sweethearts
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I’m sure you’re attractive and when I’m in Bunning’s the attraction factor is low.
Plus he’s just there in his little apron trying to be all handy and he’s seen you a few times.
Plus a lot of men think libra’s are interested when they’re really just flirty and gregarious with most ppl.
Bless his little sausage sizzle.
Plus he’s just there in his little apron trying to be all handy and he’s seen you a few times.
Plus a lot of men think libra’s are interested when they’re really just flirty and gregarious with most ppl.
Bless his little sausage sizzle.
Lol this is like saying "men why do you want to fuck your sister" if they are interested in women closer to their own age.
These men did not come from your vagina, they are not your sons so the mummy comparison is a bit weird. Seems more like a you issue then a them issue.
Next time just have better boundaries and if your feeling uncomfy by a dude who is pursuing you then don't give out personal info. Its that simple.
Also assuming someone who is younger then you can't give you 'something serious and long-term' is just as ridiculous as assuming someone who has a particular sun sign or placement is a cheater.
Fuck boys come in all shapes, sizes, and ages. Plenty of peter pans out there hitting their 60s and 70s. Age is not an indicator of whether someone is looking for a serious relationship or not.
Sad thing is your doing yourself a disservice by assuming things about him based on the superficial, his age.
These men did not come from your vagina, they are not your sons so the mummy comparison is a bit weird. Seems more like a you issue then a them issue.
Next time just have better boundaries and if your feeling uncomfy by a dude who is pursuing you then don't give out personal info. Its that simple.
Also assuming someone who is younger then you can't give you 'something serious and long-term' is just as ridiculous as assuming someone who has a particular sun sign or placement is a cheater.
Fuck boys come in all shapes, sizes, and ages. Plenty of peter pans out there hitting their 60s and 70s. Age is not an indicator of whether someone is looking for a serious relationship or not.
Sad thing is your doing yourself a disservice by assuming things about him based on the superficial, his age.
Maybe you're fated to go on a casual date with him to a family & friends get together of his where you run into your REAL desired manifestation hunk of a man? 😜 And he afterwards ends up sending you a fb friend request because you come up as a suggestion of his after adding this mutual friend youngling? 🤣
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by sweethearts
Why do you want to sleep with your Mumma??
FFS
And I need advice on how I handle this. I have zero interest in anyone that is more than 10 years younger than me. As I get older, I feel I don’t have any more time to be playing around I’ve had my fun and now I am only looking for serious long term.
Now my approach or rather my response probably needs work. I’m Libra and always try to be considerate of others feelings.
Example: A week ago, I was in the local hardware store (Bunnings)which I frequently visit (not anymore.. I’m now going 10ks out of my way to another)
Young guy from my home country I’ve chatted to several times over the years asking for help finding things. He’s always waves out when I’m in (once a month or more frequent if I have a home project happening) haven’t seen him in a while so as he was helping me locate something again, he asks if I’m single and when I said yes asked if I’m on fb… I tried to say Instagram because there’s too much personal info on fb. So feeling put on the spot I give him my fb name. He adds me right there and then… I didn’t pull out my phone and didn’t excepted it or open it.. today I get notification he’s trying to message me 🤦🏼♀️ now I can never go back to that store again 😂
I’ve said before in other circumstances, you’re too young. There’s always a come back.
Is the best approach to lie and say, I have someone? I’ve said it before to a friend of a friend but I’m not good handling lies.
Am I manifesting all wrong?
The stupid tarot cards always say keep your mind open but seriously, I have no interest in entertaining anyone I feel is too young.
"I've had my fun."
Yikes. How many?click to expand
I’m sure it’s none of your business.
No means no, it’s really that simple.
There is a guy at the grocery store same issue, 10 years younger & I finally had to just smile and walk away not really paying attention. How many times do I have to say no before you get it? Not paying attention works better… I refuse to go to another store.
There is a guy at the grocery store same issue, 10 years younger & I finally had to just smile and walk away not really paying attention. How many times do I have to say no before you get it? Not paying attention works better… I refuse to go to another store.
Just think of all the free teaspoons, pegs and tools you could get
😀😂🥄🔨
😀😂🥄🔨
I had two ltr’s with younger men ... they can be great sexually and fun but not sure if I’d go there again. Most men don’t mature until they’re in their 80s lol and I’m not into old men, so.....
Posted by LadyNeptune
Lol this is like saying "men why do you want to fuck your sister" if they are interested in women closer to their own age.
