Because he feels insecure with himself he has admitted this a million times. I'm the second person he has ever been with and I haven't had very healthy relationships so it's the kind leading the blind really we do the best we can.
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Posted by edgelordPosted by julietteei didn't talk to my bff for over a yearish because i called her a scorpio. legit she ended our friendship over it. so it does happen.
So you two had a fight over astrology? Don't break up 😢
now she accepts that i called her "the scorpio" when i talk about her on dxp.click to expand
She thought you called her a Scorpion?
Posted by SupesThis and this.Posted by compyThis.
He wants to talk to you, he assured you of this, why are you pushing him by calling him instantly? This kind of behaviour is clingy. Cool down and wait for him. Trust him. He wants to talk it out, not to split up.
He’s compromising with you. He didn’t wanna y’all about it to begin with but you wanted to. He mulled your concern over and decided to give it a shot.
Talking face to face is always best in these situations. Put your game face on and have some dinner and a drink. Don’t turn an ant mound into a molehillclick to expand
Posted by aquarius_manDon't know yet I'm going over at 9:30 pm
@ladylibra21 so what do you think after 10 pages? is he still breaking up with you tomorrow? what do people say
If he was completely done he wouldn’t respond... from what I’ve been reading lately this is his guys handle things now. Anywho, regardless of if this is his intentions or not make sure you look good, are well shaved and waxed, and prepped for whatever. Isn’t this the Aqua?
Posted by nikkistar
You are going to be the reason why your relationship fails simply because you are so neurotic. You do come off controlling. You test the guy constantly and can't stop it. Then you get pissed at him because he wants to step outside with you at 3 am, to make sure you stay safe. Then, he asks to discuss things with you on a certain day, but you want to talk about it now, so you call him.
A relationship is a partnership, and all I see is you demanding him to submit to your wants, with no consideration to his.
Do they have you in a man version?
So we are still together but I don't think he really knows what he wants to be honest. He was kind of inarticulate last night.
Posted by ladylibra21What did he have to say?
So we are still together but I don't think he really knows what he wants to be honest. He was kind of inarticulate last night.
Posted by ladylibra21Why do you sound so disappointed tho
So we are still together but I don't think he really knows what he wants to be honest. He was kind of inarticulate last night.
Posted by ladylibra21Maybe he was like that because he didn't feel he did anything wrong but was still trying to agree to what you wanted and talk.
So we are still together but I don't think he really knows what he wants to be honest. He was kind of inarticulate last night.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by ladylibra21Why do you sound so disappointed tho
So we are still together but I don't think he really knows what he wants to be honest. He was kind of inarticulate last night.click to expand
I am disappointed because although he said things it still seemed vague.
I don't think he knows what he wants he has always said it's hard to tell how he feels about things not just relationships in general but the way he feels about anything and he was saying he thinks relationships feel like a lot of maintenance and it wears him down sometime and he feels pressured to be on the path of marriage and he's not always sure if that's what he wants. I told him the idea of it scares me too and makes me feel like running way but once my trust has been healed I will probably want that one day. But I'm not expecting some kind of timeline and I don't want him to do that out of obligation.
He started making out with me last night and having sex and then he couldn't finish it's been like this off and on for a month or two and I asked him last night is it me and he said no I just don't always have a high libido and I said OK that's fine I don't have a high sex drive either why attempt having sex if you aren't into it we don't have to have sex all the time. He says no sometimes I start in then I feel guilty so I can't finish.
So I suggested what if we take a sex break to give it time to feel comfortable again and want it he says yeah that might help because sometimes he feels like he is taking advantage of me and he feels better if I iniciate and then this morning he changes his mind about the sex break. Mind you he said he wasn't sure how he felt about me after our argument because he feels like we have had too many blow outs (we have only had 2 major fights), but I feel like it's a bad idea to have sex with someone you don't know how you feel about. I didn't tell him that but that is what I was thinking.
