How do we really know we are in Love? Shut could change quick for me lol but I feel like I am.
Falling in love...
Idk i guess when yall balance each other. U never make major moves without having ur significant others opinion first. When yall can be comfortable around each other sorta like best friends but with hella attraction. Also when things start happening that cant be explained.
But ive never felt this tho?It would be nice to have a lil bitty and not have the title of a girl/boyfriend
But ive never felt this tho?It would be nice to have a lil bitty and not have the title of a girl/boyfriend
I don't really know but I know when I really like someone I can't stop mentioning them in conversation....
Lol! I don't think you'll question your feelings when you're in love.
Posted by CobycoDon't let ANYONE; esp TROLLS here in DXP land tell you, "It's too early/soon" etc.!!!!! Go with your heart; always listen to your heart. When he/she's on your mind 24/7; it's real. When you've dreamt of him/her; it's real, when you've see it in your tea leaves (coffee cup); it's real!!! When he/she responds to your calls/texts within 30 seconds.....it's real!!!!!!!!!!!
How do we really know we are in Love? Shut could change quick for me lol but I feel like I am.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
When you aren't questioning it. When it's not something you have to ask if you are. If you're in love you just are, otherwise you're just contemplating.
When you aren't questioning it. When it's not something you have to ask if you are. If you're in love you just are, otherwise you're just contemplating.
Posted by Tauruswithspunk
I feel a feeling and I start to panic... my brain says "ooooooh nooooo am I falling?" This is not possible.... what if they don't feel the same? No you can't fall! Abort Abort! Nooooo!"
— I go through that a few times until I'm like fuck it I'm tired I've fallen. Then it goes downhill from there until I'm single again lol
I feel u lmao considering I'm in the most fucked up position while falling in love it's something I never look for when it fucking happens. That's what they call the beauty of love and I'm just like ummmm this throws my whole fucking plans off. So having heavy fucking emotions are too much to carry. Especially if ur the only one whose feeling this shit. So yeah it's been put out to the universe let's see what
Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by CobycoDon't let ANYONE; esp TROLLS here in DXP land tell you, "It's too early/soon" etc.!!!!! Go with your heart; always listen to your heart. When he/she's on your mind 24/7; it's real. When you've dreamt of him/her; it's real, when you've see it in your tea leaves (coffee cup); it's real!!! When he/she responds to your calls/texts within 30 seconds.....it's real!!!!!!!!!!!
How do we really know we are in Love? Shut could change quick for me lol but I feel like I am.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
I appreciate that! That's real and its true no one can tell you shit. I only question it because I've thought I was in love before and it wasn't what I thought it was. I believe I am in love right now and I try to fight against it. It's annoying actually. I feel tortured and overwhelmed thinking about her. It's never a comfortable feeling when you don't know truly if that person feels the same and if they do then does it mean anything to them?
Posted by EnochtheWiseI'm currently in that mode right now lol wine and tunes playing in the background talking to my love.
I know I'm in love when I just want to sit around listening to music all day, imagining them as the subject of every song....
Posted by CobycoGood morning and YW!Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by CobycoDon't let ANYONE; esp TROLLS here in DXP land tell you, "It's too early/soon" etc.!!!!! Go with your heart; always listen to your heart. When he/she's on your mind 24/7; it's real. When you've dreamt of him/her; it's real, when you've see it in your tea leaves (coffee cup); it's real!!! When he/she responds to your calls/texts within 30 seconds.....it's real!!!!!!!!!!!
How do we really know we are in Love? Shut could change quick for me lol but I feel like I am.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I appreciate that! That's real and its true no one can tell you shit. I only question it because I've thought I was in love before and it wasn't what I thought it was. I believe I am in love right now and I try to fight against it. It's annoying actually. I feel tortured and overwhelmed thinking about her. It's never a comfortable feeling when you don't know truly if that person feels the same and if they do then does it mean anything to them?
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It's a mutual feeling when "she" says it back to you. I was texting with a Taurean (his name is John) for three weeks; we met face-to-face this week (came over for pizza, beer, and met my kiddo {kiddo had soda}). We've texted about 10 times yesterday; it increases with time. As "time" is a factor. NOW we text Good night Babe or Good morning Baby. These are "mutual" pet names one gives to one another or SO (significant other); until the compound noun is used, "Girlfriend/boyfriend" as he can be the male "friend" I've long to have (I tell him about work, my day, etc). Then of course is the "love making". He's Taurean, so he'll open up to me more and more. You can use any of the above as "examples" and then the heart starts to come into play.
You find in due time, the exact moment you will tell her you love her (not in text or call, please) as this has to be mentioned face-to-face to "see" her reaction. If she tells you she doesn't feel the same as you do, but to give her "time", then respect her for that. If she smiles from ear-to-ear and tells you she felt the same way that's great!
