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@virgoOPPP
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Posted by Wizardz
Lol, I would do this if you weren't a Virgo đ
I have this theory that Rachel ray making pozole almost always guarantees Virgo women ending up with men who are incredible cooks. I've noticed this a common trait in all the guys I've ever liked.
Posted by alexscaries
What if his semi career is as a gigolo?
I'm serious tho.
My Gemini aunt (strong 2nd house) and Gemini co-worker (don't know full chart) seem to really mock me when it comes to this but this is secretly all I want. Not that I've ever said all these out loud. I've never really had friends who liked this scenario đ¤
Posted by Hamsthetics
Many Water sign man are willing to do that, but most of them are more comfortoble doing it for desperate Fire sign women who have staps-on collection on their closet.
These bums might actually be happy that their hard-working Fire sign woman staying away from home as long as possible, like maybe taking a work-trip to Somalia.
But, i don't know if a Starving-Artist type can bear the heartache of being apart with a Virgo/Piscean combos. I mean, the only reason they're with you in the first place is prob because they see you as their muse đ
Just my 2cent
Who says anything about going far away? You can always come home to this peace. I only live the work-gym-home life style anyway.
I've managed to convince the Capricorn that I can take care of him so he doesn't need to work which was a blissful dream for months. But he likes to make things difficult and is now working 3 cities away. Now I'm trying to get him back home đĄ when he's barely been there a month lol. Stubborn.
Why can't this guy just play mobile games all day like always? Twas perfect the way it was. đ˘
Posted by virgoOPPP
who just wants a dude that can hold the fort, cooks and cleans while you go home to a nice meal , hand over your paycheck and let him do all the budgeting? what a blissful dream. he can pursue any hobby, art, semi-career he wants so long as the dishwashing soap and toilet paper are well-stocked. you don't even have to think about anything except for work.
what placements would thrive together in this arrangement?
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Posted by King_Tommy
Let's construct your dream man.
Sun: Virgo
Moon; most likely capricorn
Venus; virgo
Mercury; capricorn/ virgo.
Sun&moon can be switched.
Or just all personal planets in virgo, should do the trick.
Not sure if this kinda man exists.
Maybe throw in some lowkey pieces placements here n there.
This man 100% does not exist - however we're building a dream man, so whatever
he's cap sun/pisces moon/aqua Venus/sag mars.
He's perfect if only he doesn't get so restless from idleness.
but I've seen potential in him for lying in bed while playing mobile games all day and also he's got a farm and family plantation (very attached to his family) so I can kinda glimpse a future where we're always staying home (this is extremely important to me).
so weird that I feel like we have a better relationship when he's being lazy. No fights, just peace.
Posted by IxiPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by King_Tommy
Let's construct your dream man.
Sun: Virgo
Moon; most likely capricorn
Venus; virgo
Mercury; capricorn/ virgo.
Sun&moon can be switched.
Or just all personal planets in virgo, should do the trick.
Not sure if this kinda man exists.
Maybe throw in some lowkey pieces placements here n there.
This man 100% does not exist - however we're building a dream man, so whatever
he's cap sun/pisces moon/aqua Venus/sag mars.
He's perfect if only he doesn't get so restless from idleness.
but I've seen potential in him for lying in bed while playing mobile games all day and also he's got a farm and family plantation (very attached to his family) so I can kinda glimpse a future where we're always staying home (this is extremely important to me).
so weird that I feel like we have a better relationship when he's being lazy. No fights, just peace.
May I ask why the idea of him ranging from the home for work causes you discomfort?click to expand
he gets paranoid (even tho I have more reason to be given previous events we pretend never happened) and we always end up fighting even more when we're not together. I even left my phone to him for months whenever I'm at work so he can see all my Skype workplace interactions. He's just home chilling and running surveillance on me while I have access to his messenger so it's fair. I know this must be a phase in our relationship but this is disrupting the peace coz I'm getting paranoid texts from him and he's been there barely a month. Twas fine the way it was đđ
Posted by ImperfectStorm
I feel like a Virgo Venus or Virgo mars would be a good placement for this because we like to express our love through our deeds and actions. A cancer moon would also help because cancer moon is naturally nurturing and likes to take care of others.
