ladylibra21
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So I think my boyfriend is breaking up with me tomorrow.
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Don't over think this. Perhaps he just wants to talk and get past the argument since it is so important to you?
So much gets lost in written words, your thoughts and emotions are going into what you are reading, not his. Just try to go with an open mind and if things have changed, maybe discussing it is the best outcome? Better than avoiding it imo.
So much gets lost in written words, your thoughts and emotions are going into what you are reading, not his. Just try to go with an open mind and if things have changed, maybe discussing it is the best outcome? Better than avoiding it imo.
Posted by ladylibra21Ugh typical aquarius,doesnt like arguments and face the problem,thats what happen with me and my scorp gf but my cappy bits doesnt want to give to i stayed with her for years letting all the arguments slide even though she told me every argument that we have we need to talk about it
So we never did discuss our fight last week and we talked sporadically throughout the weekend and we talked yesterday and everything seemed fine. When we were talking on the phone yesterday I told him I missed him and he said I miss you too I think we got a little off-track with whatever happen I don't even really remember what happened. And I said yeah we should probably talk about it and he said do you have to? Can't we just put it behind us?
So today I didn't hear from him all day so I told myself OK I will just give him space. He sends me this tonight
"Hey, I don't mean to say something obvious or stupid but it seems like things have changed between us. Would you want to get together tomorrow night or Thursday to talk about it?"
Explain yeah I don't feel like anything is changed except that we had an argument that we haven't talked about yet but if you feel like something is changed you should probably talk about it. He text back and hour later saying "Right well we should talk about it then" (I can basically hear him virtually stammering.)
And call him and he doesn't pick up he text back two hours later saying he was putting his son to sleep no biggie, but it's the way he said it "Was putting My son to sleep--please let's talk tomorrow"
Meaning I can't possibly brace myself for this tonight. Maybe I'm paranoid I don't know but he just sounds like He's done.
Talk to him about it.
Posted by Gob_ShiteWhy are you soooo negative all of the time?
Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you come across as a control freak. Aquarians don't like being controlled...
Can u think of anything that could be bothering him?
My aqua never wants to talk things out. He lets me talk and he listens, but that’s about it. He’s very passive. Seems like that’s what happened with your argument too. But hmm it must be important if he wants to talk to u in person. But that doesn’t mean a breakup.
My aqua never wants to talk things out. He lets me talk and he listens, but that’s about it. He’s very passive. Seems like that’s what happened with your argument too. But hmm it must be important if he wants to talk to u in person. But that doesn’t mean a breakup.
Posted by Gob_ShiteYou said it yourself you don't know me personally and I have never come on here saying anything that can be remotely controlling so for you to jump to that conclusion makes you extremely negative person. How is that an alternative explaination when you have no evidence that such a thing is going on? Also I have respected his need for space he has had a week of minimal communication from me and a supportive ear the times we did talk. I'm not sure why you feel the need to jump to a negative fabricated opinion about people you don't know instead of looking at the situation at hand. It's counter productive and just comes off as you oozing your lack of trust in people.Posted by ladylibra21Posted by Gob_ShiteWhy are you soooo negative all of the time?
Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you come across as a control freak. Aquarians don't like being controlled...
And why is it that the ones who accuse me of being negative are, by and the large, the most delusional, constantly living in denial?
Another perspective was presented to you, which could actually be true. But, because it's something you don't want to hear, you're getting all pissy.
As I don't know you personally, I can't give you the benefit of the doubt, no matter how attractive your online persona or mask is.
The fact you reacted to my interpretation of events, in a hostile manner, indicates that you have issues that the Aquarius has picked up on. Hell, you can't even wait roughly 24 hours and respect his need for space!
Women like you, who live in constant denial, are a dime a dozen and I couldn't give a shit about your negative reactions from me stating the obvious. As the saying goes, if it looks like a duck...
