Young guys (Page 2)

Unless you are being afraid of being judged by other people or protecting your image

Posted by sweethearts

Posted by Saul_of_Tarsus

Just say "I'm flattered but I have no interest being anything other than an acquaintance with you. I hope you respect that decision."

Although I doubt this is the problem....

I probably didn’t explain myself properly, the OP was just an example.. but this ^^^

Being more direct and to the point rather than thinking too much about not trying to hurt someone else’s feelings, as it clearly doesn’t work. They do always come back with answers and flattery like it’s a debate when you’ve made a statement though. I’m going to open the message and answer it.

Tbh, I really like going to that store, I’m always fixing up something and it’s conveniently close 😂

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March back in and shout

“GIVE ME YOUR BIGGEST TOOL, MISTER”

😂😅

Hahaha!!! Do it!

Posted by sweethearts

Why do you want to sleep with your Mumma??

FFS

And I need advice on how I handle this. I have zero interest in anyone that is more than 10 years younger than me. As I get older, I feel I don’t have any more time to be playing around I’ve had my fun and now I am only looking for serious long term.

Now my approach or rather my response probably needs work. I’m Libra and always try to be considerate of others feelings.

Example: A week ago, I was in the local hardware store (Bunnings)which I frequently visit (not anymore.. I’m now going 10ks out of my way to another)

Young guy from my home country I’ve chatted to several times over the years asking for help finding things. He’s always waves out when I’m in (once a month or more frequent if I have a home project happening) haven’t seen him in a while so as he was helping me locate something again, he asks if I’m single and when I said yes asked if I’m on fb… I tried to say Instagram because there’s too much personal info on fb. So feeling put on the spot I give him my fb name. He adds me right there and then… I didn’t pull out my phone and didn’t excepted it or open it.. today I get notification he’s trying to message me 🤦🏼‍♀️ now I can never go back to that store again 😂

I’ve said before in other circumstances, you’re too young. There’s always a come back.

Is the best approach to lie and say, I have someone? I’ve said it before to a friend of a friend but I’m not good handling lies.

Am I manifesting all wrong?

The stupid tarot cards always say keep your mind open but seriously, I have no interest in entertaining anyone I feel is too young.

You clearly have issues with holding your ground. There is absolutely no need to lie. Who cares if they want to come back with a million reasons why your should give them a chance, if you tell someone "you're ass is too young" then mean it and keep it movin' with a polite "thank you very much for the compliment, you just made my day, however it's still gonna be a NO for me". Say it with the sweetest smile if that makes your Leeb bits feel better, just say what you mean and mean what you say.

Manifesting all wrong? I don't think so. Seems like you need to be okay with the "uncomfortable" feeling of rejecting someone flat out. I mean you didn't even want to give this man your FB info, yet felt pressured to do so? Un huh. Work that out. You don't owe anyone anything. No explanation beyond "sorry it's a pass" and most certainly don't owe anyone a web of lies to make them feel nice and "loved" inside because God forbid they get rejected by someone.

Well I'm late to the party, so hopefully someone already wrote this^^^.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

From what I have been able to perceive and gather about sweetheart's personality over many years of DXP-interactions is that to me, she carries this youthful and kind of child-like energy and enthusiasm, which to me is the best way to live life. It's obvious then that she would attract "younger" people.

Having said that, I think in general Libra's do need to learn to say "no" more often in all kinds of situations, once they've mastered this, their energy will change and then they will start attracting more of what/who they really need in their lives.

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Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by sweethearts

Why do you want to sleep with your Mumma??

FFS

And I need advice on how I handle this. I have zero interest in anyone that is more than 10 years younger than me. As I get older, I feel I don’t have any more time to be playing around I’ve had my fun and now I am only looking for serious long term.

Now my approach or rather my response probably needs work. I’m Libra and always try to be considerate of others feelings.

