We got a new Virgo dude at work. Everyone is swooning. Tell me about them!

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Not a fan.

Dad and 2 brothers, ex-boss, as far as the men go.

If I didn't love my dad and one brother to death, they would drive me to drink. The other brother is fine when he isn't dismissive af. Ex boss was fine on a personal level but was an uber micromanager and seemed to think women were only good for menial labor, not an equal. Even Mr Aqua (virgo rising) has a tendency to expect me to do the "women's work".

Maybe not a Virgo trait but just from my few experiences, personal virgo placements in men seem to lend themselves to chauvinistic traits.

*waits for the pummeling
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Most Virgo guys have that tall dark and handsome vibe going on.
Yep, women were always on about my dad (he *was* extremely good looking when he was young), and my brothers always had girls after them.

@starwars

The neat freak thing is real. Don't front.

Example: my dad always felt uncomfortable being seated at a table if he saw the previous diners eating at the table he was being seated at. Even after it was cleaned by the staff. Sometimes he'd ask for a different table. He said it made him feel dirty.

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They are picky.

Extremely loyal.

Be yourself with them or they make you pay.

Love to be useful/to help.

Dependable.

Don't like fake stuff. Like simplicity.

Clean / Messy confliction. Take that as you may.

Love to be surrounded and bring close those they love.

Sharp- ass tongue.
Really? Loyal? Loved ones? Do you habe a celebrity example in whom l might.."see" that trait?
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Yes they're good to look at but nothing more for me, I actually had to quit a job because of a Virgo boss that was unable to hide his attraction for me and it caused lots of issues with the other women in the department. They accused him of showing me favoritism over the others although he was actually having a sexual relationship with one of the women in the department and yes he was married. I guess the gal that was having sex with him was afraid I was going to replace her but little did she know I'm not the type that's dumb enough to think a married man desiring you is a compliment.

I dated one Virgo and his ex dumped him because he cheated so I consider Virgo men not man enough for me but it's always great conversing with them as we tend to have a brother/sister vibe going on. They are very attractive though, you gotta give them that.
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They are picky.

Extremely loyal.

Be yourself with them or they make you pay.

Love to be useful/to help.

Dependable.

Don't like fake stuff. Like simplicity.

Clean / Messy confliction. Take that as you may.

Love to be surrounded and bring close those they love.

Sharp- ass tongue.
Really? Loyal? Loved ones? Do you habe a celebrity example in whom l might.."see" that trait?
What is your definition of loyalty?

I don't use celebrities for examples when it comes to serious life responses.

Virgos in my life won't ever admit they made a mistake verbally but they sure as heck will indept themselves to ya for it. Some of the only types that I know who will actually show action. Yeah for sure it can be rough with them though.

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Well l usually match traits to celebrities, i can't help it, l've analysed thousandsof them. And when l learn of a new placement and its effects l think of celebs l know have that trait, or l do reasearch, so see if it seems to apply too.

And these friends of yours, do they have other stuff like leo, cancer, taurus, aries...? Not saying l dont believe you. It all comes down to each case, and to the details.
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They are picky.

Extremely loyal.

Be yourself with them or they make you pay.

Love to be useful/to help.

Dependable.

Don't like fake stuff. Like simplicity.

Clean / Messy confliction. Take that as you may.

Love to be surrounded and bring close those they love.

Sharp- ass tongue.
Really? Loyal? Loved ones? Do you habe a celebrity example in whom l might.."see" that trait?
What is your definition of loyalty?

I don't use celebrities for examples when it comes to serious life responses.

Virgos in my life won't ever admit they made a mistake verbally but they sure as heck will indept themselves to ya for it. Some of the only types that I know who will actually show action. Yeah for sure it can be rough with them though.


Well l usually match traits to celebrities, i can't help it, l've analysed thousandsof them. And when l learn of a new placement and its effects l think of celebs l know have that trait, or l do reasearch, so see if it seems to apply too.

And these friends of yours, do they have other stuff like leo, cancer, taurus, aries...? Not saying l dont believe you. It all comes down to each case, and to the details.
I do see what you're saying.

Everyone does have a different way of looking at things.