These men did not come from your vagina, they are not your sons so the mummy comparison is a bit weird. Seems more like a you issue then a them issue.
Next time just have better boundaries and if your feeling uncomfy by a dude who is pursuing you then don't give out personal info. Its that simple.
Also assuming someone who is younger then you can't give you 'something serious and long-term' is just as ridiculous as assuming someone who has a particular sun sign or placement is a cheater.
Fuck boys come in all shapes, sizes, and ages. Plenty of peter pans out there hitting their 60s and 70s. Age is not an indicator of whether someone is looking for a serious relationship or not.
Sad thing is your doing yourself a disservice by assuming things about him based on the superficial, his age.
Been there done that 8 years ago. It’s taught me something about myself and what I do and don’t want. What in the beginning might seem attractive, fizzles fast. The age and maturity levels IMO 10-20 years is too big a gap. I’m not doing myself a disservice at all, I’m being true to myself and I’m not prepared to give weeks or months learning the same lesson. My prerogative!
Posted by SassyKiwi
Maybe you're fated to go on a casual date with him to a family & friends get together of his where you run into your REAL desired manifestation hunk of a man? 😜 And he afterwards ends up sending you a fb friend request because you come up as a suggestion of his after adding this mutual friend youngling? 🤣
Maybe it’s his daddy I’m destined to be with 🤔
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by sweethearts
Why do you want to sleep with your Mumma??
FFS
And I need advice on how I handle this. I have zero interest in anyone that is more than 10 years younger than me. As I get older, I feel I don’t have any more time to be playing around I’ve had my fun and now I am only looking for serious long term.
Now my approach or rather my response probably needs work. I’m Libra and always try to be considerate of others feelings.
Example: A week ago, I was in the local hardware store (Bunnings)which I frequently visit (not anymore.. I’m now going 10ks out of my way to another)
Young guy from my home country I’ve chatted to several times over the years asking for help finding things. He’s always waves out when I’m in (once a month or more frequent if I have a home project happening) haven’t seen him in a while so as he was helping me locate something again, he asks if I’m single and when I said yes asked if I’m on fb… I tried to say Instagram because there’s too much personal info on fb. So feeling put on the spot I give him my fb name. He adds me right there and then… I didn’t pull out my phone and didn’t excepted it or open it.. today I get notification he’s trying to message me 🤦🏼♀️ now I can never go back to that store again 😂
I’ve said before in other circumstances, you’re too young. There’s always a come back.
Is the best approach to lie and say, I have someone? I’ve said it before to a friend of a friend but I’m not good handling lies.
Am I manifesting all wrong?
The stupid tarot cards always say keep your mind open but seriously, I have no interest in entertaining anyone I feel is too young.
"I've had my fun."
Yikes. How many?click to expand
Enough to learn what I know now
Posted by PuzzlePieces
No means no, it’s really that simple.
There is a guy at the grocery store same issue, 10 years younger & I finally had to just smile and walk away not really paying attention. How many times do I have to say no before you get it? Not paying attention works better… I refuse to go to another store.
I never expected him to come out and ask, I actually thought he was married with kids. I should have just said something along the lines that I’m not interested but all I got was, are you single and do you have fb. Didn’t think fast enough :/
Posted by Wizardz
He probably finds you attractive...relax in 20 years time you won't get the attention and be wishing you did 😁
I’ve resigned myself to the fact that if I don’t find what I’m looking for, I’m happy enough on my own. Having numerous friends, I’m never alone.. but sometimes I can be lonely. 🤷♀️
He’s messaged me after waiting a week. I haven’t excepted his friend request and I haven’t opened the message as it’s sitting in no man’s land because we aren’t friends.
It’s going to bug the crap out of me though because I have that little number 1 telling me I haven’t opened a message. (not ocd except for this) I need to get rid of that number 😂🤪
What do you suggest I do?
It’s going to bug the crap out of me though because I have that little number 1 telling me I haven’t opened a message. (not ocd except for this) I need to get rid of that number 😂🤪
What do you suggest I do?
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by sweetheartsPosted by LadyNeptune
Lol this is like saying "men why do you want to fuck your sister" if they are interested in women closer to their own age.
These men did not come from your vagina, they are not your sons so the mummy comparison is a bit weird. Seems more like a you issue then a them issue.
Next time just have better boundaries and if your feeling uncomfy by a dude who is pursuing you then don't give out personal info. Its that simple.
