Centaur12
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Who loves you...?
Do you love yourself? If so, why are YOU wasting your time?
Do you love yourself? If so, why are YOU wasting your time?
Posted by Undine
Who loves you...?
Do you love yourself? If so, why are YOU wasting your time?
I never loved my self before but now I am starting to see my worth and what I have to offer someone else.
Also, I think the biggest problem was I loved her more than myself lol.
Posted by Maxian
Ask that question out loud to yourself.
You're getting Gem a surprise and she has audacity to make demands. Entitled brat.
100 percent.
Good on you, you’re almost there… you’re now seeing right through her…
Time to drop her completely and spend time getting to know the real woman waiting for your attention. Yes, you do need to stop communicating with the gem to give Aries a chance!
Time to drop her completely and spend time getting to know the real woman waiting for your attention. Yes, you do need to stop communicating with the gem to give Aries a chance!
You need to redefine love and what that means to you.
You may be delusional
You may be delusional
Posted by DMV
You need to redefine love and what that means to you.
You may be delusional
Maybe but how 🤔
Posted by sweethearts
Good on you, you’re almost there… you’re now seeing right through her…
Time to drop her completely and spend time getting to know the real woman waiting for your attention. Yes, you do need to stop communicating with the gem to give Aries a chance!
In fairness to the Aries she keeps in contact everyday texts me calls me every hour really and she keeps asking to see me everytime we are free she lives 34 miles away from me and it takes around 52 mins drive from eachother and she's made massive amounts of effort to keep coming down to see me.
So she said can I come down tonight to see you and and I said no I will come to your place this time I am going to be fair I don't want you running around all the time and she replied your worth it I would drive hours to see you.
Posted by Centaur12Posted by DMV
You need to redefine love and what that means to you.
You may be delusional
Maybe but how 🤔click to expand
We cannot hold your hand and find all the answers for you.
Get off the internet and go within
Posted by Centaur12Posted by sweethearts
Good on you, you’re almost there… you’re now seeing right through her…
Time to drop her completely and spend time getting to know the real woman waiting for your attention. Yes, you do need to stop communicating with the gem to give Aries a chance!
In fairness to the Aries she keeps in contact everyday texts me calls me every hour really and she keeps asking to see me everytime we are free she lives 34 miles away from me and it takes around 52 mins drive from eachother and she's made massive amounts of effort to keep coming down to see me.
So she said can I come down tonight to see you and and I said no I will come to your place this time I am going to be fair I don't want you running around all the time and she replied your worth it I would drive hours to see you.click to expand
Why aren't you honest and tell the Aries that you want someone who disrespects you, doesn't keep her promises and causes loads of unnecessary drama on a daily basis? That nice and accommodating doesn't do it for you, so she should step up her bitchy and drama queen side to have a chance with you...?
Posted by cake
You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
You mean "I might need to find a cent". From Centaur 😄
Posted by cakePosted by UndinePosted by cake
You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
You mean "I might need to find a cent". From Centaur 😄
Lol but nvm. I just read about the Aries and 👀. I want somebody who will worship me and long for me without any backup plans.click to expand
Me too...not exactly "worshiped", but being made to feel content, listen to, seen, beautiful and desired in his presence.
Posted by cakePosted by UndinePosted by cakePosted by UndinePosted by cake
You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
You mean "I might need to find a cent". From Centaur 😄
Lol but nvm. I just read about the Aries and 👀. I want somebody who will worship me and long for me without any backup plans.
Me too...not exactly "worshiped", but being made to feel content, listen to, seen, beautiful and desired in his presence.
How about not in his presence?click to expand
I don't have too many expectations from someone who is not present. If I love him, I will talk to him in my mind whenever I want to. He will be living rent free in my head, so he'd better be available right there, all the time... 😄
How about you?
Posted by Wizardz_Posted by UndinePosted by cakePosted by UndinePosted by cake
You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
You mean "I might need to find a cent". From Centaur 😄
Lol but nvm. I just read about the Aries and 👀. I want somebody who will worship me and long for me without any backup plans.
Me too...not exactly "worshiped", but being made to feel content, listen to, seen, beautiful and desired in his presence.
you said you made your husband pamper you like a goddess for an hour before sex🤩click to expand
Haha! I'm sure he liked doing what I asked him to do! He said my skin was so soft....even with goosebumps 😄
Posted by cakePosted by UndinePosted by cakePosted by UndinePosted by cakePosted by UndinePosted by cake
You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
You mean "I might need to find a cent". From Centaur 😄
Lol but nvm. I just read about the Aries and 👀. I want somebody who will worship me and long for me without any backup plans.
Me too...not exactly "worshiped", but being made to feel content, listen to, seen, beautiful and desired in his presence.
How about not in his presence?
