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She thinks you are a coward and that she dodged a bullet.

That's rude.

And so is your half baked dumping and ghosting.

I am not good at breakups, I ended things because I couldn't trust her anymore. Did I trigger a past wound?
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You triggered honest, straight talking.

Something you should have done with her šŸ˜‰
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React to what? You dumping her or you trying to come back after dumping her in a cowardly way and trying to reappear after 5 weeks?

There's an event, we both have to go, it's sort of a compulsion.

If she’s anything like me she might walk by you like she don’t even know you. Lol but I don’t know.. keep us posted let us know how it turns out
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She and her friends would probably gang up on me again.
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She thinks you are a coward and that she dodged a bullet.

That's rude.

And so is your half baked dumping and ghosting.

I am not good at breakups, I ended things because I couldn't trust her anymore. Did I trigger a past wound?

It’s good that you recognize this in yourself. Maybe it’s something to work on. Do you have libra in your chart? Afraid of confrontation?
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Gemini moon.
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Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?

If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.

She knows why.
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Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
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Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?

If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.

She knows why.

Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
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Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
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Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?

If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.

She knows why.

Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.

Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
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I hate being ghosted. Atleast be brave enough to tell me to go fuck myself in person! Guess I'm getting old and I'm old school.
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Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?

If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.

She knows why.

Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.

Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.

I hate being ghosted. Atleast be brave enough to tell me to go fuck myself in person! Guess I'm getting old and I'm old school.
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You’re a respectful person
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Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?

If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.

She knows why.

Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.

Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
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is that how you justify behaving in a toxic way?
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How long were you together before the ghosting?

1y3m
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Ghosting is fine if it’s a short relationship, early days.

But dude… over a year?! That’s shitty of you. She deserved closure. You know this.

But you texting her now is not about her, it’s about you. You not wanting to feel uncomfortable at having to see her again at this compulsory event.

Texting her now is just adding insult to injury.

Balls up and take it on the chin. You made this bed so lie in it.

Feeling awkward for a few hours at this event is nothing compared to what you put her through by ghosting. Sac up.
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How long were you together before the ghosting?

1y3m

Ghosting is fine if it’s a short relationship, early days.

But dude… over a year?! That’s shitty of you. She deserved closure. You know this.

But you texting her now is not about her, it’s about you. You not wanting to feel uncomfortable at having to see her again at this compulsory event.

Texting her now is just adding insult to injury.

Balls up and take it on the chin. You made this bed so lie in it.

Feeling awkward for a few hours at this event is nothing compared to what you put her through by ghosting. Sac up.
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I am not texting her.
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Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?

If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.

She knows why.

Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.

Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.

is that how you justify behaving in a toxic way?
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Ok, I never said I'm ghosting her, and it's complicated means she's not fond of making the first move or starting a conversation, and I don't need to.
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Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?

If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.

She knows why.

Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.

Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.

I hate being ghosted. Atleast be brave enough to tell me to go fuck myself in person! Guess I'm getting old and I'm old school.
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I did that but not in person because I wasn't in town, this vacation gave me time to think about things. Also, I did it this way simply because I know I wouldn't be able to, why feelings tend to creep in.
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Posted by Carl8
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How long were you together before the ghosting?

1y3m

Ghosting is fine if it’s a short relationship, early days.

But dude… over a year?! That’s shitty of you. She deserved closure. You know this.

But you texting her now is not about her, it’s about you. You not wanting to feel uncomfortable at having to see her again at this compulsory event.

Texting her now is just adding insult to injury.

Balls up and take it on the chin. You made this bed so lie in it.

Feeling awkward for a few hours at this event is nothing compared to what you put her through by ghosting. Sac up.

I am not texting her.
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Good. Just take the L. In the long run it’s gonna prove to be less awkward for the both of you.
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She thinks you are a coward and that she dodged a bullet.

That's rude.

And so is your half baked dumping and ghosting.

I am not good at breakups, I ended things because I couldn't trust her anymore. Did I trigger a past wound?
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If you are not good with break ups you aren’t good to be in a relationship
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Scorp to scorp…. You miss her, don’t you? Lol you can be honest šŸ¤”

I couldn't trust her anymore though i still ....

A lot of times we get in our own way with those pesky trust issues. Is it really her that you don’t trust? Is it something that she did directly to betray your trust, or does she just trigger insecurities in you?
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She did something, but point of this topic is to get a rough idea on how she feels..
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Scorp to scorp…. You miss her, don’t you? Lol you can be honest šŸ¤”

I couldn't trust her anymore though i still ....

A lot of times we get in our own way with those pesky trust issues. Is it really her that you don’t trust? Is it something that she did directly to betray your trust, or does she just trigger insecurities in you?

She did something, but point of this topic is to get a rough idea on how she feels..
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We can't put ourselves in her shoes to feel what she may feel if we don't know what she has done.
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Scorp to scorp…. You miss her, don’t you? Lol you can be honest šŸ¤”

I couldn't trust her anymore though i still ....

A lot of times we get in our own way with those pesky trust issues. Is it really her that you don’t trust? Is it something that she did directly to betray your trust, or does she just trigger insecurities in you?

She did something, but point of this topic is to get a rough idea on how she feels..

Why not ask her directly
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Should I? Pisces probably will feel bad.
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Scorp to scorp…. You miss her, don’t you? Lol you can be honest šŸ¤”

I couldn't trust her anymore though i still ....

A lot of times we get in our own way with those pesky trust issues. Is it really her that you don’t trust? Is it something that she did directly to betray your trust, or does she just trigger insecurities in you?

She did something, but point of this topic is to get a rough idea on how she feels..

We can't put ourselves in her shoes to feel what she may feel if we don't know what she has done.
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And I couldn't understand her in a year.
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Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?

If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.

She knows why.

Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.

Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
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Did she respond to your break-up message at all? If so, how was her reaction?

Was it a "“mmkay" or "can we talk?"
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Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?

If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.

She knows why.

Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.

Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.

Did she respond to your break-up message at all? If so, how was her reaction?

Was it a "“mmkay" or "can we talk?"
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She acted like she didn't get that message.
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Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?

If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.

She knows why.

Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.

Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.

Did she respond to your break-up message at all? If so, how was her reaction?

Was it a "“mmkay" or "can we talk?"

She acted like she didn't get that message.
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She’s karma ghosting you

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Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?

If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.

She knows why.

Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.

Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.

Did she respond to your break-up message at all? If so, how was her reaction?

Was it a "“mmkay" or "can we talk?"

She acted like she didn't get that message.

She’s karma ghosting you

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I am talking about break-up text.
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Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?

If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.

She knows why.

Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.

Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.

Did she respond to your break-up message at all? If so, how was her reaction?

Was it a "“mmkay" or "can we talk?"

She acted like she didn't get that message.
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It would probably be a win-win situation if you both ignored each other as much as possible at the upcoming event.

From a Pisces POV: I would probably send you an evil glance now and again but not make a scene hahaha.