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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
You guys are really stupid and it shows your complete delusion if you think people hate you because if criticism.

1) Shady, extremely shady, especially the women. Never trustworthy

2) Selfish

3) users, they are not as giving as stated on boards, in fact they can be users, but it's subtle

4) envious, jealous. Never happy for others

5) extremely disrespectful. They don't respect friendships or relationships, why you get so many posts and threads of virgo cheating or trying to get with their friends man

6) zero honor or loyalty. In the end they're only loyal to themselves. At the very core they're selfish.

7) they're liars, yes they lie and pretend they're interested in honesty.

8) they see good people as a weakness, if you treat them like sheet they act better, but if you're good to them they hate it and resent it

9) they're thirsty, they're always thirsty

10) they never take blame for anything so they never grow.



I think virgos are the worst people I've come across and I've been around many.

They're devoid of compassion for others. Completely self absorbed, mean, boring, calculating

Just overall a waste of space
Wow CC, you really laid it all out. Gotta say, I see a lot of truth to your post.

From my experience:

1) Shady, extremely shady, especially the women. Never trustworthy

- YES, one of the worst double crossing, and calculating users that I have ever met was a Virgal. Yuck.

2) Selfish

- Yes, my Virguy friends can be so cold to others, and then complain that he's alone.

3) users, they are not as giving as stated on boards, in fact they can be users, but it's subtle

- Yes, my Virguy friend likes to kill as many birds with 1 stone as possible. Everyone is compartmentalized and on a need to know basis. HIS.

4) envious, jealous. Never happy for others

- YES, this isn't apparent until after you get to know them. It's really quite sad.

5) extremely disrespectful. They don't respect friendships or relationships, why you get so many posts and threads of virgo cheating or trying to get with their friends man

- I have no experience on this one, but can see the women flirting with another girl's man.

6) zero honor or loyalty. In the end they're only loyal to themselves. At the very core they're selfish.

- YES. They have a price, and rarely stick their neck out for anyone else except themselves!

7) they're liars, yes they lie and pretend they're interested in honesty.

- I can see them being 2 faced, and presenting whatever they think the other people wants to see/hear. When they are with someone else later, then it's flip flopped to suit that person. So fake!

8) they see good people as a weakness, if you treat them like sheet they act better, but if you're good to them they hate it and resent it

- YES, just YES. Don't be too nice to them, and call them out on their bullshit.

9) they're thirsty, they're always thirsty

- What do you mean by thirsty?

10) they never take blame for anything so they never grow.

- YES, my Virguy friend who I work with will make mistakes, and try to blame them on others. I put an end to that shit fast!





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My 2 cents on annoying Virgo traits seen first-hand:

- Neurotic, always obsessing about something.

- Paranoid that others are out to get them, or use them. I think it's because they're like that!

- Always doing something with an ulterior motive.

- My Virguy friend actually said he prefers to work with people who have

"no better options". I used to think it's because he was so nice and wanted to hire poor desperate people, but now I know it's because he can low ball them!



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Posted by gemini64
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many Virgo's lose friends and people who actually care about them.

Of all the Virgo's I know and have interacted with, only ONE has had a long lasting and happy marriage. He is outgoing and very caring. The others, meh.



so other signs do not lose friends?

is it that others leave the Virgo or the other way around?

does the Sun sign Virgo have the most unmarried people cause the others were critical of them? or cause Virgos were critical of the candidates?
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Posted by SunMoonStars
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- My Virguy friend actually said he prefers to work with people who have

"no better options". I used to think it's because he was so nice and wanted to hire poor desperate people, but now I know it's because he can low ball them!



I still think he really wants to help. but of course that does not change a thing about how he handles people he loves.

I see a big problem with us people: we cannot keep it in the head that our good and bad traits co-exist in us. we are not good persons because of our good traits. nor are we bad due to our bad traits. we are just here or there, now or then good or bad.
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Posted by gemini64
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many Virgo's lose friends and people who actually care about them.

