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This happened to me as well a 2 years ago, and I feel you. It'll eventually be less of an emotional issue. Try to refocus on something else, for example your current life situation and good improvements since the divorce.
Posted by mzmeeYou need to remove yourself from his life completely!
Don't know why I feel like complete shit. I wanted this divorce, right? So why do I feel so messed up that the day out divorce was final, he got remarried the day after?
He married his former side chick. All of his family was in attendance. I feel like a fool. Half of his family didn't show to ours. I don't have the words to express what I want to say but I feel fucked up.
If you feel like that - that how you feel and nothing will change that unless you find another person and will get busy.
You are not planning on following his 'happiness' are you?
Do you have kids?
Be strong as you can be.
I have a friend who's love is with his gf for 10 years but his family hates her and love my friend. For 3 decades they wish he would get back with my friend. It's impossible to explain. Heal quickly!
Focusing is hard right now. All I can think about is what is it that I've done wrong? And if I did anything wrong, why didn't he address it with me instead of going somewhere else? Was she that much better than me?
I've had to unfriend a lot of people on fb because they filmed their nuptials and he seemed so in love with her. I've never seen this side of him.
I've had to unfriend a lot of people on fb because they filmed their nuptials and he seemed so in love with her. I've never seen this side of him.
I need wine
Posted by DivaCanLeoMe sagPosted by mzmeeIt's not about better but maybe different type of connection
Focusing is hard right now. All I can think about is what is it that I've done wrong? And if I did anything wrong, why didn't he address it with me instead of going somewhere else? Was she that much better than me?
I've had to unfriend a lot of people on fb because they filmed their nuptials and he seemed so in love with her. I've never seen this side of him.
What are all of your signs?
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Him scorp
Her leo
Posted by mzmee
I've never seen this side of him.
Probably because it's not real.
Do you REALLY think this situation is any different from
any other garden-variety, divorce-then-marry-the-sidepiece
situation?
It isn't... it's an illusion.
And it's only a matter of time before he starts cheating on her.
Because THAT
is
what
he
does.
He's the same piece of shit you divorced.
But wait till she finds out. lol
Trust me on this.
Posted by MontgomeryPosted by mzmee
I've never seen this side of him.
Probably because it's not real.
Do you REALLY think this situation is any different from
any other garden-variety, divorce-then-marry-the-sidepiece
situation?
It isn't... it's an illusion.
And it's only a matter of time before he starts cheating on her.
Because THAT
is
what
he
does.
He's the same piece of shit you divorced.
But wait till she finds out. lol
Trust me on this.
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+1,000,000
Posted by MontgomeryI honestly hope he grows the hell up. I hoped he finally becomes a man. Just sucks that he wasn't willing to be the man for me.Posted by mzmee
I've never seen this side of him.
Probably because it's not real.
Do you REALLY think this situation is any different from
any other garden-variety, divorce-then-marry-the-sidepiece
situation?
It isn't... it's an illusion.
And it's only a matter of time before he starts cheating on her.
Because THAT
is
what
he
does.
He's the same piece of shit you divorced.
But wait till she finds out. lol
Trust me on this.
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I hope my eyes weren't deceiving me. Because he looks genuinely in love. He held on to her. Even when he was still with me and cried about how and what he felt for me.
He planned a whole wedding during our proceedings.
Posted by DivaCanLeoPosted by mzmeeThat's not going to work lol.Posted by DivaCanLeoMe sagPosted by mzmeeIt's not about better but maybe different type of connection
Focusing is hard right now. All I can think about is what is it that I've done wrong? And if I did anything wrong, why didn't he address it with me instead of going somewhere else? Was she that much better than me?
I've had to unfriend a lot of people on fb because they filmed their nuptials and he seemed so in love with her. I've never seen this side of him.
What are all of your signs?
Him scorp
Her leo
What his moonclick to expand
Scorp sun Leo moon Venus scorp
Sag sun sag moon Venus cap
Leo sun sag moon cancer venus
Posted by halalbabePosted by mzmeeNothing will change your feelings right now. Not even the fact that they are astrologically incompatible.Posted by halalbabeFor once, I don't feel so cute.
