It's official. Scorpio guy I loved changed me for a prettier woman 💔

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sweet_cancer
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I posted about about 2 weeks ago that my Scorpio crush had "liked" a picture of a hot girl on social media where she was showing her breasts. I got all upset and thought he was a jerk! Well, today I would like some feedback to know if he could really be serious about her. I wish I knew the answers but maybe you all can help me 🙁

I've been checking his online activity and this girl whom he barely knows and him have been flirting back and forth NON stop. She's the one who started by throwing herself at him and he's giving her all his attention and acting the exact same way he did with me. This guy used to talk to me all the time. He was caring and sweet and seemed deep. I'm a girl who goes to church and he loved that about me because he's also very spiritual. We had a unique connection and tons of things in common. I thought I was the right girl for him because he seemed really into me.

The last time we spoke he said he had been wanting to talk to me more often. Well he didn't and instead of doing what he said he started chasing after this girl and now all his attention is going towards the hot girl with 50 likes and 20 comments, mostly from other males. The popular beautiful girl!!!!

I want to ask: "Could he really be serious about her or is this some type of stupid game?"

How is it possible that he already likes someone else after almost a year of liking me? Scorpios can't forget easily and they love hard is what they say. This doesn't make sense at all and I don't know how to react.

She's pretty, popular, a party girl, always out, showing cleavage.

I'm also pretty but deep, homebody, reserved and not so extroverted.

He could like whoever he wants but should I just assume that all this time he lied? He never truly liked me and that's why he changed his mind quickly?
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What's her Instagram?




You're such an ass 😂


For research purposes only.


Of course...duh 😉


I can't offer good advice without background info.

For all we know, this other chick is just some IG ass model looking to promote her brand.
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It's so nice of you to offer up your scorpion services...I think the wife needs to put this good deed in her spreadsheet. Isn't like 10 good deeds in a row and you'll finally get laid? What number you on? 😜
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What's her Instagram?




You're such an ass 😂


For research purposes only.


Of course...duh 😉


I can't offer good advice without background info.

For all we know, this other chick is just some IG ass model looking to promote her brand.

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It's so nice of you to offer up your scorpion services...I think the wife needs to put this good deed in her spreadsheet. Isn't like 10 good deeds in a row and you'll finally get laid? What number you on? 😜


I think I started over at 0 after last night.
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😂😂
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so sorry - but this has to be the oldest story in the book


Lol not the oldest. Social media has put everyone on blast. Used to be people could interact with someone without all these eyes tracking your every like, click, and reading all your messages. Js.
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That's a serious red flag for me at age 34. I don't want a guy who is too involved in social media outside of business purposes. I just prefer a guy who is more like me I guess. I trust bc I know I can be trusted sort of thing.

And yeah, dude sux. Went out with a Scorp who was sooooo into me.... until he wasn't. 😐🤣 I feel good about how I approached the relationship so it's whatever. As long as you are sure you acted in love, just let it go.... wasn't meant to be. It sounds like the internet stalking could cause you a lot of heartache.
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Although judging by the condition we left the sheets in, I might get a bonus towards the next time.


Is the bonus that you get to do the laundry this time?



The person with the sheets stuck to their ass in the morning gets to do laundry.


I want your guys type of love!
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Be smart! Stick half of the comforter in his ass while he is asleep!
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Posted by sweet_cancer

I posted about about 2 weeks ago that my Scorpio crush had "liked" a picture of a hot girl on social media where she was showing her breasts. I got all upset and thought he was a jerk! Well, today I would like some feedback to know if he could really be serious about her. I wish I knew the answers but maybe you all can help me 🙁

I've been checking his online activity and this girl whom he barely knows and him have been flirting back and forth NON stop. She's the one who started by throwing herself at him and he's giving her all his attention and acting the exact same way he did with me. This guy used to talk to me all the time. He was caring and sweet and seemed deep. I'm a girl who goes to church and he loved that about me because he's also very spiritual. We had a unique connection and tons of things in common. I thought I was the right girl for him because he seemed really into me.

The last time we spoke he said he had been wanting to talk to me more often. Well he didn't and instead of doing what he said he started chasing after this girl and now all his attention is going towards the hot girl with 50 likes and 20 comments, mostly from other males. The popular beautiful girl!!!!

I want to ask: "Could he really be serious about her or is this some type of stupid game?"

How is it possible that he already likes someone else after almost a year of liking me? Scorpios can't forget easily and they love hard is what they say. This doesn't make sense at all and I don't know how to react.

She's pretty, popular, a party girl, always out, showing cleavage.

I'm also pretty but deep, homebody, reserved and not so extroverted.

He could like whoever he wants but should I just assume that all this time he lied? He never truly liked me and that's why he changed his mind quickly?




How is he yours when you weren't even dating?

I mean I get your feelings and I am possesive too, but in reality you have nothing to say about it.
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sweet_cancer
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Oh my God I feel so embarassed being all dramatic here! You guys are right I should just move on but you're forgetting something..,I'm a freaking Cancer damn it 😭😭😭😭😭

I'm super NEEDY and when we let someone go is almost like our world comes to an end 😨

How can I understand once for all that he's an ass and not prince charming as I thought? I feel like I get blinded when I really like someone and I don't want to face reality.
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Posted by sweet_cancer

Oh my God I feel so embarassed being all dramatic here! You guys are right I should just move on but you're forgetting something..,I'm a freaking Cancer damn it 😭😭😭😭😭

I'm super NEEDY and when we let someone go is almost like our world comes to an end 😨

How can I understand once for all that he's an ass and not prince charming as I thought? I feel like I get blinded when I really like someone and I don't want to face reality.

