Aqua girl virgo guy love triangle

I have a boyfriend who is a virgo. Handsome careing loves me and jas a good job. Only issues are lack of attention, he is workaholic, and brings up off the wall topics that cause little arguments intentionally.

At work i have co worker who so happens to be an Aquarius. He is some what attractive, nicer body more cut. Past few montgs he's given me a lot of attention, and puts in effort to talk to me, and call he even said he thinks he is falling in love with me. But Its things i know about him, like i know he is player, lier, and flirt. But i like him and he keeps coming for me ands says he wants a relationship. Its just i wish my boyfriend would listen to me give me more attention and stop causeing issues by complaining about little petty issues.

I have venus in pices is probably why i cant let my boyfriend go and stop daydreaming about this other guy thats not really any better.

Its like im in love with 2 guys and im stuck on my decision.

How do i get my virgo guy to listen and change for us.

Im going to be honest since i am asking for advice.

One day when my boyfriend dropped me off to work early i had my co worker pick me up and i he drove me to his house were we had sex. It was amazing it was differnt sleeping with him becuse for past 2 years i only had sex with my boyfriend. My co worker was much larger so it felt uncomfortable at first but amazing after i got use to it . But i regreted it once we got back to work i sat at my desk hating myself and avoiding him. I cried on the restroom floor knowing i doomed my relationship with good man. I cinvunced my self i needed to break up with Steve but he text me how much he loves me and he plans on marriage and having children in our future. Im just all torn up in side as i cry typing all this in disgust.

I think Deep down, you should just tell him, before he learns from it another way. Honesty is key and i'm not saying it's easy. It's definitely not, but if you should tell him, relationships can be salvage when people admit their faults and own them. That's my suggestion of course. Peace & Love dear.

Wait... you had sex with the other guy?



Break up w my poor man Steve, he doesn't deserve that.

Posted by Virqua
I have a boyfriend who is a virgo. Handsome careing loves me and jas a good job. Only issues are lack of attention, he is workaholic, and brings up off the wall topics that cause little arguments intentionally.

At work i have co worker who so happens to be an Aquarius. He is some what attractive, nicer body more cut. Past few montgs he's given me a lot of attention, and puts in effort to talk to me, and call he even said he thinks he is falling in love with me. But Its things i know about him, like i know he is player, lier, and flirt. But i like him and he keeps coming for me ands says he wants a relationship. Its just i wish my boyfriend would listen to me give me more attention and stop causeing issues by complaining about little petty issues.

I have venus in pices is probably why i cant let my boyfriend go and stop daydreaming about this other guy thats not really any better.

Its like im in love with 2 guys and im stuck on my decision.

How do i get my virgo guy to listen and change for us.

He is not going to change you're dating a workaholic either accept it or leave. As for the other dude that is just you needing attention because you're not getting it at home. If you love your man keep your legs closed to this man and the possibilities.

Posted by Virqua
Im going to be honest since i am asking for advice.

One day when my boyfriend dropped me off to work early i had my co worker pick me up and i he drove me to his house were we had sex. It was amazing it was differnt sleeping with him becuse for past 2 years i only had sex with my boyfriend. My co worker was much larger so it felt uncomfortable at first but amazing after i got use to it . But i regreted it once we got back to work i sat at my desk hating myself and avoiding him. I cried on the restroom floor knowing i doomed my relationship with good man. I cinvunced my self i needed to break up with Steve but he text me how much he loves me and he plans on marriage and having children in our future. Im just all torn up in side as i cry typing all this in disgust.

Oh so you already banged him. I love my Aquarian freaks we just can't resist a good rump here and there. lol No seriously. You need to get a reign on your impulsive ways because this is not how you solve feeling neglected. And never eat where you take a dump (aka your job) now you have to a constant reminder at work everyday about what you did.

Regardless Virqua, as to whether or not your SO is a Virgent.

Leave him, you have already succumbed to the temptation of cheating, and so easily so.

Allow him to move on, and to find someone that is worth his while.

Whilst you decide whether or not you would like to be with the Water Bearer, or move on yourself as well.

That is as honest as a piece of advice in which I could give you, given your situation.

Wait so is the op a Virgo or aqua?

Im aquarius

With venus in pices

And blame all my problem on my venus. But its no ecxcuse

I tried to break things off with my boyfriend before i actually cheated. But he emailed me a long letter wanting to know what he did wrong and he could fix us. I felt as if i was picking a fight and creating reasons to leave him. After having sex with my co worker i fell more in love with him. But i regreted the fact i fucked my co worker. My boyfriend has seen us talking in parking lot once. he asked about him and lied.