And if it doesn't work out so be it! Learn from all life teaches us as I see my life as a huge blackboard and I am "learning" too. Remember, there is a chalk and eraser on said blackboard 😉 My motto has ALWAYS been, "When God closes a door, he will blow one wide open for you!" Just before I replied to you my phone pinged, then the automated voice said, "New message from John _____" My heart skipped a beat (excited to find out what he wants to say). What was it? A Bitmoji of him saying, "POKE!" I poked him back! Love, love, love, I LOVE LOVE!!!!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: I find myself "humming" more and more while at work (I have my mini boom box in my office). AND a smile that no one can take away from me. My heart starts to "open" slowly just like one sees in time lapse. Can you just IMAGINE how both you and I will feel when "both" of you (and John and I) say, "I love you, too" 😆 Have a great weekend! I don't come to DXP on weekends.
Posted by TauruswithspunkWhat is your moon sign?
I feel a feeling and I start to panic... my brain says "ooooooh nooooo am I falling?" This is not possible.... what if they don't feel the same? No you can't fall! Abort Abort! Nooooo!"
— I go through that a few times until I'm like fuck it I'm tired I've fallen. Then it goes downhill from there until I'm single again lol
Posted by CobycoIf you wanna know about that you should not ask us 🙂 but instead you should ask your buddy you hide inside your pants. 🙂
How do we really know we are in Love? Shut could change quick for me lol but I feel like I am.
You know when it's love when you can't think about anyone else but the person you're with.
When you know if you're feeling sick this person will be right there for you.
Love is when you love that person more than yourself and you're willing to do anything for them.
Love is painful
When you know if you're feeling sick this person will be right there for you.
Love is when you love that person more than yourself and you're willing to do anything for them.
Love is painful
When you imagine your future and their there.
Love is universal. It changes you in ways never thought of before. Unknown, unacknowledged for. When you feel you change yourself against your conscience, it is an external factor that wants you to change. It's chemistry. Mind your body and your mind. They are very clear about it.
When u get this strong desire to cook him anything he asks for as perfect as u can even tho u don't eat it cause it gross
Posted by CobycoPosted by Tauruswithspunk
I feel a feeling and I start to panic... my brain says "ooooooh nooooo am I falling?" This is not possible.... what if they don't feel the same? No you can't fall! Abort Abort! Nooooo!"
— I go through that a few times until I'm like fuck it I'm tired I've fallen. Then it goes downhill from there until I'm single again lol
I feel u lmao considering I'm in the most fucked up position while falling in love it's something I never look for when it fucking happens. That's what they call the beauty of love and I'm just like ummmm this throws my whole fucking plans off. So having heavy fucking emotions are too much to carry. Especially if ur the only one whose feeling this shit. So yeah it's been put out to the universe let's see whatclick to expand
Right?
It's the worst.
It's like hello...I didn't ask for this .
I don't need to be having feelings for someone.
I don't have time for this sh*t
Posted by LibraJacksonIdk my views on love being painful or harmful have shifted to love being just what it is. Now being in love and having the attachment is where it tends to hurt. For me I truly believe love sets you free and doesn't hurt. But when someone you are in love with completely disregards the love you hold for them and treats you as less than, that shit is the worse. In life our choices are what allows us to say we have freedom. Marriage and relationships I've learned are what you make them. Some want monogamy others want more than 1. We are not tied to anything or anyone when it comes to love and relationships. We have the right to be where we want to be. So with all of that said love isn't painful it's the expectations, attachment, and choices that leave us hurt. I'm in love with who I get when I'm alone with her. When I'm away from her I practice patience, understanding and not jumping to conclusions.
You know when it's love when you can't think about anyone else but the person you're with.
When you know if you're feeling sick this person will be right there for you.
Love is when you love that person more than yourself and you're willing to do anything for them.
Love is painful
Posted by EnochtheWiseEven a crush/infatuation can work like that...
I know I'm in love when I just want to sit around listening to music all day, imagining them as the subject of every song....
Though... if many months have passed and those feelings are still there... Stronger than ever (missing her even more than before). If at first, it felt as if she found her way to your heart/mind... and now it feels as if she's residing there... That someone you take with you wherever you may go... and not just as a mental image (like a picture in a wallet) - but a live presence... As if her soul imbued that image - and it can actually listen... cause in your mind, she does just that (like a rehearsal... for the real thing).
And yet, a secret - she is not... even if before, you had none - with whom you'd be whiling to share - the joys, the sorrows of your heart... such joy, such love - would be poring out (about the girl who dances with your heart, or... plays with it...).
There's little room for selfishness - while in love - and i mean this in more ways than one... Maybe it's because we yearned to become better human beings - while being connected through that type of love (to feel worthy...). Though, even quite literally... for example, it may be one of those sale days (a Black Friday) - when you're looking for something for yourself... and you can't help thinking about her - while bumping into stuff she likes... (: She becomes a impactful presence in your life (of your present and future plans... she's just gotta be there... or so you may feel... strongly and in the most lovable way...).
And yeah... you may relate to her even in terms of music (you'll feel those lyrics... deeply...), or you may fall asleep hugging the pillow - and wishing she was near.... or at least - a bit closer... Bottom line, if after so much time - she's still a priority - someone to whom you're deeply faithful (your actions can even be taken as reassurance) - as if you pledged your heartfelt marriage vows to her (you should feel that type of faithfulness), even though - you two are not in a relationship...
...then you're probably deeply in love (well, that should be possible only if she's single, ofc... same can't be said about infatuations).
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