đ¤ I think youâre on to somethingâŚand definitely with a âď¸ đ . My mom has that placement and she makes me feel like a child, always trying to do everything for me đŠ.
Posted by virgoOPPP
who just wants a dude that can hold the fort, cooks and cleans while you go home to a nice meal , hand over your paycheck and let him do all the budgeting? what a blissful dream. he can pursue any hobby, art, semi-career he wants so long as the dishwashing soap and toilet paper are well-stocked. you don't even have to think about anything except for work.
what placements would thrive together in this arrangement?
My Virgo and I tried out a few scenarios at the beginning. This was one of them. But, the babies cried for me. And, he did the budget on Waffle House napkins. He didn't understand the Time Value of Money; it's not just about the amount.
You need a Virgo man hahahahhahah
You can have this one. He needs a sugar mama.
You can have this one. He needs a sugar mama.
Btw I donât have a peen, but can I submit my application?? Lol
Posted by Antiphates
I think that applies to almost everyone.
No one likes household chores. The best way is probably to earn enough money to hire someone to do it for you.
I enjoy chores because I enjoy a clean home. I enjoy cleaning for my loved ones, and it helps get stress out. Itâs a simple mindless act that makes me feel accomplished after.
Posted by Gobbie
While some women claim to desire this, the fact is nearly all of them have been conditioned to believe that men should be the sole or joint breadwinner. As a result, it's only a matter of time before these same very women view their partners as anything but 'real men'. Cue inevitable resentment and a diminishing degree of respect.
But when you think about it, this guy does more than I do plus cooks better than me. It just all boils down to who keeps better house. Also, my feelings of resentment comes from his lack of time outside of work moreso than other things. We've lived like this for months and it was bliss.
Posted by virgoOPPP
who just wants a dude that can hold the fort, cooks and cleans while you go home to a nice meal , hand over your paycheck and let him do all the budgeting? what a blissful dream. he can pursue any hobby, art, semi-career he wants so long as the dishwashing soap and toilet paper are well-stocked. you don't even have to think about anything except for work.
what placements would thrive together in this arrangement?
You need an errands boy, not a partner.
Posted by SitusInversus27Posted by virgoOPPP
who just wants a dude that can hold the fort, cooks and cleans while you go home to a nice meal , hand over your paycheck and let him do all the budgeting? what a blissful dream. he can pursue any hobby, art, semi-career he wants so long as the dishwashing soap and toilet paper are well-stocked. you don't even have to think about anything except for work.
what placements would thrive together in this arrangement?
You need an errands boy, not a partner.click to expand
He doesn't even really like his job. And he's been so much more relaxed just staying at home. So I don't really see this as him being an errands boy. Wouldn't he have so much more free time this way too?
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Gobbie
While some women claim to desire this, the fact is nearly all of them have been conditioned to believe that men should be the sole or joint breadwinner. As a result, it's only a matter of time before these same very women view their partners as anything but 'real men'. Cue inevitable resentment and a diminishing degree of respect.
But when you think about it, this guy does more than I do plus cooks better than me. It just all boils down to who keeps better house. Also, my feelings of resentment comes from his lack of time outside of work moreso than other things. We've lived like this for months and it was bliss.click to expand
I definitely think itâs all about perspective. The time for gender roles is gone really. Now, you pull your own weight as a human. Shouldnât that be the very basic understanding?
Partnerships are rarely 50/50âusually it fluctuates so you have to be willing to be flexible and understanding.
Posted by Gobbie
While some women claim to desire this, the fact is nearly all of them have been conditioned to believe that men should be the sole or joint breadwinner. As a result, it's only a matter of time before these same very women view their partners as anything but 'real men'. Cue inevitable resentment and a diminishing degree of respect.
I only lose respect when a capable person doesnât take care of themself. I can take care of myself, so if you can at the very least take care of yourself, we will be fine. Maybe thatâs crazy idkâŚ.
@SitusInversus27
There were months that I felt were far too long that we didn't get to see each other. And his type of work tends to take him to different locations while mine is much more set in one place. I feel like I just wanna spend as much time with him as I can. Maybe he can work for a while when I'm pregnant but I'd rather this arrangement.