You're too cute for this mess.
You'll have to sit this one through.
Just Don't lurk through unnecessary stuff and end up with even more hurt feelings. There's clarity in allowing the waves to run their course.click to expand
I want him to be happy. I just wish I didn't feel so....expendable—
Like he threw me away. I just want to feel like I matter. I want this feeling to go away.
Posted by mzmeeSee it's not about her being better.
Focusing is hard right now. All I can think about is what is it that I've done wrong? And if I did anything wrong, why didn't he address it with me instead of going somewhere else? Was she that much better than me?
I've had to unfriend a lot of people on fb because they filmed their nuptials and he seemed so in love with her. I've never seen this side of him.
It's just she hit him somewhere in a right spot!
It could be anything and he might not even able to explain.
Falling in love is a bitch and has no reasons! Sometimes you trip and fall on a flat surface.
Have you ever talked? You said no. Maybe that's why...
Good luck in future.
Posted by mzmee
Focusing is hard right now. All I can think about is what is it that I've done wrong? And if I did anything wrong, why didn't he address it with me instead of going somewhere else? Was she that much better than me?
I've had to unfriend a lot of people on fb because they filmed their nuptials and he seemed so in love with her. I've never seen this side of him.
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Idk a lot of things about love, I don't have a lot of experience.
But let me tell you if you did smth wrong doesn't have anything to do with he doing all those things.
The blame is on him. You feel bad because you feel as if he was the "winner", because he thinks he has found love and you feel alone.
But the truth is that he was shit, and he'll still be shit, probably all his life because he's "love" begun out of a lie. Idk know you neither him, but if he's a cheater, i bet he can't even love himself, how can he love others?
You are the lucky one for removing this out of your life.
If you were truthful, open, caring... you are the winner here. Just learn from this and grow.
Keep going on, from some losses we win.
Posted by GemitatiWe talked a lot. I thought Bout everything. Fooled me. He always said i was his best friend. I valued that. I wanted to be the one who hit that right spot. But I guess...Posted by mzmeeSee it's not about her being better.
Focusing is hard right now. All I can think about is what is it that I've done wrong? And if I did anything wrong, why didn't he address it with me instead of going somewhere else? Was she that much better than me?
I've had to unfriend a lot of people on fb because they filmed their nuptials and he seemed so in love with her. I've never seen this side of him.
It's just she hit him somewhere in a right spot!
It could be anything and he might not even able to explain.
Falling in love is a bitch and has no reasons! Sometimes you trip and fall on a flat surface.
Have you ever talked? You said no. Maybe that's why...
Good luck in future.click to expand
Posted by mzmeeNah, he just wasnt the one for you... he probably can't explain it(who can?) but point is you will be so much happier without him and when the right guy comes around you will look back and think "thank God!"Posted by halalbabePosted by mzmeeNothing will change your feelings right now. Not even the fact that they are astrologically incompatible.Posted by halalbabeFor once, I don't feel so cute.
You're too cute for this mess.
You'll have to sit this one through.
Just Don't lurk through unnecessary stuff and end up with even more hurt feelings. There's clarity in allowing the waves to run their course.
I want him to be happy. I just wish I didn't feel so....expendable—
Like he threw me away. I just want to feel like I matter. I want this feeling to go away.
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Posted by mzmeeThat's strange!Posted by GemitatiWe talked a lot. I thought Bout everything. Fooled me. He always said i was his best friend. I valued that. I wanted to be the one who hit that right spot. But I guess...Posted by mzmeeSee it's not about her being better.
Focusing is hard right now. All I can think about is what is it that I've done wrong? And if I did anything wrong, why didn't he address it with me instead of going somewhere else? Was she that much better than me?
I've had to unfriend a lot of people on fb because they filmed their nuptials and he seemed so in love with her. I've never seen this side of him.
It's just she hit him somewhere in a right spot!
It could be anything and he might not even able to explain.
Falling in love is a bitch and has no reasons! Sometimes you trip and fall on a flat surface.