Maybe you could ask the op the traits to compare- as that is not my thing. 🙂

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You mean the op knows more about your friends than you do?
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Virgos appreciate Cancer stability as they progress in life.
Those two words together? Yeah they don't make sense.

Cancers can't achieve stability for themselves, let alone others.

What sells us it the looney humor and the caring/nurturing thing. They have such sparkling carefree humor and they do pour their crabby hearts.

But stable is not a word I would pick for any Cancer placement.

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They are picky.

Extremely loyal.

Be yourself with them or they make you pay.

Love to be useful/to help.

Dependable.

Don't like fake stuff. Like simplicity.

Clean / Messy confliction. Take that as you may.

Love to be surrounded and bring close those they love.

Sharp- ass tongue.
Really? Loyal? Loved ones? Do you habe a celebrity example in whom l might.."see" that trait?
What is your definition of loyalty?

I don't use celebrities for examples when it comes to serious life responses.

Virgos in my life won't ever admit they made a mistake verbally but they sure as heck will indept themselves to ya for it. Some of the only types that I know who will actually show action. Yeah for sure it can be rough with them though.


Well l usually match traits to celebrities, i can't help it, l've analysed thousandsof them. And when l learn of a new placement and its effects l think of celebs l know have that trait, or l do reasearch, so see if it seems to apply too.

And these friends of yours, do they have other stuff like leo, cancer, taurus, aries...? Not saying l dont believe you. It all comes down to each case, and to the details.
I do see what you're saying.

Everyone does have a different way of looking at things.

Maybe you could ask the op the traits to compare- as that is not my thing. 🙂


You mean the op knows more about your friends than you do?
I mean comparing celebrity charts to Virgos yo.



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Do you have brain damage?
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Virgos appreciate Cancer stability as they progress in life.
Those two words together? Yeah they don't make sense.

Cancers can't achieve stability for themselves, let alone others.

What sells us it the looney humor and the caring/nurturing thing. They have such sparkling carefree humor and they do pour their crabby hearts.

But stable is not a word I would pick for any Cancer placement.

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Cancer peeps always have me fed though. Same food all the time.

Feel safe and clean in their houses too. Same room everytime.

Everybody misses me life moments.

Cancer make me a card everytime.

Cancer paint a pic with just one sentence.

All the time.

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You're a Pisces, right? Pisces love that about Cancers...the salt of the earth Cancers at least. I see how a Cancer would wrap a blanket of security around Pisces.
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Virgos appreciate Cancer stability as they progress in life.
Those two words together? Yeah they don't make sense.

Cancers can't achieve stability for themselves, let alone others.

What sells us it the looney humor and the caring/nurturing thing. They have such sparkling carefree humor and they do pour their crabby hearts.

But stable is not a word I would pick for any Cancer placement.

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Cancer peeps always have me fed though. Same food all the time.

Feel safe and clean in their houses too. Same room everytime.

Everybody misses me life moments.

Cancer make me a card everytime.

Cancer paint a pic with just one sentence.

All the time.


You're a Pisces, right? Pisces love that about Cancers...the salt of the earth Cancers at least. I see how a Cancer would wrap a blanket of security around Pisces.


You a Pisces moon?

I love the salt of the earth thing as a Pisces. My natural goal in life.

Those are actually nice words to hear from anyone anywhere.

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Aries.

I like the Pisces/Cancer match. Reads like tenderness and cookies to me lol.
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Yeah I'll admit I do get an ego boost from Virgos. I was always the favorite amongst the male Virgos and always got a chuckle out of all the women that went out of their way to get his attention but they noticed me effortlessly.

Also the Virgo women always get single white female on me which is why I keep them at a safe distance because their admiration turns into obsession then leads to envy and a frienemy.
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Virgos appreciate Cancer stability as they progress in life.
Those two words together? Yeah they don't make sense.

Cancers can't achieve stability for themselves, let alone others.

What sells us it the looney humor and the caring/nurturing thing. They have such sparkling carefree humor and they do pour their crabby hearts.

But stable is not a word I would pick for any Cancer placement.

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Cancer peeps always have me fed though. Same food all the time.