There were months that I felt were far too long that we didn't get to see each other. And his type of work tends to take him to different locations while mine is much more set in one place. I feel like I just wanna spend as much time with him as I can. Maybe he can work for a while when I'm pregnant but I'd rather this arrangement.
Posted by Wizardz
Would you like to come home and there is a warm bath waiting for you with rose petals scattered around and the sweet subtle smell of lavender oil? Then you dry yourself and put on the soft robe your man has kindly left for you before you walk through to the dining room where dinner is laid out on the table?
Well, now if it were he that was laid out across the table đ
Posted by AbbyNormalPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Gobbie
While some women claim to desire this, the fact is nearly all of them have been conditioned to believe that men should be the sole or joint breadwinner. As a result, it's only a matter of time before these same very women view their partners as anything but 'real men'. Cue inevitable resentment and a diminishing degree of respect.
But when you think about it, this guy does more than I do plus cooks better than me. It just all boils down to who keeps better house. Also, my feelings of resentment comes from his lack of time outside of work moreso than other things. We've lived like this for months and it was bliss.
I definitely think itâs all about perspective. The time for gender roles is gone really. Now, you pull your own weight as a human. Shouldnât that be the very basic understanding?
Partnerships are rarely 50/50âusually it fluctuates so you have to be willing to be flexible and understanding.click to expand
And I want him to get used to the idea that it's best that he spends time with me and (in the future) our children. Plus he handles kids better coz I'm terrible since I tend to spoil them and not discipline them. Also, maybe I'm clingy.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Gobbie
While some women claim to desire this, the fact is nearly all of them have been conditioned to believe that men should be the sole or joint breadwinner. As a result, it's only a matter of time before these same very women view their partners as anything but 'real men'. Cue inevitable resentment and a diminishing degree of respect.
But when you think about it, this guy does more than I do plus cooks better than me. It just all boils down to who keeps better house. Also, my feelings of resentment comes from his lack of time outside of work moreso than other things. We've lived like this for months and it was bliss.
I definitely think itâs all about perspective. The time for gender roles is gone really. Now, you pull your own weight as a human. Shouldnât that be the very basic understanding?
Partnerships are rarely 50/50âusually it fluctuates so you have to be willing to be flexible and understanding.
And I want him to get used to the idea that it's best that he spends time with me and (in the future) our children. Plus he handles kids better coz I'm terrible since I tend to spoil them and not discipline them. Also, maybe I'm clingy.click to expand
I think itâs extremely important to develop a healthy balance between work and family life. You neglect either and you pay for it. Most importantly with families, you donât get that time back. So itâs important to make the very best of it while it lasts. Childhood is very fleeting and massively important to the develop of healthy adults. You definitely need to have these types of talks to make sure youâre on the same page.
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by virgoOPPP
who just wants a dude that can hold the fort, cooks and cleans while you go home to a nice meal , hand over your paycheck and let him do all the budgeting? what a blissful dream. he can pursue any hobby, art, semi-career he wants so long as the dishwashing soap and toilet paper are well-stocked. you don't even have to think about anything except for work.
what placements would thrive together in this arrangement?
So you want a bum.
Plenty of those around.click to expand
Doing housework is not bumming.
There is such thing - as a general model - for what's deemed as a "normal relationship". A model that's accepted by most people - in modern societies, and thus... different type of relationship (or why not "unusual" - the type that differ from the norm) - seem to get all kinds of reactions from most of this people (somehow triggering - simply because it differs from what they deem as normal... as can be seen among some of this comments - where OP's idea of an ideal relationship - seems to be take more as a joke, as if she's not serious and such). And yes, the norm in every modern society is define by the majority (while old school type of societies - that are based on the monarchy - still have their monarchs to say what goes and doesn't). BUT, even if not most... there's still enough people that are different - in ways that imply a different way of doing things - for them to feel at home (like the rest - if you will). If it's a private thing - something that affects only this specific people in particular - should be a win win situation (live and let live - cause they're not bothering anyone).
It's not like - this surprise transgender thingy - where a male bodybuilder - decides to identify as a female - after 30 years as a male... and still... gets accepted in the Olympics as a female.... Thus, people like him - end-up affecting the society as a whole - ruining sport for whom. Same goes with - the gender BS - where now we have a British - who identifies as a nonbinary Korean... Welcome to 2021.
