Posted by HypnotoadPosted by MyStarsShine
Iāll have fish, chips and mushy peas
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Posted by HypnotoadPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by HypnotoadPosted by MyStarsShine
Iāll have fish, chips and mushy peas
Please š
Culture
Staple diet of the English working class lol
Same here, but wrapped in paper with Tomato sauce instead of peasclick to expand
Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88
Like with everything- this depends on looks. For some Bumble is a life saver, cause they only get the matches theyāve swiped on, instead filtering through PMās that looks like a damn spam folder.
I donāt know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they donāt even know you.
You couldāve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now youāre all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
show me ur bumble profile im lazy af to do mineclick to expand
Posted by saggurl88
Like with everything- this depends on looks. For some Bumble is a life saver, cause they only get the matches theyāve swiped on, instead filtering through PMās that looks like a damn spam folder.
I donāt know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they donāt even know you.
You couldāve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now youāre all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88
Like with everything- this depends on looks. For some Bumble is a life saver, cause they only get the matches theyāve swiped on, instead filtering through PMās that looks like a damn spam folder.
I donāt know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they donāt even know you.
You couldāve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now youāre all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
show me ur bumble profile im lazy af to do mine
I currently donāt have one. Lol.
Mine was serious and boring.
A few pics and it said āI go on dates, Iām not trying to text all day with a penpal.ā
Short and to the point lol.
Youāve never taken ME on a date..click to expand
Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88
Like with everything- this depends on looks. For some Bumble is a life saver, cause they only get the matches theyāve swiped on, instead filtering through PMās that looks like a damn spam folder.
I donāt know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they donāt even know you.
You couldāve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now youāre all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
show me ur bumble profile im lazy af to do mine
I currently donāt have one. Lol.
Mine was serious and boring.
A few pics and it said āI go on dates, Iām not trying to text all day with a penpal.ā
Short and to the point lol.
Youāve never taken ME on a date..
š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£ I will pay half. But thatās about it. I never pay for a date with a man unless itās his birthday.
Iāll walk a trail in a park for free on a date before I pay for one.
I tell guys Iām fine with nature dates. They donāt have to spend money if they donāt want to.
Itās hard on mens wallets when it comes to dating and expectations.
Why havenāt we walked a trail together? And you made beautiful garlic bread, steak and some sort of side?click to expand
Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88
Like with everything- this depends on looks. For some Bumble is a life saver, cause they only get the matches theyāve swiped on, instead filtering through PMās that looks like a damn spam folder.
I donāt know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they donāt even know you.
You couldāve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now youāre all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
show me ur bumble profile im lazy af to do mine
I currently donāt have one. Lol.
Mine was serious and boring.
A few pics and it said āI go on dates, Iām not trying to text all day with a penpal.ā
Short and to the point lol.
Youāve never taken ME on a date..
š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£ I will pay half. But thatās about it. I never pay for a date with a man unless itās his birthday.
Iāll walk a trail in a park for free on a date before I pay for one.
I tell guys Iām fine with nature dates. They donāt have to spend money if they donāt want to.
Itās hard on mens wallets when it comes to dating and expectations.
Why havenāt we walked a trail together? And you made beautiful garlic bread, steak and some sort of side?
Hahaha. That actually would be a great date. A little camping date in the woods. We can walk, talk, eat, and then being the cereal killer mutable that I am. You know what comes next!!! šŖ
Fantastic First Date!! š¤£š¤£
I'm a cereal killer as well. I could murder a box of froot loops.click to expand
Posted by alexscariesPosted by goldenfish
It is the same for men and women: when you have 10-15 convos going and 5-7 dates scheduled, a few unanswered messages go unnoticed.
If you only have a match once in a blue moon it is a different story. Also, I think it is a pretty strong wording "rejection" for something so small like unmatch/no reply.
