I feel like I have to ask...

Guys would you date a fat chick and if no, could you state why?

Guys would you date a fat chick and if no, could you state why?

When unsure one thing is certain; there's a guy for every chick but not a chick for every guy 😄

Yes but Rebel Wilson is my fat standard

bcz she's fat?

Posted by Sagicorn

Posted by enfant_terrible

When unsure one thing is certain; there's a guy for every chick but not a chick for every guy 😄

unless there is a war and there's shortage of guys lol or unless women are willing to share lol

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No I meant ultimately guys will - worst case scenario - fuck anything. Chicks will worst case scenario get a cat.

Define ‘fat’. Cause thick is in atm.

A fat ass is the most desirable part of a woman. Thanks for that Kim.

Fat from being unhealthy - no. but I can say the same for skinny from being unhealthy.

Posted by enfant_terrible

When unsure one thing is certain; there's a guy for every chick but not a chick for every guy 😄

what? lol women out number men on this planet. i think its 1 man for every 7 women. so that needs to be flipped i think.

Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...

Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said

"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"

I highly doubt it ... -_-

Yes if she has lost weight in her "mind" first.

Meaning, She is health conscious and working on her self.

Would anyone want to date me if I was living on the street and didn't care?

The mind is so important

Posted by Cancan26

Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...

Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said

"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"

I highly doubt it ... -_-

yeah

the majority are lying for the most part when they say this what they mean is

i wouldn't date a skinny girl who had an eating disorder

they would, however, date a skinny girl with a fast metabolism and a poor diet

Posted by Weeds

Yes but Rebel Wilson is my fat standard

Yeah, she's jolly sunshine. I like how she moves.

Posted by LadyNeptune

A fat ass is the most desirable part of a woman. Thanks for that Kim.

There's a difference between an ass and a boonkey.

A little black, southern, geechie, gulla, blackeyed peas dippin cornbread in the bean liqueur for ya!

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Cancan26

Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...

Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said

"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"

I highly doubt it ... -_-

yeah

the majority are lying for the most part when they say this what they mean is

i wouldn't date a skinny girl who had an eating disorder

not a skinny girl with a fast metabolism and a poor diet

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Aaaahh that makes more sense ...

So that healthy argument would go out the window if the girl was skinny and ate cheeseburgers and cookies all time ....

Lol I dont know why they just dont say no ...i guess cause they are trying to be gentle

Can you imagine...a man looking of your lab results talking about ...

Oh shit dawg look at my baby's cholesterol levels ...imma fuck the shit outta her tonight 😈

-_- never happened lmao

Posted by aquasnoz

Fat from being unhealthy - no. but I can say the same for skinny from being unhealthy.

Yeah, my Virgo husband and I have a Virgo male friend that would date women who threw up their food. He didn't date them because of it though. My husband thought they were gross.

So one day, our friend invited us over for a good old fashioned crab crack. I'm a tropical southern girl so, I was gett'n it. She was looking at me with disdain. I hadn't lost the baby fat. Just stopped breastfeeding our son.

So, she tries to subtly snobbly eat the crab looking at me with continued disdain. She fucked up when she required participation from our Virgo friend by daintily asking him to to crack a crab. He saw right through her (as Virgo men do). He told her to "cut the bullshit. You eat crab just like her. Crack your own fucking crab."

When I did loose weight (10 lbs.), she was impressed and asked me if I THROW UP TOO! OMG! That's sickness, yes.

Posted by Cancan26

Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...

Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said

"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"

I highly doubt it ... -_-

except guys that think beyond the flesh...





yea I know.. lol



but we exist.

The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness

and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their

looks a long time ago, high school.

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...

Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said

"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"

I highly doubt it ... -_-

except guys that think beyond the flesh...





yea I know.. lol



but we exist.

The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness

and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their

looks a long time ago, high school.

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Lol so iiiiinnnttteresting

Im curious ...

For your health argument ....

When do you go over health information

Like what are you checking for?

Are you making blind assumptions based on weight

Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....

Ooooorrr .....—

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...

Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said

"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"

I highly doubt it ... -_-

except guys that think beyond the flesh...





yea I know.. lol



but we exist.

The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness

and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their

looks a long time ago, high school.

Lol so quick to be offended

Im curious ...

For your health argument ....

When do you go over health information

Like what are you checking for?