Example: A week ago, I was in the local hardware store (Bunnings)which I frequently visit (not anymore.. I’m now going 10ks out of my way to another)

Young guy from my home country I’ve chatted to several times over the years asking for help finding things. He’s always waves out when I’m in (once a month or more frequent if I have a home project happening) haven’t seen him in a while so as he was helping me locate something again, he asks if I’m single and when I said yes asked if I’m on fb… I tried to say Instagram because there’s too much personal info on fb. So feeling put on the spot I give him my fb name. He adds me right there and then… I didn’t pull out my phone and didn’t excepted it or open it.. today I get notification he’s trying to message me 🤦🏼‍♀️ now I can never go back to that store again 😂

I’ve said before in other circumstances, you’re too young. There’s always a come back.

Is the best approach to lie and say, I have someone? I’ve said it before to a friend of a friend but I’m not good handling lies.

Am I manifesting all wrong?

The stupid tarot cards always say keep your mind open but seriously, I have no interest in entertaining anyone I feel is too young.

You clearly have issues with holding your ground. There is absolutely no need to lie. Who cares if they want to come back with a million reasons why your should give them a chance, if you tell someone "you're ass is too young" then mean it and keep it movin' with a polite "thank you very much for the compliment, you just made my day, however it's still gonna be a NO for me". Say it with the sweetest smile if that makes your Leeb bits feel better, just say what you mean and mean what you say.

Manifesting all wrong? I don't think so. Seems like you need to be okay with the "uncomfortable" feeling of rejecting someone flat out. I mean you didn't even want to give this man your FB info, yet felt pressured to do so? Un huh. Work that out. You don't owe anyone anything. No explanation beyond "sorry it's a pass" and most certainly don't owe anyone a web of lies to make them feel nice and "loved" inside because God forbid they get rejected by someone.

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No you’re exactly right. I do have a problem with being direct and holding my ground. It’s not the first time I’ve put myself into this type of situation and it goes from what should end there to dragging on and me having to work a way out.

Posted by sweethearts

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by sweethearts

Why do you want to sleep with your Mumma??

FFS

And I need advice on how I handle this. I have zero interest in anyone that is more than 10 years younger than me. As I get older, I feel I don’t have any more time to be playing around I’ve had my fun and now I am only looking for serious long term.

Now my approach or rather my response probably needs work. I’m Libra and always try to be considerate of others feelings.

Example: A week ago, I was in the local hardware store (Bunnings)which I frequently visit (not anymore.. I’m now going 10ks out of my way to another)

Young guy from my home country I’ve chatted to several times over the years asking for help finding things. He’s always waves out when I’m in (once a month or more frequent if I have a home project happening) haven’t seen him in a while so as he was helping me locate something again, he asks if I’m single and when I said yes asked if I’m on fb… I tried to say Instagram because there’s too much personal info on fb. So feeling put on the spot I give him my fb name. He adds me right there and then… I didn’t pull out my phone and didn’t excepted it or open it.. today I get notification he’s trying to message me 🤦🏼‍♀️ now I can never go back to that store again 😂

I’ve said before in other circumstances, you’re too young. There’s always a come back.

Is the best approach to lie and say, I have someone? I’ve said it before to a friend of a friend but I’m not good handling lies.

Am I manifesting all wrong?

The stupid tarot cards always say keep your mind open but seriously, I have no interest in entertaining anyone I feel is too young.

You clearly have issues with holding your ground. There is absolutely no need to lie. Who cares if they want to come back with a million reasons why your should give them a chance, if you tell someone "you're ass is too young" then mean it and keep it movin' with a polite "thank you very much for the compliment, you just made my day, however it's still gonna be a NO for me". Say it with the sweetest smile if that makes your Leeb bits feel better, just say what you mean and mean what you say.

Manifesting all wrong? I don't think so. Seems like you need to be okay with the "uncomfortable" feeling of rejecting someone flat out. I mean you didn't even want to give this man your FB info, yet felt pressured to do so? Un huh. Work that out. You don't owe anyone anything. No explanation beyond "sorry it's a pass" and most certainly don't owe anyone a web of lies to make them feel nice and "loved" inside because God forbid they get rejected by someone.

No you’re exactly right. I do have a problem with being direct and holding my ground. It’s not the first time I’ve put myself into this type of situation and it goes from what should end there to dragging on and me having to work a way out.