People reject for different reasons could be purely superficial, could be distance, could even be because they don't like the answers. In that situation I can see why some people take it personally, but it's best to move on.click to expand
Posted by nanobotzPosted by saggurl88
Iāll just place this here š
My personal favorite: being called a āgold diggerā for not wanting to date a broke guy, when youāre literally an engineer with a nice salary ššššclick to expand
Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Posted by alexscariesPosted by goldenfish
It is the same for men and women: when you have 10-15 convos going and 5-7 dates scheduled, a few unanswered messages go unnoticed.
If you only have a match once in a blue moon it is a different story. Also, I think it is a pretty strong wording "rejection" for something so small like unmatch/no reply.
People reject for different reasons could be purely superficial, could be distance, could even be because they don't like the answers. In that situation I can see why some people take it personally, but it's best to move on.
Why do they take it personally? I'm genuinely curious.
I can't speak for anyone as I've said before I'm not active on any dating sites, but anywhere you take time to post pictures and write a bio a pass is technically rejecting someone's looks and personality. As I've said before it could be because someone is 50km away, but how would anyone know the reason unless it is said?click to expand
Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Posted by alexscariesPosted by goldenfish
It is the same for men and women: when you have 10-15 convos going and 5-7 dates scheduled, a few unanswered messages go unnoticed.
If you only have a match once in a blue moon it is a different story. Also, I think it is a pretty strong wording "rejection" for something so small like unmatch/no reply.
People reject for different reasons could be purely superficial, could be distance, could even be because they don't like the answers. In that situation I can see why some people take it personally, but it's best to move on.
Why do they take it personally? I'm genuinely curious.
I can't speak for anyone as I've said before I'm not active on any dating sites, but anywhere you take time to post pictures and write a bio a pass is technically rejecting someone's looks and personality. As I've said before it could be because someone is 50km away, but how would anyone know the reason unless it is said?
Oh. š„“ Wow, someone has to be very sensitive to think of that as rejection.
The ego has to be enormous on a person to think that they're every ones type and that they should have a look at the profile and read what they wrote lol
Dating sites are just like this website or Yahoo! You look at what grabs your attention, and that's about it.
The impression I get is a lot of people treat like Instagram, post pics get told they are sexy, but never meet anyone.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88
...I donāt know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they donāt even know you.
You couldāve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now youāre all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
Posted by Gobbie
A word of warning to men using Bumble: if you're ever banned, rightly or wrongly, be prepared to be publicly ridiculed.
https://bumble.com/the-buzz/an-open-letter-to-connor
https://bumble.com/en/the-buzz/an-open-letter-to-michael
Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShine
Such a strange name to call a dating site š„“
Bumble ~ : blunder specifically : to speak ineptly in a stuttering and faltering manner.
2 : to proceed unsteadily : stumble.
Lol š
It's based off a bumble bee, as in like bees round honey or a hive of activity.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88
Like with everything- this depends on looks. For some Bumble is a life saver, cause they only get the matches theyāve swiped on, instead filtering through PMās that looks like a damn spam folder.
I donāt know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they donāt even know you.
You couldāve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now youāre all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
show me ur bumble profile im lazy af to do mine
I currently donāt have one. Lol.
Mine was serious and boring.
A few pics and it said āI go on dates, Iām not trying to text all day with a penpal.ā
Short and to the point lol.
Youāve never taken ME on a date..
š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£ I will pay half. But thatās about it. I never pay for a date with a man unless itās his birthday.
Iāll walk a trail in a park for free on a date before I pay for one.
I tell guys Iām fine with nature dates. They donāt have to spend money if they donāt want to.
Itās hard on mens wallets when it comes to dating and expectations.click to expand
Posted by GenericUsernamePosted by saggurl88Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88
Like with everything- this depends on looks. For some Bumble is a life saver, cause they only get the matches theyāve swiped on, instead filtering through PMās that looks like a damn spam folder.
I donāt know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they donāt even know you.
You couldāve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now youāre all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
show me ur bumble profile im lazy af to do mine
I currently donāt have one. Lol.
Mine was serious and boring.
A few pics and it said āI go on dates, Iām not trying to text all day with a penpal.ā
Short and to the point lol.
Youāve never taken ME on a date..
š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£ I will pay half. But thatās about it. I never pay for a date with a man unless itās his birthday.