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Posted by pinkbird03I can't think of anything except the fact that we haven't talked about our fight and I'm giving him space not completely ignoring him but tons of space. If he feels like something has changed that is all on his end. We do have emotional miscommunication from time to time and he thinks I might be feeling someway when I don't feel that way so I'm thinking it's another type of situation like that. Which can be frustrating but is also important to talk about I just don't like issues like this because he gets this idea in his head about what he thinks I am thinking and setting him straight can be frustrating because he can get insecure about it and doesn't always believe that something else is happening.
Can u think of anything that could be bothering him?
My aqua never wants to talk things out. He lets me talk and he listens, but that’s about it. He’s very passive. Seems like that’s what happened with your argument too. But hmm it must be important if he wants to talk to u in person. But that doesn’t mean a breakup.
Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by ladylibra21Posted by Gob_ShiteYou said it yourself you don't know me personally and I have never come on here saying anything that can be remotely controlling so for you to jump to that conclusion makes you extremely negative person. How is that an alternative explaination when you have no evidence that such a thing is going on? Also I have respected his need for space he has had a week of minimal communication from me and a supportive ear the times we did talk. I'm not sure why you feel the need to jump to a negative fabricated opinion about people you don't know instead of looking at the situation at hand. It's counter productive and just comes off as you oozing your lack of trust in people.Posted by ladylibra21Posted by Gob_ShiteWhy are you soooo negative all of the time?
Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you come across as a control freak. Aquarians don't like being controlled...
And why is it that the ones who accuse me of being negative are, by and the large, the most delusional, constantly living in denial?
Another perspective was presented to you, which could actually be true. But, because it's something you don't want to hear, you're getting all pissy.
As I don't know you personally, I can't give you the benefit of the doubt, no matter how attractive your online persona or mask is.
The fact you reacted to my interpretation of events, in a hostile manner, indicates that you have issues that the Aquarius has picked up on. Hell, you can't even wait roughly 24 hours and respect his need for space!
Women like you, who live in constant denial, are a dime a dozen and I couldn't give a shit about your negative reactions from me stating the obvious. As the saying goes, if it looks like a duck...
Don't even play that bullshit victim game with me.
This is a discussion forum and you've been given an interpretation. What were you expecting? For everyone to side and sympathise with you? The clues are littered in your last couple of threads, concerning him, so don't even resort to that immature tactic.
Based on your reaction alone, women like you are pathetic and borderline toxic...
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I'm not playing any type of game I'm simply stating that you have not facts and yes this is a discussion forum but why even reply if you are not replying to the topic at hand and the evidence you are given. Again you can call me what you like all day long but the fact you need to say something negative about any and everything on DXP or to assuming that I am a toxic person show more about your make up then mine darling.
Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by ladylibra21
I'm not playing any type of game I'm simply stating that you have not facts and yes this is a discussion forum but why even reply if you are not replying to the topic at hand and the evidence you are given. Again you can call me what you like all day long but the fact you need to say something negative about any and everything on DXP or to assuming that I am a toxic person show more about your make up then mine darling.
Let's go back to the very beginning:Posted by Gob_Shite
Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you come across as a control freak. Aquarians don't like being controlled...
What's in bold is a suggestion based on deduction. It's NOT an accusation. And you're wondering why your Aqua is acting the way that he is?
This is all about potential self-awareness, but you're more concerned with playing the victim whatever the cost...
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OK but you never said why you thought that way you just said that and I'm telling you I don't see how you came to that conclusion. So of course I'm going to take it as you just being negative because you didn't point out why you feel that way. I am all about self awareness I spend most of my day evaluating what I'm doing or saying in my life so I know myself dear and I am more than willing to admit fault or perception but only if there are things to back it. You can't just say well you come off as a control freak and not say why you think that.
He wants to talk to you, he assured you of this, why are you pushing him by calling him instantly? This kind of behaviour is clingy. Cool down and wait for him. Trust him. He wants to talk it out, not to split up.