Also assuming someone who is younger then you can't give you 'something serious and long-term' is just as ridiculous as assuming someone who has a particular sun sign or placement is a cheater.
Fuck boys come in all shapes, sizes, and ages. Plenty of peter pans out there hitting their 60s and 70s. Age is not an indicator of whether someone is looking for a serious relationship or not.
Sad thing is your doing yourself a disservice by assuming things about him based on the superficial, his age.
Been there done that 8 years ago. It’s taught me something about myself and what I do and don’t want. What in the beginning might seem attractive, fizzles fast. The age and maturity levels IMO 10-20 years is too big a gap. I’m not doing myself a disservice at all, I’m being true to myself and I’m not prepared to give weeks or months learning the same lesson. My prerogative!
If a man dates with this age gap, he is deemed a pedo by older women. Clown world.click to expand
Not these days. Where have you been living the last few years. Nothing is frowned upon. People don’t have sexes anymore ..
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by sweetheartsPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by sweethearts
Why do you want to sleep with your Mumma??
FFS
And I need advice on how I handle this. I have zero interest in anyone that is more than 10 years younger than me. As I get older, I feel I don’t have any more time to be playing around I’ve had my fun and now I am only looking for serious long term.
Now my approach or rather my response probably needs work. I’m Libra and always try to be considerate of others feelings.
Example: A week ago, I was in the local hardware store (Bunnings)which I frequently visit (not anymore.. I’m now going 10ks out of my way to another)
Young guy from my home country I’ve chatted to several times over the years asking for help finding things. He’s always waves out when I’m in (once a month or more frequent if I have a home project happening) haven’t seen him in a while so as he was helping me locate something again, he asks if I’m single and when I said yes asked if I’m on fb… I tried to say Instagram because there’s too much personal info on fb. So feeling put on the spot I give him my fb name. He adds me right there and then… I didn’t pull out my phone and didn’t excepted it or open it.. today I get notification he’s trying to message me 🤦🏼♀️ now I can never go back to that store again 😂
I’ve said before in other circumstances, you’re too young. There’s always a come back.
Is the best approach to lie and say, I have someone? I’ve said it before to a friend of a friend but I’m not good handling lies.
Am I manifesting all wrong?
The stupid tarot cards always say keep your mind open but seriously, I have no interest in entertaining anyone I feel is too young.
"I've had my fun."
Yikes. How many?
Enough to learn what I know now
You don't deserve to wear white on your wedding day.click to expand
I got married in s as registries office with my ex so I’ll be wearing white for sure if I ever walk down an isle for real. Chances are it’ll be a beach wedding. Not that I’ve given it any thought before!
Posted by WizardzPosted by sweetheartsPosted by Wizardz
He probably finds you attractive...relax in 20 years time you won't get the attention and be wishing you did 😁
I’ve resigned myself to the fact that if I don’t find what I’m looking for, I’m happy enough on my own. Having numerous friends, I’m never alone.. but sometimes I can be lonely. 🤷♀️
Out of interest.. what's your moon and rising?click to expand
Haha Leo moon 😄 Taurus rising 😉
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by sweetheartsPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by sweetheartsPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by sweethearts
Why do you want to sleep with your Mumma??
FFS
And I need advice on how I handle this. I have zero interest in anyone that is more than 10 years younger than me. As I get older, I feel I don’t have any more time to be playing around I’ve had my fun and now I am only looking for serious long term.
Now my approach or rather my response probably needs work. I’m Libra and always try to be considerate of others feelings.
Example: A week ago, I was in the local hardware store (Bunnings)which I frequently visit (not anymore.. I’m now going 10ks out of my way to another)
Young guy from my home country I’ve chatted to several times over the years asking for help finding things. He’s always waves out when I’m in (once a month or more frequent if I have a home project happening) haven’t seen him in a while so as he was helping me locate something again, he asks if I’m single and when I said yes asked if I’m on fb… I tried to say Instagram because there’s too much personal info on fb. So feeling put on the spot I give him my fb name. He adds me right there and then… I didn’t pull out my phone and didn’t excepted it or open it.. today I get notification he’s trying to message me 🤦🏼♀️ now I can never go back to that store again 😂
I’ve said before in other circumstances, you’re too young. There’s always a come back.
Is the best approach to lie and say, I have someone? I’ve said it before to a friend of a friend but I’m not good handling lies.
Am I manifesting all wrong?
The stupid tarot cards always say keep your mind open but seriously, I have no interest in entertaining anyone I feel is too young.