Are you making blind assumptions based on weight

Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....

Ooooorrr .....—

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I don't even know if I want to respond lol...

sigh*

And I know this topic is sensitive for most women.....

It's the same for the issue of money for most men...

(men not having money, they are ignored etc etc)

this topic is about men dating those who are "over weight" though....

so being over weight (for both men or women) *can* be a sign of someone

not caring about their health yes?.. Or not aware of their health.

Yes other things can factor in on the reasons but in general.

And if they do not care about their health then certain things come to mind.

"Will this affect the quality of our relationship?"

"Will this affect the quality of our children?" etc etc

I'm just here to say that "yes", I will date someone in this state but only

if they "care" and their mindset is already where they want to be.

everything else will fall into place...its about the mind first.

...and for those who are down because of what

they see in the mirror. don't be dowwwn...

...the body is highly highly intelligent.

show it love and have fun with it.

exploring and learning more about

the affects and the benefits of certain foods

can be fun. you are loved, my queens okay.

Posted by TheRabbit

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...

Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said

"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"

I highly doubt it ... -_-

except guys that think beyond the flesh...





yea I know.. lol



but we exist.

The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness

and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their

looks a long time ago, high school.

Lol so iiiiinnnttteresting

Im curious ...

For your health argument ....

When do you go over health information

Like what are you checking for?

Are you making blind assumptions based on weight

Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....

Ooooorrr .....—

Girl, get your A1C levels under control, k?

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Damn no " health" dates for me 😆

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...

Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said

"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"

I highly doubt it ... -_-

except guys that think beyond the flesh...





yea I know.. lol



but we exist.

The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness

and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their

looks a long time ago, high school.

Lol so quick to be offended

Im curious ...

For your health argument ....

When do you go over health information

Like what are you checking for?

Are you making blind assumptions based on weight

Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....

Ooooorrr .....—

I don't even know if I want to respond lol...

sigh*

And I know this topic is sensitive for most women.....

It's the same for the issue of money for most men...

(men not having money, they are ignored etc etc)

this topic is about men dating those who are "over weight" though....

so being over weight (for both men or women) *can* be a sign of someone

not caring about their health yes?.. Or not aware of their health.

Yes other things can factor in on the reasons but in general.

And if they do not care about their health then certain things come to mind.

"Will this affect the quality of our relationship?"

"Will this affect the quality of our children?" etc etc

I'm just here to say that "yes", I will date someone in this state but only

if they "care" and their mindset is already where they want to be.

everything else will fall into place...its about the mind first.

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I'm not trying to be a pain in the ass I swear.

I just know that we all have body type prefences (me included) and while (like I'm sure most of guys in this thread) I don't need my date to be super skinny, or in shape ..its even ok to have a dad bod ...but there is a point where attraction becomes an issue of the guy is too big...but girls don't really hide behind the "health factor" I guess ...which again ...i think most of the guys where trying to be gentle ...i dunno ...but um ...i wasn't trying to be a jerk

Posted by Arkansassy

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by TheRabbit

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...

Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said

"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"

I highly doubt it ... -_-

except guys that think beyond the flesh...





yea I know.. lol



but we exist.

The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness

and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their

looks a long time ago, high school.

Lol so iiiiinnnttteresting

Im curious ...

For your health argument ....

When do you go over health information

Like what are you checking for?

Are you making blind assumptions based on weight

Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....

Ooooorrr .....—

Girl, get your A1C levels under control, k?

Damn no " health" dates for me 😆

You're invited to my home for a first date. I'm making chicken fried steak, creamed spinach, and cabbage for dinner.. And we'll watch the first season of DBZ. You down?

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Your such a dream boat..you just made me actually smile 😄 yes always and forever😄

Yes. Anyways she'll get skinny later due to stress.

my husband always tells me 'hon if you get fat i'll never stop loving you,'

now that's the kind of guy thats really greaet ;p

Posted by solidsnake

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...

Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said

"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"

I highly doubt it ... -_-

except guys that think beyond the flesh...





yea I know.. lol



but we exist.

The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness

and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their

looks a long time ago, high school.

Lol so quick to be offended

Im curious ...

For your health argument ....

When do you go over health information

Like what are you checking for?

Are you making blind assumptions based on weight

Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....

Ooooorrr .....—

I don't even know if I want to respond lol...

sigh*

And I know this topic is sensitive for most women.....

