Don't want a friend near my husband (Page 2)

Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by saggurl88

Just tell her your husband doesn't like hanging around a bunch of women and that the only way he will come if it's a double date so he can have someone to talk to.

I think you can avoid the honesty of telling your friend, she knows how she is. Women don't change. Trust your husband, not other women. You have the right idea. Some single women have too much time on their hands, as your friend has shown you over and over again.

I have a friend that's the same way, and when she needed a place to stay, she was only allowed to stay in my house when I was there, she had to leave when I went to work. She didn't stay long or get comfortable.

Come to find out after me and my ex broke up, she went ahead and texted him. We are still friends though. He's my ex for a reason and I think it's hilarious and very sad for women who dig at the bottom of the barrel for leftovers. But to each it's own.

He passed and sent the message to me saying "your friend is a hoe" lol

Omg we so need every guy doing this 🤣 Imagine how smoother life would be. He gets so much brownie/life points.

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She’s a great friend for traveling, socializing and fun. But she’s not so good when it comes to a man. She can’t control herself. I didn’t even bring it up to her and just gave her a pass on it.

I know what type of friend she is, and compartmentalize it well.

But Ive never brought dates or boyfriends around her unless it’s a double date.

She never gets to third wheel with me because she just needs too much attention from a man and any man in her vicinity will do. I know this and accept this and am fine with it.

So I created my own personal boundaries for how to keep her in my life and not be bothered by her antics.

Posted by MareInfame

Gosh… I guess honesty is non-existent in your friendships.

I mean, she isn’t much of a friend and through trust out the door, but neither are you if you can’t even have an honest convo with her and don’t give her a chance AFTER you’ve had an honest convo with her.

Your friendship is limited to superficial levels. You haven’t ever crossed that bridge of depth and see if it survives it. All those years of light friendship….

Just cut her off. There wasn’t much depth anyway 🤷🏻‍♀️

It also seems like you don’t want to cross that bridge with your partner. If I were in your shoes, I’d tell him, take him and see how he handles it. I LOVE doing that, actually.

That’s what I LOVE about scorpio men (that I have known). They will be flat out rude and push other females away… only have eyes for you.

Other guys can be respectful, but do feel awkward and get red and freeze. So, if your man is like that… you’d have to intervene and say something 🙄. That’s annoying because it just creates awkward moments.

I've mentioned this in my other posts, I'm very introverted and compartmentalize my life. I don't mind having friends for different things and don't feel I have to break it down to others of what I'm okay with. Friendships with complete transparency and honesty are rare, doesn't make someone not a close friend if every box isn't ticked... It's all subjective to one's needs. Maybe you have those needs with all your close friends or whatnot but I don't have that need with every one of my friends. I also don't want to involve my husband in my personal thoughts and opinions of my friends, that's just personally how I am.

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by saggurl88

Just tell her your husband doesn't like hanging around a bunch of women and that the only way he will come if it's a double date so he can have someone to talk to.

I think you can avoid the honesty of telling your friend, she knows how she is. Women don't change. Trust your husband, not other women. You have the right idea. Some single women have too much time on their hands, as your friend has shown you over and over again.

I have a friend that's the same way, and when she needed a place to stay, she was only allowed to stay in my house when I was there, she had to leave when I went to work. She didn't stay long or get comfortable.

Come to find out after me and my ex broke up, she went ahead and texted him. We are still friends though. He's my ex for a reason and I think it's hilarious and very sad for women who dig at the bottom of the barrel for leftovers. But to each it's own.

He passed and sent the message to me saying "your friend is a hoe" lol

Omg we so need every guy doing this 🤣 Imagine how smoother life would be. He gets so much brownie/life points.

She’s a great friend for traveling, socializing and fun. But she’s not so good when it comes to a man. She can’t control herself. I didn’t even bring it up to her and just gave her a pass on it.

I know what type of friend she is, and compartmentalize it well.

But Ive never brought dates or boyfriends around her unless it’s a double date.

She never gets to third wheel with me because she just needs too much attention from a man and any man in her vicinity will do. I know this and accept this and am fine with it.

So I created my own personal boundaries for how to keep her in my life and not be bothered by her antics.

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Exactly this! It's literally like I'm reading about my Taurus friend... What is your friend's sign/placements? Also is she aware that she's seen by you this way? Like does she ever mind you don't bring your boyfriends around her in certain situations or you're just slick about it?

@saggurl88 why did you hide it? I read it before you hid it. The Taurus is a Leo moon too 😂 Damn these cray Leo mooners.

Posted by SassyKiwi

@saggurl88 why did you hide it? I read it before you hid it. The Taurus is a Leo moon too 😂 Damn these cray Leo mooners.

I hid it cause I don’t like talking negative about people, but I still wanted you to know what she was like when it comes to this type of thing 😅

I figured you had read it, which was my only intention.

What did you decide to do?

Damn. This thread is really sad. Your gonna live your whole life in anxiety trying to control your husband not cheating on you lol. There will always be a females who want to sleep with him.

I hope you get more tangible things from your marriage

I think it's pretty obvious to you that this "friend" has ulterior motives so I don't get why you won't just cut her off, especially seeing how you view her. If you don't like the way she's behaving and you know of her history of being the homewrecker then don't talk to her. Lol. It's not hard.

Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by Subliminals

Just tellher straight up that you dont want her to be near your husband and the reason. If she doesnt like it, so be it.

Has anyone here ever done this? Said this to their friend over their SO? Please let me know the reactions lol

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I did with my Gemini cousin when she went after her best friends bf in front of us. Told I will never trust her with any of my bf. she’s a born again Christian after 30 years of schetchy behavior