Have you ever talked? You said no. Maybe that's why...
Good luck in future.
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If you had a good communication - that is very hard to understand!
How long were you together including married life and how soon he slipped?
Posted by mzmeeI get it, it's so frustrating to want that connection with someone and have it returned to you. I'm still trying to find that, but I know when I do it will all be worth it ☺️Posted by GemitatiWe talked a lot. I thought Bout everything. Fooled me. He always said i was his best friend. I valued that. I wanted to be the one who hit that right spot. But I guess...Posted by mzmeeSee it's not about her being better.
Focusing is hard right now. All I can think about is what is it that I've done wrong? And if I did anything wrong, why didn't he address it with me instead of going somewhere else? Was she that much better than me?
I've had to unfriend a lot of people on fb because they filmed their nuptials and he seemed so in love with her. I've never seen this side of him.
It's just she hit him somewhere in a right spot!
It could be anything and he might not even able to explain.
Falling in love is a bitch and has no reasons! Sometimes you trip and fall on a flat surface.
Have you ever talked? You said no. Maybe that's why...
Good luck in future.
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Posted by GemitatiHe seemed to be more emotional and dark with the Scorp and Cancer placements? OP seems lighter so the energy/connection between the two is opposing perhaps?Posted by mzmeeThat's strange!Posted by GemitatiWe talked a lot. I thought Bout everything. Fooled me. He always said i was his best friend. I valued that. I wanted to be the one who hit that right spot. But I guess...Posted by mzmeeSee it's not about her being better.
Focusing is hard right now. All I can think about is what is it that I've done wrong? And if I did anything wrong, why didn't he address it with me instead of going somewhere else? Was she that much better than me?
I've had to unfriend a lot of people on fb because they filmed their nuptials and he seemed so in love with her. I've never seen this side of him.
It's just she hit him somewhere in a right spot!
It could be anything and he might not even able to explain.
Falling in love is a bitch and has no reasons! Sometimes you trip and fall on a flat surface.
Have you ever talked? You said no. Maybe that's why...
Good luck in future.
If you had a good communication - that is very hard to understand!
How long were you together including married life and how soon he slipped?click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by mzmeeThat's strange!Posted by GemitatiWe talked a lot. I thought Bout everything. Fooled me. He always said i was his best friend. I valued that. I wanted to be the one who hit that right spot. But I guess...Posted by mzmeeSee it's not about her being better.
Focusing is hard right now. All I can think about is what is it that I've done wrong? And if I did anything wrong, why didn't he address it with me instead of going somewhere else? Was she that much better than me?
I've had to unfriend a lot of people on fb because they filmed their nuptials and he seemed so in love with her. I've never seen this side of him.
It's just she hit him somewhere in a right spot!
It could be anything and he might not even able to explain.
Falling in love is a bitch and has no reasons! Sometimes you trip and fall on a flat surface.
Have you ever talked? You said no. Maybe that's why...
Good luck in future.
If you had a good communication - that is very hard to understand!
How long were you together including married life and how soon he slipped?click to expand
I thought we did. We were together a total of 7 years, married 3. He was with her before I had my baby. He's 1 now.
Posted by MoonbutterHuh! And if heard on here that Scorpios are true to their spouses and never leave!Posted by GemitatiHe seemed to be more emotional and dark with the Scorp and Cancer placements? OP seems lighter so the energy/connection between the two is opposing perhaps?Posted by mzmeeThat's strange!Posted by GemitatiWe talked a lot. I thought Bout everything. Fooled me. He always said i was his best friend. I valued that. I wanted to be the one who hit that right spot. But I guess...Posted by mzmeeSee it's not about her being better.
Focusing is hard right now. All I can think about is what is it that I've done wrong? And if I did anything wrong, why didn't he address it with me instead of going somewhere else? Was she that much better than me?
I've had to unfriend a lot of people on fb because they filmed their nuptials and he seemed so in love with her. I've never seen this side of him.
It's just she hit him somewhere in a right spot!
It could be anything and he might not even able to explain.
Falling in love is a bitch and has no reasons! Sometimes you trip and fall on a flat surface.
