Would you date someone you're not attracted to?

Understanding the Role of Venus Sign in Attraction

Your Venus sign influences your romantic preferences and what attracts you to others. While physical attraction is important, your Venus sign also affects emotional and aesthetic compatibility. Deciding to date someone you're not attracted to may depend on emotional connection and shared values beyond initial attraction.

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AQUA•FISH
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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by pisceswoman123
Nope. I need to be attracted.



Aries Venus


my venus is in the 1st house, and pisces influenced
so i get you on some level.

i need to be attracted to your energy and vice versa.

if you rock my world, that's it. and my husband ROCKED my world.

lol

wealth and money aren't pre-cursors at all. I always got with poor guys. click to expand
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I get you. I need to be attracted to your energy and vice versa too.

If you rocked my world I am yours. I don’t care about anything 😄
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meh
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What's your Venus sign?





So far:



Aries = 1/4 Yes , 3/4 No

Taurus = 3/3 No

Gemini =

Cancer = 1/2 Yes , 1/2 No

Leo = 1 Yes

Virgo = 2/3 Yes , 1/3 No

Libra = 1 Yes

Scorpio = 3/3 No

Sagittarius = 1 Yes

Capricorn = 1/2 Yes , 1/2 No

Pisces =



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Cardinal = 4/9 Yes , 5/9 No

Fixed = 3/10 Yes , 7/10 No

Mutable = 3/4 Yes , 1/4 No



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Earth = 3/8 Yes , 5/8 No

Fire = 3/6 Yes , 3/6 No

Air = 4/5 Yes , 1/5 No

Water = 1/5 Yes , 4/5 No





Will update with more responses





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You forgot aqua venus click to expand
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I goofed! Time to update.
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lisabeth
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Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by pisceswoman123
Nope. I need to be attracted.





Aries Venus



my venus is in the 1st house, and pisces influenced

so i get you on some level.



i need to be attracted to your energy and vice versa.



if you rock my world, that's it. and my husband ROCKED my world.



lol



wealth and money aren't pre-cursors at all. I always got with poor guys. click to expand


I get you. I need to be attracted to your energy and vice versa too.
If you rocked my world I am yours. I don’t care about anything 😄 click to expand
click to expand



it's all about that 'connection' ...i need to FEEL it.
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meh
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Posted by GOATAction
Aqua Venus Retrograde lol
No, but my attraction doesn't have to be immediate from the first sight or date. If I have some interest, I'm going to want to continue seeing if we can build on the attraction, since I find love a long, arduous task not without a ton of bumps in it.
So you wouldn't date someone you're not physically attracted to.

But would still give them a chance to see if you can build attraction towards them?
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GOATAction
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Posted by m3h
Posted by GOATAction
Aqua Venus Retrograde lol

No, but my attraction doesn't have to be immediate from the first sight or date. If I have some interest, I'm going to want to continue seeing if we can build on the attraction, since I find love a long, arduous task not without a ton of bumps in it.



So you wouldn't date someone you're not physically attracted to.

But would still give them a chance to see if you can build attraction towards them? click to expand
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I have to have at last some medium level of physical attraction, but I realize it can't be the end all, be all. And if the emotional/spiritual/intellectual attraction levels are there or potentially there, they can supercede the physical.
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meh
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So far:

Aries = 1/5 Yes , 4/5 No

Taurus = 5/5 No

Gemini = 1 No

Cancer = 1/2 Yes , 1/2 No

Leo = 1/3 Yes , 2/3 No

Virgo = 3/4 Yes , 1/4 No

Libra = 1/2 Yes , 1/2 No

Scorpio = 3/3 No

Sagittarius = 1/3 Yes , 2/3 No

Capricorn = 1/3 Yes , 2/3 No

Aquarius = 2/4 Yes , 2/4 No

Pisces = 1/3 Yes , 2/3 No

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Cardinal = 4/12 Yes , 8/12 No

Fixed = 3/15 Yes , 12/15 No

Mutable = 5/11 Yes , 6/11 No

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Earth = 4/12 Yes , 8/12 No

Fire = 3/11 Yes , 8/11 No

Air = 4/8 Yes , 4/8 No

Water = 2/8 Yes , 6/8 No



Will update with more responses
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attraction is all relative...and my tastes have changed throughout the years...I use to like pretty boys, now im into the rugged type.

I've dated guys who at first I wasn't attracted to and then somehow like over night they became like Brad Pitt to me out of nowhere..

The real question: can I date someone "I'm" not attracted to...for a bit Yes, if they have wit and banter, for the long run ie: marriage "No" eventually I will be turned off.

Gemini Venus