Why do women lay there like a dead fish?

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In your opinion guys, what's this about and I'm always hearing about it but never know what it means.

Do you tell the women to do something else? They really don't move an inch when your plowing into them?

What is really happening behind closed doors and with this type of woman, does it happen every time you guys have sex? Is it like their " style "? Signature "Dead fish" move?

Enlighten me please!!!
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I am sure there are a lot of reasons...

- inexperience

- overly passive or assume its really not their role to be the aggressor, so check out a little

- just want to relax and enjoy a good plowing lol....nothing wrong w/that once in a while IMO

- man isnt assertive or communicative enough to express his needs

- have also been w/a partner who froze up due to sexual trauma in her youth
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If a woman acts frigid during the act, I do my best to make her feel safe and comfortable. If this is till happening when we get intimate, I then ask what I am doing wrong. If she says nothing, I may have to break it off, because I cant be with women who act frigid in sex.

Could it be related to personal trauma? Possibly, but I dont feel I have a right to ask her that. That would be on her to disclose that to me. She doesnt have to be specific about it just say she had an incident related to intimacy and I will get the hint

If its because she is a virgin, then I definitely would have to not pursue anything further. I am in my 30's and the problem with virgins is they will always wonder what it is like with other people once they lose it. Unless they are asexual which if they are, I am definitely not interested.

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Posted by LaMadrina

Posted by saggurl88

In your opinion guys, what's this about and I'm always hearing about it but never know what it means.

Do you tell the women to do something else? They really don't move an inch when your plowing into them?

What is really happening behind closed doors and with this type of woman, does it happen every time you guys have sex? Is it like their " style "? Signature "Dead fish" move?

Enlighten me please!!!


Chica sex is like music, like rhythm. If you don't feel it, you're not going to dance. When the music and rhythm is in you, aye! No one can stop you from moving.

Sex is the same. You don't like it, feel it, getting no pleasure, you're not going to engage.
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Posted by slowdive80

If a woman acts frigid during the act, I do my best to make her feel safe and comfortable. If this is till happening when we get intimate, I then ask what I am doing wrong. If she says nothing, I may have to break it off, because I cant be with women who act frigid in sex.

Could it be related to personal trauma? Possibly, but I dont feel I have a right to ask her that. That would be on her to disclose that to me. She doesnt have to be specific about it just say she had an incident related to intimacy and I will get the hint

If its because she is a virgin, then I definitely would have to not pursue anything further. I am in my 30's and the problem with virgins is they will always wonder what it is like with other people once they lose it. Unless they are asexual which if they are, I am definitely not interested.



This happened to my bf with a virgin. She ended up sleeping with all his friends.

Knowing what I know about my s.o, I don't know she found anything better sexually,l.

BUt hey that's not my business...
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Posted by saggurl88

In your opinion guys, what's this about and I'm always hearing about it but never know what it means.

Do you tell the women to do something else? They really don't move an inch when your plowing into them?

What is really happening behind closed doors and with this type of woman, does it happen every time you guys have sex? Is it like their " style "? Signature "Dead fish" move?

Enlighten me please!!!


if i'm not into it, its gonna be dead fish time. xd



yeah.... my man will get pissed off too. *sigh LOL



oh but i always make it up really nice ;p

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In your opinion guys, what's this about and I'm always hearing about it but never know what it means.

Do you tell the women to do something else? They really don't move an inch when your plowing into them?

What is really happening behind closed doors and with this type of woman, does it happen every time you guys have sex? Is it like their " style "? Signature "Dead fish" move?

Enlighten me please!!!


if i'm not into it, its gonna be dead fish time. xd



yeah.... my man will get pissed off too. *sigh LOL



oh but i always make it up really nice ;p

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But do you still enjoy it— Can you still orgasm like this?
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Posted by saggurl88

In your opinion guys, what's this about and I'm always hearing about it but never know what it means.

Do you tell the women to do something else? They really don't move an inch when your plowing into them?