"I've had my fun."
Yikes. How many?
Enough to learn what I know now
You don't deserve to wear white on your wedding day.
I got married in s as registries office with my ex so I’ll be wearing white for sure if I ever walk down an isle for real. Chances are it’ll be a beach wedding. Not that I’ve given it any thought before!
That man is an idiot.
Why buy some old ass cow for top price - if other men got it for free when you were younger? Makes zero sense.click to expand
Perhaps you can go have a talk to him for me then.
Problem solved
Posted by WizardzPosted by sweethearts
He’s messaged me after waiting a week. I haven’t excepted his friend request and I haven’t opened the message as it’s sitting in no man’s land because we aren’t friends.
It’s going to bug the crap out of me though because I have that little number 1 telling me I haven’t opened a message. (not ocd except for this) I need to get rid of that number 😂🤪
What do you suggest I do?
😂😂 that's funny. I don't know. I would leave it hanging unspoken between you. Any reply or accepting his request is only going to encourage him. Can't you delete the message or mark it read?click to expand
I’d have to open it to delete and then he’ll see it’s read 😂
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by sweethearts
Why do you want to sleep with your Mumma??
FFS
And I need advice on how I handle this. I have zero interest in anyone that is more than 10 years younger than me. As I get older, I feel I don’t have any more time to be playing around I’ve had my fun and now I am only looking for serious long term.
Now my approach or rather my response probably needs work. I’m Libra and always try to be considerate of others feelings.
Example: A week ago, I was in the local hardware store (Bunnings)which I frequently visit (not anymore.. I’m now going 10ks out of my way to another)
Young guy from my home country I’ve chatted to several times over the years asking for help finding things. He’s always waves out when I’m in (once a month or more frequent if I have a home project happening) haven’t seen him in a while so as he was helping me locate something again, he asks if I’m single and when I said yes asked if I’m on fb… I tried to say Instagram because there’s too much personal info on fb. So feeling put on the spot I give him my fb name. He adds me right there and then… I didn’t pull out my phone and didn’t excepted it or open it.. today I get notification he’s trying to message me 🤦🏼♀️ now I can never go back to that store again 😂
I’ve said before in other circumstances, you’re too young. There’s always a come back.
Is the best approach to lie and say, I have someone? I’ve said it before to a friend of a friend but I’m not good handling lies.
Am I manifesting all wrong?
The stupid tarot cards always say keep your mind open but seriously, I have no interest in entertaining anyone I feel is too young.
"I've had my fun."
Yikes. How many?
"I've had my fun!"
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Awww you’ve been burned… can’t figure out whether your old and been left on the shelf… has mummy issues yourself or just plain bitter. But I’ll give it 10 seconds thought of pity for you and then I’ll move along. Bye Felicia 👋
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by sweethearts
Why do you want to sleep with your Mumma??
FFS
And I need advice on how I handle this. I have zero interest in anyone that is more than 10 years younger than me. As I get older, I feel I don’t have any more time to be playing around I’ve had my fun and now I am only looking for serious long term.
Now my approach or rather my response probably needs work. I’m Libra and always try to be considerate of others feelings.
Example: A week ago, I was in the local hardware store (Bunnings)which I frequently visit (not anymore.. I’m now going 10ks out of my way to another)
Young guy from my home country I’ve chatted to several times over the years asking for help finding things. He’s always waves out when I’m in (once a month or more frequent if I have a home project happening) haven’t seen him in a while so as he was helping me locate something again, he asks if I’m single and when I said yes asked if I’m on fb… I tried to say Instagram because there’s too much personal info on fb. So feeling put on the spot I give him my fb name. He adds me right there and then… I didn’t pull out my phone and didn’t excepted it or open it.. today I get notification he’s trying to message me 🤦🏼♀️ now I can never go back to that store again 😂
I’ve said before in other circumstances, you’re too young. There’s always a come back.
Is the best approach to lie and say, I have someone? I’ve said it before to a friend of a friend but I’m not good handling lies.
Am I manifesting all wrong?
The stupid tarot cards always say keep your mind open but seriously, I have no interest in entertaining anyone I feel is too young.
"I've had my fun."
Yikes. How many?
"I've had my fun!"