Personally, i find OP's idea (even id not entirely serious - maybe she just wants more time be his side) - quite reasonable. Normally (so called) - taking care of the bills, cleaning the house and cooking - is managed by both parties (depending on what they decide - what's each party's forte). Yet, it does sound reasonable - for a man to take role of an old school housewife (househusband - if you will) - if that's what work best for those given parties. You know... modern times - gender equality and all of that. This is actually a legitimate idea - in the true feminist sense (as was originally intended). Far from the modem feminist BS - where a lost of the women who adopt this title - have their own personal agenda - that's usually aimed at gaining more privileges.
PS. Lucky guy. đ
It's not like - this surprise transgender thingy - where a male bodybuilder - decides to identify as a female - after 30 years as a male... and still... gets accepted in the Olympics as a female.... Thus, people like him - end-up affecting the society as a whole - ruining sport for whom. Same goes with - the gender BS - where now we have a British - who identifies as a nonbinary Korean... Welcome to 2021.
Personally, i find OP's idea (even id not entirely serious - maybe she just wants more time be his side) - quite reasonable. Normally (so called) - taking care of the bills, cleaning the house and cooking - is managed by both parties (depending on what they decide - what's each party's forte). Yet, it does sound reasonable - for a man to take role of an old school housewife (househusband - if you will) - if that's what work best for those given parties. You know... modern times - gender equality and all of that. This is actually a legitimate idea - in the true feminist sense (as was originally intended). Far from the modem feminist BS - where a lost of the women who adopt this title - have their own personal agenda - that's usually aimed at gaining more privileges.
PS. Lucky guy. đ
If you'd rather he be a house husband than work a job he's not happy with, then use either of your monies towards hiring a maid and someone local who cooks home cooked meals?
Posted by GenerousLeebPosted by neves
There is such thing - as a general model - for what's deemed as a "normal relationship". A model that's accepted by most people - in modern societies, and thus... different type of relationship (or why not "unusual" - the type that differ from the norm) - seem to get all kinds of reactions from most of this people (somehow triggering - simply because it differs from what they deem as normal... as can be seen among some of this comments - where OP's idea of an ideal relationship - seems to be take more as a joke, as if she's not serious and such). And yes, the norm in every modern society is define by the majority (while old school type of societies - that are based on the monarchy - still have their monarchs to say what goes and doesn't). BUT, even if not most... there's still enough people that are different - in ways that imply a different way of doing things - for them to feel at home (like the rest - if you will). If it's a private thing - something that affects only this specific people in particular - should be a win win situation (live and let live - cause they're not bothering anyone).
It's not like - this surprise transgender thingy - where a male bodybuilder - decides to identify as a female - after 30 years as a male... and still... gets accepted in the Olympics as a female.... Thus, people like him - end-up affecting the society as a whole - ruining sport for whom. Same goes with - the gender BS - where now we have a British - who identifies as a nonbinary Korean... Welcome to 2021.
Personally, i find OP's idea (even id not entirely serious - maybe she just wants more time be his side) - quite reasonable. Normally (so called) - taking care of the bills, cleaning the house and cooking - is managed by both parties (depending on what they decide - what's each party's forte). Yet, it does sound reasonable - for a man to take role of an old school housewife (househusband - if you will) - if that's what work best for those given parties. You know... modern times - gender equality and all of that. This is actually a legitimate idea - in the true feminist sense (as was originally intended). Far from the modem feminist BS - where a lost of the women who adopt this title - have their own personal agenda - that's usually aimed at gaining more privileges.
PS. Lucky guy. đ
Believe it or not women don't find men doing the housework attractive, tho they state that they'd appreciate it if their partners did the house chores often.
Women are more attracted to successful men, OP might want a man in an apron but that def won't make her wet at night.click to expand
nothing wrong with success but just wish he can do that 80% at home
Posted by GenerousLeebPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by GenerousLeebPosted by neves
There is such thing - as a general model - for what's deemed as a "normal relationship". A model that's accepted by most people - in modern societies, and thus... different type of relationship (or why not "unusual" - the type that differ from the norm) - seem to get all kinds of reactions from most of this people (somehow triggering - simply because it differs from what they deem as normal... as can be seen among some of this comments - where OP's idea of an ideal relationship - seems to be take more as a joke, as if she's not serious and such). And yes, the norm in every modern society is define by the majority (while old school type of societies - that are based on the monarchy - still have their monarchs to say what goes and doesn't). BUT, even if not most... there's still enough people that are different - in ways that imply a different way of doing things - for them to feel at home (like the rest - if you will). If it's a private thing - something that affects only this specific people in particular - should be a win win situation (live and let live - cause they're not bothering anyone).