It's the same for the issue of money for most men...

(men not having money, they are ignored etc etc)

this topic is about men dating those who are "over weight" though....

so being over weight (for both men or women) *can* be a sign of someone

not caring about their health yes?.. Or not aware of their health.

Yes other things can factor in on the reasons but in general.

And if they do not care about their health then certain things come to mind.

"Will this affect the quality of our relationship?"

"Will this affect the quality of our children?" etc etc

I'm just here to say that "yes", I will date someone in this state but only

if they "care" and their mindset is already where they want to be.

everything else will fall into place...its about the mind first.

I'm not trying to be a pain in the ass I swear.

I just know that we all have body type prefences (me included) and while (like I'm sure most of guys in this thread) I don't need my date to be super skinny, or in shape ..its even ok to have a dad bod ...but there is a point where attraction becomes an issue of the guy is too big...but girls don't really hide behind the "health factor" I guess ...which again ...i think most of the guys where trying to be gentle ...i dunno ...but um ...i wasn't trying to be a jerk

trying to justify eating trash?

You can’t possibly think Virgos don’t care about health & wellness of our spouses.

I won’t penetrate a woman who consumes pork as part of her diet. She’s going to have to give that up. I’m very superstitious

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My point is most people don't find out that sort of thing till their already living together ...not when they met a woman somewhere for the first time trying to score a date ...you can't look at a girl on the street and be like nah shorty you look like you eat pork. -_-

So again that health argument ...is well ...weird ...you can't tell someone health status by their weight alone ...and does the health argument apply to all women or just when you guys find "fat" we both know it's about attraction which is why some men would or some men wouldnt

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...

Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said

"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"

I highly doubt it ... -_-

except guys that think beyond the flesh...





yea I know.. lol



but we exist.

The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness

and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their

looks a long time ago, high school.

Lol so quick to be offended

Im curious ...

For your health argument ....

When do you go over health information

Like what are you checking for?

Are you making blind assumptions based on weight

Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....

Ooooorrr .....—

I don't even know if I want to respond lol...

sigh*

And I know this topic is sensitive for most women.....

It's the same for the issue of money for most men...

(men not having money, they are ignored etc etc)

this topic is about men dating those who are "over weight" though....

so being over weight (for both men or women) *can* be a sign of someone

not caring about their health yes?.. Or not aware of their health.

Yes other things can factor in on the reasons but in general.

And if they do not care about their health then certain things come to mind.

"Will this affect the quality of our relationship?"

"Will this affect the quality of our children?" etc etc

I'm just here to say that "yes", I will date someone in this state but only

if they "care" and their mindset is already where they want to be.

everything else will fall into place...its about the mind first.

I'm not trying to be a pain in the ass I swear.

I just know that we all have body type prefences (me included) and while (like I'm sure most of guys in this thread) I don't need my date to be super skinny, or in shape ..its even ok to have a dad bod ...but there is a point where attraction becomes an issue of the guy is too big...but girls don't really hide behind the "health factor" I guess ...which again ...i think most of the guys where trying to be gentle ...i dunno ...but um ...i wasn't trying to be a jerk

Might be time to ask DXP women the reasons behind dating taller guys just to get back at you.

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Is it for health reason? Right?

😆

No of course not ...its cause they have a preference...but people don't wanna seem shallow so i bet they make up all kinds of dumb reasons...why they need/want a tall guy

When short men are just as capable of being loving, romantic, etc

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...

Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said

"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"

I highly doubt it ... -_-

except guys that think beyond the flesh...





yea I know.. lol



but we exist.

The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness

and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their

looks a long time ago, high school.

Lol so quick to be offended

Im curious ...

For your health argument ....

When do you go over health information

Like what are you checking for?

Are you making blind assumptions based on weight

Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....

Ooooorrr .....—

I don't even know if I want to respond lol...

sigh*

And I know this topic is sensitive for most women.....

It's the same for the issue of money for most men...

(men not having money, they are ignored etc etc)

this topic is about men dating those who are "over weight" though....

so being over weight (for both men or women) *can* be a sign of someone

not caring about their health yes?.. Or not aware of their health.

Yes other things can factor in on the reasons but in general.

And if they do not care about their health then certain things come to mind.

"Will this affect the quality of our relationship?"