Have you ever talked? You said no. Maybe that's why...
Good luck in future.
If you had a good communication - that is very hard to understand!
How long were you together including married life and how soon he slipped?click to expand
There must real disconnect!
What's his new wife? Someone said incompatible...
Posted by BlackburnQUOTED FOR TRUTHPosted by mzmee
Focusing is hard right now. All I can think about is what is it that I've done wrong? And if I did anything wrong, why didn't he address it with me instead of going somewhere else? Was she that much better than me?
I've had to unfriend a lot of people on fb because they filmed their nuptials and he seemed so in love with her. I've never seen this side of him.
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Idk a lot of things about love, I don't have a lot of experience.
But let me tell you if you did smth wrong doesn't have anything to do with he doing all those things.
The blame is on him. You feel bad because you feel as if he was the "winner", because he thinks he has found love and you feel alone.
But the truth is that he was shit, and he'll still be shit, probably all his life because he's "love" begun out of a lie. Idk know you neither him, but if he's a cheater, i bet he can't even love himself, how can he love others?
You are the lucky one for removing this out of your life.
If you were truthful, open, caring... you are the winner here. Just learn from this and grow.
Keep going on, from some losses we win.
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This is his high point.
The peak... the apex.
You have not yet begun.
Don't feel bad because you didn't 'do it' for a
lowdown, fucking liar.
You may not be able or even willing to see that
now, but you will.
Posted by halalbabePosted by mzmeeYou don't need him to determine YOUR worth. Distangle your mind from the idea that you need his acknowledgement.Posted by halalbabePosted by mzmeeNothing will change your feelings right now. Not even the fact that they are astrologically incompatible.Posted by halalbabeFor once, I don't feel so cute.
You're too cute for this mess.
You'll have to sit this one through.
Just Don't lurk through unnecessary stuff and end up with even more hurt feelings. There's clarity in allowing the waves to run their course.
I want him to be happy. I just wish I didn't feel so....expendable—
Like he threw me away. I just want to feel like I matter. I want this feeling to go away.
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I get what you're saying. I get it. I put so much into him and our marriage. I did everything I needed. I'm still trying to find out what went wrong. Like some days passed me by. I feel like I don't know what happened.
Go on a date asap! That will help!
Posted by seraphI wanna get to that point. Wondering why it even mattered.
You'll feel better in a month.
Go through everything you need to go through in the meantime – give yourself that opportunity. Cry, scream, question your faith in mankind, etc.
Let it all out, so by the time you get to that point where you'll feel better, you'll wonder why it made any real difference to you in the first place.
(Note: you can begin to see yourself in that better place today, and just forego a lot of the suffering. It isn't blasphemy, and it's not denying your feelings [ that is, reactions ] about the situation. It's just letting the inevitable in early; it's already at your door anyway.)
Posted by mzmeeOMG! Baby— So you will must be bound with him forever—Posted by GemitatiPosted by mzmeeThat's strange!Posted by GemitatiWe talked a lot. I thought Bout everything. Fooled me. He always said i was his best friend. I valued that. I wanted to be the one who hit that right spot. But I guess...Posted by mzmeeSee it's not about her being better.
Focusing is hard right now. All I can think about is what is it that I've done wrong? And if I did anything wrong, why didn't he address it with me instead of going somewhere else? Was she that much better than me?
I've had to unfriend a lot of people on fb because they filmed their nuptials and he seemed so in love with her. I've never seen this side of him.
It's just she hit him somewhere in a right spot!
It could be anything and he might not even able to explain.
Falling in love is a bitch and has no reasons! Sometimes you trip and fall on a flat surface.
Have you ever talked? You said no. Maybe that's why...
Good luck in future.
If you had a good communication - that is very hard to understand!
How long were you together including married life and how soon he slipped?
I thought we did. We were together a total of 7 years, married 3. He was with her before I had my baby. He's 1 now.
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Woman! You need to man up and say he is a piece of shit!
I know...hope he pays dearly alimony!
Hugs
Don't worry, with all that Venusian water they will just drown themselves ?