Feel safe and clean in their houses too. Same room everytime.

Everybody misses me life moments.

Cancer make me a card everytime.

Cancer paint a pic with just one sentence.

All the time.


You're a Pisces, right? Pisces love that about Cancers...the salt of the earth Cancers at least. I see how a Cancer would wrap a blanket of security around Pisces.


You a Pisces moon?

I love the salt of the earth thing as a Pisces. My natural goal in life.

Those are actually nice words to hear from anyone anywhere.


Aries.

I like the Pisces/Cancer match. Reads like tenderness and cookies to me lol.
I thought ya had some water even in house somewhere personal.

But still sensitive moon. Close to Pisces.



Eeeek. I don't like sweets. That's one good thing about the match-up; no riff raff about the important in life.

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Moon and Mars in the 4th

Cancer Venus in the 8th

I love spicy, cannot do sweets.
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Virgos appreciate Cancer stability as they progress in life.
Those two words together? Yeah they don't make sense.

Cancers can't achieve stability for themselves, let alone others.

What sells us it the looney humor and the caring/nurturing thing. They have such sparkling carefree humor and they do pour their crabby hearts.

But stable is not a word I would pick for any Cancer placement.

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Cancer peeps always have me fed though. Same food all the time.

Feel safe and clean in their houses too. Same room everytime.

Everybody misses me life moments.

Cancer make me a card everytime.

Cancer paint a pic with just one sentence.

All the time.


You're a Pisces, right? Pisces love that about Cancers...the salt of the earth Cancers at least. I see how a Cancer would wrap a blanket of security around Pisces.


You a Pisces moon?

I love the salt of the earth thing as a Pisces. My natural goal in life.

Those are actually nice words to hear from anyone anywhere.


Aries.

I like the Pisces/Cancer match. Reads like tenderness and cookies to me lol.
I thought ya had some water even in house somewhere personal.

But still sensitive moon. Close to Pisces.



Eeeek. I don't like sweets. That's one good thing about the match-up; no riff raff about the important in life.


Moon and Mars in the 4th

Cancer Venus in the 8th

I love spicy, cannot do sweets.


Same...

Are we on right board for spicy though?





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I found his IG account. He is definitely a very popular dude.

I only know one Virgo man. He is actually one of my best friends. However, I dont want to compare Virgos to him because he has a lot of issues. Recovering alcoholic and drug addict. SUPER handsome, WOMANIZER, neat freak, has cheated on every girlfriend hes had.... but I accounted that to his rock and roll life style . Hes been sober two years now, and is desperately trying to make it up to his ex. Shes not having it. He is an AMAZING friend... AWFUL to date. Extremes with him. Also has typical OCD about his body and house. haha
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The last Virgo I meant was very helpful and dare I say sexy, but one thing that got to me in the end was that damn push and pull crap.

You get sucked in and get all of the attention then they distance themselves without much of a word for why.

This is coming from a Pisces.
Honestly this is the part where virgos and aquas understand each other, the need for space.

Aquas do the same thing.
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Yes yes yes x1000 . As I had said somewhere before. I can ALWAYS count on an aqua to be able to carry a great convo with even after reuniting years later. They need their space and I need mine. No hard feelings
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The last Virgo I meant was very helpful and dare I say sexy, but one thing that got to me in the end was that damn push and pull crap.

You get sucked in and get all of the attention then they distance themselves without much of a word for why.

This is coming from a Pisces.
Honestly this is the part where virgos and aquas understand each other, the need for space.

Aquas do the same thing.
hell yeah

the only sign that don't nag me to death for my nature, they understand.

you spend less time being upset over petty stuff and more time having fun
Lol

The drama isn't worth it and people have lives, So when timing is right, we just meet in the middle.

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These are understandable. For me though it gets tiresome, I rather talk it out and grab a bite to eat rather than wait days until he gets out of his funk. I will say though the connection was almost magnetic it felt amazing.
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Most Virgo guys have that tall dark and handsome vibe going on.
Yep, women were always on about my dad (he *was* extremely good looking when he was young), and my brothers always had girls after them.

@starwars

The neat freak thing is real. Don't front.