Iāll walk a trail in a park for free on a date before I pay for one.
I tell guys Iām fine with nature dates. They donāt have to spend money if they donāt want to.
Itās hard on mens wallets when it comes to dating and expectations.
First I have to say that I thought Bumble was an user here...
@saggurl88
Well if you have in mind how much we as women spend on our bodies because of biology and social constructs ( menstruation, depilation, make up and maintenance ) it's fair that they give more in the dating scene š¤click to expand
Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88Posted by nanobotzPosted by saggurl88
Iāll just place this here š
My personal favorite: being called a āgold diggerā for not wanting to date a broke guy, when youāre literally an engineer with a nice salary šššš
š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£ Any man who says this type of things is not someone in my income bracket anyways š š š½
Men that have great financial positions/jobs never complain.
it isnt about money it's about feeling aliveclick to expand
Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88Posted by nanobotzPosted by saggurl88
Iāll just place this here š
My personal favorite: being called a āgold diggerā for not wanting to date a broke guy, when youāre literally an engineer with a nice salary šššš
š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£ Any man who says this type of things is not someone in my income bracket anyways š š š½
Men that have great financial positions/jobs never complain.
it isnt about money it's about feeling alive
Money makes the world go round.
What happens if your job told you that itās not about money itās about feeling?
You canāt get anywhere without money. Someone has to have some!
This world is slavery because of money,click to expand
Posted by rabidtalker
It's been around for 8 years now, the respond within a day thing is tough for those of us who are super busy.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by GenericUsernamePosted by saggurl88Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88
Like with everything- this depends on looks. For some Bumble is a life saver, cause they only get the matches theyāve swiped on, instead filtering through PMās that looks like a damn spam folder.
I donāt know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they donāt even know you.
You couldāve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now youāre all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
show me ur bumble profile im lazy af to do mine
I currently donāt have one. Lol.
Mine was serious and boring.
A few pics and it said āI go on dates, Iām not trying to text all day with a penpal.ā
Short and to the point lol.
Youāve never taken ME on a date..
š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£ I will pay half. But thatās about it. I never pay for a date with a man unless itās his birthday.
Iāll walk a trail in a park for free on a date before I pay for one.
I tell guys Iām fine with nature dates. They donāt have to spend money if they donāt want to.
Itās hard on mens wallets when it comes to dating and expectations.
First I have to say that I thought Bumble was an user here...
@saggurl88
Well if you have in mind how much we as women spend on our bodies because of biology and social constructs ( menstruation, depilation, make up and maintenance ) it's fair that they give more in the dating scene š¤
š¤£š¤£š¤£ I thought bumble was global. I like it cause I swipe on what I like and no one else has contact with me unless I want them to š š
Itās a great filter. I never see who is interested. So I donāt know why guys take this as some sort of rejection.
They canāt even message you if the woman doesnāt swipe on them and message first.
Works for me! š¤Ŗ
Iām not up for endless chats with 10 different guys.
And like some guys here, they assume a woman is talking to tons of men. They lose before the race even starts.
How can they draw interest from a woman starting out with such a negative mind set?
Sucks for them. š„“click to expand
Posted by GammaArietis
The only takeaway I got from this article is that men ruin the dating experience every chance they get. Men are swiping right on everyone and Iām sure the algorithm then shows women the people who are swiping on them to give them the opportunity to swipe back to make a match.
Men are destroying the algorithm so women are being bombarded with matches who havenāt even taken 2 seconds to read their profile to see if they are compatible.
When men canāt have their way they ruin the experience for everyone.
āRather than evaluating profiles carefully and swiping āyesā on women theyāre serious about, men are often likely to swipe right based only on the profile photo.
In addition, many men approach online dating as a numbers game and practice what some call āpower swipingā or āshotgun swipingā by saying āyesā to everyone and seeing who shows interest and matches with them. Many of them will only read a womenās profile information after matching.ā
Posted by GenericUsernamePosted by saggurl88Posted by GenericUsernamePosted by saggurl88Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88
Like with everything- this depends on looks. For some Bumble is a life saver, cause they only get the matches theyāve swiped on, instead filtering through PMās that looks like a damn spam folder.