Overall it just felt like he wanted to break up but wasn't sure how to do it or if he wanted to. Then this morning it was let's go to the movies tonight. We hardly ever go on dates so it surprised me then he just texted me saying "Hey, just wanted to say it was great being with you last night--I don't want you to feel unwanted or left out in the cold!" I'm not sure what to think. So I'm just gonna let things play out and be careful with my feelings until It plays out
Posted by ladylibra21I don't get it...what does he have to feel guilty about?? Why is having sex with you, his girlfriend, make him feel guilty. What is he hiding...Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by ladylibra21Why do you sound so disappointed tho
So we are still together but I don't think he really knows what he wants to be honest. He was kind of inarticulate last night.
I am disappointed because although he said things it still seemed vague.
I don't think he knows what he wants he has always said it's hard to tell how he feels about things not just relationships in general but the way he feels about anything and he was saying he thinks relationships feel like a lot of maintenance and it wears him down sometime and he feels pressured to be on the path of marriage and he's not always sure if that's what he wants. I told him the idea of it scares me too and makes me feel like running way but once my trust has been healed I will probably want that one day. But I'm not expecting some kind of timeline and I don't want him to do that out of obligation.
He started making out with me last night and having sex and then he couldn't finish it's been like this off and on for a month or two and I asked him last night is it me and he said no I just don't always have a high libido and I said OK that's fine I don't have a high sex drive either why attempt having sex if you aren't into it we don't have to have sex all the time. He says no sometimes I start in then I feel guilty so I can't finish.
So I suggested what if we take a sex break to give it time to feel comfortable again and want it he says yeah that might help because sometimes he feels like he is taking advantage of me and he feels better if I iniciate and then this morning he changes his mind about the sex break. Mind you he said he wasn't sure how he felt about me after our argument because he feels like we have had too many blow outs (we have only had 2 major fights), but I feel like it's a bad idea to have sex with someone you don't know how you feel about. I didn't tell him that but that is what I was thinking.
Overall it just felt like he wanted to break up but wasn't sure how to do it or if he wanted to. Then this morning it was let's go to the movies tonight. We hardly ever go on dates so it surprised me then he just texted me saying "Hey, just wanted to say it was great being with you last night--I don't want you to feel unwanted or left out in the cold!" I'm not sure what to think. So I'm just gonna let things play out and be careful with my feelings until It plays outclick to expand
That “I feel guilty “ sounds fishy...
Posted by LadyNeptuneYou have to understand he left a religion a couple of years ago that shames sex to an extreme level he still struggles with this. He feels like he is taking advantage of me sometimes when he initiates it. He has said that even though he enjoys sex he will always in part see it in a complicated wayPosted by ladylibra21I don't get it...what does he have to feel guilty about?? Why is having sex with you, his girlfriend, make him feel guilty. What is he hiding...Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by ladylibra21Why do you sound so disappointed tho
So we are still together but I don't think he really knows what he wants to be honest. He was kind of inarticulate last night.
I am disappointed because although he said things it still seemed vague.
I don't think he knows what he wants he has always said it's hard to tell how he feels about things not just relationships in general but the way he feels about anything and he was saying he thinks relationships feel like a lot of maintenance and it wears him down sometime and he feels pressured to be on the path of marriage and he's not always sure if that's what he wants. I told him the idea of it scares me too and makes me feel like running way but once my trust has been healed I will probably want that one day. But I'm not expecting some kind of timeline and I don't want him to do that out of obligation.
He started making out with me last night and having sex and then he couldn't finish it's been like this off and on for a month or two and I asked him last night is it me and he said no I just don't always have a high libido and I said OK that's fine I don't have a high sex drive either why attempt having sex if you aren't into it we don't have to have sex all the time. He says no sometimes I start in then I feel guilty so I can't finish.
So I suggested what if we take a sex break to give it time to feel comfortable again and want it he says yeah that might help because sometimes he feels like he is taking advantage of me and he feels better if I iniciate and then this morning he changes his mind about the sex break. Mind you he said he wasn't sure how he felt about me after our argument because he feels like we have had too many blow outs (we have only had 2 major fights), but I feel like it's a bad idea to have sex with someone you don't know how you feel about. I didn't tell him that but that is what I was thinking.
