Posted by babydolphin92candy coated poems are for suckers
So apparently you guys are a dream come true at first, but soon the other foot drops. This is from what I keep reading. So I'm fascinated to know....what is the darker, more real side of pisces that you experience in relationships? Surely it can't be all candy coated poems and romance.
Posted by ShadowcatNo. We're not. We're the most honest of the zodiac..no one gets us though because no one tries.
In a nutshell. They're liars, delusional and emotionally manipulative lol.
Posted by SeraphlightPosted by ShadowcatThey can be. I think less so than cancers though. They have a wide eyedness to them. Scorpios are not usually delusional ...but can manipulate better but rarely.
In a nutshell. They're liars, delusional and emotionally manipulative lol.click to expand
Posted by boxcarmirnta
no one gets us though
Posted by ShadowcatGoing by MY experience with them, both men and women in relationships and friendships, they do display all of these traits to varying degrees.
In a nutshell. They're liars, delusional and emotionally manipulative lol.
Posted by SeraphlightLmao, they don't say "who I?" innocently. For one, they have control over their actions and what they do and say doesn't escape their awareness, which makes that question futile. They know, there is no need for "who, I?" as if they can't fathom it lmao. And secondly, that confusion doesn't arise from them not knowing what's going on, but the shock that you don't perceive things the way they do which is the Pisces way, which is the only true and right and self-righteous 100% way (Virgos do the same thing but how people don't see it with Pisces is hilarious to me)
They don't flee when someone says ..you did something wrong. They innocently say ..who i? Oh I am sorry. Even if it was not them.
Posted by SeraphlightMine too.
Pisces is one of my fav signs :-)
Posted by RemixGeneralFishyDude you're talking about your mom for goodness sake.
Well, we do have a sharp tongue (contrary to popular opinion) and we can get downright nasty when a friendship/relationship turns sour and ends for good on bad terms. We say stuff we REALLY mean when we've given up on the other person.
I did exactly that with ALL of my sisters and my dad. My mom is the only one remaining and if she's smart, she'll stay the fuck away from me. She's got a very thin skin that my piercing tongue can rip right through.
Posted by Shadowcatwhen they are unhappy yes... I have experienced all of the above.
In a nutshell. They're liars, delusional and emotionally manipulative lol.
Posted by SeraphlightI agree. I think Pisces do it more frequently (sometimes just to see if the other person cares) but it is easy to see through their maniuplation. Scopios do it less often but when they do they can be very good manipulators.Posted by boxcarmirntaTrue. But they don't do it often. And I have seen it bite them back.Posted by SeraphlightPosted by ShadowcatThey can be. I think less so than cancers though. They have a wide eyedness to them. Scorpios are not usually delusional ...but can manipulate better but rarely.
In a nutshell. They're liars, delusional and emotionally manipulative lol.
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Posted by EveryOunceShe wouldn't know how to be a mom to me even if you held a gun to her head. But thanks for the sentiment.Posted by RemixGeneralFishyDude you're talking about your mom for goodness sake.
Well, we do have a sharp tongue (contrary to popular opinion) and we can get downright nasty when a friendship/relationship turns sour and ends for good on bad terms. We say stuff we REALLY mean when we've given up on the other person.
I did exactly that with ALL of my sisters and my dad. My mom is the only one remaining and if she's smart, she'll stay the fuck away from me. She's got a very thin skin that my piercing tongue can rip right through.click to expand
Posted by RemixGeneralFishyAaaaahh no, that is so sad to read 😢Posted by EveryOunceShe wouldn't know how to be a mom to me even if you held a gun to her head. But thanks for the sentiment.Posted by RemixGeneralFishyDude you're talking about your mom for goodness sake.
Well, we do have a sharp tongue (contrary to popular opinion) and we can get downright nasty when a friendship/relationship turns sour and ends for good on bad terms. We say stuff we REALLY mean when we've given up on the other person.
I did exactly that with ALL of my sisters and my dad. My mom is the only one remaining and if she's smart, she'll stay the fuck away from me. She's got a very thin skin that my piercing tongue can rip right through.click to expand
Posted by RemixGeneralFishyYikes...you can't choose your parents.Posted by EveryOunceShe wouldn't know how to be a mom to me even if you held a gun to her head. But thanks for the sentiment.Posted by RemixGeneralFishyDude you're talking about your mom for goodness sake.
