Ladies, how many men have you slept with? (Page 2)

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Posted by sultrykitty
The LAST thing any of the girls or guys in my age group (and region, I guess lol) was to be (or be with) a virgin at 18 or 20. It was totally normal to have lost it by 15 or16. That was before HIV/AIDS was really a thing outside the gay male community. We had parents and older siblings who lived through the sexual revolution and the '70's, so having sex with lots of people wasn't really looked at as bad overall. It was more whether you flaunted it or acted like a whore that was looked down on.
Agreed, I was the oddball for still being a virgin at 18. out of 6 kids, I was the only one and I'm middle with all my step siblings. I think we same age bracket.

my sister had her daughter at 16

my step sis who is 2 weeks younger had her daughter at 15

my older step sister had her son at 17

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32 and B

I’m really wanting to get to C....do some exploring 😎

Ain’t no shame in the game as long as you’re safe
Yes but how to stay safe from #jadedlyfe ?
Prepare yourself for an argument on this one 😖

Why is it men are never warned to stay guarded and protective of their sexuality...in order to prevent being jaded?!

Women are hoe shamed for any form of sexual deviance but also a less experienced woman...she’s warned against becoming jaded by too many partners?!

To me it seems societally we’re pushed to believe we can’t handle giving ourselves over and over from one man to the next but I don’t agree.

A woman’s body is capable of many things and can handle multitudes of things happening to her. Giving birth, periods, hormones, feeding a baby, our bodies changing to adapt each need......

I think we can handle a few or more handfuls of dicks and not end up jaded.

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Bc you think with your feelz and we think with our dicks? Oldest story in the book.

Women think with their dicks too, but it usually happens within a very short timespan before they start getting emotionally etangled again..


I've never made an emotional connection through sex.
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How about sex trough emotional connection?
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I used to want to sleep with 21 men by the time I snuffed it

Am over 40 and haven't reached double figures yet and now don't think I want to.....
My Christmas gift suggestion might speed you up in no time!

And you can explain to a son that this is a therapy for mommy to rest her pretty hands...in case he asks...lol
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Haha

I don't need to date for the foreseeable future....it's not on my to do list tbh...love my life as it is..👍
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I used to want to sleep with 21 men by the time I snuffed it

Am over 40 and haven't reached double figures yet and now don't think I want to.....
My Christmas gift suggestion might speed you up in no time!

And you can explain to a son that this is a therapy for mommy to rest her pretty hands...in case he asks...lol
Haha

I don't need to date for the foreseeable future....it's not on my to do list tbh...love my life as it is..👍
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I admire your independence...
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Posted by sultrykitty
I don't think it's anything to be either ashamed of or proud of. It's sex. People do it. Yipee.
Whose shaming people? I'm envious. If I could get out of my own way my numbers would be higher.
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If I was single...and had more game, instead of awkward 'flirting' I'd be all over everyone with no shame haha.
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I don't think it's anything to be either ashamed of or proud of. It's sex. People do it. Yipee.
Whose shaming people? I'm envious. If I could get out of my own way my numbers would be higher.
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Just saying. Some might feel ashamed for having a lot of partners because of what some others say. There's no need.
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What I think is more interesting beside the plain number - how many of them were meaningful ones? Like how many men have you slept with who you thought you'd love/fall for and how many men have you slept with out of fun/curiousity?

Now THAT would make it far more interesting.
I am sure most of you have only told the total number that were meaningful to you ^^
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Why would anyone answer this not accurate?

Oh yeh.. wait. Not everyone gets high on details #capmoonproblems
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What I think is more interesting beside the plain number - how many of them were meaningful ones? Like how many men have you slept with who you thought you'd love/fall for and how many men have you slept with out of fun/curiousity?

