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@Boots1313
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Posted by LostinmyMind11
5'7 seems to me at least to be pretty average. 🤷

Posted by Jade_Alexander
I’m 5’7” and I weigh more then you.
I have NEVER been called a big woman. I’ve dated men who ranges from 5’9”-6’6”. No one commented on my height or weight. I’ve gained weight recently and even then I was informed I still wasn’t big.

Posted by nikkistar
I always thought 5'7" was average for most women, tall for me being Asian. But then I remember a thread where the girls on DXP posted their height, and most of them are like 5'4" and under -_-

Posted by Boots1313
What is your height and weight?
My boyfriend says I'm a "big woman" ...im 5'7" and 130lbs...is that tall for a woman?
I sometimes really wish I was shorter.
He's 6'
(Weight doesn't need to be included...more interested on height)

Posted by MasterfulPosted by nikkistar
I always thought 5'7" was average for most women, tall for me being Asian. But then I remember a thread where the girls on DXP posted their height, and most of them are like 5'4" and under -_-
buncha manlets in heaclick to expand




Posted by Metatron
Height preferences for men and women in one UK survey:
"On average, women say a romantic partner 5’3” or shorter is generally too short for comfort, while a partner 6’3” or taller is too tall, and the “ideal” height for a man is 5’11”. The survey also finds that for the average British man, a partner becomes too short at 4’11” and too tall at 6’. The ideal height for a woman, according to the average man, is 5’6”."
https://yougov.co.uk/news/2014/07/11/ideal-height-56-woman-511-man/
You're an inch over the preferred height....I wouldn't worry about it.

Posted by Boots1313Posted by Metatron
Height preferences for men and women in one UK survey:
"On average, women say a romantic partner 5’3” or shorter is generally too short for comfort, while a partner 6’3” or taller is too tall, and the “ideal” height for a man is 5’11”. The survey also finds that for the average British man, a partner becomes too short at 4’11” and too tall at 6’. The ideal height for a woman, according to the average man, is 5’6”."
https://yougov.co.uk/news/2014/07/11/ideal-height-56-woman-511-man/
You're an inch over the preferred height....I wouldn't worry about it.
So many fact and stasticits.
I'm not really concerned, I like my body but it's a weird word choice "Big woman"...
Hmm maybe he like a it, maybe he gets his kicks out of "big women" 🤣click to expand

Posted by MetatronPosted by Boots1313Posted by Metatron
Height preferences for men and women in one UK survey:
"On average, women say a romantic partner 5’3” or shorter is generally too short for comfort, while a partner 6’3” or taller is too tall, and the “ideal” height for a man is 5’11”. The survey also finds that for the average British man, a partner becomes too short at 4’11” and too tall at 6’. The ideal height for a woman, according to the average man, is 5’6”."
https://yougov.co.uk/news/2014/07/11/ideal-height-56-woman-511-man/
You're an inch over the preferred height....I wouldn't worry about it.
So many fact and stasticits.
I'm not really concerned, I like my body but it's a weird word choice "Big woman"...
Hmm maybe he like a it, maybe he gets his kicks out of "big women" 🤣
pretty common for some of the bulls I know lol....I like thick/curvy myself....probably a poor word choice on his part though....click to expand

Posted by Insertusername
I’m the same height as you and my guy is 5’11. I do think the average woman is usually like 5’3-5’5, but I don’t feel like 5’7 is tall. Once you hit like 5’9 that’s a different story. You should tell him he shouldn’t be so short then. Lol


Posted by ArkansassyPosted by Boots1313Posted by Metatron
Height preferences for men and women in one UK survey:
"On average, women say a romantic partner 5’3” or shorter is generally too short for comfort, while a partner 6’3” or taller is too tall, and the “ideal” height for a man is 5’11”. The survey also finds that for the average British man, a partner becomes too short at 4’11” and too tall at 6’. The ideal height for a woman, according to the average man, is 5’6”."
https://yougov.co.uk/news/2014/07/11/ideal-height-56-woman-511-man/
You're an inch over the preferred height....I wouldn't worry about it.
So many fact and stasticits.
I'm not really concerned, I like my body but it's a weird word choice "Big woman"...
Hmm maybe he like a it, maybe he gets his kicks out of "big women" 🤣
Are you muscular?click to expand

