
Hypothetically of course, please feel free to share. I've notice that there's a difference between when people are initially crushing on someone than actually developing feelings for them.





Posted by edgelordI said "idea" aka something you're not sure of.Posted by Damnatathis sounded like leo venus up until the very end. 😆
If you get this delusional lunatic idea that someone actually really cares about you and you feel safe and secure around them....that someone is a Cancer Venus who's into you.
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Posted by edgelordBeginning stages vs Being in a relationship with one.Posted by Damnataisn't cancer venus super loyal too and shit? or at least when i read descriptions it's like 1. emo and sensitive 2. loyal 3. will eat a baby if you leave them.Posted by edgelordI said "idea" aka something you're not sure of.Posted by Damnatathis sounded like leo venus up until the very end. 😆
If you get this delusional lunatic idea that someone actually really cares about you and you feel safe and secure around them....that someone is a Cancer Venus who's into you.
Leo Venus would make it certain.
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Posted by saggurl88@saggurl88
Scorpio Venus, silently stalk you, want to have lots of sex and be around you. I'll want to have sex whether I'm crushing on you or actually getting to know you, cause sex is how I get to know someone fully. Theres's no hiding when you're naked!




Posted by hellosaggyProbably cause your airing out all your business! 😛 I only want to do this with someone I'm interested in and I'm currently NOT dating anyone. lolPosted by saggurl88@saggurl88
Scorpio Venus, silently stalk you, want to have lots of sex and be around you. I'll want to have sex whether I'm crushing on you or actually getting to know you, cause sex is how I get to know someone fully. Theres's no hiding when you're naked!
How cum when I do it... its a problem though?click to expand

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3You guys suck with not giving up info!! 😛
Cap venus here but I don’t know lol

Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesNow I understand he's never been really into me sigh
Virgo Venus will do anything and everything for you and then critize you about anything and everything but it's meant to be in a helpful, caring and loving way. Will buy things for you and do alot to take care of you. If Virgo Venus stops all critisism and any form of caring for you, you can bet your life Venus has gone cold on you and the relationship is pretty much done for. /sigh at the need for perfection but lack of accepting it's not out there and is something that has to be realized


Posted by pisceanlovesHow long have you been together?Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesNow I understand he's never been really into me sigh
Virgo Venus will do anything and everything for you and then critize you about anything and everything but it's meant to be in a helpful, caring and loving way. Will buy things for you and do alot to take care of you. If Virgo Venus stops all critisism and any form of caring for you, you can bet your life Venus has gone cold on you and the relationship is pretty much done for. /sigh at the need for perfection but lack of accepting it's not out there and is something that has to be realizedclick to expand

Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesOn and off since 2015Posted by pisceanlovesHow long have you been together?Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesNow I understand he's never been really into me sigh
Virgo Venus will do anything and everything for you and then critize you about anything and everything but it's meant to be in a helpful, caring and loving way. Will buy things for you and do alot to take care of you. If Virgo Venus stops all critisism and any form of caring for you, you can bet your life Venus has gone cold on you and the relationship is pretty much done for. /sigh at the need for perfection but lack of accepting it's not out there and is something that has to be realized
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Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesCan't pick anything from your statement what matches him in any way. I've never really asked for anything, just wanted to spend more time with him. Sometimes he would ignore me, would disappear in the middle of the conversation, not necessarily saying good night. Too quiet type, once he was away and i told him wish he was there for me, he would have cooked something cause I was too hungry, he didn't respond for minutes until I said I was just kidding and I could take care of myself. Then there was something I asked something so simple like playing backgammon online and even tho he didn't know how to play I would have thought, he wouldn't. He used to call me sweet names and stuff but that wasn't enough. IdkPosted by pisceanlovesHow long have you been together?Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesNow I understand he's never been really into me sigh
Virgo Venus will do anything and everything for you and then critize you about anything and everything but it's meant to be in a helpful, caring and loving way. Will buy things for you and do alot to take care of you. If Virgo Venus stops all critisism and any form of caring for you, you can bet your life Venus has gone cold on you and the relationship is pretty much done for. /sigh at the need for perfection but lack of accepting it's not out there and is something that has to be realized
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Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPretty much I was the one who cared too much, felt like it. I was the one who was deathly afraid of losing him. Then i called on his bs and I confronted him, saying I don't deserve the way he treats me and I'm too good for that kind of stuff so we need to end everything altogether. My bad I didn't mean it, I thought he cared enough to work on a relationship. I thought he would realize he was wrong. Why won't you ever tell me if you don't want to have anything with me? that's what kills me, why don't you say that you don't want to have anything with me, that you don't like me. Why would you torture me being completely silent? then again I sent him a gift for his bday. Maybe I shouldn't have done that but I wanted to, not for making any changes between us but pure desire to do something for him. I was waiting for this special day too long and I just couldn't ignore it. Idk, maybe it's stupid of me, still waiting, waiting and waiting, who knows how long. But he won't come back, maybe I try another year to reach him, but I'm too embarrassed to do so. I don't know if I'll be able to make a movePosted by pisceanlovesHow long have you been together?Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesNow I understand he's never been really into me sigh
Virgo Venus will do anything and everything for you and then critize you about anything and everything but it's meant to be in a helpful, caring and loving way. Will buy things for you and do alot to take care of you. If Virgo Venus stops all critisism and any form of caring for you, you can bet your life Venus has gone cold on you and the relationship is pretty much done for. /sigh at the need for perfection but lack of accepting it's not out there and is something that has to be realized
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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3You guys like damsels in distress that need your help desperately!! Don't you!! Lol. Admit it!! I wish I could be one cause I love Cap Venus!!! 😣Posted by saggurl88Lol 😜Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3You guys suck with not giving up info!! 😛
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Posted by edgelordI get jealous all the time bc I want all the attention 😡Posted by Sunsetvirgoi never in a million years would've guessed you're jealous, leo veen.
Leo Venus:
I get jealous bc your my person and I’m yours and why are you talking to someone else when I’m here :/
Also I want to be mush and I like to compliment and there’s a dazzle in my eye when I look at you. Much affection
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Posted by Soulmy cancer venus wants to take it slow to make sure its the right choice.
Cancer Venus tend to hold back a bit despite being really lovey dovey and giving the impression they really want a relationship. Truthfully they want to see how you take care of yourself and make life choices. We tend to like people that aren't idiots and can mostly take care of themselves. Not because we can't take care of them, but mostly because we don't want to. The last thing we want is to fall in love and be loyal to a person that brings more problems into our lives then they are worth.

Posted by edgelordI want all of the attention 😒Posted by Sunsetvirgovirgo girls are nice. but that attention thing. lmao. all i do is give attention and it never seems enough. though if i attract another virgo i hope they have a leo venus. it's the best for virgos imo. none of that water venus or earth venus crap.Posted by edgelordI get jealous all the time bc I want all the attention 😡Posted by Sunsetvirgoi never in a million years would've guessed you're jealous, leo veen.
Leo Venus:
I get jealous bc your my person and I’m yours and why are you talking to someone else when I’m here :/
Also I want to be mush and I like to compliment and there’s a dazzle in my eye when I look at you. Much affection
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Posted by lesenfantterriblesBut they love helpless women though. Lol Believe me, I can't do that either.Posted by saggurl88i am not cap venus male but damsel in distress sounds repulsivePosted by Evoxxxscorpio3You guys like damsels in distress that need your help desperately!! Don't you!! Lol. Admit it!! I wish I could be one cause I love Cap Venus!!! 😣Posted by saggurl88Lol 😜Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3You guys suck with not giving up info!! 😛
Cap venus here but I don’t know lol
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Posted by NotInterestedthat sounds like your Libra mars too. lolPosted by mini_asianWell I cant speak for all Pisces Venus but for me personally when Im into a guy I want to know them more. I spend a lot of time daydreaming about being with them and imagining how a relationship with them would be like. Almost everything reminds me of them, especially if I know it's something they like, or do etc. But I also am not very forward with my feelings at all so most of the time I wont make a move. But that was more when I was a teen. I was very passive with guys I liked. But I think now if there is a guy I really like(which I do like this one guy a lot right now) I will try to get them to notice me by dressing up nice and smile at them. & be really kind to them. & if they talk to me show interest in what they like. Talk about them more than I talk about myself initially ya know 😏 And not talk about myself a lot just to play mysterious a bit. I also tend to try to find similarities between us so I can say to myself were meant to be lmaooo so cheesy
Hypothetically of course, please feel free to share. I've notice that there's a difference between when people are initially crushing on someone than actually developing feelings for them.click to expand

Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI'm curious if other people noticed the same thing about Virgo Venus in that they will not lavish you with words of affirmation BUT completely fawn about you to others.
Virgo Venus will do anything and everything for you and then critize you about anything and everything but it's meant to be in a helpful, caring and loving way. Will buy things for you and do alot to take care of you. If Virgo Venus stops all critisism and any form of caring for you, you can bet your life Venus has gone cold on you and the relationship is pretty much done for. /sigh at the need for perfection but lack of accepting it's not out there and is something that has to be realized

Posted by Mariah18Finally some insight on Gemini Venus! I was always curious how y'all operate on a romantic level, I've always dated Gemini suns but never Venuses. This is all new to me, the person I'm talking to has this placement and they're kinda shy and being careful. Idk whether it's because they've developed feelings or what but they went from blowing up my phone to radio silence.
gemini venus
when im crushing im super observant and shy......sometimes bit sarcastic. i dont do this on purpose it just happens
if i have feelings it means that person has at least giving me some confirmation im a person they love seeing! therefor i become more open....not spilling my guts though
but im talking..........special treatments....catering to that person. keeping in touch. trying to make them feel good
i like pointing out good traits in people ...so the man i think highly of wont feel left out hahahah
but still carefull though.......
i love the whole dating part......it has to lead to something but i loveeeeeee the dating and the building up....lol

Posted by DamnataI can attest that, my ex was a Cancer venus and she basically built a "nest," around me when she decided to claim me as hers haha.
If you get this delusional lunatic idea that someone actually really cares about you and you feel safe and secure around them....that someone is a Cancer Venus who's into you.

Posted by edgelordThey're so loyal that it hurts, from personal experience they would literally give their life and more to you. "I swear fealty to you," sorta shit. When I left to go workout for 2+ hours she'd freak and blow up my phone when I didn't text her back. She cried because she thought I got in a wreck/kidnapped and damn near filed a missing person's report. My Scorpio Venus got off of being protective but Aries moon not so much, I need space.Posted by Damnataisn't cancer venus super loyal too and shit? or at least when i read descriptions it's like 1. emo and sensitive 2. loyal 3. will eat a baby if you leave them.Posted by edgelordI said "idea" aka something you're not sure of.Posted by Damnatathis sounded like leo venus up until the very end. 😆
If you get this delusional lunatic idea that someone actually really cares about you and you feel safe and secure around them....that someone is a Cancer Venus who's into you.
Leo Venus would make it certain.
that's the gist i've gotten from it anyway.click to expand

Posted by edgelordI already thought it was bad enough with Aries moon, thank you Scorpio Venus/Virgo Sun RBF throwing people off.
i should probably talk about my aries venus while i'm here.
no one in your life will doubt my interest in you. even if i don't want to be obvious about it.
worst thing about it tbh

Posted by saggurl88They know you're in the bushes/trees in front of their room lmao. I kid, but as a fellow ViS for some reason I won't stalk anyone even if I'm highkey about them. I just lay on heavy, if they respond with interest I kick it up even more. Even when I'm getting to know them I'll be imagining how I'm going to go down on them hahaha.Posted by hellosaggyProbably cause your airing out all your business! 😛 I only want to do this with someone I'm interested in and I'm currently NOT dating anyone. lolPosted by saggurl88@saggurl88
Scorpio Venus, silently stalk you, want to have lots of sex and be around you. I'll want to have sex whether I'm crushing on you or actually getting to know you, cause sex is how I get to know someone fully. Theres's no hiding when you're naked!
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Posted by ellesbellesI've noticed this a trend with air Venuses, like y'all scatter like roaches the moments the love light turns on.
Libra Venus in the 12th house - I shower you with attention and gifts. I like to do things for you.
When you return the sentiment or acknowledge, I run like the wind.