Example: my dad always felt uncomfortable being seated at a table if he saw the previous diners eating at the table he was being seated at. Even after it was cleaned by the staff. Sometimes he'd ask for a different table. He said it made him feel dirty.


not gonna lie, I reach to my bag and get out a napkin to clean the table right after the staff have already cleaned it LOL

but I'm messy as well so I don't consider myself a neat freak
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Same.
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Virgo men are alluring because they are not after you.

They respect boundaries and are pretty content being on their own.

That is the base of their attractiveness.

What they have that makes them so alluring is their balanced endocrine system. When they meet a female, they don't think of wanting to be with her. They want to know what she wants, what she's like and if she needs any help. No energetic pressure od pursuit. Reverse from all the other signs, they rarely think relationship or love when they meet someone, that is what either happens or doesn't naturally.

That dynamics gives a female time and space needed to feel understood and taken seriously, which is very important for female emotional stability and sense of security.

The more nervous ones usually translate that into not giving a damn, while the more cool ones are appreciative of a man who doesn't want to jump on them immediately after visual compatibility has been confirmed.

They are hot cause they give you the space to breathe and be you, before they actually feel if they want you for themselves.

Pretty stable and grown up behaviour, very attractive.

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Most Virgo guys have that tall dark and handsome vibe going on.
Yep, women were always on about my dad (he *was* extremely good looking when he was young), and my brothers always had girls after them.

@starwars

The neat freak thing is real. Don't front.

Example: my dad always felt uncomfortable being seated at a table if he saw the previous diners eating at the table he was being seated at. Even after it was cleaned by the staff. Sometimes he'd ask for a different table. He said it made him feel dirty.


not gonna lie, I reach to my bag and get out a napkin to clean the table right after the staff have already cleaned it LOL

but I'm messy as well so I don't consider myself a neat freak
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So if it's your own mess it doesn't bother you but if it's other people's mess your skin crawls until you clean it.

...kinda like how the smell of our own farts doesn't phase us but the smell of others is disgusting and foul beyond belief.
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Most Virgo guys have that tall dark and handsome vibe going on.
Yep, women were always on about my dad (he *was* extremely good looking when he was young), and my brothers always had girls after them.

@starwars

The neat freak thing is real. Don't front.

Example: my dad always felt uncomfortable being seated at a table if he saw the previous diners eating at the table he was being seated at. Even after it was cleaned by the staff. Sometimes he'd ask for a different table. He said it made him feel dirty.


not gonna lie, I reach to my bag and get out a napkin to clean the table right after the staff have already cleaned it LOL

but I'm messy as well so I don't consider myself a neat freak
So if it's your own mess it doesn't bother you but if it's other people's mess your skin crawls until you clean it.

...kinda like how the smell of our own farts doesn't phase us but the smell of others is disgusting and foul beyond belief.
exactly.

I find my own farts funny but when someone else farts I'm just...

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I've read someone where that it's a evolutionary defense mechanism. Because our own farts/feces are not harmful to our systems...but others may be.
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Most Virgo guys have that tall dark and handsome vibe going on.
Yep, women were always on about my dad (he *was* extremely good looking when he was young), and my brothers always had girls after them.

@starwars

The neat freak thing is real. Don't front.

Example: my dad always felt uncomfortable being seated at a table if he saw the previous diners eating at the table he was being seated at. Even after it was cleaned by the staff. Sometimes he'd ask for a different table. He said it made him feel dirty.


not gonna lie, I reach to my bag and get out a napkin to clean the table right after the staff have already cleaned it LOL

but I'm messy as well so I don't consider myself a neat freak
So if it's your own mess it doesn't bother you but if it's other people's mess your skin crawls until you clean it.

...kinda like how the smell of our own farts doesn't phase us but the smell of others is disgusting and foul beyond belief.
exactly.

I find my own farts funny but when someone else farts I'm just...

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I've read someone where that it's a evolutionary defense mechanism. Because our own farts/feces are not harmful to our systems...but others may be.
interesting... I need to read on that cause I'm starting to piss my own self off with the double standard I have about everything that I find disgusting.
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No it's biological. My own farts smell kinda sweet to me (sorry tmi).