"Will this affect the quality of our children?" etc etc

I'm just here to say that "yes", I will date someone in this state but only

if they "care" and their mindset is already where they want to be.

everything else will fall into place...its about the mind first.

I'm not trying to be a pain in the ass I swear.

I just know that we all have body type prefences (me included) and while (like I'm sure most of guys in this thread) I don't need my date to be super skinny, or in shape ..its even ok to have a dad bod ...but there is a point where attraction becomes an issue of the guy is too big...but girls don't really hide behind the "health factor" I guess ...which again ...i think most of the guys where trying to be gentle ...i dunno ...but um ...i wasn't trying to be a jerk

Might be time to ask DXP women the reasons behind dating taller guys just to get back at you.

Is it for health reason? Right?

😆

No of course not ...its cause they have a preference...but people don't wanna seem shallow so i bet they make up all kinds of dumb reasons...why they need/want a tall guy

When short men are just as capable of being loving, romantic, etc

"He has to be tall because...... because....... because it's MANLY all right? Now just leave me the f alone."



I understand what you're saying about us being polite.

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Yea ...i was annoyed by it last night but now that i had a chance to think about it ...the gentleness is kind I think..and I appreciate it....lmao even though I was being a butt

Posted by iridium

attractiveness is annoyingly objective

I thought what was considered attractive was largely influenced by social factors.

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by LadyNeptune

A fat ass is the most desirable part of a woman. Thanks for that Kim.

Wasn’t it j.lo?

Kim just pushed the need for ass inplants

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Hahahha

Like black women been walking around for centuries with pancake butts.

Posted by iridium

Posted by Bk201

Posted by iridium

attractiveness is annoyingly objective

I thought what was considered attractive was largely influenced by social factors.

The subjective variability in all humans regarding looks is very minute. To suggest otherwise is defying basic biology. Most males find the same physical traits in females attractive. Large breasts, thin narrow waist, wide hips, round big ass (to different limits), etc. After all, looks are based on how the human brain perceives visual stimulus and whether it is rendered as indicative of reproductive health and sexual dimorphism or not.

Now stuff like clit shape, eye color, hair color, skin color is heavily influenced by environmental factors hence it being subjective. The subjectivity is blown out of proportion though. The whole "preference" emphasis is just a way to cope with the fact that some people don't really have someone out there for them. Those claiming to like conventionally unattractive women with a pubescent boy's build often have poor dating success so they conform their dating criteria according to what makes women feel better about themselves to exploit their emotional side and increase their dating success. In reality an absolute tiny slither of males genuinely find that attractive.

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I need to do more research on this. But, and correct me if I'm wrong, but don't current celebrities/people in power influence perception of attractiveness strongly? I thought that was the reason why body shape/size preference varied for certain cultures. Albeit, I'm an american so perhaps we're(as in the history of our beauty standards) an anomaly.

Posted by solidsnake

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by solidsnake

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...

Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said

"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"

I highly doubt it ... -_-

except guys that think beyond the flesh...





yea I know.. lol



but we exist.

The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness

and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their

looks a long time ago, high school.

Lol so quick to be offended

Im curious ...

For your health argument ....

When do you go over health information

Like what are you checking for?

Are you making blind assumptions based on weight

Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....

Ooooorrr .....—

I don't even know if I want to respond lol...

sigh*

And I know this topic is sensitive for most women.....

It's the same for the issue of money for most men...

(men not having money, they are ignored etc etc)

this topic is about men dating those who are "over weight" though....

so being over weight (for both men or women) *can* be a sign of someone

not caring about their health yes?.. Or not aware of their health.

Yes other things can factor in on the reasons but in general.

And if they do not care about their health then certain things come to mind.

"Will this affect the quality of our relationship?"

"Will this affect the quality of our children?" etc etc

I'm just here to say that "yes", I will date someone in this state but only

if they "care" and their mindset is already where they want to be.

everything else will fall into place...its about the mind first.

I'm not trying to be a pain in the ass I swear.

I just know that we all have body type prefences (me included) and while (like I'm sure most of guys in this thread) I don't need my date to be super skinny, or in shape ..its even ok to have a dad bod ...but there is a point where attraction becomes an issue of the guy is too big...but girls don't really hide behind the "health factor" I guess ...which again ...i think most of the guys where trying to be gentle ...i dunno ...but um ...i wasn't trying to be a jerk

trying to justify eating trash?