Posted by Boots1313Posted by MetatronPosted by Boots1313Posted by Metatron
Height preferences for men and women in one UK survey:
"On average, women say a romantic partner 5’3” or shorter is generally too short for comfort, while a partner 6’3” or taller is too tall, and the “ideal” height for a man is 5’11”. The survey also finds that for the average British man, a partner becomes too short at 4’11” and too tall at 6’. The ideal height for a woman, according to the average man, is 5’6”."
https://yougov.co.uk/news/2014/07/11/ideal-height-56-woman-511-man/
You're an inch over the preferred height....I wouldn't worry about it.
So many fact and stasticits.
I'm not really concerned, I like my body but it's a weird word choice "Big woman"...
Hmm maybe he like a it, maybe he gets his kicks out of "big women" 🤣
pretty common for some of the bulls I know lol....I like thick/curvy myself....probably a poor word choice on his part though....
I'm very hippy...nreadinf hips as they say. I personally like fuller figured women as well. I do t think he meant harm by it, I know he is attracted to me. Weird word choice and just doesn't resonate well with me.click to expand

Posted by Piscoi
My sister is 5’8”, and I don’t think she’s a big woman... I think 5’7” is a nice height to be.

Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by MetatronPosted by Boots1313Posted by Metatron
Height preferences for men and women in one UK survey:
"On average, women say a romantic partner 5’3” or shorter is generally too short for comfort, while a partner 6’3” or taller is too tall, and the “ideal” height for a man is 5’11”. The survey also finds that for the average British man, a partner becomes too short at 4’11” and too tall at 6’. The ideal height for a woman, according to the average man, is 5’6”."
https://yougov.co.uk/news/2014/07/11/ideal-height-56-woman-511-man/
You're an inch over the preferred height....I wouldn't worry about it.
So many fact and stasticits.
I'm not really concerned, I like my body but it's a weird word choice "Big woman"...
Hmm maybe he like a it, maybe he gets his kicks out of "big women" 🤣
pretty common for some of the bulls I know lol....I like thick/curvy myself....probably a poor word choice on his part though....
I agree Taurus men like curvy women... Or at least the ones I know. I’m muscular and curvy and tend to attract Bulls..click to expand

Posted by ArkansassyPosted by Boots1313Posted by ArkansassyPosted by Boots1313Posted by Metatron
Height preferences for men and women in one UK survey:
"On average, women say a romantic partner 5’3” or shorter is generally too short for comfort, while a partner 6’3” or taller is too tall, and the “ideal” height for a man is 5’11”. The survey also finds that for the average British man, a partner becomes too short at 4’11” and too tall at 6’. The ideal height for a woman, according to the average man, is 5’6”."
https://yougov.co.uk/news/2014/07/11/ideal-height-56-woman-511-man/
You're an inch over the preferred height....I wouldn't worry about it.
So many fact and stasticits.
I'm not really concerned, I like my body but it's a weird word choice "Big woman"...
Hmm maybe he like a it, maybe he gets his kicks out of "big women" 🤣
Are you muscular?
Not muscular, but I have big thighs, butt, lower body. I'm not really flabby..i just sort of have larger limbs...big boned? Idk
I like big butts and I can not lie.
Also.. ear muffs are the best part of a woman's body imoclick to expand

Posted by ArkansassyPosted by MetatronPosted by ArkansassyPosted by Boots1313Posted by ArkansassyPosted by Boots1313Posted by Metatron
Height preferences for men and women in one UK survey:
"On average, women say a romantic partner 5’3” or shorter is generally too short for comfort, while a partner 6’3” or taller is too tall, and the “ideal” height for a man is 5’11”. The survey also finds that for the average British man, a partner becomes too short at 4’11” and too tall at 6’. The ideal height for a woman, according to the average man, is 5’6”."
https://yougov.co.uk/news/2014/07/11/ideal-height-56-woman-511-man/
You're an inch over the preferred height....I wouldn't worry about it.
So many fact and stasticits.
I'm not really concerned, I like my body but it's a weird word choice "Big woman"...
Hmm maybe he like a it, maybe he gets his kicks out of "big women" 🤣
Are you muscular?
Not muscular, but I have big thighs, butt, lower body. I'm not really flabby..i just sort of have larger limbs...big boned? Idk
I like big butts and I can not lie.
Also.. ear muffs are the best part of a woman's body imo
lol...wth are ear muffs?
Thighsclick to expand

Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by MetatronPosted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by MetatronPosted by Boots1313Posted by Metatron
Height preferences for men and women in one UK survey:
"On average, women say a romantic partner 5’3” or shorter is generally too short for comfort, while a partner 6’3” or taller is too tall, and the “ideal” height for a man is 5’11”. The survey also finds that for the average British man, a partner becomes too short at 4’11” and too tall at 6’. The ideal height for a woman, according to the average man, is 5’6”."
https://yougov.co.uk/news/2014/07/11/ideal-height-56-woman-511-man/
You're an inch over the preferred height....I wouldn't worry about it.
So many fact and stasticits.
I'm not really concerned, I like my body but it's a weird word choice "Big woman"...
Hmm maybe he like a it, maybe he gets his kicks out of "big women" 🤣
pretty common for some of the bulls I know lol....I like thick/curvy myself....probably a poor word choice on his part though....
I agree Taurus men like curvy women... Or at least the ones I know. I’m muscular and curvy and tend to attract Bulls..
this thread awaits your arrival:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/miscellaneous/ladies-post-a-pic-of-yourself--10940347/
I’ve shared a pic a few times.click to expand