What is really happening behind closed doors and with this type of woman, does it happen every time you guys have sex? Is it like their " style "? Signature "Dead fish" move?

Enlighten me please!!!


Chica sex is like music, like rhythm. If you don't feel it, you're not going to dance. When the music and rhythm is in you, aye! No one can stop you from moving.

Sex is the same. You don't like it, feel it, getting no pleasure, you're not going to engage.
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It would come to an end then. I wouldn't just lay there and have sex. It's like music indeed, there needs to be a rhythm for me to engage.
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In your opinion guys, what's this about and I'm always hearing about it but never know what it means.

Do you tell the women to do something else? They really don't move an inch when your plowing into them?

What is really happening behind closed doors and with this type of woman, does it happen every time you guys have sex? Is it like their " style "? Signature "Dead fish" move?

Enlighten me please!!!


if i'm not into it, its gonna be dead fish time. xd



yeah.... my man will get pissed off too. *sigh LOL



oh but i always make it up really nice ;p

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But do you still enjoy it— Can you still orgasm like this?
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what? lol

i dont even think it's possible NOT to move....if you're being stimulated down "there" LOL

they really would have to be really really dead Xd
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Posted by saggurl88

In your opinion guys, what's this about and I'm always hearing about it but never know what it means.

Do you tell the women to do something else? They really don't move an inch when your plowing into them?

What is really happening behind closed doors and with this type of woman, does it happen every time you guys have sex? Is it like their " style "? Signature "Dead fish" move?

Enlighten me please!!!


Haha ya know, if it happens "every time" that means its not the type of guy that thinks "that wasnt enjoyable enough to do again Im moving on". In other words, if it works, then hey. In that scenario neither is moving on from it and it is what it is. So in part at least I think it would be a compatibility thing from the man's standpoint.
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If I was a man, I would get upset over it and make her do some weird, uncomfortable position and then just jack hammer 😆

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In your opinion guys, what's this about and I'm always hearing about it but never know what it means.

Do you tell the women to do something else? They really don't move an inch when your plowing into them?

What is really happening behind closed doors and with this type of woman, does it happen every time you guys have sex? Is it like their " style "? Signature "Dead fish" move?

Enlighten me please!!!


Chica sex is like music, like rhythm. If you don't feel it, you're not going to dance. When the music and rhythm is in you, aye! No one can stop you from moving.

Sex is the same. You don't like it, feel it, getting no pleasure, you're not going to engage.


It would come to an end then. I wouldn't just lay there and have sex. It's like music indeed, there needs to be a rhythm for me to engage.


In my culture we say the best lovers are the best dancers. They have the rhythm on and off the dancefloor.
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I've had sex with someone that didn't dance well at at all. but he made up for it with the sex lol
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I've heard about this before but I don't understand how do you not move?

Like they legit lay there, no sounds, no facial expression? Do they have dead eyes too?

Someone paint me a picture




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I mean that's a pretty big mouth

..something could for sure be done with that!
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true...this is practically a thirst trap....just needs a snap chat filter with an eggplant in a little thought bubble over its head....
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I've heard about this before but I don't understand how do you not move?

Like they legit lay there, no sounds, no facial expression? Do they have dead eyes too?

Someone paint me a picture




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I mean that's a pretty big mouth

..something could for sure be done with that!


true...this is practicallly a thirst trap....just needs a snap chat filter with an eggplant in a little thought bubble over its head....
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😂😂
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I'd also think insecurity with their bodies. Men who have that same issue are not exceptionally active in the sack either.


I think its the opposite. The really REALLY good looking women don't have to lift a finger, they just rely on their looks to get him over the finish line.

Talking to dudes they be like "the fat one gave me the best head of my life AND made us sandwiches after, imma wife her"
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I've heard about this before but I don't understand how do you not move?

Like they legit lay there, no sounds, no facial expression? Do they have dead eyes too?

Someone paint me a picture




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I mean that's a pretty big mouth

..something could for sure be done with that!


true...this is practicallly a thirst trap....just needs a snap chat filter with an eggplant in a little thought bubble over its head....