Last night while making love to my boyfriend i closed my eyes imgined he was my co worker the entire time. I even text him goodnight while my boyfriend layed asleep next to me. I check my phone waiting for his reply. I cant leave my boyfriend thats how i know its more infactuacation with my co worker. Because i cant imagine my life with him and i know i will never sleep with him again. Im good at resisting temptation unless its somthing really want do regardless of sombody elses feeling.

Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Wait... you had sex with the other guy?



Break up w my poor man Steve, he doesn't deserve that.

I thought Steve is the player guy...

Telling my boyfriend is out of tge question he is not soo forgiving as i am. I forgave an ex once for cheating. His last girl cheated on him and canceled thier engagement and took back the ring too pawn it. He already said i will fight for you but if i was to cheat its over forever. I dny wabt to loose him. I am reay considering quiting the job i love.

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Wait... you had sex with the other guy?



Break up w my poor man Steve, he doesn't deserve that.

I thought Steve is the player guy...

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I have no idea.

Break up with your boyfriend.

2k17 the year for Virgos ??

I think the best thing to do is tell my boyfriend and if he forgives me i will quite my job. If he leaves me i will see were things go with my co worker if get played i will take it as a lesson learned.

Didnt mean to put his name out there but Steve is my boyfriend.

He will be here in 20 minutes i dnt think have no choice but to tell him and break up with him. My mind is right. My heart is confusing it. My co worker is who i need to be with. I akreafy screwed up this relationship i cant continue a lie.

Thank you guys i really appreciate it.

He hit me, he slpped me nd pushed me out of our apartment. Tat son of a bitch hit me I dnt deserve that shit, I nk im gngg to kep fucking my co worker since he wants to be a bitch about it. I can not believe this is happening my god he hit me. I never thought in billion fucking years he would touch me like that. I fucking loved him and i still do but i csnt be abused likevtnis im a women he supose tbe tge man annf prottect mee

Nh

Kooi yyrjm.mmuh

Im soo so sorry but i should have never used any of you guys advice.

My girlfriend picked me up sitting at my boyfriend steps in the rain. She wabts me to call tge police but im not takinf advice from anyone ever again i will maje my mistakes and learn frim tgem. Hopefully me and steven can one day get back together. I do love him. I know he is just hurt and he needs me. Its my fault all of this. To the people who inboxed me thank u but its my decision.

Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Wait... you had sex with the other guy?



Break up w my poor man Steve, he doesn't deserve that.

This.

If you're gonna sleep around and have interest in other guys just leave.

Posted by Virqua
Im soo so sorry but i should have never used any of you guys advice.

My girlfriend picked me up sitting at my boyfriend steps in the rain. She wabts me to call tge police but im not takinf advice from anyone ever again i will maje my mistakes and learn frim tgem. Hopefully me and steven can one day get back together. I do love him. I know he is just hurt and he needs me. Its my fault all of this. To the people who inboxed me thank u but its my decision.

You may have caused him to get angry by sleeping with someone else...but it's not your fault he hit you. You did F up by cheating, but don't use that as an excuse for someone else to physically hurt you. I've learned to take everyone's advice with a grain of salt - you ultimately need to do what's right for YOU, NOT anyone else. If you even read this...I hope you get it all figured out soon.

Posted by Virqua
He hit me, he slpped me nd pushed me out of our apartment. Tat son of a bitch hit me I dnt deserve that shit, I nk im gngg to kep fucking my co worker since he wants to be a bitch about it. I can not believe this is happening my god he hit me. I never thought in billion fucking years he would touch me like that. I fucking loved him and i still do but i csnt be abused likevtnis im a women he supose tbe tge man annf prottect mee

Nh

Kooi yyrjm.mmuh

This relationship was doomed since you cheated, that will always be a part of your relationship's history. Now the relationship is even more doomed since he hit you, that too will always be a part of this relationship's history.

For the love of God, just stay away from each other. I don't see this ever becoming a permanent and stable thing, even if you forgive one another. You'll have these pieces of history at the back of your minds always.

I'd like to add in that I don't feel sorry for you though. Next time leave if you know you're eager to open your legs for another.

Ho ho hooooooooo......

I called my co worker to let him know i wont be in today and that im single. So we can openly hang out if he wanted too but strickly platonic given what just happened, sex and kissing was not on my mind. He sounded agitated when we talked, he kept rushing me off the phone. Then said i was damged anyway and he cant trust a women who sleeps with another man while in relationship. so i called him lying peace of shit for leading me on. This is much his fault as it mines. A hour later He texts me too keep what we did priviet because he has a girlfriend and does not want all of this to get out..really motherfucker.... Aquarius guys typical. You have girlfriend but you flirt wuth everygirl in tge building... i only gave his ugly ass a chance because i felt pressured too and thought i was falling in love.