You can’t possibly think Virgos don’t care about health & wellness of our spouses.

I won’t penetrate a woman who consumes pork as part of her diet. She’s going to have to give that up. I’m very superstitious

My point is most people don't find out that sort of thing till their already living together ...not when they met a woman somewhere for the first time trying to score a date ...you can't look at a girl on the street and be like nah shorty you look like you eat pork. -_-

So again that health argument ...is well ...weird ...you can't tell someone health status by their weight alone ...and does the health argument apply to all women or just when you guys find "fat" we both know it's about attraction which is why some men would or some men wouldnt

You must not understand how nit picky some people can be. For some people attraction goes further than the way u look & talk. It’s about values.

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that is so virgo.... *sigh*

Posted by AerialView

Yes. Anyways she'll get skinny later due to stress.

Lol. Being with you is that stressful? 😜

The only men who have any right to say they wont date a overweight woman is one that doesn't look like homer simpson on a drunken bender.

Seriously I never understood why dudes that dont take care of themselves have any right to have expectations from women physically.

This is my 60ish something roommate's mentality too. Even though he's short, insanely fat and has graying hair, the dude still feels he is entitled to a beautiful woman. But if she doesnt have blonde hair he is not interested. That is just warped and why he is alone. Oh and also the fact he has some mental issues too.

For me, since I do take care of myself, I think there is a reasonable expectation to expect a girl I am dating to do the same. But dont get me wrong, I am not some weight nazi. If a gal is 20 pounds overweight I could care less.

Posted by LaMadrina

Posted by LadyNeptune

Define ‘fat’. Cause thick is in atm.

It's always been in. In other cultures and sub cultures. Fat is not thick. Thick is curvy and stacked in the right places while still having a solid shape. Fat is disproportionate amounts of adipose, hanging and bulging... bursting out of the frame, if you will.

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Define ‘right places’.

Posted by solidsnake

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by solidsnake

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...

Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said

"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"

I highly doubt it ... -_-

except guys that think beyond the flesh...





yea I know.. lol



but we exist.

The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness

and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their

looks a long time ago, high school.

Lol so quick to be offended

Im curious ...

For your health argument ....

When do you go over health information

Like what are you checking for?

Are you making blind assumptions based on weight

Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....

Ooooorrr .....—

I don't even know if I want to respond lol...

sigh*

And I know this topic is sensitive for most women.....

It's the same for the issue of money for most men...

(men not having money, they are ignored etc etc)

this topic is about men dating those who are "over weight" though....

so being over weight (for both men or women) *can* be a sign of someone

not caring about their health yes?.. Or not aware of their health.

Yes other things can factor in on the reasons but in general.

And if they do not care about their health then certain things come to mind.

"Will this affect the quality of our relationship?"

"Will this affect the quality of our children?" etc etc

I'm just here to say that "yes", I will date someone in this state but only

if they "care" and their mindset is already where they want to be.

everything else will fall into place...its about the mind first.

I'm not trying to be a pain in the ass I swear.

I just know that we all have body type prefences (me included) and while (like I'm sure most of guys in this thread) I don't need my date to be super skinny, or in shape ..its even ok to have a dad bod ...but there is a point where attraction becomes an issue of the guy is too big...but girls don't really hide behind the "health factor" I guess ...which again ...i think most of the guys where trying to be gentle ...i dunno ...but um ...i wasn't trying to be a jerk

trying to justify eating trash?

You can’t possibly think Virgos don’t care about health & wellness of our spouses.

I won’t penetrate a woman who consumes pork as part of her diet. She’s going to have to give that up. I’m very superstitious

My point is most people don't find out that sort of thing till their already living together ...not when they met a woman somewhere for the first time trying to score a date ...you can't look at a girl on the street and be like nah shorty you look like you eat pork. -_-

So again that health argument ...is well ...weird ...you can't tell someone health status by their weight alone ...and does the health argument apply to all women or just when you guys find "fat" we both know it's about attraction which is why some men would or some men wouldnt

You must not understand how nit picky some people can be. For some people attraction goes further than the way u look & talk. It’s about values.

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No I absoulety agree that men can pick their partners based on their values ...the only thing im disputing ...is that people cant tell a person's health BEFORE deciding to get to know them ...once you do ...you can absolutely decide if you wish to continue dating them based on their life style choices

But to pick a person out on the street and decide you want to ask for a date ... based on "health"

no one can do this (and it's weird that the dudes in this thread are saying they can)

no one can tell anyone's health status based off their looks ...