Posted by pinkbird03I don't wanna look at anyone else.
Go on a date asap! That will help!
Posted by MontgomeryPosted by mzmee
I've never seen this side of him.
Probably because it's not real.
Do you REALLY think this situation is any different from
any other garden-variety, divorce-then-marry-the-sidepiece
situation?
It isn't... it's an illusion.
And it's only a matter of time before he starts cheating on her.
Because THAT
is
what
he
does.
He's the same piece of shit you divorced.
But wait till she finds out. lol
Trust me on this.
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TOTALLLLLLLLY AGREEEEEE
Posted by DivaCanLeo4 years. 4 years of thinking i was in pure love. I thought it was real. I was fooled. I wasted time on him. Time he shouldn't have gotten had I known.Posted by GemitatiLeo moon just like Leo suns can be fickle.Posted by MoonbutterHuh! And if heard on here that Scorpios are true to their spouses and never leave!Posted by GemitatiHe seemed to be more emotional and dark with the Scorp and Cancer placements? OP seems lighter so the energy/connection between the two is opposing perhaps?Posted by mzmeeThat's strange!Posted by GemitatiWe talked a lot. I thought Bout everything. Fooled me. He always said i was his best friend. I valued that. I wanted to be the one who hit that right spot. But I guess...Posted by mzmeeSee it's not about her being better.
Focusing is hard right now. All I can think about is what is it that I've done wrong? And if I did anything wrong, why didn't he address it with me instead of going somewhere else? Was she that much better than me?
I've had to unfriend a lot of people on fb because they filmed their nuptials and he seemed so in love with her. I've never seen this side of him.
It's just she hit him somewhere in a right spot!
It could be anything and he might not even able to explain.
Falling in love is a bitch and has no reasons! Sometimes you trip and fall on a flat surface.
Have you ever talked? You said no. Maybe that's why...
Good luck in future.
If you had a good communication - that is very hard to understand!
How long were you together including married life and how soon he slipped?
There must real disconnect!
What's his new wife? Someone said incompatible...
That's why I don't trust marriage until I can stay feeling someone for a couple of years
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Posted by mzmeeYeah... that's like a double edged sword. Just do you and what makes you happy and focus on the little one. That's your blessing ?Posted by pinkbird03I don't wanna look at anyone else.
Go on a date asap! That will help!click to expand
Posted by GemitatiYep 17 more years. He was a piece of shit towards me. I didn't do anything to him for him to treat me this wayPosted by mzmeeOMG! Baby— So you will must be bound with him forever—Posted by GemitatiPosted by mzmeeThat's strange!Posted by GemitatiWe talked a lot. I thought Bout everything. Fooled me. He always said i was his best friend. I valued that. I wanted to be the one who hit that right spot. But I guess...Posted by mzmeeSee it's not about her being better.
Focusing is hard right now. All I can think about is what is it that I've done wrong? And if I did anything wrong, why didn't he address it with me instead of going somewhere else? Was she that much better than me?
I've had to unfriend a lot of people on fb because they filmed their nuptials and he seemed so in love with her. I've never seen this side of him.
It's just she hit him somewhere in a right spot!
It could be anything and he might not even able to explain.
Falling in love is a bitch and has no reasons! Sometimes you trip and fall on a flat surface.
Have you ever talked? You said no. Maybe that's why...
Good luck in future.
If you had a good communication - that is very hard to understand!
How long were you together including married life and how soon he slipped?
I thought we did. We were together a total of 7 years, married 3. He was with her before I had my baby. He's 1 now.
Woman! You need to man up and say he is a piece of shit!
I know...hope he pays dearly alimony!
Hugsclick to expand
On my way to play mafia, cry and eat ice cream.
Posted by ImpulsvShe says it doesn't matter to her because he put her first. She knew everything about me. When I wasn't my best, the high points in my life, all that I shared with him, which is what is supposed to happen with your spouse, she knew about. And she made sure to tell me about all she knew. That's what made me pull the trigger.Posted by DivaCanLeoRight this was like spiteful
That sounds dirty as hell. Who marries that quickly. He never loved you. Also he had side chicks.