Posted by Gob_ShiteBecause I wanted to do something on my own that had nothing to do with my boyfriend and my boyfriend didn't want me to do it and put his foot down and said too bad I'm going to do it any way I am a control freak?Posted by sakuraflowersPosted by Gob_ShiteWhat makes you say that?
Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you come across as a control freak.
All you need to do is read between the lines...
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/stupid-fight-or-significant--9371062/
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Posted by aquarius_manI don't plan on fighting with him today at all I've been completely over this but obviously he wasn't a and he thinks that more is going on here than what it was and I will be there to listen. I would like to focus on a solution not the fight. We both need to learn how to defuse ourself when it comes to our triggers but understanding the triggers is the start I think. Sure we could just say it was stupid and make up but what does that solve?Posted by ladylibra21meaning tomorrow he wants to give you a good talking-to then make-up sex w u, provided you stop being stubborn. don t be like that with an aquarius. you will never win.
Meaning I can't possibly brace myself for this tonight. Maybe I'm paranoid I don't know but he just sounds like He's done.
if you stand your ground and keep being passive aggressive, he will leave, even if to spite you. you should be dotty. and apologize, even if u dont believeit was your mistake. show him you understood he cared about your safetly, like u cared about ur neighbours.
you can talk his ear off after that, after you get back together. but if you gonna confront him and act all defiant and defensive at the same time, like you seem to be in this thread - like ALL libras tend to be, for that matter - then this man should let you be and mind his business.
if u want him back, ur turn to give in a little, even its for the sake of appearances. listen to him, give him ur side of the story and make up. be friendly and smiley, not defensive.click to expand
Posted by Gob_ShiteDude I have no problem with your opinion you have a right to your opinion that's fine all I'm saying is it is more helpful to express examples of why you feel a certain way instead of just stating something.Posted by SupesPosted by Gob_ShiteI got no beef with you, never have.Posted by SupesPosted by Gob_ShiteI think you’re waaaaaay off on this one, bro.Posted by ladylibra21Posted by Gob_ShiteYou said it yourself you don't know me personally and I have never come on here saying anything that can be remotely controlling so for you to jump to that conclusion makes you extremely negative person. How is that an alternative explaination when you have no evidence that such a thing is going on? Also I have respected his need for space he has had a week of minimal communication from me and a supportive ear the times we did talk. I'm not sure why you feel the need to jump to a negative fabricated opinion about people you don't know instead of looking at the situation at hand. It's counter productive and just comes off as you oozing your lack of trust in people.Posted by ladylibra21Posted by Gob_ShiteWhy are you soooo negative all of the time?
Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you come across as a control freak. Aquarians don't like being controlled...
And why is it that the ones who accuse me of being negative are, by and the large, the most delusional, constantly living in denial?
Another perspective was presented to you, which could actually be true. But, because it's something you don't want to hear, you're getting all pissy.
As I don't know you personally, I can't give you the benefit of the doubt, no matter how attractive your online persona or mask is.
The fact you reacted to my interpretation of events, in a hostile manner, indicates that you have issues that the Aquarius has picked up on. Hell, you can't even wait roughly 24 hours and respect his need for space!
Women like you, who live in constant denial, are a dime a dozen and I couldn't give a shit about your negative reactions from me stating the obvious. As the saying goes, if it looks like a duck...
Don't even play that bullshit victim game with me.
This is a discussion forum and you've been given an interpretation. What were you expecting? For everyone to side and sympathise with you? The clues are littered in your last couple of threads, concerning him, so don't even resort to that immature tactic.
Based on your reaction alone, women like you are pathetic and borderline toxic...
That's cool. That's what this forum is for - to discuss. 🙂
The Libra is right though......you do come across aggressive and negative a lot. Especially when someone disagrees with ya.
Like I said, I have no beef......just my perspective
I'm not an American, so my cultural mindset is going to be different from most here.
My beef with the OP is her unwillingness to even accommodate my perspective, especially as she has no idea how the Aquarius thinks. Instead, she gets on the defensive and calls me negative. Well, sorry for trying to put myself in the place of her SO...