It's hard but you will get over it with time.
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Y’all were never together tho and never even went on a date? You never told him you had any feelings for him. He never told you he had feelings for you.

I still don’t understand.

In your last thread you kept talking about how you two barely spoke, or at least haven’t for quite some time, but now you’re presenting it like he is cheating practically.

Also like I said last time, stop insinuating other women are less worthy because of your insecurities. Last post you said she wore tight clothes. Now you say she shows her breasts, which is vague but that could be anything from a low cut top to pasties to art photography.

I get your heart broken. But don’t label other women as less than for what they’re comfortable with. And don’t stay hung up on someone who doesn’t want you. Why love someone when you barely speak currently? Why waste time comparing yourself to another? Dude clearly was not your vibe. Go find one who is and be happy and then this dude will just become ‘remember what’s his face who I thought was soooo perfect. Lol. I’m so good without him now’

Too much logic for dxp 😛
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Posted by sweet_cancer

Oh my God I feel so embarassed being all dramatic here! You guys are right I should just move on but you're forgetting something..,I'm a freaking Cancer damn it 😭😭😭😭😭

I'm super NEEDY and when we let someone go is almost like our world comes to an end 😨

How can I understand once for all that he's an ass and not prince charming as I thought? I feel like I get blinded when I really like someone and I don't want to face reality.


do you know him in real life or is it an internet thing? do you live near each other? or attending the same school?

have you met in person?
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Posted by sweet_cancer

Oh my God I feel so embarassed being all dramatic here! You guys are right I should just move on but you're forgetting something..,I'm a freaking Cancer damn it 😭😭😭😭😭

I'm super NEEDY and when we let someone go is almost like our world comes to an end 😨

How can I understand once for all that he's an ass and not prince charming as I thought? I feel like I get blinded when I really like someone and I don't want to face reality.


Prince charming calls you every day. Makes an effort for you. Shuffles his schedule and makes time for you. He doesn't make you feel insecure or question where you stand with him. He does what he can to make you happy because he is happiest when you are. So.. is he prince charming or some guy who doesn't give you the time of day?
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Posted by sweet_cancer

Oh my God I feel so embarassed being all dramatic here! You guys are right I should just move on but you're forgetting something..,I'm a freaking Cancer damn it 😭😭😭😭😭

I'm super NEEDY and when we let someone go is almost like our world comes to an end 😨

How can I understand once for all that he's an ass and not prince charming as I thought? I feel like I get blinded when I really like someone and I don't want to face reality.


It's ok we've all been in unrequited situations. I have. It hurts. Time will heal you

But Scorpio men aren't even worth the neediness

Theyre Meant to be used and discarded like garbage receptacles

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Damn! Came at the scorpios lmfao!
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Y’all were never together tho and never even went on a date? You never told him you had any feelings for him. He never told you he had feelings for you.

I still don’t understand.

In your last thread you kept talking about how you two barely spoke, or at least haven’t for quite some time, but now you’re presenting it like he is cheating practically.

Also like I said last time, stop insinuating other women are less worthy because of your insecurities. Last post you said she wore tight clothes. Now you say she shows her breasts, which is vague but that could be anything from a low cut top to pasties to art photography.

I get your heart broken. But don’t label other women as less than for what they’re comfortable with. And don’t stay hung up on someone who doesn’t want you. Why love someone when you barely speak currently? Why waste time comparing yourself to another? Dude clearly was not your vibe. Go find one who is and be happy and then this dude will just become ‘remember what’s his face who I thought was soooo perfect. Lol. I’m so good without him now’

Too much logic for dxp 😛
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took the words right outta my mouth... or fingers ticky bopping on the keyboard I guess.
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sweet_cancer
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Yes, I did know him in person but he lives a little far. But why do you say Scorpios are not worth it? I thought they were!

I only see two options here....

Option #1 - unfriend him from social media. Yes, it will hurt like hell but at least I won't see him interacting with her.

Option # 2 - give him a taste of his own medicine. Keep him on social media but flirt with other guys or let him know I'm good without him. So he'll wonder why I'm not hurt and he sees what he missed. This doesn't convince me though because I don't want to feel tempted to talk to him again if he comes back.

Maybe I should go for the first options. DO you agree?
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Posted by sweet_cancer

Yes, I did know him in person but he lives a little far. But why do you say Scorpios are not worth it? I thought they were!

I only see two options here....

Option #1 - unfriend him from social media. Yes, it will hurt like hell but at least I won't see him interacting with her.

Option # 2 - give him a taste of his own medicine. Keep him on social media but flirt with other guys or let him know I'm good without him. So he'll wonder why I'm not hurt and he sees what he missed. This doesn't convince me though because I don't want to feel tempted to talk to him again if he comes back.

Maybe I should go for the first options. DO you agree?


why don't you say something? say you dont like it and it hurts you when you see him doing that. i would be crying alot if i really am in love with him. but then he would know what hurts you. he can take that knowledge and do as he will. lol



#2 is ...just too weird LOL he would see through that.