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Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX
Shout out to the ladies who have lived and don't give a fuck about having a mother Theresa image.👌🏽If I'm single I aspire to get to D by the time I'm 40. Bring on the dick!
I wish I could just go do whatever sometimes. I seriously feel like a prude half the time lol
I used to want to sleep with 21 men by the time I snuffed it
Am over 40 and haven't reached double figures yet and now don't think I want to.....
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Posted by ItsMeRoman
32 and BI’m really wanting to get to C....do some exploring 😎
Ain’t no shame in the game as long as you’re safe
Yes but how to stay safe from #jadedlyfe ?
Prepare yourself for an argument on this one 😖
Why is it men are never warned to stay guarded and protective of their sexuality...in order to prevent being jaded?!
Women are hoe shamed for any form of sexual deviance but also a less experienced woman...she’s warned against becoming jaded by too many partners?!
To me it seems societally we’re pushed to believe we can’t handle giving ourselves over and over from one man to the next but I don’t agree.
A woman’s body is capable of many things and can handle multitudes of things happening to her. Giving birth, periods, hormones, feeding a baby, our bodies changing to adapt each need......
I think we can handle a few or more handfuls of dicks and not end up jaded.
🍆💦 👌🏽
Bc you think with your feelz and we think with our dicks? Oldest story in the book.
Women think with their dicks too, but it usually happens within a very short timespan before they start getting emotionally etangled again..
I've never made an emotional connection through sex.
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How about sex trough emotional connection?
Posted by MyStarsShine
I used to want to sleep with 21 men by the time I snuffed itAm over 40 and haven't reached double figures yet and now don't think I want to.....
My Christmas gift suggestion might speed you up in no time!
And you can explain to a son that this is a therapy for mommy to rest her pretty hands...in case he asks...lol
Posted by MyStarsShine
I used to want to sleep with 21 men by the time I snuffed itAm over 40 and haven't reached double figures yet and now don't think I want to.....
My Christmas gift suggestion might speed you up in no time!
And you can explain to a son that this is a therapy for mommy to rest her pretty hands...in case he asks...lol
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Haha
I don't need to date for the foreseeable future....it's not on my to do list tbh...love my life as it is..👍
Posted by MyStarsShine
I used to want to sleep with 21 men by the time I snuffed itAm over 40 and haven't reached double figures yet and now don't think I want to.....
My Christmas gift suggestion might speed you up in no time!
And you can explain to a son that this is a therapy for mommy to rest her pretty hands...in case he asks...lol
Haha
I don't need to date for the foreseeable future....it's not on my to do list tbh...love my life as it is..👍
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I admire your independence...
B (8 specifically) and I just turned 21.
Posted by Chelsey07
B (8 specifically) and I just turned 21.Woah Im almost you're age and have 0 lol
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Lol different strokes for different folks boo
Posted by Chelsey07
B (8 specifically) and I just turned 21.Woah Im almost you're age and have 0 lol
Lol different strokes for different folks boo
I wasnt saying it was bad "boo"
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I didn't know my comment implied that you thought it was bad. Just saying.
Posted by sultrykitty
I don't think it's anything to be either ashamed of or proud of. It's sex. People do it. Yipee.Whose shaming people? I'm envious. If I could get out of my own way my numbers would be higher.
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If I was single...and had more game, instead of awkward 'flirting' I'd be all over everyone with no shame haha.
Posted by sultrykitty
I don't think it's anything to be either ashamed of or proud of. It's sex. People do it. Yipee.Whose shaming people? I'm envious. If I could get out of my own way my numbers would be higher.
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Just saying. Some might feel ashamed for having a lot of partners because of what some others say. There's no need.
well...... D
Posted by enfant_terrible
When ladies talk numbers iz liekX multiply by 3
And for men it’s divide by 3
Posted by AerialView
A. 5 or lessB. 6 to 10
C. 11 to 20
D. More than 20
E. None (Virgin)
Or you can just mention your specific number. State your age too please.
