
virgoking
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Posted by 7thHousePosted by aquarius09
You forgot a very important point here: Johnny Depp chose to date this chick. That speaks volumes about him than it does about her.
Also, remember that there are issues with people who are attracted to crazy. “I find crazy hot” said no healthy individual ever! This ties in with your last post and further supports my argument that men love to date crazy and also complain about it. These kind of men are delusional.
Final point, any man that dates/chases a woman far younger than him has major self-esteem and possibly psychological issues. Sane individuals do not discount mental growth/connection that they can have with someone in their age group.
I dunno about this. Even if he chose to date her, it doesn't warrant the abuse. And the age difference, my in laws had an 18 year age gap. My parents had a 15 year age gap. I didn't see them as bad as these two. I didn't see my dad or my father in law having self esteem issues. Nor are they not sane to not be able to connect with their own age group. I wouldn't agree 100% on this.click to expand

Posted by virgokingPosted by AbbyNormal
If anyone actually listened to all of this and doesn’t realize what problems this woman has, there might be something off with you as well. I would leave too if I had someone trying to push me into fighting all the time. I don’t want to fight who I love. Fighting is a last recourse for me only when I have to. Drama drama drama. She’s a real piece of work though. Someone whose looks have truly gotten them everywhere in life. He has his own faults attracting such dramatics. Change yourself and you change who you attract. He’s obviously not wanting to be a part of the fighting and I don’t blame him. I leave too when someone’s talking crazy abusive shit—why would someone stay— But yeah ultimately it’s his fault in continuing it. Leave for good or shut up. We make our own worlds.
I meant to put this in the man cave but your right any women agreeing o this is definitely something wrong with her. Because we all know if the attitude was in the reverse there would be no forgiving. Remember 80 percent of divorce are started by women most of the time for bs reasons.click to expand

Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Ram416Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
He dished it out, she dished it right back. I bet it’s the first time someone dared fought back. He’s well know for his temper.
I see it from another angle. He met his match in the abuse dept. He has a history of violence to others (no record of him being abusive to exes), she has no known history of either. They were both fighting to see who could be more abusive and manipulative, but she won because she's not the one with the history of violence.
As far as I am concerned, they deserve each other.
The fact that he has a history of violence with others means there’s a chance he was violent with his exes. Just cos they didn’t say anything doesn’t mean it didn’t happen. The fact that Amber doesn’t have a history of violence before Johnny is actually a very legitimate reason to be on her side. All you’ve done is been dismissive about Johnny’s shitty past behaviour and ignoring the fact that Amber doesn’t in relation to violent behaviour. Your ‘angle’ is the perfect representation of the whole ‘perfect victim’ that is pushed on women to dismiss what happens to them.click to expand



Posted by jeanePosted by virgokingPosted by AbbyNormal
If anyone actually listened to all of this and doesn’t realize what problems this woman has, there might be something off with you as well. I would leave too if I had someone trying to push me into fighting all the time. I don’t want to fight who I love. Fighting is a last recourse for me only when I have to. Drama drama drama. She’s a real piece of work though. Someone whose looks have truly gotten them everywhere in life. He has his own faults attracting such dramatics. Change yourself and you change who you attract. He’s obviously not wanting to be a part of the fighting and I don’t blame him. I leave too when someone’s talking crazy abusive shit—why would someone stay— But yeah ultimately it’s his fault in continuing it. Leave for good or shut up. We make our own worlds.
I meant to put this in the man cave but your right any women agreeing o this is definitely something wrong with her. Because we all know if the attitude was in the reverse there would be no forgiving. Remember 80 percent of divorce are started by women most of the time for bs reasons.
Source?click to expand