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All we can do is speculate at this point but I guess maybe he feels you two don't share the same view in life after what happened with the neighbor last week? could that be it?
If it bothered him enough to walk out of your house at 3:00 a.m. I believe it was a topic that needed to be addressed. To be quite honest, you didn't even try to understand where he was coming from.
If it bothered him enough to walk out of your house at 3:00 a.m. I believe it was a topic that needed to be addressed. To be quite honest, you didn't even try to understand where he was coming from.
Posted by compyHere comes the famous aqua expert pffft💨
He wants to talk to you, he assured you of this, why are you pushing him by calling him instantly? This kind of behaviour is clingy. Cool down and wait for him. Trust him. He wants to talk it out, not to split up.
If you fart in front of an Aquarius you're trying to control the scents they're exposed to.
Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by ladylibra21Posted by Gob_ShiteDude I have no problem with your opinion you have a right to your opinion that's fine all I'm saying is it is more helpful to express examples of why you feel a certain way instead of just stating something.Posted by SupesPosted by Gob_ShiteI got no beef with you, never have.Posted by SupesPosted by Gob_ShiteI think you’re waaaaaay off on this one, bro.Posted by ladylibra21Posted by Gob_ShiteYou said it yourself you don't know me personally and I have never come on here saying anything that can be remotely controlling so for you to jump to that conclusion makes you extremely negative person. How is that an alternative explaination when you have no evidence that such a thing is going on? Also I have respected his need for space he has had a week of minimal communication from me and a supportive ear the times we did talk. I'm not sure why you feel the need to jump to a negative fabricated opinion about people you don't know instead of looking at the situation at hand. It's counter productive and just comes off as you oozing your lack of trust in people.Posted by ladylibra21Posted by Gob_ShiteWhy are you soooo negative all of the time?
Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you come across as a control freak. Aquarians don't like being controlled...
And why is it that the ones who accuse me of being negative are, by and the large, the most delusional, constantly living in denial?
Another perspective was presented to you, which could actually be true. But, because it's something you don't want to hear, you're getting all pissy.
As I don't know you personally, I can't give you the benefit of the doubt, no matter how attractive your online persona or mask is.
The fact you reacted to my interpretation of events, in a hostile manner, indicates that you have issues that the Aquarius has picked up on. Hell, you can't even wait roughly 24 hours and respect his need for space!
Women like you, who live in constant denial, are a dime a dozen and I couldn't give a shit about your negative reactions from me stating the obvious. As the saying goes, if it looks like a duck...
Don't even play that bullshit victim game with me.
This is a discussion forum and you've been given an interpretation. What were you expecting? For everyone to side and sympathise with you? The clues are littered in your last couple of threads, concerning him, so don't even resort to that immature tactic.
Based on your reaction alone, women like you are pathetic and borderline toxic...
That's cool. That's what this forum is for - to discuss. 🙂
The Libra is right though......you do come across aggressive and negative a lot. Especially when someone disagrees with ya.
Like I said, I have no beef......just my perspective
I'm not an American, so my cultural mindset is going to be different from most here.
My beef with the OP is her unwillingness to even accommodate my perspective, especially as she has no idea how the Aquarius thinks. Instead, she gets on the defensive and calls me negative. Well, sorry for trying to put myself in the place of her SO...
I already did.
I mentioned you pestering him, after he said he wanted to talk with you tomorrow. I also went into further detail in your previous thread about him.
You're grappling at straws to justify your reaction to my comment, which is utterly lame.
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I don't see how me calling him once is controlling, but I will think about it and you never pointed anything out in my previous post. But again your are entitled to your opinion. You have been heard and I'm moving forward.
Posted by hazyFloI never control anything though I just wanted to see what he would do or if he could do things on his own that isn't controlling.
OP
Remember when you made that post and admitted to testing your Aqua constantly and you couldn’t stop, it may be this and your other controlling tendencies.