Awww you’ve been burned… can’t figure out whether your old and been left on the shelf… has mummy issues yourself or just plain bitter. But I’ll give it 10 seconds thought of pity for you and then I’ll move along. Bye Felicia 👋click to expand
He had a pisces gf and she went overseas and came back with a bruise on her leg so he assumed she’s cheating. It was a gold star thread some years ago. He only likes virgins and teens.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Sad thing is your doing yourself a disservice by assuming things about him based on the superficial, his age.
Okay, so you don't care about "superficial" things like age, why aren't you dating a 10-year old?
It's ludicrous to ignore the influence of life experience, stages of emotional maturity and acquired wisdom. Those can only come with a capacity for self-reflexion and TIME.
Posted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by sweetheartsPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by sweethearts
Why do you want to sleep with your Mumma??
FFS
And I need advice on how I handle this. I have zero interest in anyone that is more than 10 years younger than me. As I get older, I feel I don’t have any more time to be playing around I’ve had my fun and now I am only looking for serious long term.
Now my approach or rather my response probably needs work. I’m Libra and always try to be considerate of others feelings.
Example: A week ago, I was in the local hardware store (Bunnings)which I frequently visit (not anymore.. I’m now going 10ks out of my way to another)
Young guy from my home country I’ve chatted to several times over the years asking for help finding things. He’s always waves out when I’m in (once a month or more frequent if I have a home project happening) haven’t seen him in a while so as he was helping me locate something again, he asks if I’m single and when I said yes asked if I’m on fb… I tried to say Instagram because there’s too much personal info on fb. So feeling put on the spot I give him my fb name. He adds me right there and then… I didn’t pull out my phone and didn’t excepted it or open it.. today I get notification he’s trying to message me 🤦🏼♀️ now I can never go back to that store again 😂
I’ve said before in other circumstances, you’re too young. There’s always a come back.
Is the best approach to lie and say, I have someone? I’ve said it before to a friend of a friend but I’m not good handling lies.
Am I manifesting all wrong?
The stupid tarot cards always say keep your mind open but seriously, I have no interest in entertaining anyone I feel is too young.
"I've had my fun."
Yikes. How many?
"I've had my fun!"
Awww you’ve been burned… can’t figure out whether your old and been left on the shelf… has mummy issues yourself or just plain bitter. But I’ll give it 10 seconds thought of pity for you and then I’ll move along. Bye Felicia 👋
He had a pisces gf and she went overseas and came back with a bruise on her leg so he assumed she’s cheating. It was a gold star thread some years ago. He only likes virgins and teens.click to expand
Oh so he was burned.. she was out “having her fun” that was what made him see red in my whole post.
The insecurities of the young… not saying that as we get older that we don’t have insecurities but we learn not to sweat the small stuff.
From what I have been able to perceive and gather about sweetheart's personality over many years of DXP-interactions is that to me, she carries this youthful and kind of child-like energy and enthusiasm, which to me is the best way to live life. It's obvious then that she would attract "younger" people.
Having said that, I think in general Libra's do need to learn to say "no" more often in all kinds of situations, once they've mastered this, their energy will change and then they will start attracting more of what/who they really need in their lives.
Having said that, I think in general Libra's do need to learn to say "no" more often in all kinds of situations, once they've mastered this, their energy will change and then they will start attracting more of what/who they really need in their lives.
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
From what I have been able to perceive and gather about sweetheart's personality over many years of DXP-interactions is that to me, she carries this youthful and kind of child-like energy and enthusiasm, which to me is the best way to live life. It's obvious then that she would attract "younger" people.
Having said that, I think in general Libra's do need to learn to say "no" more often in all kinds of situations, once they've mastered this, their energy will change and then they will start attracting more of what/who they really need in their lives.
I’d make an exception to my rule with you Shaks 😉
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by BoomShakalakaBoom
From what I have been able to perceive and gather about sweetheart's personality over many years of DXP-interactions is that to me, she carries this youthful and kind of child-like energy and enthusiasm, which to me is the best way to live life. It's obvious then that she would attract "younger" people.
Having said that, I think in general Libra's do need to learn to say "no" more often in all kinds of situations, once they've mastered this, their energy will change and then they will start attracting more of what/who they really need in their lives.
I’d make an exception to my rule with you Shaks 😉click to expand
Haha 😄
Posted by Purplesky
^^ or inversely there's someone here on dxp who the op is jealous of so she created a thread to assert some sort of dominance. I don't like it and it's Hella childish. Just my two cents. Don't take offense, it's just what I'm reading. Good luck though I'm sure you got it all figured out!!!!
But you sound jealous.