It's not like - this surprise transgender thingy - where a male bodybuilder - decides to identify as a female - after 30 years as a male... and still... gets accepted in the Olympics as a female.... Thus, people like him - end-up affecting the society as a whole - ruining sport for whom. Same goes with - the gender BS - where now we have a British - who identifies as a nonbinary Korean... Welcome to 2021.
Personally, i find OP's idea (even id not entirely serious - maybe she just wants more time be his side) - quite reasonable. Normally (so called) - taking care of the bills, cleaning the house and cooking - is managed by both parties (depending on what they decide - what's each party's forte). Yet, it does sound reasonable - for a man to take role of an old school housewife (househusband - if you will) - if that's what work best for those given parties. You know... modern times - gender equality and all of that. This is actually a legitimate idea - in the true feminist sense (as was originally intended). Far from the modem feminist BS - where a lost of the women who adopt this title - have their own personal agenda - that's usually aimed at gaining more privileges.
PS. Lucky guy. đ
Believe it or not women don't find men doing the housework attractive, tho they state that they'd appreciate it if their partners did the house chores often.
Women are more attracted to successful men, OP might want a man in an apron but that def won't make her wet at night.
nothing wrong with success but just wish he can do that 80% at home
Is your bf/husband not much around? Or do you just want to keep him at home?click to expand
There were times when we were apart for like half a year and lately we've been living together for a few months. It's barely a month now since we've been apart again. And in those months, we've had this arrangement and it was ideal imo.
Now I feel like I'm negotiating for him to be home by the first week of August. I am so close to winning this negotiation but this dude is emotionally-manipulative and isn't above punishing me in petty forms like this.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Gobbie
While some women claim to desire this, the fact is nearly all of them have been conditioned to believe that men should be the sole or joint breadwinner. As a result, it's only a matter of time before these same very women view their partners as anything but 'real men'. Cue inevitable resentment and a diminishing degree of respect.
But when you think about it, this guy does more than I do plus cooks better than me. It just all boils down to who keeps better house. Also, my feelings of resentment comes from his lack of time outside of work moreso than other things. We've lived like this for months and it was bliss.
I definitely think itâs all about perspective. The time for gender roles is gone really. Now, you pull your own weight as a human. Shouldnât that be the very basic understanding?
Partnerships are rarely 50/50âusually it fluctuates so you have to be willing to be flexible and understanding.
And I want him to get used to the idea that it's best that he spends time with me and (in the future) our children. Plus he handles kids better coz I'm terrible since I tend to spoil them and not discipline them. Also, maybe I'm clingy.click to expand
Is your father willing to pay him an allowance as well?
Posted by virgoOPPP
hand over your paycheck and let him do all the budgeting?
this is where you lost me
I once dated a man who gave up his job for good, was a dedicated housekeeper, gardener, father, driver, cook, investment adviserâŚ.
It turned out he was a millionaire, thoughâŚ
It turned out he was a millionaire, thoughâŚ
Posted by GenerousLeebPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by GenerousLeebPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by GenerousLeebPosted by neves
There is such thing - as a general model - for what's deemed as a "normal relationship". A model that's accepted by most people - in modern societies, and thus... different type of relationship (or why not "unusual" - the type that differ from the norm) - seem to get all kinds of reactions from most of this people (somehow triggering - simply because it differs from what they deem as normal... as can be seen among some of this comments - where OP's idea of an ideal relationship - seems to be take more as a joke, as if she's not serious and such). And yes, the norm in every modern society is define by the majority (while old school type of societies - that are based on the monarchy - still have their monarchs to say what goes and doesn't). BUT, even if not most... there's still enough people that are different - in ways that imply a different way of doing things - for them to feel at home (like the rest - if you will). If it's a private thing - something that affects only this specific people in particular - should be a win win situation (live and let live - cause they're not bothering anyone).