I don't have too many expectations from someone who is not present. If I love him, I will talk to him in my mind whenever I want to. He will be living rent free in my head, so he'd better be available right there, all the time... 😄
How about you?
Ooohh I like that.
I expect my partner to not be thinking or entertaining another woman. Obviously it's still an issue for me, hence I'm not relationship material at the moment.
I want someone with integrity.click to expand
I want someone I can respect too. As for talking to other women, different people, different reactions, depending how secure I felt in our relationship.
Ex husband was very handsome and friendly, so he attracted a lot of female attention on our holidays. Yet not once did I feel jealous. I was like (in my mind)...miss, you may flirt your ass off, he's madly in love with his wife.
Another boyfriend I wasn't yet secure about...found arguing with some female on social media, while I was waiting for his bloody answer to my email, and my mind went: MURRRRRRDER! MURRRRRDER!
LOL
Posted by Centaur12Posted by Undine
Who loves you...?
Do you love yourself? If so, why are YOU wasting your time?
I never loved myself before but now I am starting to see my worth and what I have to offer someone else.
Also, I think the biggest problem was I loved her more than myself lol.click to expand
I am a Gemini and I say - you had been a fool in love...now STOP!
She isn't acting like this because she is a Gemini. She is a psychopath!
I know she is probably giving you a bj that you won't find anywhere else but IMAGINE to be stuck with an acidic narcissist who WILL eventually make you want to commit yourself? NO!
You want to tell her ITS OVER and mean it and run to the Aries woman hoping that she is still there for you...
I AM with an Aries and what he told me at the beginning - all true. Just hard for me to adjust to the freedom that he is giving me. LOL
Good Luck and remeber...this woman is not good for you as a man, as a father and in general. rip her out and stomp on this POS! What sign are you? It is astrological forum after all...lol
Posted by cake
You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.
Just NO! Please.
Posted by cake
You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
I'm a Sag no that's the thing we are just friends but she acts like we aren't lol like I am her property or something.
Posted by Centaur12
Why do people who love you waste your time?
They don't. Ponder that.
Posted by Undine
Who loves you...?
Do you love yourself? If so, why are YOU wasting your time?
*like*
No one can waste your time unless you allow it.
Posted by Centaur12
In fairness to the Aries she keeps in contact everyday texts me calls me every hour really and she keeps asking to see me everytime we are free she lives 34 miles away from me and it takes around 52 mins drive from eachother and she's made massive amounts of effort to keep coming down to see me.
So she said can I come down tonight to see you and and I said no I will come to your place this time I am going to be fair I don't want you running around all the time and she replied your worth it I would drive hours to see you.
And yet you're still making threads about this toxic Gem?
I genuinely hope you get out of your own way at some point. You seem like a nice person that has been stepped upon more than enough times. Much of that is because you've laid down on the floor with a big neon sign that says "doormat", however no one deserves that. As Sag season approaches, 🍹 to new beginnings and better memories.
Posted by Centaur12
Why do people who love you waste your time?
At some point you need to take responsibility for your part in this. You gladly stuck around and allowed her to waste your time. You claimed over and over you were done, and then went back and allowed her to waste more of your time.
You played just as many games as she did.
Even now you are giving her your focus and mental energy.
By wondering why she wasted your time you are, wait for it, wasting your time.
Oh the irony...
I don't know your placements @centaur12
The Gem sounds bi-polar, I have a Gem that blew hot and cold until I left and now she chases me. The Aries sounds engaging and double fire... but the heart wants what it wants you know?
You gave the Gem your position. I don't know your history with her, but for her to throw out "liar" tells me you've had some misunderstandings or truth dodging back in the day... but toxic push-pulls aint where its at.
Give your Aries a chance if you aren't a field player and looking for a solid relationship. You might have to start blocking/ignoring the Gem, because "whoever cares least in the relationship controls it"...and it sounds like she's doing what she wants.
The Gem sounds bi-polar, I have a Gem that blew hot and cold until I left and now she chases me. The Aries sounds engaging and double fire... but the heart wants what it wants you know?
You gave the Gem your position. I don't know your history with her, but for her to throw out "liar" tells me you've had some misunderstandings or truth dodging back in the day... but toxic push-pulls aint where its at.
Give your Aries a chance if you aren't a field player and looking for a solid relationship. You might have to start blocking/ignoring the Gem, because "whoever cares least in the relationship controls it"...and it sounds like she's doing what she wants.
When completely done with someone its only natural to buy them home furnishings. But of course lmao
Posted by Wizardz_Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Centaur12
Why do people who love you waste your time?
At some point you need to take responsibility for your part in this. You gladly stuck around and allowed her to waste your time. You claimed over and over you were done, and then went back and allowed her to waste more of your time.
You played just as many games as she did.
Even now you are giving her your focus and mental energy.