Wtf
Guys don't always know your age. I was mistaken for a tall skeletal baby when I was 15 years old, and I still do now in my early thirties.
Unless you look your age, or older, they probably don't even know they're hitting on someone older.
Unless you look your age, or older, they probably don't even know they're hitting on someone older.
Posted by Ixi
...most dudes whose balls've dropped aren't looking at older women as their momma I assure you lol.
True...they really aren’t 😀
Posted by DopeFly
Guys don't always know your age. I was mistaken for a tall skeletal baby when I was 15 years old, and I still do now in my early thirties.
Unless you look your age, or older, they probably don't even know they're hitting on someone older.
You’re right, they don’t and when I tell them, from my experience it’s generally the same response. I make it a statement and they come back with an argument or debate?
Posted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by Purplesky
^^ or inversely there's someone here on dxp who the op is jealous of so she created a thread to assert some sort of dominance. I don't like it and it's Hella childish. Just my two cents. Don't take offense, it's just what I'm reading. Good luck though I'm sure you got it all figured out!!!!
But you sound jealous.
Wtfclick to expand
Just an immature keyboard warrior trying to incite a response… 🙄
Stop worrying about age and let the man pursue you!!!
Posted by AbbyNormal
Stop worrying about age and let the man pursue you!!!
If a man is closer to your kids age than yours… is it a man or a kid 😆
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptune
Sad thing is your doing yourself a disservice by assuming things about him based on the superficial, his age.
Okay, so you don't care about "superficial" things like age, why aren't you dating a 10-year old?
It's ludicrous to ignore the influence of life experience, stages of emotional maturity and acquired wisdom. Those can only come with a capacity for self-reflexion and TIME.click to expand
Because I'm not a pedophile. What kinda self-report is this
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by LadyNeptune
Lol this is like saying "men why do you want to fuck your sister" if they are interested in women closer to their own age.
These men did not come from your vagina, they are not your sons so the mummy comparison is a bit weird. Seems more like a you issue then a them issue.
Next time just have better boundaries and if your feeling uncomfy by a dude who is pursuing you then don't give out personal info. Its that simple.
Also assuming someone who is younger then you can't give you 'something serious and long-term' is just as ridiculous as assuming someone who has a particular sun sign or placement is a cheater.
Fuck boys come in all shapes, sizes, and ages. Plenty of peter pans out there hitting their 60s and 70s. Age is not an indicator of whether someone is looking for a serious relationship or not.
Sad thing is your doing yourself a disservice by assuming things about him based on the superficial, his age.
Been there done that 8 years ago. It’s taught me something about myself and what I do and don’t want. What in the beginning might seem attractive, fizzles fast. The age and maturity levels IMO 10-20 years is too big a gap. I’m not doing myself a disservice at all, I’m being true to myself and I’m not prepared to give weeks or months learning the same lesson. My prerogative!click to expand
Absolutely. You are entitled to be all, guys younger then me aren't my cup of tea.
However you framed this as, there must be something wrong with him that he thinks me... an older woman... is attractive. Why do you want to fuck your mom!?
A bit problematic imo. Own your preferences. Don't shame and accuse others for theirs.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptune
Sad thing is your doing yourself a disservice by assuming things about him based on the superficial, his age.
Okay, so you don't care about "superficial" things like age, why aren't you dating a 10-year old?
It's ludicrous to ignore the influence of life experience, stages of emotional maturity and acquired wisdom. Those can only come with a capacity for self-reflexion and TIME.
Because I'm not a pedophile. What kinda self-report is thisclick to expand
Apparently you aren't smart enough to realize that I didn't literally mean you should date a 10-year old.
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptune
Sad thing is your doing yourself a disservice by assuming things about him based on the superficial, his age.
Okay, so you don't care about "superficial" things like age, why aren't you dating a 10-year old?
It's ludicrous to ignore the influence of life experience, stages of emotional maturity and acquired wisdom. Those can only come with a capacity for self-reflexion and TIME.
Because I'm not a pedophile. What kinda self-report is this
Apparently you aren't smart enough to realize that I didn't literally mean you should date a 10-year old.click to expand
I'm dating someone younger then me, yes. If you wanted to know that you could've just asked instead of bringing children into it...weirdo
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptune
Sad thing is your doing yourself a disservice by assuming things about him based on the superficial, his age.
Okay, so you don't care about "superficial" things like age, why aren't you dating a 10-year old?