What's the sluttiest sign here 🙋
*Blowjobs doesn't count.
Lol. This is a question only a S/O or best friend should ask if they’re curious about there partners past.
Posted by AquaNextDoor
What I think is more interesting beside the plain number - how many of them were meaningful ones? Like how many men have you slept with who you thought you'd love/fall for and how many men have you slept with out of fun/curiousity?Now THAT would make it far more interesting.
I am sure most of you have only told the total number that were meaningful to you ^^
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Why would anyone answer this not accurate?
Oh yeh.. wait. Not everyone gets high on details #capmoonproblems
Posted by AquaNextDoor
What I think is more interesting beside the plain number - how many of them were meaningful ones? Like how many men have you slept with who you thought you'd love/fall for and how many men have you slept with out of fun/curiousity?Now THAT would make it far more interesting.
Relationships 5 - 2 of them I married, one is current so who knows
Thinking was going towards relationship but didn’t work out - 2
Rebounds just for fun - 4 (one after each major relationship) 🤷♀️
Lost virginity - stupidity
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I lost my virginity out of stupidity too...
2
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Teena counted me as 21 men, thank you 🤗
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Omg you so know!!!😘😘🤗
So for me that makes
Lost my virginity out of stupidity - 1
Relationship - 4
Meaningful ones/I thought it would get serious - 6
One nighties - 2
Made a mistake in my first post - just like I made mistakes in my past because I was too damn stupid and thought that sex would keep a man around and make him want to settle. LOL
Just had to learn the harsh truth that after every "all I think of is you, I miss you bla bla" won't be a serious relationship. Many men talk such good game and it's easy to fall prey if you are young and naive without much experience. Lessons learned
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Teena counted me as 21 men, thank you 🤗
Omg you so know!!!😘😘🤗
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i think a lot of guys do that with girls 1 girl in reality = 21 girls in his fantasy..
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Teena counted me as 21 men, thank you 🤗
Omg you so know!!!😘😘🤗
i think a lot of guys do that with girls 1 girl in reality = 21 girls in his fantasy..
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LOL!!
I don’t tell...
B. 9 guys
I'm 20
Aries
Fixed signs win lol.
Fixed > Cardinal > Mutable.
Posted by Brittnie
6 as of last month
AND I’m 30
Posted by Sunflowers
I've slept with zero men and i'm fixed sun and moon.
lol
BJs dont count.
and back doors? lmao.
Posted by ItsMeRoman
32 and BI’m really wanting to get to C....do some exploring 😎
Ain’t no shame in the game as long as you’re safe
Yes but how to stay safe from #jadedlyfe ?
Prepare yourself for an argument on this one 😖
Why is it men are never warned to stay guarded and protective of their sexuality...in order to prevent being jaded?!
Women are hoe shamed for any form of sexual deviance but also a less experienced woman...she’s warned against becoming jaded by too many partners?!
To me it seems societally we’re pushed to believe we can’t handle giving ourselves over and over from one man to the next but I don’t agree.
A woman’s body is capable of many things and can handle multitudes of things happening to her. Giving birth, periods, hormones, feeding a baby, our bodies changing to adapt each need......
I think we can handle a few or more handfuls of dicks and not end up jaded.
🍆💦 👌🏽
Bc you think with your feelz and we think with our dicks? Oldest story in the book.
Women think with their dicks too, but it usually happens within a very short timespan before they start getting emotionally etangled again..
I've never made an emotional connection through sex.
Wow......how do you manage that ?
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We're virgos, we don't have emotions...😐
Why do I feel like Kramer in this episode, "I'm out"?
Posted by saggurl88
I've slept with 4 in the last 20 years 😛 High school and college are excluded 😆Gemini, Aqua, Scorp, and Aqua- Oops and a 2 month fling with a stalker Aries- so 5 -not 4.
in college you had a lot of dick and in high school you sucked a lot of coq didn t you
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😆 No! Lmao. I wish I was sucking it in highschool. I would've learned to be better at it and had more practice!