You rang?
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think we'll need to use a different sort of fish for you....

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I'd also think insecurity with their bodies. Men who have that same issue are not exceptionally active in the sack either.


I think its the opposite. The really REALLY good looking women don't have to lift a finger, they just rely on their looks to get him over the finish line.

Talking to dudes they be like "the fat one gave me the best head of my life AND made us sandwiches after, imma wife her"
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In your opinion guys, what's this about and I'm always hearing about it but never know what it means.

Do you tell the women to do something else? They really don't move an inch when your plowing into them?

What is really happening behind closed doors and with this type of woman, does it happen every time you guys have sex? Is it like their " style "? Signature "Dead fish" move?

Enlighten me please!!!


Chica sex is like music, like rhythm. If you don't feel it, you're not going to dance. When the music and rhythm is in you, aye! No one can stop you from moving.

Sex is the same. You don't like it, feel it, getting no pleasure, you're not going to engage.


It would come to an end then. I wouldn't just lay there and have sex. It's like music indeed, there needs to be a rhythm for me to engage.


In my culture we say the best lovers are the best dancers. They have the rhythm on and off the dancefloor.


I've had sex with someone that didn't dance well at at all. but he made up for it with the sex lol


You did much of the work to keep the rhythm, didn't you?
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No. We both matched each other, he's very aggressive and kind of threw me around, flipped me over, forced me to bend over, pulled my hair. Stuff like that. He doesn't really need to know how to dance when he's being aggressive.
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Posted by saggurl88

In your opinion guys, what's this about and I'm always hearing about it but never know what it means.

Do you tell the women to do something else? They really don't move an inch when your plowing into them?

What is really happening behind closed doors and with this type of woman, does it happen every time you guys have sex? Is it like their " style "? Signature "Dead fish" move?

Enlighten me please!!!


if i'm not into it, its gonna be dead fish time. xd



yeah.... my man will get pissed off too. *sigh LOL



oh but i always make it up really nice ;p

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Married sex 😛
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I don't see much wrong with it, it can be good from time to time.


What's good about it? Can a women move too much?


It's like Metatron and Dreamyboy said, it can double up as a fantasy where you're just having your way with her.

And I don't believe any of the posts here saying they have no idea what it feels like to have dead fish sex, c'mon guys. No offence but everyone has had morning sex, let's be real.
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for real w/the morning sex....lol....I prefer her face down in the pillow if neither of us have brushed yet anyway lol....

in the spirit of gender neutrality, we need to pose this question in that thread about women who like pegging....I'm sure there are some dead fish dudes out there too...
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What is the appropriate amount of movement that one should do... so that it does not turn to a yoga sesh/acrobat sesh but does not fall into the.. she's stiff zone—


Just move to the beat...at least...


Can I just nod my head to the beat? I have to think that that would be counted as frigid. 😞
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No! It’ll be considered stupid...depends on his sense of humor...
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I don't see much wrong with it, it can be good from time to time.


What's good about it? Can a women move too much?


It's like Metatron and Dreamyboy said, it can double up as a fantasy where you're just having your way with her.

And I don't believe any of the posts here saying they have no idea what it feels like to have dead fish sex, c'mon guys. No offence but everyone has had morning sex, let's be real.
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I move every time I have sex. Whatever time of day it is. My favorite is wrapping my legs around a guy and putting my hands above my head pushing on the head board, so I can "match" his stroke. I've never NOT moved.

In fact I used to be embarrassed in high school cause I thought I was supposed to just lay there
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Posted by saggurl88

In your opinion guys, what's this about and I'm always hearing about it but never know what it means.

Do you tell the women to do something else? They really don't move an inch when your plowing into them?

What is really happening behind closed doors and with this type of woman, does it happen every time you guys have sex? Is it like their " style "? Signature "Dead fish" move?