Posted by ladylibra21If you farted whilst on the phone to him then you controlled him by subjecting him to noise pollution he did not consent to.Posted by hazyFloI never control anything though I just wanted to see what he would do or if he could do things on his own that isn't controlling.
OP
Remember when you made that post and admitted to testing your Aqua constantly and you couldn’t stop, it may be this and your other controlling tendencies.click to expand
You are going to be the reason why your relationship fails simply because you are so neurotic. You do come off controlling. You test the guy constantly and can't stop it. Then you get pissed at him because he wants to step outside with you at 3 am, to make sure you stay safe. Then, he asks to discuss things with you on a certain day, but you want to talk about it now, so you call him.
A relationship is a partnership, and all I see is you demanding him to submit to your wants, with no consideration to his.
A relationship is a partnership, and all I see is you demanding him to submit to your wants, with no consideration to his.
Dealing with Aquarius is easy. Just stop being a Libra. Then you might have a chance.
Posted by FknNerdWhoever the hell you are
Even the aquas and caps sound like the controlling ones in this thread.
I project our future grandchildren being very interesting looking creatures.
Posted by LibWmanLol get off our nuts!
If you fart in front of an Aquarius you're trying to control the scents they're exposed to.
Posted by AerialViewI honestly read aquarius mans thread about the Aries and feel a strong inclination to agree with you.
Dealing with Aquarius is easy. Just stop being a Libra. Then you might have a chance.
Posted by AerialViewYou mean stop tantalising your nostril hairs with unsolicited bodily parfum.Posted by LibWmanLol get off our nuts!
If you fart in front of an Aquarius you're trying to control the scents they're exposed to.click to expand
Posted by hazyFloShade that needs a certain level of intellect to decipher.Posted by LibWmanI don’t even know what this means, like shade gone wrong lolPosted by AerialViewYou mean stop tantalising your nostril hairs with unsolicited bodily parfum.Posted by LibWmanLol get off our nuts!
If you fart in front of an Aquarius you're trying to control the scents they're exposed to.
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Posted by Gob_ShiteIt says noise pollution. Invest in a pair of reading glasses.Posted by FknNerdPosted by LibWmanIt makes no sense why this post only gets one like and startwars' faggot meme gets a shit ton. No sense.Posted by ladylibra21If you farted whilst on the phone to him then you controlled him by subjecting him to noise pollution he did not consent to.Posted by hazyFloI never control anything though I just wanted to see what he would do or if he could do things on his own that isn't controlling.
OP
Remember when you made that post and admitted to testing your Aqua constantly and you couldn’t stop, it may be this and your other controlling tendencies.
Because it makes no logical sense. How can you smell the caller's fart when you're not even in the same vicinity as them?
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Posted by hazyFloMy grandmother put a pitch fork up my ass.Posted by LibWmanI enjoy morbid humor a lot more. So who hurt you?Posted by hazyFloShade that needs a certain level of intellect to decipher.Posted by LibWmanI don’t even know what this means, like shade gone wrong lolPosted by AerialViewYou mean stop tantalising your nostril hairs with unsolicited bodily parfum.Posted by LibWmanLol get off our nuts!
If you fart in front of an Aquarius you're trying to control the scents they're exposed to.
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Posted by AerialViewThank you, I love perfumes 😄Posted by compyHere comes the famous aqua expert pffft💨
He wants to talk to you, he assured you of this, why are you pushing him by calling him instantly? This kind of behaviour is clingy. Cool down and wait for him. Trust him. He wants to talk it out, not to split up.click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaaBae. I love you.Posted by ladylibra21Just let it go...Posted by Gob_ShiteBecause I wanted to do something on my own that had nothing to do with my boyfriend and my boyfriend didn't want me to do it and put his foot down and said too bad I'm going to do it any way I am a control freak?Posted by sakuraflowersPosted by Gob_ShiteWhat makes you say that?
Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you come across as a control freak.
All you need to do is read between the lines...