Posted by Mariah18If I know the guy isn't interested, I will not keep chasing. I will give up. I'm always up for sex. Men usually won't tell me no, I usually make then wait until I'm ready.Posted by hellosaggy@saggurl88Posted by saggurl88@saggurl88
Scorpio Venus, silently stalk you, want to have lots of sex and be around you. I'll want to have sex whether I'm crushing on you or actually getting to know you, cause sex is how I get to know someone fully. Theres's no hiding when you're naked!
How cum when I do it... its a problem though?
ok....this sounds reallllly familair.....sooo...what if you dont get to have sex with that person....but they dont push you away..........will you keep trying— lol
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Posted by mini_asianI imagine sex details and the things I want to do all the time!! 😆 Even planning it out and fitting it into future conversations. Lol.Posted by saggurl88They know you're in the bushes/trees in front of their room lmao. I kid, but as a fellow ViS for some reason I won't stalk anyone even if I'm highkey about them. I just lay on heavy, if they respond with interest I kick it up even more. Even when I'm getting to know them I'll be imagining how I'm going to go down on them hahaha.Posted by hellosaggyProbably cause your airing out all your business! 😛 I only want to do this with someone I'm interested in and I'm currently NOT dating anyone. lolPosted by saggurl88@saggurl88
Scorpio Venus, silently stalk you, want to have lots of sex and be around you. I'll want to have sex whether I'm crushing on you or actually getting to know you, cause sex is how I get to know someone fully. Theres's no hiding when you're naked!
How cum when I do it... its a problem though?click to expand

Posted by DamnataI also wonder the same thing. I was really speaking from a personal experience so the fact that others do agree to some point, makes me feel a little better. I hate the fact that I give criticism, but I honestly mean it from a good place, perhaps the delivery of it needs to be more refined lolPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI'm curious if other people noticed the same thing about Virgo Venus in that they will not lavish you with words of affirmation BUT completely fawn about you to others.
Virgo Venus will do anything and everything for you and then critize you about anything and everything but it's meant to be in a helpful, caring and loving way. Will buy things for you and do alot to take care of you. If Virgo Venus stops all critisism and any form of caring for you, you can bet your life Venus has gone cold on you and the relationship is pretty much done for. /sigh at the need for perfection but lack of accepting it's not out there and is something that has to be realized
My father has it and one year as I was home he went again fullblown on criticism. Giving praise really isn't his thing. Later in the day we met with some friends of his I haven't met before and he had to go buy some cigarettes so left me in their company. The guys were all "Oh so nice to meet you we heard so many awesome things about you, you should see how your dad describes you". I was there being like "wat".
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Posted by pisceanlovesI was speaking more from a personal experience though too. What are all his other placements?Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesCan't pick anything from your statement what matches him in any way. I've never really asked for anything, just wanted to spend more time with him. Sometimes he would ignore me, would disappear in the middle of the conversation, not necessarily saying good night. Too quiet type, once he was away and i told him wish he was there for me, he would have cooked something cause I was too hungry, he didn't respond for minutes until I said I was just kidding and I could take care of myself. Then there was something I asked something so simple like playing backgammon online and even tho he didn't know how to play I would have thought, he wouldn't. He used to call me sweet names and stuff but that wasn't enough. IdkPosted by pisceanlovesHow long have you been together?Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesNow I understand he's never been really into me sigh
Virgo Venus will do anything and everything for you and then critize you about anything and everything but it's meant to be in a helpful, caring and loving way. Will buy things for you and do alot to take care of you. If Virgo Venus stops all critisism and any form of caring for you, you can bet your life Venus has gone cold on you and the relationship is pretty much done for. /sigh at the need for perfection but lack of accepting it's not out there and is something that has to be realized
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Posted by lesenfantterriblesPosted by Smidgeim cap venus 🙂
Where are the cap venus'? I'm getting impatient.
if i know someone is into me & i am into them & the deal is pretty much sealed:
i am super flirty, i touch a lot, ask A LOT of questions about their interests, start researching their interests, probably gift them something related to their interest, make them laugh (this is important: if i aint laughin, we aint fuckin), text heavy, i get a real pep in my step, usually smiling ear to ear. i will not feel discomfort in expressing my feelings for them.
if i am into someone & it is unclear whether or not they are into me:
i am reserved, i dont talk as much, i wont make as many jokes, i get a little awkward, avoid eye contact, i text every couple of days, i try to feel the "vibe" as much as possible. i will never ever ever ever make a move until i have felt there is enough of interest expressed.
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Posted by hazeofpixiedust
Cap Venus!
If we both like each other and are already sort of a "thing" I will get really bubbly and inquisitive. I will try to make you laugh and ask you lots of questions about your life if you seem comfortable. I'll be really playful with you. I'll scout areas in your life where you might need help/support and try to help in anyway I can (example, you're not eating right or well - I'll cook for you, you're behind on laundry - I'll do it for ya, etc). I'll try to help with advice if you are hurting in some area. I'll be your biggest fan 😄 and support you. I'll come onto you sexually all the time. All. the. time. loll.
If we are unsure of each other but there's sooomething there -- yeesh. I don't know. I think I just go awkward but I will usually fall back on trying to make you laugh. I'll be flirty and come onto you a little but not much. I'll usually wait to get more signs from the guy before doing much more than this.
A friend once told me I would benefit more with going for what I want. When I think about it, it's true that (and I heard someone else say it earlier in this thread) I will kind of just wait around to see who is "seeking" me and go from there. There have only been a couple times in my life where I really went for a guy I wanted. Most have come to me and I decide from there.
I wonder if this is typical of Cap Venus? Kind of feels like just letting life happen to you in a sense rather than making things happen for yourself... something to think about I guess!