You're feeling low because it was so easy for him to move on, but he's just a pig.
Just love yourself and heal.
Trust this new isn't any better then you
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Why should you be privy to my highs and lows when all you're going to do is make fun of them over pillow talk instead of cherish them?
I felt like I was tolerated. I want to feel appreciated.
As shitty as the situation is you can't let him get the best of you. He's a jackass for treating another human being that way. Can't change what happened in the past, can only look to the future and all the GOOD ass things that are coming your way. Take some time to yourself...figure out that it wasn't anything to do with you, maybe pick up a new hobby - something to keep your time, body and mind active and you'll eventually get over him. Hope you have a better day tomorrow!
Posted by ImpulsvSee, the fact that you say this advice with contempt and hatred indicates that you yourself have a lot of unresoved baggage from whatever situation. I suppose we all have some sort of similar PTSD.Posted by RamOfPeaceHeal n let karma deal with it
This happened to me as well a 2 years ago, and I feel you. It'll eventually be less of an emotional issue. Try to refocus on something else, for example your current life situation and good improvements since the divorce.
Men think getting new piece solves his problem it doesn't.
My ex almost did same
No seems he's lost it all
Even a new wife n new life could not make him happy
Ur ex will still have to deal with his daemons n all problems he had are not gone with new wife
It's her deal to deal with now?click to expand
I'm sure their divorce and the way things have turned out has happened for a reason on both sides. She will meet a good guy when appropriate time and place presents itself. And if he likes his ex side chick enough to marry her, then all the luck to them.
This isn't meant as an insult by the way, rather impartually analyzing.
Whoa, I posted about this happening to my Cappie friend and her ex Scorpio. He remarried either a few days, or a week after their divorce was final. She filed too.
She feels a type of way about it, but luckily she's seeing someone else...another Scorpio, however she says her ex is a completely different person now.
We were just talking about this last week, I believe. She can't figure out why he remarried so soon. I know it gets under her skin, but I was telling her not to worry about it.
I think it's a silly attempt to send a message to their exes. I don't know what the message is, but I'd try not to worry about it too much.
She feels a type of way about it, but luckily she's seeing someone else...another Scorpio, however she says her ex is a completely different person now.
We were just talking about this last week, I believe. She can't figure out why he remarried so soon. I know it gets under her skin, but I was telling her not to worry about it.
I think it's a silly attempt to send a message to their exes. I don't know what the message is, but I'd try not to worry about it too much.
Posted by mzmeeYou did not mess up at all! The fact that he was so quick shows how far his cheating has gone while you were married. He asked the hand of another woman even before your divorce was finalized. You should celebrate, you've done the right thing getting rid of this nuisance, and you know it!
Don't know why I feel like complete shit. I wanted this divorce, right? So why do I feel so messed up that the day out divorce was final, he got remarried the day after?
He married his former side chick. All of his family was in attendance. I feel like a fool. Half of his family didn't show to ours. I don't have the words to express what I want to say but I feel fucked up.
Think about the opposite situation (happens to be my situation), and see how this is worse than yours. I divorced my ex husband almost a decade ago and he still has not moved on. He refuses to date and tells common friends that he still loves me and I was the ONE....
I tell you what...you are FREE. Of everything...a man you don't want, his snubbing family, and guilt! Get out there and enjoy your life!
Posted by mzmeeHuh? They may have nothing left to talk about, now that they are losing sight of you 😛Posted by ImpulsvShe says it doesn't matter to her because he put her first. She knew everything about me. When I wasn't my best, the high points in my life, all that I shared with him, which is what is supposed to happen with your spouse, she knew about. And she made sure to tell me about all she knew. That's what made me pull the trigger.Posted by DivaCanLeoRight this was like spiteful
That sounds dirty as hell. Who marries that quickly. He never loved you. Also he had side chicks.
You're feeling low because it was so easy for him to move on, but he's just a pig.
Just love yourself and heal.
Trust this new isn't any better then you
She's lame for not even seeing the red flags
Why should you be privy to my highs and lows when all you're going to do is make fun of them over pillow talk instead of cherish them?