Posted by ArgusPosted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Ram416Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
He dished it out, she dished it right back. I bet it’s the first time someone dared fought back. He’s well know for his temper.
I see it from another angle. He met his match in the abuse dept. He has a history of violence to others (no record of him being abusive to exes), she has no known history of either. They were both fighting to see who could be more abusive and manipulative, but she won because she's not the one with the history of violence.
As far as I am concerned, they deserve each other.
The fact that he has a history of violence with others means there’s a chance he was violent with his exes. Just cos they didn’t say anything doesn’t mean it didn’t happen. The fact that Amber doesn’t have a history of violence before Johnny is actually a very legitimate reason to be on her side. All you’ve done is been dismissive about Johnny’s shitty past behaviour and ignoring the fact that Amber doesn’t in relation to violent behaviour. Your ‘angle’ is the perfect representation of the whole ‘perfect victim’ that is pushed on women to dismiss what happens to them.
I haven’t listened to the video provided in the OP but I’ve listened to what I believe is the same recording from another source and I could not bring myself to listen past the initial 5mins.
I pretty much heard all I needed to hear when she said, and I paraphrase: “you split”, as well as something along the line of him always being with one foot out of the relationship.
Former one (aka “you split”) is a classic case of stonewalling. Now, I don’t expect people to be perfect, and I’m sure we’ve all walked away from an argument on an occasion in hopes cooler heads would prevail. However, one should distance themselves from the said argument with a promise that they would return to work towards a fruitful resolution.
Latter example makes things no easier! To be persistently exposed to the (the subtler the more insidious) message is that one’s relationship can come to an end at any given moment would be unsettling the least.
I genuinely wouldn’t be surprised if she suffered PTSD. One of the symptoms presenting itself in cases of those effected by toxic relationships is rage.
Now, it’s ideally, they should’ve never crossed paths, but Jonny is no victim here.click to expand

Posted by virgokingPosted by jeanePosted by virgokingPosted by AbbyNormal
If anyone actually listened to all of this and doesn’t realize what problems this woman has, there might be something off with you as well. I would leave too if I had someone trying to push me into fighting all the time. I don’t want to fight who I love. Fighting is a last recourse for me only when I have to. Drama drama drama. She’s a real piece of work though. Someone whose looks have truly gotten them everywhere in life. He has his own faults attracting such dramatics. Change yourself and you change who you attract. He’s obviously not wanting to be a part of the fighting and I don’t blame him. I leave too when someone’s talking crazy abusive shit—why would someone stay— But yeah ultimately it’s his fault in continuing it. Leave for good or shut up. We make our own worlds.
I meant to put this in the man cave but your right any women agreeing o this is definitely something wrong with her. Because we all know if the attitude was in the reverse there would be no forgiving. Remember 80 percent of divorce are started by women most of the time for bs reasons.
Source?
correction 70 percent
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-new-resilience/201508/women-initiate-divorce-much-more-men-heres-why% 3fampclick to expand

Posted by virgokingPosted by jeanePosted by virgokingPosted by AbbyNormal
If anyone actually listened to all of this and doesn’t realize what problems this woman has, there might be something off with you as well. I would leave too if I had someone trying to push me into fighting all the time. I don’t want to fight who I love. Fighting is a last recourse for me only when I have to. Drama drama drama. She’s a real piece of work though. Someone whose looks have truly gotten them everywhere in life. He has his own faults attracting such dramatics. Change yourself and you change who you attract. He’s obviously not wanting to be a part of the fighting and I don’t blame him. I leave too when someone’s talking crazy abusive shit—why would someone stay— But yeah ultimately it’s his fault in continuing it. Leave for good or shut up. We make our own worlds.
I meant to put this in the man cave but your right any women agreeing o this is definitely something wrong with her. Because we all know if the attitude was in the reverse there would be no forgiving. Remember 80 percent of divorce are started by women most of the time for bs reasons.
Source?
correction 70 percent
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-new-resilience/201508/women-initiate-divorce-much-more-men-heres-why% 3fampclick to expand