No one can look at someone on the street and tell if they eat pork

No one can look at that cute someone in the gym and decide if they are healthy....

World would be a much better place if they could but you can't? Or at least i cant

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Posted by Cancan26

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...

Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said

"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"

I highly doubt it ... -_-

except guys that think beyond the flesh...





yea I know.. lol



but we exist.

The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness

and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their

looks a long time ago, high school.

Lol so quick to be offended

Im curious ...

For your health argument ....

When do you go over health information

Like what are you checking for?

Are you making blind assumptions based on weight

Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....

Ooooorrr .....—

I don't even know if I want to respond lol...

sigh*

And I know this topic is sensitive for most women.....

It's the same for the issue of money for most men...

(men not having money, they are ignored etc etc)

this topic is about men dating those who are "over weight" though....

so being over weight (for both men or women) *can* be a sign of someone

not caring about their health yes?.. Or not aware of their health.

Yes other things can factor in on the reasons but in general.

And if they do not care about their health then certain things come to mind.

"Will this affect the quality of our relationship?"

"Will this affect the quality of our children?" etc etc

I'm just here to say that "yes", I will date someone in this state but only

if they "care" and their mindset is already where they want to be.

everything else will fall into place...its about the mind first.

I'm not trying to be a pain in the ass I swear.

I just know that we all have body type prefences (me included) and while (like I'm sure most of guys in this thread) I don't need my date to be super skinny, or in shape ..its even ok to have a dad bod ...but there is a point where attraction becomes an issue of the guy is too big...but girls don't really hide behind the "health factor" I guess ...which again ...i think most of the guys where trying to be gentle ...i dunno ...but um ...i wasn't trying to be a jerk

trying to justify eating trash?

You can’t possibly think Virgos don’t care about health & wellness of our spouses.

I won’t penetrate a woman who consumes pork as part of her diet. She’s going to have to give that up. I’m very superstitious

My point is most people don't find out that sort of thing till their already living together ...not when they met a woman somewhere for the first time trying to score a date ...you can't look at a girl on the street and be like nah shorty you look like you eat pork. -_-

So again that health argument ...is well ...weird ...you can't tell someone health status by their weight alone ...and does the health argument apply to all women or just when you guys find "fat" we both know it's about attraction which is why some men would or some men wouldnt

You must not understand how nit picky some people can be. For some people attraction goes further than the way u look & talk. It’s about values.

No I absoulety agree that men can pick their partners based on their values ...the only thing im disputing ...is that people cant tell a person's health BEFORE deciding to get to know them ...once you do ...you can absolutely decide if you wish to continue dating them based on their life style choices

But to pick a person out on the street and decide you want to ask for a date ... based on "health"

no one can do this (and it's weird that the dudes in this thread are saying they can)

no one can tell anyone's health status based off their looks ...

No one can look at someone on the street and tell if they eat pork

No one can look at that cute someone in the gym and decide if they are healthy....

World would be a much better place if they could but you can't? Or at least i cant

I guess if someone is noticeably super skinny or super duper fat we instinctually believe the person is ill.

FYI I can definitely tell by touch of sight if someone has an over abundance of garlic in their diet

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Maybe Virgos can but I can't. -_- ...im start sending pic of my possible dates you give them ole once over ....

Posted by solidsnake

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by solidsnake

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by solidsnake

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by solidsnake

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by Aju

Posted by Cancan26

Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...

Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said

"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"

I highly doubt it ... -_-

except guys that think beyond the flesh...





yea I know.. lol



but we exist.

The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness

and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their

looks a long time ago, high school.

Lol so quick to be offended

Im curious ...

For your health argument ....

When do you go over health information

Like what are you checking for?

Are you making blind assumptions based on weight

Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....

Ooooorrr .....—

I don't even know if I want to respond lol...

sigh*

And I know this topic is sensitive for most women.....

It's the same for the issue of money for most men...

(men not having money, they are ignored etc etc)

this topic is about men dating those who are "over weight" though....

so being over weight (for both men or women) *can* be a sign of someone

not caring about their health yes?.. Or not aware of their health.

Yes other things can factor in on the reasons but in general.