Well, we do have a sharp tongue (contrary to popular opinion) and we can get downright nasty when a friendship/relationship turns sour and ends for good on bad terms. We say stuff we REALLY mean when we've given up on the other person.
I did exactly that with ALL of my sisters and my dad. My mom is the only one remaining and if she's smart, she'll stay the fuck away from me. She's got a very thin skin that my piercing tongue can rip right through.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineNah it's fine, I've had plenty of time to get used to it. Some people just should not have been allowed to have children.Posted by RemixGeneralFishyAaaaahh no, that is so sad to read 😢Posted by EveryOunceShe wouldn't know how to be a mom to me even if you held a gun to her head. But thanks for the sentiment.Posted by RemixGeneralFishyDude you're talking about your mom for goodness sake.
Well, we do have a sharp tongue (contrary to popular opinion) and we can get downright nasty when a friendship/relationship turns sour and ends for good on bad terms. We say stuff we REALLY mean when we've given up on the other person.
I did exactly that with ALL of my sisters and my dad. My mom is the only one remaining and if she's smart, she'll stay the fuck away from me. She's got a very thin skin that my piercing tongue can rip right through.click to expand
Posted by PootyButtNo one deserves "Respect" for reproducing alone. That's what anyone can do, it's not like a special skill to be in awe over, nor some highly valued character trait.Posted by EveryOunceMost parents deserve respect, but there are exceptions. I have a friend whose mom was a crack addict and abused and neglected her, and she wants nothing to do with her and gets very offended by sentiments like this one.Posted by RemixGeneralFishyYikes...you can't choose your parents.Posted by EveryOunceShe wouldn't know how to be a mom to me even if you held a gun to her head. But thanks for the sentiment.Posted by RemixGeneralFishyDude you're talking about your mom for goodness sake.
Well, we do have a sharp tongue (contrary to popular opinion) and we can get downright nasty when a friendship/relationship turns sour and ends for good on bad terms. We say stuff we REALLY mean when we've given up on the other person.
I did exactly that with ALL of my sisters and my dad. My mom is the only one remaining and if she's smart, she'll stay the fuck away from me. She's got a very thin skin that my piercing tongue can rip right through.
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Posted by Seraphlightlol smh.Posted by babydolphin92They party. They will try anything once. They will hang out with anyone. But actual day to day life. It's not for them.
So apparently you guys are a dream come true at first, but soon the other foot drops. This is from what I keep reading. So I'm fascinated to know....what is the darker, more real side of pisces that you experience in relationships? Surely it can't be all candy coated poems and romance.
They will fly to another country at the drop of a hat ..move there. Meet interesting people ..one of whom will be the local pimp..and they will flow away with him for few months then come back home.click to expand
Posted by aquarius_beautyWell i am mostly aqua hahahaPosted by boxcarmirntaThat sounds like something an Aqua would say.
No. We're not. We're the most honest of the zodiac..no one gets us though because no one tries.click to expand
Posted by DamnataWell i'm not shedding a tear about it!Posted by boxcarmirnta
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Posted by babydolphin92
See I'm in the beginning stages with a Pisces man who is saying all the right things and doing everything I ever wanted romantically. Puts butterflies in my tummy and stars in my eyes. But it just seems too good to be true. Maybe that's my Gemini tendency to overanalyze but I needed to hear this debate. I didn't know they could be liars and manipulators
Posted by pisces4scorpioHe's probably in love with the idea of me. We are long distance so it's not like he can get in my pants anytime soon lol. It scared me a bit. He's very intense, knows what I'm doing and what colors I'm wearing. It's wild. Never connected with someone on this level before.Posted by babydolphin92I get told this by other signs. No one knows you after a week. They're either in love with the idea of you - their imagination filling too much in, or they're trying to get in your pants.
He said he loved me after a week. Is that shit normal for you guys—click to expand
Posted by PootyButtI agree with the psychic part. Can nearly read my mind. I'm a bit afraid he can actually....Posted by jukeyI agree with all of this.
I think that 'dark' side shows itself when there's not enough self-reflection about how one handles certain situations. Some decisions, big ones and small (disguised as big ones), really paint one's world-view and it's an ongoing thing, influencing every decision thereafter. Like those books that direct you to one page or another when choosing a path.
I think there's always some level of misleading going on and it's arguably OK on a certain level (white lies, living a double life, not always practicing what you preach, etc.), but the context matters. Whether you guilt trip someone in order to feel better, withhold feelings to keep the peace only to be a passive-aggressive jerk, or being bluntly honest to clear the air and set boundaries. There's some Piscean buzzwords in there.
