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Posted by NevermoreAlmost all of these I have either personally had happen to me, or someone I know.
Holy shit.
Although I know scenario 2 though.. but the rest?!?
Why so desperate to have them?

Posted by MagicMonaAre you doing okay?
no. bitches pretty much know that i would kill them if they tried me. they are intimidated and try to stay on my good side. especially lately.

Posted by MagicMonaI wish I could give you a hug. I am sorry 😢Posted by nikkistarhell no im notPosted by MagicMonaAre you doing okay?
no. bitches pretty much know that i would kill them if they tried me. they are intimidated and try to stay on my good side. especially lately.click to expand

Posted by MagicMonaAwwwwwww. He knew you loved him.Posted by nikkistari wish i could give him just one more hug.Posted by MagicMonaI wish I could give you a hug. I am sorry 😢Posted by nikkistarhell no im notPosted by MagicMonaAre you doing okay?
no. bitches pretty much know that i would kill them if they tried me. they are intimidated and try to stay on my good side. especially lately.click to expand

Posted by blackphaseThe difference is men do it more in a competitive "sporty" way from my experience. Of course there are a few assholes who will stab you in the back but overall there are unspoken bounderies and rules that most men don't cross, if their friends are involved. I don't know whether it's a male codex or pride or anything but male friends have a kind of respect for each other so they usually back off if they feel they should.
Funny thing.. Scenario 1, 2 & 3 - I have seen men do this more than women.. A LOT more.

Posted by NevermoreHonestly, nothing surprises me any more. But I can say, that most of this stuff happened to me in my early 20's and I am not a fool anymore. However, I am also mostly bestfriends with men, and lesbians now. lolPosted by nikkistarTHATS A VERY THIRSTY SNAKES, OH MAH GAWD! O__OPosted by NevermoreAlmost all of these I have either personally had happen to me, or someone I know.
Holy shit.
Although I know scenario 2 though.. but the rest?!?
Why so desperate to have them?
Scenario 1 happened to me. I have an ex-bestfriend that targeted men I was interested in. I found out later, that some of the guys, she gave her number to behind my back as a guise to "talk to them about me" and to make sure they treated me right. One, she invited to lunch without me knowing, and did a sexual act on him. She told me all of them, hit on her first.
Scenario 2 & 3: When I first started dating my ex-husband, I had a girl I knew, not friends. But someone that was in my social group. She tried to break us up by telling him I slept with 3 guys (she actually slept with them) and presented herself as being a very loyal and put together girl.
Scenario 4: The same girl from Scenario 2&3 - She ended up dating my friend Danny. When he tried to break up with her, she repeatedly told him she would kill herself cause she loved him so much. He stuck around for an additional year out of guilt.
Scenario 5: I hear stories from my bestfriends about this ALL the time.
I don't know why they are doing this to you and themselves,
Either:
- Very jealous/intimidated of you
- Highly insecure of themselves that desperately need a relationship
- Deprived to fullfilled their overly obese ego
- Psychological problems
- What else of those nutcase?
But seriously, they are fucked up!click to expand


Posted by SassyKiwiThe first one, I was friends with for years before it went bad. Never even had an inkling that she would do that stuff. She disappeared for a year, and re-emerged. Lots of plastic surgery, big ole fake boobs, lipo, etc... I kept ignoring all the signs, because I kept thinking of the girl I knew previous to this. Loyalty is my strength, and my downfall.
How do you attract women like that to even "befriend" to begin with? They stick out like sore thumbs to avoid like the plague. I never experienced any of it. If those things didn't end in high school.. there's much bigger problems from all sides

Posted by nikkistarPosted by SassyKiwiThe first one, I was friends with for years before it went bad. Never even had an inkling that she would do that stuff. She disappeared for a year, and re-emerged. Lots of plastic surgery, big ole fake boobs, lipo, etc... I kept ignoring all the signs, because I kept thinking of the girl I knew previous to this. Loyalty is my strength, and my downfall.
How do you attract women like that to even "befriend" to begin with? They stick out like sore thumbs to avoid like the plague. I never experienced any of it. If those things didn't end in high school.. there's much bigger problems from all sides
The other one, not friends with, she just was one of those girls I disliked that hung around us. I knew what she was.click to expand

Posted by GemitatiWhy yes, yes you are.
OMG! BORING!!!