I felt like I was tolerated. I want to feel appreciated.
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Posted by mzmee
Don't know why I feel like complete shit. I wanted this divorce, right? So why do I feel so messed up that the day out divorce was final, he got remarried the day after?
He married his former side chick. All of his family was in attendance. I feel like a fool. Half of his family didn't show to ours. I don't have the words to express what I want to say but I feel fucked up.
How long did it take for the divorce to finalize? Did he get a lot of time to plan his wedding? In general I think men move on to someone else faster than women. Guess they don't sit and think about what went wrong, they just think of the now and look to have fun in life. It will hurt, don't worry, try to focus on yourself and what you like. Eventually as his new marriage becomes old it will not bother you as much, and you will be reassured of why you wanted divorce in the first place.
Posted by mzmeePosted by MontgomeryI honestly hope he grows the hell up. I hoped he finally becomes a man. Just sucks that he wasn't willing to be the man for me.Posted by mzmee
I've never seen this side of him.
Probably because it's not real.
Do you REALLY think this situation is any different from
any other garden-variety, divorce-then-marry-the-sidepiece
situation?
It isn't... it's an illusion.
And it's only a matter of time before he starts cheating on her.
Because THAT
is
what
he
does.
He's the same piece of shit you divorced.
But wait till she finds out. lol
Trust me on this.
I hope my eyes weren't deceiving me. Because he looks genuinely in love. He held on to her. Even when he was still with me and cried about how and what he felt for me.
He planned a whole wedding during our proceedings.
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I wonder how she agreed to a wedding date while the divorce was still being finalized. Did you know well ahead the day of divorce?
Posted by puhleeze! Right!!!Posted by mzmeePosted by MontgomeryI honestly hope he grows the hell up. I hoped he finally becomes a man. Just sucks that he wasn't willing to be the man for me.Posted by mzmee
I've never seen this side of him.
Probably because it's not real.
Do you REALLY think this situation is any different from
any other garden-variety, divorce-then-marry-the-sidepiece
situation?
It isn't... it's an illusion.
And it's only a matter of time before he starts cheating on her.
Because THAT
is
what
he
does.
He's the same piece of shit you divorced.
But wait till she finds out. lol
Trust me on this.
I hope my eyes weren't deceiving me. Because he looks genuinely in love. He held on to her. Even when he was still with me and cried about how and what he felt for me.
He planned a whole wedding during our proceedings.
I wonder how she agreed to a wedding date while the divorce was still being finalized. Did you know well ahead the day of divorce?
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He sounds shady as hell. I hope you took him for 50.
Posted by mzmeePosted by halalbabePosted by mzmeeYou don't need him to determine YOUR worth. Distangle your mind from the idea that you need his acknowledgement.Posted by halalbabePosted by mzmeeNothing will change your feelings right now. Not even the fact that they are astrologically incompatible.Posted by halalbabeFor once, I don't feel so cute.
You're too cute for this mess.
You'll have to sit this one through.
Just Don't lurk through unnecessary stuff and end up with even more hurt feelings. There's clarity in allowing the waves to run their course.
I want him to be happy. I just wish I didn't feel so....expendable—
Like he threw me away. I just want to feel like I matter. I want this feeling to go away.
I get what you're saying. I get it. I put so much into him and our marriage. I did everything I needed. I'm still trying to find out what went wrong. Like some days passed me by. I feel like I don't know what happened.
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He cheated while you were pregnant. That is what happened?
Posted by mzmeePosted by ImpulsvShe says it doesn't matter to her because he put her first. She knew everything about me. When I wasn't my best, the high points in my life, all that I shared with him, which is what is supposed to happen with your spouse, she knew about. And she made sure to tell me about all she knew. That's what made me pull the trigger.Posted by DivaCanLeoRight this was like spiteful
That sounds dirty as hell. Who marries that quickly. He never loved you. Also he had side chicks.
You're feeling low because it was so easy for him to move on, but he's just a pig.
Just love yourself and heal.