Overall it just felt like he wanted to break up but wasn't sure how to do it or if he wanted to. Then this morning it was let's go to the movies tonight. We hardly ever go on dates so it surprised me then he just texted me saying "Hey, just wanted to say it was great being with you last night--I don't want you to feel unwanted or left out in the cold!" I'm not sure what to think. So I'm just gonna let things play out and be careful with my feelings until It plays outclick to expand
Posted by ladylibra21You said he has a kid. This isn't the first time he's fucked, obviously.Posted by LadyNeptuneYou have to understand he left a religion a couple of years ago that shames sex to an extreme level he still struggles with this. He feels like he is taking advantage of me sometimes when he initiates it. He has said that even though he enjoys sex he will always in part see it in a complicated wayPosted by ladylibra21I don't get it...what does he have to feel guilty about?? Why is having sex with you, his girlfriend, make him feel guilty. What is he hiding...Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by ladylibra21Why do you sound so disappointed tho
So we are still together but I don't think he really knows what he wants to be honest. He was kind of inarticulate last night.
I am disappointed because although he said things it still seemed vague.
I don't think he knows what he wants he has always said it's hard to tell how he feels about things not just relationships in general but the way he feels about anything and he was saying he thinks relationships feel like a lot of maintenance and it wears him down sometime and he feels pressured to be on the path of marriage and he's not always sure if that's what he wants. I told him the idea of it scares me too and makes me feel like running way but once my trust has been healed I will probably want that one day. But I'm not expecting some kind of timeline and I don't want him to do that out of obligation.
He started making out with me last night and having sex and then he couldn't finish it's been like this off and on for a month or two and I asked him last night is it me and he said no I just don't always have a high libido and I said OK that's fine I don't have a high sex drive either why attempt having sex if you aren't into it we don't have to have sex all the time. He says no sometimes I start in then I feel guilty so I can't finish.
So I suggested what if we take a sex break to give it time to feel comfortable again and want it he says yeah that might help because sometimes he feels like he is taking advantage of me and he feels better if I iniciate and then this morning he changes his mind about the sex break. Mind you he said he wasn't sure how he felt about me after our argument because he feels like we have had too many blow outs (we have only had 2 major fights), but I feel like it's a bad idea to have sex with someone you don't know how you feel about. I didn't tell him that but that is what I was thinking.
Overall it just felt like he wanted to break up but wasn't sure how to do it or if he wanted to. Then this morning it was let's go to the movies tonight. We hardly ever go on dates so it surprised me then he just texted me saying "Hey, just wanted to say it was great being with you last night--I don't want you to feel unwanted or left out in the cold!" I'm not sure what to think. So I'm just gonna let things play out and be careful with my feelings until It plays out
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Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by ladylibra21You said he has a kid. This isn't the first time he's fucked, obviously.Posted by LadyNeptuneYou have to understand he left a religion a couple of years ago that shames sex to an extreme level he still struggles with this. He feels like he is taking advantage of me sometimes when he initiates it. He has said that even though he enjoys sex he will always in part see it in a complicated wayPosted by ladylibra21I don't get it...what does he have to feel guilty about?? Why is having sex with you, his girlfriend, make him feel guilty. What is he hiding...Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by ladylibra21Why do you sound so disappointed tho
So we are still together but I don't think he really knows what he wants to be honest. He was kind of inarticulate last night.
I am disappointed because although he said things it still seemed vague.
I don't think he knows what he wants he has always said it's hard to tell how he feels about things not just relationships in general but the way he feels about anything and he was saying he thinks relationships feel like a lot of maintenance and it wears him down sometime and he feels pressured to be on the path of marriage and he's not always sure if that's what he wants. I told him the idea of it scares me too and makes me feel like running way but once my trust has been healed I will probably want that one day. But I'm not expecting some kind of timeline and I don't want him to do that out of obligation.
He started making out with me last night and having sex and then he couldn't finish it's been like this off and on for a month or two and I asked him last night is it me and he said no I just don't always have a high libido and I said OK that's fine I don't have a high sex drive either why attempt having sex if you aren't into it we don't have to have sex all the time. He says no sometimes I start in then I feel guilty so I can't finish.