Posted by SassyKiwiBecause the guys kept telling me not "start" stuff. Translation, don't mess it up for us, cause she is an easy lay.Posted by nikkistarPosted by SassyKiwiThe first one, I was friends with for years before it went bad. Never even had an inkling that she would do that stuff. She disappeared for a year, and re-emerged. Lots of plastic surgery, big ole fake boobs, lipo, etc... I kept ignoring all the signs, because I kept thinking of the girl I knew previous to this. Loyalty is my strength, and my downfall.
How do you attract women like that to even "befriend" to begin with? They stick out like sore thumbs to avoid like the plague. I never experienced any of it. If those things didn't end in high school.. there's much bigger problems from all sides
The other one, not friends with, she just was one of those girls I disliked that hung around us. I knew what she was.
If you knew what she was why not kill her with poison, women like you are doing disservice to society
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Posted by brianafayBeing nose here, but what did she do that was crazy?
5 - my Libra dated this really nice wholesome nursing student during one of our earlier breaks and she went completely off the rails when we got back together ...apparently he didn't tell her we were talking again and just ghosted the shit out of her. I felt bad for her actually until she acted like a psycho . Still, poor thing, she would go over to his house and do his laundry between classes and shit. She was in it to win it. Sad

Posted by nikkistarPosted by brianafayBeing nose here, but what did she do that was crazy?
5 - my Libra dated this really nice wholesome nursing student during one of our earlier breaks and she went completely off the rails when we got back together ...apparently he didn't tell her we were talking again and just ghosted the shit out of her. I felt bad for her actually until she acted like a psycho . Still, poor thing, she would go over to his house and do his laundry between classes and shit. She was in it to win it. Sadclick to expand

Posted by brianafayOh man. No. Just no. How the he'll did she even get your number? JfcPosted by nikkistarPosted by brianafayBeing nose here, but what did she do that was crazy?
5 - my Libra dated this really nice wholesome nursing student during one of our earlier breaks and she went completely off the rails when we got back together ...apparently he didn't tell her we were talking again and just ghosted the shit out of her. I felt bad for her actually until she acted like a psycho . Still, poor thing, she would go over to his house and do his laundry between classes and shit. She was in it to win it. Sad
She started calling me and wrote me these paragraphs of text messages begging me not to "come between them" because they "had history"
And would show up to his house and just sit out front in her car and cry until he'd finally go out there and tell her to leave. She even had her friends calling me at one point it was crazy
I tried to be nice about it at first but finally I had to be like listen bitch you guys do not have history, he and I have history!!! He is my first love, and I am his. You dated for 2 months for fucks sake
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Posted by nikkistarHe thinks she got it out of his phone when he first started talking to me again because he said they had talked about me before so she knew who I was etcPosted by brianafayOh man. No. Just no. How the he'll did she even get your number? JfcPosted by nikkistarPosted by brianafayBeing nose here, but what did she do that was crazy?
5 - my Libra dated this really nice wholesome nursing student during one of our earlier breaks and she went completely off the rails when we got back together ...apparently he didn't tell her we were talking again and just ghosted the shit out of her. I felt bad for her actually until she acted like a psycho . Still, poor thing, she would go over to his house and do his laundry between classes and shit. She was in it to win it. Sad
She started calling me and wrote me these paragraphs of text messages begging me not to "come between them" because they "had history"
And would show up to his house and just sit out front in her car and cry until he'd finally go out there and tell her to leave. She even had her friends calling me at one point it was crazy
I tried to be nice about it at first but finally I had to be like listen bitch you guys do not have history, he and I have history!!! He is my first love, and I am his. You dated for 2 months for fucks sake
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Posted by brianafayDude. That is nuts. I think you feeling any empathy for her is more telling about you than anything. I know I wouldn't have. I just don't process the action to covertly steal a phone number from another person's phone. That's strange.Posted by nikkistarHe thinks she got it out of his phone when he first started talking to me again because he said she they had talked about me before so she knew who I was etcPosted by brianafayOh man. No. Just no. How the he'll did she even get your number? JfcPosted by nikkistarPosted by brianafayBeing nose here, but what did she do that was crazy?
5 - my Libra dated this really nice wholesome nursing student during one of our earlier breaks and she went completely off the rails when we got back together ...apparently he didn't tell her we were talking again and just ghosted the shit out of her. I felt bad for her actually until she acted like a psycho . Still, poor thing, she would go over to his house and do his laundry between classes and shit. She was in it to win it. Sad
She started calling me and wrote me these paragraphs of text messages begging me not to "come between them" because they "had history"
And would show up to his house and just sit out front in her car and cry until he'd finally go out there and tell her to leave. She even had her friends calling me at one point it was crazy
I tried to be nice about it at first but finally I had to be like listen bitch you guys do not have history, he and I have history!!! He is my first love, and I am his. You dated for 2 months for fucks sake
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Posted by nikkistarPosted by brianafayDude. That is nuts. I think you feeling any empathy for her is more telling about you than anything. I know I wouldn't have. I just don't process the action to covertly steal a phone number from another person's phone. That's strange.Posted by nikkistarHe thinks she got it out of his phone when he first started talking to me again because he said she they had talked about me before so she knew who I was etcPosted by brianafayOh man. No. Just no. How the he'll did she even get your number? JfcPosted by nikkistarPosted by brianafayBeing nose here, but what did she do that was crazy?
5 - my Libra dated this really nice wholesome nursing student during one of our earlier breaks and she went completely off the rails when we got back together ...apparently he didn't tell her we were talking again and just ghosted the shit out of her. I felt bad for her actually until she acted like a psycho . Still, poor thing, she would go over to his house and do his laundry between classes and shit. She was in it to win it. Sad
She started calling me and wrote me these paragraphs of text messages begging me not to "come between them" because they "had history"
And would show up to his house and just sit out front in her car and cry until he'd finally go out there and tell her to leave. She even had her friends calling me at one point it was crazy
I tried to be nice about it at first but finally I had to be like listen bitch you guys do not have history, he and I have history!!! He is my first love, and I am his. You dated for 2 months for fucks sake
But what is a little more crazy is that she resorted to all this over dating for only 2 months. Makes you wonder what she would have done had it have been a longer time frame.click to expand