Enlighten me please!!!


if i'm not into it, its gonna be dead fish time. xd



yeah.... my man will get pissed off too. *sigh LOL



oh but i always make it up really nice ;p

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Married sex 😛
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yeah ...you can be a bitch if you want...but not too much xd



making up is the best ;p

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What is the appropriate amount of movement that one should do... so that it does not turn to a yoga sesh/acrobat sesh but does not fall into the.. she's stiff zone—


Just move to the beat...at least...


Can I just nod my head to the beat? I have to think that that would be counted as frigid. 😞


No! It’ll be considered stupid...depends on his sense of humor...
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I have to find a guy who is Ok with it. That's the perfect man right there. Humour with sex = doing a lot of things and being ok afterwards.
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I don't see much wrong with it, it can be good from time to time.


What's good about it? Can a women move too much?


It's like Metatron and Dreamyboy said, it can double up as a fantasy where you're just having your way with her.

And I don't believe any of the posts here saying they have no idea what it feels like to have dead fish sex, c'mon guys. No offence but everyone has had morning sex, let's be real.


for real w/the morning sex....lol....I prefer her face down in the pillow if neither of us have brushed yet anyway lol....

in the spirit of gender neutrality, we need to pose this question in that thread about women who like pegging....I'm sure there are some dead fish dudes out there too...
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I was with a submissive man before lol He just kept staring saying "Wow, this is really good" lol

After he asked if I enjoyed myself. 😢 I was the one who put in a lot of work. I even had to move while he was doing it from the back, lol I guess he just liked my "stroke" game! 😆
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In your opinion guys, what's this about and I'm always hearing about it but never know what it means.

Do you tell the women to do something else? They really don't move an inch when your plowing into them?

What is really happening behind closed doors and with this type of woman, does it happen every time you guys have sex? Is it like their " style "? Signature "Dead fish" move?

Enlighten me please!!!


if i'm not into it, its gonna be dead fish time. xd



yeah.... my man will get pissed off too. *sigh LOL



oh but i always make it up really nice ;p

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Married sex 😛


yeah ...you can be a bitch if you want...but not too much xd



making up is the best ;p

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Not too much with a Scorpio man lol
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What is the appropriate amount of movement that one should do... so that it does not turn to a yoga sesh/acrobat sesh but does not fall into the.. she's stiff zone—


Just move to the beat...at least...


Can I just nod my head to the beat? I have to think that that would be counted as frigid. 😞


No! It’ll be considered stupid...depends on his sense of humor...


I have to find a guy who is Ok with it. That's the perfect man right there. Humour with sex = doing a lot of things and being ok afterwards.
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Is there a reason why you don't move? What do you do on top?
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I don't see much wrong with it, it can be good from time to time.


What's good about it? Can a women move too much?


It's like Metatron and Dreamyboy said, it can double up as a fantasy where you're just having your way with her.

And I don't believe any of the posts here saying they have no idea what it feels like to have dead fish sex, c'mon guys. No offence but everyone has had morning sex, let's be real.


for real w/the morning sex....lol....I prefer her face down in the pillow if neither of us have brushed yet anyway lol....

in the spirit of gender neutrality, we need to pose this question in that thread about women who like pegging....I'm sure there are some dead fish dudes out there too...


Naw.. I want to be on top riding while she jacks me off.
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Is this a threesome—
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Posted by saggurl88

In your opinion guys, what's this about and I'm always hearing about it but never know what it means.

Do you tell the women to do something else? They really don't move an inch when your plowing into them?

What is really happening behind closed doors and with this type of woman, does it happen every time you guys have sex? Is it like their " style "? Signature "Dead fish" move?

Enlighten me please!!!


if i'm not into it, its gonna be dead fish time. xd



yeah.... my man will get pissed off too. *sigh LOL



oh but i always make it up really nice ;p

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Married sex 😛


yeah ...you can be a bitch if you want...but not too much xd



making up is the best ;p

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Not too much with a Scorpio man lol
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;p i just say that...as a joke



i know better..sigh.

at least my man has some sagittarius in him...and leo.. it helps alot LOL

or maybe it's his virgo ;p

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