It's not like - this surprise transgender thingy - where a male bodybuilder - decides to identify as a female - after 30 years as a male... and still... gets accepted in the Olympics as a female.... Thus, people like him - end-up affecting the society as a whole - ruining sport for whom. Same goes with - the gender BS - where now we have a British - who identifies as a nonbinary Korean... Welcome to 2021.
Personally, i find OP's idea (even id not entirely serious - maybe she just wants more time be his side) - quite reasonable. Normally (so called) - taking care of the bills, cleaning the house and cooking - is managed by both parties (depending on what they decide - what's each party's forte). Yet, it does sound reasonable - for a man to take role of an old school housewife (househusband - if you will) - if that's what work best for those given parties. You know... modern times - gender equality and all of that. This is actually a legitimate idea - in the true feminist sense (as was originally intended). Far from the modem feminist BS - where a lost of the women who adopt this title - have their own personal agenda - that's usually aimed at gaining more privileges.
PS. Lucky guy. đ
Believe it or not women don't find men doing the housework attractive, tho they state that they'd appreciate it if their partners did the house chores often.
Women are more attracted to successful men, OP might want a man in an apron but that def won't make her wet at night.
nothing wrong with success but just wish he can do that 80% at home
Is your bf/husband not much around? Or do you just want to keep him at home?
There were times when we were apart for like half a year and lately we've been living together for a few months. It's barely a month now since we've been apart again. And in those months, we've had this arrangement and it was ideal imo.
Now I feel like I'm negotiating for him to be home by the first week of August. I am so close to winning this negotiation but this dude is emotionally-manipulative and isn't above punishing me in petty forms like this.
It sounds toxic with the punishment and the manipulation, and if you feel like you're negotiating maybe it's time for you to re-acess everything? You won't keep a man if you turn him into a housewife, maybe you're too focused on him you gotta let him do his thing? he's a cap after all, change your energy about the whole thing, and focus on yourself instead.
I don't really know about the dynamics between earth signs.click to expand
nah, it's fine. i won anyway so he's coming home in 2 weeks.
from what I've noticed, we tend to power struggle and I'm okay with that but he does it over the smallest things that i feel any other couple would automatically agree on,
Posted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Gobbie
While some women claim to desire this, the fact is nearly all of them have been conditioned to believe that men should be the sole or joint breadwinner. As a result, it's only a matter of time before these same very women view their partners as anything but 'real men'. Cue inevitable resentment and a diminishing degree of respect.
But when you think about it, this guy does more than I do plus cooks better than me. It just all boils down to who keeps better house. Also, my feelings of resentment comes from his lack of time outside of work moreso than other things. We've lived like this for months and it was bliss.
I definitely think itâs all about perspective. The time for gender roles is gone really. Now, you pull your own weight as a human. Shouldnât that be the very basic understanding?
Partnerships are rarely 50/50âusually it fluctuates so you have to be willing to be flexible and understanding.
And I want him to get used to the idea that it's best that he spends time with me and (in the future) our children. Plus he handles kids better coz I'm terrible since I tend to spoil them and not discipline them. Also, maybe I'm clingy.
Is your father willing to pay him an allowance as well?click to expand
đđ is not what I mean
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Gobbie
While some women claim to desire this, the fact is nearly all of them have been conditioned to believe that men should be the sole or joint breadwinner. As a result, it's only a matter of time before these same very women view their partners as anything but 'real men'. Cue inevitable resentment and a diminishing degree of respect.
But when you think about it, this guy does more than I do plus cooks better than me. It just all boils down to who keeps better house. Also, my feelings of resentment comes from his lack of time outside of work moreso than other things. We've lived like this for months and it was bliss.
I definitely think itâs all about perspective. The time for gender roles is gone really. Now, you pull your own weight as a human. Shouldnât that be the very basic understanding?
Partnerships are rarely 50/50âusually it fluctuates so you have to be willing to be flexible and understanding.
And I want him to get used to the idea that it's best that he spends time with me and (in the future) our children. Plus he handles kids better coz I'm terrible since I tend to spoil them and not discipline them. Also, maybe I'm clingy.
Is your father willing to pay him an allowance as well?