I donāt know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they donāt even know you.
You couldāve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now youāre all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
show me ur bumble profile im lazy af to do mine
I currently donāt have one. Lol.
Mine was serious and boring.
A few pics and it said āI go on dates, Iām not trying to text all day with a penpal.ā
Short and to the point lol.
Youāve never taken ME on a date..
š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£ I will pay half. But thatās about it. I never pay for a date with a man unless itās his birthday.
Iāll walk a trail in a park for free on a date before I pay for one.
I tell guys Iām fine with nature dates. They donāt have to spend money if they donāt want to.
Itās hard on mens wallets when it comes to dating and expectations.
First I have to say that I thought Bumble was an user here...
@saggurl88
Well if you have in mind how much we as women spend on our bodies because of biology and social constructs ( menstruation, depilation, make up and maintenance ) it's fair that they give more in the dating scene š¤
š¤£š¤£š¤£ I thought bumble was global. I like it cause I swipe on what I like and no one else has contact with me unless I want them to š š
Itās a great filter. I never see who is interested. So I donāt know why guys take this as some sort of rejection.
They canāt even message you if the woman doesnāt swipe on them and message first.
Works for me! š¤Ŗ
Iām not up for endless chats with 10 different guys.
And like some guys here, they assume a woman is talking to tons of men. They lose before the race even starts.
How can they draw interest from a woman starting out with such a negative mind set?
Sucks for them. š„“
I don't use such apps because I am simply not interested, but because my country is so small, population of 600 000 we have a weird mentality, so I know that there is a hacked Tinder version, and mostly homosexual men use it.click to expand
Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by HypnotoadPosted by nanobotz
I downloaded bumble but didnāt use it. I found way too much effort and not in my personality type to be the pursuer. I prefer to just have messages come in as a woman does, and then I end up ignoring them because how many times can you honestly answer a disingenuous āhow are you?ā before it gets too boring š
Having some interesting or weird shit going on in your photos/bio for a guy to make some stupid joke about is great, anything at all. You'd be amazed at how little there is to talk about in chicks bio photos. Most girls bios are literally just one big "how are you?"
yeah tinder is just an extension of linkedlin its cringe meclick to expand
Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by LadyNeptune
And yet women aren't constantly in the news for murdering the men who rejected them.
so all men are murderer and women are angels with no sins ?click to expand
Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by LadyNeptune
And yet women aren't constantly in the news for murdering the men who rejected them.
so all men are murderer and women are angels with no sins ?
Oh look! "not all men" has entered the chat.
No im phase with reality, did your boyfriend raped you and murdered u ? Or maybe hes not a man after all.
At the end ive met more women with an awful entitled attitude than rapist and murderer. Pretty weird.
Keep watching news'click to expand
Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by LadyNeptune
And yet women aren't constantly in the news for murdering the men who rejected them.
so all men are murderer and women are angels with no sins ?
Oh look! "not all men" has entered the chat.
No im phase with reality, did your boyfriend raped you and murdered u ? Or maybe hes not a man after all.
At the end ive met more women with an awful entitled attitude than rapist and murderer. Pretty weird.
Keep watching news'
You got me. I am a ghost haunting this site. Boom you solved the case sherlock
D E L U S I O N A Lclick to expand
Posted by Gobbie
A word of warning to men using Bumble: if you're ever banned, rightly or wrongly, be prepared to be publicly ridiculed.
https://bumble.com/the-buzz/an-open-letter-to-connor
https://bumble.com/en/the-buzz/an-open-letter-to-michael
Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88
Some pointer to get more swipes š
The guy's ripped. The second is a potentially great photo just too much headroom and stuff in the background.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by rabidtalker
It's been around for 8 years now, the respond within a day thing is tough for those of us who are super busy.
If you can't respond within a day, your probably too busy to meet new people anyways lol
You should hop on and date with a profile that says "One night only" when you have the time šclick to expand
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