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/stupid-fight-or-significant--9371062/
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We will wed soon. Don't you worry
Posted by Gob_ShiteThank you. Thank you so much.Posted by sakuraflowersPosted by Gob_ShiteNo she said noise pollution...as in the other person can hearPosted by FknNerdPosted by LibWmanIt makes no sense why this post only gets one like and startwars' faggot meme gets a shit ton. No sense.Posted by ladylibra21If you farted whilst on the phone to him then you controlled him by subjecting him to noise pollution he did not consent to.Posted by hazyFloI never control anything though I just wanted to see what he would do or if he could do things on his own that isn't controlling.
OP
Remember when you made that post and admitted to testing your Aqua constantly and you couldn’t stop, it may be this and your other controlling tendencies.
Because it makes no logical sense. How can you smell the caller's fart when you're not even in the same vicinity as them?
My bad. Still, it wasn't funny... 🙂
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Posted by hazyFloSo can I to be fairPosted by LibWmanI can tell.Posted by hazyFloMy grandmother put a pitch fork up my ass.Posted by LibWmanI enjoy morbid humor a lot more. So who hurt you?Posted by hazyFloShade that needs a certain level of intellect to decipher.Posted by LibWmanI don’t even know what this means, like shade gone wrong lolPosted by AerialViewYou mean stop tantalising your nostril hairs with unsolicited bodily parfum.Posted by LibWmanLol get off our nuts!
If you fart in front of an Aquarius you're trying to control the scents they're exposed to.
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sometimes it feels more like getting sucked into a tornado
Posted by compyI knew it was your favorite scent lmaoPosted by AerialViewThank you, I love perfumes 😄Posted by compyHere comes the famous aqua expert pffft💨
He wants to talk to you, he assured you of this, why are you pushing him by calling him instantly? This kind of behaviour is clingy. Cool down and wait for him. Trust him. He wants to talk it out, not to split up.click to expand
Posted by AerialViewAs a matter of fact, I find it the most powerful commitment phrase, lol 🙂Posted by compyI knew it was your favorite scent lmaoPosted by AerialViewThank you, I love perfumes 😄Posted by compyHere comes the famous aqua expert pffft💨
He wants to talk to you, he assured you of this, why are you pushing him by calling him instantly? This kind of behaviour is clingy. Cool down and wait for him. Trust him. He wants to talk it out, not to split up.click to expand
Posted by Gob_ShiteOk you smelly turd. Blows fart.Posted by LibWmanPosted by Gob_ShiteIt says noise pollution. Invest in a pair of reading glasses.Posted by FknNerdPosted by LibWmanIt makes no sense why this post only gets one like and startwars' faggot meme gets a shit ton. No sense.Posted by ladylibra21If you farted whilst on the phone to him then you controlled him by subjecting him to noise pollution he did not consent to.Posted by hazyFloI never control anything though I just wanted to see what he would do or if he could do things on his own that isn't controlling.
OP
Remember when you made that post and admitted to testing your Aqua constantly and you couldn’t stop, it may be this and your other controlling tendencies.
Because it makes no logical sense. How can you smell the caller's fart when you're not even in the same vicinity as them?
Ever heard of multi-tasking?
*blows kisses*
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Posted by ladylibra21
So we never did discuss our fight last week and we talked sporadically throughout the weekend and we talked yesterday and everything seemed fine. When we were talking on the phone yesterday I told him I missed him and he said I miss you too I think we got a little off-track with whatever happen I don't even really remember what happened. And I said yeah we should probably talk about it and he said do you have to? Can't we just put it behind us?
So today I didn't hear from him all day so I told myself OK I will just give him space. He sends me this tonight
"Hey, I don't mean to say something obvious or stupid but it seems like things have changed between us. Would you want to get together tomorrow night or Thursday to talk about it?"
Explain yeah I don't feel like anything is changed except that we had an argument that we haven't talked about yet but if you feel like something is changed you should probably talk about it. He text back and hour later saying "Right well we should talk about it then" (I can basically hear him virtually stammering.)