Posted by Boots1313Posted by LostinmyMind11
5'7 seems to me at least to be pretty average. 🤷
That's what I thought, most girls I know ate 5'6"-5'8"
And yeah, sorry imperial system...im american.click to expand

Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by tiziani
if you're bottom heavy I think the non-domestic-fight term is pear-shaped.
What’s top heavy?click to expand

Posted by GemLover
Y'all some small women. Y'all need to eat and beef up. Men my age like em big with meat on their bones. And I thought 5 foot 7 was average for women and 5 foot 9 for the men.

Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by saggurl88Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by tiziani
if you're bottom heavy I think the non-domestic-fight term is pear-shaped.
What’s top heavy?
You really don’t know? 🤔
Top heavy is big boobs. Bottom heavy is hips and ass.
I meant shape... what shape is it....
I’m top heavy, or as my ex called me... Tits McGee... charming nickname, isn’t it?click to expand



Posted by FlailingBabyMonkey
Until he calls you "Bertha", you're good. Dont worry.

Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by Boots1313Posted by LostinmyMind11
5'7 seems to me at least to be pretty average. 🤷
That's what I thought, most girls I know ate 5'6"-5'8"
And yeah, sorry imperial system...im american.
I'm 5'6 and no one's ever told me that I was big girl because if it...but then again majority are staring at my boobs than height lolclick to expand


Posted by Boots1313Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by Boots1313Posted by LostinmyMind11
5'7 seems to me at least to be pretty average. 🤷
That's what I thought, most girls I know ate 5'6"-5'8"
And yeah, sorry imperial system...im american.
I'm 5'6 and no one's ever told me that I was big girl because if it...but then again majority are staring at my boobs than height lol
I have no boobs, just bootyclick to expand






Posted by Boots1313
What is your height and weight?
My boyfriend says I'm a "big woman" ...im 5'7" and 130lbs...is that tall for a woman?
I sometimes really wish I was shorter.
He's 6'
(Weight doesn't need to be included...more interested on height)

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Boots1313
What is your height and weight?
My boyfriend says I'm a "big woman" ...im 5'7" and 130lbs...is that tall for a woman?
I sometimes really wish I was shorter.
He's 6'
(Weight doesn't need to be included...more interested on height)
Does he mean big as in tall or weight?
If height, tell him, if he was taller he'd not see you as big...
click to expand


Posted by Boots1313Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Boots1313
What is your height and weight?
My boyfriend says I'm a "big woman" ...im 5'7" and 130lbs...is that tall for a woman?
I sometimes really wish I was shorter.
He's 6'
(Weight doesn't need to be included...more interested on height)
Does he mean big as in tall or weight?
If height, tell him, if he was taller he'd not see you as big...
I think he Meas more so height ...hes right I'm not small or little by any means, but saying "big woman " sounds so unattractive and not sexy lolclick to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Boots1313Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Boots1313
What is your height and weight?
My boyfriend says I'm a "big woman" ...im 5'7" and 130lbs...is that tall for a woman?
I sometimes really wish I was shorter.
He's 6'
(Weight doesn't need to be included...more interested on height)
Does he mean big as in tall or weight?
If height, tell him, if he was taller he'd not see you as big...
I think he Meas more so height ...hes right I'm not small or little by any means, but saying "big woman " sounds so unattractive and not sexy lol
I agree
Does he ever compliment you?
Your pic is gorgeous btw....click to expand