I've made up for lost time though, don't you worry. Nothing gets neglected fucking with me baby. 😍😘😘😘
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I really do like your dirty mouth. 🙈🙊
Posted by NemDeux
666 😈Actually, 665 because we never actually did anything that night... 😆
well, i don't know exactly what you were doing 😂 but i had fun. 😻😻
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Uh yesss yesss I love Cure.
Posted by NemDeux
666 😈Actually, 665 because we never actually did anything that night... 😆
well, i don't know exactly what you were doing 😂 but i had fun. 😻😻
Uh yesss yesss I love Cure.
do you have a favourite song?
i think mine would be "pictures of you".
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"Trust" followed by "close to me" and "just like heaven".
A.
32 y/o
32 y/o
5?
32 y/o
5?
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4
Posted by lesenfantterribles
D , early-mid 30s
Get it girl!
I’m 25
I’m way too picky lol
E.
and i'm 29.
lol don't worry i'm even more picky
Posted by RedemptionSong
35 years oldA. 5 or less
But I'm in my prime so I'm hoping to do some whoring next ye....eh who am I kidding.
Get to it before menopause starts to hit
Black love is as rare as the hope diamond these days. Yolo.
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LMAO.
sad but true
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
i believe there is a correlation between women who are in relationships and women who are notthe more sluttier the more committed men are to you
true story
The sluttier you are in the relationship the more committed men are to you.
Unfortunately women are doing it the other way around. All those things your hubby wanted to try with you and that you shot down are suddenly a top priority when you're singel. 👎
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sexual exploration and satisfaction is a two way street though
guys don't get that.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
i believe there is a correlation between women who are in relationships and women who are notthe more sluttier the more committed men are to you
true story
The sluttier you are in the relationship the more committed men are to you.
Unfortunately women are doing it the other way around. All those things your hubby wanted to try with you and that you shot down are suddenly a top priority when you're singel. 👎
sexual exploration and satisfaction is a two way street though
guys don't get that.
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Oh I see, you're gonna blame it on the man that YOU don't lust for him anymore? It's a normal thing, ppl lose sexual intrest in one another, sometimes for no other reason than familiarity, own it! Stop saying it's something he isn't doing.. not like you didn't know how he was before you got hitched.
Needless to say ppl get comfortable and lazy after a while but don't pretend you're not partially responsible too.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
i believe there is a correlation between women who are in relationships and women who are notthe more sluttier the more committed men are to you
true story
The sluttier you are in the relationship the more committed men are to you.
Unfortunately women are doing it the other way around. All those things your hubby wanted to try with you and that you shot down are suddenly a top priority when you're singel. 👎
sexual exploration and satisfaction is a two way street though
guys don't get that.
Oh I see, you're gonna blame it on the man that YOU don't lust for him anymore? It's a normal thing, ppl lose sexual intrest in one another, sometimes for no other reason than familiarity, own it! Stop saying it's something he isn't doing.. not like you didn't know how he was before you got hitched.
Needless to say ppl get comfortable and lazy after a while but don't pretend you're not partially responsible too.
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No
I'm just saying having a lot of guy friends has privileged me to know that MOST not all but MOST dudes
think sex is about sticking their penis in a hole until their finished.
who cares if the girl climaxes or not or what she really likes or wants in bed.
in short they think porn is real / a legit guide on what sex should be like
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
i believe there is a correlation between women who are in relationships and women who are notthe more sluttier the more committed men are to you
true story
The sluttier you are in the relationship the more committed men are to you.
Unfortunately women are doing it the other way around. All those things your hubby wanted to try with you and that you shot down are suddenly a top priority when you're singel. 👎
sexual exploration and satisfaction is a two way street though
guys don't get that.
Oh I see, you're gonna blame it on the man that YOU don't lust for him anymore? It's a normal thing, ppl lose sexual intrest in one another, sometimes for no other reason than familiarity, own it! Stop saying it's something he isn't doing.. not like you didn't know how he was before you got hitched.