So I suggested what if we take a sex break to give it time to feel comfortable again and want it he says yeah that might help because sometimes he feels like he is taking advantage of me and he feels better if I iniciate and then this morning he changes his mind about the sex break. Mind you he said he wasn't sure how he felt about me after our argument because he feels like we have had too many blow outs (we have only had 2 major fights), but I feel like it's a bad idea to have sex with someone you don't know how you feel about. I didn't tell him that but that is what I was thinking.
Overall it just felt like he wanted to break up but wasn't sure how to do it or if he wanted to. Then this morning it was let's go to the movies tonight. We hardly ever go on dates so it surprised me then he just texted me saying "Hey, just wanted to say it was great being with you last night--I don't want you to feel unwanted or left out in the cold!" I'm not sure what to think. So I'm just gonna let things play out and be careful with my feelings until It plays out
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No but I'm only the second person he has had sec with. His son's mother is someone he met immediately when he left the religion and that relationship ended horribly and is still very strained so he still struggles with it
Posted by ladylibra21EwwwwPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by ladylibra21You said he has a kid. This isn't the first time he's fucked, obviously.Posted by LadyNeptuneYou have to understand he left a religion a couple of years ago that shames sex to an extreme level he still struggles with this. He feels like he is taking advantage of me sometimes when he initiates it. He has said that even though he enjoys sex he will always in part see it in a complicated wayPosted by ladylibra21I don't get it...what does he have to feel guilty about?? Why is having sex with you, his girlfriend, make him feel guilty. What is he hiding...Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by ladylibra21Why do you sound so disappointed tho
So we are still together but I don't think he really knows what he wants to be honest. He was kind of inarticulate last night.
I am disappointed because although he said things it still seemed vague.
I don't think he knows what he wants he has always said it's hard to tell how he feels about things not just relationships in general but the way he feels about anything and he was saying he thinks relationships feel like a lot of maintenance and it wears him down sometime and he feels pressured to be on the path of marriage and he's not always sure if that's what he wants. I told him the idea of it scares me too and makes me feel like running way but once my trust has been healed I will probably want that one day. But I'm not expecting some kind of timeline and I don't want him to do that out of obligation.
He started making out with me last night and having sex and then he couldn't finish it's been like this off and on for a month or two and I asked him last night is it me and he said no I just don't always have a high libido and I said OK that's fine I don't have a high sex drive either why attempt having sex if you aren't into it we don't have to have sex all the time. He says no sometimes I start in then I feel guilty so I can't finish.
So I suggested what if we take a sex break to give it time to feel comfortable again and want it he says yeah that might help because sometimes he feels like he is taking advantage of me and he feels better if I iniciate and then this morning he changes his mind about the sex break. Mind you he said he wasn't sure how he felt about me after our argument because he feels like we have had too many blow outs (we have only had 2 major fights), but I feel like it's a bad idea to have sex with someone you don't know how you feel about. I didn't tell him that but that is what I was thinking.
Overall it just felt like he wanted to break up but wasn't sure how to do it or if he wanted to. Then this morning it was let's go to the movies tonight. We hardly ever go on dates so it surprised me then he just texted me saying "Hey, just wanted to say it was great being with you last night--I don't want you to feel unwanted or left out in the cold!" I'm not sure what to think. So I'm just gonna let things play out and be careful with my feelings until It plays out
No but I'm only the second person he has had sec with. His son's mother is someone he met immediately when he left the religion and that relationship ended horribly and is still very strained so he still struggles with it
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Reminds me of that episode of Sex in the City where Miranda is dating that catholic dude who has to shower right after sex to wash off the 'sin'.
Posted by ladylibra21Maybe I missed something (too many pages to read) but why are you making this just about him, what he thinks, what he wants, what he might have done wrong? Where are you in the story? What do you feel? What do you want? What have you done wrong? When couples fight they are both to blame even if not in equal parts.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by ladylibra21Why do you sound so disappointed tho
So we are still together but I don't think he really knows what he wants to be honest. He was kind of inarticulate last night.
I am disappointed because although he said things it still seemed vague.