By wondering why she wasted your time you are, wait for it, wasting your time.
Oh the irony...
You know he'd go back to her in a second
Like Undine said. He might not "like" the drama and the constant hot/cold but that is what keeps him hooked and the Gem knows itclick to expand
He loves her alot.
True love is posting a million threads online to bitch and moan and paint your partner in a poor light so online strangers speak ill of them.
One day I pray I'll experience a love a strong and pure 😆
Posted by Centaur12Posted by cake
You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
I'm a Sag no that's the thing we are just friends but she acts like we aren't lol like I am her property or something.click to expand
You clearly are, she can toy with you all she likes because you’re still there. Cut the bs about the friends. You are still wishing waiting hoping.
Take a chance on the Aries, give her your undivided attention. You may actually find happiness but to do this you need to cut gem completely and you know It!!
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by Centaur12Posted by cake
You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
I'm a Sag no that's the thing we are just friends but she acts like we aren't lol like I am her property or something.
You clearly are, she can toy with you all she likes because you’re still there. Cut the bs about the friends. You are still wishing waiting hoping.
Take a chance on the Aries, give her your undivided attention. You may actually find happiness but to do this you need to cut gem completely and you know It!!click to expand
Haven't spoken to the Gem since Friday I'm giving the aries a chance
Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by sweetheartsPosted by Centaur12Posted by cake
You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
I'm a Sag no that's the thing we are just friends but she acts like we aren't lol like I am her property or something.
You clearly are, she can toy with you all she likes because you’re still there. Cut the bs about the friends. You are still wishing waiting hoping.
Take a chance on the Aries, give her your undivided attention. You may actually find happiness but to do this you need to cut gem completely and you know It!!
Haven't spoken to the Gem since Friday I'm giving the aries a chance
Gem with the capital letter
poor aries all lower case 😕
very telling 😎😎😁🧐click to expand
Posted by hellosaggy
I don't know your placements @centaur12
The Gem sounds bi-polar, I have a Gem that blew hot and cold until I left and now she chases me. The Aries sounds engaging and double fire... but the heart wants what it wants you know?
You gave the Gem your position. I don't know your history with her, but for her to throw out "liar" tells me you've had some misunderstandings or truth dodging back in the day... but toxic push-pulls aint where its at.
Give your Aries a chance if you aren't a field player and looking for a solid relationship. You might have to start blocking/ignoring the Gem, because "whoever cares least in the relationship controls it"...and it sounds like she's doing what she wants.
What do you mean by double fire do you mean Sun and moon the aries is definitely engaging she's been showing me alot of attention ans wanting to see me as soon as she can really and when we are together she show me affection and wants to be close.
The Aries Chart is
Sun - Aries
Moon - Aries
Mercury- Aries RX
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Cancer
My Chart is
Sun - Sag
Moon - Aqua
Mercury - Sag RX
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Sag
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn - Aqua
Sun - Aries
Moon - Aries
Mercury- Aries RX
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Cancer
My Chart is
Sun - Sag
Moon - Aqua
Mercury - Sag RX
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Sag
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn - Aqua
Posted by Centaur12
The Aries Chart is
Sun - Aries
Moon - Aries
Mercury- Aries RX
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Cancer
My Chart is
Sun - Sag
Moon - Aqua
Mercury - Sag RX
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Sag
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn - Aqua
Go for the Aries!! Stop being friends with the Gemini.. she only cares about herself.
Omg you are Sag aqua like me. Maybe you should go read my thread I hate my aqua moon 😂😂😂😂 I’m also aqua Saturn but none of the other placements you have.
It’s very difficult for us to let go once in love but very important. It is also extremely important you love yourself first. When you always put others first, you get walked on. I was with an Aries sun/Gemini venus ( but cap moon) for 20 years. Believe me it’s a great match. Please walk that way.
Posted by Centaur12
The Aries Chart is
Sun - Aries
Moon - Aries
Mercury- Aries RX
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Cancer
My Chart is
Sun - Sag
Moon - Aqua
Mercury - Sag RX
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Sag
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn - Aqua
Hmph. Its a good thing her Ram bits overrides that wishy washy Mars. I also like that she has a Ram Merc. She'll set some fire to your a** when you act left.
Her Venus though....well, your Venus will need more reassurance than her Venus can give at times. You have a very different love language in terms of expression and need. It may feel like deja vu all over again at times....
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Centaur12
The Aries Chart is
Sun - Aries
Moon - Aries
Mercury- Aries RX
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Cancer
My Chart is
Sun - Sag
Moon - Aqua
Mercury - Sag RX
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Sag
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn - Aqua
Hmph. Its a good thing her Ram bits overrides that wishy washy Mars. I also like that she has a Ram Merc. She'll set some fire to your a** when you act left.