Posted by GetMistedSavagePosted by brianafayYou should send her an invitation to the wedding.Posted by nikkistarPosted by brianafayBeing nose here, but what did she do that was crazy?
5 - my Libra dated this really nice wholesome nursing student during one of our earlier breaks and she went completely off the rails when we got back together ...apparently he didn't tell her we were talking again and just ghosted the shit out of her. I felt bad for her actually until she acted like a psycho . Still, poor thing, she would go over to his house and do his laundry between classes and shit. She was in it to win it. Sad
She started calling me and wrote me these paragraphs of text messages begging me not to "come between them" because they "had history"
And would show up to his house and just sit out front in her car and cry until he'd finally go out there and tell her to leave. She even had her friends calling me at one point it was crazy
I tried to be nice about it at first but finally I had to be like listen bitch you guys do not have history, he and I have history!!! He is my first love, and I am his. You dated for 2 months for fucks sake
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Posted by LadyNeptuneIt's not 'us against them', 'men against women'. It'a ppl against ppl.
Patriarchal society pits women against women. We can't overthrow the archaic system if we are focused on tearing each other down.
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Scenario 1: Group of girl friends, one seems to be prone to being overly flirtatious with any romantic interest of another girl in the group.
Scenario 2: A girl competing with another girl for the attention of a man will lie about the other to make her look bad.
Scenario 3: The chameleon affect - This is where a girl will state she has attributes to a man, that she doesn't really have in order to catch the man, so to speak. This could be personality qualities, income, etc...
Scenario 4: Fake pregnancies or Fake emotional blackmail - Will fake a pregnancy or even threaten to self harm to keep the man attached to them
Scenario 5: The crazy ex. You all know what I mean by this. It may be the girl he dated before you, or was someone whom he may have dated along with you until exclusivity with you. They now cannot let go of either the relationship, or "losing" to another and begin to stalk you or your significant other. They may even possibly try and needle their way in by saying they want to remain friends with your so.
I can tell you, I have personally experienced 3 of these scenarios that directly me as a person. And I have yet to figure out why some women (not all) do this. I have talked about a few of them openly myself here.
Please feel free to list other scenarios, or even explain what happened to you.