I don't think he knows what he wants he has always said it's hard to tell how he feels about things not just relationships in general but the way he feels about anything and he was saying he thinks relationships feel like a lot of maintenance and it wears him down sometime and he feels pressured to be on the path of marriage and he's not always sure if that's what he wants. I told him the idea of it scares me too and makes me feel like running way but once my trust has been healed I will probably want that one day. But I'm not expecting some kind of timeline and I don't want him to do that out of obligation.
He started making out with me last night and having sex and then he couldn't finish it's been like this off and on for a month or two and I asked him last night is it me and he said no I just don't always have a high libido and I said OK that's fine I don't have a high sex drive either why attempt having sex if you aren't into it we don't have to have sex all the time. He says no sometimes I start in then I feel guilty so I can't finish.
So I suggested what if we take a sex break to give it time to feel comfortable again and want it he says yeah that might help because sometimes he feels like he is taking advantage of me and he feels better if I iniciate and then this morning he changes his mind about the sex break. Mind you he said he wasn't sure how he felt about me after our argument because he feels like we have had too many blow outs (we have only had 2 major fights), but I feel like it's a bad idea to have sex with someone you don't know how you feel about. I didn't tell him that but that is what I was thinking.
Overall it just felt like he wanted to break up but wasn't sure how to do it or if he wanted to. Then this morning it was let's go to the movies tonight. We hardly ever go on dates so it surprised me then he just texted me saying "Hey, just wanted to say it was great being with you last night--I don't want you to feel unwanted or left out in the cold!" I'm not sure what to think. So I'm just gonna let things play out and be careful with my feelings until It plays outclick to expand
Posted by tiziani@tizianiPosted by Gob_Shite"Unlike you, I'm not petty, hence ignoring you until today."Posted by tizianiPosted by Gob_Shite"Criticising someone for being delusional isn't the same as criticising someone who misread a sentence and accepted their mistake."Posted by tiziani
Give it a rest man, im just laughing at your expense. Genuine my arse mate.
Give it a rest? I haven't said a word to you since that last thread, where we debated, until now. At least I was man enough to keep my distance and ignore you. Maybe you should be taking your own advice.
Criticising someone for being delusional isn't the same as criticising someone who misread a sentence and accepted their mistake. Self-awareness vs lack of self awareness. If you're as intelligent as you claim to be, you'd know the difference and wouldn't find it 'funny'. But we both know your post was just an excuse to take a cheap shot.
A Libra trying to cast doubt on how genuine I am... LMAO! Now, that's fucking funny... 😆
"Time is running out for you."
^No one talks like this in real life. That's all I meant by you don't sound genuine at all. You write like a politician.
Calling someone delusional when you're part of an astrology board is just the pot calling the kettle black.
I'm delusional myself. Works for me. And no I'm not going to go around making a "silent agreement" with you to "ignore your posts" just because you felt we fell out over some astro a while back. You're not my ex wife. If you don't like it you can lump it mate.
Oh, Tiz...
Unlike you, I'm not petty, hence ignoring you until today. Obviously, you had to compose a convoluted excuse, in the hopes it would shroud your pettiness. How very sad...
But, hey, let's heal ourselves with some music. Tiz, this is for you. 🙂
lmao
now I know you're pulling my leg.
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I meant to say to you before that i admire your ability to stay cool and mature when faced with irrationality. That air moon of yours is able to stay calm and not get hooked in.
My 7th house admires that
🙂
Posted by MyStarsShineI admire you admiration, not everyone appreciates a good air moon.Posted by tiziani@tizianiPosted by Gob_Shite"Unlike you, I'm not petty, hence ignoring you until today."Posted by tizianiPosted by Gob_Shite"Criticising someone for being delusional isn't the same as criticising someone who misread a sentence and accepted their mistake."Posted by tiziani
Give it a rest man, im just laughing at your expense. Genuine my arse mate.
Give it a rest? I haven't said a word to you since that last thread, where we debated, until now. At least I was man enough to keep my distance and ignore you. Maybe you should be taking your own advice.
Criticising someone for being delusional isn't the same as criticising someone who misread a sentence and accepted their mistake. Self-awareness vs lack of self awareness. If you're as intelligent as you claim to be, you'd know the difference and wouldn't find it 'funny'. But we both know your post was just an excuse to take a cheap shot.