And if they do not care about their health then certain things come to mind.

"Will this affect the quality of our relationship?"

"Will this affect the quality of our children?" etc etc

I'm just here to say that "yes", I will date someone in this state but only

if they "care" and their mindset is already where they want to be.

everything else will fall into place...its about the mind first.

I'm not trying to be a pain in the ass I swear.

I just know that we all have body type prefences (me included) and while (like I'm sure most of guys in this thread) I don't need my date to be super skinny, or in shape ..its even ok to have a dad bod ...but there is a point where attraction becomes an issue of the guy is too big...but girls don't really hide behind the "health factor" I guess ...which again ...i think most of the guys where trying to be gentle ...i dunno ...but um ...i wasn't trying to be a jerk

trying to justify eating trash?

You can’t possibly think Virgos don’t care about health & wellness of our spouses.

I won’t penetrate a woman who consumes pork as part of her diet. She’s going to have to give that up. I’m very superstitious

My point is most people don't find out that sort of thing till their already living together ...not when they met a woman somewhere for the first time trying to score a date ...you can't look at a girl on the street and be like nah shorty you look like you eat pork. -_-

So again that health argument ...is well ...weird ...you can't tell someone health status by their weight alone ...and does the health argument apply to all women or just when you guys find "fat" we both know it's about attraction which is why some men would or some men wouldnt

You must not understand how nit picky some people can be. For some people attraction goes further than the way u look & talk. It’s about values.

No I absoulety agree that men can pick their partners based on their values ...the only thing im disputing ...is that people cant tell a person's health BEFORE deciding to get to know them ...once you do ...you can absolutely decide if you wish to continue dating them based on their life style choices

But to pick a person out on the street and decide you want to ask for a date ... based on "health"

no one can do this (and it's weird that the dudes in this thread are saying they can)

no one can tell anyone's health status based off their looks ...

No one can look at someone on the street and tell if they eat pork

No one can look at that cute someone in the gym and decide if they are healthy....

World would be a much better place if they could but you can't? Or at least i cant

I guess if someone is noticeably super skinny or super duper fat we instinctually believe the person is ill.

FYI I can definitely tell by touch of sight if someone has an over abundance of garlic in their diet

Maybe Virgos can but I can't. -_- ...im start sending pic of my possible dates you give them ole once over ....

Don’t do it. I’ll sabotage so I can have u all to myself

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😆 😆 😆 so petty lmao

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Posted by AerialView

Yes. Anyways she'll get skinny later due to stress.

Lol. Being with you is that stressful? 😜

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Yes but only to fattys 😜

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Posted by enfant_terrible

When unsure one thing is certain; there's a guy for every chick but not a chick for every guy 😄

what? lol women out number men on this planet. i think its 1 man for every 7 women. so that needs to be flipped i think.

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You're far-off (way off). 🙄 Tough, why think/imagine - when there's actually people who gather data to make statistics (that being their job: demographics)?! 🤨

Male: 3,776,294,273

Female: 3,710,295,643

http://www.worldlifeexpectancy.com/gender-ratio-by-country

There are countries like Russia where there's more men than women - but human ingenuity always finds a way:

https://www.rosebrides.com/

https://www.russianbrides.com/mail-order-brides.htm

... 😏

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Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by enfant_terrible

When unsure one thing is certain; there's a guy for every chick but not a chick for every guy 😄

what? lol women out number men on this planet. i think its 1 man for every 7 women. so that needs to be flipped i think.

You're far-off (way off). 🙄 Tough, why think/imagine - when there's actually people who gather data to make statistics (that being their job: demographics)?! 🤨

Male: 3,776,294,273

Female: 3,710,295,643

http://www.worldlifeexpectancy.com/gender-ratio-by-country

There are countries like Russia where there's more men than women - but human ingenuity always finds a way:

https://www.rosebrides.com/

https://www.russianbrides.com/mail-order-brides.htm

... 😏

Damn, I thought there were more women too.

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In a way... there are:



... 🙄

If we are talking fat and unshapely, then no. I've tried. My equipment just won't cooperate. This does not mean I cannot find larger women attractive, because this is not true at all. Shapely women come in all sizes, from really petite to full-figured.

I'm not going to find a girl very attractive at all if her physique doesn't give off at least a little bit of flare that says she likes to keep things together, regardless of her size.