It's ludicrous to ignore the influence of life experience, stages of emotional maturity and acquired wisdom. Those can only come with a capacity for self-reflexion and TIME.
Because I'm not a pedophile. What kinda self-report is this
Apparently you aren't smart enough to realize that I didn't literally mean you should date a 10-year old.
I'm dating someone younger then me, yes. If you wanted to know that you could've just asked instead of bringing children into it...weirdoclick to expand
To be honest, I find it WEIRD when people categorically claim age difference is not an important aspect to consider when choosing to date someone or not. I suppose it would be convenient for you to be against questioning this, as in your case there is an (I suppose) important age-gap in your relationship.
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptune
Sad thing is your doing yourself a disservice by assuming things about him based on the superficial, his age.
Okay, so you don't care about "superficial" things like age, why aren't you dating a 10-year old?
It's ludicrous to ignore the influence of life experience, stages of emotional maturity and acquired wisdom. Those can only come with a capacity for self-reflexion and TIME.
Because I'm not a pedophile. What kinda self-report is this
Apparently you aren't smart enough to realize that I didn't literally mean you should date a 10-year old.
I'm dating someone younger then me, yes. If you wanted to know that you could've just asked instead of bringing children into it...weirdo
To be honest, I find it WEIRD when people categorically claim age difference is not an important aspect to consider when choosing to date someone or not. I suppose it would be convenient for you to be against questioning this, as in your case there is an (I suppose) important age-gap in your relationship.click to expand
To each their own. I find it weird for you to bring up dating a child, as a joke? making a point? idk, that's really bizarre and just icky.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptune
Sad thing is your doing yourself a disservice by assuming things about him based on the superficial, his age.
Okay, so you don't care about "superficial" things like age, why aren't you dating a 10-year old?
It's ludicrous to ignore the influence of life experience, stages of emotional maturity and acquired wisdom. Those can only come with a capacity for self-reflexion and TIME.
Because I'm not a pedophile. What kinda self-report is this
Apparently you aren't smart enough to realize that I didn't literally mean you should date a 10-year old.
I'm dating someone younger then me, yes. If you wanted to know that you could've just asked instead of bringing children into it...weirdo
To be honest, I find it WEIRD when people categorically claim age difference is not an important aspect to consider when choosing to date someone or not. I suppose it would be convenient for you to be against questioning this, as in your case there is an (I suppose) important age-gap in your relationship.
To each their own. I find it weird for you to bring up dating a child, as a joke? making a point? idk, that's really bizarre and just icky.click to expand
You keep proving my point that you aren't smart enough to understand what I was trying to convey, so have a good day!
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptune
Sad thing is your doing yourself a disservice by assuming things about him based on the superficial, his age.
Okay, so you don't care about "superficial" things like age, why aren't you dating a 10-year old?
It's ludicrous to ignore the influence of life experience, stages of emotional maturity and acquired wisdom. Those can only come with a capacity for self-reflexion and TIME.
Because I'm not a pedophile. What kinda self-report is this
Apparently you aren't smart enough to realize that I didn't literally mean you should date a 10-year old.
I'm dating someone younger then me, yes. If you wanted to know that you could've just asked instead of bringing children into it...weirdo
To be honest, I find it WEIRD when people categorically claim age difference is not an important aspect to consider when choosing to date someone or not. I suppose it would be convenient for you to be against questioning this, as in your case there is an (I suppose) important age-gap in your relationship.
To each their own. I find it weird for you to bring up dating a child, as a joke? making a point? idk, that's really bizarre and just icky.
You keep proving my point that you aren't smart enough to understand what I was trying to convey, so have a good day!click to expand
Explain yourself then.
Any intelligent person knows that making pedophilic references is inappropriate no matter the circumstances.
Young guys as friends are nice. I used to date young guys. They are more open minded then older guys who are stuck in their ways and they are more adventurous.
I can’t take them seriously enough unless they would be established.
Budding careers make me feel like I’m robbing them of the life they are supposed to live, so I won’t entertain the idea of a relationship.
But I do enjoy the friendship and company.
If you don’t like a guy, don’t give out your number. No use in doing it, if you won’t go out with him.
And when a young guy says “older women know what they want” they mean they can have sex with little resistance, since older women usually don’t have lots of hang ups or rules about sex.
I can’t take them seriously enough unless they would be established.
Budding careers make me feel like I’m robbing them of the life they are supposed to live, so I won’t entertain the idea of a relationship.
But I do enjoy the friendship and company.
