For men that lost their virginity early to a older woman do you feel like you was molested

I never went through this but I have been seeing this trend saying that it is, and the kind of effects it has. For example they say if a male lose his virginity early he will be a sex fend. Of the men I know in real life that are really horny like that they did lose their virginity early.... hummmm

No not at all. Actually thankful for the fun learning lesson.

Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown

No. She was actually good to me besides the bedroom too. She wanted to date me forever but I went pretty fast to a girl my age. After divorce I thought of her and always assumed she was nicer to me than my ex wife ever. Kind of shitty feeling to have.

Now I sometimes wonder what zodiac sign she was. Need to figure out which zodiac woman likes 96.

Okay cool I have been seeing women try to brain wash men to think they were molested. But who knows maybe there is a man that think he was in this thread let's see.

Yes I felt molested. It happened when I was trying to figure out my sexuality. Well thankfully it helped with my decision to go with dick

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

Yes I felt molested. It happened when I was trying to figure out my sexuality. Well thankfully it helped with my decision to go with dick

ok so your gay and an older woman force herself on to you... Am I understanding everything correctly if so I can see how you can feel that way.

Posted by GammaArietis

I dated 2 men who were molested by older women as their first sexual experience.

One was hyper sexual. He wanted to have sex 3+ times a day. It ended for unrelated reasons but he admitted he thought he was hyper sexual because his first sexual experience was rape.

The other one was 14 with a 24 year old woman. He was the complete opposite. He would never initiate sex. He thought sex should be a woman seducing a man only, taking the lead and doing things to the man.

Whether or not you feel trauma, your first sexual experiences do shape your views and expectations about sex.

very interesting good points.

Posted by GC11_

You all reminded me that I still need to watch the classic ‘The Graduate’.

Amazing soundtrack, but the ending was the best. *blushing face*

I love Rumor Has It too haha

Posted by GammaArietis

I dated 2 men who were molested by older women as their first sexual experience.

One was hyper sexual. He wanted to have sex 3+ times a day. It ended for unrelated reasons but he admitted he thought he was hyper sexual because his first sexual experience was rape.

The other one was 14 with a 24 year old woman. He was the complete opposite. He would never initiate sex. He thought sex should be a woman seducing a man only, taking the lead and doing things to the man.

Whether or not you feel trauma, your first sexual experiences do shape your views and expectations about sex.

Same experience here. Very same. They either became hyper sexual, one is a sex addict. And another is the opposite.

Sorry for invading the man cave! Interesting topic for me as I’ve known a few men this happened to. Too common it seems.

Posted by AbbyNormal

Posted by GammaArietis

I dated 2 men who were molested by older women as their first sexual experience.

One was hyper sexual. He wanted to have sex 3+ times a day. It ended for unrelated reasons but he admitted he thought he was hyper sexual because his first sexual experience was rape.

The other one was 14 with a 24 year old woman. He was the complete opposite. He would never initiate sex. He thought sex should be a woman seducing a man only, taking the lead and doing things to the man.

Whether or not you feel trauma, your first sexual experiences do shape your views and expectations about sex.

Same experience here. Very same. They either became hyper sexual, one is a sex addict. And another is the opposite.

Sorry for invading the man cave! Interesting topic for me as I’ve known a few men this happened to. Too common it seems.

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no problem ladies can comment especially if she has dated one before.

I dated a guy who was raped at like 11 by his babysitter....I think she was 16 tho so not like a super older woman....but older none the less.

He considered it rape...I guess she forced herself on him. I tried asking questions about it but then felt icky about wanting to know the details so I stopped b4 it got to far. I had never met a guy who had been raped b4 so had lots of questions.

He wasn't hyper sexual but he wasn't not sexual either. He seemed somewhat normal in that regard...altho he had other mental issues.

Posted by virgoking

Posted by AbbyNormal

Posted by GammaArietis

I dated 2 men who were molested by older women as their first sexual experience.

One was hyper sexual. He wanted to have sex 3+ times a day. It ended for unrelated reasons but he admitted he thought he was hyper sexual because his first sexual experience was rape.

The other one was 14 with a 24 year old woman. He was the complete opposite. He would never initiate sex. He thought sex should be a woman seducing a man only, taking the lead and doing things to the man.

Whether or not you feel trauma, your first sexual experiences do shape your views and expectations about sex.

Same experience here. Very same. They either became hyper sexual, one is a sex addict. And another is the opposite.

Sorry for invading the man cave! Interesting topic for me as I’ve known a few men this happened to. Too common it seems.

no problem ladies can comment especially if she has dated one before.

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It seems uncomfortably common. I’ve dated at least 3 guys that had sexual experiences before they were ready. That seems like a lot. You’re not safe whatever sex you’re born with. There are predators out there, or just really selfish people who cannot imagine that their actions affect the other person too. I just feel badly for anyone who is pressured into these things before they are ready.

Well damn I thought I was the only man on here that lost my virginity early.

Tell me something. And I want the truth. Did any of you men (and men only, no women please) started y'all sex activity from a very young age and continued on up till adult non stop?

Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter

Well damn I thought I was the only man on here that lost my virginity early.

Tell me something. And I want the truth. Did any of you men (and men only, no women please) started y'all sex activity from a very young age and continued on up till adult non stop?

That's interesting I can't comment because I lost mine at 18.

Posted by virgoking

Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter

Well damn I thought I was the only man on here that lost my virginity early.

Tell me something. And I want the truth. Did any of you men (and men only, no women please) started y'all sex activity from a very young age and continued on up till adult non stop?

That's interesting I can't comment because I lost mine at 18.

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Oh 18 is considered an adult. I'm talking about started as a baby practically.

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Posted by virgoking

Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter

Well damn I thought I was the only man on here that lost my virginity early.

Tell me something. And I want the truth. Did any of you men (and men only, no women please) started y'all sex activity from a very young age and continued on up till adult non stop?

That's interesting I can't comment because I lost mine at 18.

Oh 18 is considered an adult. I'm talking about started as a baby practically.

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Yeah that's crazy everybody I know said it was a baby sitter. My mom was to broke for a baby sitter lol.

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Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter

Well damn I thought I was the only man on here that lost my virginity early.

Tell me something. And I want the truth. Did any of you men (and men only, no women please) started y'all sex activity from a very young age and continued on up till adult non stop?

That's interesting I can't comment because I lost mine at 18.

Oh 18 is considered an adult. I'm talking about started as a baby practically.

Yeah that's crazy everybody I know said it was a baby sitter. My mom was to broke for a baby sitter lol.

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Uha that's usually how men lose their virginity. Thru their babysitter. That's how I lost mines. I can literally tell you some wild babysitting stories but unfortunately I don't feel like it. I still remember getting thrown in the bed by my babysitter and the rest was history from there on out. If it wasn't for that I would have been a virgin all my life. So instead of me seeing that as being molested, I actually want to thank her.