Now THAT would make it far more interesting.
Relationships 5 - 2 of them I married, one is current so who knows

Thinking was going towards relationship but didn’t work out - 2

Rebounds just for fun - 4 (one after each major relationship) 🤷‍♀️

Lost virginity - stupidity

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I lost my virginity out of stupidity too...
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So for me that makes

Lost my virginity out of stupidity - 1

Relationship - 4

Meaningful ones/I thought it would get serious - 6

One nighties - 2

Made a mistake in my first post - just like I made mistakes in my past because I was too damn stupid and thought that sex would keep a man around and make him want to settle. LOL

Just had to learn the harsh truth that after every "all I think of is you, I miss you bla bla" won't be a serious relationship. Many men talk such good game and it's easy to fall prey if you are young and naive without much experience. Lessons learned
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32 and B

I’m really wanting to get to C....do some exploring 😎

Ain’t no shame in the game as long as you’re safe
Yes but how to stay safe from #jadedlyfe ?
Prepare yourself for an argument on this one 😖

Why is it men are never warned to stay guarded and protective of their sexuality...in order to prevent being jaded?!

Women are hoe shamed for any form of sexual deviance but also a less experienced woman...she’s warned against becoming jaded by too many partners?!

To me it seems societally we’re pushed to believe we can’t handle giving ourselves over and over from one man to the next but I don’t agree.

A woman’s body is capable of many things and can handle multitudes of things happening to her. Giving birth, periods, hormones, feeding a baby, our bodies changing to adapt each need......

I think we can handle a few or more handfuls of dicks and not end up jaded.

🍆💦 👌🏽




Bc you think with your feelz and we think with our dicks? Oldest story in the book.

Women think with their dicks too, but it usually happens within a very short timespan before they start getting emotionally etangled again..


I've never made an emotional connection through sex.
Wow......how do you manage that ?

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We're virgos, we don't have emotions...😐
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I've slept with 4 in the last 20 years 😛 High school and college are excluded 😆

Gemini, Aqua, Scorp, and Aqua- Oops and a 2 month fling with a stalker Aries- so 5 -not 4.
in college you had a lot of dick and in high school you sucked a lot of coq didn t you

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😆 No! Lmao. I wish I was sucking it in highschool. I would've learned to be better at it and had more practice!

I've made up for lost time though, don't you worry. Nothing gets neglected fucking with me baby. 😍😘😘😘







😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I really do like your dirty mouth. 🙈🙊
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666 😈

Actually, 665 because we never actually did anything that night... 😆


well, i don't know exactly what you were doing 😂 but i had fun. 😻😻




Uh yesss yesss I love Cure.
do you have a favourite song?

i think mine would be "pictures of you".
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"Trust" followed by "close to me" and "just like heaven".
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i believe there is a correlation between women who are in relationships and women who are not

the more sluttier the more committed men are to you

true story
The sluttier you are in the relationship the more committed men are to you.

Unfortunately women are doing it the other way around. All those things your hubby wanted to try with you and that you shot down are suddenly a top priority when you're singel. 👎
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sexual exploration and satisfaction is a two way street though

guys don't get that.

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i believe there is a correlation between women who are in relationships and women who are not

the more sluttier the more committed men are to you

true story
The sluttier you are in the relationship the more committed men are to you.

Unfortunately women are doing it the other way around. All those things your hubby wanted to try with you and that you shot down are suddenly a top priority when you're singel. 👎
sexual exploration and satisfaction is a two way street though

guys don't get that.

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Oh I see, you're gonna blame it on the man that YOU don't lust for him anymore? It's a normal thing, ppl lose sexual intrest in one another, sometimes for no other reason than familiarity, own it! Stop saying it's something he isn't doing.. not like you didn't know how he was before you got hitched.

Needless to say ppl get comfortable and lazy after a while but don't pretend you're not partially responsible too.





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i believe there is a correlation between women who are in relationships and women who are not

the more sluttier the more committed men are to you

true story
The sluttier you are in the relationship the more committed men are to you.

Unfortunately women are doing it the other way around. All those things your hubby wanted to try with you and that you shot down are suddenly a top priority when you're singel. 👎
sexual exploration and satisfaction is a two way street though

guys don't get that.





Oh I see, you're gonna blame it on the man that YOU don't lust for him anymore? It's a normal thing, ppl lose sexual intrest in one another, sometimes for no other reason than familiarity, own it! Stop saying it's something he isn't doing.. not like you didn't know how he was before you got hitched.

Needless to say ppl get comfortable and lazy after a while but don't pretend you're not partially responsible too.