I'll add something that might be controversial. I think a self-actualized Pisces is damn near psychic. They just know shit, and they can read people. But sometimes a Pisces will refuse to embrace their natural gifts for whatever reason. They don't believe in themselves, maybe, or they don't want to see reality because it's harsh. That can lead to escapism, depression, anxiety, etc.click to expand
Posted by WonderWoman14OMG I thought I am the only one like that 😄 in a sense that I am super organised when it comes to work, but than at home I can procrastinate. It's like I lack motivation to do stuff just for myself. But I am happy to jump and do stuff for others 😄 it's very weird
Procrastinate - i hate it but it's not about being lazy it's A feeling of being overwhelmed. I've struggled with this more since I separated from my husband. I miss having someone motivate me to just tackle what needs doing. I had the attitude oh it can wait until tomorrow. I've trained myself now to make a list and tracks one thing at a time and tick it off once done and move on to the next. It's strange I'm not like this in work. I'm on the ball and I'm extremely organised. Maybe that's because I have strict deadlines to meet.
Over think/ over analyse - anything you say, I don't always take it for what it is, I'll see if there's a hidden meaning, are you trying to tell me something else. Are you trying to fool me or are you being straight? I see straight through a lot of people and I'll often humour them. I'll never let them know I'm on to them but it will determine the type of relationship I'll have with them or how close I'll let them get to me. I often think peoole have a hidden agenda.
Don't tell me what I can or can't do - I don't like been bossed about. I've no issue with been told what to do for example in work, I guess it's more on how you deliver it. I definitely don't like been told who I can or can't be friends with. Just because you don't like them doesn't mean I should stop speaking to them. I'm nice to everyone until they give me a reason not to be.
I don't understand the lying/deceitful thing because that's not me at all. I hate liars and I'm not in the slightest bit deceitful. Everyone loves me for my honesty and loyalty. Sometimes this is hard for me because I expect the same from others.
If we are already aware of you but not yet interacted, chances are we already know a lot about you. I observe from a distance, everything the way you talk, the way you interact with different people, you're mannerisms. I'm a classic people watcher.
Stubborn - yes but it's usually because I'm protecting myself rather than doing it to be mean.
I'm as loyal as you can get and I hate disloyal people. Once you have shown disloyalty I want nothing mute ti do with you.
Selfless - not always a good thing as some will take advantage. I've learnt as I've got older to only give to those that deserve it. Some people just take take take.
Plus once I'm done, I'm done. I'll swim away never to return.
As I'm new to all This I can't guarantee this is all to do with my sun pisces. Maybe other signs in chart have some influence ?!
Posted by babydolphin92it's not
So apparently you guys are a dream come true at first, but soon the other foot drops. This is from what I keep reading. So I'm fascinated to know....what is the darker, more real side of pisces that you experience in relationships? Surely it can't be all candy coated poems and romance.
Posted by username154Ohh no I did mentioned mentaly we can injure like no one else can. Because when you are the one who knows all other persons weaknesses all their fears and their doubts, if the healer becomes attacker we won't strike the person with half asked sharp remarks 🙂 as I said we will destroy person from inside out. Granted once again it's not something that we try to do usually 🙂 but we can if needed.
Based on everything everyone's said they have a weak darkside. give you lots of chances? sharp tounge? psh..
Posted by tctaFunny enough I hate poems 😄 ( I know it was figurative talk but still). But I agree it's not 🙂 us seeing through people and needing validation sometimes or other half to be our rock can be hard on other half not to mention other staff that I mendioned before.Posted by babydolphin92it's not
So apparently you guys are a dream come true at first, but soon the other foot drops. This is from what I keep reading. So I'm fascinated to know....what is the darker, more real side of pisces that you experience in relationships? Surely it can't be all candy coated poems and romance.
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Posted by SirB2I don't think any sign is bad altogether. But every sign has their bad qualities. It just depends on what we see as valuable for example if person values empathy as a trait than Pisces will rank really high on their list, but if person sees empathy as weakness than Pisces will rank as one of the "weakest" "bad" signs. Really in the end everything boils down to perspective. Like for example needing to take very long time to make important decisions (thats what capricorns are known for) can be taken as: either a) being thoughtfull and considerate and therefore reliable and attractive. or b) slow and inconsiderate of other peoples time and therefore weak. Everything comes down to how we look at the same things, so one sign to some will be almost perfect while to others it will be the most horrible thing ever. 🙂
this is a bad sign altogether.