Her Venus though....well, your Venus will need more reassurance than her Venus can give at times. You have a very different love language in terms of expression and need. It may feel like deja vu all over again at times....click to expand
That is what worries me lol
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Centaur12
The Aries Chart is
Sun - Aries
Moon - Aries
Mercury- Aries RX
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Cancer
My Chart is
Sun - Sag
Moon - Aqua
Mercury - Sag RX
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Sag
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn - Aqua
Hmph. Its a good thing her Ram bits overrides that wishy washy Mars. I also like that she has a Ram Merc. She'll set some fire to your a** when you act left.
Her Venus though....well, your Venus will need more reassurance than her Venus can give at times. You have a very different love language in terms of expression and need. It may feel like deja vu all over again at times....click to expand
Saying that she is very affectionate towards me and loving so I duno will see I suppose.
Posted by Not_Nice
Family/loved ones usually has a lot of blurred lines in terms of boundaries ime.
i.e. My brother can talk all day about his issues or what's on his mind when speaking to me however if he's talking to other ppl (non family) he's a lot more considerate of other's time.
I've come to realize, its more about your individual awareness of things and making an adjustment for your own happiness or whatever you want to call it rather than attempting to change someone.
If the willingness of the offender is non-existent, you're dealing with an uphill battle to try and make them realize what your issue is or you make an adjustment for yourself to deal with it or not.
For me personally, the actions one does speaks much more volumes to me than words ever have @centaur . I'd suggest reevaluating what you've been putting up with and if it ultimately is worth continuing to do. I believe no man/woman should chase someone that's mentally immature in some fashion or not doing any form of positive reciprocation.
Hope this helps, take care.
Thank you.
Does Aries know about Gem and all your history??
Posted by sweethearts
Does Aries know about Gem and all your history??
She knows about the Gem but didn't know I only just stopped talking to her lol
Posted by Centaur12Posted by sweethearts
Does Aries know about Gem and all your history??
She knows about the Gem but didn't know I only just stopped talking to her lolclick to expand
You “lol” and say that like she’s a joke to you. (Aries)
You’ve been treated like shit by the Gem, DON’T make that mistake with the Aries!
Treat her with the respect that you want for yourself. Doesn’t mean you need to tell all, just stop lying to her and yourself!!
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by Centaur12Posted by sweethearts
Does Aries know about Gem and all your history??
She knows about the Gem but didn't know I only just stopped talking to her lol
You “lol” and say that like she’s a joke to you. (Aries)
You’ve been treated like shit by the Gem, DON’T make that mistake with the Aries!
Treat her with the respect that you want for yourself. Doesn’t mean you need to tell all, just stop lying to her and yourself!!click to expand
I never meant it in that way I don't want to hurt anyone but I am hurting still myself this is why I am trying to go slowly I don't want to disrespect anyone.
Posted by Centaur12Posted by hellosaggy
I don't know your placements @centaur12
The Gem sounds bi-polar, I have a Gem that blew hot and cold until I left and now she chases me. The Aries sounds engaging and double fire... but the heart wants what it wants you know?
You gave the Gem your position. I don't know your history with her, but for her to throw out "liar" tells me you've had some misunderstandings or truth dodging back in the day... but toxic push-pulls aint where its at.
Give your Aries a chance if you aren't a field player and looking for a solid relationship. You might have to start blocking/ignoring the Gem, because "whoever cares least in the relationship controls it"...and it sounds like she's doing what she wants.
What do you mean by double fire do you mean Sun and moon the aries is definitely engaging she's been showing me alot of attention ans wanting to see me as soon as she can really and when we are together she show me affection and wants to be close.click to expand
Yeah.. fire signs are passionate group...not necessarily emotional... so she will definitely give you attention.
That aqua moon stinks man lol.... you are fixed in that aspect and stuck in your head too much. You are trying to find logic and reasoning behind the GEM and you aren't going to find it. one minute you think you have her figured out, the next you are confused, and your Sag sun is going to make that a challenge you can't pass up.
Posted by hellosaggyPosted by Centaur12Posted by hellosaggy
I don't know your placements @centaur12
The Gem sounds bi-polar, I have a Gem that blew hot and cold until I left and now she chases me. The Aries sounds engaging and double fire... but the heart wants what it wants you know?
You gave the Gem your position. I don't know your history with her, but for her to throw out "liar" tells me you've had some misunderstandings or truth dodging back in the day... but toxic push-pulls aint where its at.
Give your Aries a chance if you aren't a field player and looking for a solid relationship. You might have to start blocking/ignoring the Gem, because "whoever cares least in the relationship controls it"...and it sounds like she's doing what she wants.
What do you mean by double fire do you mean Sun and moon the aries is definitely engaging she's been showing me alot of attention ans wanting to see me as soon as she can really and when we are together she show me affection and wants to be close.
