?
If Cap men are at a busy stage of their career, if u rejected their invitation without rescheduling, will they just give up or will they be intrigued?
I knew he was a Capricorn from the moment we met, he was charasmatic (i know they're suppose to be introverted but this has not been my experience) logical but it was when he started making some in-depth character assesments of me that I knew for sure I was dealing with a Cap. Capricorn men need to have control over everything, they project who they think you are- onto you so they can better understand you. The more they think they know you, the easier it is for them to control you or avoid any unexpected suprises that may emotionally wound them.
He had determined I am the type of woman with a hundred men chasing after me, a Scorpion that couldn't help hurting men. He was correct to some extent. I always have a rotation of men on the go but when I meet someone who captivates me, I become consumed.
What drew me to him was his charm, paternalistic nature and quick wittedness. Despite all this everything inside of me was saying, "this is not a man to be trusted." And yes, this could be because I am a Scorpio- Queen of no trust, no love.
I heard from all my friends prior to going out with him he was a playboy, my dad even played golf with him and said the exact same thing. Our first date was at a five star restaruant, our bill came to about $ 300. He took care of me, bought the best wine and scotch. It was almost too smooth? I got the impression he does this on a regular, he was super calculated and that threw me off a bit. Aren't Caps suppose to be the most loyal sign? The most stable. From our first date i gathered he was an incredibly indulgent/excessive man. Drinking problem, sex addiction- this is a man of extremes.
But again, the connection was too intense. We couldn't even look at one another without becoming aroused. i enjoyed our moments of silence just as much as our conversations. We were instantly comfortable with one another. I am often a cold person, who dosen't care for non-sexual afffection. With him though, we needed to be touching at all times.
That week we spent every night together, it was inoxicating, all consuming, the type of relationship a Scorp woman dies for. He balled hard, taking me to all the hottest spots in the city, I was treated like a princess.
But then on the 7th night of us hanging out, he became vulnerable. He opened up to me during the 6 hr long conversation we were having. I was enthralled he was divulging some secrets, but being the typical Cap that he is. The next morning he became cold, officially pulling back.
For the next month we would hang out once or twice a week, no texting or calling between those times. Though I was unhappy and impatient with our arrangement I decided to ride it out after reading so much on how slowly Capricorn men move. He had told me hes looking for a best friend, a companion to spend the rest of his life with and he wanted to get to know me. Though everytime we would hang out, he'd reassure me I was the only girl he was currently seeing...I didn't believe him.
I knew the last girl he had slept with a few months ago, she was a trophy girl. Gigantic fake tits, blond hair, big blue eyes. She was Bridget Bardot on steroids. Dumb and uninteresting, i was only slightly threatened. I asked her during dinner one night if he was still in contact with her, she said yes that he still asks her to hang out once in a while but she doens't respond to his texts.
I was hurt.
He had always said to me "i'm far too busy to hang out all the time with you."
But obvisouly, he had time to text her to hang out.
I realized that no matter how much I gave, he wasn't giving me much back. The emotional intensity we had during the first week of us being together slowly faded. It got to the point where he wouldn't make concreate plans with me, he would always say "i'll let you know closer to the date" or "I might or might not be able to go out, i'll let you know." He set up plans in a way that would make him unaccountable if he was forced to bail.
When we did hang out, he would ask for a hug and tell me how much he missed me. After interrogating me for a bit about who else i've been spending time with he would relax and apologize for being so busy.
I remember when my roommate dated her Capricorn, she would often come home crying telling me he always made her feel like she wasn't good enough, or that he didn't love her the way she loved him. The stoic nature of a Capricorn man isn't interesting, its just toxic.
Still, I sifted through these forums absorbing comments where girls would say "have patience with a Capricorn man. They are slow to warm up. They really are just busy signs. They can't multi-task love and work."
What I came to realize is that I was using astrology to justify bad behaviour. I know there are a lot of pages on here about Scorps and Caps. My advice to you Scorps is practice some self love and let go of your emotionally removed Capricorn man.
I ended things with my Capricorn man, it felt incredibly liberating. Lets hope I don't get sucked into his toxicity once more.
***Notes: my dad is on the cusp of Cap. Though a Sag, he exhbits more Cap traits. He's an amazing father. Wonderful husband. I'm not saying that all Cap men are toxic...but...they do have a tendency to be. So don't let them rule you.