And of course, it's never their fault.
People reading this should read every single post and use it wisely because it's pretty accurate. I dont suggest anyone get in any relationship with a Pisces. Unless you have a death wish. Because you want to just kill yourself.
-a Capricorn.
Posted by RoanaPosted by username154Ohh no I did mentioned mentaly we can injure like no one else can. Because when you are the one who knows all other persons weaknesses all their fears and their doubts, if the healer becomes attacker we won't strike the person with half asked sharp remarks 🙂 as I said we will destroy person from inside out. Granted once again it's not something that we try to do usually 🙂 but we can if needed.
Based on everything everyone's said they have a weak darkside. give you lots of chances? sharp tounge? psh..click to expand
Posted by DwellingOnMoveWell we rarely actually try to destroy anyone since that really goes against our nature, we need to be pushed passed certain line sooooo far. And usually we try to stop the pushing before we reach that critical point so there is probably a big chance that those people in your life just never reached that point 🙂 ohh and thank you I tried to put what I think into words 😄 nice to hear that I didn't completely failedPosted by RoanaPosted by username154Ohh no I did mentioned mentaly we can injure like no one else can. Because when you are the one who knows all other persons weaknesses all their fears and their doubts, if the healer becomes attacker we won't strike the person with half asked sharp remarks 🙂 as I said we will destroy person from inside out. Granted once again it's not something that we try to do usually 🙂 but we can if needed.
Based on everything everyone's said they have a weak darkside. give you lots of chances? sharp tounge? psh..
I really liked your first post on this page.
Also I want to add my experience with 4-8 Pisces men and women I've known so far. None of them tried to destroy anybody. But of course the change in Pisces behaviour was big and shocked the other side. Something like a dreamed and lost paradise. Maybe people get destroyed by seeing how little their power is.click to expand
Posted by PootyButtHide? Eva looks left, right, up, down, front, then back, uh, we don't HIDE....Cancerians do! All you see is their beady eyes after they crawl back into their shell! 😆
They're very sensitive, and so most of them have had to hide themselves to some extent. That makes them tricksy in unpredictable ways. Sometimes they can hide an entirely different opinion of you than the one you know about, moreso than some others. And the addiction thing is true for many. Although many of them believe they are beyond limiting concepts like "addiction."
Posted by boxcarmirntaThis x100. But enough is enough. If you failed to see how many chances we give you and how many ways we bend to you, and you STILL take us for granted, you get the bad side; the crap we swept under the rug gets revealed
We are real and honest. Wtf else is there to know? We give you a million chances, you blow them all and we finally say no enough is enough. you can fuck with us and we take it for a long time. .we're suckers who fall for liars. We get shit on cuz we're real and sensitive we get taken advantage of very easily. We are scapegoats.
Posted by urbane101Posted by boxcarmirntaThis x100. But enough is enough. If you failed to see how many chances we give you and how many ways we bend to you, and you STILL take us for granted, you get the bad side; the crap we swept under the rug gets revealed
We are real and honest. Wtf else is there to know? We give you a million chances, you blow them all and we finally say no enough is enough. you can fuck with us and we take it for a long time. .we're suckers who fall for liars. We get shit on cuz we're real and sensitive we get taken advantage of very easily. We are scapegoats.click to expand
Posted by cvurko
Yeah we are manipulative and play dumb most of the time but whatever we do, (or abstain of doing) we do because we think its going to result in something positive. Or better. We are wrong some of the times tho ^^
Posted by Shadowcatso you knew my ex too ?
In a nutshell. They're liars, delusional and emotionally manipulative lol.
Posted by Damnatalol - my ex husband ... drove me bananas ...Posted by SeraphlightLmao, they don't say "who I?" innocently. For one, they have control over their actions and what they do and say doesn't escape their awareness, which makes that question futile. They know, there is no need for "who, I?" as if they can't fathom it lmao. And secondly, that confusion doesn't arise from them not knowing what's going on, but the shock that you don't perceive things the way they do which is the Pisces way, which is the only true and right and self-righteous 100% way (Virgos do the same thing but how people don't see it with Pisces is hilarious to me)
They don't flee when someone says ..you did something wrong. They innocently say ..who i? Oh I am sorry. Even if it was not them.
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