Posted by tizianiPosted by jeanePosted by virgokingPosted by jeanePosted by virgokingPosted by AbbyNormal
If anyone actually listened to all of this and doesn’t realize what problems this woman has, there might be something off with you as well. I would leave too if I had someone trying to push me into fighting all the time. I don’t want to fight who I love. Fighting is a last recourse for me only when I have to. Drama drama drama. She’s a real piece of work though. Someone whose looks have truly gotten them everywhere in life. He has his own faults attracting such dramatics. Change yourself and you change who you attract. He’s obviously not wanting to be a part of the fighting and I don’t blame him. I leave too when someone’s talking crazy abusive shit—why would someone stay— But yeah ultimately it’s his fault in continuing it. Leave for good or shut up. We make our own worlds.
I meant to put this in the man cave but your right any women agreeing o this is definitely something wrong with her. Because we all know if the attitude was in the reverse there would be no forgiving. Remember 80 percent of divorce are started by women most of the time for bs reasons.
Source?
correction 70 percent
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-new-resilience/201508/women-initiate-divorce-much-more-men-heres-why% 3famp
and you feel these are bs reasons
"that women may be more likely to initiate divorces because the married women reported lower levels of relationship quality than married men.
He adds, “I think that marriage as an institution has been a little bit slow to catch up with expectations for gender equality. Wives still take their husbands’ surnames, and are sometimes pressured to do so. Husbands still expect their wives to do the bulk of the housework and the bulk of the childcare.
bs reasons when you're a man i guess and you are benefiting. not a bs reason when you're a woman and find that your mental and physical health improves as a single woman. and, even though women are more likely to be significant poorer after divorce, they still choose to not be with a man.
This is another prime example of my stubborness.
I've had it explained in relationships by more than one ex, what a risk a woman is taking getting into a relationship. How it's the man's role to protect it and to fight for it (pretty much what Amber is saying in that audio which comes from a real place).
But I didn't want to hear it, until I read it in Angela Duckworth's book about grit. "Even a mediocre marriage can benefit a man but no such benefits exist for women."
It's up to men to get gritty. He should have been handing out the Xanax. She would have loved him for it.click to expand

Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by virgokingPosted by jeanePosted by virgokingPosted by AbbyNormal
If anyone actually listened to all of this and doesn’t realize what problems this woman has, there might be something off with you as well. I would leave too if I had someone trying to push me into fighting all the time. I don’t want to fight who I love. Fighting is a last recourse for me only when I have to. Drama drama drama. She’s a real piece of work though. Someone whose looks have truly gotten them everywhere in life. He has his own faults attracting such dramatics. Change yourself and you change who you attract. He’s obviously not wanting to be a part of the fighting and I don’t blame him. I leave too when someone’s talking crazy abusive shit—why would someone stay— But yeah ultimately it’s his fault in continuing it. Leave for good or shut up. We make our own worlds.
I meant to put this in the man cave but your right any women agreeing o this is definitely something wrong with her. Because we all know if the attitude was in the reverse there would be no forgiving. Remember 80 percent of divorce are started by women most of the time for bs reasons.
Source?
correction 70 percent
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-new-resilience/201508/women-initiate-divorce-much-more-men-heres-why% 3famp
Yep, I've said it in DXP for years marriage benefits men. And, the pop culture of men being dragged to the ulter and women and their marriage ultimatums is poetic justice. Men take divorce terribly hard.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/insight-therapy/201510/is-marriage-worth-it-women<div class="bqfade">click to expand