Of all the Virgo's I know and have interacted with, only ONE has had a long lasting and happy marriage. He is outgoing and very caring. The others, meh.



so other signs do not lose friends?

is it that others leave the Virgo or the other way around?

does the Sun sign Virgo have the most unmarried people cause the others were critical of them? or cause Virgos were critical of the candidates?
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I have so many Virgo friends.Here are the "lost" ones and how it happened:

- A Virgal was so tight with me while we were classmates. I would give her rides home everyday for over 1.5 years. It was manipulative, she would say stuff like "oh when we grow older together, we'll do xyz", or "let's start a business after graduating". Then when we graduated, she immediately left town to take a job, and didn't keep in touch much. All talk, no action!

- Another Virgal did pretty much the same but worse, she talked about doing future business together while we were working at the same place because she needed me to help her as I was her Manager. Once she saw an opportunity to climb over me, her true side showed. Needless to say, I've cut her out.

- 2 Virguy friends are still bachelors who have a hard time getting relationships and keeping them.

I don't know why they are still single, but on my side, I can say that there's something about Virguys that turns me off.
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- My Virguy friend actually said he prefers to work with people who have

"no better options". I used to think it's because he was so nice and wanted to hire poor desperate people, but now I know it's because he can low ball them!



I still think he really wants to help. but of course that does not change a thing about how he handles people he loves.

I see a big problem with us people: we cannot keep it in the head that our good and bad traits co-exist in us. we are not good persons because of our good traits. nor are we bad due to our bad traits. we are just here or there, now or then good or bad.
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I had this debate with my Virguy friend yesterday.

He said nothing is right or wrong, blah blah, and that people are like that. That's how the world works etc. It sounds like an excuse for his own spineless, gossipy, negative, fake, and 2 faced behaviour.

I said, NO. Some people have good moral character and will sacrifice themselves for others. Like teachers that save their class from crazed gunmen. He had nothing to say to that.
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Posted by SunMoonStars
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- A Virgal was so tight with me while we were classmates. I would give her rides home everyday for over 1.5 years. It was manipulative, she would say stuff like "oh when we grow older we'll do xyz", or "let's start a business after graduating". Then when we graduated, she immediately left to take a job, and didn't keep in touch much. All talk, no action.

- Another Virgal did pretty much the same, talking about future business together while we were working at the same place, and she needed me to help her as I was her Manager. Once she saw an opportunity to climb over me, her true side showed. Needless to say, I've cut her out.

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the first two examples were good enough. they reminded me of my sis behavior. not because of other people's emotions. (there I thought to myself: they should know that ideas are not contracts) but because how I hardly knew how to help her. she came to me to talk about her options, sometimes also because those options would have had impact on my life. then next time we met the list of options had changed. we needed new talks. plus the background complaining of how "WE" have not made a great life.

yes, on those days she tried many opportunities and she touched many lives and other people's dreams.

my sis had to be obsessed with her options. this is how she achieves excellence in another scenario.
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Can a Virg be not-virgoish?

I think the best thing is to be aware of traits like judgemental , criticism , perfectionist tendencies , work obsess etc. and be aware of how this affects the people we care in our lives .
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Yeah, but how many virgo's actually DO this? Not many? Not enough? All of them? None of them?

My assistant is a virgo female. I like her. I have a virgo moon, so I recognized her traits and did find them appealing. She's all right. I do see though, that she has a negative complaint about every member of her family, and every significant other of said person. She also doesn't seem to like very many people period. But I thought Virgo's were nicer than that?

My brother has four planets in Virgo. He f'ed up his life so bad, and harmed his kids. He was so mean sometimes. The whole, typical "strive for perfection" and "expect perfection." Well, now he's divorced, his oldest daughter doesn't like him, the other three kids have problems.... Yeah. I guess that's the Virgo way?

An old Virgo friend blamed everyone else for his DWI. Two years later, I discovered he drove drunk again. He was acting like an asshole, so I allowed myself to do the same. For being a supposed "straightforward," "blunt," lover of truth, you think he would have answered me one of the four times I asked him "Did you drive home drunk the other night?" on four separate occasions.

Apparently, Virgo's don't like it when you point out their faults or stupidities. You guys afraid of the truth?

On DXP, I've seen Virgo's state, "We really are the best people. The most sensitive. The most helpful. The best lovers. The best friend you could ever want. The best kind of spouse.... the best blah, blah, blah."

bullshit. You're people like everyone else, though perhaps a bit more self righteous than others.

And the supposed "perfection" crap, please. Nobody's perfect and nobody cares about your "perfect," judgmental ass. There's no virtue in being "perfect" if you can't admit when you've been wrong. Imperfection at it's finest.