Yeah.. fire signs are passionate group...not necessarily emotional... so she will definitely give you attention.
That aqua moon stinks man lol.... you are fixed in that aspect and stuck in your head too much. You are trying to find logic and reasoning behind the GEM and you aren't going to find it. one minute you think you have her figured out, the next you are confused, and your Sag sun is going to make that a challenge you can't pass up.click to expand
You hit the nail on the head there 👍.
I don't know what I can do to make that easier.
The only thing I'm doing right now is leaving the Gem alone.
Before I would go running to her and try and try and push and give in to her and say sorry etc but now I have sat back and let life do its thing I'm not contacting her I told her I wanted a committed relationship with her and as much as I love her I am letting her go she knows where I am if she ever decides to get her act together however, could be to late by then.
Hmph. I predict this Ram will be slashing your tires or cursing you out in a few months because the Gem interfered and you took the bait.
No one wants to be someone's back up plan.
No one wants to be someone's back up plan.
Posted by PhoenixRising
Hmph. I predict this Ram will be slashing your tires or cursing you out in a few months because the Gem interfered and you took the bait.
No one wants to be someone's back up plan.
Not going to happen hard to believe I know but I am seriously giving the Aries a proper go look I even used a capital letter for Aries. 😉
I will ignore Gem now tough shit.
Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Centaur12
The Aries Chart is
Sun - Aries
Moon - Aries
Mercury- Aries RX
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Cancer
My Chart is
Sun - Sag
Moon - Aqua
Mercury - Sag RX
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Sag
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn - Aqua
Go for the Aries!! Stop being friends with the Gemini.. she only cares about herself.
Omg you are Sag aqua like me. Maybe you should go read my thread I hate my aqua moon 😂😂😂😂 I’m also aqua Saturn but none of the other placements you have.
It’s very difficult for us to let go once in love but very important. It is also extremely important you love yourself first. When you always put others first, you get walked on. I was with an Aries sun/Gemini venus ( but cap moon) for 20 years. Believe me it’s a great match. Please walk that way.click to expand
Her Saturn is also, Aquarius
Her Jupiter is Leo
But yes, you are correct it is very hard for us to let go once we are in love properly.
The reason I say properly is because I have to be really invested but once I am I will give my heart and soul to that person everything and let myself be treated like dirt and What I find with myself in the past is I have been in relationships where I thought I was in love with someone but really I was not.
I have to feel alive and excited like there's something to catch or chase or going on in order to fuel my interest it sounds bad but I mean it in a good way or maybe I look to much for happiness in someone else rather than within.
Like if the Gem cut out the bullshit then we could live a really good life together as she tells me what she wants is a family unit and to be married etc we have the same goals.
No idea what's the matter with me sometimes but I really fell in love with the Gem.
Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Centaur12
The Aries Chart is
Sun - Aries
Moon - Aries
Mercury- Aries RX
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Cancer
My Chart is
Sun - Sag
Moon - Aqua
Mercury - Sag RX
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Sag
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn - Aqua
Go for the Aries!! Stop being friends with the Gemini.. she only cares about herself.
Omg you are Sag aqua like me. Maybe you should go read my thread I hate my aqua moon 😂😂😂😂 I’m also aqua Saturn but none of the other placements you have.
It’s very difficult for us to let go once in love but very important. It is also extremely important you love yourself first. When you always put others first, you get walked on. I was with an Aries sun/Gemini venus ( but cap moon) for 20 years. Believe me it’s a great match. Please walk that way.
Her Saturn is also, Aquarius
Her Jupiter is Leo
But yes, you are correct it is very hard for us to let go once we are in love properly.
The reason I say properly is because I have to be really invested but once I am I will give my heart and soul to that person everything and let myself be treated like dirt and What I find with myself in the past is I have been in relationships where I thought I was in love with someone but really I was not.
I have to feel alive and excited like there's something to catch or chase or going on in order to fuel my interest it sounds bad but I mean it in a good way or maybe I look to much for happiness in someone else rather than within.
Like if the Gem cut out the bullshit then we could live a really good life together as she tells me what she wants is a family unit and to be married etc we have the same goals.
No idea what's the matter with me sometimes but I really fell in love with the Gem.
The Gem would probably commit to you if you stepped up and stopped being a bit of a b**ch (no offence 😂)
It's not about what you do or any promises you make to yourself - it's an internal strength where you accept that you can stand alone and you don't need her or anyone Idk the exact details but the point is it comes from within, it's not about making pledges and staying away and not calling etcclick to expand
None taken however, how do you suppose I should of done that?? Because its easy to say I should of stopped being a bitch and stepped up but in what way or how.
Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Centaur12
The Aries Chart is
Sun - Aries
Moon - Aries
Mercury- Aries RX
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Cancer
My Chart is
Sun - Sag
Moon - Aqua
Mercury - Sag RX
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Sag
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn - Aqua
Go for the Aries!! Stop being friends with the Gemini.. she only cares about herself.