A Libra trying to cast doubt on how genuine I am... LMAO! Now, that's fucking funny... 😆
"Time is running out for you."
^No one talks like this in real life. That's all I meant by you don't sound genuine at all. You write like a politician.
Calling someone delusional when you're part of an astrology board is just the pot calling the kettle black.
I'm delusional myself. Works for me. And no I'm not going to go around making a "silent agreement" with you to "ignore your posts" just because you felt we fell out over some astro a while back. You're not my ex wife. If you don't like it you can lump it mate.
Oh, Tiz...
Unlike you, I'm not petty, hence ignoring you until today. Obviously, you had to compose a convoluted excuse, in the hopes it would shroud your pettiness. How very sad...
But, hey, let's heal ourselves with some music. Tiz, this is for you. 🙂
lmao
now I know you're pulling my leg.
I meant to say to you before that i admire your ability to stay cool and mature when faced with irrationality. That air moon of yours is able to stay calm and not get hooked in.
My 7th house admires that
🙂click to expand
Posted by carrazedaI like the way the air moon doesn't seem to go *off on one* the way water and fire canPosted by MyStarsShineI admire you admiration, not everyone appreciates a good air moon.Posted by tiziani@tizianiPosted by Gob_Shite"Unlike you, I'm not petty, hence ignoring you until today."Posted by tizianiPosted by Gob_Shite"Criticising someone for being delusional isn't the same as criticising someone who misread a sentence and accepted their mistake."Posted by tiziani
Give it a rest man, im just laughing at your expense. Genuine my arse mate.
Give it a rest? I haven't said a word to you since that last thread, where we debated, until now. At least I was man enough to keep my distance and ignore you. Maybe you should be taking your own advice.
Criticising someone for being delusional isn't the same as criticising someone who misread a sentence and accepted their mistake. Self-awareness vs lack of self awareness. If you're as intelligent as you claim to be, you'd know the difference and wouldn't find it 'funny'. But we both know your post was just an excuse to take a cheap shot.
A Libra trying to cast doubt on how genuine I am... LMAO! Now, that's fucking funny... 😆
"Time is running out for you."
^No one talks like this in real life. That's all I meant by you don't sound genuine at all. You write like a politician.
Calling someone delusional when you're part of an astrology board is just the pot calling the kettle black.
I'm delusional myself. Works for me. And no I'm not going to go around making a "silent agreement" with you to "ignore your posts" just because you felt we fell out over some astro a while back. You're not my ex wife. If you don't like it you can lump it mate.
Oh, Tiz...
Unlike you, I'm not petty, hence ignoring you until today. Obviously, you had to compose a convoluted excuse, in the hopes it would shroud your pettiness. How very sad...
But, hey, let's heal ourselves with some music. Tiz, this is for you. 🙂
lmao
now I know you're pulling my leg.
I meant to say to you before that i admire your ability to stay cool and mature when faced with irrationality. That air moon of yours is able to stay calm and not get hooked in.
My 7th house admires that
🙂
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Posted by RooSagicornI had the same thought and I asked him that. I told him he needs to figure out if he wants to be a loner alone or A loner in a relationship because he agrees that I don't smother him I almost give him too much space and with the space I am giving him if the relationship is still too much there might be an issue
Ah sounds tough for both of you. Maybe initiate more? Does he really want to be in a relationship at all? Not just with you, anyone.
Posted by ItsMeRomanMy NSA dad has them all in witness protection/Posted by Wineaux15Yo @nikkistar do you have a brother or maybe a cousin...👹Posted by nikkistar
You are going to be the reason why your relationship fails simply because you are so neurotic. You do come off controlling. You test the guy constantly and can't stop it. Then you get pissed at him because he wants to step outside with you at 3 am, to make sure you stay safe. Then, he asks to discuss things with you on a certain day, but you want to talk about it now, so you call him.
A relationship is a partnership, and all I see is you demanding him to submit to your wants, with no consideration to his.
Do they have you in a man version?