Posted by virgokingPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by virgokingPosted by jeanePosted by virgokingPosted by AbbyNormal
If anyone actually listened to all of this and doesn’t realize what problems this woman has, there might be something off with you as well. I would leave too if I had someone trying to push me into fighting all the time. I don’t want to fight who I love. Fighting is a last recourse for me only when I have to. Drama drama drama. She’s a real piece of work though. Someone whose looks have truly gotten them everywhere in life. He has his own faults attracting such dramatics. Change yourself and you change who you attract. He’s obviously not wanting to be a part of the fighting and I don’t blame him. I leave too when someone’s talking crazy abusive shit—why would someone stay— But yeah ultimately it’s his fault in continuing it. Leave for good or shut up. We make our own worlds.
I meant to put this in the man cave but your right any women agreeing o this is definitely something wrong with her. Because we all know if the attitude was in the reverse there would be no forgiving. Remember 80 percent of divorce are started by women most of the time for bs reasons.
Source?
correction 70 percent
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-new-resilience/201508/women-initiate-divorce-much-more-men-heres-why% 3famp
Yep, I've said it in DXP for years marriage benefits men. And, the pop culture of men being dragged to the ulter and women and their marriage ultimatums is poetic justice. Men take divorce terribly hard.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/insight-therapy/201510/is-marriage-worth-it-women
really the most of the highest paid women came from divorce cough Amazon owner ex wife.click to expand

Posted by virgokingPosted by jeanePosted by virgokingPosted by AbbyNormal
If anyone actually listened to all of this and doesn’t realize what problems this woman has, there might be something off with you as well. I would leave too if I had someone trying to push me into fighting all the time. I don’t want to fight who I love. Fighting is a last recourse for me only when I have to. Drama drama drama. She’s a real piece of work though. Someone whose looks have truly gotten them everywhere in life. He has his own faults attracting such dramatics. Change yourself and you change who you attract. He’s obviously not wanting to be a part of the fighting and I don’t blame him. I leave too when someone’s talking crazy abusive shit—why would someone stay— But yeah ultimately it’s his fault in continuing it. Leave for good or shut up. We make our own worlds.
I meant to put this in the man cave but your right any women agreeing o this is definitely something wrong with her. Because we all know if the attitude was in the reverse there would be no forgiving. Remember 80 percent of divorce are started by women most of the time for bs reasons.
Source?
correction 70 percent
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-new-resilience/201508/women-initiate-divorce-much-more-men-heres-why% 3fampclick to expand

Posted by AbbyNormalPosted by virgokingPosted by jeanePosted by virgokingPosted by AbbyNormal
If anyone actually listened to all of this and doesn’t realize what problems this woman has, there might be something off with you as well. I would leave too if I had someone trying to push me into fighting all the time. I don’t want to fight who I love. Fighting is a last recourse for me only when I have to. Drama drama drama. She’s a real piece of work though. Someone whose looks have truly gotten them everywhere in life. He has his own faults attracting such dramatics. Change yourself and you change who you attract. He’s obviously not wanting to be a part of the fighting and I don’t blame him. I leave too when someone’s talking crazy abusive shit—why would someone stay— But yeah ultimately it’s his fault in continuing it. Leave for good or shut up. We make our own worlds.
I meant to put this in the man cave but your right any women agreeing o this is definitely something wrong with her. Because we all know if the attitude was in the reverse there would be no forgiving. Remember 80 percent of divorce are started by women most of the time for bs reasons.
Source?
correction 70 percent
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-new-resilience/201508/women-initiate-divorce-much-more-men-heres-why% 3famp
I can’t get the link to work but what year is this from?click to expand
Posted by ArilovesAquPosted by virgokingPosted by ArilovesAquPosted by virgokingPosted by LittleStar
Ps. Just because this is an example of an abusive woman doesn’t mean women have to “behave”. There is a huge range between abuse and being locked in a house making jello food.
My point is back in those days there was a better respect for men stuff like this happens more today. Because disrespect of man hood is seen as the new cool. We're there toxic women in those days yes but it was not tolerated like it is today.
You sound like a very troubled and dangerous individual.
how so.... Is there more respect for men now or back than which one. There is a lot of Johnny depp guys running around they just don't say anything.
You’re a 32 year old man and all you post about is how bad women are.click to expand