My venus is the problem. Neglect her and see how alone she will feel inside. Not that i didnt love my boyfriend i just fell for a trap so stupidly because i let my heart paint a image of sombidy else i never really wanted. Except but to feel love.

Smh

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Posted by Virqua
He hit me, he slpped me nd pushed me out of our apartment. Tat son of a bitch hit me I dnt deserve that shit, I nk im gngg to kep fucking my co worker since he wants to be a bitch about it. I can not believe this is happening my god he hit me. I never thought in billion fucking years he would touch me like that. I fucking loved him and i still do but i csnt be abused likevtnis im a women he supose tbe tge man annf prottect mee

Nh

Kooi yyrjm.mmuh

? Your last post said he would be there in 20 min. So add 20min, your confession, an escalation, back and forth, he hits you.... he kicks you out.

You sob, you managed to get kicked out with your phone still in hand. And you manage to get back on DXP to communicate to everyone that he just hit you?!?!



All in less than 1 hour

Riiiiiiight. Your trolling ?

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I thought about that too. I just hope its mot a joke. Cuz i feel bad about this situation for Everyone involved.

This is embarrassing as it is im sorry for the drama and irrational post, but i just lost my fucking job. For having inappropriate work relationship. I really dont know whst to do at this point. Im so depressed abd i look lije some ho fir falling fir sombody else.

I never did anything like this before. Stupid me, I guess i should just end it all.

Sounds like a mexican soap opera narrated in chinese.

Im not commiting suicide i tnought about it but im ending it all, all tge negativity in my heart abd in this city. Im leaving everything behind. Im tsking all i have and tsking a train out of New York City. My bestfriend stays in Jersey he agreed to let me stay with him until i am mentally well agsin.

@IamAries

Im sorry when i get angry my typing is a mess. I can barly hold it together to talk or thnnk clearly.

Posted by Virqua
I have a boyfriend who is a virgo. Only issues are lack of attention, he is workaholic, and brings up off the wall topics that cause little arguments intentionally. How do i get my virgo guy to listen and change for us.

At work i have co worker who so happens to be an Aquarius. But Its things i know about him, like i know he is player, lier, and flirt.

If you weren't able to change the workaholic Virgo what makes you think you can change the Aquarius being a player, lier, and flirt?

Posted by Virqua
I called my co worker to let him know i wont be in today and that im single. So we can openly hang out if he wanted too but strickly platonic given what just happened, sex and kissing was not on my mind. He sounded agitated when we talked, he kept rushing me off the phone. Then said i was damged anyway and he cant trust a women who sleeps with another man while in relationship. so i called him lying peace of shit for leading me on. This is much his fault as it mines. A hour later He texts me too keep what we did priviet because he has a girlfriend and does not want all of this to get out..really motherfucker.... Aquarius guys typical. You have girlfriend but you flirt wuth everygirl in tge building... i only gave his ugly ass a chance because i felt pressured too and thought i was falling in love.

Wow shocking. Not.

Its not his fault whatsoever. He didn't promise fidelity to your virgo...you did. You'll get a lot more growth out of life if you stop pushing blame onto others and own up to your actions.

Posted by Virqua
Im not commiting suicide i tnought about it but im ending it all, all tge negativity in my heart abd in this city. Im leaving everything behind. Im tsking all i have and tsking a train out of New York City. My bestfriend stays in Jersey he agreed to let me stay with him until i am mentally well agsin.

Not yet. Wait until you find out that Steve is your long lost brother, the one you thought had died when you were a baby!

Edit: im sorry but having a really hard time believing this shit!

@LadyofNeptune

If you are a pices then you know how my heart feels dont pretend that we dont give in to love. My venus in pices is to blame. I am rational being i never would have done this if it wasnt for feeling of rejection i felt from steve i made up in my heart and constant fantasy about a man who used me. I lost the love of my life i was never in a realationship past few month's. Steven was the longest and hardest relationship i have ever been in.

I hope he can forgive so we can put this behind us.

@EveryOunce

You are right and i have. I have decided to clear my head from everything. I dnt need to be stressed abd depressed you have handsome face by the way.

Posted by Virqua
@EveryOunce

You are right and i have. I have decided to clear my head from everything. I dnt need to be stressed abd depressed you have handsome face by the way.

You're a troll. Go away.

Whats a troll? And i take it back, i was just being nice

Why do ppl say this happen in few hours this has been since yesterday morning??

Whst is a troll?