Omg you are Sag aqua like me. Maybe you should go read my thread I hate my aqua moon 😂😂😂😂 I’m also aqua Saturn but none of the other placements you have.
It’s very difficult for us to let go once in love but very important. It is also extremely important you love yourself first. When you always put others first, you get walked on. I was with an Aries sun/Gemini venus ( but cap moon) for 20 years. Believe me it’s a great match. Please walk that way.
Her Saturn is also, Aquarius
Her Jupiter is Leo
But yes, you are correct it is very hard for us to let go once we are in love properly.
The reason I say properly is because I have to be really invested but once I am I will give my heart and soul to that person everything and let myself be treated like dirt and What I find with myself in the past is I have been in relationships where I thought I was in love with someone but really I was not.
I have to feel alive and excited like there's something to catch or chase or going on in order to fuel my interest it sounds bad but I mean it in a good way or maybe I look to much for happiness in someone else rather than within.
Like if the Gem cut out the bullshit then we could live a really good life together as she tells me what she wants is a family unit and to be married etc we have the same goals.
No idea what's the matter with me sometimes but I really fell in love with the Gem.
The Gem would probably commit to you if you stepped up and stopped being a bit of a b**ch (no offence 😂)
It's not about what you do or any promises you make to yourself - it's an internal strength where you accept that you can stand alone and you don't need her or anyone Idk the exact details but the point is it comes from within, it's not about making pledges and staying away and not calling etc
None taken however, how do you suppose I should of done that?? Because its easy to say I should of stopped being a bitch and stepped up but in what way or how.
Well, for example, coming on here so much asking what should I do guys? It's indicative of someone who doesn't trust his own judgement, who can't make decisions for himself etc
It's a fundamental part of you, regardless of the situation with the Gem or Aries, that you are a bit needy, perhaps. I don't know you and I'm not criticising you unduly since we all have our different aspects but what I think is true is that whilst this core neediness (or whatever it actually is) remains within you, then the Gem is always going to mess you about and you're probably going to undervalue and even sabotage any relationship where the woman is open and keen to be with you, like the Aries
If you don't really value yourself that much then your beliefs are confirmed by someone who doesn't treat you well, i.e the Gem and when someone does treat you well (the Aries) you think they must be not worth it since they are willing to put effort in to being with youclick to expand
Yes, but if I show I am no longer needie of the Gem and that is what I have been working on lately then what happens.
It is sad that I cannot value myself I'm not sure how to if I am honest.
And it all makes sense what your saying.
Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Centaur12
The Aries Chart is
Sun - Aries
Moon - Aries
Mercury- Aries RX
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Cancer
My Chart is
Sun - Sag
Moon - Aqua
Mercury - Sag RX
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Sag
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn - Aqua
Go for the Aries!! Stop being friends with the Gemini.. she only cares about herself.
Omg you are Sag aqua like me. Maybe you should go read my thread I hate my aqua moon 😂😂😂😂 I’m also aqua Saturn but none of the other placements you have.
It’s very difficult for us to let go once in love but very important. It is also extremely important you love yourself first. When you always put others first, you get walked on. I was with an Aries sun/Gemini venus ( but cap moon) for 20 years. Believe me it’s a great match. Please walk that way.
Her Saturn is also, Aquarius
Her Jupiter is Leo
But yes, you are correct it is very hard for us to let go once we are in love properly.
The reason I say properly is because I have to be really invested but once I am I will give my heart and soul to that person everything and let myself be treated like dirt and What I find with myself in the past is I have been in relationships where I thought I was in love with someone but really I was not.
I have to feel alive and excited like there's something to catch or chase or going on in order to fuel my interest it sounds bad but I mean it in a good way or maybe I look to much for happiness in someone else rather than within.
Like if the Gem cut out the bullshit then we could live a really good life together as she tells me what she wants is a family unit and to be married etc we have the same goals.
No idea what's the matter with me sometimes but I really fell in love with the Gem.
The Gem would probably commit to you if you stepped up and stopped being a bit of a b**ch (no offence 😂)
It's not about what you do or any promises you make to yourself - it's an internal strength where you accept that you can stand alone and you don't need her or anyone Idk the exact details but the point is it comes from within, it's not about making pledges and staying away and not calling etc
None taken however, how do you suppose I should of done that?? Because its easy to say I should of stopped being a bitch and stepped up but in what way or how.