đđ is not what I meanclick to expand
Maybe that is why itâs not going to happen đđ¤Ł
Posted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Gobbie
While some women claim to desire this, the fact is nearly all of them have been conditioned to believe that men should be the sole or joint breadwinner. As a result, it's only a matter of time before these same very women view their partners as anything but 'real men'. Cue inevitable resentment and a diminishing degree of respect.
But when you think about it, this guy does more than I do plus cooks better than me. It just all boils down to who keeps better house. Also, my feelings of resentment comes from his lack of time outside of work moreso than other things. We've lived like this for months and it was bliss.
I definitely think itâs all about perspective. The time for gender roles is gone really. Now, you pull your own weight as a human. Shouldnât that be the very basic understanding?
Partnerships are rarely 50/50âusually it fluctuates so you have to be willing to be flexible and understanding.
And I want him to get used to the idea that it's best that he spends time with me and (in the future) our children. Plus he handles kids better coz I'm terrible since I tend to spoil them and not discipline them. Also, maybe I'm clingy.
Is your father willing to pay him an allowance as well?
đđ is not what I mean
Maybe that is why itâs not going to happen đđ¤Łclick to expand
I'm okay with the whole working thing
but 3 cities aways is ridiculous coz he's just so impulsive in accepting offers
Posted by Gobbie
While some women claim to desire this, the fact is nearly all of them have been conditioned to believe that men should be the sole or joint breadwinner. As a result, it's only a matter of time before these same very women view their partners as anything but 'real men'. Cue inevitable resentment and a diminishing degree of respect.
I agree, especially when he's too tired at the end of the night to preform his husbandly duties. lol The wife will end up cheating with a "real man" smh
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While some women claim to desire this, the fact is nearly all of them have been conditioned to believe that men should be the sole or joint breadwinner. As a result, it's only a matter of time before these same very women view their partners as anything but 'real men'. Cue inevitable resentment and a diminishing degree of respect.
But when you think about it, this guy does more than I do plus cooks better than me. It just all boils down to who keeps better house. Also, my feelings of resentment comes from his lack of time outside of work moreso than other things. We've lived like this for months and it was bliss.
I definitely think itâs all about perspective. The time for gender roles is gone really. Now, you pull your own weight as a human. Shouldnât that be the very basic understanding?
Partnerships are rarely 50/50âusually it fluctuates so you have to be willing to be flexible and understanding.
And I want him to get used to the idea that it's best that he spends time with me and (in the future) our children. Plus he handles kids better coz I'm terrible since I tend to spoil them and not discipline them. Also, maybe I'm clingy.
Is your father willing to pay him an allowance as well?
đđ is not what I mean
Maybe that is why itâs not going to happen đđ¤Ł
I'm okay with the whole working thing
but 3 cities aways is ridiculous coz he's just so impulsive in accepting offersclick to expand
Maybe he just wants to get away from you and the toxic relationship you two are having!
Posted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Gobbie
While some women claim to desire this, the fact is nearly all of them have been conditioned to believe that men should be the sole or joint breadwinner. As a result, it's only a matter of time before these same very women view their partners as anything but 'real men'. Cue inevitable resentment and a diminishing degree of respect.
But when you think about it, this guy does more than I do plus cooks better than me. It just all boils down to who keeps better house. Also, my feelings of resentment comes from his lack of time outside of work moreso than other things. We've lived like this for months and it was bliss.
I definitely think itâs all about perspective. The time for gender roles is gone really. Now, you pull your own weight as a human. Shouldnât that be the very basic understanding?
Partnerships are rarely 50/50âusually it fluctuates so you have to be willing to be flexible and understanding.
And I want him to get used to the idea that it's best that he spends time with me and (in the future) our children. Plus he handles kids better coz I'm terrible since I tend to spoil them and not discipline them. Also, maybe I'm clingy.
Is your father willing to pay him an allowance as well?
đđ is not what I mean
Maybe that is why itâs not going to happen đđ¤Ł
I'm okay with the whole working thing
but 3 cities aways is ridiculous coz he's just so impulsive in accepting offers
Maybe he just wants to get away from you and the toxic relationship you two are having!click to expand
it has been toxic but we did reconcile
but honestly, I'm starting to look at our relationship as something really embarrassing
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