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No

I'm just saying having a lot of guy friends has privileged me to know that MOST not all but MOST dudes

think sex is about sticking their penis in a hole until their finished.

who cares if the girl climaxes or not or what she really likes or wants in bed.

in short they think porn is real / a legit guide on what sex should be like
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Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
i believe there is a correlation between women who are in relationships and women who are not

the more sluttier the more committed men are to you

true story
The sluttier you are in the relationship the more committed men are to you.

Unfortunately women are doing it the other way around. All those things your hubby wanted to try with you and that you shot down are suddenly a top priority when you're singel. 👎
sexual exploration and satisfaction is a two way street though

guys don't get that.





Oh I see, you're gonna blame it on the man that YOU don't lust for him anymore? It's a normal thing, ppl lose sexual intrest in one another, sometimes for no other reason than familiarity, own it! Stop saying it's something he isn't doing.. not like you didn't know how he was before you got hitched.

Needless to say ppl get comfortable and lazy after a while but don't pretend you're not partially responsible too.






No

I'm just saying having a lot of guy friends has privileged me to know that MOST not all but MOST dudes

think sex is about sticking their penis in a hole until their finished.

who cares if the girl climaxes or not or what she really likes or wants in bed.

in short they think porn is real / a legit guide on what sex should be like

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Oh really?! So these "guy friends" have disclosed to you that they think sticking their dick in a hole till they're finished is their definition of sex? Stop making shit up

The men you may have dreamed up & referring to are possibly domesticated fuccboys and we all know their whole appeal relies on the game and factors outside the bed. They don't have to make an effort in bed bc women live off the image they project outside the bed . But marry that guy and facade will start cracking and you'll learn what is up.

Back to the topic, there are plenty of women who think that a bjless existence is a liveable one without batting an eye, meanwhile guys should be into your soap opera lovemaking sessions even after 20 years of marriage.. I hardly think your average woman has any business lecturing on what good sex is

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Posted by enfant_terrible
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Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
i believe there is a correlation between women who are in relationships and women who are not

the more sluttier the more committed men are to you

true story
The sluttier you are in the relationship the more committed men are to you.

Unfortunately women are doing it the other way around. All those things your hubby wanted to try with you and that you shot down are suddenly a top priority when you're singel. 👎
sexual exploration and satisfaction is a two way street though

guys don't get that.





Oh I see, you're gonna blame it on the man that YOU don't lust for him anymore? It's a normal thing, ppl lose sexual intrest in one another, sometimes for no other reason than familiarity, own it! Stop saying it's something he isn't doing.. not like you didn't know how he was before you got hitched.

Needless to say ppl get comfortable and lazy after a while but don't pretend you're not partially responsible too.






No

I'm just saying having a lot of guy friends has privileged me to know that MOST not all but MOST dudes

think sex is about sticking their penis in a hole until their finished.

who cares if the girl climaxes or not or what she really likes or wants in bed.

in short they think porn is real / a legit guide on what sex should be like


Oh really?! So these "guy friends" have disclosed to you that they think sticking their dick in a hole till they're finished is their definition of sex? Stop making shit up

The men you may have dreamed up & referring to are possibly domesticated fuccboys and we all know their whole appeal relies on the game and factors outside the bed. They don't have to make an effort in bed bc women live off the image they project outside the bed . But marry that guy and facade will start cracking and you'll learn what is up.

Back to the topic, there are plenty of women who think that a bjless existence is a liveable one without batting an eye, meanwhile guys should be into your soap opera lovemaking sessions even after 20 years of marriage.. I hardly think your average woman has any business lecturing on what good sex is



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No they didn't say that BUT

they shared this sentiment "I hardly think your average woman has any business lecturing on what good sex is"



a good partner knows that sex is not just about what they think

man or female gay or straight

that's the point

my guy friends are always talking about themselves and what they want.....

I thankfully have girlfriends who finally have had some recent partners that are not like the majority of guys

in that they love to go down on my friends ...doesn't matter how long it takes ...... and 9/10 can make them climax and that's before the penis goes anywhere near any orifice.lol
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I'm 36 and on the B side of C...

So which sign wins?
Im too lazy to count sorry 😜
Let's just say Libra. Those ones can't stay alone
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Bwahahah agree with the can't stand alone part. After all Libra is a relationship sign. But no, not them. Cause I've found them quite picky on who they sleep with.

I think Scorpio is the sluttiest 😜 some of them have high numbers here.