Well, for example, coming on here so much asking what should I do guys? It's indicative of someone who doesn't trust his own judgement, who can't make decisions for himself etc
It's a fundamental part of you, regardless of the situation with the Gem or Aries, that you are a bit needy, perhaps. I don't know you and I'm not criticising you unduly since we all have our different aspects but what I think is true is that whilst this core neediness (or whatever it actually is) remains within you, then the Gem is always going to mess you about and you're probably going to undervalue and even sabotage any relationship where the woman is open and keen to be with you, like the Aries
If you don't really value yourself that much then your beliefs are confirmed by someone who doesn't treat you well, i.e the Gem and when someone does treat you well (the Aries) you think they must be not worth it since they are willing to put effort in to being with youclick to expand
I have been starting to realise I am worth something and I am trying my best to have self respect if she treats me like dirt but I can't force Gem to want to work it out properly with me the only thing I can do is tell her NO until and if she gets her act together and I feel the same we will see.
Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Centaur12
The Aries Chart is
Sun - Aries
Moon - Aries
Mercury- Aries RX
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Cancer
My Chart is
Sun - Sag
Moon - Aqua
Mercury - Sag RX
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Sag
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn - Aqua
Go for the Aries!! Stop being friends with the Gemini.. she only cares about herself.
Omg you are Sag aqua like me. Maybe you should go read my thread I hate my aqua moon 😂😂😂😂 I’m also aqua Saturn but none of the other placements you have.
It’s very difficult for us to let go once in love but very important. It is also extremely important you love yourself first. When you always put others first, you get walked on. I was with an Aries sun/Gemini venus ( but cap moon) for 20 years. Believe me it’s a great match. Please walk that way.
Her Saturn is also, Aquarius
Her Jupiter is Leo
But yes, you are correct it is very hard for us to let go once we are in love properly.
The reason I say properly is because I have to be really invested but once I am I will give my heart and soul to that person everything and let myself be treated like dirt and What I find with myself in the past is I have been in relationships where I thought I was in love with someone but really I was not.
I have to feel alive and excited like there's something to catch or chase or going on in order to fuel my interest it sounds bad but I mean it in a good way or maybe I look to much for happiness in someone else rather than within.
Like if the Gem cut out the bullshit then we could live a really good life together as she tells me what she wants is a family unit and to be married etc we have the same goals.
No idea what's the matter with me sometimes but I really fell in love with the Gem.
The Gem would probably commit to you if you stepped up and stopped being a bit of a b**ch (no offence 😂)
It's not about what you do or any promises you make to yourself - it's an internal strength where you accept that you can stand alone and you don't need her or anyone Idk the exact details but the point is it comes from within, it's not about making pledges and staying away and not calling etc
None taken however, how do you suppose I should of done that?? Because its easy to say I should of stopped being a bitch and stepped up but in what way or how.
Well, for example, coming on here so much asking what should I do guys? It's indicative of someone who doesn't trust his own judgement, who can't make decisions for himself etc
It's a fundamental part of you, regardless of the situation with the Gem or Aries, that you are a bit needy, perhaps. I don't know you and I'm not criticising you unduly since we all have our different aspects but what I think is true is that whilst this core neediness (or whatever it actually is) remains within you, then the Gem is always going to mess you about and you're probably going to undervalue and even sabotage any relationship where the woman is open and keen to be with you, like the Aries
If you don't really value yourself that much then your beliefs are confirmed by someone who doesn't treat you well, i.e the Gem and when someone does treat you well (the Aries) you think they must be not worth it since they are willing to put effort in to being with you
Yes, but if I show I am no longer needie of the Gem and that is what I have been working on lately then what happens.
It is sad that I cannot value myself I'm not sure how to if I am honest.
And it all makes sense what your saying.
It's not about "showing" it's about truthfully not being that way inside. If she never comes back then she never comes back but you don't have anything to lose anyway.. you have to stop valuing the dysfunctional relationship you have with her, realise it's not worth anything overall and start from there
It's like being a drug addict, it's fun when you're high but overall it has a negative effect on your life. Once you can value yourself and life enough to get clean then you can move on to better, more positive and sustainable things. SOme relationships will survive the process and be stronger and healtheir for it and some won'tclick to expand
I understand but it is easier to say I have nothing to loose when you love someone as obviously you do not want to loose that person for a number of reasons.
I also, understand that I cannt control the outcome and I won't even try to anymore all I can control is what I do I have had to realise that I can only control what I do it's up to others on how they act and what they want to do.
One thing I will say is when the Gem has been struggling and tried to control loads of situations and I told her she can only control what she can and tried to offer her support but this is the reply I have from her ( yeah maybe but that doesn't make it easier the problem is still there after it doesn't make it go away does it !!) And she kinda has a point lol in her logic.
Does it bother me the fact she thinks negative and won't let things go yes, it does it drive me crazy that she can't just calm down.
Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Centaur12
The Aries Chart is
Sun - Aries
Moon - Aries
Mercury- Aries RX
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Cancer
My Chart is
Sun - Sag
Moon - Aqua
Mercury - Sag RX
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Sag
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn - Aqua
Go for the Aries!! Stop being friends with the Gemini.. she only cares about herself.