Trust this new isn't any better then you
She's lame for not even seeing the red flags
Why should you be privy to my highs and lows when all you're going to do is make fun of them over pillow talk instead of cherish them?
I felt like I was tolerated. I want to feel appreciated.
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Most likely your ex was telling her about you to gain her sympathy and get in her pants She got played.
Posted by puhleezePosted by mzmee
Don't know why I feel like complete shit. I wanted this divorce, right? So why do I feel so messed up that the day out divorce was final, he got remarried the day after?
He married his former side chick. All of his family was in attendance. I feel like a fool. Half of his family didn't show to ours. I don't have the words to express what I want to say but I feel fucked up.
How long did it take for the divorce to finalize? Did he get a lot of time to plan his wedding? In general I think men move on to someone else faster than women. Guess they don't sit and think about what went wrong, they just think of the now and look to have fun in life. It will hurt, don't worry, try to focus on yourself and what you like. Eventually as his new marriage becomes old it will not bother you as much, and you will be reassured of why you wanted divorce in the first place.
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6 months to finalize.
Posted by mzmeebe proud that you are better than themPosted by ImpulsvShe says it doesn't matter to her because he put her first. She knew everything about me. When I wasn't my best, the high points in my life, all that I shared with him, which is what is supposed to happen with your spouse, she knew about. And she made sure to tell me about all she knew. That's what made me pull the trigger.Posted by DivaCanLeoRight this was like spiteful
That sounds dirty as hell. Who marries that quickly. He never loved you. Also he had side chicks.
You're feeling low because it was so easy for him to move on, but he's just a pig.
Just love yourself and heal.
Trust this new isn't any better then you
She's lame for not even seeing the red flags
Why should you be privy to my highs and lows when all you're going to do is make fun of them over pillow talk instead of cherish them?
I felt like I was tolerated. I want to feel appreciated.
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there would be 911 calls to their wedding if in your shoes and no baby in the picture
Posted by mzmeeI know comparisons , bouts of jealousy is natural in situation like this. Dont compare yourself with her . How do you know he will not do same thing with her. How do you know what will happen behind close doors once the honeymoon phase is over ? I am not saying bad should happen but you shoudnt lose you peace thinking about someone else's happiness .
Focusing is hard right now. All I can think about is what is it that I've done wrong? And if I did anything wrong, why didn't he address it with me instead of going somewhere else? Was she that much better than me?
I've had to unfriend a lot of people on fb because they filmed their nuptials and he seemed so in love with her. I've never seen this side of him.
I have noticed one thing , that when we dont associate our happiness to any one else(specially the one who is out) , but when our dreams and plans become about us , thats when we are truly growing.
From what ever i have seen, i am very sure of one thing . And that is that happiness and love on social media is no guarantee of real happiness n love .
A close friend and her husband have shitty marriage. He is completely an ass hole . He cheated, he is nothing beyond his parents wishes , he even cursed her when she got pregnant. She has left the house so many times . Basically a crappy marriage . But if you see them on FB, they are the best couple . They keep posting on FB how much they mean to each other . Their pictures , their posts never shows a true picture .
Posted by mzmeeThats justified n understandable .Posted by halalbabePosted by mzmeeNothing will change your feelings right now. Not even the fact that they are astrologically incompatible.Posted by halalbabeFor once, I don't feel so cute.
You're too cute for this mess.
You'll have to sit this one through.
Just Don't lurk through unnecessary stuff and end up with even more hurt feelings. There's clarity in allowing the waves to run their course.
I just want to feel like I matter.
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But leave it...treat him as just another person now . Dont allow him to have a right inside your heart to hurt you .
And please dont pity yourself or else you will feel hurt for long .
Posted by mzmeeI wouldn't feel too bad for too long...he'll soon have another side chick and his current wife will be in your former position...karma
Don't know why I feel like complete shit. I wanted this divorce, right? So why do I feel so messed up that the day out divorce was final, he got remarried the day after?
He married his former side chick. All of his family was in attendance. I feel like a fool. Half of his family didn't show to ours. I don't have the words to express what I want to say but I feel fucked up.
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