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It's such a curious thing, because you often give great advice on here and seem to know how to tell other people how to hold their ground lol.

Posted by Hey_Man

Older the berry the sweeter the juice or something like that. I don't know. I've never been into older women.

Darker* the berry, the sweeter…, but don’t tell the racists of Dxp. We don’t want them near us.

Posted by Hypnotoad

Posted by MyStarsShine

I think the younger man wanting to shag his mum because he prefers older women is such a generalization

Men of all ages want a “mummy” figure to look after them. Its not age related ... its down to how needy or mature the man is

The younger men I’ve been with say it’s because older women are sexier, more confident, calmer and self assured.

That's just a generalization too, Men of all ages want a Woman for her tenderness, care and devotion. Life's hard af and it's nice to have some of that goodness in it. If human nature is needy and immature then so be it, if you've got a problem with that then that's your problem.

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I didn’t say i have a problem with it....it’s just something I’ve observed ....

Posted by Hypnotoad

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Hypnotoad

Posted by MyStarsShine

I think the younger man wanting to shag his mum because he prefers older women is such a generalization

Men of all ages want a “mummy” figure to look after them. Its not age related ... its down to how needy or mature the man is

The younger men I’ve been with say it’s because older women are sexier, more confident, calmer and self assured.

That's just a generalization too, Men of all ages want a Woman for her tenderness, care and devotion. Life's hard af and it's nice to have some of that goodness in it. If human nature is needy and immature then so be it, if you've got a problem with that then that's your problem.

I didn’t say i have a problem with it....it’s just something I’ve observed ....

"its down to how needy or mature the man is"

Uh huh.

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....and that’s not my problem lol

I don’t have those men in my life

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

Posted by Hey_Man

Older the berry the sweeter the juice or something like that. I don't know. I've never been into older women.

Darker* the berry, the sweeter…, but don’t tell the racists of Dxp. We don’t want them near us.

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You’re so smooth! Wish you were into (older) women, lol!

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by sweethearts

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by sweethearts

Why do you want to sleep with your Mumma??

FFS

And I need advice on how I handle this. I have zero interest in anyone that is more than 10 years younger than me. As I get older, I feel I don’t have any more time to be playing around I’ve had my fun and now I am only looking for serious long term.

Now my approach or rather my response probably needs work. I’m Libra and always try to be considerate of others feelings.

Example: A week ago, I was in the local hardware store (Bunnings)which I frequently visit (not anymore.. I’m now going 10ks out of my way to another)

Young guy from my home country I’ve chatted to several times over the years asking for help finding things. He’s always waves out when I’m in (once a month or more frequent if I have a home project happening) haven’t seen him in a while so as he was helping me locate something again, he asks if I’m single and when I said yes asked if I’m on fb… I tried to say Instagram because there’s too much personal info on fb. So feeling put on the spot I give him my fb name. He adds me right there and then… I didn’t pull out my phone and didn’t excepted it or open it.. today I get notification he’s trying to message me 🤦🏼‍♀️ now I can never go back to that store again 😂

I’ve said before in other circumstances, you’re too young. There’s always a come back.

Is the best approach to lie and say, I have someone? I’ve said it before to a friend of a friend but I’m not good handling lies.

Am I manifesting all wrong?

The stupid tarot cards always say keep your mind open but seriously, I have no interest in entertaining anyone I feel is too young.

You clearly have issues with holding your ground. There is absolutely no need to lie. Who cares if they want to come back with a million reasons why your should give them a chance, if you tell someone "you're ass is too young" then mean it and keep it movin' with a polite "thank you very much for the compliment, you just made my day, however it's still gonna be a NO for me". Say it with the sweetest smile if that makes your Leeb bits feel better, just say what you mean and mean what you say.

Manifesting all wrong? I don't think so. Seems like you need to be okay with the "uncomfortable" feeling of rejecting someone flat out. I mean you didn't even want to give this man your FB info, yet felt pressured to do so? Un huh. Work that out. You don't owe anyone anything. No explanation beyond "sorry it's a pass" and most certainly don't owe anyone a web of lies to make them feel nice and "loved" inside because God forbid they get rejected by someone.