Posted by SlipperySlopePosted by jeanePosted by virgokingPosted by jeanePosted by virgokingPosted by AbbyNormal
If anyone actually listened to all of this and doesn’t realize what problems this woman has, there might be something off with you as well. I would leave too if I had someone trying to push me into fighting all the time. I don’t want to fight who I love. Fighting is a last recourse for me only when I have to. Drama drama drama. She’s a real piece of work though. Someone whose looks have truly gotten them everywhere in life. He has his own faults attracting such dramatics. Change yourself and you change who you attract. He’s obviously not wanting to be a part of the fighting and I don’t blame him. I leave too when someone’s talking crazy abusive shit—why would someone stay— But yeah ultimately it’s his fault in continuing it. Leave for good or shut up. We make our own worlds.
I meant to put this in the man cave but your right any women agreeing o this is definitely something wrong with her. Because we all know if the attitude was in the reverse there would be no forgiving. Remember 80 percent of divorce are started by women most of the time for bs reasons.
Source?
correction 70 percent
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-new-resilience/201508/women-initiate-divorce-much-more-men-heres-why% 3famp
and you feel these are bs reasons
"that women may be more likely to initiate divorces because the married women reported lower levels of relationship quality than married men.
He adds, “I think that marriage as an institution has been a little bit slow to catch up with expectations for gender equality. Wives still take their husbands’ surnames, and are sometimes pressured to do so. Husbands still expect their wives to do the bulk of the housework and the bulk of the childcare.
bs reasons when you're a man i guess and you are benefiting. not a bs reason when you're a woman and find that your mental health improves as a single woman. and, even though women are more likely to be significant poorer after divorce, they still choose to not be with a man.
Most married men seem to have worse mental health than women though...click to expand

Posted by SlipperySlopePosted by jeanePosted by SlipperySlopePosted by jeanePosted by virgokingPosted by jeanePosted by virgokingPosted by AbbyNormal
If anyone actually listened to all of this and doesn’t realize what problems this woman has, there might be something off with you as well. I would leave too if I had someone trying to push me into fighting all the time. I don’t want to fight who I love. Fighting is a last recourse for me only when I have to. Drama drama drama. She’s a real piece of work though. Someone whose looks have truly gotten them everywhere in life. He has his own faults attracting such dramatics. Change yourself and you change who you attract. He’s obviously not wanting to be a part of the fighting and I don’t blame him. I leave too when someone’s talking crazy abusive shit—why would someone stay— But yeah ultimately it’s his fault in continuing it. Leave for good or shut up. We make our own worlds.
I meant to put this in the man cave but your right any women agreeing o this is definitely something wrong with her. Because we all know if the attitude was in the reverse there would be no forgiving. Remember 80 percent of divorce are started by women most of the time for bs reasons.
Source?
correction 70 percent
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-new-resilience/201508/women-initiate-divorce-much-more-men-heres-why% 3famp
and you feel these are bs reasons
"that women may be more likely to initiate divorces because the married women reported lower levels of relationship quality than married men.
He adds, “I think that marriage as an institution has been a little bit slow to catch up with expectations for gender equality. Wives still take their husbands’ surnames, and are sometimes pressured to do so. Husbands still expect their wives to do the bulk of the housework and the bulk of the childcare.
bs reasons when you're a man i guess and you are benefiting. not a bs reason when you're a woman and find that your mental health improves as a single woman. and, even though women are more likely to be significant poorer after divorce, they still choose to not be with a man.
Most married men seem to have worse mental health than women though...
it might seem that way but studies don't support that
"...married men have a lower risk of depression and a higher likelihood of satisfaction with life in retirement than their unmarried peers. Being married has also been linked to better cognitive function, a reduced risk of Alzheimer's disease, improved blood sugar levels, and better outcomes for hospitalized patients."
https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health
Oh yeah but I mean in a marriagethe men still seem more depressed than women.
I also don't take seriously any study that comes out of a gender studies department. They are loaded to begin with.click to expand

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I meant to put this in the man cave but your right any women agreeing o this is definitely something wrong with her. Because we all know if the attitude was in the reverse there would be no forgiving. Remember 80 percent of divorce are started by women most of the time for bs reasons.