Would you date someone you're not attracted to?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by m3h on Thursday, May 3, 2018 and has 43 replies.

Understanding the Role of Venus Sign in Attraction

Your Venus sign influences your romantic preferences and what attracts you to others. While physical attraction is important, your Venus sign also affects emotional and aesthetic compatibility. Deciding to date someone you're not attracted to may depend on emotional connection and shared values beyond initial attraction.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by pisceswoman123
Nope. I need to be attracted.

Aries Venus

my venus is in the 1st house, and pisces influenced

so i get you on some level.

i need to be attracted to your energy and vice versa.

if you rock my world, that's it. and my husband ROCKED my world.

lol 😛

wealth and money aren't pre-cursors at all. I always got with poor guys.

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@pisceswoman123
9 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by pisceswoman123
Nope. I need to be attracted.

Aries Venus

my venus is in the 1st house, and pisces influenced

so i get you on some level.

i need to be attracted to your energy and vice versa.

if you rock my world, that's it. and my husband ROCKED my world.

lol

wealth and money aren't pre-cursors at all. I always got with poor guys. click to expand

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I get you. I need to be attracted to your energy and vice versa too.

If you rocked my world I am yours. I don’t care about anything 😄

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@m3h
8 Years

Posted by RedemptionSong

Posted by m3h

Posted by m3h
What's your Venus sign?

So far:

Aries = 1/4 Yes , 3/4 No

Taurus = 3/3 No

Gemini =

Cancer = 1/2 Yes , 1/2 No

Leo = 1 Yes

Virgo = 2/3 Yes , 1/3 No

Libra = 1 Yes

Scorpio = 3/3 No

Sagittarius = 1 Yes

Capricorn = 1/2 Yes , 1/2 No

Pisces =

***

Cardinal = 4/9 Yes , 5/9 No

Fixed = 3/10 Yes , 7/10 No

Mutable = 3/4 Yes , 1/4 No

***

Earth = 3/8 Yes , 5/8 No

Fire = 3/6 Yes , 3/6 No

Air = 4/5 Yes , 1/5 No

Water = 1/5 Yes , 4/5 No

Will update with more responses

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You forgot aqua venus click to expand

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I goofed! Time to update.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by pisceswoman123
Nope. I need to be attracted.

Aries Venus

my venus is in the 1st house, and pisces influenced

so i get you on some level.

i need to be attracted to your energy and vice versa.

if you rock my world, that's it. and my husband ROCKED my world.

lol

wealth and money aren't pre-cursors at all. I always got with poor guys. click to expand

I get you. I need to be attracted to your energy and vice versa too.

If you rocked my world I am yours. I don’t care about anything 😄 click to expand

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it's all about that 'connection' ...i need to FEEL it.

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@GOATAction
8 Years500+ Posts

Aqua Venus Retrograde lol

No, but my attraction doesn't have to be immediate from the first sight or date. If I have some interest, I'm going to want to continue seeing if we can build on the attraction, since I find love a long, arduous task not without a ton of bumps in it.

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@m3h
8 Years

Posted by GOATAction
Aqua Venus Retrograde lol

No, but my attraction doesn't have to be immediate from the first sight or date. If I have some interest, I'm going to want to continue seeing if we can build on the attraction, since I find love a long, arduous task not without a ton of bumps in it.

So you wouldn't date someone you're not physically attracted to.

But would still give them a chance to see if you can build attraction towards them?

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@GOATAction
8 Years500+ Posts

Posted by m3h

Posted by GOATAction
Aqua Venus Retrograde lol

No, but my attraction doesn't have to be immediate from the first sight or date. If I have some interest, I'm going to want to continue seeing if we can build on the attraction, since I find love a long, arduous task not without a ton of bumps in it.

So you wouldn't date someone you're not physically attracted to.

But would still give them a chance to see if you can build attraction towards them? click to expand

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I have to have at last some medium level of physical attraction, but I realize it can't be the end all, be all. And if the emotional/spiritual/intellectual attraction levels are there or potentially there, they can supercede the physical.

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@m3h
8 Years

Posted by La_Dolce_Vita_Scorpio
Why would anyone date someone they aren't attracted to ?

Attraction, isn't that the whole point of liking someone romantically?

Yours truly,

Venus in Sag

Attracted to physically*

Forgot to put "physically" in the title.

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@m3h
8 Years

So far:

Aries = 1/5 Yes , 4/5 No

Taurus = 5/5 No

Gemini = 1 No

Cancer = 1/2 Yes , 1/2 No

Leo = 1/3 Yes , 2/3 No

Virgo = 3/4 Yes , 1/4 No

Libra = 1/2 Yes , 1/2 No

Scorpio = 3/3 No

Sagittarius = 1/3 Yes , 2/3 No

Capricorn = 1/3 Yes , 2/3 No

Aquarius = 2/4 Yes , 2/4 No

Pisces = 1/3 Yes , 2/3 No

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Cardinal = 4/12 Yes , 8/12 No

Fixed = 3/15 Yes , 12/15 No

Mutable = 5/11 Yes , 6/11 No

***

Earth = 4/12 Yes , 8/12 No

Fire = 3/11 Yes , 8/11 No

Air = 4/8 Yes , 4/8 No

Water = 2/8 Yes , 6/8 No

Will update with more responses

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@Liriell
9 YearsCapricorn

If I'm attracted to someone by his/hers personality, I would be physically attracted also, unless they're repulsively ugly - no teeth, reeeally bad skin (drug-addict-like) etc.

Having said so, I wouldn't date anyone I'm not attracted to - why waste time?

Sag Venus

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@Boots1313
8 Years1,000+ Posts

attraction is all relative...and my tastes have changed throughout the years...I use to like pretty boys, now im into the rugged type.

I've dated guys who at first I wasn't attracted to and then somehow like over night they became like Brad Pitt to me out of nowhere..

The real question: can I date someone "I'm" not attracted to...for a bit Yes, if they have wit and banter, for the long run ie: marriage "No" eventually I will be turned off.

Gemini Venus

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@nyx100
8 Years

Posted by m3h
What's your Venus sign?

Hell no. Im a sag sun, Libra moon, Scorpio venus, capricorn mars.

I couldnt think of anything worse, but i do believe if i suddenly went blind, my dating life would switch over and id be married within a year LOL. I just cant do it.

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@helenaqua
8 Years

I would have to be attracted to them at least to a small extent, if they ask me out. To ask someone out, I must like them a lottt

However, I get instantly attracted to people with whom I find that I have things in common that are important to me, even if they seemed unattractive to me before.

Venus in Aquarius