Asking for a friend
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I dunno man, for me I can't be intimate if I'm not in love. I might be attracted but going threw the motions when I know my hearts not invested, it's not going any where or when I would have doubts about the relationship. I'm not a man but I am an aqua and I've heard from other aquas they are similar in that regards.
If the connection isn't there emotionally And mentally it can cause issues.
He told you he wasn't sure about you guys right? If he mentioned the fighting, it's more often than you realize I am thinking, or what is being said during those fights is cutting deep.
If the connection isn't there emotionally And mentally it can cause issues.
He told you he wasn't sure about you guys right? If he mentioned the fighting, it's more often than you realize I am thinking, or what is being said during those fights is cutting deep.
Posted by justagirlThat's the thing though we never say terrible things about each other. Maybe he is still in love with his crazy ex
I dunno man, for me I can't be intimate if I'm not in love. I might be attracted but going threw the motions when I now my hearts not invested, it's not going any where or when I would have doubts about the relationship. I'm not a man but I am an aqua and I've heard from other aquas they are similar in that regards.
If the connection isn't there emotionally And mentally it can cause issues.
He told you he wasn't sure about you guys right? If he mentioned the fighting, it's more often than you realize I am thinking, or what is being said during those fights is cutting deep.
Posted by ladylibra21Yes, but sometimes something said in an innocent manner can cut another. I just am pointing out if he specifically stated the increase in arguments in recent times, it's an issue. From my experience most men don't bring that stuff up. But who knows I'm not a dude lolPosted by justagirlThat's the thing though we never say terrible things about each other. Maybe he is still in love with his crazy ex
I dunno man, for me I can't be intimate if I'm not in love. I might be attracted but going threw the motions when I now my hearts not invested, it's not going any where or when I would have doubts about the relationship. I'm not a man but I am an aqua and I've heard from other aquas they are similar in that regards.
If the connection isn't there emotionally And mentally it can cause issues.
He told you he wasn't sure about you guys right? If he mentioned the fighting, it's more often than you realize I am thinking, or what is being said during those fights is cutting deep.
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Sort of like Anti-climax .
Posted by ladylibra21Posted by Gob_ShiteBecause I wanted to do something on my own that had nothing to do with my boyfriend and my boyfriend didn't want me to do it and put his foot down and said too bad I'm going to do it any way I am a control freak?Posted by sakuraflowersPosted by Gob_ShiteWhat makes you say that?
Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you come across as a control freak.
All you need to do is read between the lines...
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/stupid-fight-or-significant--9371062/
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In a way, it is. You two are a couple. You guys were sleeping ( together) in the same bed, out of respect for both people, you should come into a conclusion together as a team. Not, going alone solo leaving him behind. He cares about you hence why he said it was silly of you to go check on your neighbour on your own. What i can see here is, you were more worried about strangers feelings more than his own feelings. He is a man. He also wants to be your hero in that situation. If you truly had respect for your boyfriend you would have allowed him to go with you. nothing would have changed.it would have worked out perfectly. however , if the roles were reversed, you were a man and he's a woman, what you did would have been ok.
Posted by bittercupcakePosted by Gob_ShiteI woke up at 2:45 with what I can only describe as psychic emotional pain because I felt heartbroken coming out of my sleep.Posted by sakuraflowersPosted by Gob_ShiteWhat makes you say that?
Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you come across as a control freak.
All you need to do is read between the lines...
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/stupid-fight-or-significant--9371062/
Well this is a new one... what in thee hell is psychic emotional pain? lol
Well OP sounds like you were in the wrong. You were trying to be nosy in a situation that had nothing to do with you and was dumb enough not to accept your man's help in order to protect you. Sounds like he cares... sounds like you were being naive.
Fast forward a week. Your man was willing to overlook things and then you were trying to stir things up again after your foolish attempt of being nosy...excuse me hero.
Just proved another case as to why I wouldn't wish to be with a Libra.
Keep this up and he'll surely tire of your ways.
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Very much agree with this. !