I feel so depressed every one is calling me a troll its like either nobody believes me or everybody blames me. Thanx you kick sombidy when they are already low and down in life. I feel nothing but disgust and hurt .

I'm not calling you a troll, it just how the story happened so fast, it's almost unrealistic. If you really did what you and this happened to you, then i'm sorry.

You need to own up to your mistakes. Him putting hands on you was dead wrong that said you weren't blameless from your affair with the aquarius man.

Communication was needed in the relationship. Cleary you both were lacking on this area. You should have had a very Big convo with him and things don't change then you should have left him, if you were still unhappy.

I give you the benefit of the doubt that this isn't some troll post. I just hope you earn a lesson from it. Peace & Love

Posted by Virqua
Im aquarius

With venus in pices

And blame all my problem on my venus. But its no ecxcuse

I have Pisces Venus and I've NEVER cheated! ?

@MadMarchRam

But have you ever day dreamed about sombody else while in a relationship. I end up doing it all the time. And honestly other then this 1 incident ive never cheated

Posted by Virqua
I called my co worker to let him know i wont be in today and that im single. So we can openly hang out if he wanted too but strickly platonic given what just happened, sex and kissing was not on my mind. He sounded agitated when we talked, he kept rushing me off the phone. Then said i was damged anyway and he cant trust a women who sleeps with another man while in relationship. so i called him lying peace of shit for leading me on. This is much his fault as it mines. A hour later He texts me too keep what we did priviet because he has a girlfriend and does not want all of this to get out..really motherfucker.... Aquarius guys typical. You have girlfriend but you flirt wuth everygirl in tge building... i only gave his ugly ass a chance because i felt pressured too and thought i was falling in love.

You did this to yourself!

How did you not know your co-worker had a gf? But tbh that's irrelevant as YOU had a bf anyway.

You got played, whilst playing!

Then have the cheek to blame it on your Venus WTF?!? It was your twitching vaj!

Take some responsibility for your actions!

??

Posted by Virqua
@MadMarchRam

But have you ever day dreamed about sombody else while in a relationship. I end up doing it all the time. And honestly other then this 1 incident ive never cheated

Nope! More like I've day dreamed about things being better between me and my partner at the time. But never cheating.

@MadMarchRam

Excuse Me!!

My twitching vaj??... i may have F..k another man foolishly with out condidering my boyfriends feelings.. but my vaj.. is not what caused me to do it, it was my heart. i felt love not lust. those are completely 2 different to compare.

If my so called man wasnt spending half the day at work and the other hslf with his friends.

i would have never even stepped out. Because i would have felt loved

I didnt spend constantly day dreaming about other guys. Just when i starte a new job and got all the attention from a hot guy. i have and i do admit i vision us making out but not like what i had with this particular guy. I always day dream about my boyfriend too. Thsts how i escsp the problems in my relationship. I have always let things go. I even apologise for sh..t i didnt even do so he wont storm out leaving me crying on the restroom floor. I do anything to please him. So it took a lot for me to step out i felt what i missing from another man. But he wasnt who i wanted.

Posted by Virqua
Telling my boyfriend is out of tge question he is not soo forgiving as i am. I forgave an ex once for cheating. His last girl cheated on him and canceled thier engagement and took back the ring too pawn it. He already said i will fight for you but if i was to cheat its over forever. I dny wabt to loose him. I am reay considering quiting the job i love.

Why should he forgive you ?

You cheated. That is all there is to it.

@TheLadyScorpio

So if sombody you LOVED!!! Cheated. You would end it..even if it was problem leading up. That they verbally expressed to you and cried to you about. Then admitted it too you aweek afterwards. And were willing to wuite a job tgey loved to focus on you...you woukd still end it after all that effort....so i guess love is just a word.

Posted by Virqua
@MadMarchRam

Excuse Me!!

My twitching vaj??... i may have F..k another man foolishly with out condidering my boyfriends feelings.. but my vaj.. is not what caused me to do it, it was my heart. i felt love not lust. those are completely 2 different to compare.

If my so called man wasnt spending half the day at work and the other hslf with his friends.

i would have never even stepped out. Because i would have felt loved

You know fine well you didn't have real feelings for this guy. He just came along and gave you attention when you were feeling vulnerable and it worked.

You should have told him to stop and had little to do with him other than Work after that. YOU chose to entertain his attention, even talked about him like a back up plan, in case you ex bf didn't forgive you ?

Take some time out to gather yourself after everything that's happened and hopefully come out the other side more focused.

@yupvirgoo

Im not apologizing it away. It hurts bad what i did. But iam hopeful me and my ex boyfriend will work things out in the end. I feel he will heal in time and we will talk about it and make things right again.