Posted by RooSagicornPosted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by RooSagicornPosted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by RooSagicornPosted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by MetatronPosted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by MetatronPosted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by MetatronPosted by Boots1313Posted by Metatron
Height preferences for men and women in one UK survey:
"On average, women say a romantic partner 5’3” or shorter is generally too short for comfort, while a partner 6’3” or taller is too tall, and the “ideal” height for a man is 5’11”. The survey also finds that for the average British man, a partner becomes too short at 4’11” and too tall at 6’. The ideal height for a woman, according to the average man, is 5’6”."
https://yougov.co.uk/news/2014/07/11/ideal-height-56-woman-511-man/
You're an inch over the preferred height....I wouldn't worry about it.
So many fact and stasticits.
I'm not really concerned, I like my body but it's a weird word choice "Big woman"...
Hmm maybe he like a it, maybe he gets his kicks out of "big women" 🤣
pretty common for some of the bulls I know lol....I like thick/curvy myself....probably a poor word choice on his part though....
I agree Taurus men like curvy women... Or at least the ones I know. I’m muscular and curvy and tend to attract Bulls..
this thread awaits your arrival:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/miscellaneous/ladies-post-a-pic-of-yourself--10940347/
I’ve shared a pic a few times.
got it....nice....pretty eyes and smile also....
Thanks... I was just saying I tend to attract men who like thicker or muscular girls. I think as we’ve all gotten older, we tend to gravitate to curvier. I like dudes with grey now, they don’t seem to mind my extra pounds.
Guys like curves lol. Well I think I’m more conscious about it then them. A lot of women get heavier as they get older, well hey men do too!! It’s just more of a struggle late 40’s and 50’s.
Yeah....
Sending nudes with an extra 20lbs after 5 kids took some serious confidence... I was like ‘yhisnwoukd have looked way hotter several kids ago’... apparently he felt it looked hot enough as is. Women tend to be harder on themselves then they need to. Once I let go of my insecurities I find a few extra pounds isn’t a big deal. He’s into me, not just one aspect of my body.
They still think it’s hot! Lol more boobs, more you to love 😂 I’d love to lose that 20 omg! But gotta accept yourself regardless. I guess I’m more worried about getting fit & healthy then the actual # on the scale.
My health hasn’t been great and I’ve struggled to loose the baby weight. I’m almost back to my normal weight now.
I just didn’t feel as comfortable in my own skin... but it didn’t last long.
I hear ya. Same here after babies. I got down to the best shape of my life in my 40’s, but injuries & age have caught up to me. It’s just a never give up attitude.click to expand

Posted by Boots1313Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Boots1313Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Boots1313
What is your height and weight?
My boyfriend says I'm a "big woman" ...im 5'7" and 130lbs...is that tall for a woman?
I sometimes really wish I was shorter.
He's 6'
(Weight doesn't need to be included...more interested on height)
Does he mean big as in tall or weight?
If height, tell him, if he was taller he'd not see you as big...
I think he Meas more so height ...hes right I'm not small or little by any means, but saying "big woman " sounds so unattractive and not sexy lol
I agree
Does he ever compliment you?
Your pic is gorgeous btw....
He's not one for words he gives more physical compliments. He called me pretty yesterday. That's a lot for him.click to expand

Posted by Boots1313
What is your height and weight?
My boyfriend says I'm a "big woman" ...im 5'7" and 130lbs...is that tall for a woman?
I sometimes really wish I was shorter.
He's 6'
(Weight doesn't need to be included...more interested on height)


Posted by NemDeuxPosted by Boots1313Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Boots1313Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Boots1313
What is your height and weight?
My boyfriend says I'm a "big woman" ...im 5'7" and 130lbs...is that tall for a woman?
I sometimes really wish I was shorter.
He's 6'
(Weight doesn't need to be included...more interested on height)
Does he mean big as in tall or weight?
If height, tell him, if he was taller he'd not see you as big...
I think he Meas more so height ...hes right I'm not small or little by any means, but saying "big woman " sounds so unattractive and not sexy lol
I agree
Does he ever compliment you?
Your pic is gorgeous btw....
He's not one for words he gives more physical compliments. He called me pretty yesterday. That's a lot for him.
where is his mercury sign?click to expand

Posted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by CopperDove
Depends on where you live, but as a North American, I see 5'4 being right in North America for the average height for a woman.
Ideals about what is feminine or not I think can greatly influence our reaction to words used.
For example, a penpal of mine, who knows that I'm small (just under 5'1) who has never met me in person wrote that my feet must be "cute" because they must be small. When I told him the size of my feet, he thought that they were big for my height. I found myself bothered by that. It isn't true by most people's standards, AFAIK, but that wasn't what bothered me, I had to face. I didn't like the idea of having big feet, which only comes from me buying into ideals of what is ideal vs not for women's feet. Even as I type this, I can't get away from wishing that my feet were smaller, lol, even though my feet are often called small by people who have seen them.
What's your feet size?
I'm 5ft 3 and show size 5 (39 European)click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Boots1313
What is your height and weight?
My boyfriend says I'm a "big woman" ...im 5'7" and 130lbs...is that tall for a woman?
I sometimes really wish I was shorter.
He's 6'
(Weight doesn't need to be included...more interested on height)
lol wut?
I'm 5'8" and fluctuate between 155-160pds
Bae is 5'11" and 180 soaking wet
If your 'big' I must be obese
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My boyfriend says I'm a "big woman" ...im 5'7" and 130lbs...is that tall for a woman?
I sometimes really wish I was shorter.
He's 6'
(Weight doesn't need to be included...more interested on height)