Virgo's sometimes come across as the epitome of hypocrisy. "Treat me great, but I'll treat you like shit. Don't point out my flaws, but kiss my ass in gratitude when I point yours out. You're insecure. But I need your constant approval and thanks, and praise. I'm a Virgo, and I'm very nice. The nicest sign. Period. Fuck you if you don't agree."

I don't hate Virgo's. I've appreciated those who've come in and thankfully OUT of my life. I've learned to see through THEIR bullshit. "Eye for an eye, bitch."

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YES, the Virgo double standard is legendary! My Virguy friend wants to know everything about your thinking and motives, but you're on a need to know basis. It's ridiculous.

He's also a world-class bullshiter. Says he going to do this and that and it doesn't materialize. One thing I've learned about Virgos is never believe anything until you see it!

And get everything in writing!
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I personaly don't like Virgos (f), because I don't usually get along with them (except for my aunt), generally I feel weird in their presence as they're introverted.

My dislike for them deepened last year, thanks to one particular Virgo sun Pisces moon female.

She wasn't direct with her needs at all, but when she said that she wanted some changes in you, she would want that changes to start instantly. And if she saw that you're not starting to change she wouldn't remind you what she wanted. She would just leave that matter. She wouldn't tell anyone that it hurt her when you did something she didn't like, hiding that inside herself. You'd know after a year that she hated you for this, lmao.

Oh, and she had greasy hair (wouldn't wash it for a week), although would care about herself. -.-

I'm not sure about Virgo males though as I haven't met them or haven't checked their sign..
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It depends on the person for me. I can only think of three. My boyfriend, ex- best friend (female), and my best friend's ex-boyfriend.

Boyfriend: I love him. He's wonderful. He communicates very well with me and gets me to open up. Is kind to me and treats me nice. We've been "official" for almost 3 months and have known each other for about a year now. I hope he never changes and becomes what you guys are describing. I know everyone has a bad side and we talked about what we will do if our bad sides ever show themselves.

Ex- Best friend: Bitch. All of the above in CarmelizedCoffee post. Her, my best friend, and I were all friends and high school and first year of college. Then the fire nation attacked. She would get upset with us for some reason, not talk to us, and then we would have to beg her to tell us whats wrong. Then it would be stupid like we didn't wash that fork in the sink. One week of ignoring us for a fork— (literally happened).

Then junior year she says we abandoned her and always went off to do our own thing, etc. We went to lots of school events with her, malls, different states, etc. The only thing me and the other girl did alone was sorority things and study, because she didn't want to (always said no thanks). Then come junior year tells me and other girl that she's disliked us for a very long time and found new "friends" who appreciate her blah blah blah Got into a very big argument with me because she was talking shit about my best friend (they've been best friends since childhood) and I don't play that shit. Maybe she was jealous of me because me and the other girl got closer more easily. I tried to be both of their best friends because I didn't want to break them up. I reconciled their friendship twice.

- Junior year shes just a bitch. Very passive aggressive. Purposely loud with her new friends until 2 am. Had to call the RA on them multiple time even after I asked them to be quiet politely. And she is apparently now a pimp. Hangs out with her girl toy during the day (who as been stupidly loyal to her for 3 years, idiot) and her boy toy during the night. Sometimes switches it up. Talked so much shit about the girl one time when they and an argument its sad. Then came in the suite the other day crying that no one cares about her blah blah lol Maybe if you weren't such a bitch people would. She even curses out her parents (they don't speak english well) in front of us and her friends. No respect for them. Tried to get a restraining order against me for messaging her on Snap chat a couple times asking to talk (probably because I called out her pimp ways while her girl toy was there, purposely ofc) lmao She obviously failed her attempt to ruin my life. Needless to say her and all her "friends" are now blocked on every social media site. A hypocrite. Does something and then criticizes others for doing it. Loves to accuse people of being "fake" but talks shit about everyone. She doesn't even care because she does it in the suite when me and the other girl are here, very loudly.

My best friends (not the one mentioned above, I have two) ex-boyfriend: Piece of shit. Cheated, lied, emotionally manipulative, physically abusive. Everything horrible. So glad she left his ass.

Other than that, I don't have any other experiences. I still don't judge the sign. Beyonce is a Virgo. I love Beyonce. Lmao