Needless to say ppl get comfortable and lazy after a while but don't pretend you're not partially responsible too.
No
I'm just saying having a lot of guy friends has privileged me to know that MOST not all but MOST dudes
think sex is about sticking their penis in a hole until their finished.
who cares if the girl climaxes or not or what she really likes or wants in bed.
in short they think porn is real / a legit guide on what sex should be like
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Oh really?! So these "guy friends" have disclosed to you that they think sticking their dick in a hole till they're finished is their definition of sex? Stop making shit up
The men you may have dreamed up & referring to are possibly domesticated fuccboys and we all know their whole appeal relies on the game and factors outside the bed. They don't have to make an effort in bed bc women live off the image they project outside the bed . But marry that guy and facade will start cracking and you'll learn what is up.
Back to the topic, there are plenty of women who think that a bjless existence is a liveable one without batting an eye, meanwhile guys should be into your soap opera lovemaking sessions even after 20 years of marriage.. I hardly think your average woman has any business lecturing on what good sex is
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
i believe there is a correlation between women who are in relationships and women who are notthe more sluttier the more committed men are to you
true story
The sluttier you are in the relationship the more committed men are to you.
Unfortunately women are doing it the other way around. All those things your hubby wanted to try with you and that you shot down are suddenly a top priority when you're singel. 👎
sexual exploration and satisfaction is a two way street though
guys don't get that.
Oh I see, you're gonna blame it on the man that YOU don't lust for him anymore? It's a normal thing, ppl lose sexual intrest in one another, sometimes for no other reason than familiarity, own it! Stop saying it's something he isn't doing.. not like you didn't know how he was before you got hitched.
Needless to say ppl get comfortable and lazy after a while but don't pretend you're not partially responsible too.
No
I'm just saying having a lot of guy friends has privileged me to know that MOST not all but MOST dudes
think sex is about sticking their penis in a hole until their finished.
who cares if the girl climaxes or not or what she really likes or wants in bed.
in short they think porn is real / a legit guide on what sex should be like
Oh really?! So these "guy friends" have disclosed to you that they think sticking their dick in a hole till they're finished is their definition of sex? Stop making shit up
The men you may have dreamed up & referring to are possibly domesticated fuccboys and we all know their whole appeal relies on the game and factors outside the bed. They don't have to make an effort in bed bc women live off the image they project outside the bed . But marry that guy and facade will start cracking and you'll learn what is up.
Back to the topic, there are plenty of women who think that a bjless existence is a liveable one without batting an eye, meanwhile guys should be into your soap opera lovemaking sessions even after 20 years of marriage.. I hardly think your average woman has any business lecturing on what good sex is
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No they didn't say that BUT
they shared this sentiment "I hardly think your average woman has any business lecturing on what good sex is"
a good partner knows that sex is not just about what they think
man or female gay or straight
that's the point
my guy friends are always talking about themselves and what they want.....
I thankfully have girlfriends who finally have had some recent partners that are not like the majority of guys
in that they love to go down on my friends ...doesn't matter how long it takes ...... and 9/10 can make them climax and that's before the penis goes anywhere near any orifice.lol
Posted by Leo188881
I'm 36 and on the B side of C...So which sign wins?
Im too lazy to count sorry 😜
Posted by Leo188881
I'm 36 and on the B side of C...So which sign wins?
Im too lazy to count sorry 😜
Let's just say Libra. Those ones can't stay alone
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Bwahahah agree with the can't stand alone part. After all Libra is a relationship sign. But no, not them. Cause I've found them quite picky on who they sleep with.
I think Scorpio is the sluttiest 😜 some of them have high numbers here.
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Agreed, I was the oddball for still being a virgin at 18. out of 6 kids, I was the only one and I'm middle with all my step siblings. I think we same age bracket.
my sister had her daughter at 16
my step sis who is 2 weeks younger had her daughter at 15
my older step sister had her son at 17