Posted by saggurl88That’s the opposite of what they like. They like capable women. Accomplished, Driven, Goal oriented women. Stable women with their life togetherPosted by Evoxxxscorpio3You guys like damsels in distress that need your help desperately!! Don't you!! Lol. Admit it!! I wish I could be one cause I love Cap Venus!!! 😣Posted by saggurl88Lol 😜Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3You guys suck with not giving up info!! 😛
Cap venus here but I don’t know lol
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Posted by HaziiFloGotta love that Venusian (Pisces) 😉Posted by EvatheDivaBasically describing my Venus.
Piscean Venus -- I will start to break out the candles, teddies, "special perfumes" just for him! I will ask for his time of birth, etc., and look up his chart. I will start to cook/bake, leave little notes behind, suggest we "shower together", etc. I've NEVER done this before as this guy will be "special" to me.
I will STILL have to be grounded though. If I don't want to do something, I will inform him, as I will ask for communication, too. There is always a give and take with me; no more give, give, give. I am "mutable" which means if he texts me 10,000 times a day; I will do the same. If he calls 10,000 times a day I will do the same. I will NEVER post in here to ask, "Why doesn't he talk to me? Why doesn't he text? etc."
And as a rule of thumb, I will tell him, "If you cheat on me I will leave you forever; never to return".
NO specific change; just your normal "lovey dovey" romantic gestures that I love! Mind you, any "little" gesture opens up my heart! I don't like to fight and I don't start fights...I end them 😉
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
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Posted by Aries_LuminaryPosted by saggurl88That’s the opposite of what they like. They like capable women. Accomplished, Driven, Goal oriented women. Stable women with their life togetherPosted by Evoxxxscorpio3You guys like damsels in distress that need your help desperately!! Don't you!! Lol. Admit it!! I wish I could be one cause I love Cap Venus!!! 😣Posted by saggurl88Lol 😜Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3You guys suck with not giving up info!! 😛
Cap venus here but I don’t know lol
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Posted by NotInterestedwhat is your sun moon and ascendant ?Posted by mini_asianWell I cant speak for all Pisces Venus but for me personally when Im into a guy I want to know them more. I spend a lot of time daydreaming about being with them and imagining how a relationship with them would be like. Almost everything reminds me of them, especially if I know it's something they like, or do etc. But I also am not very forward with my feelings at all so most of the time I wont make a move. But that was more when I was a teen. I was very passive with guys I liked. But I think now if there is a guy I really like(which I do like this one guy a lot right now) I will try to get them to notice me by dressing up nice and smile at them. & be really kind to them. & if they talk to me show interest in what they like. Talk about them more than I talk about myself initially ya know 😏 And not talk about myself a lot just to play mysterious a bit. I also tend to try to find similarities between us so I can say to myself were meant to be lmaooo so cheesy
Hypothetically of course, please feel free to share. I've notice that there's a difference between when people are initially crushing on someone than actually developing feelings for them.click to expand

Posted by Smidgescorpio mars has tunnel vision - he knows what he wantsPosted by lesenfantterriblesThanks, maybe I will. 😎Posted by Smidgegirl, i say he's interested. i definitely go w/ the pace that is set. a male cap venus may be different but i respect the flow of the other person.
Yeah, he's kinda mirroring my behaviour atm it seems. When we first started talking he was overly confident, I took a huge step back, then he took one too and it slowed right down.
He's Scorpio mars
if you are feelin' him, throw him a lil bone. but like.... just a little one...
Also he's completely ignoring my efforts to sabotage everything. I'm kinda impressed tbh...he'll just text the next day like " HI"...reminds me of that dog from UP when they try to get rid of him by throwing the ball but he just keeps coming back.click to expand
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