If you don’t like a guy, don’t give out your number. No use in doing it, if you won’t go out with him.
And when a young guy says “older women know what they want” they mean they can have sex with little resistance, since older women usually don’t have lots of hang ups or rules about sex.
I think the younger man wanting to shag his mum because he prefers older women is such a generalization
Men of all ages want a “mummy” figure to look after them. Its not age related ... its down to how needy or mature the man is
The younger men I’ve been with say it’s because older women are sexier, more confident, calmer and self assured.
Men of all ages want a “mummy” figure to look after them. Its not age related ... its down to how needy or mature the man is
The younger men I’ve been with say it’s because older women are sexier, more confident, calmer and self assured.
In my 30"s, the only men I attracted were younger and older...by 10 years... older by 10-15 years. I thought I figured it out... Men in their 30's were married, right? Older men divorced, single...but no. The older men had no kids, never married.
Although married again... and now in my late 40's, it's still the same 10 - 20 years younger and 10 years older. Young men are super aggressive though and they scare me a little now.
When single, I just let it flow...what the matter... it was what it was... the same as attracting mostly white men. It was all a point of self refection. No outer judgment on others... No generalizations. I was analyzing myself...society etc. wondering about trends...
I just accepted what the universe was giving me hoping, as usual, that it knew best.
No answers to this day.
Although married again... and now in my late 40's, it's still the same 10 - 20 years younger and 10 years older. Young men are super aggressive though and they scare me a little now.
When single, I just let it flow...what the matter... it was what it was... the same as attracting mostly white men. It was all a point of self refection. No outer judgment on others... No generalizations. I was analyzing myself...society etc. wondering about trends...
I just accepted what the universe was giving me hoping, as usual, that it knew best.
No answers to this day.
I was out one night at a gig ... three young guys sat at my table and begin to flirt with me and i asks why are they coming onto me when there’s a lot of gorgeous younger women in the room. One of them said “they’re boring and you’re very mysterious and confident”
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I was out one night at a gig ... three young guys sat at my table and begin to flirt with me and i asks why are they coming onto me when there’s a lot of gorgeous younger women in the room. One of them said “they’re boring and you’re very mysterious and confident”
Alright now Star wit yo bad self LMAO. Tell'em girl, lol.
Men certainly don't seem to have a problem with dating younger.
Posted by Saul_of_Tarsus
Just say "I'm flattered but I have no interest being anything other than an acquaintance with you. I hope you respect that decision."
Although I doubt this is the problem....
I probably didn’t explain myself properly, the OP was just an example.. but this ^^^
Being more direct and to the point rather than thinking too much about not trying to hurt someone else’s feelings, as it clearly doesn’t work. They do always come back with answers and flattery like it’s a debate when you’ve made a statement though. I’m going to open the message and answer it.
Tbh, I really like going to that store, I’m always fixing up something and it’s conveniently close 😂
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by MyStarsShine
I was out one night at a gig ... three young guys sat at my table and begin to flirt with me and i asks why are they coming onto me when there’s a lot of gorgeous younger women in the room. One of them said “they’re boring and you’re very mysterious and confident”
Alright now Star wit yo bad self LMAO. Tell'em girl, lol.click to expand
Lol Venus
😛
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by LadyNeptune
Sad thing is your doing yourself a disservice by assuming things about him based on the superficial, his age.
Okay, so you don't care about "superficial" things like age, why aren't you dating a 10-year old?
It's ludicrous to ignore the influence of life experience, stages of emotional maturity and acquired wisdom. Those can only come with a capacity for self-reflexion and TIME.
Because I'm not a pedophile. What kinda self-report is this
Apparently you aren't smart enough to realize that I didn't literally mean you should date a 10-year old.
I'm dating someone younger then me, yes. If you wanted to know that you could've just asked instead of bringing children into it...weirdo
To be honest, I find it WEIRD when people categorically claim age difference is not an important aspect to consider when choosing to date someone or not. I suppose it would be convenient for you to be against questioning this, as in your case there is an (I suppose) important age-gap in your relationship.
To each their own. I find it weird for you to bring up dating a child, as a joke? making a point? idk, that's really bizarre and just icky.
You keep proving my point that you aren't smart enough to understand what I was trying to convey, so have a good day!click to expand
To be honnest i don't think it's a question of age but of maturity you can find someone way too older but still childish at heart and the opposite ,I don't want to judge but sometimes age dosen't change anything if you are a guy who dosen'ts have so much experience in general
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