Omg you are Sag aqua like me. Maybe you should go read my thread I hate my aqua moon 😂😂😂😂 I’m also aqua Saturn but none of the other placements you have.
It’s very difficult for us to let go once in love but very important. It is also extremely important you love yourself first. When you always put others first, you get walked on. I was with an Aries sun/Gemini venus ( but cap moon) for 20 years. Believe me it’s a great match. Please walk that way.
Her Saturn is also, Aquarius
Her Jupiter is Leo
But yes, you are correct it is very hard for us to let go once we are in love properly.
The reason I say properly is because I have to be really invested but once I am I will give my heart and soul to that person everything and let myself be treated like dirt and What I find with myself in the past is I have been in relationships where I thought I was in love with someone but really I was not.
I have to feel alive and excited like there's something to catch or chase or going on in order to fuel my interest it sounds bad but I mean it in a good way or maybe I look to much for happiness in someone else rather than within.
Like if the Gem cut out the bullshit then we could live a really good life together as she tells me what she wants is a family unit and to be married etc we have the same goals.
No idea what's the matter with me sometimes but I really fell in love with the Gem.
The Gem would probably commit to you if you stepped up and stopped being a bit of a b**ch (no offence 😂)
It's not about what you do or any promises you make to yourself - it's an internal strength where you accept that you can stand alone and you don't need her or anyone Idk the exact details but the point is it comes from within, it's not about making pledges and staying away and not calling etc
None taken however, how do you suppose I should of done that?? Because its easy to say I should of stopped being a bitch and stepped up but in what way or how.
Well, for example, coming on here so much asking what should I do guys? It's indicative of someone who doesn't trust his own judgement, who can't make decisions for himself etc
It's a fundamental part of you, regardless of the situation with the Gem or Aries, that you are a bit needy, perhaps. I don't know you and I'm not criticising you unduly since we all have our different aspects but what I think is true is that whilst this core neediness (or whatever it actually is) remains within you, then the Gem is always going to mess you about and you're probably going to undervalue and even sabotage any relationship where the woman is open and keen to be with you, like the Aries
If you don't really value yourself that much then your beliefs are confirmed by someone who doesn't treat you well, i.e the Gem and when someone does treat you well (the Aries) you think they must be not worth it since they are willing to put effort in to being with you
Yes, but if I show I am no longer needie of the Gem and that is what I have been working on lately then what happens.
It is sad that I cannot value myself I'm not sure how to if I am honest.
And it all makes sense what your saying.
It's not about "showing" it's about truthfully not being that way inside. If she never comes back then she never comes back but you don't have anything to lose anyway.. you have to stop valuing the dysfunctional relationship you have with her, realise it's not worth anything overall and start from there
It's like being a drug addict, it's fun when you're high but overall it has a negative effect on your life. Once you can value yourself and life enough to get clean then you can move on to better, more positive and sustainable things. SOme relationships will survive the process and be stronger and healtheir for it and some won'tclick to expand
Truth be told I use to have so much self respect I was never scared of any of this before I met the Gem I thought I was worth everything I do not know how or why I changed to the way I did or how I let someone break me down this way.
Now I am a complete mess and I have no idea how to get myself back to me the person I am deep down the fun loving confident guy full of life etc and if you met me 2 years ago you wouldn't even know me now.
I don't recognise myself the past 2 years I have no idea who I am when I look into the mirror I have become lost and it feels like I have no way of getting back I have lost that part of me and I would do anything to get me back.
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So why waste energy and hold grudges just why waste time on stupid things if deep down you really love the person.
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I can't understand why you'd act that way? you love someone be with them properly if you cant be with them or you don't love them don't be with them there isn't any inbetween and I let this happen for a long time.
For me personally I want to keep the people I love close to me as life is to short and I don't want to waste time or effort on the wrong person I give love and want it in return like anyone else.
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Are you taking your daughter to the football game ?
I said yes
Gem - okay so my daughter has a party on Sunday do you think it will be cheeky of me to ask my daughters dad to take her to the party even though it isn't on his day to have her ?? Well what do you think do you think that's cheeky of me acting all sarcastic and childish ??
This is the difference I met one person (I.e the Aries girl) after the Gem and already I can now see how toxic it was.
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So she stopped talking to me again but I refuse to play these games anymore I told her I wanted a committed relationship with her and no more bullshit about friends and her reply was and you wonder why I don't want to be with you because you are still capable of lying.
She hides me away from her friends and she also took me off of her Facebook around 3months ago lol everytime I tried to call her if she's out with her friends she wouldn't answer.
Or if she was out drinking and was dropped off by her friends she would wait for them to leave her house and call me up to come see her lol.