No you’re exactly right. I do have a problem with being direct and holding my ground. It’s not the first time I’ve put myself into this type of situation and it goes from what should end there to dragging on and me having to work a way out.

It such a curious thing, because you often give great advice on here and seem to know how to tell other people how to hold their ground lol.

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lol isn’t that always the way with most here…great giving advice but can’t see the wood through the trees with our own?

Posted by Wizardz

Posted by sweethearts

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by sweethearts

Why do you want to sleep with your Mumma??

FFS

And I need advice on how I handle this. I have zero interest in anyone that is more than 10 years younger than me. As I get older, I feel I don’t have any more time to be playing around I’ve had my fun and now I am only looking for serious long term.

Now my approach or rather my response probably needs work. I’m Libra and always try to be considerate of others feelings.

Example: A week ago, I was in the local hardware store (Bunnings)which I frequently visit (not anymore.. I’m now going 10ks out of my way to another)

Young guy from my home country I’ve chatted to several times over the years asking for help finding things. He’s always waves out when I’m in (once a month or more frequent if I have a home project happening) haven’t seen him in a while so as he was helping me locate something again, he asks if I’m single and when I said yes asked if I’m on fb… I tried to say Instagram because there’s too much personal info on fb. So feeling put on the spot I give him my fb name. He adds me right there and then… I didn’t pull out my phone and didn’t excepted it or open it.. today I get notification he’s trying to message me 🤦🏼‍♀️ now I can never go back to that store again 😂

I’ve said before in other circumstances, you’re too young. There’s always a come back.

Is the best approach to lie and say, I have someone? I’ve said it before to a friend of a friend but I’m not good handling lies.

Am I manifesting all wrong?

The stupid tarot cards always say keep your mind open but seriously, I have no interest in entertaining anyone I feel is too young.

You clearly have issues with holding your ground. There is absolutely no need to lie. Who cares if they want to come back with a million reasons why your should give them a chance, if you tell someone "you're ass is too young" then mean it and keep it movin' with a polite "thank you very much for the compliment, you just made my day, however it's still gonna be a NO for me". Say it with the sweetest smile if that makes your Leeb bits feel better, just say what you mean and mean what you say.

Manifesting all wrong? I don't think so. Seems like you need to be okay with the "uncomfortable" feeling of rejecting someone flat out. I mean you didn't even want to give this man your FB info, yet felt pressured to do so? Un huh. Work that out. You don't owe anyone anything. No explanation beyond "sorry it's a pass" and most certainly don't owe anyone a web of lies to make them feel nice and "loved" inside because God forbid they get rejected by someone.

No you’re exactly right. I do have a problem with being direct and holding my ground. It’s not the first time I’ve put myself into this type of situation and it goes from what should end there to dragging on and me having to work a way out.

This is very endearing to me. Having to drive 10 miles further now because you are avoiding a guy whose facebook message is haunting you with it's notification that it's sitting there unread 🤣

I love this about Libras. They're all calm and composed on the outside and then when you see inside their minds they're worried about something seemingly inconsequential because they don't want anything upsetting their balance - it's so sweet

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Mental isn’t it?? But the struggle is real 🙄 pure libra here trying to maintain my balance.

Posted by Hypnotoad

Posted by sweethearts

Posted by AbbyNormal

Stop worrying about age and let the man pursue you!!!

If a man is closer to your kids age than yours… is it a man or a kid 😆

Did you or did you not need his advice on some DIY shit?

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Nope, just needed him to show me where a car trolley was because the check out girl couldn’t find it on the computer. I normally get my sausages outside Bunnings 😝

You guys gave me courage to front this so I went to Bunnings today to return something and decided, not going to let this stop me going to my local store. Had a plan in place to tell him point blank, didn’t see your message and don’t do social media much but I’m not interested. To my relief, he wasn’t there .. means he doesn’t work Mondays, so I’m gonna be going there on Mondays from now on 😂😂😂