And call him and he doesn't pick up he text back two hours later saying he was putting his son to sleep no biggie, but it's the way he said it "Was putting My son to sleep--please let's talk tomorrow"
Meaning I can't possibly brace myself for this tonight. Maybe I'm paranoid I don't know but he just sounds like He's done.
So sorry to hear. Hope you can fix whatever has to be fixed or split up peacefully
Posted by compySeriously comply there is something wrong with your head. You must be sisters with that LibWman.Posted by AerialViewAs a matter of fact, I find it the most powerful commitment phrase, lol 🙂Posted by compyI knew it was your favorite scent lmaoPosted by AerialViewThank you, I love perfumes 😄Posted by compyHere comes the famous aqua expert pffft💨
He wants to talk to you, he assured you of this, why are you pushing him by calling him instantly? This kind of behaviour is clingy. Cool down and wait for him. Trust him. He wants to talk it out, not to split up.click to expand
Posted by AerialViewI somehow divert topics.Posted by compySeriously comply there is something wrong with your head. You must be sisters with that LibWman.Posted by AerialViewAs a matter of fact, I find it the most powerful commitment phrase, lol 🙂Posted by compyI knew it was your favorite scent lmaoPosted by AerialViewThank you, I love perfumes 😄Posted by compyHere comes the famous aqua expert pffft💨
He wants to talk to you, he assured you of this, why are you pushing him by calling him instantly? This kind of behaviour is clingy. Cool down and wait for him. Trust him. He wants to talk it out, not to split up.click to expand
R.I.P.
Posted by aquarius_manI wasn't joking. Not a fan of them.Posted by AerialViewthis a joke only an aqua will get 😄
Dealing with Aquarius is easy. Just stop being a Libra. Then you might have a chance.
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Posted by aquarius_manIt seems that I simply distract you. I will try to limit my posts.Posted by compydid you meanwhile learn what 'know your aquas' means?
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Posted by aquarius_manI like Scorp and the rest of watery women.Posted by AerialViewwhy don t you like libra?Posted by aquarius_manI wasn't joking. Not a fan of them.Posted by AerialViewthis a joke only an aqua will get 😄
Dealing with Aquarius is easy. Just stop being a Libra. Then you might have a chance.
coz they secretly boring? and aquarius eccentric?
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Libra women play with your head.
Scorp women play with your dick.
Posted by aquarius_manConcentrate on the topic.Posted by compywhy avoid answering? it is easy: just admit you were so annoyed and read it in a haste and didn't get it. you thought i said you don t know your aqua. made quite a fussssssssss and exited. it really upset me, like it did the man in the OP's story.
It seems that I simply distract you. I will try to limit my posts.
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Posted by aquarius_manThen you should! Lol you have Pisces bits like me to dismantle their stings.Posted by AerialViewlol
Libra women play with your head.
Scorp women play with your dick.
thats whatsup. but arent scorps trying to mess w ur head, too? hear?
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Posted by aquarius_manI have no problems of self esteem.Posted by compythat's you admitting you were wrong. see? easy
Concentrate on the topic.
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What if I massage someone with Bebe oil.
Posted by ladylibra21This sounds like a possibility. Why does he get the wrong impression so much though?Posted by pinkbird03I can't think of anything except the fact that we haven't talked about our fight and I'm giving him space not completely ignoring him but tons of space. If he feels like something has changed that is all on his end. We do have emotional miscommunication from time to time and he thinks I might be feeling someway when I don't feel that way so I'm thinking it's another type of situation like that. Which can be frustrating but is also important to talk about I just don't like issues like this because he gets this idea in his head about what he thinks I am thinking and setting him straight can be frustrating because he can get insecure about it and doesn't always believe that something else is happening.
Can u think of anything that could be bothering him?
My aqua never wants to talk things out. He lets me talk and he listens, but that’s about it. He’s very passive. Seems like that’s what happened with your argument too. But hmm it must be important if he wants to talk to u in person. But that doesn’t mean a breakup.
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