Signs and Forgiveness

They say that there are only two signs who can truly forgive a person...Taurus and Virgo. Thoughts on this?

That's wrong. Virgos are not very forgiving.

I'd say Leo, Gemini, and Pisces are the most forgiving.

As a bull it takes a lot for me to get angry.

Therefore if you have made me angry, it's unlikely I will be able to move past it. I can genuinely forgive and have no resentment towards you but I will not forget it. Therefore without trust there's no longer any ground for you in my life. (So my forgiveness is pointless really....)

Posted by VirgoGent
I don't forgive or forget.

If I feel you have done me wrong then you are dead to me.

it may take time. but eventually we can forgive. we dont forget however. but i think once someone apologizes and makes an effort to show they're sorry then we'll forgive.

OP where did you read about this?

I'm a Taurus and hm yea I guess I forgive but that means you will no longer be part of my life.

Posted by umisaid
OP where did you read about this?

I'm a Taurus and hm yea I guess I forgive but that means you will no longer be part of my life.

i read this on a site awhile ago but i can't remember where i saw it.

Posted by coffeetime
Taurus girlfriend of mine still can't forgive something that someone has done to her ages ago.

My Virgo dad has too many regrets he hasn't forgiven himself for. Virgo Moon girlfriend of mine still holds grudges.

For me to *fully* forgive is to let go... at the very least not to mull over it or hold it against another. Taurus and Virgo people (either Sun and/or Moon) in my life don't exhibit that.

maybe that person didnt apologize to her. i'm talking about extreme circumstances where you've crossed someone's boundaries. most signs won't forgive you. some virgos and tauruses can. for example they may accept a murderer if they think he has changed.

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Posted by uchiha
They say that there are only two signs who can truly forgive a person...Taurus and Virgo. Thoughts on this?

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Lol I laughed out loud too

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well yeah thats what lol means lol

Posted by whatisthisallabout
That's wrong. Virgos are not very forgiving.

I'd say Leo, Gemini, and Pisces are the most forgiving.

i dont think leo or geminis are all that forgiving. i know leos who whole grudges and some geminis who dont speak to people again and go ghost.

Taurus... lol

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Taurus... lol

lol...you know you can share an experience and try to prove your point

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Taurus... lol

lol...you know you can share an experience and try to prove your point

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I've already done that several times on here. ? I just have so many family members, friends, ex husband of 15 years and so on... they can hold a grudge forever...till they die probably.

They have so many awesome qualities, but they are the most stubborn people on this Earth (the ones I know anyway) and forgiving is not one way I would describe them. Too many personal experiences.

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Taurus... lol

lol...you know you can share an experience and try to prove your point

I've already done that several times on here. ? I just have so many family members, friends, ex husband of 15 years and so on... they can hold a grudge forever...till they die probably.

They have so many awesome qualities, but they are the most stubborn people on this Earth (the ones I know anyway) and forgiving is not one way I would describe them. Too many personal experiences.

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I've had some bad experiences with one and we used to argue alot but she never cut me off. if she sees me she always talks to me.

It depends on the situation.

-An Aries can move past huge arguments a lot faster than the other signs, but once they are done with you they are DONE.

-Taurus will give a lot of chances to those they care about, but will not give any of their time to those who truly wrong them. They can hold grudges for a long time too.

-Geminis can let go of a grudge if they didn't take you too seriously, but they'll never come back around once they're gone.

-Cancers can be very forgiving, but they have a limit. Do not break a Cancers trust. It's next to impossible to get them back once they are truly hurt.

-We Leos can be forgiving as long as you don't get too close. If you betray us, we'll go cold. We can forget most of the hurt over time (a year or more), but if we come back, it won't be the same. We may be too proud to come back though.

-Virgos are done when they're done. Don't betray them or hurt them. They are already critical people. Once they see you in a certain light, it's hard to change that.

-Libra can be very forgiving to those who are straight forward with them. Don't take them lightly though, yes they don't like confrontation, but that doesn't mean they don't get angry. They'll remember those past hurts.

-Scorpio...don't mess with them....unless you want to get stabbed. They can definitely hold a grudge and may get back at you well past the time they "forgave" you.

-Sagittarius is in my mind the MOST forgiving. They can be friendly after a break up. They can get over arguments quickly, even if they are insulted. They are pretty logical. That being said...if you break their trust, they'll never forget it. Even if they remain cool with you, they'll never forget it.

-Capricorn can definitely hold grudges and you'll have to kiss A LOT butt to get them to come around again. They may never let you forget your past transgressions.

-Aquarius, unless you truly hurt/anger them, they may be open to being friends. If they truly cared about you, they will forgive you. If you didn't make a strong impact though, they'll ghost and never return.

-Pisces, they can forgive, but getting them back in the same room with you may be very tricky.

Really it's best to not break anyone's trust.

With or without an apology?

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Posted by uchiha
They say that there are only two signs who can truly forgive a person...Taurus and Virgo. Thoughts on this?

Lmmfao of ALL SIGNS you think those two are the most forgiving?

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yeah why not? they've all been good to me...care to share an experience?

I don't believe they are the most forgiving lol.

Probably Pisces

Taurus forgive?! That's funny lol

I can forgive but never forget

Taurus is the one sign that can really hold a grudge.

They aren't very forgiving and I find Leo's very similar.

I'm going to with Pisces, Aries and mayyybe Geminis.

I don't care enough to not forgive. So yes I do forgive. I've seen both Virgos n Tauruses not being able to forgive as quickly. N neither of them forgets things ..like ever!

My lesson to learn in this lifetime is forgiveness.

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Taurus... lol

lol...you know you can share an experience and try to prove your point

I've already done that several times on here. ? I just have so many family members, friends, ex husband of 15 years and so on... they can hold a grudge forever...till they die probably.