Posted by saweetz1988and this is coming from a very stubborn bull lol. But I know when I need to step back to allow a man to lead. Esp to a complete stranger.. that's what men are for lolPosted by bittercupcakePosted by Gob_ShiteI woke up at 2:45 with what I can only describe as psychic emotional pain because I felt heartbroken coming out of my sleep.Posted by sakuraflowersPosted by Gob_ShiteWhat makes you say that?
Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you come across as a control freak.
All you need to do is read between the lines...
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/stupid-fight-or-significant--9371062/
Well this is a new one... what in thee hell is psychic emotional pain? lol
Well OP sounds like you were in the wrong. You were trying to be nosy in a situation that had nothing to do with you and was dumb enough not to accept your man's help in order to protect you. Sounds like he cares... sounds like you were being naive.
Fast forward a week. Your man was willing to overlook things and then you were trying to stir things up again after your foolish attempt of being nosy...excuse me hero.
Just proved another case as to why I wouldn't wish to be with a Libra.
Keep this up and he'll surely tire of your ways.
Very much agree with this. !
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hmm i just saw your other topic Gob linked....your boyfriend is Aqua sun/Libra moon.
he just sounds like he doesn't like conflict.
and in your other topic i'm reading, he doesn't want to allow you to go bother a woman who was crying in the hallway....
crying in the hallway....
are you in an apartment building? so the woman is there near your door?
or a hotel room?
i know that was the other topic but the thought came to me...
i think you two seem good together with that combo ...libra moon is always good for libra sun.
generally speaking. But i've seen on this site the libra moon like Nikki go for cancer sun.
and in celebrities, i've seen tons of cancer moons with libra suns. lol
anyway for your topic. i think personally you just need to chill...channel your sun sign libra and undertand his moon sign.
that you both like peace. lol
he just sounds like he doesn't like conflict.
and in your other topic i'm reading, he doesn't want to allow you to go bother a woman who was crying in the hallway....
crying in the hallway....
are you in an apartment building? so the woman is there near your door?
or a hotel room?
i know that was the other topic but the thought came to me...
i think you two seem good together with that combo ...libra moon is always good for libra sun.
generally speaking. But i've seen on this site the libra moon like Nikki go for cancer sun.
and in celebrities, i've seen tons of cancer moons with libra suns. lol
anyway for your topic. i think personally you just need to chill...channel your sun sign libra and undertand his moon sign.
that you both like peace. lol
Posted by aquarius_manThis...
@ladylibra21 - you and him aren't compatible; let the man go; find a man better suited to your taste. just let the man be and go away
He didn’t break up with you. So that means he still likes you and wants to be with you. No one said a relationship was easy. It takes work. Stay positive 🙂
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Dear God. Shit is really not this complicated woman. You're an icy bitch. That's what he's trying to tell you. Fak, air signs can't even stand the stupidity of each other.
Posted by lisabethur8This made me giggle. Is that mean?Posted by FknNerd😆
Dear God. Shit is really not this complicated woman. You're an icy bitch. That's what he's trying to tell you. Fak, air signs can't even stand the stupidity of each other.click to expand
Posted by saweetz1988lolPosted by lisabethur8This made me giggle. Is that mean?Posted by FknNerd😆
Dear God. Shit is really not this complicated woman. You're an icy bitch. That's what he's trying to tell you. Fak, air signs can't even stand the stupidity of each other.click to expand
my husband and my family members close to me always remind me, hey just because people dont get your crass/crude humour doesn't mean that others are gonna be offended...
so keep it on the down low. Basically PRETEND.
for the sake of yourself not getting hurt cause they gonna hurt you for just enjoying yourself.
i hate that. but i understand what they mean.
so we have to LOL among ourselves...it's hard finding a lover/partner in life who understands you deeply.
and doesn't try to control you and how you act. lol
*sigh* it feels GOOD!!!
so i think, that OP needs to re-evaluate themselves and just CHILL...cause your man is never gonna change....
and if you keep complaining you both are going to be this way.
plus, Libra placements like some disharmony...
*sigh* it feels GOOD!!!
so i think, that OP needs to re-evaluate themselves and just CHILL...cause your man is never gonna change....
and if you keep complaining you both are going to be this way.
plus, Libra placements like some disharmony...
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