They have so many awesome qualities, but they are the most stubborn people on this Earth (the ones I know anyway) and forgiving is not one way I would describe them. Too many personal experiences.

I've had some bad experiences with one and we used to argue alot but she never cut me off. if she sees me she always talks to me.

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If she sees you... doesn't mean she wants you in her life or that she will tell you anything personal, because she's probably holding a grudge against you or at the least has a wall up against you for all the arguments. Once you are behind a Taurus' wall, it's difficult to get back on the other side.

My Taurus friend has already let go of so many friendships...she won't be mean to a person if that person happened to talk to her, but she won't initiate a lot of contact because of something they said that pissed her off and made her feel like she couldn't trust them. My ex was sort of paranoid when it came to that too... not as bad as others, but held on to a lot..

taurus does not forgive or forget idk where you got the idea we forgive from but i can see someone taking me cutting them off as if they never existed as forgiving i would rather put energy elsewhere and if i get a chance to get back at them i will but wouldnt go outta my way

Posted by SomeSortOfMermaid
My sister who's a Taurus moon makes people grovel for forgiveness and to me it just seems unnecessarily cruel, because if you've already made up in your mind that you still want to keep this person in your life you're intending to forgive them at some point.

Ditto. That always reads to me as game playing.

Posted by SomeSortOfMermaid
So in that case, I'd personally think "Is this something that I can or cannot tolerate?" And if I can tolerate it, I make the decision on the spot to forgive them, genuinely. And if they have crossed major boundaries, I'd cut them off right then and there. I don't want to hold onto negative energy longer than necessary, it drags my spirit down. I don't forget about things though so it's not like people can keep messing up, I remember everything.

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Same. Even if I wanted to keep a grudge or had total justification in my mind...I still can't do it.

Posted by yupvirgoo
I make it look as if I've forgiven people only to make them feel comfortable and shut them up so it would be easier for them to exist around me and work for forgiveness.. the same way that I myself would work for forgiveness should I have wronged anyone.

This is what Taurus and Virgo "forgiveness" is OP...

Posted by Distilled
Every sign can be be forgiving. Every person can as well.

On topic note though Virgos that I've known will never give up on you when everyone else is long gone. Once you've known them.

Haven't known too many Taurus's, but have one in my life who's done some really nice things for me- going out of her way to do it. See her doing it for a lot of people close to her, so it was a nice piece of warmth.

This. My downfall.

Signs that forgive the most...without holding a grudge:

I have to say Libra and Sag.

Every situation is different. I couldn't say that I forgive or don't forgive as a blanket statement. With some people, I have a deep well of forgiveness which goes hand in hand with love for that person. For others, it can take me years to get to the point of forgiving them, if I ever can. Depends on the wrong, betrayal, etc...

I've forgiven my mother's murderer. But only so that I could go on with my life instead of obsessing over my mother's final moments on earth. I had to forgive to let it go, otherwise, it would have consumed me.

a virgo will forgive what ever mistake you made was logical. it has to be so logical that you can write a paper on it with reasons backing up your mistake and conclusion. if they can put yourself in you place and felt that they would've made the same mistake then yes, they'll forgive you. initially they won't, but consistency will eventually push them to forgive you.

but if it's something like, i was drunk and cheated , not the will cut you off so fast you can't even apologize.

anything that disrespect a virgo or the mistake was done for selfish reason without considering them when they would've considered you, nope , byyyyyeee



taurus do no forgive, they will hold you to your mistake, bring it up to you all the time especially when it helps them build a case against you. they'll use it against you even when you're in your graves

i never forget though, if i forgave you, second strike and you're out for good

- a virgo

Posted by coldwateryvirgo
i never forget though, if i forgave you, second strike and you're out for good

- a virgo

I'm a virgo too...You may not know it yet but you have the potential too...If someone has no one else to turn, a virgo will not turn them down

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Posted by coldwateryvirgo
i never forget though, if i forgave you, second strike and you're out for good

- a virgo

I'm a virgo too...You may not know it yet but you have the potential too...If someone has no one else to turn, a virgo will not turn them down

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Look at you uchiha Virgo lol but yea youre right . I think Virgo is really a service sign . It's stupid but I can be starving and say I'm not just to let a kid eat my food .

So when it come to forgiving for people who have no one and nothing left , I probably would for their sake and my sake . I can't stand having a heavy heart

I've always forgiven everyone for everything. That shits about to start changing though.

Posted by whatisthisallabout
That's wrong. Virgos are not very forgiving.

I'd say Leo, Gemini, and Pisces are the most forgiving.

I agree! I just don't let anybody get to me that deeply! Except Scorpios...lol

Lmao @ comparing a fixed and a mutable in terms of forgiving.

It's never the fixed sign people. Get your astrology straight.

Posted by inmercury
I have never forgiven my husband for something he did when we started dating, and I fight with him about it nearly every week.

I can't relate to this at all. I will nag until it's clear in my mind but this happens quick because I lose interest fast, there's only so many ways to split hairs and caring overtakes me. I can't do long term grudges and if you're not exaggerating with "every week"...I can't do that either. Once in a while a situation might arise that would trigger a past hurt but even then, it's diluted for me. And if I can't see myself moving away from something I have to cut cords or I would turn into a warden and making someone's life miserable falls really low on my list of plans.

Checked your profile..your Libra Mars is interesting to me. I'd read on people's experience with that. My father has your Sun and Moon and that Mars and he is exactly the way you mentioned. He will not let go of anything ever and will bring it once a week, following you around to create more conflict. His mind is never at ease with any explanation and that ought to be checked. He will stick it out to the bitter end though which is the worst strategy and I never understood that about him.